Dating etiquette: Mga dapat tandaan before and during ng date

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00:00For our KRSP John, who has a date this coming Valentine's Day,

00:05to make sure that your date will be memorable and for it to be repeated,

00:10you should know about the do's and don'ts of what is called a dating etiquette.

00:18You know, we really need that.

00:20I feel like I'm one of those don'ts.

00:22Don't go on a date.

00:24Don't date.

00:25But because of that, we have an image consultant, Ms. Jean Harn,

00:29who will teach us what to do and what not to do on a date.

00:34Welcome back, Ms. Jean. Welcome to Rise and Shine Philippines.

00:36Hello, good morning.

00:37Good morning.

00:38Hello, KRSP. Good morning to all of you.

00:40Very beautiful as always.

00:42Thank you for being with us this morning.

00:44Alright, here we go, Jean.

00:46What do you need to prepare before the date so that the date will be memorable?

00:52Do you also need to think about what to wear?

00:55Definitely, you have to think about the date and prepare for it.

00:59Number one, research about what do you guys like to do?

01:02What are the venues that you can go to?

01:05What are the activities that you both will enjoy?

01:08And definitely, the outfit.

01:10Of course, first impressions are last.

01:13And what we should wear will represent our personality on our date.

01:19It's also important that we consider the venue.

01:22As we said, when we go to a place, our comfort level should be there.

01:28So, it depends if it's formal or casual.

01:31What if you need to wear rubber shoes and heels?

01:35That's hard.

01:36How do you confirm that?

01:38Especially on the first date because you're very stiff.

01:40On the first date, you're trying to be cool.

01:42You want to be natural but you're becoming unnatural because it's the first time.

01:48So, what are the things that you should remember?

01:51How to act?

01:52Tell us everything about what's going to be happening on the first date.

01:56On the first date, number one, you have to be on time.

01:59It's very important to be punctual because it's still a first impression.

02:03And mind you, the first impression is only 5 seconds.

02:09We can get the first impression of the person.

02:12So, that's why appearance is important.

02:14And at the same time, being on time.

02:16And at the same time, the respect and the gesture.

02:19What is the gesture?

02:20Body language is important.

02:22You greet the person with a smile, a kiss, or a handshake.

02:26Depending on our nationality.

02:29In the Philippine setting, a kiss is fine.

02:32But I would also like to share a handshake.

02:34If you do the handshake, typically, Filipinos do the handshake like this.

02:37Okay.

02:38But the handshake should be very close.

02:42Yes.

02:43Okay.

02:44So, it should be like that.

02:45It should be web-to-web.

02:47Don't be shy.

02:48Sometimes, we think that it's embarrassing.

02:50But the more we are shy, the more it shows disrespect.

02:54And also, at the same time, the kisses.

02:57One of the tips that I would like to share with you is

02:59sometimes, we get emotional when we kiss.

03:01Yes.

03:02So, maybe one of the tips I would share is

03:04when you do the kiss, you move forward.

03:06And highlighting that women,

03:09this is one of the things that are not being discussed.

03:14Women are the first ones to give the handshake.

03:16And to also give the kiss.

03:19You might want to ask why.

03:21Oh, why?

03:22Yes.

03:23Because, of course, it's a consent.

03:24Women are giving the consent first.

03:26So, being a gentleman, we say, ladies first.

03:30Ladies first.

03:31That's where it comes from.

03:32Ladies are the first ones to give their consent for the physical touch.

03:37Okay.

03:38And during the date, it's also very important that we listen attentively.

03:43Okay.

03:44Sometimes, there are things to look at somewhere else.

03:46It's also very important to note those things.

03:49Oh, and the cellphone.

03:50Oh, yes.

03:51Cellphones off the table.

03:53Not only for dating etiquette,

03:55friends, it's also part of the table manners.

03:58And also, of course, the basic etiquette.

04:01The cellphone should be out of the table,

04:03especially when you're dining already.

04:05Okay.

04:06Well, in terms of conversation,

04:08how should we talk?

04:10There.

04:11Conversation, it has to be two-way.

04:13Sometimes, there are people,

04:14I'm so clumsy.

04:16Some people, they over-talk, over-share.

04:19So, that's very important to note,

04:21especially on the first date,

04:22you're getting to know each other.

04:23So, the question and answer should be both of you.

04:26Okay.

04:27And also, ask questions that are not political,

04:31not about religion, not controversial.

04:34Something that's going to be debatable.

04:37And past relationships, on the first date,

04:39please don't discuss it yet.

04:41Oh, someone is relating.

04:43Okay.

04:44No, it's a friend.

04:45Oh, it's a friend.

04:46Because, of course, you want light.

04:48The conversation should be loud.

04:50About you, about your personality.

04:53Exploratory stage.

04:54And be open about yourself authentically.

04:57You mentioned earlier,

04:58of course, you want to be relaxed.

05:00The only time to be relaxed,

05:02or the only way to be relaxed,

05:03is when you are being yourself.

05:06So, be true to yourself.

05:08But also, I would like to highlight,

05:10being true, some people would misinterpret it

05:13as being whatever they are.

05:16Very blunt, very loud.

05:21If that's really you,

05:22you can tone it down a bit on the first date.

05:24So, of course, it's not sudden.

05:26Because sometimes, for example,

05:28you're not close.

05:30Or some just met, let's say,

05:32on an online platform,

05:33it's their first time meeting.

05:35And the person doesn't know you yet, 100%.

05:37So, let's be calm on the first date.

05:40Ms. Gina, this issue is very important.

05:43I can see it even on Instagram Reels.

05:46Not just here in the Philippines,

05:48but I think it's a global issue.

05:50Paying the bill.

05:52Who should pay the bill?

05:55It's gonna be a deal breaker for some.

05:58Exactly.

05:59So, there is a norm

06:03that the person who invited

06:05or who asked for the date

06:07would be the host.

06:08And the host usually is the one

06:10to pay for the bill.

06:11Nowadays, we're not just locked into

06:14men inviting.

06:15Women can invite.

06:17That's also okay.

06:19But, if ever,

06:21of course, typically, the guys will invite.

06:24Definitely, the guy would be paying.

06:26But definitely, the girl can also offer.

06:29They can offer.

06:31Let's consider also,

06:33ladies, this is an important tip.

06:35As well for me, when I was a single lady.

06:37Guys will appreciate a girl or a lady

06:40who also offers to pay

06:42or even splits the bill.

06:44It should not be an issue nowadays.

06:46And let's also consider what factors

06:48the guy could be.

06:50A student, or a new employee,

06:53or the salary is not that high.

06:55Let's not...

06:57Let's not underestimate the guys

06:59who can't afford it.

07:01And by the way, in terms of ordering,

07:04some people also, it becomes an issue.

07:06What should I order?

07:07Is it expensive or cheap?

07:08We have to consider,

07:09the host will take the lead.

07:11Ask the host,

07:12what are you planning to order?

07:14If the line of ordering is expensive,

07:17you can go to that line.

07:19But, if it's not given,

07:21you can start in the middle.

07:23If the price range is in the middle,

07:26and he said it's in the lower range,

07:28you know what,

07:29it looks like he can afford the date lower.

07:31Then you follow the lead.

07:33Follow the lead.

07:34Because if it's too expensive,

07:36of course, he'll have a hard time.

07:37But if it's too low,

07:39compared to the high rate he gave,

07:41you're underestimating the capability

07:43of your host.

07:44So there are also adjustments.

07:46Yes.

07:47You just need to be careful.

07:48Maybe later,

07:49the good guy on the date,

07:50he has a wife.

07:52Those are the red flags.

07:54You also have to look for the red flags.

07:57It's also very important.

07:59We still have a lot to ask.

08:01But it's very interesting.

08:03We've learned a lot of do's and don'ts.

08:06The etiquette is very timely.

08:08Because there are a lot of factors now.

08:10Women empowerment,

08:11power relations.

08:13But etiquette is the basis.

08:15Especially,

08:16the most important thing is that you have a date.

08:18Yes.

08:19But if you're in the don'ts,

08:22don't show up.

08:23Heavy traffic.

08:24Yes.

08:25It's still Friday.

08:26Maybe this is the last message.

08:27Sure.

08:28And social media accounts.

08:29Oh yes.

08:30Please follow me on my social media accounts.

08:32It's at jeanharn.

08:33That's J-E-A-N-N-E-H-A-R-N.

08:35And also,

08:36my school,

08:37Imahi Academy.

08:38We're also launching our summer classes.

08:40So please watch out for that.

08:41Alright.

08:42Thank you very much,

08:43Ms. Jeanharn,

08:44for joining us this morning.

08:46Stay safe.

08:47See you again.

08:48You as well.

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