90 Day - The Last Resort S2 Episode 4 - The Last Word
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00:00Woo!
00:01I'm so excited!
00:02Previously on 90 Day, The Last Resort.
00:05Can I have mojito, please?
00:07Trying to get the party started?
00:08Hell yeah!
00:12That is time to do some dance.
00:16Julia!
00:18Too much.
00:21I just worry that Julia's more focused on having fun
00:24than what we actually came here for,
00:26which is to work on our issues.
00:28I want to be married to somebody who's ready to be a mom,
00:31not a f****** stripper.
00:33Bye!
00:35Woo!
00:36Hey!
00:37Woo!
00:38Where's your husband?
00:39Not next to you.
00:40Oh, he won't talk to me.
00:42Oh, wow.
00:44It looks like Vinny's here to dance and party,
00:45but I'm not here to dance and party.
00:47I'm here to work on the marriage.
00:48Things about everything, I'm upset.
00:51I really want to make this therapy work,
00:53and I really want to make things work between us.
00:55So, I'm going to give you your passport, and you'll be happy.
00:58We're going to the first steps.
01:00How's your night going?
01:02Good. How's yours?
01:04I think that Josh likes Sophie.
01:07He likes Sophie?
01:10He was inviting Sophie to Las Vegas.
01:14Three years I gave to the guy who invited Redem Kishchik,
01:17who is married, to Vegas.
01:19Yeah.
01:21Oh.
01:22Oh, my God.
01:24You are not going to play these games with me.
01:27I didn't start...
01:29and it's not my...
01:31fault that you are with a dude
01:33that doesn't give a... about you.
01:35You are going to apologize.
01:37You are going to apologize right now, Natalie.
01:40You want to meet with crazy?
01:42I'm crazy.
01:44I'm crazy.
02:15Oh, my God.
02:17Oh, my God.
02:35F... you, bitch.
02:37I'm sick and tired of dealing with this...
02:39I've been patient.
02:41And I have tried to talk to her.
02:44F... you, bitch.
02:46What happened?
02:48That bitch is crazy.
02:50What did she do?
02:52She said, you started, you fix it.
02:54How did you start it?
02:56I didn't start it.
02:58You had girl code.
03:00You were like, girl, let me tell you, this is what I heard.
03:03That's girl code.
03:05She's too much.
03:07That was too much.
03:09And I'm very sorry she called you trash.
03:11I really appreciate you sticking up for me.
03:13Like, for real.
03:15I'm always going to be on the girl's side.
03:17Yeah, me too.
03:19But this is unacceptable.
03:29With the invitation to Vegas with Sophie,
03:33the story got blown way out of proportion.
03:36Sophie and I are just friends.
03:38This is what happens.
03:40Natalie gets like this,
03:42and that was the whole point of coming here,
03:44was to see if this is the part that we could break.
03:47This habit, this cycle of this explosion,
03:50that is what needs to change.
03:53But I'm losing hope at this point.
03:59Come on, kiss.
04:01Yeah.
04:03Okay, I will talk.
04:05I'm not your enemy right now.
04:07What's going on?
04:09She not do nothing for your man.
04:11She are just answer to his...
04:13I saw this message by myself.
04:15What is the message?
04:17So I saw this message by myself.
04:19Julia, I've been dating him for three years,
04:21and he never invited me.
04:23He invites a prostitute every week.
04:25What the f***?
04:27No, don't yell at me.
04:29Don't yell at me.
04:31Why?
04:33Just decide if you need a man like that.
04:35Bye.
04:43Okay, let's go home.
04:49I don't want to talk with them.
04:51No.
05:05I don't want to talk with them.
05:07Everything will be fine with you.
05:09It's okay.
05:13Shut the f*** up.
05:29You okay, man?
05:31Okay.
05:33What do you want to do?
05:35I mean, I'm just trying to get through the night right now.
05:37What are you trying to do?
05:39Yeah, well, I'll tell you what.
05:41I'll just take her home and...
05:43No, don't touch her now.
05:45No, I'm not going to touch her.
05:47No, I mean...
05:49If you're going to ride with her right now,
05:51you're going to leave tomorrow.
05:53Yeah.
05:55Leave her alone today.
05:57Go ride with us.
05:59All right.
06:03Bye.
06:11Back to a party!
06:17There wasn't a whole s*** I could do.
06:19She's f***ing insane.
06:21And everyone knows me.
06:23I'm not trying to taste your man, bro.
06:25I'm here with you.
06:27Why am I going to sacrifice
06:29who I am as a person
06:31on a bitch's level that's 20...
06:3330 years older than me.
06:3550 years older than me.
06:3760...
06:39Like, the bitch is 78 years old.
06:41I don't need to do that.
06:43That bitch is 93 years old.
06:45I don't care.
06:47I think Natalie lashing out at me
06:49has brought us closer
06:51because even though Rob doesn't like to admit it,
06:53he loves the tea.
06:55He loves drama when it's not with us.
06:57I guess I would agree.
06:59I love the tea.
07:01Is that my phone?
07:03Yeah.
07:05Oh, my gosh. I left it.
07:07That kind of, uh,
07:09you know, stuff,
07:11that's not even acceptable.
07:13That is bad. I was going to punch her.
07:15I really appreciate
07:17you having my back and going outside.
07:19When I felt...
07:21She was out of control, and then I felt
07:23someone, like,
07:25touching my shoulder,
07:27and it was you.
07:29Yeah, I was trying to pull you away.
07:31Thank you, baby.
07:33I pulled you away.
07:37Cheers.
07:39To Jasmine...
07:41The Ferocious.
07:43The Ferocious.
07:57Cheers.
08:05I was so excited to see Jasmine.
08:07So, you know,
08:09excited and the protector
08:11and that, like, totally turned me on.
08:13And especially since
08:15it wasn't me
08:17whose ass she was kicking.
08:19I'm okay with that.
08:21So behave and be careful with what you say
08:23or you're next.
08:25The day
08:27didn't start out that great,
08:29but we're making a comeback at the end tonight
08:31and kissing her,
08:33and it makes me feel positive, you know,
08:35going into the rest of the therapy.
08:37I don't know. Maybe next time
08:39it's more than a goodnight kiss.
08:41Who knows?
08:47Are we missing anybody?
08:49Well, we are.
08:51We are missing her, but she's already
08:53That's all I think.
09:15Mmm.
09:17Ooh.
09:19Mmm, I love when you rub it in.
09:21Ooh, yeah.
09:25Get that lymphatic drainage out.
09:27Yeah.
09:29Get that cellulite, baby.
09:31Ooh.
09:33This is, like, good for cellulite?
09:35It's good for everything.
09:37Cellulite, lymphatic drainage,
09:39toning.
09:41Mmm.
09:51It's, like, such a beautiful day out.
09:53Look at that blue sky.
09:55Trying to remember
09:57what happened last night.
09:59We came back.
10:01I went to the bathroom,
10:03put on my pajamas,
10:05and I lay down,
10:07and that's all I remember.
10:09Even though it was accidental.
10:11Technically.
10:13Technically.
10:15It was great waking up in the same bed
10:17as Jasmine for once.
10:19I was so tired
10:21and drained by Natalie's drama
10:23that we just fell asleep.
10:25Nothing naughty happened,
10:29I wish,
10:31but, you know, it's progress.
10:33You see, baby,
10:35is it really that bad
10:37to wake up to me in the morning
10:39in the same bed?
10:45I feel good.
10:47Last night, there was no fighting.
10:49Can you believe it?
10:51For the very first time in so long,
10:53I felt like I do have a husband,
10:55that you were my husband.
10:57You kissing me,
10:59you defending me,
11:01that's exactly what I mean from you.
11:03I could feel that you love me
11:05last night,
11:07and I miss that.
11:09And I don't want to
11:11make you feel bad right now.
11:13I understand, I appreciate that.
11:15I just wish we would be able to get along
11:17better every day.
11:19I do love you.
11:21I know that sometimes you feel like
11:23I don't love you,
11:25but I know in my heart
11:27that I have never loved anyone
11:29anyone, you know.
11:33Oh.
11:35That's so beautiful.
11:37I'll kiss you.
11:41That's nice.
11:59Brandon, good morning.
12:01Good morning.
12:09How do you feel?
12:11Why did you sleep in the couch?
12:13Because I didn't want to sleep
12:15next to you.
12:19Last night,
12:21Julia let loose
12:23a little too much,
12:25and she embarrassed me.
12:27I understand that I have my limits
12:29on how much I'm going to take,
12:31and if she's going to keep acting this way,
12:33I'm just not going to take it anymore.
12:37I have a question for you.
12:39What was with the way you're dressed yesterday?
12:41I want to have
12:43intimate time with you,
12:45and maybe you could wear lingerie,
12:47but she won't even do that,
12:49but you're going to go out dressed like that?
12:51For everyone?
12:53I don't know.
12:55I won't be, like, sexy.
12:57I won't have fun.
12:59You don't want to even be sexy for me.
13:01I'm the one you're supposed to be sexy for.
13:05At the end of the day, we're here to work
13:07on us as a couple,
13:09and you look like you're here
13:11to have single fun.
13:15No, we come to bar
13:17to have fun in a group.
13:21I mean, this is such a horrible moment
13:23when you start pulling me in this bar.
13:25It's embarrassing.
13:27You were practically exposed out there.
13:29You should support me.
13:31You were dressed like a whore.
13:35You are my husband.
13:37You should be my side,
13:39and you call me a whore.
13:41What is not proper for a husband
13:43to call his wife?
13:45You were dancing on the bar.
13:47That is not what whore doing.
13:49I do
13:51whatever I want with my body.
14:01Now we need
14:03rest.
14:05Okay.
14:07Okay.
14:17You messaged the girl.
14:19She said you invite her privately,
14:21and you kind of hit on her.
14:23Well, I have never hit on her,
14:25and I approached her as a friend.
14:27You're a whore.
14:29You're a whore. Low-class, low-key whore.
14:31Listen, I gotta go.
14:33I hope that you apologize to everybody.
14:37Okay.
14:57Have you heard from Natalie yet today?
14:59I have not heard from Natalie today.
15:03I'm kind of giving her some space.
15:05Last night was a little...
15:09over the top, I would say.
15:11Last night,
15:13I went back to the hotel.
15:15I definitely had to have my own room
15:17because right now,
15:19there's no way I'm staying in the room with Natalie.
15:21I have to leave for a few days,
15:23and, you know,
15:25I need to reset.
15:27I need to think about
15:29if this is right for me.
15:31I've never crossed any lines
15:33with Natalie, however.
15:35I've not, like, hit on her.
15:37I've not done anything.
15:39You know, I want things to get better for Natalie.
15:41Like, I do. I want her to be happy,
15:43and I care for her.
15:45But she needs to learn how to be normal.
15:47Like, serious.
15:49She needs to learn how to be normal
15:51and how to interact
15:53with normal people.
15:55I mean...
15:57...
16:01I'm here to ultimately
16:03figure things out with Natalie,
16:05but that blow-up
16:07was probably in the top 10,
16:09for sure.
16:11Maybe even top three.
16:13Like, it was up there.
16:15And I'd like to, like, squash this
16:17and just, like, leave
16:19and her be okay.
16:21I mean, that's my hope.
16:23We'll see what I get.
16:27Who is it?
16:29It's me.
16:35Oh, hi.
16:37Hi.
16:39How are you?
16:41Good.
16:43Good?
16:45That's good.
16:47You want to go outside?
16:49Sure.
16:57It's a pretty wild night.
16:59Don't you think?
17:11Did you forget?
17:13No, I remember clearly.
17:15Then what do you need that... what are you asking me the question for?
17:17I needed to see your perspective
17:19because you and I see different sides
17:21always.
17:23Mm-hmm.
17:25When it was created,
17:27you messaged the girl.
17:29She said you invite her privately
17:31and you kind of hit on her.
17:33It's what she says.
17:35Okay, well, I can tell you
17:37that I've never hit on her
17:39and I approached her as a friend.
17:41A friend who you invite
17:43randomly to Vegas?
17:45And you don't even know what happened
17:47and made it incredibly difficult.
17:49You're a whore.
17:51Low-class, low-key whore.
17:53Okay.
17:59I'm a little afraid
18:01that I might catch crazy
18:03if we keep going this.
18:05So, listen,
18:07I got to go.
18:09Good luck with everybody.
18:11I hope that you apologize to everybody
18:13because they deserve it.
18:23Okay.
18:47What is this?
18:49Uh-oh.
18:51Fruit tray over here.
18:53I guess we pick a seat.
18:55Oh, look at you, baby!
18:57Hey!
19:01Daisy, I love your cowgirl outfit.
19:03I need a cowboy hat.
19:05Yes.
19:22But still, she didn't give it to me.
19:24It's so annoying.
19:26But today, I want focus for activity.
19:28Maybe she sees just I'm trying,
19:30then she give it to me back
19:32in the future.
19:35Did you see the signs?
19:37No, maybe yes.
19:39Well, hello, everyone.
19:41Hi!
19:43How are you today?
19:45Ooh, sex therapy!
19:47Oh!
19:49We're going to have some fun today.
19:51Sexy time.
19:53So, welcome.
19:55I'm super excited to be here with you
19:57for your first sex therapy session.
19:59Unfortunately, Natalie and Josh
20:01couldn't be here today,
20:03but we are going to have a really good time
20:05creating conversation and exploring
20:07pleasure with each other.
20:09Oh, yes.
20:11When I hear that it's sex therapy,
20:13I'll get a little excited.
20:15I mean, how could I not?
20:17Hopefully, we can fix our sex life.
20:19For me, my first thoughts, honestly,
20:21is it's going to be around
20:23the other couples.
20:25I'm interested to see what it is,
20:27but I'm like, whatever we have to do,
20:29I have to do it around everyone else.
20:31So, first,
20:33before we even begin, I want to ask you guys
20:35a question. How comfortable
20:37do you feel talking about sex?
20:39Scale of one to ten. You can blurt it out.
20:41Ten.
20:43Like, with who?
20:45Oh.
20:47Zero. Zero. Zero.
20:49Interesting. So, we don't feel comfortable
20:51talking about sex with our partners. Is that what I'm hearing?
20:53Because of my culture.
20:55You guys don't talk about sex? No.
20:57What about you guys?
20:59Not really, in general.
21:01No? You don't talk about sex?
21:03You're not comfortable with it?
21:05I think it's more easy for me than him,
21:07I would say. You're each married
21:09to someone from a different culture, right?
21:11And culturally, those differences
21:13can sometimes cause us
21:15to not really be able to communicate
21:17with each other. I'm hoping that we can help
21:19everybody open the lines of communication.
21:21So, what we're going to do is
21:23less talking and more exploring.
21:25Okay? So...
21:27Yeah!
21:29Because we want to find that physical connection.
21:33When I hear that it's
21:35sex therapy, that makes me
21:37feel uncomfortable and makes me feel like
21:39I won't go there.
21:41I'm very open to dancing on bars,
21:43but not to being a part of
21:45this sex therapy.
21:47Dance, this is not
21:49the same thing. Dance is just...
21:51The way you dance seems sexual.
21:53I just feel dance is completely
21:55different.
21:59So, in this exercise, you'll decide
22:01who's being the explorer,
22:03and then the other person is going to be the explored.
22:05The explorer
22:07is going to take the larger paintbrush
22:09and you're going to
22:11lightly
22:13search for places that feel
22:15good, right? It can be your neck,
22:17the small of your back. How about your feet?
22:19Your feet?
22:21The soles of your feet, especially,
22:23right? When that partner gets
22:25to a point that feels good, you're going to say
22:27green light, and they're going to mark that
22:29zone with an X, and that's
22:31with the syrup. Almost
22:33all of the couples here have
22:35not had sex or been intimate in
22:37months. So, the point
22:39of this exercise is to
22:41reignite the spark
22:43that set them off in the first place.
22:45So, I'm hoping that
22:47by encouraging them to be physically
22:49intimate, they'll start to
22:51open those doors for themselves.
22:53Want to take her shoes off?
22:55No, I'm good. I'm good.
22:57No.
22:59Can you take my boots off?
23:03You can stand up.
23:05Oh, God.
23:07Oh, my gosh. This is really
23:09going to be messy.
23:13Watch your feet.
23:21I'm afraid
23:23you're going to kick me.
23:25I feel weird.
23:27Okay. From the back, it's not
23:29working.
23:31They're so sweaty.
23:33I got sweaty feet.
23:39Right there
23:41is a green, yeah. Right there.
23:45So,
23:47lift that up.
23:49Nipple?
23:51Oh, not really.
23:53Yeah.
23:55I don't feel anything.
23:57I know. You're going to feel tickle right here.
23:59I know you.
24:01Probably all the liposuction.
24:05No.
24:07Green light.
24:09Red light?
24:11This is red light.
24:13Okay.
24:15This is your green light right here.
24:17Okay. Red light.
24:19This is green light.
24:21Green light.
24:23Why don't you be honest?
24:25You love the ears.
24:27I'll mark it.
24:29Maybe I don't like it.
24:31Oh, you changed in the last four months?
24:33Yeah.
24:35I'm trying my best, but
24:37I'm not comfortable when she should touch me
24:39because me and Ari, we stopped
24:41like six, like a year ago.
24:43I can't be fake.
24:45So it make me shut down for everything.
24:47Red light.
24:49I've had sex with you so many times. This is not a red light.
24:53Ooh, that's kind of nice.
24:55I feel good, like getting turned on.
24:59This tickle session,
25:01I'm liking it. I'm loving it.
25:03I feel like it's, you know, it's sexual.
25:05And I feel like it's something,
25:07you know, we should do more of.
25:09To be honest, we're crazy.
25:11I don't know.
25:13To me, Stacy's happy,
25:15so everything is good, you know?
25:17Tell me where is green light,
25:19where is red light? It's here?
25:21I mean, if you want to put some sunscreen
25:23while you're there.
25:25Shut up.
25:27I love you, Brandon.
25:29This ain't working.
25:31Jasmine, how about this?
25:33I hear a lot of red lights over here, right?
25:35How about you give him a directive?
25:37Where do you think there might be a green light for you?
25:39Oh, for here.
25:43Maybe my neck?
25:47Green light.
25:49Green light.
25:51Green? Here? There?
25:53Mm-hmm.
25:57Sex is the biggest obstacle
25:59in our marriage.
26:01I can't even remember
26:03when was the last time that I had sex.
26:05I think I'm virgin again.
26:07No joke.
26:09That thing is closed.
26:11But we have a good night,
26:13and we slept on the same bed,
26:15and during this exercise,
26:17he's listening to me,
26:19and that is kind of turning me on.
26:21I'm starting to like this class.
26:23Ah!
26:25Toe?
26:27I mean, there's a little bit of something
26:29happening back there. Big toe?
26:31There's a little something happening down there.
26:35You're in your toe era.
26:37All right.
26:39Now, we have the explorers.
26:41They've marked their spot.
26:43Now it's time to remove the syrup.
26:45With what?
26:47With your mouth.
26:49I knew it.
26:51Ah!
26:53Oh, my gosh.
26:55Eat it. Eat it.
26:57Come.
26:59Come.
27:01Oh, my. All right.
27:05Look at this man.
27:09Oh, my God. That's a lot of syrup.
27:15Ah!
27:17Eat more, baby.
27:19Oh, my gosh.
27:21Oh, my gosh.
27:23Just look over there.
27:27You know, definitely, they're having a blast.
27:29I can't watch this
27:31because my dad's the same age,
27:33and I can't imagine
27:35that.
27:37Their relationship might be fine after this.
27:39Yeah, right?
27:41Yes, like that.
27:43That's good.
27:45I like this exercise.
27:49Ah!
27:51You licked it.
27:53Just, like, suck it off.
27:55Ah!
27:57Julia, these kiwis aren't going to eat themselves.
27:59Where are you? Oh!
28:05I got it.
28:07Don't worry. I got it.
28:09That's it.
28:11That's it.
28:13Let me ask why she removed it.
28:15Vinny doesn't want to, like, admit
28:17anything of the exercise.
28:19Like, grow up.
28:21Like, this isn't supposed to be a fun exercise.
28:23When things were good, like, we could have sex
28:25and we could still laugh.
28:27He would do, like, naked dancing in the shower
28:29or, like, do strip tease with me.
28:31And, like, you know, we did have that closeness
28:33for a while. I do miss that.
28:35I'm not sucking that off. Delete that.
28:37Get that off.
28:39That's gone. I'm not sucking that.
28:43She's going to erase it.
28:45I really don't want to suck the nipple.
28:47Stop being so weird about it.
28:49And I put so much on there.
28:51Stop being weird about it.
28:53I don't want to do it.
28:55Jesus Christ. I will.
28:57It makes me feel very unwanted and very unsexy.
28:59It's not you.
29:01You're making me feel like it's me.
29:03It's the...
29:05Yeah, which is sexy.
29:07No, it's not.
29:09It's a man's nipple.
29:11It's my nipple.
29:13Sophie's acting like my body repulses her
29:15right now, and as a husband,
29:17that's pretty f***ed up.
29:19Here I am, willing to try anything,
29:21and she just... she stops herself,
29:23so she stops us.
29:25I feel rejected. I feel not wanted.
29:27I feel, um...
29:29I feel like, why am I here
29:31with somebody who doesn't want me?
29:33It's not like I'm a disgusting person.
29:39Something from your past is affecting you?
29:41What's the first thing that comes up
29:43when you think about trauma?
29:51And this is what I'm talking about.
29:53There's direct links.
29:55You got so upset with Sophie,
29:57instead of dealing with your relationship with Josh.
30:11Hi.
30:13How are you?
30:15Hello.
30:17How are you doing?
30:19I'm good. How are you?
30:21Good. I'm glad we had a chance to meet up.
30:23Yes.
30:25Some water. I know it's hot out here.
30:27Thank you, yeah, for giving me
30:29therapy time.
30:31Of course.
30:35Let's walk. Let's maybe find a place
30:37to sit and relax.
30:39Last night
30:41went all over the place.
30:43It just was unbearable situation.
30:45Josh left. I don't know if he's coming back.
30:47And there are a lot of emotions
30:49and confusion going on right now.
30:51I need to find exit out of it.
30:53I just need a solution.
30:55So I called James to have a therapy session.
30:57I feel like
30:59I'm overwhelmed emotionally
31:01and I'm coming for help.
31:03So, Natalie,
31:05you reached out to me today.
31:07How did that?
31:09I had
31:13kind of emotional
31:15breakdown yesterday.
31:17We had a party.
31:19Okay.
31:21So I see Josh talking to
31:23Sophie and Jasmine telling
31:25me that this is
31:27the girl he invited to
31:29Vegas.
31:31What was that like hearing that?
31:38Sorry.
31:40Don't apologize.
31:42That's a lot to take in.
31:44That's a lot to hear.
31:48How did things wind up going
31:50between you and Josh this morning?
31:52Well,
31:54I screwed up
31:56because I said to him
31:58not nice things and
32:00he left.
32:02Okay.
32:04Yeah, I was pissed.
32:08So it was like painful.
32:10I'm hearing things
32:12didn't go so well this morning with Josh,
32:14but you're here for therapy.
32:16What do you want with Josh?
32:18What do you want to get out of this with him?
32:20We need to understand each other more
32:22and he doesn't talk the same language.
32:24He kind of
32:26provocates me.
32:28He's calm, I'm emotional, but
32:30he does things that he knows
32:32will lead to exposure
32:34from my side. Also,
32:36I felt like I made some friends
32:38in the past few days,
32:40but yesterday
32:42incident kind of took them from me
32:44and I honestly
32:46afraid that when I
32:48enter the room, I will have
32:50a group of enemies.
32:52So a few things are going through my brain.
32:54I hear you and I've been experiencing you
32:56and you say, you know, I want to be accepted
32:58and I can't help but to think
33:00what is really at the core here?
33:02There's something more
33:04happening. Clearly you have all
33:06of these stressors, you have
33:08your relationship,
33:10there's something deeper.
33:18And I would almost
33:20think that
33:22something from your past is affecting
33:24you, that is causing your actions,
33:26your behaviors, for you
33:28to respond in a certain way with
33:30Josh, with
33:32other people around you.
33:34What's the first
33:36thing that comes up when you think about
33:38trauma, past,
33:40childhood?
33:56Bullying?
34:02Bullying?
34:28And this is what I'm talking about.
34:30This brings us back to last night actually.
34:32Or last night actually brings us back
34:34to all this past stuff that you've been through.
34:36You got so upset
34:38with Sophie instead of dealing with
34:40your relationship with Josh.
35:00I really
35:04don't want to suck the nipple.
35:06Sophie is refusing to
35:08trust the process
35:10and just go for it.
35:12I cannot help but feel a little rejected.
35:14How do I
35:16not feel
35:18No, it's not you,
35:20it's not you, I find it.
35:30It's sweet, right?
35:32Shut up!
35:38I don't want to get on my shirt.
35:44How do I
35:46not feel
35:48No, it's not you,
35:50it's not you, I find it.
35:52How do I
35:54not feel
35:56No, it's not you,
35:58it's not you, it's not you, I find it.
36:00I don't want to look like Gina and Jasmine
36:02because they look like porn.
36:06Okay, I'm going to do it, but I'm going to
36:08cover myself.
36:12Okay, okay, we're having
36:14fun over here.
36:16Okay, okay, how does that feel, Rob?
36:18It feels great, but she won't,
36:20she's just, I'm having to do
36:22so much convincing.
36:24Sophie is refusing
36:26to trust
36:28the process
36:30and just go for it.
36:32I know that she's a little bit shy,
36:34but I cannot help but feel a little rejected.
36:36I licked the nipple.
36:38Hey, but there's a difference between, I really have to do it,
36:40okay, I'll f***ing do it,
36:42and like actually making me feel like
36:44it's like, like you're into it.
36:46There's a huge difference.
36:48It's just not the same.
36:56So, Natalie,
36:58I'm picking up
37:00these beliefs that have been stored
37:02and the beliefs that are in your brain
37:04sound something like
37:06I'm not good enough,
37:08I'm less than,
37:10I'm weak.
37:12I don't deserve to be loved.
37:16I don't deserve to be loved.
37:20And I have to fight for love.
37:22I have to prove I deserve to be loved.
37:24That's the work that needs to be done.
37:26The belief
37:28that I would like to see for you
37:30would be related to
37:32I am good enough.
37:34I am loved.
37:36And then in turn,
37:38when we're in these romantic relationships
37:40or friendships,
37:42that will translate.
37:44I think the very first step,
37:46I would love for you to be able to
37:48share a little bit with me
37:50about how you're feeling
37:52and to share
37:54a little bit with Josh
37:56of what you've been through,
37:58what you've maybe shared in our session,
38:00the vulnerability piece.
38:02I think it's important that you trust Josh.
38:06I feel like Natalie needs to do some
38:08significant work on
38:10past childhood traumas
38:12and how that affects her behaviors today
38:14in order for her to have a healthy relationship
38:16with Josh. I feel like there needs to be more
38:18communication, a stronger connection
38:20between the two of them in hopes that
38:22that will facilitate more commitment.
38:24She wants to be loved.
38:26She wants to be cared for.
38:28She wants the support.
38:30And that is not unreasonable at all.
38:32She deserves all of those things.
38:34Again, that's the importance of having therapy,
38:36group therapy, and even individual therapy
38:38to deal with some of these emotions that are built up.
38:40I'm also thinking
38:42it's important if we address the group
38:44for you to say your piece,
38:46possibly have an apology in that,
38:48and give a little bit
38:50of information as to how
38:52and why you respond in that way.
38:54I'm a human.
38:56I made a mistake, but I'm willing to
38:58admit and keep going.
39:02There's more work to be done,
39:04but this was a great first step.
39:08You should be proud of yourself.
39:12Yeah.
39:14It feels good
39:16to be with James and feel heard
39:18and understood, especially
39:20after a very stressful few days.
39:22In order for me to trust Josh,
39:24I need to work with my emotions,
39:26be not down in the relationship
39:28and love myself more
39:30and understand that I can be loved.
39:32I know what I did last night
39:34was wrong,
39:36and I know everybody hates me right now.
39:38I was a monster yesterday,
39:40and I should apologize.
39:42But don't...
39:44Don't give a...
39:50I do not give a...
39:52for this thing.
39:58I haven't started thinking about
40:00having a person
40:02that will satisfy me,
40:04but it's not like a treason.
40:08What the hell?
40:10How you can make your wife happy
40:12while you're here in the United States
40:14and here in the...
40:34All right, guys.
40:36I've got a little...
40:38a next step for you all.
40:40One thing that we've talked about today
40:42is it's really hard
40:44for some of us to talk about sex, right?
40:46So for our next activity,
40:48we're gonna play a game called
40:50Yes, No, Maybe.
40:52Okay? I'm gonna pass
40:54around some blank sheets of paper
40:56and pens, and I
40:58want you to think of one
41:00thing you'd like to try
41:02in the bedroom.
41:04Okay? We're gonna put it in the bucket.
41:06And then I'm gonna read off
41:08the things that you've shared.
41:10So if you're a yes to the activity
41:12that you hear me say, you're gonna walk over
41:14to the yes sign.
41:16If you're a no, you're gonna walk over to the no sign.
41:18If you're a maybe,
41:20you're gonna walk over to the maybe sign.
41:22Okay? Does that make sense?
41:24How dirty can these ideas be?
41:26Oh!
41:28As dirty as you want, Gino.
41:30Get as imaginative as you like, sir.
41:32It's the quiet ones!
41:34I'm thinking
41:36freakiest couple.
41:38One, two, three.
41:40Gino and Jasmine.
41:42Gino and Jasmine
41:44definitely seem like the most
41:46sexually aggressive couple,
41:48so it is surprising the fact that
41:50they're not having sex.
41:52I can't talk about
41:54Gino and sex.
41:56What example?
41:58Like, I don't get it.
42:00Like, is there something you want to try?
42:02Like, cuddling?
42:04Or, I don't know, like,
42:06kissing more?
42:08This is an exercise in, like,
42:10really thinking about what you desire.
42:12Maybe he's done everything.
42:14Missionary.
42:16Sure, yeah.
42:18I mean, not me.
42:20I'm giving you examples, Florian.
42:22The point of this yes, no, maybe exercise
42:24is partners will learn a lot about each other
42:26that they didn't know,
42:28where their desires and their pleasure lies,
42:30where there are yeses and maybes,
42:32so we can help to inject some
42:34fun, new things to their intimacy.
42:36But, some of them
42:38may learn that they don't know their
42:40partner the way they thought they did.
42:42Alright, first one.
42:44Make a sexy video.
42:46So, walk to the sign
42:48that represents how you feel
42:50about your willingness
42:52to do or try this thing.
42:54Oh.
43:00Yeah.
43:02Oh, yes, that's a good one.
43:04Yes, Stacy!
43:06So, you'd like to try
43:08making a sexy video. Feels good?
43:10I have done it. You've done it?
43:12Yeah.
43:14Do you know or by yourself?
43:16Uh...
43:18Oh, okay.
43:20TMI.
43:22So, it looks like we have a yes and a maybe together.
43:24Oh, I get it.
43:26I have some hope.
43:28Oh, yeah.
43:30I'm mostly in maybe section
43:32because, you know, I'm just a little worried
43:34about the security of it.
43:36Have I done it before? Yeah.
43:38Some freaky s*** floating around about Gino.
43:40Not with me!
43:44Yes, I have done
43:46like sex videos in the past
43:48for
43:50academic purposes.
43:52It's like so you can get better.
43:54I've done it in the past, yes I have.
43:56With ex-girlfriends.
43:58I recall he sending me pictures
44:00of his s*** and then he confessed
44:02that, oh, but just to let
44:04you know, like, that picture is
44:06like from 10 years ago.
44:08So, it might not look like this anymore.
44:10Yeah, I don't recall that.
44:14Okay, okay. Has anyone else done this
44:16before on the yes side?
44:18I've done it, just not with Moa.
44:20Well, it looks like this is a good time to try.
44:22Look at that.
44:24Okay, alright.
44:26Alright, the next one is
44:30a third person.
44:38Welcome to Glock.
44:40Okay, so.
44:42We're gonna go to the maybes. Look at the couple
44:44under the maybes.
44:46I'm shocked. Couldn't believe it.
44:48Really? I'm not copying.
44:50What do you mean you can't believe it?
44:52You would be here.
44:54Our jealousy makes it so...
45:04Brandon, how do you
45:06feel about Julia being under the maybes sign?
45:08She doesn't even have sex with me. Does she want to have sex with
45:10someone else? Right, with a third person.
45:12I don't understand that.
45:14Got it. Seriously?
45:16I was like, don't you dare walk over
45:18to maybes. Are you kidding me?
45:20I'm here to stay honest and true, right?
45:22So I'm trying to be honest, so I mean
45:24and I'm here, so. Maybe I should
45:26go over to yes, because I mean I
45:28feel like what more guys want to have
45:30you know, a threesome with multiple
45:32girls, whatever, but I wouldn't say that because
45:34I don't want to hurt my partner.
45:36Okay, Brandon, come to the yes.
45:38Maybe I should.
45:42It's a male fantasy
45:44and I don't want to admit it because I don't want to hurt my
45:46partner because if it was reversed
45:48it would hurt me. So it hurts
45:50me for her to go over there and that's not
45:52fair.
45:54Oh, I can't believe Julia
45:56except for the threesome part.
45:58I'm like, if you and I can't even have sex, why would
46:00another person ever be involved? That
46:02is insane. You move to yes.
46:04Oh yeah, despite you.
46:06I would like to just
46:08start being intimate, you and I.
46:10You know, that's all I really want.
46:14Most men will be excited
46:16if they know life is open for
46:18a threesome.
46:20Okay, so
46:22we have a couple under the yes
46:24section. This is
46:26a big deal.
46:28Either one of you, have you ever tried in this relationship
46:30or any other relationship bringing a third person
46:32into your relationship?
46:34No. No.
46:36Have you ever tried it? No.
46:38No. What makes you interested?
46:40It's kind of like one of my fantasies.
46:42Oh really? Yeah.
46:44It's like, does it need to be girl or boy?
46:46Girl or boy?
46:48That is a good question.
46:50That's a huge question. Girl, right,
46:52because for me, I'm thinking girl.
46:54So, yeah,
46:56you know. Okay.
46:58Alright, what about you, Jasmine?
47:00Now I realize that even though we are
47:02both a yes, our perspective
47:04or understanding of a third person
47:06is different. Tell me more.
47:08When you said yes to a third person,
47:10what were you thinking?
47:12I was thinking
47:14since our main issue
47:16is sex and we've
47:18been going around for
47:20nine months, I haven't
47:22started thinking about
47:24having a
47:26person that will satisfy
47:28that need from me, but
47:30it's not
47:32like a threesome.
47:34Sounds like what you're
47:36describing is like an open relationship?
47:42Where you guys kind of make an agreement
47:44and have an understanding that
47:46you see other people for
47:48certain needs.
47:52Yes. Yes.
47:58What the hell?
48:00How you can make your wife
48:02happy? Somebody
48:04f***ing your wife. I don't have
48:06motherf***er who I never had in my life.
48:08Only here in the United States, I'm hearing
48:10this bullsh**.
48:16When I think about a third person, that's the way
48:18I look at it. Got it.
48:22We were having so
48:24much fun here in the sex therapy
48:26today, you know, feeling some
48:28intimacy, feeling good. We haven't
48:30done this in so long
48:32and, you know,
48:34you're talking about an open marriage with
48:36somebody else? What the f*** is
48:38maybe we're in a lot
48:40more trouble than I thought we were.
48:50Let's go!
48:52Next time on 90 Day The Last
48:54Resort. Go, jump!
48:56Yay!
48:58It's fun being out in the desert.
49:00If our relationship could be like this
49:02all the time, we'd be golden.
49:04Yeah! Woo!
49:08So I guess at this point, it's like,
49:10what do you guys think? Are you even going to get to
49:12the recommitment ceremony?
49:14At this point, I don't know. There's no way
49:16I can predict that. I feel sad
49:18for these guys.
49:20I see change.
49:22I don't know how much a husband
49:24is supposed to give before
49:26it's justified to walk away.
49:30So be careful, glasses girls.
49:32Natalie coming.
49:34I'm done with her.
49:36I know
49:38I messed up, so I feel
49:40like I'm going like
49:42to a lion's stand.
49:44Let's go.
49:48Here goes nothing.
49:54Let's go!
49:56Woo!
49:58I've never seen Gino like this.
50:00Florian, stop being
50:02a bad influence for my husband.
50:04Are you wanting him not to have fun
50:06or what?
50:08Woo!
50:10No, no, no!
50:12No, no, no!
50:14No, no, no!
50:16Jasmine, what the f*** you doing?
50:18No, no, no!
50:20No, no, no!