Remy Ma and celebrated battle rapper Hitman Holla come together to discuss the vital topic of children's education.
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00:00Nick Cannon got like 13 kids now.
00:01What you, I mean-
00:02That's it?
00:03I think he just had like 13 or 12.
00:04I feel like it's so much more.
00:06When you started having all these kids, because he was sleeping with all those Wild N Out girls
00:09for so long, and none of them were getting pregnant.
00:10I know you said you didn't.
00:11I don't think he slept with no Wild N Out girl.
00:14The twins had his face tattooed on them.
00:16Maybe because they liked him as a mole.
00:19But you, I mean, I like him.
00:21My first joke on Wild N Out was asking, well you remember my first joke.
00:23Yeah, I remember.
00:24I'm saying, I don't think, I ain't got no proof that he slept with any of them.
00:28I just know he got four baby mamas and 12 kids.
00:31So they all from-
00:32See what I'm saying?
00:33It's just so relaxed.
00:34That's still a lot.
00:35But it's only-
00:36Four baby mamas is crazy.
00:37A lot of people think it's 12 baby mamas with twins.
00:40Four baby mothers is crazy.
00:41The population got three baby mamas, four baby mamas.
00:44So if somebody with 100 of them is with me, that's at 80%, I'm within that 20 there.
00:48You know what's so crazy?
00:49Not if you take the LGBT community and the equation and divide it into what the whole
00:55world is, because we don't have a lot of, we don't have those issues.
00:58Divorce and all.
00:59I mean, it's new to us.
01:00We didn't have those rights.
01:01Baby mamas.
01:02Yeah.
01:03No, I know a lot of people in the LGBT that have baby mamas.
01:04Really?
01:05I was like, yeah.
01:06Well, when Nick was with Mariah, that was his ex-wife.
01:08Then he made all the baby mamas.
01:09Right?
01:10But-
01:11They have three sets of twins, too.
01:12So that's six.
01:13Isn't it three sets?
01:17But they say he was tired as hell on Christmas, zigzagging across the world trying to get
01:20to all these kids.
01:21Santa.
01:22Real life Santa.
01:23I don't even like kids like that.
01:25I love my kid.
01:27It takes a lot for me to like a kid.
01:29You got to be cute.
01:31You got to be smart.
01:33You got to have something about you.
01:36The average kid, they be dirty.
01:37They be want to touch stuff.
01:38I like seeing cute kids on Instagram, but do not bring them to my house.
01:41Don't bring them here.
01:42You would love my daughter.
01:43She's trained though.
01:44I would love your daughter because I love you, but I do not love people's kids.
01:49Listen to me, I promise you.
01:51My daughter, like people, they don't even call for me anymore.
01:53They come to visit me to see her.
01:55She's not like a regular kid.
01:57She's super, she's very smart.
01:59She's articulate.
02:00And I feel like that's because that's how I raised her.
02:02I didn't want her to be just like, what's that?
02:05Can I have some?
02:06I don't like what being a kid entails.
02:08I love kids.
02:09I love little dogs.
02:10Being a kid entails.
02:11So, you don't let people bring their kids over to your house for like holidays?
02:13No.
02:14What?
02:15No, don't come to my house and take kids.
02:16So, if I come over, I can't...
02:17My house, if you want to...
02:18If your kid is doing something, they be like, you want to go to Remy's house?
02:21My son is 16.
02:22My house is a punishment.
02:23My son is 16.
02:24Oh, he can come.
02:25I'm working him.
02:26Here.
02:27I pay by the room.
02:28You clean, like I don't have...
02:29But I'm talking about little kids, like my cousins and them, they threaten their kids
02:34with coming to my house because they know I don't play that.
02:37We're not doing that.
02:38Don't ask me nothing.
02:39Don't touch nothing.
02:40Mean auntie.
02:41Don't do...
02:42It's not even that I'm a mean auntie because they call me.
02:43I get all the best presents, but play with them at home.
02:46Don't come over here.
02:47I wouldn't give you nothing.
02:48What do you mean?
02:50You mean.
02:51I'm not mean.
02:52Mom, I don't want to go to my mean auntie house.
02:53Yeah.
02:54They don't want to come over because they know they can't do whatever they want.
02:57You can't run through here.
02:58There's no running through the house.
03:00One toy.
03:01My daughter has a lot of toys.
03:02They know the rules.
03:03One toy at a time.
03:04That's it.
03:05That's it.
03:06When you're done with that one, you put it back.
03:07Oh, y'all know how to act?
03:08You go in that room.
03:09You go in that room.
03:10I separate the whole thing.
03:11I don't play with them.
03:12I don't play with kids.
03:13So nobody else in your family can spank your kids?
03:14Are you dumb?
03:15What?
03:16No.
03:17Absolutely not.
03:18But it takes a village to raise a child.
03:20No, the ... don't.
03:21I don't even know what a village is.
03:22I've never lived in a village.
03:23I live in towns, neighborhoods.
03:24I've never lived in no ... village.
03:25Don't hit my kid.
03:26I barely hit my kid.
03:27So what you say is you get on other people's kids?
03:28Oh, I'll ... somebody else's kid.
03:29I'll ...
03:30So don't hit my kid, though.
03:31That's the difference.
03:32I tell people all the time.
03:33People are like, oh, you say this and this and this.
03:34But when I say something, just because you let me talk to you crazy, handle you crazy,
03:35that don't mean I'm going to let you talk to me crazy.
03:36That's the difference.
03:37That's the difference.
03:38That's the difference.
03:39That's the difference.
03:40I tell people all the time.
03:41People are like, oh, you say this and this and this.
03:43But when I say something, just because you let me talk to you crazy, handle you crazy,
03:47that don't mean I'm going to let you do it to me.
03:49This is like, no.
03:50It doesn't work like that.
03:51You're who you are.
03:52You tolerate what you tolerate.
03:53I am who I am.
03:54I tolerate what I tolerate.
03:55That's right.
03:56And I don't tolerate that.
03:57So don't try to do to me what I do to you.
03:58It's not going to work.
03:59I knew the other question.
04:00I forgot to ask, Carter.
04:01I want to ask you.
04:02Being a mom, did you ever suffer postpartum depression?
04:04Because you know what?
04:05I'm talking to more women who are being more open about their journey with postpartum that
04:10I didn't even understand that postpartum could last days, weeks, months, and even years.
04:16I just didn't know.
04:18I don't think it was diagnosed, but I do recognize that there was something going on.
04:22I breastfed my daughter.
04:23My daughter is four.
04:24She just turned four like two weeks ago.
04:26I breastfed my daughter since she was almost three years old.
04:30Is that long?
04:31I mean...
04:32What?
04:33Anything for...
04:34I don't know.
04:35What kind of relationship...
04:36I don't breastfeed.
04:37You've been in a relationship for three years?
04:38I was in foster care.
04:39I'll put it like this.
04:40What's the longest relationship you've been in recently?
04:41Right.
04:4224 hours.
04:43Exactly.
04:44So, imagine...
04:45What's the average age when they're supposed to stop though?
04:47Well, they say...
04:48There's really no average age, but they say the doctor recommends like at least going
04:53a year.
04:54Oh, yeah.
04:55And that's what I was saying.
04:56I was like, I'm going to do a year.
04:58And I ended up going when she was almost three.
05:01And a lot of it had to do with...
05:02It was COVID.
05:03It was COVID.
05:04It was inside, whatever the case may be.
05:05But that shit takes a lot on you.
05:08It's a lot.
05:10It's just...
05:11It was an experience that I loved that I had with her, but getting her off of it and stopping,
05:17it was just...
05:18And then your boobs.
05:19It's just a lot.
05:20Wait.
05:21How long do y'all produce milk?
05:22Me, my shit was still going.
05:23If I would've still gone, I believe it would've still been coming out.
05:26Some people, it's harder for them, but my shit was just like a whole milk dairy aisle.
05:32It's cool.
05:33Come on, man.
05:34Not 2%.
05:35But wait, so postpartum, when they say postpartum depression, how do you know that?
05:43I don't know.
05:44Your hormones be fucked up.
05:45Like, your hormones be all over the place, so you be having different emotions and things
05:50that you go through.
05:51And I think with us, meaning people of color, there's so many things that we assign to other
05:58races.
05:59Black people don't go through that.
06:00They don't have bipolar.
06:01They don't have mental health issues.
06:02They don't do postpartum.
06:03All of these different things that we've been going through for years.
06:06And because we were not diagnosed and because we were in denial that these things happened
06:10to us and in our community, that's why a lot of us was having child abuse.
06:14That's why a lot of us was dealing with shit that we thought was normal.
06:20I thought it was normal that if I said something, my mother said it to get my ass whooped.
06:23That's not normal.
06:24That's not normal.
06:26And we became accustomed to it.
06:29I think as a people, we're starting to go to the doctor more.
06:33Think of all the people.
06:34Like, have you ever heard of anybody growing up, like their parents were bipolar, their
06:38parents were suffering from mental health?
06:39Like, you had to-
06:40See, my mom, you know, in my book, I just said, she's crazy.
06:44Yeah, that's how it was just, they're crazy.
06:47Just like, knew that it was going from day to night, instantly.
06:51We had these diagnoses and there was medications.
06:55Like, people might have had different childhoods.
06:57Yeah, that's a fact.
06:58You know what's so crazy?
06:59They be out here talking about women versus men in hip hop, when you got the Gunners and
07:05Six Nines getting out while all their homies locked up and you and Kim went to prison.
07:09They locked us up.
07:10Y'all the real G's.
07:12Nah, that was whack.
07:13I ain't like that.
07:15I was talking to God many nights, like, really?
07:17Eight?
07:18Eight?
07:19I promise you, like, I just, what I don't like about the judicial system, like, it's
07:25just mad random.
07:26Like, they really could just be like, we're not, like, yeah, they're facing 5 to 25.
07:30That is a big range for somebody to just play around in.
07:34I mean, have options.
07:35You got to have options.
07:36Like, 5 to 25?
07:37Like, what?
07:38So, you could just be like, uh, 18.
07:41No, you could, no, no, no.
07:43Like, no, that's a big difference.
07:45No, let me tell you how you can make sure that that's not a problem.
07:48You go and say, being a part of the YSL gang.
07:53This is great.
07:56I mean, it clearly worked for some people anyway.
07:59That's crazy.