"I like my fat husband because I like you." Ram Kapoor shared why he turned to fitness even though people "accepted" him before his transformation.
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00:00Sir, because of you, my wife loves me. She doesn't want me to lose weight.
00:04For 15 years, I became as fat as I could be.
00:07So they saw me give up everything. Alcohol, smoking, everything.
00:11Kholayam has said that I do whatever I want to do.
00:16At that time, everyone was only focusing on looks, looks, looks.
00:22You used to roam around with your cute stomach.
00:25It wasn't cute. I mean, it was a planet.
00:30People used to ridicule you that the main hero is roaming around with a stomach.
00:36Do you think people could have ridiculed me?
00:39When you are that fat, 140 kilos, and you have a super hit show,
00:47where the country is loving you, how can they ridicule you?
00:51Fat people used to come to me and say,
00:54Sir, because of you, my wife loves me. She doesn't want me to lose weight.
00:58How sweet.
00:59Wives used to come and say,
01:01I like my fat husband because I like you.
01:05So, they accepted me. They really, really accepted me.
01:08In fact, you know what, when I said to a few people that I'm going to go on to this whole transformation,
01:14there were a few directors who said, Ram, you're taking a risk because your branding is damn strong.
01:18Which is true.
01:22In today's world, if you go back in the industry,
01:25how many people that are really, really huge are loved in terms of factors in the industry?
01:32Amjad Khan.
01:34Do you remember Amjad Khan?
01:35Of course, man.
01:37After that, how many?
01:39When I was ruling television, who else other than me was out of shape in any way?
01:44Nobody.
01:45Exactly.
01:46So, I was loved and accepted like that.
01:50So, then where the ridicule?
01:51They used to love, even now they say, we want you like that.
01:55Even now, sir, you're looking fantastic, but we want you like that.
01:58That is how much they loved me.
02:00For me, that's a huge compliment.
02:01I've done so much to transform myself, but when they're saying that,
02:04it's like, how much they loved me, man.
02:06That is, that should never be taken lightly.
02:08Because whatever I am, I'm because of them.
02:11But, I basically, I enjoyed the wave.
02:17See, I realized that people are loving me like this.
02:21So, I, for 15 years, I became as fat as I could, didn't care,
02:26and just worked, worked, worked, delivered what they wanted.
02:30But I said to myself that at some point, when I turn 50,
02:34I'm going to have to change completely.
02:37Not for my career, for myself.
02:39And to set the right example to my son.
02:42Because they have seen me give up everything in life the minute I want to.
02:47So, they saw me give up everything.
02:49Alcohol, smoking, everything.
02:52But when it came to getting fit, they saw me fail twice.
02:54Because I lost 30 kilos twice, and it came back on.
02:57Twice over 5 years.
02:59I lost 30 kilos twice out of willpower, and it came back on.
03:02They saw dad as failing in this twice.
03:05It bothered me that my son is watching me fail.
03:07I've never failed at anything else.
03:08I've openly said that whatever I want to do, I do.
03:11To him.
03:12So, I'm, that is why I'm so desperate.
03:14That is why I never take myself seriously.
03:17Because experience everything in life.
03:20Experience things that, that's scary.
03:23Because you learn.
03:24Experience things that make you uncomfortable.
03:27If you want to grow, get out of your comfort zone.
03:31Because in your comfort zone, you'll never grow.
03:33When you're out of your comfort zone, you grow.
03:35Which is why I grew so much when I went to America, and I was on my own.