Sofia loves to feel 'sexy', but she does it for herself only. After years of thinking something was 'wrong' with her, she finally stopped listening to society's judgments.
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00:00I'm usually judged for what I do, I'm judged for what I don't do.
00:11You are sick, you have a celibate, you have never had a normal man, sometimes you have never had a normal girl, you will meet the same and the only one.
00:26The most offensive thing is to write to me when you get better.
00:35Who should I fuck that I don't fuck anyone?
00:39Sex is a need that I don't have. There is frigidity, there is asexuality. These are two different things. Frigidity is a disease, and asexuality is an orientation.
00:59I know what excitement is, I'm not frigid. Imagine that everyone around you is jumping with a parachute, and you are the only one who does not jump with a parachute.
01:09It's like eating and sleeping, but someone doesn't need to eat a lot, someone doesn't need to sleep a lot.
01:17Napoleon slept for three hours. Someone doesn't need to jump with a parachute.
01:22For a long time I thought that I was mentally retarded. I was 18 years old, I didn't kiss anyone, I didn't even think about it. I didn't think that I had to think about it.
01:36Why do you put on makeup if you don't fuck? Why do you drink if you don't give? No, you're not asexual, you don't look like an asexual.
01:56Appearance is a genetic wheel, nothing more. I like to be beautiful. There is such a thing as fuckability, and there is such a thing as beauty. I don't lean towards fuckability.
02:07Do you have a relationship with your ex-boyfriend?
02:12I didn't have a lot of relationships, but the same shit always happens. We either discuss this moment and say, yes, yes, everything is fine, and then there are complaints.
02:25There were moments when we tried some kind of intimate intimacy, but I said, no, it's not mine, let's not spoil everything, and so on. And we parted for these reasons.
02:38How did your parents react when they found out that you were having sex with a man?
02:43All attempts to have sex were terrible. All attempts are the same. Despite the fact that there were people who said, it's okay, ask how, show such care, you understand that a person in this state has a completely different brain.
03:01How did your parents react when they found out that you were having sex with a man?
03:04My parents laughed at first. They thought it was some kind of my new trick. As a child, I wanted to be a mutant, and now I want to be asexual.
03:13How did your parents react when they found out that you were having sex with a man?
03:17I wanted a family, honestly. But because of the situation around me, what I face every day, and so on, I can't believe in a person with whom I can have a family.
03:31How did your parents react when they found out that you were having sex with a man?
03:34I believe that asexuality will be perceived as normal. And in general, any orientation, except for heterosexual, will be perceived as normal. But now the main problem is that no one knows what it is.
03:49How did your parents react when they found out that you were having sex with a man?
03:51Don't identify yourself with your orientation. Don't try to correspond to it or something else. The most important thing is that you are absolutely normal, ordinary people. There is nothing wrong with the fact that you don't like to coalesce.