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00:00I don't know what you're trying to do just to put in your mouth. That's it man. Oh my god
00:06Little baby
00:14I'm gonna show you some never before seen footage. Yay
00:23Rob what was your moment when we were long distance?
00:26I feel like the first girl to reach out to me and send me inappropriate things changed everything
00:31My reasons were not that for running away from him
00:36The top one is on my birthday
00:39When he took me to a fast-food place and I said, can I get some rice?
00:43He goes up there comes back and I said, where's my ranch? It was a dollar so
00:47Can't have it
00:50He
00:53Said he'd never done anything to get to you. You never did nothing wrong
00:57The group wants answers now. They're a part of this
01:00We don't wanna open ourselves in front of people that don't take this seriously. I'm not comfortable
01:06Let's go why we can let them open up to themselves this idea if you will of trauma bonding these bad
01:12Traumatic situations that are happening. That's when they're able to come together
01:16But we're still not doing the work we're avoiding it
01:30I think I'd rather eat a blackened potato
01:33And you are blaming me for
01:37Julieta you gave her the darkest
01:46He's been texting women the whole time during this resort
01:52So you should go and face him and let everybody know who Rob really is
01:59that was like the beginning of the end for me ever with Jasmine because I could feel that Jasmine was in Sophie's ear that whole
02:05Morning, and I just felt like Jasmine was the puppeteer. That's our marriage and Jasmine's treating it like a game
02:16Let's watch some clips
02:46Discussing your hypnotherapy. Oh, that's not fun. You clean I
02:54Meet my ex in the end we plan to be thinking to go back to each other
03:00You shit it be kissing and that's cheating
03:05To be honest, it's hard to watch all the time us
03:07I will be watch somebody else like over over but when you watching yourself, it's like that is so painful
03:16We have just relationship in a long distance. We're not see each other for four or five months
03:20And I think it is nothing serious. We meet couple times and I think you you never come back and that's it
03:26It wasn't my attention to hurt him is
03:29my attention to save our marriage to start fresh and let everything go and
03:34Forgive and forget each other for everything what we done before and start our family will be crow
03:41I
03:46Feel like if she did just kiss the guy she should have just like buried it never brought it up again
03:50Clearly she felt guilty not to bring it up. She's trying to get their guilty conscience clear at my expense
03:57It's in can not serious relationship is gonna be just dating can anything can and I never think and I will be moved to here
04:05I felt like it wasn't relevant to your dynamic as a couple
04:09I feel like it actually created more problems than two. Oh, she kept bringing it up
04:13She kept I kept finding all this it out and it kept making things worse and worse
04:18But this was while you were long-distance and you were kind of on and off
04:22No, he were engaged. Oh
04:26Yeah, she should just die with that one
04:29Yeah, I was kind of on the fence with that though like I kind of want to feel that way and just
04:36Let me live in a fool's paradise
04:38We're here to fix things not make things worse I think this is just nothing serious I
04:46Think she's being selfish honestly by sharing it now
04:50Her and Brandon do actually have a good loving relationship
04:54There really is no reason to go into the past and dig something up to destroy that relationship
05:00She's just trying to make herself feel better because she's not it's not gonna make Brandon feel better
05:05He would have never known so I just felt like that's why it was
05:09Kind of bull. I see what you're saying. Yeah, but I also I feel like
05:14Brandon deserves to know I would always wonder if there was something more and I would pick it apart and pick it apart and I
05:20Would never be satisfied thinking like oh, that's it
05:23Like I would be wondering what were they thinking at the time and where did it happen?
05:26And what clothes were they wearing in and what did they feel and all that stuff?
05:30And so it would have been detrimental to me to know it you're saying cuz I do that like no
05:35You know the situation I was like, I wanted to know every little detail
05:39We will focus on this in private
05:42with you to
05:45Brandon
05:47Brandon was probably very confused at why this came out in a public setting in a group setting rather than
05:53During an individual session with those two
05:55I think that we all have a tendency to be selfish especially when it comes to our emotions and our partners our intimate life
06:02However, I think that there's a deeper underlying purpose for Julia doing that and that is the desire to
06:09Do whatever it takes to have a healthy strong marriage and I think oftentimes Julia has had a tendency to
06:17Be more impulsive with when she feels something
06:21She needs to feel better in that moment and that was one of those moments where she just needed to free herself
06:26But it's because she cares about their relationship
06:30So it's selfish and it's selfless all at the same time
06:34All right, Josh. We're gonna watch your hypnotherapy now. Oh boy. Is she doing yoga? I
06:40Think she's meditating. Yeah, I never could tell what she's thinking cuz it's like I mean either
06:45she's got a smirk and then like
06:48What was your moment Josh? Um, I
06:52Don't really have a moment
06:54That is so I hated this part
06:57She sees like he doesn't give and I'm sitting there whole like an uncomfortable emotional
07:03Do you feel as though you've never done anything to hurt Natalie?
07:07Like I couldn't really think of anything that I like couldn't justify the actions that had happened
07:14I was hoping he would apologize for not wants to be committed to me
07:19Mm-hmm for stringing me around for three years
07:24Without any plants for not putting me into his future plans for not spending holidays with me for not showing his house
07:31For not letting me into his life for not letting me into his work for calling me crazy and all over the place and still say
07:40To me that he loves me and it's not true. He was just acting like an ass and he deserves to be kicking the balls. Yeah
07:49Without receiving an apology for that
07:53Sometimes we do things unintentionally that I mean the only like time that she's like really been upset recently is this whole
08:00Sophie and Vegas and then I like replay it and what I
08:05You know do something different there. I
08:09Mean
08:12No
08:14Josh definitely thinks he's perfect. Josh thinks he's just the best guy ever and like it does not smell
08:20He does not smell. Oh my god. That's perfect expression. Jesus Christ
08:26No, it's like a saying like you think it doesn't stink like oh my god. That's so cool expression
08:36Okay
08:38I'm just saying like there's never been a time like I've felt personally since we've been together at all that I've been like
08:43I'm so sorry that I did that
08:45I think that this might have been his almost last effort to stay just to be able to say to himself
08:52I have tried everything just to have that box to check off of right? It's sad for Natalie because
09:00You can see
09:02Well, you can see that she feels it. She was so there for the work the healing and there was so much hope
09:09I think that she had to say yes, here we are
09:12We're gonna come to professionals who can help us and maybe this will be the answer
09:18Thank you. I love your honesty
09:22We are going to watch Sophie and Rob's
09:26OG
09:28Rob what was your moment? I went back to when we were long-distance and
09:33Those you know the first girl to reach out to me and sending me inappropriate things
09:38I feel like Rob did nothing wrong
09:41Because she also has like affair with Josh through Internet
09:47Going to Vegas and all of that. Why don't we accuse her and cheating through Internet with my man?
09:54You're saying that Sophie online cheating. Oh, yes
10:01I don't think that that's what happened on Sophie's part
10:05But I think that that was Josh intention
10:10That's what he was expecting. You know, yeah, I was expecting a Zubin. Yeah
10:16I'm really sorry that I
10:20Started that because I
10:24Feel like it changed everything I was really disappointed in Rob's apology because
10:29He has apologized for the online cheating a lot of times
10:32We've talked about it a lot of times and
10:34We came to the resort because of other issues not because of the online cheating
10:38It was like every time he has an opportunity to make progress
10:41He doesn't and then I all up when I did that
10:47So, I'm sorry my reasons were not that for running away from him
10:51My I have a list of reasons and he just doesn't want to acknowledge them
10:59Just I mean
11:01Being very disrespectful to my family and he never really sees that he did treat me like
11:08You're my wife. Now. You're cooking you clean and you should be grateful. I brought you here to America and
11:13You don't need dates because that's spoiled
11:16But the top one is on my birthday when he took me to a fast-food place my birthday
11:22But I get it like he doesn't have this much money at the time. That's okay
11:25I was grateful you brought me to the fast-food place. We were sat
11:30Eat our chicken burger and I said, can I get some rush? He goes up there comes back and I said, where's my ranch?
11:34It was a dollar so you can't have it
11:38That really upsets and he never sees it as I'm sorry. I should have bought it. He just sees it as it's spoiled
11:44You can't spend $1 on your new wife for ranch
11:49$1 for my birthday and you know how made me feel. It's like I'm not even worth a dollar on my birthday
11:56Now
12:04I'm ready. Let's go. Okay. Wait, look good. You look good, too
12:15Do you know what a s'more is I
12:18Think I do
12:20You never had a s'more. I mean, I know that I just I watching the movie
12:23I never tried. You've never tried it. Yeah
12:26We have graham crackers. You have marshmallows and chocolate not every time
12:31Chocolate should be on your nipple
12:34Sometime people eat chocolate
12:37So we're gonna take the graham. Yeah, right then you're gonna take your mallow
12:41We're gonna roast our marshmallow. I love roasting marshmallows. You just say you hate
12:47This reminds me of camping when I was camping with Jasmine when she was sucking my toes
12:53I'm not you ever do something like that. No
12:56Why I have to suck toes
12:58Would you like to try?
13:00Go for me. I'll put marshmallow and chocolate on
13:10How about you eat it
13:13Look at how juicy it is
13:17You're gonna put your mallow on your cracker there
13:23Oh
13:27Heaven really I think it's so sweet
13:32The green part doesn't make you American this makes you American. Yeah, okay
13:41You're more American than me you're more American than apple pie
13:46Okay
13:49Jasmine we're gonna now watch your hypnotherapy with Gino if not therapy Jasmine. What was your moment on?
13:57It was actually something that happened a long time ago
14:03It was supposed to be our first Christmas in the United States and we have a very black argument that day and I ended up
14:12Spending Christmas by myself on a cheap hotel room
14:17Ridiculous. I am very sorry. I
14:21was learning about my apology, but the saddest part of the story is that I
14:27Was brainwashed but you know, I never abandoned him for Christmas
14:32See it didn't actually happen. It never happened
14:34So he has said that story so many times and had accused me of doing that that I ended up believing it
14:40You've never spent Christmas on a moat in a hotel
14:43No, we were invited to his family's house and I went and he stayed
14:49Home alone
14:51Masturbating and watching American football Merry Christmas, and I even have pictures that prove it. Let me show you
14:59Because I was like apologizing and I told his family I said I darling what you're talking about
15:04Do you know he's the one that never show up? Yeah, that's clearly Christmas. Yeah
15:08Yeah, look at the day data doesn't lie Jesus Christ, hold on if that if you never actually went to a hotel a hotel
15:15That's like next level
15:20Yeah, that's scary and that's how much control he has on my mind that's like if you told me that story
15:25We were friends and you called me up and you told me that I'd be like Jasmine get the fuck out of the house
15:29I know
15:30Geno is a master manipulator. He's also a master masturbator. He's a master manipulator and masturbator
15:38It's okay
15:46That's beautiful
15:48Thank you
15:50In her interviews Jasmine claims that she took a cab to your family and that she was actually there for Christmas
15:58Or is that true, okay
16:02That is not true
16:04now I
16:06Jasmine might it might have ended up at
16:09My cousin's house for on Christmas, but I had no idea she was there and I didn't I never went over
16:18To my family's for Christmas. I did not see Jasmine on Christmas. This is our first Christmas together
16:24Why she's not spending Christmas with me
16:29Geno did you find a moment that you remember hurting Jasmine?
16:34Uh, yeah, are you open to sharing it with us? I'd rather not
16:39Sorry
16:40You like put yourself out there very nice. Oh, and he's just like, you know what? I was
16:46He turned into Josh
16:50What is it like I have her like all the cheating apologies and I haven't heard from my husband I
16:57wish you know had
16:59apologized for
17:02Blaming me all the time for issues in our marriage as simple as that
17:06That'd be a big moment because that would be him admitting that he also I may say he's at fault, you know
17:12No, because he's the only other person who could have had been the issue, you know, I
17:18Felt bad
17:19you know, you know and sometimes Jasmine and I will fight and I
17:24Said we'll just go back to Panama. I think it's more deep in that. I think he's lying
17:30Yeah, you know change his mind he's never the pelvis truth, come on, you know, I know these people to toe to the head
17:38People think you is honest. It's citizen. It's innocent guy, you know
17:44Geno is not like semi-innocent what people think
17:48Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope
17:51But he has said the worst things of that like you have said things like you're trash
17:57Like I don't want to sleep with you because you don't know how to I think that the idea is that this is a safe
18:03Space so that's what these therapists are trying to get us to believe
18:07But Gino knows this is not a safe space because they're not gonna save him from Jasmine as soon as they leave
18:14I think it's low-key. He's low-key afraid of Jasmine. Damn. So she was gonna like yeah
18:19I think she's like you better say the right thing. You're gonna get it later. Yep. Yep
18:24The reason I respond like that as you say
18:27hurtful things to me first and then I respond back is how it always is and that's the part that I really want to to
18:33help you understand is that you have the option to stay in your seat and
18:38Not have to respond back with things that you may regret later. I think Jasmine's heart is pure. So
18:46You know, I think you have one pure person here and to be honest with you from my evaluation
18:53Someone who's keeping a lot of secrets like the way the Gino was and his secrets about you know, how they think or
18:59Maybe what they've done or what they're feeling whatever that may be and that is a dangerous
19:05thing to be with in a relationship
19:08None of us really know who Gino is and to be in an intimate space with somebody that you don't even know who they are
19:16That is very concerning. It makes me wonder. What is he hiding?
19:23The next one
19:26Yes, please yes
19:29Water water water water for my boy here. You have another one. No, no, no
19:36No, no, no, I know I know I get back for what cuz I don't want you to squirt it in my face
19:41I'm not stupid. I don't play with the water. No, no
19:46What I don't know what you're trying to do just to put in your mouth, that's it
19:50Can I do it? No weird. No, it's weird to give you water. Oh my god
20:06All right, ladies now you're gonna watch everyone enjoying some campfire food and it includes some never-before-seen footage
20:20There's so much
20:36There's so much
20:38On that damn potato. I'm sitting there is weird face and put that potato look at my face
20:43And nobody points at it. Everybody's fun watching them, you know secretly laughing because like nobody's like Natalie, honey
20:49Go to bathroom clean your face, you know, so I'm a Canadian sitting with a dirty face like it's like a pig
20:55You know and explaining myself
20:57Who's this corn?
20:59You are
21:04Catch up on corn. There's the ketchup on corn
21:14I
21:23Think I'd rather eat a blackened potato. I think it would taste better. What the heck do you have against ketchup?
21:29I'm telling you ketchup and corn clashes the two things do two
21:34Separate things in my mouth. I can't go freaking good
21:37And you're blaming me for ketchup. What?
21:40I
21:42Julia told me you gave her the darkest
21:48What the darkest?
21:50the dark kiss
21:53I
21:56Know all your secrets I have how many do they call you at the Rim Reaper?
22:07I'm getting my corn
22:10Look
22:12To be honest, I want to try because I like ketchup. I like corn, but I want to try to eat kids
22:17Yeah, that's even so bad
22:19You said this guy's got my pizza second ago, but it's so good. No corn and ketchup is disgusting. I want to try no
22:27Never never much
22:29$1,000
22:30Yeah
22:32Well Sophie today's your lucky day we have corn and ketchup
22:38Let's see what the big deal is
22:40Corn I would catch up with ketchup. Yeah. Well, this is terrible
22:47My god, you set me up
22:50I'm gonna put little no and I just need them. That's disgusting. No, you put so much on mine
22:56Are you ready to see what Jasmine is raving about? Yeah, okay
23:10Here we go, okay say when oh
23:14Yeah, come on yeah, yes man, I feel like you should just tell me how it is
23:21Cheers to Jasmine and Gina
23:23I
23:45Like it that's too much sweets, it's like two flavors fighting each other the corn is better without the ketchup
23:54That's
23:57Disgusting
23:58How would anyone eat that?
24:01All right, can I just like
24:03Get that off of my corn so I can eat the rest of it. Yeah, that's nasty. You had the whole thing
24:10You're sick in the head
24:12Josh this next scene has some bonus footage in it that didn't make it in the show
24:17It's at camping when you explain yourself to the others. Oh
24:22Of course it's deleted if I get to explain myself
24:27Hey Natalie, I'm curious he said he'd never done anything
24:31To get to you. He never did anything
24:34He never did nothing wrong
24:36You respond
24:39Yeah, Josh that was an easy assignment all you had to say was I'm sorry if I ever spoke to you in a way that
24:43Hurt your feelings
24:46Yeah, I don't want to punch him I don't really care if I'm gonna give an apology like I want it to mean something
24:53I don't want to just apologize for everything just because
24:58Thank
25:01Sometimes I feel like Josh is very sadistic and he says things just because
25:06He's not very emotionally intelligent or maybe he is and he's using that against you. I don't know
25:12Well, I mean a lot was not the bottle
25:15Like I feel like we do not lift each other up, but we destroy each other we beat each other up and it feels like
25:22We're not building anything. We're not trying to build healthy relationship, but we're trying to
25:27Take our dirty laundry and show to each other and insult each other and make it even worse than it is
25:33And you know like from Josh, I do not feel like
25:37Basic respect, but I was I thought it was like a traumatic like, you know where I was like really in the wrong
25:45Even something small for Natalie would have been huge and so like I regret doing that, but I'm also like
25:52Apologizing for air at this at this retreat, you know
25:55So it's like I just don't want to get into this pattern of just having to say sorry five times a day
26:01Even though I'm not sorry that loses the meaning of it, you know
26:05Do you think that it has to do with the fact that you don't see this woman as your partner?
26:10Exactly we're trying to be in a committed relationship together, but he doesn't look at you as a partner
26:16Well, that's not what I said. That's what I understood
26:24I think that Natalie at that point had just given up, you know her
26:30self-esteem
26:32When it come to her relationship with Josh was so low minus zero that she will say whatever like treat me
26:38Whatever you want, but don't leave me
26:41That is sad and I've been there
26:43Okay, I've been in
26:45relationships like that and that's why it's really frustrated me to see
26:51Natalie wasting her time it never and well, it never does
26:56What I hear is you're saying you care for Natalie, but you don't love Natalie great reflection Stacey
27:03Do you think I would do all these things if I didn't love her?
27:06Okay saying actions speak louder than words, but we're asking for something different in this moment
27:10I mean, it's a game. Well, if it's a game who wins is great. It's not this is not a game
27:16This is serious therapy like this isn't yeah and being married. It's a serious
27:22Seeing how Jasmine reacts seeing how Stacey reacts and they're trying to sort through things and get clarification
27:28The group wants answers now. They're a part of this. They've been a part of the work. Let's talk about someone else
27:34No, but we don't wanna open ourselves in front of people that don't take this
27:43So they can open up well, let's go it's almost
27:46Fascinating that it's this idea if you will of trauma bonding when it's these these negative bad
27:54Traumatic situations that are happening. That's when they're able to come together. We can let them we can let them open up for themselves
28:00I
28:03Think it would have played out differently for Natalie and Josh to be more open and vulnerable to challenge themselves
28:10And to show up for themselves as well as the group
28:14So kudos to them for having a connection in a moment to say we're gonna we're gonna go off together
28:20But we're still not doing the work. We're avoiding it
28:26I
28:27Don't know why Jasmine just doesn't leave Gino. She told me she's not have a lot of money in his bank account
28:32I just realized that that's why she's keeping Gino around because he's paying for everything
28:35Yeah
28:36I feel like she wants the best of both worlds like she doesn't really want you know
28:39But she wants him they're like for financial support and to pay for her things in Russia. We call this
28:43It is enough with it fish
28:52So very good
28:55It's yes for my life you really say that
28:59Stacy we are going to watch some never-before-seen footage. There wasn't time into the actual episodes
29:05So we will have you watch it right now. Okay?
29:08Florian scorpion, right? Oh
29:12boy
29:17Where you going don't leave me I need to go pee
29:20I
29:27Look so uncomfortable
29:50Oh
30:07Holy is that real? Yeah real bad. Oh
30:15He's throwing a scorpion at me
30:17That scorpion was pretty scary. Let's hear you with us. We're gonna die to me. Yeah, I thought it was freaking real
30:25I thought it's freaking real
30:29I was terrified dude. I thought that was real besties are fighting with the scorpion. Um
30:37She's a troublemaker. Oh, it does look real
30:41I
30:44Think the prank was funny. I think the scorpion prank was funny. Yeah, he did a great job
30:48Like he's definitely an easy target for a prank even, you know to like, you know, you just see film it like in the like in
30:55The movie
31:05He was playing with it all night
31:07He was like, he kept bringing that freaking scorpion in all night like scaring me with it inside the tent. Oh
31:13God flashbacks
31:19All right, this next clip is an extended never-before-seen
31:23I love the extended never-seen-before
31:30Thank you for building a wall between I just wanted to hug you
31:36This is exactly the same reason why I don't want to sleep on the same bed with you
31:41Okay, this is what like what you do when I'm sleeping with you and I refuse to be rejected and really like
31:48Yeah, but that's gonna kill our bond because you are killing the bond
31:54That night during camping. It was the first time in months that we were sharing
31:59basically the same bed and
32:01unfortunately, you know decided to build up a wall of
32:05Luggage between us just because I was cuddling and rubbing his belly
32:11I would do that if I had to share my tent with any other person from this retreat or my husband
32:19you know the man I
32:22Move from my home country
32:25to another
32:26Complete different culture just to be with him after we overcame long distance
32:33Now you are the one putting this time between us
32:38It's so sad
32:40You want to go to zero to a hundred but you're my husband. I we have two different opinions
32:46You have a different it's not about opinions. It's about facts
32:50It was pretty awkward to get in the tent with Jasmine first of all because she had hasn't slept in the same bed with me
32:56For several months, but it was her decision not to sleep in the same bed as me at home
33:01So not only did we have like an emotional wall between us now
33:05We have a physical wall in our tent, but that's mostly to keep Jasmine comfortable because she does not want to sleep in the same
33:11Bed with me. Why would she want to sleep in the same tent with me sleeping on the same space or not?
33:16Makes no difference because at the end even when we are together we are separated
33:23Well, you're the one that pulled the suitcases between us because I wanted to kiss you and you were pushing me
33:32Jasmine has every opportunity to knock that wall down and
33:36Say hey, let's get rid of this wall and and try to work on sleep, you know sleeping in the same space together
33:44But I didn't see her do that
33:47Never mind
33:49Never mind
33:52She wasn't working on any of the issues I told her to it was easier for her just to say hey
33:57I want to have an open marriage because you're not willing to be intimate with me
34:02But she's not willing to try to work on the issues. I told her we're not gonna know. How are we gonna make any progress?
34:09All right guys, you've tried Jasmine's weird food combo now, let's try some of yours
34:15So when Vinny came to America for the first time before he met me he
34:19Tried ranch dressing for the first time he fell in love with it and he would dip everything and even his cookies
34:24Oh my god, it's not tasty. Can you show me how he does it you bitch?
34:31You're gonna eat this first
34:33You bitch
34:35You're gonna eat this first
34:39No, we have Marmite in England and it's so good like
34:43British people love Marmite. Okay, I'm sorry. I've had it. I'm from England
34:50I've had it a lot. You know me try
34:53No, this is my country's food. You're gonna disrespect my country
34:57Brandon, you know how Julia has so many times, but she's an onion like an apple
35:03Yeah, she does. She loves them
35:07Oh, I do not even like eat some like apples not Brandon
35:21Okay, I
35:28Think they're not compatible together like you and Benny
35:33I
35:40Try and you try
35:49Okay, I look at you immediately like I'm immediately like yeah
36:03I hate my mind this one. I want to cheers you on brother. Cheers. Good luck. Okay
36:18We're deep in there. Mm-hmm. Oh my god. Hold on
36:27Why they're so hot, uh-huh, right? Oh my brain is so hot
36:33Mm-hmm
36:41My brain just started like burning
36:4690-day fear factor
36:51All right, Sophie in this next clip you show Rob's text to Jasmine Oh God, this is all good
36:57What's up boys
37:00Good morning, beautiful
37:03You're not joining us for breakfast
37:06Basically, like a lot of things have been happening with Rob. I
37:10Saw on his phone
37:11That he's been texting women the whole time during this resort
37:18There was a few times while we're at the retreat when Rob was just on his phone and I could see him actively texting other
37:23See him actively texting other women and then I'd seen it again the night before so at that point I just had enough
37:28I mean Rob had just apologized for doing that the day before it just felt like
37:34Very fake very disingenuine very disrespectful. Like he always prioritizes
37:39Attention from every other woman but me like we literally at this resort
37:43You can't put them on hold for a moment while we try and fix our marriage
37:47It makes me think even if we do work out those girls are always gonna be in his phone because I'm not enough
37:52Yeah, he's still all that that I left him over he's still doing it. Oh also I found this
38:00That's right
38:03Sophie pull out the receipts and I read it and she was right. It was a bunch of girls
38:10He was talking to
38:11it was on social media and I
38:15Mean he was not texting the way
38:19Married men should be texting any other female, you know
38:24It's like when you're getting to know different people and you still don't have like a specific love interest
38:32But he was you know, just fishing trying to see what fish I can catch
38:39During therapy like
38:42He's not trying still doing all that. He apologized yesterday for that
38:47The moment that Sophie showed
38:49Jasmine the text messages is the instant a new sort of hypnosis started to happen
38:55because hypnosis happens when we hear things in repetition or we hear things in a heightened emotional state or we hear things from our
39:03peers that are very
39:05Loud and in that moment when Jasmine joined her in that
39:12Drama in her feelings
39:14They were hypnotizing each other to be more and more heightened angry
39:20even spiteful
39:22and it's in that moment where it's almost like
39:25Watch out because in that state nothing good comes from it
39:31You're down to be adventurous let's explore
39:37So
39:40You should go and face him and let everybody know
39:44Rob really is that was like the beginning of the end for me ever
39:48Jasmine because I could feel that Jasmine was in Sophie's ear that whole morning and I could and I just felt like
39:53Jasmine was the puppeteer
39:55That's why
39:57Jasmine because that was that that's our marriage and Jasmine's treating it like a game
40:02Like she is trying to make me the enemy and here I am fighting for our relationship
40:09That's not why I came here I didn't come to the resort for that
40:14Next time on between the sheets
40:17Fortunately for turn about that just just in here. Yes. I want to hear okay, because I don't like to be touched
40:22Well, you don't like to touch me. Well, you're not love me. What why do I do? I can't I can't sleep. Okay, okay
40:33When you were still in Russia you're working at that resort kind of talking to a guy
40:37So he doesn't know either for the guy. No, I
40:41Don't know did he really wants to know or he just saying I want to know
40:49Know your mom's a crackhead. That's why she don't like me. I
40:53Don't care anymore about protecting your mom or protecting you or any of that
40:57I'm gonna say what I feel and I'm pissed off right now. So I'm gonna say it in a reckless way in that moment
41:02I just like hated rocks. I'm like, how sick can you be? And why are you even bringing that up? I
41:07Want us to be honest, what was it?
41:18And he started crying I was like it is worse than I thought it was
41:25He hasn't been faithful
41:28Not much, you know