被PUA的受害者很多都不自知，甚至会被加害者的“完美人设”操控！来看看这PUA的五大套路，甄别一下你是不是受害者吧！
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00:00Do you know that you have been PUA?
00:01Actually, PUA originally refers to Pickup Artist, which is a set of kindness.
00:05But now, this word is used to express those who manipulate the victim in ways such as using words, emotional blackmail, etc.
00:10Let them be willing to obey their own means
00:12And in real life, many people have been PUA and don't know it.
00:14Xiaobin has sorted out 5 PUA sets here
00:17Let you determine whether you are a victim or not
00:191. Curious trap
00:20The perpetrator will create a fake perfect life
00:23Make the victim curious about it
00:24Usually the set is a successful career
00:26Or a rich second-generation
00:28So let the victim worship and lower their guard
00:30Believe what he said
00:322. Explore trap
00:33The perpetrator will deliberately show weakness in front of the victim
00:36Arouse the victim's desire to protect
00:38Make them think that they are a special existence of the victim
00:40Therefore, obey the victim's request
00:423. Confusing trap
00:43When the victim has a good feeling for the victim
00:45They will deliberately be ambiguous with the victim
00:47Don't take the initiative to recognize the relationship between the two
00:49Instead, it is to guide the victim to confess to themselves
00:51So as to improve their position in the relationship
00:534. Destroy trap
00:54After the relationship is established
00:55The victim will deliberately be cold and hot
00:57Make the victim feel guilty
00:58Keep trying to please yourself
01:00So as to consolidate the status in your relationship
01:025. Abuse trap
01:03After confirming that you have completely manipulated the victim
01:05The perpetrator will start to take more violent means
01:07Use words, cold violence
01:09Even physical harm to control the victim
01:11Let them completely submit to their own orders
01:12Satisfy their desires
01:14Xiaobian here to advise everyone
01:15If you feel uncomfortable in a relationship
01:17Even if you are hurt
01:18Be sure to get out of it as soon as possible
01:19Don't be humble and compromise