Conocimos el testimonio de una mujer que descubrió que su pareja le era infiel tras contratar a detectives.
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00:00Hello! How are you?
00:02I'm super good, how are you?
00:04Beautiful Patti!
00:06What a great reign!
00:08Tell me, what is the story you want to share with us?
00:10Let's see...
00:12A couple of years ago, I had a partner
00:14who was unfaithful
00:16I was pregnant
00:18I had a hard time
00:20The last six months of pregnancy
00:22I started noticing it very strange
00:24The woman herself who intuits
00:26I think men are the same
00:28They have extroversial ideas
00:30And well, this time
00:32I asked him many times to tell me the truth
00:34And he never did
00:36He never did, he never did
00:38I was very sad, very depressed
00:40He told me that it was the same issue of the pregnancy
00:42that I had
00:44Long story short, since I'm not in the worst things
00:46I hired private detectives
00:48I can't believe you!
00:50Yes, I hired private detectives
00:52who followed me to work
00:54And what did you achieve?
00:56What did you achieve?
00:58In three days
01:00I already knew the truth
01:02and that he was cheating on me
01:04Was he cheating on you with just one person?
01:06I think
01:08that until that moment I was the most beautiful
01:10Because you had bad evidence
01:14Patti, Patti
01:16So, he was unfaithful
01:18and you had evidence
01:20You faced him, how was that?
01:22Yes, I faced him
01:24I hired a private detective in my house
01:26They brought me the material
01:28I can still hear you
01:30I lost the image, but I can still hear you
01:32There, yes, continue
01:34They brought me the material
01:36to show me that he was unfaithful
01:38And when he arrived
01:40one afternoon
01:42from work
01:44I had a computer installed
01:46as if I was going to listen to music
01:48and I put
01:50Apple Play
01:52And all the images
01:54that the investigator had taken
01:56He went backwards
01:58He wanted to die
02:00He ran down to the second floor
02:02and ran out of the mother's house
02:04Yes, well, a soldier who runs
02:06Yes, a soldier who runs
02:08And never again with him
02:10Ah, definitive cut
02:12But you were pregnant
02:14Yes, I was pregnant
02:16But you didn't even care
02:18You went out alone
02:20I was 6 or 7 months pregnant
02:22I didn't realize it
02:24But I never saw it before
02:26When my daughter was born
02:28I was 15 years old
02:30That's when I realized it
02:32Look
02:34I felt very weak
02:36Let's see, Paty
02:38Here we have specialists in the studio
02:40Do you have any questions to ask?
02:42Maybe how has your life been?
02:44How have you faced your life?
02:46I haven't faced that person
02:48I mean, I still think
02:50Have I been so psychologically screwed up
02:52as if I had paid for private tests?
02:54Let's see
02:56I'm going to ask Andrea Lemparte
02:58Andres, you, as a spy for love
03:00I imagine you have a lot to say now
03:02Yes, well, the truth is that
03:04Basically
03:06people
03:08A little what I was going to say to Andrea
03:10People are very lonely
03:12I think that in the program what I realize the most
03:14is that people are very lonely
03:16It's not madness
03:18It's loneliness
03:20So many times that loneliness
03:22leads us to look for people
03:24in places that
03:26many times do not correspond
03:28or that perhaps we have a high possibility
03:30of being deceived
03:32as in the case of social networks
03:34So in that sense
03:36we discovered many infidelities
03:38that many times were not physical
03:40but infidelities of being in front of the person they were
03:42Even once we met a person
03:44who wanted to marry
03:46the son's friend
03:48to win a boy
03:50and finally he realized that
03:52he had been flirting all the time
03:54with the mother of his friend
03:56and the mother got mad
03:58Of course, nothing ever happened
04:00but the mother had deceived
04:02this boy
04:04and I think that the subject of loneliness
04:06is something very important
04:08Sorry, I'm talking
04:10I'm the spy program for love
04:12I mean, researchers
04:14Look, but let's see
04:16It worked
04:18I want to ask a question
04:20to Edmundo as a psychologist
04:22because the one who searches
04:24always finds
04:26Do you recommend
04:28to search and investigate?
04:30If I have doubts, I stay with the anguish
04:32or I try to check the cell phone
04:34or I hire a private detective
04:36Look, I'm going to say it another way
04:38Why wouldn't I search in my partner
04:40Why wouldn't I hire a detective?
04:42I'm going to say it this way
04:44Because I can grab his cell phone
04:46and I know the keys
04:48because I can use his computer
04:50if he forgot it
04:52and I can send an email
04:54because I know his people
04:56But maybe in her case
04:58she didn't know the keys
05:00What I want to say is that
05:02when one does not know the means
05:04the place, the work
05:06the other has a mysterious life
05:08and you start to doubt a lot
05:10and then, if the other
05:12No, if you're crazy, no, if it's a lie
05:14no, if it has nothing to do with it
05:16but in reality, he never takes you to his family
05:18he doesn't even know his brother
05:20you don't know who he works with
05:22there are people who fall in love with him
05:24but he doesn't know more about life
05:26there is a high probability
05:28that he wants to look for an investigator
05:30I had 8 years of relationship
05:328 years of relationship
05:34and how much did he have of relationship with you?
05:36I had 8 years of relationship with him
05:38Ah, you had 8 years of relationship
05:40but with whom did you discover it?
05:42How long did it take?
05:44With her? I don't know
05:46I don't know anything
05:48because I was not interested
05:50I wanted to know if he was faithful
05:52because he was with her at work
05:54She was a co-worker?
05:56Yes
05:58And another thing, he stayed with her
06:00after he broke up with you?
06:02He stayed for a while
06:04I knew they were separated
06:06but I didn't care anymore
06:08because I turned the page
06:10and today I am a happy woman
06:12I don't feel alone
06:14I feel super fulfilled
06:16I go out with who I want
06:18I do what I want
06:20Not all men are equal
06:22But you have tried to make your life again
06:24you have been with other couples
06:26Yes
06:28I want to take the example of Patti
06:30because she is a well-empowered woman
06:32a safe woman
06:34probably
06:36self-sufficient
06:38and she doesn't depend
06:40on a partner
06:42so that also helps her
06:44to make the best decision
06:46and probably distance herself quickly
06:48because there are women who are very in love
06:50which can also be the case
06:52and there they forgive
06:54but there are other women who depend a lot on the partner
06:56What happens is that these dependencies
06:58are, as you say,
07:00contextual, due to house
07:02children
07:04social, let's not forget that
07:06there are many people who care a lot
07:08about the social structure
07:10what the family is going to say
07:12the values, let's remember that in this country
07:14there are a lot of people who have spiritual values
07:16religious and who are super attached
07:18to those values and are willing to maintain
07:20a comfortable relationship because
07:22that's how their belief determines it
07:24so it's not just a sexual dependency
07:26or because the other has money
07:28it's a social pressure
07:30Yes, when there is a social pressure