“We both believe that we’re in this for the long run.” Kajol revealed the nuances of her relationship with her husband, Ajay Devgn, in this old video from Karan Johar’s show.
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00:00My husband. I don't get enough time with him.
00:02I would really like to take him for a romantic date.
00:04The reason that we got married
00:06was the fact that we both had our priorities right in life.
00:09It's good or bad, whatever it is.
00:12My husband is my God.
00:25Having married, how many years has it been?
00:27I think we're completing our 14th year now.
00:3014 years you've been married.
00:3114 and a half actually. We're going to complete 15 years.
00:33Have you ever been an insecure wife?
00:35Like, you know, because he's out there working with so many wonderful women.
00:38What is your level of anxiety when it comes to fidelity?
00:43I'm not really... I'm not really anxious about it.
00:46You're confident in your skin about it.
00:47I'm confident in my own skin and I also believe,
00:50I truly believe this, that when you speak about fidelity,
00:54when you speak about a problem in the marriage,
00:59infidelity obviously speaks of some sort of a problem in a marriage.
01:05I feel that that problem somewhere down the line
01:07stems from both of us.
01:09So somewhere down the line, you have not opened your eyes
01:12and you have not looked at a problem in yourself or in your marriage.
01:15And that's what I feel it denotes.
01:18So I think, to my way of knowledge at least,
01:21I'm pretty... Yes, we have our rocky moments
01:23and we agree to disagree on certain points.
01:26But I think, so far, so good.
01:28Yeah, it's been a really strong, I would say,
01:31relationship and a bond that you've had.
01:33But especially when I think the institution is kind of crumbling around you,
01:37especially in the movie industry,
01:38it does make you take a stock of things sometimes.
01:41It makes you grateful for what you have.
01:42That you definitely should be.
01:44Because he's definitely rock solid, he comes back home,
01:46he's responsive, he's a good father,
01:48he's been a good husband to you.
01:50So there is a lot for you to be grateful for.
01:52He's a good man.
01:53He's a solid, solid man.
01:55And you have stood tall and supportive.
01:57Sometimes at the risk of even losing friends.
02:00When you've actually been a very strong sense of support to him.
02:04For very, very...
02:05See, I think we both believe,
02:07I think the reason that we got married
02:10was the fact that we both had our priorities right in life.
02:13We both believe in the same basic things.
02:15I mean, our personality types may be different,
02:18but the fact of the matter is that
02:20we both believe in family.
02:23We both believe that loyalty is to each other.
02:28And we both believe that we're in this for the long run.
02:30Right.
02:30We both want it to work.
02:33And we both want everybody...
02:35You know, we want it to be like...
02:37We want to be a tight-knit family, the way we are right now.
02:40So when we both work at it every day,
02:42I'm not the only one who works at it.
02:43He works at it as well.
02:45You can clap with both hands.
02:46You can never clap with one hand.
02:48Right, of course. He's also handling you, I'm sure.
02:49Of course, he does.
02:51And you can be a handful.
02:52You can be a handful, definitely.
02:54As you would know.
02:55Of course. You're like this pressure cooker.
02:57You can burst any time.
02:58You know, anything can happen.
02:59So how does the family hold together now?
03:01Besides, of course, Ajay and all, your own family.
03:03Do they give you a sense of support?
03:04Your mom, sister, your cousins?
03:06Definitely. Always have.
03:07I believe... I can see that after you lost your father a few years ago,
03:11you've definitely connected back to the family in a big way.
03:13I have. But it wasn't only after I lost my father.
03:16I think I've always had that connect with my family.
03:19Always had that connect with my family.
03:21I made it a point, in fact, to keep in touch with everybody.
03:25Yes, I may not have...
03:27You know, I may not have had...
03:28I still don't have any daily conversations with all of them.
03:31But I think that they know that I'm family.
03:33I know that they are my family.
03:35And we feel that loyalty to each other.
03:37And we definitely...
03:38All the occasions, everybody's there.
03:40All the birthdays, anniversaries.
03:42So we're all...
03:43Like, we all keep in touch really, really a lot.
03:46A co-star of yours that Ajay has been jealous of.
03:49Or irritated about.
03:52Nobody.
03:54There isn't. He's not that kind of a guy.
03:56And, you know, I'm not that kind of a person.
03:58A person from the film industry you'd like to take on a romantic date.
04:02Person from the film industry I'd like to take on a romantic date?
04:04My husband.
04:05I don't get enough time with him.
04:06I would really like to take him for a romantic date.
04:09Who's the sexiest actor in the movies?
04:11Objectively.
04:12Today.
04:17My husband.
04:18Oh.
04:19This Ardhangini that I'm in love with.
04:22I'm sorry.
04:23I have Kajal's song.
04:25Bhala hai, bura hai, jaisa bhi hai.
04:27Mera pati, mera devta hai.
04:30As regressive as this song sounds.
04:32This is what I think you should endorse.
04:34I'm sorry. It's got nothing...
04:35Actually, truthfully, I really find him the sexiest actor.
04:39I really like those dark brooding looks.
04:41It's got to do with my personal taste.