Married at First Sight (AU) - Season 12 Episode 20
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00:00:00You
00:00:05Previously
00:00:07Family and friends week you guys are happy
00:00:10We are we are deepened most of our couples bonds can see the way Karina looks at you
00:00:16Yeah, you look happy you really do you can tell the chemistry is definitely there
00:00:20And I do see a future for new beginnings and family
00:00:25So you want hips?
00:00:28I've always wanted to have a child
00:00:32Tony had a shock revelation. He wants to have a baby
00:00:36Serious, I can't reproduce
00:00:39my stamp
00:00:41expired
00:00:43They are not good enough to be in your life
00:00:44He is definitely not good enough to be in my nephew's life when Athena and Adrian's families caught up
00:00:49I've been mentioning my son
00:00:51Okay
00:00:55Emotions ran high
00:01:00Make sure you leave the apartment
00:01:06Tonight
00:01:09Dinner is sir
00:01:11It's making me nervous coming into the group now because I'm gonna admit to everyone what I've done. I
00:01:17I
00:01:18Did something that I?
00:01:20absolutely regret
00:01:22What shocking act it's unacceptable. It's disgusting and I'm hating myself for doing this
00:01:28threatens to tear apart one of the experiment's strongest couples I
00:01:39It's very serious very very very serious
00:01:47It's the morning of the fourth dinner party and after an eventful week meeting each other's friends and family
00:01:55Overnight, there's been a dramatic development
00:01:59one of the experiment's strongest couples
00:02:02Are waking up in separate apartments?
00:02:05One of the experiment's strongest couples are waking up in separate apartments
00:02:17I felt anxious waking up this morning a little bit on edge and just sad
00:02:28So last night
00:02:30Paul and I were coming back from a day out with re and Jeff in the uber
00:02:37We had a really good day together enjoying the Sun very happy and lovey-dovey
00:02:44And in the uber I was putting on music and requests and stuff and I put on a song and I said a
00:02:51Comment that I've slept with this
00:02:53rapper and
00:02:56I
00:02:58Didn't think it was awkward Paul and I we've spoken about our pasts and we've been open about that
00:03:05So I I didn't think there was an issue at all
00:03:09We just all laugh because obviously everyone has a history, you know before the experiment and
00:03:16Honestly, I just thought it was like a passing comment
00:03:19Like say if Jeff had hooked up with Julie for once and he's like
00:03:23Do you know that I hooked up with Julie for when I was 25, I'd be like, holy shit. Well done
00:03:27That's actually insane. We sort of laughed and thought nothing of it and then we get home and
00:03:35Paul's really upset
00:03:39Paul obviously got offended by it and got felt a bit disrespected and how I said it he definitely
00:03:45Yeah, it wasn't his usual self
00:03:48He you could tell he was quite upset and I like instantly was like
00:03:52I'm so sorry, and I just like jumped at him and hugged him and apologized and I
00:04:00Was cuddling him and
00:04:03Yeah, like wrapped around him and he was like I just need space
00:04:07And he obviously didn't like that
00:04:11So I just said, okay fine fine go
00:04:18And I turned around and I went to bed that's when he got really angry and he yeah punched the wall I
00:04:29Just completely lost my nerves and
00:04:40But she couldn't give me my space and I just absolutely lost it and I just burst out outside the room and I just ended
00:04:45up just
00:04:47Punching a hole in the wall
00:04:55It escalated really quickly I
00:04:59Was just in shock and I just stared and then he left yeah
00:05:08He slept in his own apartment last night I
00:05:11I
00:05:15Don't even know what my relationship is with Karina right now, I don't know
00:05:21I'm just upset at myself right now. I'm just actually feel so ashamed and so remorseful right now. I
00:05:34Definitely don't condone his behavior and I don't think it's acceptable
00:05:39It's
00:05:41Not something I would want to put up with especially if I'm going into like a lifetime with this person
00:05:47So I think we've got some things we need to sort out
00:05:51But I'm not scared. I'm not scared of him. I'm not scared of being in the same environment with him
00:05:58So I just want to speak to him and and hear what he has to say
00:06:08I
00:06:38Yeah, I'm worried for you, it's like what like when can I speak to you and can I see you no, I'm so sorry
00:07:09Oh
00:07:11Goodness, so, how are you feeling?
00:07:15So sorry, I just I just I just can't stop thinking about it. I just haven't slept. That's not just I
00:07:24Should have never react that way. I swear it's just I just don't
00:07:30I promise you like that's never gonna happen again
00:07:33I
00:07:35Just trying to understand what like I didn't raise my voice and I was like apologetic and you know
00:07:43kept trying to like speak to you about it and you
00:07:49were not wanting anything like
00:07:51so I'm just trying to understand like I
00:07:55was really upset and I
00:07:57was so
00:08:00So angry at that
00:08:02That comment in the cab. It just felt I felt so uncomfortable and disrespected like I was just like well
00:08:08what what the hell I just felt like an idiot and I
00:08:13Could hear you trying to apologize but I was I was getting worked up because it was a it was and
00:08:20because it was like I'm sorry, but
00:08:22I
00:08:25Just I couldn't really take your apology
00:08:28Sincerely because I was like you're saying you're sorry, but then you're adding it but
00:08:32does that make sense and then I just and all I wanted like I just wanted some space to
00:08:37get my head straight because I'm the kind of person like when I
00:08:41When I get held emotional, I can't have a constructive chat and I feel like it's a fact that you couldn't give me
00:08:48That space I needed
00:08:50You you got all upset at me that the fact that I wanted to leave to go for a walk
00:08:53You would you would really you were really angry at me and you were like, well if that's the way you want
00:08:58Then just yeah, it's you go like I'm your wife and you just you can't you just you you were like
00:09:03Yeah, then leave and you you just get hella set on me and that's why
00:09:06Relax, you are so dramatic and it's pissing me off. No, I'm getting angry because you so I'm out of fear there for nothing
00:09:17Paul I said that's fine. I was like go go go and I turned around and I went and I faced the other way
00:09:29Like it just didn't have to be as big as it was
00:09:33Look I have 100% overreacted last night. Okay, and I know that and I am genuinely I'm so sorry for that
00:09:42I
00:09:47Seriously hating myself for what I've done last night. I'm hating myself for it
00:09:55It's obviously a bit
00:09:58Aggravating it's a bit annoying
00:10:01It's a bit frustrating
00:10:03Because Paula has done the wrong thing
00:10:07but
00:10:09Yeah, I I know
00:10:11like a whole heartedly that he is not proud of himself and his actions last night and
00:10:19Obviously everything up to today has been going really well and you know, we both have feelings for one another we care for one another
00:10:29So I'm not giving up I want to give him the benefit of the doubt
00:10:33I want to give Paul the opportunity to make it up to me
00:10:37So it's really up to him to put in the work moving forward
00:10:46Yeah
00:10:55Tonight's dinner party officially marks the halfway point of the experiment and
00:11:00Meeting friends and family has left many of our original couples stronger than ever
00:11:06Don't know when you had a really good meet the family day like our family has got a lot of a house on fire
00:11:12And I felt like it brought us closer. So like I feel like my feels just like kicked up heaps
00:11:18Look at you, huh?
00:11:19Latin dance in a dinner party touch our chart feel like now I can really picture my life with Dave like out of here
00:11:27Like it just became real. It's nice
00:11:33Thank you
00:11:35Jeff and I are at a really good place at the moment
00:11:37I feel like every week we've seen to get stronger as a couple. I think we've had a great week
00:11:43Yes, I think like after the friends and family visits like it was nice to share to our loved ones like where we are
00:11:49In the experiment. Yeah
00:11:51But now I feel really I feel really good at going into the dinner party together. I'm
00:11:57While Jackie and Ryan have also had a great week together
00:12:01Heading into the dinner party. There's something weighing heavily on Jackie's mind
00:12:07Ryan it was really supportive for the past week when I was really I would say distraught
00:12:12After we had a big attack at me at the commitment ceremony
00:12:17Jackie and Ryan have obviously had some troubles in their relationship and
00:12:22Jackie reached out to Jeff to catch up for a coffee without me there. I
00:12:27Just feel like it's not girl code to do that. I think it's a little bit disrespectful
00:12:33I'm upset every because she's felt it necessary
00:12:36She's been her relationship time the commitment ceremony throwing shade on somebody else, which is just disgusting
00:12:43And I think that's a crime against humanity
00:12:46So she thinks I broke girl code. I think she broke the rules of humanity
00:12:50I do want to obviously stand up for myself today and like
00:12:54Address what Ray has done to me and say like I don't stand for that. I'm not okay with it
00:12:58So I definitely will bring it up
00:13:01People deserve to know the truth and to be honest her assumptions are getting in the way of truth and justice in this case
00:13:11Down the hall the atmosphere is tense
00:13:16You're good Mariana
00:13:18Thank you
00:13:20Mariana is still coming to terms with Tony's bombshell announcements. He wants to have a baby
00:13:27That's why I'm not into a 57 year old
00:13:31So that makes it hard for me to really fall for somebody that's older
00:13:39See this human being here
00:13:42Have a good look at her. She's 57. She can't reproduce children
00:13:47So this is just another excuse another deflection, I've really had enough
00:13:54You know, it's almost like a dead end come to a teen to section. I think we're gonna be happily best dressed again tonight
00:14:06For one of the experiments most tumultuous couples
00:14:10Athena and Adrian
00:14:12This week has left them more divided than ever and they're currently getting ready in separate apartments
00:14:20Adrian made a bunch of promises on that couch last week
00:14:23to the group to the experts to me and
00:14:27I don't feel like he's done anything of what he said
00:14:32Last week Adrian left the experiment after he wasn't included in a channel 9 promo shoot. Where are you?
00:14:40I went home, disrespectful
00:14:42I'm not gonna be treated like that so I'm not gonna accept it
00:14:45When he finally returned it was revealed he had been to dinner with another bride. Why were you out for dinner Sierra Saturday night?
00:14:54So Athena wants it out
00:14:57I'm sorry Liz
00:15:01It's on your shoulders to really do some big time lifting
00:15:05Yeah, I'm really where she's taking time from her son, yeah, so it's like I need to show up
00:15:11however an
00:15:13Explosive family lunch pushed them even further apart. I think
00:15:18You are focusing a lot on the negatives because he hasn't even shown up
00:15:22So let's just stop at this from what I've not even shown up what I'm her not even once I was told he has not
00:15:27Even said I don't care. You know, I
00:15:30Actually, I'm just I don't need to listen to this. I'm pointless conversation. It is
00:15:35I was really blindsided once again, but our friends and family catch up
00:15:40Definitely felt like an attack
00:15:42Felt like I was walking into an interrogation
00:15:44I feel like if you want something to really work with someone you'd want your friends and family to like them
00:15:50So I think if he truly wanted this to work, I would have walked into a very different situation and that's disappointing
00:15:57You know, this was supposed to be patrons Redemption Week
00:16:01And it just doesn't feel like that's happened
00:16:06While our original couples have been meeting with friends and family
00:16:10This week our newlyweds have fast-tracked their marriages. Yes. It looks good. Oh, thank you matching
00:16:17undertaking a relationship crash course
00:16:19Designed to strengthen their bond and bring them up to speed with the other couples in a party x2
00:16:25Do we have any beans to spill? No, no, baby. Not really me and TJ
00:16:29I feel like we've kind of nailed the tasks this week, and I do think it brought us closer together
00:16:35So yeah, I'm feeling really good about where we are at the moment
00:16:39How exciting another dinner? Oh, I can't wait. I actually think it'll be a pretty quiet night tonight makes you think that I
00:16:47Don't know how this think that it's time that everyone gets along. I
00:16:51Feel good about walking into the dinner party with Clint. I mean, we're building a friendship
00:16:56He's very easy to hang out with get along with so yeah, it's going well cheers
00:17:03But while Lauren and Clint celebrate
00:17:08Veronica and Elliot are getting ready in separate apartments
00:17:13Veronica and I we're having issues and
00:17:16You know, it's upsetting because I really put myself out there this week and I tried to be vulnerable
00:17:23But she didn't acknowledge that and I don't really understand why
00:17:29My younger sister Bridie. She fell into a coma. It felt like
00:17:33It was the end of the world like it felt like there was no hope. Oh, what did you feel in your heart?
00:17:41Hopelessness
00:17:43This is the perfect opportunity for him to just tell me something anything and he chose
00:17:51Nothing I
00:17:53Would love to know why?
00:17:56my most painful memory
00:17:58Isn't enough for you. I didn't feel like I learned anything about you. Listen, listen
00:18:03No, I don't want to listen to you anymore while the pair later tried to reconcile it only made the situation worse
00:18:11I don't trust you. So your walls are up
00:18:13Hundred percent. Yes kidding me the way you spoke to Lauren that night at the dinner party. Yeah, okay the way you spoke to me
00:18:20How do I speak to you? So you're doing the same thing as I know we're not we just got to this thing about how
00:18:26You don't raise your voice at me and you were being unreasonable and I will not tolerate this is so civil
00:18:31No, I've had enough. This is so civil. I've had enough
00:18:36Veronica admitted she's got her walls up. She doesn't trust me
00:18:40But when she said that I felt like okay now at least it's out in the open
00:18:45We can talk about it and work to resolve it, but I feel like every time we start to
00:18:51Get somewhere. She just loses it and storms out and I really want to
00:18:56Get past that and try to make things work because I actually really like her
00:19:02So I'm gonna go knock on Veronica's door and see how she's doing
00:19:06I think it would be good for us to walk in together to the dinner party. I'm hoping she wants to do that as well
00:19:15Hey, how's it going? Good. How are you? You look beautiful. Thanks. Don't talk
00:19:23Do I yeah, I'm sure I come in
00:19:31What would you like to say
00:19:34From my perspective, it felt like we were starting to get somewhere. I don't feel that way
00:19:42So so you saying to me that you've got your walls up and that you don't trust me
00:19:49That was a really big development. I didn't know that
00:19:54So that's what I mean by that
00:19:56Well, I'm glad that you got some insight from me, but I still have nothing from you. So I don't feel that way
00:20:03right
00:20:07So so
00:20:09What do you want? Like what do you want from me? I'm not gonna spell it out to you
00:20:13I've been really clear with you about everything that I want
00:20:17From the beginning like I'm not hearing like an apology. I'm not hearing any kind of accountability. What do you want an apology for?
00:20:26If you don't believe that you have a reason to apologize to me, I'm not your mother
00:20:31I wasn't brought here to fix you. It's up to you what he said to tell mom
00:20:35Sorry, it's just one sentence that I could finish. I would really appreciate it Elliot. Just one. I
00:20:42Don't appreciate you coming in here and inciting an argument
00:20:45I was minding my own business. You've come in here with no apology. No accountability
00:20:51No effort to try and make this better. You're just starting an argument. I'm not interested in doing this with you
00:20:58I would really appreciate it if you could leave
00:21:02All right, well enjoy your last in party
00:21:23Well, here we are dinner party number four halfway through the experiment very pretty
00:21:32And this is a pivotal part for the whole process because the original couples
00:21:36They're meeting the nearest and dearest the family members and for some couples. It will bring them closer together. No doubt about that
00:21:43Let's go one to ten. How attracted are you to me right now?
00:21:4745
00:21:49But we've seen in the past some couples can actually really fall apart
00:21:53Yeah, when they see the family members so it can be destabilizing for them
00:21:59And also our new arrivals are in fact catching up and doing the crash course
00:22:06They've moved in together. They've been doing intimacy week and confessions week
00:22:10It's gonna be really interesting to see how they've caught on in such a short period of time
00:22:19Okay, here we go
00:22:23Hey the floor is house, baby
00:22:29I am and Jackie twirling and happy in the first one. That's a very fancy entrance
00:22:35She's the big first in and a fantastic way. Come on sit in
00:22:39I think this is the most together that we've ever seen them walk in. Yeah a cocktail party. Yeah
00:22:48Look at the way she's looking into your eyes. Yeah, I just feel like we've had such a good week
00:22:53I feel like the best week. Yeah, and I haven't cried in four days, which is a new record
00:22:59Oh
00:23:05TJ and Beth
00:23:08You guys look ravishing ravishing
00:23:16Shocker we're together again
00:23:21Here they are
00:23:24Wow looking fabulous happy very much the team. Yes
00:23:34Solo Ali, it's on his own his own. Hello. Yeah
00:23:40Yeah
00:23:41Grab a drink and come sit down
00:23:44Well, we saw an incredible turn around with him at the last committment. Sorry didn't we was essentially a 180 degree turn
00:23:51And I guess the question that we were left with was is this real?
00:23:55Yeah, is he able to actually create this change in his life and and live it and breathe it
00:24:04Walking in alone was an ideal
00:24:06Feel a little bit disappointed. It feels like my efforts going to waste a little bit here
00:24:11I'm
00:24:12Trying to make it work with Veronica and she's not reciprocating that
00:24:17So I think tonight is a kind of a bit of a sink or swim moment, but I'm honestly not that hopeful
00:24:29So, well, I'm glad to see you and Brian have come in together so good vibes continuing
00:24:34Yeah, basically after the committment ceremony. I was pretty hot
00:24:39behavior free I
00:24:43Feel like I'm owed an apology
00:24:45Like I felt really disrespected and I felt like really hurt about it and I'm getting pretty distraught the way it can
00:24:51Crime my stays and Brian's just been really really supportive. I
00:24:55Guess it's nice that in some way, you know, it's maybe brought you to us together. Yeah
00:25:08Hi guys, ah
00:25:10Jeff
00:25:12How are you
00:25:19Tell you what Jackie doesn't seem too happy to see Jeff and read. Yes. She hasn't got up to great. No
00:25:26Hey Jackie, hey Ryan, hi guys, how are you?
00:25:29I
00:25:40Really walked in I felt
00:25:43Disgusted I don't want to look at her. Oh, okay. Yes, please
00:25:48She's acting like she's my friend
00:25:51When the last time I saw her
00:25:53She ridiculed me shamed me humiliated me
00:25:56You know, she's saying hi to me like no mate like
00:26:00Cheers
00:26:02I've got a lecture for me. I've got a lecture in respect. I've got a lecture in truth and I've got a lecture and
00:26:11What's my other lecture about?
00:26:18But anyway, I
00:26:20have a lot of things that I want to educate Rion and
00:26:24I think I'm deserve the time to just saying my piece
00:26:37Hey Jackie, hey Ryan, how are you?
00:26:45Hey, this is someone else I know you have me to go on your head
00:26:49Are you okay? No, I'm fine. I just didn't think would actually come into the dinner party with that
00:26:54I was like the whole thing was like that was meant to be like a case closed
00:26:57I thought so too, but I always she's been like in tears
00:27:04Jackie didn't say hi to me
00:27:05which is a little bit disheartening because I think I've put up with her shit for the last pretty much since day one from
00:27:11the moment she messaged Jeff asking me not to be there and
00:27:16I feel like if anyone has anything to be annoyed about it's the fact that you have brought me into your relationship drama
00:27:25So it's a little bit annoying that she doesn't acknowledge me
00:27:28My mind is like no, don't worry about that. You focus on what's going on here first, and we'll just start off
00:27:34Don't worry about that. I don't want to address it. Yeah, we don't let's focus on what's been going on
00:27:39the good stuff
00:27:46Adrian solo
00:27:50I lost my wife
00:27:55Bad sign after the commitment ceremony. He made so many promises about
00:28:01Absolutely, so what's happened to you? It's happening. This is your redemption week
00:28:06Yeah, what's supposed to be but now we had the family on family day
00:28:10And I was just a disaster bro, and I didn't last longer than five minutes. Oh
00:28:14Oh God, I'm glad the best
00:28:17My family came in first and then I'm a sat down and we started talking about obviously I was like, oh you guys have heard
00:28:23my side
00:28:24It's here a penis
00:28:28Then a sister comes in
00:28:31Straight on the defense like yelling at me. I'm like, well relax
00:28:34I'm just upset that she won't acknowledge her sister's behavior
00:28:38Fuck. Hey, yes, you shouldn't yell and you shouldn't say names
00:28:44Talking shit about
00:28:47For me it's not about the families now. It's about us
00:28:49It's just about what we do with what happened how we deal with it. That's it. How do we go from here?
00:28:59What if I missed everyone is a fan I hope everyone wasn't gossiping about me
00:29:07I
00:29:09Honestly if Adrian had approached this past week with genuine willingness to do the work
00:29:15We would have come in together today, and I would have literally spoke his praises. Hi
00:29:23But there's been none of that and it's been in a reoccurring being
00:29:29Where he's made some bold promises and he just hasn't lived up to it
00:29:34The family thing I don't want to bring that with everyone because our families were involved
00:29:40Have you not already done that
00:29:42Yeah, but I don't talk about it in front of everyone in the sense of like trying to defend it up because you just did
00:29:50Just before I entered the room I could hear Adrian talking to everyone and essentially addressing friends and family and
00:29:57Then he pulled me aside and goes hey, let's talk about this
00:30:00And then he pulled me aside and goes hey, let's not talk about this and I was like well hang on a minute
00:30:05I don't think you realize but I actually heard you talking about that day
00:30:11So why is it that only you're allowed to speak?
00:30:14I'm just gonna say I'm not gonna feel the need to talk about you just did
00:30:17This is the whole control element to what's going on in their relationship what we can talk about what we can't talk about
00:30:23Adrian has one set of rules for himself and a different set for a Fina
00:30:26But did you not say to me you don't want to talk about it?
00:30:29Yeah, but you've done that
00:30:32With only one side. No, I haven't said anything. I actually said this I said
00:30:41Interesting though, she seems to be pushing back more. Yeah, you know, she's calling him out
00:30:47She's not just listening and staying quiet. It's so confusing Adrian
00:30:51You know what? You tell me one thing and then you do another, you know, make up your mind
00:30:55Usually when I have a conversation with Adrian
00:30:57My stomach drops a little when he asked me to do something because I want to do it. I look at him and I
00:31:04Want to heal and I want to fix the situation
00:31:07But I didn't get that feeling today. All I felt was
00:31:11Hang on a minute when I'm not present. You can say your piece the moment I come come around
00:31:16I have to be silenced. That's not fair. I
00:31:20Just want to have my voice heard
00:31:23Lauren and Clint. Yes. We've actually felt good about walking into the dinner party. It was fun vibe
00:31:33Did you say hello to Elliot tonight? No, I didn't yeah, no, so we go get a drink
00:31:40The bar was that way he was that way I know my priorities don't speak to me
00:31:45I don't speak to you. I don't speak to you. I don't speak to you
00:31:48I don't speak to you. I don't speak to you
00:31:50I know my priorities. Yes, please
00:32:05Couple dressing a couple dressing
00:32:11So Tony's come up with another story
00:32:14He wants to have a baby
00:32:16That's a lot to take
00:32:18That's not what I signed up for, you know, it's really hard I'm right there with you trust me
00:32:29Oh, oh, he's Veronica
00:32:35Yeah, I'm open to talking to Elliot tonight, but I'm not gonna go out of my way
00:32:39I
00:32:44Love spending time with the other couples and getting to know them and I'm excited to see Lauren
00:32:59Elliot's looking nervous
00:33:01My two wives were arm-in-arm and it was like an unholy alliance
00:33:07I was kind of waiting for the slap basically
00:33:14So interesting because everyone that Elliot gets matched with spends a lot of time alone I
00:33:20Just realized Paul and Karina running
00:33:23I
00:33:33Think she's nervous why in my own head
00:33:53I
00:34:12Paul and Karina came in and you can see they're struggling
00:34:16How are you, how are you going?
00:34:20Paul and Karina, I'm looking forward to seeing I guess where they're at. They've had a little bit of a drama
00:34:27And I can see that it's really affected both of them
00:34:32It's a very different feeling coming into this dinner party with Paul. I'm quite anxious
00:34:39Nervous a little uncomfortable and just yeah, not my usual self
00:34:46Dinner is sir
00:35:06It's making me nervous coming into the group now because I'm gonna admit to everyone what I've done
00:35:16I
00:35:20Did something that I'm really not proud of that I'm still regretting right now
00:35:30I don't know how people are gonna react
00:35:34Hopefully I'm not gonna be judged too much for that, but if I do then I'm fault
00:35:46So I'm gonna probably straight away I'll probably just get it off my chest and admit to everyone what I've done
00:35:59Sorry, I just wanna
00:36:07I'm sure a few of you have realized that I haven't been my full self walking in here tonight
00:36:15I
00:36:18Did something that I absolutely regret
00:36:24Something that is that is absolutely unacceptable
00:36:45I
00:37:03Sorry, I just wanna
00:37:06I
00:37:11I'm sure a few of you have realized that I haven't been my full self walking in here tonight
00:37:21I did something that I absolutely regret
00:37:28Something that is that is absolutely unacceptable. Oh, oh no come on. What's happened?
00:37:35I
00:37:49Karina and I we had our first big fight
00:37:55After a few things that she said to me that made me feel
00:38:01You know
00:38:03Embarrassed and betrayed and
00:38:06We had a massive argument
00:38:14Whenever I go through a big fight
00:38:17I'm someone who withdraw and I need my space and I need to be left alone
00:38:22but Karina chased me and just asked me to stay and that's when I started to feel trapped and
00:38:27I understand that Karina just wanted to resolve the situation straight away. She just wanted to be able to go to bed at peace
00:38:34But I felt trapped and I just wanted to leave him obviously that made me even more angry and
00:38:41yeah, and then in just that moment, I just I
00:38:44Everything just happened so fast
00:38:47and then I
00:38:54Threw a punch in the eye in that bedroom door. I
00:38:59I lost control and I punched a hole in the bedroom door
00:39:10Through a punch in the door
00:39:20It's very serious, yeah, very very very serious. Yeah
00:39:26It's just not the right thing to do it's it's unacceptable it's disgusting and I'm I'm still hating myself for
00:39:33for doing this
00:39:38But it should bother you yes, and it should bother Karina
00:39:44I've apologized to Karina multiple times. I want to apologize to you again in front of everyone here. I
00:39:51Am genuinely I'm so sorry for that
00:39:56This is this is not me I've never done that before I've never done that in my life
00:40:04That's obviously not gonna happen again
00:40:07Well, this is something that can never happen again
00:40:10Not ever Paul has behaved in a totally unacceptable way. That's right, and he needs to be able to control his behavior period
00:40:18And
00:40:22You notice the energy in the room it's very it's quite low and quiet and yeah
00:40:28And that just tells me the group just doesn't know how to handle this
00:40:34I think like, you know
00:40:37Where I stand point like you're a good mate of mine in here
00:40:41I'd be wrong if I said it didn't let me down a little bit
00:40:44Yeah, I don't I don't condone it at all. So
00:40:48If you're that angry and move away
00:40:51Could just take yourself out of the situation. I don't think
00:40:55That's not okay
00:40:57Been feeling sick because I've never reacted this way and then I just don't just I just I just yeah
00:41:02I'm just so disappointed in myself in any circumstances where there is heightened emotions and whatnot lashing out physically never acceptable
00:41:11ever under any
00:41:14circumstances
00:41:17I don't know how you feeling. Yeah
00:41:26I can't read her face
00:41:33Yeah, this behavior
00:41:36Obviously came by surprise
00:41:38It was a little bit of a shock, I guess but like honestly like he's not one to
00:41:46Be like this
00:41:48He doesn't treat me incorrectly like
00:41:51So I wasn't scared. I'm not scared
00:41:55I'm not scared to be in the apartment with him and he was so upset about his behavior and what he did so to be
00:42:02Able to recognize the behavior and and I know that's not acceptable and I will not accept it or tolerate it
00:42:09But he understands what he's done
00:42:13He's taking accountability and owning his actions and
00:42:19Like I forgive him
00:42:25I'm embarrassed about what happened and how Paul acted because
00:42:29Paul isn't that type of character at all. And you know, it's a very out of character experience
00:42:37We have a very strong relationship and you know, this is real life like we are a real relationship where
00:42:44Fights happen situations happen. It's not all rainbows and butterflies
00:42:50But I hope he learns from this
00:42:54If you have ups and downs, you know
00:42:56And it's just like how do you move forward and I I don't want to throw in the towel and give up
00:43:02Karina is obviously putting on a very brave face. She's very much representing the two of them as a united front, but
00:43:09Surely, this has had an impact on her. Let's be very clear. There's nothing normal about that behavior. No, there is not
00:43:15There's nothing acceptable about that behavior or appropriate
00:43:23The last thing I want is to Karina to feel unsafe around me
00:43:28And yeah, so
00:43:31Yeah, sorry again
00:43:35He did take accountability for it but like
00:43:39You know
00:43:41That's something that should be called out that behavior. Even if you're able to
00:43:47Acknowledge it it's still despicable behavior and
00:43:50That's something I'd want to have a chat with him about and say like, you know, hold him to account
00:43:55for one man to another
00:43:57But that wasn't the right time
00:44:01What he did isn't good enough and it's not acceptable. He's made a bad mistake and
00:44:07He's hopefully learned from that and doesn't do it again
00:44:13I mean, this is absolutely totally unexpected for this couple. They were really a loved up
00:44:21You know relationship from the word go. Yeah. Yeah
00:44:25This is clearly their biggest challenge and it's a very serious one and this is something that we absolutely have to call out
00:44:34And explored in great depth
00:44:47Sorry, I'm a fish mom now
00:44:49Yeah
00:44:53But we are we're navigating through
00:44:57Parenthood, I'm the fun mom. Not really. I wish I was he always lets him get away with murder
00:45:04We had our family day
00:45:06That was really it was really good
00:45:08Um, it was good to see like my mom and her parents with you know, you see the happiness in their eyes
00:45:14Dave and I I guess are like boring, but it's really good to be boring
00:45:17I mean, he looks like a bloody snack. I'm like
00:45:22Cha-cha slide on him after
00:45:25His mom asked about our sex life on first question when my dad at the table
00:45:29Are you satisfied question was my favorite and my dad acted like he's never seen a table before
00:45:39Jamie nice bond and our strengths. I think it's visible to everyone, you know, it's easy to say
00:45:45You know gives me a nice warm fuzzy feeling sitting there and knowing that we're going really well
00:45:59It's hard for me to you look around the room and
00:46:03See all the happy couples
00:46:06Adrian and I we're not okay
00:46:09And I can't put on a front for everyone
00:46:12But it's uncomfortable having to talk about your relationship when things aren't going great
00:46:18We were you guys out at the moment Athena
00:46:23Um, we're in separate apartments, right Oh
00:46:28Unfortunately, we had a really upsetting friends and family catch-up. I was went for less than 10 minutes. Oh sure
00:46:35His
00:46:38Sisters they asked me what is showing up look like to you because
00:46:43Adrian has shown up for you more than he has any other partner
00:46:46You're not recognizing the good. You're only pointing out his failures. I
00:46:51Haven't even pointed out his failures at this point. I haven't even said anything is when I couldn't even articulate a conversation
00:46:59That reason why that set me so much is because if you see a future with someone
00:47:03Why would you want to alienate them against your friends and family I
00:47:09Think just at the end of the day
00:47:10There was a lot of false promises made by Adrian to me at the commitment ceremony
00:47:14and it wasn't didn't he didn't mean any of it because his actions speak louder than words and
00:47:21There was no reconciliation on your end. Okay, there was no redemption week on your end if anything
00:47:26I I'm actually confused as to why you wrote stay because it doesn't feel like it was for me. Okay
00:47:33I
00:47:35Mean, this is the very key question here, isn't it?
00:47:37Because we challenged him and said Athena's written leave you're saying stay
00:47:43So you're gonna have to up your game here on the couch. So you said it's my turn to show up
00:47:48So, how did you shop? Yeah, I'm not sure. I'm sure when did you see a change in his behavior?
00:47:53Yeah, okay, okay perfect example, yes
00:47:58She's not seen it we were never meant for what I said, hey come for a walk together. So that was me trying to make it effort
00:48:09I've been showing up. I asked Athena to go for a walk
00:48:17What that's wow, are you joking how aren't you married already?
00:48:24and then
00:48:28And then so I said, let's let's make it let's watch a movie tonight
00:48:32Did we watch a movie yeah, because we finished a 10 o'clock and we got tired and then
00:48:37So you didn't yes. Yeah, so we didn't watch a movie that night because it was late
00:48:41and then
00:48:44I messaged it. I was just like, oh, hey, let's go for dinner. So we can we can be sort of come to turn
00:48:50Nobody was coming late
00:48:54Have you guys gone out for a nice dinner? Yeah, of course, so I haven't once so here we have no we haven't
00:49:04We went to Nando's
00:49:10What choice yeah, we went to Nando's together what's wrong with Nando's
00:49:17Adrian Adrian if your siblings reckon
00:49:20This is the most you've shown up in a relationship
00:49:22Then you must have just been breathing in your other ones. That's what
00:49:25All he had to do was exist next to his other girlfriend
00:49:31Everyone's missing how I'm feeling. Has anyone heard he what I need
00:49:38Don't know existing this relationship that my friend is not exist to what I need not exist
00:49:43You focus on the negative
00:49:47As a matter I do I could let you say I move mountains for and have it on recording and people
00:49:54Everyone is terrible still say no you didn't and if we know what's a neediness on it's good enough not showing up. So
00:49:59Forget it, but it doesn't matter what I do. It's not good enough. I can't even listen to him
00:50:03It's pretty obvious that Adrian's done nothing to show up for a feena
00:50:08Since the last commitment ceremony nothing
00:50:11How do I show up then how do I show up then just be more understanding that's all just like stop being so combative
00:50:16I'm not understand. I'm just I'm just been in my side. She likes you Adrian. She wants it to work. She likes you
00:50:23She wants to give you the best chance. She's not hard to please. She's really not
00:50:30I'm honestly really fed up with how Adrian treats Athena the look on her face just goes to show how sad she is
00:50:37Whatever you're doing is wrong
00:50:39Just admit that you haven't done anything that the experts set you to do to improve your relationship
00:50:47Do you think you did absolutely everything you could have done this way because that's that's what this week was about again, right?
00:50:51Yes, I think I did it for me
00:50:53Yeah in my mind. I tried the best. I
00:50:56Didn't come here for a lesson. I came here for a life partner and
00:51:00I think there's just only so many times someone can let you down with their actions
00:51:05That you just stop
00:51:07Trying so hard
00:51:09Do you know what Adrian?
00:51:10I feel like there's been so many times that you've asked me what I need from a partner and the reason why
00:51:15You still don't know it because you don't actually care enough to listen
00:51:20Surely he understands we're both exhausted, right?
00:51:24We're not working so why are you staying if not to do the actual work?
00:51:37Right
00:51:44Still to come I felt like I actually didn't owe you an apology
00:51:49Jackie confronts ring I've taken it back after I've realized there's no acceptance in Jackie. Hang on just two seconds
00:51:56You just let me speak. You've had your chance. You humiliated me in front of everyone now, let me speak
00:52:07I
00:52:12Don't know Tony. Yeah, how are you guys going pretty in pink?
00:52:16The friends and family. How was it? Come on spill the beans
00:52:22It's it's
00:52:27I'm caught of
00:52:28This week. Um, it's been it's been half of us. Honestly, Marina, you know, I'm struggling
00:52:33so
00:52:34That's how I'm feeling at the moment
00:52:37I
00:52:41You've had that from day one when you found out I'm 57, okay
00:52:46No enough don't even don't even bring it up. You guys weren't at the wedding. You weren't there. I
00:52:52Understand that you wanted someone young. Oh, I know now why because we found out a family and friends
00:52:59Because we found out the plot of why Tony doesn't want a 57
00:53:07He would like to have a baby
00:53:12Tony wants a baby. Well, this is the first we've heard of it. Yes. Why wouldn't you just tell me that at the start?
00:53:23I have God-sensing triplets. Cheers
00:53:29This is where I have the problem because when you get angry and
00:53:33And challenge everyone and talk to everybody the way you do pushes me away even more
00:53:38You know, how beautiful you are how pretty you are?
00:53:41But your personality gives me the shits, man
00:53:52Wow, that's hard
00:53:54Wow, that's harsh. Yeah, he's rich. She's threshold. This is where I am having my problem mate. I'm sorry, but that's how I feel
00:54:05I've got a lot of love to give I
00:54:09Deserve that back. I
00:54:12deserve to shine I
00:54:15Deserve to be treated like a lady. I know what I'm looking for. I
00:54:20Like a lady I know what I'm looking for and it's not that baby
00:54:35All right, that's a TJ well, yeah, we're doing great. Sorry
00:54:43Pressures on isn't it for our new couples?
00:54:45They've seen the way the other couples are getting on or not getting on in some cases
00:54:49And they know that in order to be a part of this group. They need to fast-track their relationship
00:54:55So we had to do that. It was like an intimacy. Yeah sexual desire
00:55:01and it was just like all those questions are great, but
00:55:06They're they're probably more suitable in a potentially a few weeks or a few months for us
00:55:11You know, it's like talking dirty to each other
00:55:14I
00:55:15Tried it this morning
00:55:19But I said just the way she was spreading a toast it was just so erotic
00:55:25But now that's joke. Nah, she doesn't have toast anyway, I
00:55:29Think we definitely like we're building a really good friendship and I think like friendship is always the basis for me in any relationship
00:55:37Clint is the you know, most supportive person ever
00:55:41So I think like it's a strong foundation that we're that we're building like we both have a lot of respect for each other
00:55:47which is refreshing and
00:55:55Veronica and Elliot you came in individually. We want to know what's up
00:56:01Obviously we had to do tasks this week. So we got the confession letter and I
00:56:09I
00:56:13It's okay, babe, I know I know it's okay
00:56:18So I was very
00:56:21Disheartened when
00:56:23Elliot told me his story about his sister
00:56:27because
00:56:28In telling me that story you didn't mention anything at all about how the story impacted you
00:56:35Like I didn't learn a single thing about you and all I know is that your sister has diabetes now
00:56:44She has to be on medication I
00:56:48Got nothing from it
00:56:56Well from my perspective I
00:56:59Put everything into my story that was me being so deep and so vulnerable and
00:57:06Then for it to come back as like, oh, no, that's not good enough
00:57:10It was like that that to me was like it's hurtful. Yeah, like it would hurt so I was then hurt
00:57:17And then it went in this spiral of like so so my pain isn't good enough
00:57:26That's what it felt like
00:57:29You
00:57:35What was your pain though
00:57:39Because I don't know how you feel about that situation having my younger sister fall into a coma
00:57:46And grapple with this illness for a whole life
00:57:59You
00:58:02From my perspective I put everything into my story. That was me being so deep and so vulnerable and
00:58:11Then for it to come back as like, oh no, that's not good enough
00:58:15It was like that that to me was like it's hurtful. Yeah, like it would hurt so I was then hurt and
00:58:22Then it went in this spiral of like so so my pain isn't good enough
00:58:27That's what it felt like
00:58:33What was your pain though
00:58:35because I don't know how you feel about that situation having my younger sister fall into a coma and
00:58:42Grapple with this illness for a whole life
00:58:45It was a fact that it was the person that I care for like most in the whole world my baby sister
00:58:50It was so traumatizing
00:58:53That memory affects me to this day, I never want to feel like I've lost control of my emotions
00:59:01That's why it was my pain
00:59:07Veronica made it sound like it wasn't really an important issue of what Elliot had confessed but then when he
00:59:14Like mentioned his sister was in like a coma
00:59:18That is something that's quite significant
00:59:21Veronica I understand how you want more feeling but it is a bit unfair to be like well, that's not
00:59:26Empathy that's enough. I never said that's not good enough. Well, never said those words
00:59:30I said, I'm disappointed because I don't feel like I understand you more. I
00:59:35Mean you could imagine here Elliot feeling very judged. Yeah, because he has made a real effort
00:59:41He is judged because she was just rolling her eyes. Yeah V
00:59:44Can I just ask do you think that maybe that was Elliot trying to be as deep as he could in that moment?
00:59:49Listen, it may be as deep as you wanted it. That was that was
00:59:54I agree. And that's what I said when I came back into the room. I said to you
00:59:58Maybe that's all you've got but at the time I was disappointed. I
01:00:03Think Elliot can learn so much from how you approach things
01:00:07Maybe to be patient
01:00:14Just put yourself in the flip situation, maybe it's hard for him to say those things
01:00:17He's still he's open to learning like I think that's pretty mature considering his past situation. I
01:00:24Think you guys need to work together on these and I think Veronica. That's what you can learn patience 100%
01:00:30I do not have patience. I know that about myself like I'm not done
01:00:36It was interesting to hear the perspectives of obviously everyone else in the group on
01:00:41You know how Elliot's feeling?
01:00:43and I do acknowledge that
01:00:45You know, maybe I do want more than he can give me at the moment
01:00:55Do you both want it to work though? Like are you both willing to work on your relationship or not?
01:01:06This is important do you both want to move forward and work on your relationship? This is the most important question, I guess
01:01:15You do
01:01:18Amazing good job Elliot. Do you want to?
01:01:22Yeah, fantastic
01:01:26Tonight was probably, you know best-case scenario in terms of how things unfolded
01:01:34But we came into it very icy and we came out with some hope
01:01:46I
01:01:50Tonight I have some things I want to address to the group about rape
01:01:55It is about behavior that's been directed towards me that I do not tolerate
01:02:00So I'm sick of being a doormat. I'm gonna stand up for myself. I don't tolerate their behavior
01:02:04She's been really disrespectful and rude and honestly, I hope there's some justices down today
01:02:10There's something that's been weighing on my mind a lot and I feel like I need to address it
01:02:16and
01:02:17Kind of just stand up for myself on this one
01:02:22So I guess like the last time everyone saw us was at the commitment ceremony and
01:02:28So I felt really disrespected
01:02:35That's all right
01:02:38I've been crying a lot this week just based on what you did, right?
01:02:46What'd she do? Yeah, what did she actually do?
01:02:48So I think like taking your relationship time at the last a commitment ceremony
01:02:55To throw shade and humiliate ridicule and say mean things about another bride
01:03:01Isn't that's a really big word
01:03:05Let it talk everyone's had an opportunity everyone's had an opportunity you'll let my wife talk you let my wife talk now, right?
01:03:12I
01:03:15Would really like some respect just so that I can say this
01:03:20Honest to God Jackie sense of reality sometimes it's something else
01:03:25You really hurt me you did
01:03:29Jackie right a prime example. We're gonna we've resolved something but let's just keep bringing it up. So she's kicking off it again
01:03:37You just spent that time
01:03:39Basically
01:03:40Discrediting me which I felt like undermined at the very purpose of these commitment ceremonies, which is actually to work on your relationship. I
01:03:48feel like
01:03:49the whole
01:03:51Texting Jeff situation like I feel like you took it too far
01:03:55hold
01:03:59And I felt like that had nothing to do with your relationship and I
01:04:04Apologized for that and I felt like I actually didn't owe you an apology
01:04:13Free free, please. Let me speak. I
01:04:17Actually let a lot of things slide with you. I even apologized, but you're not sorry
01:04:21I was genuine sorry because you are just said you I'm sorry back after I realized there's no
01:04:27Acceptance in Jackie. Hang on just two seconds. You just let me speak. You've had your chance
01:04:33You humiliated me in front of everyone. Now, let me speak
01:04:47I feel like the whole texting Jeff situation. I felt like I actually didn't owe you an apology
01:04:57Sorry, but you're not sorry I was genuine sorry because you
01:05:01Just said you I've taken it back after I realized there's no acceptance Jackie. Hang on just two seconds
01:05:09Everyone now, let me speak
01:05:15Wait, so you apologize to Ray, but you're pissed off at Ray
01:05:20Make that make sense
01:05:23You can't make sense of it. I
01:05:25Don't stand for that behavior. I don't tolerate
01:05:28I'm not okay with it. Oh Jackie you text
01:05:32Reed's husband and
01:05:35Then you want an apology for that? That doesn't make sense
01:05:38Why are you still bringing it up and ridiculing me and shaming me?
01:05:44Ridiculing because I asked about how my relationship was going and how it's got nothing to do with your relationship
01:05:49What are you talking about?
01:05:51We were sure your drama
01:05:54Excuse me. Excuse me
01:05:55It's between her and I your drama bought heaviness on our relationship and I said our relationship was going great. Although
01:06:02Outside external drama has bought heaviness on our relationship. I
01:06:08Haven't done anything to create this drama you started this with contacting my
01:06:13Husband and asking me not to be dead. So this is a you issue. This is not a me issue
01:06:20I've tried to be understanding but it's impossible to understand someone who is extremely
01:06:26Inconsistent with their emotions and she cannot let things go
01:06:30Jackie had this start. How did this start? How did this all this conflict? How did all this conflict start?
01:06:34No, you were the ones that did it. I was like, you're the one that started this whole thing Jackie
01:06:39This is what handle started starting. Oh, hey, you text me behind her back. So you didn't start it. I
01:06:45I
01:06:47Thought Ryan and Jackie's attack on re and myself is a bit of a joke tonight
01:06:51Sigan tired of talking about it want to concentrate on my relationship with Ray and that's all I want. That's all I'm worried about
01:06:58Jackie, I actually don't want to fight with you and I'm actually I'm actually really done with it
01:07:03Okay, do you want to put this behind? I do I do okay
01:07:06I
01:07:08Really hoping that we can move forward after today and just not talk about this because I'm really done with Jackie's drama
01:07:15When we had our commitment ceremony and we talked about how we felt in our relationships Jeff and I yes
01:07:21We are going great and I'm very very grateful for Jeff in saying that the drama that you have now
01:07:27Introduced to our relationship was quite heavy on our relationship which we discussed multiple times
01:07:35So I was just explaining what had happened and I'm really really genuinely sorry that that made you feel bad in front of everybody
01:07:45Thank you, that means a lot
01:07:53I said what I needed to say and I got an apology for the behavior. I thought that was unacceptable
01:08:00Perhaps maybe she'll get the message and it will just stop and disappear
01:08:04yeah, and
01:08:07I do think she'll be more careful about what she says and to be honest, that's all I was asking for
01:08:11So I'm quite happy to be honest. And yeah
01:08:20How she throws digs out there and she sits there laughing so weird
01:08:35Sunday night, I'm just like obsessed with him now. I've never felt like this before
01:08:40Marital bliss deepens for most of our couples. This feels so natural and good
01:08:46We're just too idiots to get along really well to be honest exactly what we say when we were matching
01:08:51And then there was something that happened Clint exposed
01:08:56What happened I come home and I instantly know
01:09:00Something's not right the unexpected turn of events that no one saw coming. I had to kind of divert my gaze
01:09:13We're gonna get straight to the matter at hand Paul's moment of truth
01:09:21I've never done this in the past ever. I'm sorry
01:09:24I need to jump in here as he is held to account by the experts
01:09:29I cannot sit here and listen to this justification
01:09:34This is toxic
01:09:36Inappropriate and unacceptable behavior. Is this the end of the road for Karina and Paul?
01:09:42I want you to tell us why we should not kick you out of the experiment right now
01:09:59You