Youth not Intrested on Marriage : పెళ్లి అందరికీ ఒక కల. డెస్టినేషన్ వెడ్డింగ్, వింటేజ్ వెడ్డింగ్, మోడ్రన్ వెడ్డింగ్. ఇలా పేరు ఏదైనా గమ్యం ఒక్కటే పెళ్లి. ఆ పెళ్లికి సరైన వయసంటూ ఒకటి ఉందండోయ్ చట్టప్రకారం అమ్మాయికి 18, అబ్బాయికి 21 ఏళ్లు పూర్తి అయితేగానీ చేయకూడదు. అయితే వయసు మూడు పదుల దగ్గరికి వస్తున్నా పెళ్లి వంక చూడకుండా కొంతమంది కెరీర్ బిల్డింగ్ అంటూ పరుగులు తీస్తున్నారు. వృత్తిపరంగా ఎదగడం సంతోషమే కానీ, అందుకు పెళ్లిని, సరైన వయసును త్యాగం చేస్తున్న వారి సంఖ్య పెరిగిపోతోంది. అసలు సరైన సమయంలో పెళ్లి ఎందుకు చేసుకోవాలి. చేసుకోకుంటే ఎలాంటి పర్యవసానాలు ఉంటాయి. శారీరక మానసిక ఆరోగ్యాలకు ఎలాంటి ఇబ్బందులు ఎదురవుతాయి.
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00:30I will do it in such a way that no one can do it till now.
00:33This is a word that a little rich father says seriously.
00:37But it is time for the parents to know what is in the mind of those children.
00:41Father, I will not get married now.
00:43I am only 25 years old, right?
00:45He said that he will get married after completing his career.
00:49Mother, why is father telling me to get married now?
00:52I have to earn a little.
00:53I have to stand on my feet.
00:55Then only marriage, said the princess in theory.
00:58Exactly such discourses are heard in many houses like this.
01:02We will get married, but not now.
01:05This condition is heard at home.
01:07The danger of not doing it now, not being able to give the clarity of when,
01:11along with creating a little disturbance to the parents,
01:14it creates the fear of how the future circumstances will be.
01:28Many youths who study well in metro cities and give priority to their careers and settle in good jobs are not interested in marriage.
01:39They are standing on their own feet and are waiting to get married with the desire to reach high positions.
01:44They do not get married at the age they should get married.
01:47By the time they settle, their age will be over 30.
01:50By the time they get a good job and get a good promotion and a good salary,
01:55many people will be 35 years old.
01:57They do not stop there.
01:58At that age, their search begins for those who are less fortunate, that is, those who are in their position or those who are in a higher position.
02:06In that search, if anyone is lucky, they get married immediately.
02:10But how many people are lucky?
02:13This is something to think about.
02:14In that, searching for such a good match, another 2-3 years pass by.
02:19By this time, the age of marriage will pass and the age to give birth to children will come.
02:23But by then, marriage is not possible.
02:25Okay, somehow got married.
02:26Then, when it comes to children,
02:28people are very strong before 30 years for the current lifestyle.
02:33Then, they are becoming very weak.
02:35Food, lifestyle, jobs, reasons for this.
02:38In the past few years, the childbirth rate in the country has been decreasing dramatically.
02:43According to the 2019-21 caste family survey data,
02:47the total childbirth rate in India is 2.0.
02:50Compared to the past, it has decreased.
02:52If this situation persists,
02:53the childbirth rate in India will fall to 1.29 by 2050.
02:59According to the 2024 March survey, by the permission of Lancet, it has decreased.
03:04In today's time, in every small town,
03:06the childbirth centers are called as Puttagodugulu.
03:09Generally, women and men are able to give birth at the age of 20 to 30 years.
03:15According to the doctors.
03:16Even after 30 years, there is no way to think about marriage.
03:19What do doctors think about children?
03:49Many people get married before 30 years due to the environment or the food we eat.
03:56For many reasons,
03:57people who give birth at the age of 40 do not get married before 30 years.
04:02If they get married, they think it is too late to go for children.
04:05Because of that, the understanding between husband and wife is not established.
04:08If they do not get pregnant at first,
04:10then they have to take various treatments for it.
04:14Because of the treatments,
04:16due to the artificial hormones,
04:19many health problems are found in women.
04:44They are demanding more job opportunities in the government.
04:48They are promising to provide government jobs to the parents.
04:51So, PG and PhD students are raising the opinion that it is too late to get married.
04:57Many people are trying to get government jobs even at the age of 35.
05:04Government jobs are very rare in our Telugu states.
05:08Because of the absence of government jobs, many people are mentally disturbed.
05:12They are not able to bear the pressure of the society.
05:15They are not able to get married.
05:16They are not able to earn a stable income.
05:18The youth prefer late marriages.
05:22One is higher education and the other is career.
05:24Many people prefer higher education,
05:29instead of degree, engineering, or passing exams.
05:32If you become an M.S.,
05:33you can go abroad and study well.
05:36If you settle well, you will have a good career.
05:38You will get a better job.
05:40Why are women getting married late?
05:43They have realized the oppression they have faced in their childhood.
05:49They want to start earning after they grow up.
05:54Now, girls are also equally competent with men.
05:57Generally, women have blood deficiency, iron deficiency, and vitamin D deficiency.
06:02It increases after the age of 30.
06:05Doctors say that after the age of 35,
06:08men face severe birth problems.
06:12So, mothers who are unwell at that time
06:15have to think about how to give birth to healthy children.
06:19On the other hand, IVF has become a habit.
06:23Doctors say that there will be good results only if it is done in a normal way.
06:27Parents have started judging their children from the 7th grade.
06:33Judging them,
06:35whether their son should get an IIT,
06:37MBBS,
06:39or become a C.A.,
06:41they have been pressurizing them since then.
06:44So, from the 7th grade,
06:46they have a feeling that their parents are judging them.
06:49So, after completing their engineering education,
06:53they have a feeling that their parents are still judging them.
06:57They prefer late marriages.
07:01They want a house, a flat,
07:03a salary of Rs. 6,000,
07:05a salary of more than Rs. 1,00,000 per month,
07:07and a good flat.
07:09So, they want to get married.
07:12Similarly, girls are also thinking the same way.
07:14If we compare it with the marriage bureau,
07:16the number of people who don't believe in the marriage bureau has increased.
07:19The marriage bureau says that
07:21girls think more about earning in the boy's house,
07:24and want to achieve their rights.
07:26Then, families say that they are looking at the property.
07:29So, it depends on the parents' decision.
07:31If the family is good,
07:34or if there is a good relationship
07:36with the children,
07:38at some point,
07:40they compromise and get married.
07:42But now,
07:45kids and adults
07:47don't like to compromise in many things.
07:49Why do we have to compromise?
07:51At that stage,
07:53they have to get married socially at this age.
07:56No one has that anxiety.
07:58Only if there is a good relationship,
08:00kids and adults will like to get married.
08:02By getting married late,
08:04the time between children also becomes difficult.
08:06With that, the father who reaches old age
08:09has to see his 15-year-old child.
08:11In the world,
08:13our country is very young.
08:15Instead of getting married at the right age,
08:17career and employment
08:20will not be useful.
08:22If that happens,
08:24the number of young people in the country
08:26will also increase.
08:28The difference between generations
08:30leads to problems.
08:33This is not only in human relations,
08:35but also in the economic situation of the country.
08:37Human resources will be reduced.
08:39To see the generation gap,
08:41scientists are saying.
08:57When young people say career building,
08:59parents are raising their own opinions.
09:01Young people say that
09:03getting married at a late age
09:05will give justice to their job.
09:08Parents are worried
09:10that they are missing the real joy of life.
09:12Doctors and nurses warn
09:14that getting married late
09:16will cause problems.
09:19It is true that
09:21to have a bright future,
09:23you have to work hard.
09:25In the future,
09:27young people should think
09:29about the doctors and nurses
09:32who are spending money on medicines.
09:34If husband and wife understand each other
09:36and overcome difficulties together,
09:38everything will be wonderful.