90 Day - The Last Resort S2 Episode 6 - The Last Laugh
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00:00Say something.
00:02Nastrovje.
00:03F***.
00:05Previously on 90 Day, The Last Resort.
00:07The top of it is gone.
00:09This is probably the longest that we've spent together without fighting in a really long time.
00:14If our relationship could be like this all the time, we'd be golden.
00:20Jasmine, she want to be in an open relationship and go with someone else.
00:24It's not acceptable to me.
00:26You should f*** her just to zip his mouth.
00:29Basically.
00:31I think Gino should let the angry child have sex with Jasmine.
00:35And boom, done.
00:39My behavior was inappropriate and I apologize for that.
00:42At the end of the day, I understand it sucks.
00:44He did invite me to Vegas, but that's on him.
00:47I'm happy to share the messages. You can see.
00:51He lies to me. He plays double game.
00:53He doesn't want to build a relationship with me.
00:57Josh is a freaking problem, Natalie.
01:06I've never seen Gino like this.
01:08Florian, stop being a bad influence for my husband.
01:12You want him not to have fun or what?
01:20Jasmine, what the f*** are you doing?
01:22No, enough, Florian.
01:23One more.
01:24No.
01:26Don't you dare.
01:27Don't you dare.
01:29First time you throw my Gino.
01:30Get out of her face.
01:31All right.
01:32Get away.
01:55No.
01:57No.
02:01No.
02:03No.
02:04No.
02:05No.
02:06No.
02:20Get away from my husband.
02:23You are a negative influence for Gino.
02:26Seriously, I can come different, bitch.
02:28Smash it, you f****** cunny.
02:30Again, again, you take my f****** dog.
02:33We'll see what happens to you.
02:34Don't you f****** dare!
02:36Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
02:38Barking like a f****** dog.
02:40Shut your f****** mouth, stupid ass b****.
02:43Come on.
02:44Jasmine, Jasmine.
02:46Hey, my guy.
02:47Embarrassing.
02:49I threw Gino's drink because I want him to stop drinking,
02:52but it wasn't Gino's drink.
02:55It was Florian's.
02:57Still, at the end of the day,
02:58he's a bad influence on my husband.
03:01Oh, Jasmine.
03:01Hey, my guy.
03:02Don't worry about the lady.
03:03Cheers.
03:04Don't worry about the lady.
03:05Listen, don't worry about us.
03:06Let's have our Gino.
03:07Let's worry about us.
03:08Cheers, Gino.
03:09Cheers.
03:09Don't even look over.
03:12Surprise, surprise.
03:14Oh, hi.
03:15Surprise, surprise.
03:17Oh, hi.
03:18You just came right on time.
03:24You call me drink lady?
03:25Lady, lady.
03:30Where did you get your drink?
03:31Come on, Gino.
03:32Whoa.
03:33Hi, Gino.
03:35Cheers, Brock.
03:37Brandon.
03:38Cheers, brothers.
03:41Gino.
03:42Cheers.
03:44I don't want to do a ...
03:46I feel guilty.
03:46I thought it was Gino's drink and it was Florian's.
03:49That's not on you.
03:49What are we up to now?
03:51His husband got crazy on me.
03:54Crazy.
03:55Just being loud and drunky and, you know,
03:59like getting Gino drunky and like, you know.
04:02Sensitive.
04:02It's too much.
04:03He's loud and ...
04:05Just, you know, I dealt with this before.
04:07This, like, persona that comes out and it's anger
04:10and it's ...
04:12He really needs deep therapy.
04:15I think all these men need therapy.
04:20I am sorry.
04:21I forgive you.
04:22I didn't want to do that to you.
04:25It's okay.
04:26When we get back to the resort,
04:28it's like a bomb, a drama bomb went off.
04:31Like, everybody's fighting and yelling and drunk and,
04:35oh, I don't know.
04:36It's a mess.
04:38But at the same time,
04:39I feel like some of these people, though,
04:40may live for the drama, I have to say.
04:45Can you tell me what's happening today?
04:47What did I miss?
04:48You missed a lot.
04:49I mean, we were good.
04:51We were good.
04:52Everything was great.
04:53I know, it's crazy.
04:53I'm jealous of the ...
04:55Then the ladies came back
04:56and they hated to see us having fun.
04:58They hated it.
04:59That's not what happened.
05:00They hated it.
05:00They walked up and was like, oh, they're having fun?
05:04How dare they?
05:05You have to see from their side.
05:06It's not because ...
05:07I mean, I was chilling,
05:09but that's just because I don't care if he's drunk.
05:10But Jasmine was in a place of like, she loves you,
05:12and like, if I'm really fucked up and blacked out,
05:15I'd want Rob to be like, Sophie, you've had enough.
05:17You ain't blacked out.
05:18She was like, I just want to see you just like,
05:20safe and miserable.
05:21No, it can't be.
05:22Miserable, that's the part, miserable.
05:24No, no, no, no, no.
05:25Misery loves company.
05:26I think she was just making sure you're okay,
05:28and it might have come from a place of like,
05:29she was being annoying or whatever,
05:31but it wasn't her just being a hater.
05:33I'm sure she wants to see you happy.
05:35Yeah.
05:37But not happy without her, right?
05:39Right, that's the part.
05:40I don't like that he's having this much fun without me.
05:45I appreciate that Sophie is trying to see both sides,
05:48but I feel for Gino.
05:49Jasmine controls Gino,
05:51and then she tells everybody that Gino's the controlling one,
05:54which is just her flipping it on Gino,
05:56and it's just, it's manipulation.
05:59I gotta get my husband.
06:01Let's get our husbands.
06:03Gino, boy.
06:05Oh my gosh.
06:06You take your stairs.
06:07I'm trying, but I feel like I can't.
06:14Gino, we have to go.
06:17We have to go.
06:20I'm having a bonding moment with my guys.
06:23My guys?
06:25Don't be ridiculous.
06:26Let's go home.
06:27Good night.
06:29Good night, Gino.
06:30Hey, Florian.
06:33Hold on, Gino.
06:34What the hell?
06:35Hey, Gino, Gino.
06:37Salute, guys.
06:38Have a good night.
06:40Salute.
06:42Where the hell did my wife go?
06:43That's what I'm saying.
06:44What the fuck, guys?
06:47Bullshit.
06:48Those are good guys.
06:49What are you talking about?
06:50No, they are our bad team friends for you.
06:51Don't say shit like that.
06:53They are our bad team friends for you.
06:55No, they're not.
06:56Shame on you because we are here to receive therapy.
06:59No, they're not.
07:00Shame on all of you.
07:01Shame, shame, shame.
07:03Poor shame.
07:05Let's get the heck out of here.
07:08All right, I'm going to go find my wife.
07:10Yeah, where the fuck did my wife go?
07:12I don't know.
07:13All right, brother.
07:13Okay.
07:14Yeah, let's go.
07:15All right.
07:16Check it out, there.
07:17Thank you, bartender.
07:25Get off of me.
07:28Get here, here, here.
07:29It's your journey here.
07:31Get off of me.
07:32Your hair.
07:33Man.
07:39Just go to bed.
07:40You think this is funny, what you're doing?
07:43You think it is something to be proud of?
07:45You think I'm funny?
07:48Gino, your wife said, you're too old for this shit.
07:51You're the oldest person in this shit resort.
07:54I'm not going to leave you alone.
07:55Just leave me alone, please.
07:58Okay.
08:00Go to bed, please.
08:01Go in the other room.
08:10I am upset that Jasmine came up
08:13and knocked our drinks out of our hand.
08:16Let us have fun.
08:17We're having a good time.
08:18Just like she has fun with her friends.
08:21They told me how to play beer pong
08:23and I did pretty good
08:24because I sunk one from the three point line.
08:29Ding.
08:30Three pointer, man.
08:32So yeah, it was great.
08:35But yeah.
08:39I'm going to chill.
08:49âȘâȘâȘ
08:57I think maybe you should sleep on the couch tonight.
09:00Yeah, or I'll sleep on the couch.
09:01You choose. You could choose.
09:03You can stay in the bed, man.
09:07No, not after what happened tonight.
09:09What the fuck just happened tonight?
09:10I don't like the way you were talking to Jasmine
09:12and I don't like the way you were talking to me.
09:14Okay?
09:15Who is smaller than Jasmine to smash my drink?
09:19I'm not her husband.
09:21I'm not her ex-husband.
09:23What the fuck is...
09:26Jasmine needs to control the anger, you know?
09:28And you didn't think you disrespected her in front of me
09:32and disrespect me in front of everybody.
09:34You embarrassed me.
09:35You were, like, barbaric.
09:42Her, like, I'm like...
09:44Like a mom.
09:48I left my mom in Albania. I don't live here, you know?
09:50You need to calm down. You need to chill.
09:52These people don't know you.
09:54They don't know you. I know you.
09:57Who sell like this? Tell me.
09:58How these people can teach me for my life?
10:02Tell me, how these people can teach me for my life
10:05how to do good in life?
10:07Jasmine want to open...
10:09It's one relationship open.
10:11Basically, Jasmine want to fuck whatever one
10:13and want to have genuine inside.
10:16Yeah, Jasmine want to have one boy to fuck,
10:19one boy to love.
10:24Come on, please.
10:26I don't really want to be next to you tonight.
10:30I can sleep in a couch for a prison, Jasmine.
10:32I can sleep in a couch if you want to protect her.
10:35Come on, please.
10:56Don't ever...
11:00Don't ever...
11:04Don't ever...
11:07Don't you have hangover?
11:09Can you please be quiet?
11:11I swear to God.
11:14I swear to God.
11:16Don't ever...
11:18Oh, no.
11:20Hello?
11:22Hello.
11:25Oh, hi.
11:27How are you?
11:31I've been gone for a few days.
11:33I was able to reset a little bit.
11:36I want to come back into the retreat
11:39and I want to accomplish what we came here for.
11:42But I still expect her to be a little bit different.
11:47But I still expect her to be a little upset
11:50about the Sophie thing
11:52because, you know, Natalie is a jealous person
11:55and she does hold grudges.
11:57So I don't expect this to be over with,
12:00but, you know, I expect to work on it
12:02and hopefully move past it.
12:04Can you put it on me, please?
12:06Sure.
12:08So how was the weekend?
12:10I was alone couple of days because you were gone.
12:13Yeah.
12:15Did you miss me?
12:17No.
12:19Oh, you didn't.
12:21Honestly, I'm only one person here
12:24who tried to build relationship.
12:27Are we both of us in this boat
12:30or there is, like, another boat you're hitting on?
12:36Natalie definitely has a way with, like, analogies.
12:40Sometimes they make sense.
12:42Sometimes I don't know what the f*** she's saying.
12:45Because, like, maybe some boat is more good-looking for you
12:49and you just...
12:51I listen and I look and I'm...
12:53I kind of do one of these, yeah.
12:55Uh-huh, I understand.
12:57But, you know, some of them get...
12:59They're pretty out there.
13:01I have a, like, kind of proof.
13:04Oh, you do?
13:06That you've been hitting another boat
13:08while my boat was, like...
13:11I was alone in the boat waiting for you.
13:13Okay.
13:15Nothing's ever happened with Sophie.
13:17Nothing.
13:19So I've never, like...
13:21We've literally had one conversation,
13:23which you saw the other night.
13:25No, like, in person.
13:27While you were gone,
13:29I talked to Sophie
13:31and she sent me the messages.
13:35And I have them.
13:37Sophie showed me the messages
13:39and Josh was 100% flirting with her.
13:43And he lied about it.
13:45He got caught.
13:47He ran away.
13:49But he cannot run anymore.
13:57Floria, that freaking Floria.
13:59I don't want to see that dude today, honestly.
14:01Yeah, he's a dick.
14:03So do we think that they're talking s*** about us?
14:05So do we think that they're talking s*** about us
14:07and the other man?
14:09Yes.
14:11All right, then.
14:13Therapy's gonna be exciting with you.
14:15Florian is like an infection
14:17that spreads everywhere.
14:19Please, stay away from him.
14:35Good.
14:37Good.
14:39Good.
14:41So you can see that it's not that bad.
14:53Yeah.
14:55Well, that was not worded correctly.
14:59So I apologize for that.
15:01Okay.
15:03Read it.
15:05Read it.
15:07Read it.
15:09We are planning.
15:11Wow.
15:13That doesn't say, come to Vegas with me, baby.
15:15We are planning a Vegas trip soon.
15:17You've been?
15:19No, I've never been, but I definitely want to go.
15:21It looks fun.
15:23What are you doing to Seventeen?
15:25What does it mean?
15:27That was the date that we were all gonna be planning to go.
15:29There was like a group of seven of us.
15:31I said we.
15:33It never went past that.
15:35Josh, you cannot find things behind my back.
15:37It's yours.
15:39If you want to sit and fight, we can do that.
15:41Or we can move past it.
15:43You didn't invite Rob.
15:45I didn't know Rob.
15:47I'm ready to move on.
15:49Would you possibly give me guarantees
15:51that you will not do this to me again?
15:53Listen, I'm here to work on the future
15:55and you want to keep talking about the past.
15:57With who?
16:00You cannot talk to me and put likes to me
16:02and give attention to me.
16:04You cannot disrespect me, ignore me,
16:06neglect me and hit another chick.
16:10I'd like to start this day off positive with you
16:12and let's show everybody else.
16:14You know.
16:16Let's show.
16:18You use your energy not to make in front
16:20what fiction relationship with me.
16:22Use your energy.
16:24Let's show everybody else that we can do this, okay?
16:26Let's go have a good day.
16:28Okay.
16:30Don't message Sophie anymore.
16:32Okay.
16:34Promise.
16:36Do like that.
16:38What is that?
16:40Keep your promise.
16:42Stoic people do it.
16:44I don't know.
16:48It feels like Josh is trying to
16:50put on me a sprinkle magic fairy dust thing.
16:52He keeps kissing me
16:54and holding me
16:56and it feels like it's an excuse
16:58to avoid the conversation
17:00but James told me
17:02that I should trust Josh more
17:04and now Josh tells me
17:06that he's here for me
17:08and only me
17:10so now I'm kind of let it go
17:12but at the same time
17:14I'm watching.
17:18Here we go.
17:26Oh.
17:38Natalie and Josh.
17:40Hey.
17:42Good to see you guys again.
17:44My brother.
17:46Good to see you, man.
17:48I missed you.
17:50Yesterday
17:52Vinny and I had our date riding ETVs in the desert
17:54and I feel like we kind of did
17:56make some progress
17:58and today the therapist told us
18:00that we're all going off the resort
18:02for another therapy session
18:04so I feel hopeful.
18:06I'm ready to do the work.
18:08It's not out of the doghouse at all
18:10but I don't know if we're the worst couple here
18:12to be honest.
18:16Good morning.
18:18Good morning.
18:20I can't believe you are going to bed
18:22when you're walking in the street
18:24I can't believe you've done this.
18:26I can't believe you won't stop talking.
18:35Are you guys feeling hungover today?
18:37Can you die from a hangover?
18:39Yeah.
18:41I don't feel very good, honestly.
18:45You missed it.
18:47It's boys day.
18:49In the pool.
18:52You missed it, man.
18:54You missed the drama.
18:56Florian and Jasmine were butting heads
18:58so I had to...
19:00That girl's f***ing annoying, man.
19:02Yeah?
19:04Yeah, f***ing annoying, man.
19:06Florian, that freaking Florian.
19:08I don't want to see that dude today, honestly.
19:10Yeah, he's rude.
19:12I already didn't like him.
19:14He's a dick.
19:16He's a dick and an ass.
19:18He got a little upset.
19:20What an animal.
19:22I don't want him to be friends with you
19:24because he's a bad influence.
19:31So, did you get a chance
19:33to repair everything with Jasmine
19:35and Sophie and everybody?
19:37Well, I did. I apologize.
19:39That's good.
19:41I was with Natalie when
19:43Sophie showed her the text message.
19:47She was very hurt.
19:49It was shocking.
19:51I apologize to her.
19:53To be fair,
19:55Stacey, I've not touched Sophie.
19:57I also know that
19:59the messages that I sent
20:01were harmless.
20:03They were friendly.
20:05It was never inappropriate.
20:10Josh is charismatic
20:12and friendly
20:14but I'm really weary for Natalie
20:16because this guy is clearly
20:18stringing Natalie along
20:20and I'm not sure why Natalie
20:22is falling for it.
20:24Natalie,
20:26do you trust that?
20:28He told me
20:30he wants to concentrate now on me
20:32on building a relationship
20:34with me.
20:36I think, I guess.
20:40It's really not easy to
20:42forgive and forget so quickly.
20:44Yeah, I totally understand that.
20:46It takes time to heal.
20:50I hope that this is not
20:52a focal point for people
20:54because there's really nothing there.
20:56There's nothing there with me and Sophie.
20:58We're friends. That's what it is.
21:00I'm done with the situation.
21:02I'm here to move on.
21:04If you want to move on, let's do it.
21:10Do you think Josh is coming back?
21:12I don't know.
21:15Sophie, write him back.
21:17Hey, where are you?
21:19Right? Should I message him
21:21and be like, hey, are you coming back?
21:28So do we think that they're talking
21:30about us in the other van?
21:32Yes, definitely.
21:34Yes.
21:36Special Julian Jasmine.
21:38F***ing annoying.
21:40Talk too much, man.
21:42I thought you were going to call some of the guys.
21:44You're calling all the girls.
21:46The angels are the guys.
21:48The girls are the devil.
21:50Alright then.
21:52Therapy is going to be exciting with you.
22:00I'm here.
22:04Catch.
22:10Let's stay with our team, guys.
22:12Ready?
22:16Up, down, whatever.
22:24Isn't that beautiful out there?
22:26Look at the view.
22:28The lake is just beautiful
22:30but I have no idea
22:32what the heck they're going to make us do.
22:34All I know is Florian
22:36is like an infection that spreads
22:38everywhere. I'm sick and tired of him.
22:40So the best for you and for me
22:42is to please stay away from him.
22:46If not, it might be a f***ing disaster.
22:52The competition has begun.
22:56Come on.
22:58Just what they're doing.
23:00Oh, they're turning us.
23:02That's not fair.
23:04We're here for therapy but the last thing
23:06I'm going to do is be last.
23:08Let's go.
23:23Hey, everyone.
23:25Hi.
23:27Hey, guys.
23:29We're going to ask everyone,
23:31each couple stand in front of a kayak, please.
23:33Watch your step there.
23:35Be careful.
23:38I feel good out here.
23:40I'm seeing kayaks and I have a kayak
23:42so I like kayaking.
23:44This is going to be a good day.
23:46I'm already feeling it.
23:48There's something about being in nature
23:50that is just so calming
23:52and it helps to bring down those walls
23:54and everybody here can not argue
23:56and can hopefully move forward.
23:58Welcome, everyone.
24:00Welcome back, Josh.
24:02We're glad to have you.
24:04Oh, my gosh.
24:06I'm kind of worried
24:08because with Natalie,
24:10you never know what to expect.
24:12Hopefully, she's not going to come
24:14with more shed but she's beyond crazy.
24:16For me to say it,
24:18that's a lot.
24:20I would say the two craziest women
24:22I know of is Jasmine and Natalie.
24:24They're about the same level.
24:26No, no, no.
24:28I don't want to be even.
24:30You have to choose one.
24:32I know.
24:38Before we get started with today's activity,
24:40we're going to have everybody put on a life vest
24:42just to make sure you're safe
24:44and then we'll continue.
24:52Okay, everyone.
24:54Today's activity, we're going to be talking
24:56about control and the power dynamic
24:58in our relationships.
25:00I'm curious, who likes to lead?
25:02Okay.
25:04Okay.
25:06I see kind of two hands going up.
25:08I see two hands going up.
25:10Gino, what are you thinking?
25:12I feel like I have to lead
25:14otherwise our boat will sink.
25:16Our ship will sink.
25:18As he laughs.
25:20I don't find it funny.
25:22I also want to have a voice
25:24in this relationship and lately
25:26I feel like whenever I express
25:28my voice, my opinion,
25:30she can ask me bitching
25:32and I have a problem with that.
25:34I didn't mean leadership as she can't have an opinion.
25:36Yeah, absolutely I listen to her opinion.
25:38I'm hopeful that when you guys get off this kayak
25:40we're going to see a little balance
25:42and we're going to see you guys taking turns.
25:44If we get out of this kayak.
25:46When we ask the couples
25:48which one's the leader in this relationship,
25:50it's interesting because some of them
25:52kind of want to fight for the power and control.
25:54Some of them can't even explain the dynamic
25:56that they're in.
25:59When we're dealing with a healthy relationship
26:01I think it's important that the leadership
26:03responsibilities are shared.
26:05Sometimes somebody has to take the lead
26:07sometimes somebody has to support them.
26:09Josh and Natalie, what about the two of you?
26:11I think I'm
26:13a natural leader.
26:15Natalie, how do you respond to that?
26:17I don't mind you being a leader
26:19but I also feel like
26:21every leader needs an advisor.
26:23Oh, I like that.
26:25That's a good way to look at it.
26:27There you go.
26:29So you guys, we have a wonderful activity
26:31planned for you today.
26:33What I'm going to have you do now
26:35is within your couple
26:37talk about who and what role you're going to play.
26:39You either are going to be
26:41a rower or
26:43a thrower.
26:45What's the responsibility of the thrower?
26:47A rower is going to take
26:49the oar and row.
26:51The thrower is going to have to
26:53hold on to a ball and eventually
26:55shoot it in a basket, which we'll explain.
26:57So, rowing a kayak
26:59and throwing a ball.
27:01Two additional rules.
27:03One, you have to stay in your role.
27:05You cannot switch roles.
27:07The other rule is the rower
27:09cannot put their hands on the ball
27:11and the thrower
27:13cannot put their hands on the oar.
27:15Oh, wow. Are we good?
27:17Everybody's understanding?
27:19So make your decision now.
27:21I want to have the balls.
27:23Which one you want to be?
27:25I want to have the ball.
27:27You decide.
27:29You want to be the leader? You decide.
27:31I don't care.
27:33So Ari and Binny, did you guys decide your roles?
27:35We knew right away.
27:37What is it?
27:39Rower. Thrower.
27:41Brandon and Julia?
27:43I can be a thrower.
27:45He can be a rower.
27:47Was that an easy decision for the two of you?
27:49I mean, I don't want to make my muscle work right now.
27:51Josh, what are you guys picking?
27:53Natalie?
27:55I'm going to throw. Natalie's going to row.
27:57Got it. Gino?
27:59I gave Jasmine the option. She wants to throw,
28:01so I'll row.
28:03You're going to row and you're going to throw.
28:05This is seeming pretty smooth, guys. I love it.
28:07Stacey and Florian?
28:09What are you thinking?
28:11I've been a leader for nine years.
28:13Stacy, you're in a position
28:15where you get to pick.
28:17I'll be the thrower.
28:20You can be the rower.
28:22Rob and Sophie?
28:24I'll row. She can throw.
28:26Got it.
28:28Here is the directions.
28:30You guys will get in your kayaks.
28:32The rowers will row to that boat behind you.
28:34Tied to that boat
28:36is a net with a ball in it.
28:38The throwers
28:40need to untie
28:42the ball and get possession
28:44of that ball. Once you're ready,
28:46the rower is going to go around this bend
28:48down here to a dock.
28:50On the dock are two baskets.
28:52The throwers
28:54are then going to throw the ball
28:56like a jump shot into the basket.
28:58Once you make your basket,
29:00the rowers are going to
29:02paddle you back to this position.
29:04The first couple here
29:06is the winner.
29:08This activity
29:10has a reward
29:12for the winner.
29:14We're going to win.
29:16There's a little bit
29:18of a motivation.
29:20What is the prize?
29:22We will announce that later.
29:24I'm hoping this kayak
29:26challenge will really show
29:28the teamwork and ultimately some great
29:30communication skills between the couples.
29:32There's a difference between being a leader
29:34and being a dictator. At the end of the day,
29:36we want to see them leading from
29:38a place of love, care,
29:40but also listening to their partner
29:42and making sure they're guiding them along this journey.
29:44I'm going to row.
29:46I'll be able to go faster.
29:48And I'll get us closer.
29:50Good luck everybody, and let's get
29:52into those kayaks.
29:58So initially, in my thought,
30:00maybe if we just kind of make it
30:02halfway, I can just sink a three-pointer
30:04and we'll be ahead of everybody.
30:06But then, I thought about
30:08it a little bit more, and I was like,
30:10I need to row. I need to row. All the guys
30:12are rowing, so it's going to be
30:14tough for Natalie to keep up.
30:16And so, before we start,
30:18I say, I'm going to row,
30:20you're going to throw. I'm going to get you there quick,
30:22and that's what we're going to do.
30:24But still, I'm going to help you
30:26to achieve the best result.
30:28Let's go team.
30:32The competition has begun!
30:42Come on, come on!
30:44Come on!
30:46Josh, please don't go!
30:58Oh, they're turning us!
31:00That's not fair!
31:02That's not fair!
31:04That's not fair!
31:06We just started the race,
31:08and Josh gets his kayak
31:11right in pinning position.
31:13So, my kayak ends up
31:15getting spent all the way around,
31:17and now Sophie and I are in last place.
31:23They are playing so dirty right now,
31:25it's crazy. We're here for therapy,
31:27but the last thing I'm going to do
31:29is be last. I've got to at least beat Natalie
31:31and Josh.
31:37I'm cheating!
31:39F*** Josh, let's do this!
31:53Oh, they're turning us!
31:55That's not fair!
31:57That's not fair!
31:59That's not fair!
32:01That's not fair!
32:07They definitely cheated because they changed
32:09who was rolling and who was shooting.
32:11Before the even game started,
32:13they cheated. They switched their roles
32:15once they heard the actual game rules.
32:17That's just really unfair,
32:19and also this is like a therapy process.
32:21I feel like for them to cheat during this
32:23shows their character, honestly.
32:25Oh my god!
32:32Inside of the thing?
32:34Yes, inside.
32:36I got to get the box!
32:38I got to get a box over there!
32:40We're going to crash Sophie!
32:42F*** you!
32:44See, you broke it!
32:46No, I can't touch it.
32:48I won't break it.
32:50No, it's a rule!
32:52No touching!
32:54Julia, you're cheating!
32:56No cheaters.
32:58You will lose.
33:00You already cheated!
33:02No.
33:04No touching!
33:06I'm not cheating!
33:08I don't care!
33:10Benny, call it to me!
33:12Benny, help me!
33:14I'm not fair!
33:16Benny!
33:18Go!
33:24I'm trying, babe!
33:26Hype me up!
33:28You're my hype man!
33:30Get that s***!
33:36Got it!
33:38Let's go!
33:40Can you try and dive a bit closer?
33:42I can't, my f***ing nails!
33:44Let's go, let's go!
33:46Go, go, go!
33:48Go, go, go!
33:50Go, go, go!
33:53F***ing nails!
33:55Look at these nails.
33:57How am I supposed to untie anything with these?
33:59If I would have known what we were doing,
34:01I would have taken them off.
34:03I know games are supposed to be fun,
34:05but I really do take them serious.
34:07And we already were sabotaged by my nails,
34:09by Nathalie and Josh,
34:11so I'm like, now I really want to win.
34:13Let's go, let's go!
34:23S***!
34:27Come on, Josh, come on!
34:33I'm in the air!
34:39Oh, get in there!
34:41Oh! F***!
34:43F***!
34:45Come back, come back!
34:47Wait, wait, wait!
34:53Don't pull on it, don't pull on it!
34:55Yes!
34:57Come on, come on.
34:59Go, go, go!
35:01Woo!
35:06Step back, step back.
35:14And you know what, baby?
35:16I'm very proud of you,
35:18because don't take it wrong,
35:20but you're the oldest guy.
35:22And you are killing it, baby.
35:24You are killing it.
35:26Get me as close as possible, okay?
35:34Why are you yelling at me?
35:36I didn't tell you to just...
35:43There you go!
35:47Benny and I are not good at working together.
35:49He does not like the way I do things,
35:51and I tend to not like the way he does things.
35:53And so I'm not going to say anything to him,
35:55because anything I say is just going to piss him off.
35:57This is exactly typical of how the relationship is,
35:59because all I'm trying to do is tell him,
36:01you know, something simple,
36:03and he immediately goes,
36:05you're trying to control me.
36:07And at the end of the day,
36:09it's not worth it for me to even get upset about.
36:13Why are you paddling so slow?
36:15Oh, I'm paddling slow?
36:17Why'd you f***ing take forever to untie the rope?
36:19Why'd you f***ing take forever to untie the rope?
36:25Come on, come on, come on, come on.
36:27You can do this.
36:29You're stronger than him. Look at him.
36:31You're so strong!
36:37Cardio is not my strong suit.
36:39I just like to lift weights, so I was beat.
36:41I was... I was tired.
36:43But as hungover as I am,
36:45I'm surprised we're doing so good.
36:47No, f*** this s***.
36:49Josh and Natalie cheating, so we are first.
36:55Come on, come on, come on, come on, come on.
37:04Amazing!
37:06Wow!
37:14My winner!
37:17Congratulations!
37:20We won by a long shot.
37:22And I'm actually, like,
37:24excited because
37:26for the first time, like, Natalie and I
37:28agreed and, like, we did something good.
37:30I think we worked the best
37:32because we're the smartest.
37:34And we make good team
37:36when we don't fight.
37:38You're a f***ing f***er!
37:40How did she cheat?
37:42Because he should paddle and he should be like a prover
37:44and not cheating!
37:46You're a f***ing f***er!
37:50We got f***ed over!
37:52We cheated, so really we would have won, but it's fine.
37:54It's cool.
37:58Who said no rules?
38:00We had a few rules.
38:12You got it!
38:14You got it!
38:16How was it for you?
38:18It was cool.
38:20Welcome back, everybody!
38:22You guys did amazing.
38:24That was so exciting to see you guys all in action.
38:26You should be pretty proud of yourselves.
38:28How was the experience?
38:30I want to hear from you guys.
38:32It was fun.
38:34It was pretty challenging.
38:36I was shocked, but we did it.
38:38Rob, Sophie, what's happening here with the body language?
38:40Why are you guys standing so far apart?
38:42Sophie's just blaming s*** on me all the time.
38:46I didn't blame the loss on you.
38:48I blamed it on people that cheat, not you.
38:50Yeah, but then somehow it turns into you taking it out on me.
38:52I mean, I was motivating him the whole way.
38:54I was just like, let's go, you can do it, come on.
38:56She's like, oh my God, you're not going fast enough.
38:58That was at the end.
39:00Rob and Sophie,
39:02it's seeming like the same old issues are coming out for them
39:04and there's a lot of work that needs to be done
39:06for them to move forward.
39:08Who won?
39:10Because we were so far behind
39:12that I have no idea.
39:14She's going to say everybody won now.
39:16Well, listen, yes, in my mind, everybody did.
39:18But you guys all did amazing.
39:20I mean, really.
39:22Well, let's give yourselves a round of applause.
39:24You really did great.
39:26That said, unfortunately,
39:28Natalie and Josh,
39:30there were some concerns with breaking one of the rules,
39:32with staying in our rules
39:34with if you are a rower,
39:37you have to remain a rower.
39:39Disqualified!
39:41Disqualified!
39:43Disqualified!
39:45Disqualified!
39:47Who cares?
39:49Who cares?
39:51Who cares?
39:53I do feel attacked right now
39:55because instead of saying congratulations,
39:57people attack me
39:59and they're taking my win from me.
40:01It's not right.
40:03I don't feel that Josh and I cheated.
40:05No, it's not fair.
40:07No, stop!
40:09It's not a big deal.
40:11No, it's a big deal.
40:13Just the fact that
40:15Natalie and Josh
40:17will get disqualified
40:19and, bitches, you're not getting the prize
40:21makes me so happy.
40:23It's not fair.
40:25It's not a big deal.
40:27Because Natalie is a snake.
40:35Do we comprehend the reality of
40:37she's just waiting and I'm behind her rowing
40:39but she feels like she's doing everything?
40:41She's lazy.
40:49Can you stop laughing?
40:51Can you have some respect, please?
40:53It's not about you right now!
41:05It's a party!
41:12It's a party!
41:19Let's give Nalia a moment.
41:21First of all, I'm saying to you so much
41:23but when we left the ground
41:25you all knew we already switched
41:27but you were fine.
41:29So when we won, you're not fine.
41:31You are cheating and it's not fair.
41:33I have to say, all of us chose rower or thrower before, before, before we knew what we were doing.
41:43That's the point.
41:44But after we switched and you would let us to do it.
41:46That's the point.
41:47No, you would let us.
41:48We have no idea who's rowing and throwing when you guys are running out there.
41:51It's okay, we're, we're f***ed.
41:54F***ed.
41:55They thought it wasn't clear that we'd redefined our roles before we started.
42:00And, you know, at this moment, I'm like, dude, okay, we can't win at this point.
42:05Everybody is against us.
42:07I feel like, fine, they don't like me.
42:09So what?
42:10I'm here to build relationship with Josh and I'm stronger and better.
42:14The fairest of them all.
42:16So I don't give a f*** and who cares what they think.
42:23Even though all of you did an amazing and you guys came in the fastest.
42:27We sure did.
42:28Julia and Brandon were the winners of this competition.
42:34Good job.
42:36What did we win?
42:37You guys actually won a night in the honeymoon suite of the resort.
42:47We're going to make our way over down the beach area and we're going to go start to talk about the whole control and power dynamic.
42:54Yeah.
42:55Okay.
42:56Josh!
42:58Hey.
43:22What did you guys all think of that activity today?
43:25Challenging.
43:26Well, this is a surface activity, correct?
43:30Like, we need to get into how to connect this to your day-to-day life.
43:35Yeah.
43:36Jasmine, what do you think about all of this?
43:41I will let my husband be the leader this time and respond first.
43:46Okay.
43:47I love it.
43:49What are your thoughts, Gino?
43:50I mean, we took us a long time to get the ball out and we fell way behind.
43:54We were way behind everybody else.
43:57I wasn't expecting her to be calm at that point.
44:00Like, I thought she would be more, you know, not so calm.
44:05And, uh, but she stayed calm.
44:08And I was shocked, you know, and I'm thinking in my head, wow, this is how we need our relationship to be.
44:15It was good.
44:17I'm astonished that Gino and Jasmine had such a good day.
44:20If only Gino and Jasmine could keep this up.
44:24I think Jasmine would finally get laid and Gino would get what he wants.
44:27He'd get some peace in his relationship.
44:30See, the power of nature, the beauty of nature.
44:34It's like, just get outside, do stuff together, and you'll have fun.
44:40I want to point out so many amazing things that I've seen happening.
44:43The dynamic.
44:44You know, some people kind of took a more relaxed approach and said, I'm going to let my partner step up.
44:50You know, I was seeing that with Florian and Stacey.
44:52What goes through your mind as we're talking about this now and thinking about your approach?
44:57Um, I feel like for me and Florian, um, usually we're at odds.
45:03And this was really the first time we came together as a team and pulled through.
45:08Even though we, you know, had some bumps in the road, hit some rocks.
45:12There was some bickering along the way.
45:13I didn't get the basket right away.
45:15It took me like three times.
45:17He, a little, you know, come on, come on, come on.
45:20Come on, come on, come on.
45:21But you guys didn't quit.
45:22Trying to root me out, but we didn't quit.
45:24And we're not quitters.
45:25And we've been together nine years, and I feel like that's still in us.
45:29We don't want to give up on each other.
45:32Sophie and Rob, after doing the exercise, how do you feel?
45:37And how does it transfer into your day-to-day life?
45:40So we'll start with you, Sophie.
45:43He usually goes first.
45:44I'm going to go with you.
45:45Okay.
45:47I don't know.
45:48I was just, like, telling him what he should do.
45:50I don't know if he was listening or not.
45:51I'm sure he was trying.
45:53But I guess that is kind of like our real relationship, too.
45:56Like, it's like I feel like I'm always telling him what I want him to do.
45:59And even though he's probably, he feels like he's trying his best, I don't feel like he is.
46:04I had one job today.
46:05Row.
46:06And I rowed.
46:07What else can I do?
46:08You're saying, I'm doing my best.
46:09I'm doing what I can.
46:10I'm doing what I can.
46:11That is so, so, like, that is our relationship of me doing what there is to do.
46:16And Sophie just somehow, it doesn't, it's just not what, it's just not enough.
46:20It's not, it isn't what I'm supposed to do somehow.
46:23Even though I'm doing exactly what I'm supposed to do.
46:27I definitely feel like Rob and Sophie are on completely separate pages.
46:33I do.
46:35She does like this whole, like, save me thing.
46:38She has, she does have this cute little voice, so it kind of gives her this innocence.
46:42And so she tries to get away with that.
46:46But she has ulterior motives.
46:49And so I think Rob better watch out.
46:53Some women, they think, oh, if I'm beautiful, it's automatically I have to do nothing to be happy.
47:00But the thing is, your beauty is not enough.
47:04No.
47:07We comprehend the reality of she's holding a ball and just in the front seat, just waiting.
47:11And I'm behind her rowing, but she feels like she's doing everything.
47:15She's lazy, that's it.
47:22What could you possibly do in those moments to make things go smoother?
47:27I don't know. I don't know how I can be clearer with what I want.
47:30It just feels like he doesn't get it.
47:36When I ask him to do something, he does what he thinks he should do instead of what I'm asking him to do.
47:44Can you stop laughing while I'm talking? It's extremely rude.
47:46Everyone's trying to be vulnerable here. Can you have some respect, please?
47:54A lot of the time, what I am looking for is reassurance.
48:00With the rowing thing.
48:01I wanted to hear him at the back being like, we got it, I'm doing it.
48:04I wanted to hear it back and I didn't.
48:07No.
48:10I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
48:13It's not about you right now. It's about everybody. Everybody.
48:18Julia, no.
48:19Because it's too much. Look at me. Look at me. It's not about you right now.
48:28Done. I mean, too much.
48:36I feel this anxiety now so bad.
48:38Next time on 90 Day The Last Resort.
48:41So when they say, like, I don't want kids, this is such a painful...
48:49I don't know how to explain, but I'm so scared to be in reality.
48:59You know that you've hurt me so bad over the years.
49:03And I just want you to admit that what you've done has really hurt me and destroyed me.
49:09I believe that he cheated when I was pregnant with Avi.
49:12If he doesn't acknowledge the past mistakes, then we can't move on until we fix it.
49:17You're a liar. No, you don't.
49:20F**k you.
49:30Jesus. No.
49:32Kiss me.
49:33No, I don't want to right now at this moment. Later.
49:39I love him, but I crave for sex, you know?
49:45I'm convinced now that the only possible solution to save our marriage is to open it up to someone else.
49:52You are losing me.
49:56I'm breaking up with him three times.
49:58He would f**king come back and he would say, we work on our relationship.
50:02You lie to me. What we are. What you and I. What we are.
50:06I think that's why we're here trying to figure it out.
50:11Oh, wow.
50:12No, you cannot do this to me.