In the past, I was perceived as a female character in my own dreams

In the past, I was perceived as a female character in my own dreams, and it fluctuated. Now that I'm a guy in my dreams, I was wondering if it makes sense that the more you transition, the more likely it is that you'll become a girl in your own reality. Sadly, it was a swing and a miss. I would go to bed at night hoping to be said female in my dreams. Any ideas or comparable experiences? Much love❤️🏽