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00:00We're going to be a bestie for Sam and Kirsten.
00:03Let's talk to Kirsten.
00:05Kirsten, how old is Sam?
00:0819 po.
00:0919, okay.
00:11What's the best thing you know about the bestie
00:14that you want to share in the world?
00:16The bestie Sam is?
00:20A very genuine person.
00:23Very genuine.
00:24Yeah.
00:26That's what I want to share with you today's speech.
00:28Ano pa, magaling ba siya sa school?
00:31Mataray ba ito?
00:33Ano ba ito?
00:34Dean's Lister po siya.
00:35Wow!
00:37Dean's Lister.
00:39Very focused sa school.
00:41Kahit po, she does content creating on the side.
00:44Ano mga kinakreate niya bang contents?
00:46Fashion, makeup contents, ganyan.
00:49Yeah.
00:50Mukhang mahilig na mag-ano si Sam.
00:53May forma.
00:54Oo.
00:56May camera po kasing.
00:57Kayo, nakaganto.
00:59Pero pag wala ka sa, pag hindi ganito okasyon, ganyan pa rin siya mag-make-up?
01:03Siyempre po, hindi po siya nakamake-up kung wala.
01:05Ay, ano po?
01:06Every...
01:07Eh, pag walang...
01:08Sorry, sorry.
01:09Pag walang mga okasyon.
01:10Sa bahay, pag kayo lang.
01:11Anong ina-usal niyo?
01:12Yung nalang pag-usapan na.
01:13Anong ina-usal niyo?
01:15Kaya lumabas ng bahay?
01:16Kaya ba'y fully nourished?
01:17Ganyan.
01:18Pag sa school ba, nakamake-up pa rin siya, ano?
01:20Plakado pa rin siya.
01:21Hindi naman po ganyan ka-OA, pero...
01:23Ay, OA ko yung nalang...
01:25Wala ka ba ka-Bestian?
01:26OA na, OA.
01:27Ay, grabe.
01:28I mean...
01:28Grabe.
01:29Hindi ganyan ka-OA.
01:30Bakit naka-eg-usal siya ngayon?
01:32Yes, naka-eg-usal siya ngayon.
01:34Hindi naman po ganyan ka-super ganda.
01:37Maganda pa rin naman.
01:38Pero light makeup pag sa school.
01:40Siyempre, ito appropriate kasi magti-TV.
01:42Marami yung ilaw.
01:43Yes.
01:44At saka, siyempre, since yun ang content niya, makeup, totoo doon niya ngayon, di ba?
01:48Nasa tamang okasyon.
01:50Marami makakakita sa kanya.
01:51O, so, mapustura siyang ganyan.
01:54Yes, po.
01:55Pero kahit mapustura siya, nagko-content siya, Dean's Lister siya.
01:59Dean's Lister, perfect for yung grade niya sa purpose of communication, subject.
02:04Ang highest grade sa inyo, four?
02:06Yes.
02:07Quatro.
02:07Sabi kasi natin uno, eh.
02:08Yes, pababa.
02:09One sa amin.
02:10Oo, pag-singko, bagsak yun.
02:11Yes, pababa.
02:12Oo, perfect for.
02:14Anong subject iyan?
02:15Purposive communication.
02:17Purposive?
02:18Oh.
02:19Purposive.
02:20Purposive.
02:21Oo, purposive communication.
02:23Purposive yun.
02:24Anong grade mo dyan?
02:25Halak?
02:26Hindi ka, four dyan.
02:27Purposive.
02:28Hindi ako din dati purposive din ang basa ko dyan.
02:31O, okay lang yun.
02:33Different pronunciation, different school.
02:35Kaya pala, perfect for.
02:36Oo.
02:37Siyempre, purposive.
02:38Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
02:41Purposive.
02:42So, magaling makipag, ano to?
02:43Magaling mahusay ka sa komunikasyon?
02:45Yes, po.
02:46Gamit ang anong wika?
02:48Taglish.
02:49Tagalog.
02:50Tagalog.
02:51Tagalog English.
02:52Tagalog English.
02:53Magaling siyang mag-English talaga.
02:54Yes.
02:55Oo.
02:56Oo.
02:57Oo.
02:58Yes.
02:59You're very, your best friend has been flexing to the people here that you are very good in English.
03:05In fact, you're a dean solicitor and you got a perfect score in a purposive communication.
03:11Yes.
03:12Right?
03:13Right.
03:14What do you think is the essence of communication in the advancement of the society nowadays?
03:17Oh.
03:18Wow.
03:19Oral accent.
03:20That's a very good question.
03:24Okay.
03:25I think communication is something that can build relationships and also solve problems,
03:34but the problem is when it comes to real communication in real life, I ghost people.
03:40Oo.
03:41Oo.
03:42Oo.
03:43Oo.
03:44Oo.
03:45I wanna deal with that.
03:46Okay.
03:47Let's talk about that.
03:48Let's talk about that.
03:49Let's unpack that.
03:50The last thing that she told us.
03:51About a ghost thing?
03:52American communication in school.
03:53Yeah.
03:54Specifically, purpose of communication.
03:55She got the highest score there.
03:56She got perfect four, right?
03:57Four, yeah.
03:58But when it comes to relationships and dealing with real people.
04:01Yeah.
04:02She ghosts people.
04:04Oh.
04:05What does that mean?
04:07Thank you very much.
04:08I don't know.
04:09I don't know.
04:10I don't know.
04:11I don't know.
04:12I don't know.
04:13I don't know.
04:14I don't know.
04:15I think, iniiwasan niya lang po yung drama.
04:20Like, if meron gaya siya nakausap and...
04:25I'm so sorry.
04:26I'm so sorry.
04:27Yung taas sa energy kayo, unti-unti ko.
04:30Actually, ganun talaga sila.
04:31Diba?
04:32Si Sam, medyo ano rin eh.
04:33Yeah.
04:34So, magaling siya, kasi magaling siya sa communication na subject.
04:38Mm-mm.
04:39Pero sa totoong komunikasyon sa kapwa.
04:41Mm-mm.
04:42Hindi siya ganun kahusay sa komunikasyon.
04:44Kasi, nangiiwan siya sa area.
04:45Diba ganun yun ang go-ghost?
04:46Ah, o.
04:47Yung iniwan ka sa area, nang walang pakikausap, pakikipag-usap, at pagpapaalam.
04:51Yes.
04:52Biglang naglalaho.
04:53Diba?
04:54Eh, kasama sa komunikasyon, ang sapat na pakikipag-usap at pagpapaalam sa sandaling ikaw ay lilisan.
04:59Yes.
05:00Diba?
05:01Diba?
05:02Diba?
05:03Kailangan mong makapagbigay ng sapat na mensahe at kapaliwanagan sa sandaling ikaw ay lilisan.
05:08Dahil ang iyong paglisan ay maaaring magdulot ng sugat, sakit, hapdi, at pilat sa puso at kaluluwa ng sino mang maiiwan ng kanyang minamahal.
05:18Ah?
05:19Kaluluwa.
05:20Oo, oo.
05:21Tama.
05:22Ano?
05:23Wala.
05:24Kasi nga ayaw mag-confront.
05:25Kaya hindi niya masabi.
05:26Oh.
05:27Oo.
05:28But as a friend, do you think that's...
05:30Right?
05:31Yeah.
05:32I don't think it's right.
05:33Pero, um, I know na she can improve it naman.
05:36She can change it.
05:38Kapag...
05:39I think yung mga nakausap lang niya in the past.
05:43Kasi never pa rin po kasi siya naligawan.
05:45So, wala siya excuse.
05:46Kasi yung mga kinu-ghost niya.
05:47Ay sabi kahit mga friends, pwede mong i-ghost na.
05:49Oh, yeah.
05:50When you think you're, I'm over and done with this friendship, with this chat group, with this, you know,
05:56I gotta go.
05:57Bye.
05:58You gotta go.
05:59You gotta go.
06:00She gotta go.
06:01Ikaw ba ganon ka din?
06:02No.
06:03So, napag-uusapan niyo ba yan ah?
06:05Gusto mo yung may sandala na upo ah?
06:07Sorry.
06:08Actually, hindi ako komportable din dito.
06:10Kaya ang gata ng suot niya, pero unti-unti mo nga kasi walang sandala.
06:13Ganito talaga sa bar.
06:15Diba yung mga bar schools?
06:16Wala talagang backrest.
06:17It's a struggle.
06:18It's okay.
06:19Later, we go to the library.
06:20It's more comfortable there.
06:21Ganito sa bar ah.
06:25Oo, ganyan talaga.
06:26Hindi pwede.
06:27So, sino mga gina-ghost niya?
06:29Yung mga nakausap niya lang po na hindi naman po dumating sa point na niligawan siya,
06:35pero di niya po kasi alam paano i-deal, parang paano umalis dun sa situation.
06:40Pag hindi na siya komportable?
06:41Opo.
06:42Parang ganoon.
06:43Parang ayaw niya na, hindi niya lang masabi?
06:44Yes.
06:45O, bakit hindi mo gamitin ang mga napag-aralan mo sa purpose of communication?
06:49Sa pagbibigay ng damdamin mo sa mga tao.
06:52Kung nangyari hindi ka na comfortable.
06:54O ayaw ko na.
06:55Pakiwari ko'y wala nang kinabukasan naman ang usapan na ito.
06:57Itigil na natin.
06:58Hindi naman tayo nagkiklik.
07:00Why is that so sad?
07:01O, ako po kasi pagka kunwari may kausap ako na guy.
07:06Tapos hindi, kunwari nag-uusap kami.
07:09Tapos, three days pa lang ah.
07:11Magsasabi siya, oh, ba't di ka kumakain? Nagagalit ako.
07:15Ayaw ko.
07:16So, may ick.
07:18Parang ayaw ko to.
07:19May ano, may?
07:20Ick.
07:21May ick.
07:22So, ayun po.
07:23O, o.
07:24Sabi kasi tik-tik ang tawag siya.
07:26Bakit?
07:27Ick!
07:28Ick!
07:29Ick!
07:30Ick!
07:31Ick!
07:32Ick!
07:33O, o.
07:34Masyado ng feeling close, three days pa lang.
07:36Cringy.
07:37Yes.
07:38O, o.
07:39Nakakadiri.
07:40O, o.
07:41Pero yung may iba kasi, diba?
07:43Hindi naman talaga nila minimin.
07:45Nagpapakute lang.
07:46O, di ko nagsabi sa akin ah.
07:48Bad trip ako, hindi ako nakatulog.
07:50Meron ganun naman.
07:51Diba?
07:52Nagpapakute.
07:53Nagpapakute lang.
07:54Pero meron din naman talagang aggressive.
07:55Wow.
07:56Jowa.
07:57Oo.
07:58Gano'n.
07:59So, pag ikaw yung girl now, pag na-turn off ka, you turn your back.
08:05Opo.
08:06Di mo na sinasabi na, ay, iyoko na.
08:08Hindi ka nagpapaalam.
08:09Hindi na po.
08:10Kunwari, chat yun sa Instagram or Messenger, hindi ko na po i-review.
08:14Tapos pag nag-double chat, hindi ko na din po i-review.
08:17So, doon na nag-end.
08:19Tapos i-unfollow ko na mga next week.
08:21Hmm.
08:22Oo.
08:23Oo.
08:24Nang walang sabi-sabi.
08:25Wala po.
08:26Eh, okay ka sa ganung ano?
08:27Sa ganung ganap?
08:29Ah.
08:30Busy po kasi ako.
08:32Kunwari, may school, finals.
08:34Wala na po akong time mag-explain.
08:36So, kung mayroon pag nagkita na kami in real life.
08:38Pero may time ka makipag-chikahan pag bet mo.
08:39Yes.
08:40Pero pa kaya mo na.
08:41Wala kang time mag-explain.
08:42Yes.
08:43Feel mo mo yung feelings nila.
08:44Parang wala siyang pasensya pag ganun.
08:45Oo.
08:47Ayaw niya siguro mo naman masyadong aggressive.
08:49Nagay.
08:50Nagay.
08:51Ayaw niya masyadong?
08:52Aggressive.
08:53Yung parang, parang feeling agad na ganun.
08:56Pati una.
08:57Kasi po, never pa po talaga siya nagka-boyfriend and ligaw.
09:00So, parang kapag nakaka-experience siya ng nag-uusap pa lang ganyan na umas na parang.
09:06Yon.
09:08Okay.
09:09Pero, wala.
09:12Hindi ko kasi alam kung ano eh.
09:13Kung, kung, sasabing naman eh.
09:16Eh, okay lang yun.
09:18Kasi sa dulo, di ba, kahit sino naman kailangan.
09:22Di ba, iba pa din talaga yung napag-usapan nyo kung bakit.
09:25Deserve naman kahit, kahit nga walang dahilan eh.
09:30At least makapagpaalam ka man lang.
09:32Sa ngayon, di ba, okay kasi wala pa naman kayong malalim na pinagsamahan.
09:36Pero in the long run, kung magiging ugali mo yan,
09:39tapos, di ba, yung kunyarin, mapunta ka na sa relasyon.
09:42Masanayan.
09:43Tapos na mabit-bit mo yan.
09:44Oo.
09:45Ang toxic na nito, out.
09:46Out.
09:47O.
09:48Di ba, kasi hindi lang naman sa nagliligawan, naging mag-jowa.
09:51Kahit sa mag-aasawa, may manganya na.
09:53Ang toxic na ito, nahihirapan ako, out.
09:55Out.
09:56Nagising yung mga bata, wala na silang nanay.
09:58Nagising yung tatay, wala na yung asawa niya.
10:02Nasaan na yung nanay ng mga anak ko, di ba?
10:04Dahil sa nahihirapan siya, tumalikod na lang rin,
10:06nang hindi nagpaalam, di ba?
10:08Kasi mayroon tayong mga ginagawa ng mga bata pa tayo
10:11na hindi natin alam, nabibit-bit natin yan hanggang pagtanda.
10:14Naging ugali.
10:15Naging ugali.
10:16Dahil ayaw ko ng drama, I will just turn my back.
10:19I'm out of here.
10:20Protect my space.
10:21Yes, protect my space.
10:23Pero hindi din naman natin kung bakit siya ganun.
10:25Na ganun ka ba dati?
10:27Na-experience mo po yung ba?
10:29Hindi pa po ako nag-ghost eh.
10:30Ako po yung nag-ghost talaga.
10:33So hindi ko po alam yung feeling ng mag-ghost,
10:36kaya po siguro ginagawa ko siya repeatedly.
10:38Pero pag naranasan ko, baka magpaalam na ako next time.
10:42Oo, yun ang masakit.
10:43Kasi pag pinaranas sa'yo yung sakit, yung pain.
10:45Huwag mo nang antahin na iparanas sa'yo.
10:47Oo.
10:48Kasi diba lalo na sa'yo mga Gen Z, alam nyo yung term na ghosting is negative.
10:53Diba?
10:55Mahirap naman talaga yun yung nakahang yung isang tao na nag-iisip na ano nangyari.
11:00Oo.
11:01Walang closure.
11:02Oo.
11:03Oo.
11:04Okay.
11:05So.
11:06Pero ang mahalaga, Dean's Lister siya.
11:08Oo, yun naman talaga.
11:09Yes!
11:10Tapos Inglicera siya.
11:11Yes!
11:12Diba?
11:13Maganda siya, mapusturo siya, naka-makeup, nagko-content siya ng mga make-up, make-up, ganyan.
11:17Pero kahit nagko-content siya, hindi niya napapabayaan ang pag-aaral niya.
11:19Diba?
11:20At base sa kanilang nai-share, ano kaya ang epekto nito sa mga lalaking nakarinig,
11:25sa mga gustong umakitang ligaw?
11:27Na-turn on ba sila?
11:28Na-turn off?
11:29Ano?
11:30Anong gusto niyong gawin?
11:31Mga Hackbangers!
11:32Akyat!
11:33O baba!
11:34O baba!
11:37Ay!
11:38Ay!
11:39Nako!
11:40Nako!
11:41May talawang umakyat!
11:42Hindi sumang-ayo ng Diyos.
11:44At ang isa naman ay bumaba.
11:47Ayaw ni God.
11:48Ayaw ni God.
11:49Ayaw ni God.
11:50Sabi ni God.
11:51Dutch butt.
11:52Oo, ayaw niya.
11:53Bumaba si God.
11:54Yes!
11:55Pero alamin natin anong mga dahila nila bakit sila umakyat at mayroong bumaba.
11:59Unain natin si Joseph.
12:00Joseph!
12:01Joseph!
12:02For me po, yung good communicator was a green flag for me.
12:06Because a healthy relationship needs good communication.
12:10Tapos yung din slister, since masipak din ako sa edukasyon.
12:14Wow!
12:15Since ano po, yung mga lessons po ng mga magulang ko, like, todo po sila supportive sa education ko.
12:24Like, first education.
12:25Nakakailang like ka sa isang gabi.
12:27That's not my fault.
12:28That's not my fault.
12:30Oo, natatantusan niyo ba yan?
12:32Ito siya, Thompson.
12:33How is it like to, you know...
12:36Like so much, yeah.
12:38Pero yung pagiging ano naman yan, nag-ghost daw eh, ghosting.
12:40Okay ka doon?
12:41Never po mo na-ghost since...
12:44Magaling po.
12:45Magaling po.
12:46Tapusan mo na.
12:47Experience mo.
12:48First time.
12:49Sam pa experience mo sa kanya.
12:51Tampay ka lang.
12:52Sabi ni Sam, makakaasa siya.
12:56Okay, thank you Joseph.
12:58Lorenzo, ikaw naman, ba't agad kang umakyat?
13:01Nagusto ako po una yung genuine siya tsaka smart.
13:04Pero mas gusto ko mag-duel dun sa yung supposedly red flag niya which is yung pang-ghost.
13:10I think I understand her completely kasi dumaan rin ako sa phase na hindi ko kayang harapin yung problems head on.
13:16And I think I believe if mag-workout kami, in terms of compatibility, this is something that we could work on.
13:23I think ang isang magandang relationship, hindi talaga siya perfect so you need something to work on.
13:27And I think that could be a foundation for things to come up.
13:30Pero naranasan mo na ba mag-ghost?
13:32Ay, maraming beses po.
13:33Maraming beses po.
13:34Ano pakiramdam pag ginawa sa iyo?
13:37Sa simula po, masakit kasi ang pinaka-ano natin dyan yung pride talaga.
13:41But as time goes on, when it keeps happening, you accept it as reality and it's just like, it's not really personal.
13:47People go through their own stuff and I just try to understand na okay, ganun talaga.
13:51Oh, tinatanggap.
13:52Galing.
13:53Dating-dating kasi. May ganyan.
13:55Uy, nagpalakpakan sila.
13:56Hindi tayo nakasabay.
13:57Hindi ko na hinti.
13:58Anong pinang usapan nila?
13:59O, o.
14:00It's a review worth it.
14:01Make some major.
14:02Make some major.
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