According to Kevin Dasom, love bombing is one of the signs of a love scam where there are intense and hasty expressions of affection in a relationship. So his advice to anyone experiencing this online, immediately cut off the one you're talking to.
'Binibining Marikit' airs Monday to Saturday, 2:30 p.m., on GMA and Kapuso Stream.
'Binibining Marikit' airs Monday to Saturday, 2:30 p.m., on GMA and Kapuso Stream.
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00:00Hello everyone, I am Kevin Dasom
00:02playing Matthew Smith in the teleseries
00:04Filipini Marikit
00:06and the topic of today is
00:08advice about love
00:12First of all, I'm not a therapist
00:14and I do not believe I'm qualified
00:16to give advice about love because I believe
00:18every situation is unique
00:20everyone goes through this journey of
00:22life and love
00:24individually or with someone else
00:26but I do have a couple things like regarding the
00:28series, let's say
00:30how to spot a scam
00:32for today's generation
00:34they would say like red flags
00:36I don't use that red flag term
00:38because I don't like it, it's not my
00:40gen, I don't believe in it
00:42so I'll just talk about how to identify a scam
00:44first one is they don't actually send
00:46live photos or they don't actually video
00:48call or they just do a whole
00:50bunch of love bombing and a whole bunch of
00:52love bombing is like, oh my god
00:54you're so amazing, you're so beautiful, you're wonderful
00:56they just throw out
00:58they over compliment you and they don't
01:00say anything like real
01:02because they've never met you before
01:04they don't know who you are but they just love bomb you
01:06out of nowhere and it's insane
01:08in my opinion, this is wrong
01:10when they start doing that
01:12it's social media, cut them off, block them
01:14right away
01:16next thing, regarding my character
01:18without spoiling too much, Matthew Smith is going
01:20through and just went through
01:22a massive breakup, basically
01:24the love of his life, his childhood
01:26sweetheart and they just separated
01:28before they got married
01:30in that sense, a difficult time for
01:32Matthew, it's a new environment, he doesn't know
01:34what to do, how to react, what to say
01:36because that's a new environment for him
01:38so he's kind of learning the process
01:40of how to get over a breakup
01:42especially one that was so important
01:44to him, you know, he thought that she was
01:46the only one and the one in his life
01:48a lot of people go through it
01:50give yourself time to go through
01:52these things, let yourself feel hurt
01:54let yourself feel confused, angry
01:56frustrated, all these negative feelings
01:58that you have going on during
02:00these moments, let yourself feel them
02:02don't get caught up and say
02:04oh I don't have to, why do I feel this way
02:06no, no, let yourself go, be human about it
02:08let yourself go through these
02:10and grow through these things
02:12make mistakes early so you can learn
02:14from your mistakes quickly
02:16if you don't make mistakes, you're not really learning
02:18and then of course you can learn without
02:20making mistakes but it's always good to
02:22learn through failure, look beyond
02:24the horizon or at least try to look beyond the horizon
02:26now that's it, my two advices
02:28how to spot a scam, the other thing is when you go
02:30through a breakup, let yourself feel these
02:32feelings, do not self-destruct
02:34that's the proper term I think, do not turn
02:36to alcohol, do not do verbal
02:38or physical or emotional abuse
02:40towards yourself or towards anyone
02:42do not project it onto anyone
02:44try to navigate through it naturally