From discussing the sis code to getting advice on dating and even having an open conversation on sex, Nihal Ranjit caught up with the cast of Thank You For Coming at a slumber party. Here’s what went down… #BrutSauce
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00:00Hi.
00:01Hi.
00:02Come in.
00:03Thank you for inviting me to your house.
00:09You know this is the first interview I'm doing in my pyjamas.
00:12Oh really?
00:13Yes.
00:14It's not mine.
00:15Is it?
00:16I do interviews in my pyjamas all the time.
00:17Must be nice.
00:18Very cozy, very beautiful house you have here.
00:21Thanks.
00:22Yeah.
00:23It's my little cocoon.
00:24It's hard to ignore the in-house bar.
00:27Yes.
00:28So we are regularly throwing parties.
00:30It's not so much about throwing parties.
00:32My husband and I both like cocktails and he is a fantastic mixologist.
00:37I see.
00:38He is an amateur mixologist but he really can mix a mean, mean cocktail.
00:43So when we started dating also, that's one of the things we like doing together is making
00:48a nice complicated drink, enjoying it and then having dinner.
00:52I love cooking.
00:53Okay.
00:54So it's just like one of our rituals.
00:55You like making it.
00:56You like drinking it.
00:58And now we have more nights in than nights out.
01:00So my friends come over, we have like a drink or two at the max and we just chill.
01:04Because we are in our 30s now.
01:06The partying days are kind of behind us.
01:08Fair enough.
01:09But as I understand, I will be joining a slumber party today.
01:14Yes.
01:15With my cast.
01:16What's up, what's up, what up gang?
01:17Hi guys.
01:18Very nice to meet you.
01:19Wow guys.
01:20So shall I be seated here?
01:22You can sit here.
01:23You can sit here and I will squeeze in there.
01:24No, this is space.
01:25Okay.
01:26Is there?
01:27Guys do you like my sort of, I also got the Kellogg's drip.
01:31Oh, okay great.
01:32Nice.
01:33Yeah guys, get a good zoom in there.
01:34Love a cute sock.
01:35Thank you, thank you.
01:36I love you guys.
01:37Love you too.
01:38Love you.
01:39Love you.
01:40Love you.
01:41Love you.
01:42Love you.
01:43Love you.
01:44Love you.
01:45Love you.
01:46Love you.
01:47Love you.
01:48Love you.
01:49Love you.
01:50Love you.
01:51So guys I am really excited to be a part of this slumber party.
01:52I want all the goss guys, what usually goes on in this sort of thing?
01:57We eat and then we chat and then we eat and then we sleep.
02:01What do we chat about?
02:02And we drink some blood.
02:03What?
02:04What?
02:05We drink some.
02:06Blood.
02:07Yeah.
02:08Some food.
02:09Exactly.
02:10Some food.
02:11Shivani has said we drink some blood from the back.
02:12Yeah, we are.
02:13We definitely don't hit each other with cushions.
02:14No pillow fights.
02:15We are just a mess.
02:16But a lot of cathartic conversations also happen a lot of times.
02:17Yeah.
02:18Yeah.
02:19Chill.
02:20Gossip.
02:21Gossip.
02:22Yeah.
02:23Yeah.
02:24And then Shubhash saab exes maybe.
02:25Or like cry over your heartbreak.
02:26But usually a slumber happens when one of the girlfriends is like in a crisis.
02:27Yeah.
02:28Yeah.
02:29Okay.
02:30So guys you know how like there's like men have a bro code.
02:31Yeah.
02:32Yeah.
02:33Yeah.
02:34Yeah.
02:35Yeah.
02:36Yeah.
02:37Yeah.
02:38Yeah.
02:39Yeah.
02:40Yeah.
02:41Yeah.
02:42Yeah.
02:43Yeah.
02:44So like if you have a bro code.
02:45Yeah.
02:46Is there a cis code perhaps?
02:47Absolutely.
02:48Yes.
02:49So we don't have to keep harping about it.
02:50Okay.
02:51Fair enough.
02:52But what is the cis code?
02:53Never make another girl feel insecure.
02:54Yeah.
02:55And if she is feeling insecure always make her feel better.
02:56Whenever I see a girl that I love, that I care about I'll always tell her.
02:57I always try to notice and a positive thing about her.
02:58I'll always tell her that she's beautiful.
02:59She's smart.
03:00She's smart.
03:01She's smart.
03:02She's smart.
03:03She's smart.
03:04She's smart.
03:05She's smart.
03:06She's smart.
03:07She's smart.
03:08She's smart.
03:09She's smart.
03:10She's smart.
03:11She's smart.
03:12She's smart.
03:14You know the most important thing about someone and I always bring it out of them.
03:17I'll be like, oh, like I love your dress or I like, you know, I loved what I, like, I
03:22loved your last wheel or I liked, you know, I liked your trailer or I liked, you know
03:26what I mean?
03:27And I, I feel like that is part of girl code.
03:31Like encourage each other.
03:32Yeah.
03:33Each other sounding boring.
03:34Yeah.
03:35And never let a guy come between you.
03:36Yeah.
03:37Fair enough.
03:38Yeah.
03:39Never judge.
03:40Yeah.
03:41judgmental towards each other and I think that that's like a very very that's one of the norms
03:48of the sister code because I could have done anything like the whatever like in the books it
03:55could be like the lowest of lows but my girlfriends aren't going to judge me you know I think like
04:00they they might still be cheering me up yeah you did it it's a little crazy yeah yeah yeah
04:06I feel like girl gangs are therapeutic you know like there is no hidden agenda there are no walls
04:12like I feel like when we unravel we completely unravel right we are honest with each other we
04:17don't mind being vulnerable. Women in general are very accepting. I want to know everybody's
04:25biggest red flag in a guy. I hate it when people in general and I feel like this is a huge red
04:33flag if I was on a date with someone who are disrespectful to people who they feel like is
04:40not at par with yeah so for example if I'm on a date at dinner and someone is disrespectful to a
04:45waiter I could have been so attracted to that guy but in one minute it is for me it just I'm like
04:54yeah you know I can't bear people who have different levels of respect for him because
05:01they think they're at a different level with people that to me is like the worst of the worst
05:06I can't bear it. For me, I feel like I hate those guys who think that a girl can only be a housewife.
05:18I feel like those guys are...
05:22Think about it.
05:23I don't know. I have a weird idea for them.
05:28Something happens to me when I see them. Like come son, I'll give you therapy.
05:32Yeah don't you feel like there are these guys that keep saying that I don't want commitment
05:35but they seem like they want a mom.
05:41I want to know what the weirdest thing you guys have done for a crush growing up.
05:45Babe, really?
05:46Oh my god, I don't want to do this. I've done a bit much.
05:49Tell me.
05:50No, you tell because I've realized I'm very selfish.
05:53Or this.
05:56You can make them clean.
05:58It's okay. It's been years. I basically pretended to be someone like I had two phones at one point
06:06and I pretended to be someone else, got his number and I was like I have a huge crush on you.
06:10And then I'm messaging from my person's number saying I'm sorry but my friend you know
06:15she really has a crush on you, what do I do?
06:17And this guy is getting like...
06:19That's why.
06:19He doesn't even know any of us. Not the make-believe, not me.
06:23He's in that college. I've gotten his number from somewhere.
06:27And he's like oh okay, I actually don't know her.
06:29I'm like yeah I know, I'm sorry but like she really likes you, what to do?
06:32And then I make this like meeting happen okay.
06:35I'm like this girl is like let's meet here, let's meet here.
06:38We call Dolly also and then the three of us are supposed to meet.
06:41And that girl doesn't show up.
06:43And the girl doesn't show up.
06:44And then the problem is that I don't even have the guts to make conversations.
06:47I'm just sitting there like I'm sorry about her, she's not coming.
06:51Her phone is off, I don't know what to do you know.
06:54I don't know.
06:55And then obviously nothing happened out of it.
06:57He's like okay I need to go.
06:58Yeah.
06:58How old were you Dolly?
07:0119.
07:02I wanted some advice guys.
07:04So there's this girl I really like and I've tried you know, I've tried asking her out.
07:12Okay.
07:14I took her to an arcade.
07:15I went for one date.
07:17Yes thank you, thank you.
07:19Yeah.
07:21And then we went to eat.
07:22Of course I let her pay for everything, chivalry.
07:26Not because I'm broke and but I really don't think she likes me okay.
07:31She doesn't really like talk, reply that much, not a lot of enthusiasm.
07:35And I am devastated.
07:37What do I do guys?
07:38Move on, yeah.
07:40Move on.
07:40You don't deserve someone who's it's and but about you.
07:43Can I give you advice?
07:44She's going to be on my side yes, please yes.
07:46Find out why.
07:47It's an eyesore.
07:49Don't move on.
07:51Don't move on.
07:53Oh.
07:55If you don't do this, she might not like you.
07:57Why didn't she take an interest in me?
07:59Find out.
08:01Like I asked her.
08:03You asked her?
08:05Why do you not like?
08:07Nobody owes anybody liking you.
08:09Nobody will like me, I'll go and ask her.
08:11What happened?
08:13But what if this girl doesn't care enough about him.
08:15Tell her to leave the message on the scene.
08:17I have feelings too.
08:19Okay.
08:21Then it's a different story.
08:23She must be hurt.
08:25But.
08:27Are you helping?
08:29No, I feel like all of you are on the same page.
08:31Really?
08:33But she told you to investigate and I told you to move on.
08:35We are not on the same page.
08:37Are you not listening?
08:39Maybe that was important for your day.
08:41You're not a good listener.
08:45So no one wants to give me hope, right?
08:47We're all on the same page.
08:49Did you guys ever have any misconceptions
08:51about sex or your bodies
08:53when you guys were growing up?
08:55Of course.
08:57That orgasm will just happen after.
08:59I always thought
09:01sex is equally pleasurable for women as it is for men.
09:03And they come as easily.
09:05I feel like the biggest misconception
09:07that I had about sex
09:09is that you can't talk about it.
09:11I think that
09:13when you are in a relationship with your partner
09:15you keep thinking
09:17even if it's just a fling.
09:19Even if it's whatever.
09:21I feel like you can't say
09:23if it happened or not.
09:25But what I realized as I grew older
09:27is that communication
09:29is the best thing for a sex life.
09:31It's the best thing.
09:33And if you have a partner that's sensible
09:35and evolved and wants you to be happy
09:37then that person will be happy that you're communicating.
09:39Because then next time
09:41it'll be better for you, then it'll be better for them
09:43and it'll be better for you and it'll be better for them.
09:45And I think that as girls
09:47we're so afraid to upset somebody's ego
09:49that we don't say anything.
09:51We just keep it inside.
09:53And just miserable.
09:55And time just passes away.
09:57And you just want to
09:59get done with it.
10:01That's why I feel like a lot of women
10:03just fake it.
10:05They don't enjoy the act and they just want it to be cool.
10:07And the other thing is
10:09Of course.
10:11Sweet.
10:13Now I'm understanding this girl.
10:17I didn't know that masturbating was a thing
10:19that women could do
10:21or should do or do they do it.
10:23That concept of women
10:25and
10:27self-pleasure
10:29just never found its way to
10:31emerge.
10:33It's a very bad thing. Don't take her name.
10:35You'll be defamed.
10:37Don't do it.
10:39And it happens.
10:41If she talks about sex
10:43then you'll be like, what kind of a girl is she?
10:45First of all,
10:47if you want to share knowledge
10:49about sex education,
10:51whatever it is,
10:53start from your home.
10:55That's what I was trying to get at.
10:57Change the environment of your home.
10:59If you can change the environment
11:01of your home,
11:03I think you can do it outside as well.
11:05First your home and then outside.
11:07If you can't do it at home,
11:09what will you change in the world?
11:11And that can only happen through conversation.
11:13Sex education, even in school,
11:15the way it's taught, I think the whole approach
11:17should be changed.
11:19Our teachers are so shy and ashamed
11:21speaking about it.
11:23Everything is done
11:25in literal code language.
11:27When there's a chapter on reproduction,
11:29I don't know if it was 8th or 9th.
11:31It was 8th.
11:33Ma'am was talking about
11:35what reproduction is.
11:37When two people meet each other,
11:39she was like, ma'am, can we do practical?
11:41Shut up!
11:47Because in science,
11:49there's practical as well.
11:51I thought it can be practical
11:53here as well.
11:55Actually when flowers are reproduced,
11:57they show it.
11:59So show this as well.
12:01Porn.
12:03There was barely any education on periods,
12:05let alone sex. I remember chapters
12:07when they'd come, teachers would scroll through it
12:09I just feel
12:11I heard about the idea of sex
12:13through like TV,
12:15movies.
12:17I learned about sex before.
12:19Which is why we're making responsible and
12:21entertaining films.
12:23Alrighty guys,
12:25so let us talk about,
12:27thank you for coming.
12:29It's coming on October 6th.
12:31Yes.
12:332023.
12:35Do you feel like the audience
12:37is ready for such movies
12:39or do you still feel
12:41like a lot of things have to be
12:43toned down to make it
12:45more palatable?
12:47I feel like yes and no. I feel like there is a
12:49fair amount of
12:51people that are
12:53obviously consuming stuff
12:55from all over the world.
12:57I feel like we don't give our audience enough
12:59credit for how evolved and
13:01intelligent they are and how much they crave
13:03something new, something challenging.
13:05India is a
13:07nuanced and complicated society.
13:09You know, it's not one note.
13:11It's not black or white.
13:13And I feel like the best thing about this
13:15country is there are all different kinds of people
13:17from all different kinds of points of view.
13:19Kusha is playing
13:21my aunt's role.
13:27It's like, oh my god,
13:29judging someone every time,
13:31gossiping.
13:33I advise
13:35my sister
13:37to be like a girl.
13:39Just like I am sharing my knowledge with you,
13:41I shared the same knowledge with her.
13:43Dolly is playing Pallavi, who is
13:45a perfectionist but also a troublemaker.
13:47I love that
13:49dichotomy in her character.
13:51Shibani is playing Tina,
13:53who is a single
13:55mom and
13:57obviously became a mom really young.
13:59She is the
14:01mother of the group and she is just trying
14:03to clean up everybody's mess all the time.
14:05But she also wants to
14:07like, I feel like Tina has got this thing
14:09to like just find that
14:11liberation for herself but she just won't let
14:13herself and then obviously
14:15Kanika Kapoor, our biggest mess.
14:17Forever single girl
14:19and she is just trying to find love
14:21and she is trying to find
14:23satisfaction and validation
14:25and she is just trying to be okay. She is trying to fit in
14:27and she doesn't want to be a freak anymore
14:29and she just wants to be loved.
14:31So come and watch our movie because
14:33it's for all
14:35women, all girls,
14:37all boys, anybody who has ever
14:39felt alone, anybody who has ever felt like
14:41they want to be loved, they want to be accepted and you want
14:43to laugh a lot, then please come. Thank you for coming out.
14:45Just before
14:47I let you guys go,
14:49our show Brute Sauce, we do a segment called
14:51Okay Boomer.
14:53Where I quiz our guests
14:55on Gen Z lingo.
14:57Are you guys familiar with this?
14:59Some of it. You should be.
15:01I've done
15:03videos about Gen Z lingo
15:05so I might just ace this round.
15:07Shivani is on
15:09an advantage. I will win the
15:11first prize today. Okay guys, so I'm going to
15:13give you some words, you guys are going to tell me what it means.
15:15Our first word is
15:17snack.
15:19You look like a snack.
15:21Like someone.
15:23Yeah.
15:25Looking like a snack.
15:27Looking like a snack.
15:29Okay. Riz.
15:31Riz? You got some like
15:33sexy like confidence.
15:35You got a vibe.
15:37You got a vibe? No, I don't know.
15:39What is a vibe?
15:41Confidence, you show it off.
15:43You're unabashedly yourself
15:45and you can say it as it is.
15:47It is generally used for dating.
15:49In what context
15:51do you use it? When you're good at flirting
15:53or if you have a lot of charisma.
15:55Like you've got game.
15:57Oh, you've got Riz.
15:59So it's game.
16:01Yeah.
16:03Slaps.
16:05Slaps, like this song
16:07Slaps, like it's amazing.
16:09It hits the spot.
16:11It's sick.
16:13Just say yeah.
16:15Slaps, it kills.
16:17Very good general knowledge.
16:19Yes.
16:21What does
16:23savage mean? Maybe from you?
16:25Like a market.
16:31On that note, guys.
16:33I had a lovely time.
16:35I am going to get out of your hair.
16:37Thank you so much for having me, guys.
16:39Thank you for having me.
16:41Thank you for coming, broods.