Second Date Update - Runaway Bride
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00:00We're right in the middle of a second date update, trying to match Aaron and James back up on another date.
00:05It's commercial-free New Country, 99.5 QYK.
00:08We have talked to Aaron.
00:09She was very confident in her date, but is very confused now because she has not heard from James.
00:15Right.
00:15They went downtown St. Pete.
00:17It sounds like they had a great dinner, and then they kind of walked around a little bit.
00:20But she said James is not getting back to her.
00:23Okay.
00:23So we actually have James on the phone with us right now.
00:26Let's just bring him on and see if we can get to the bottom of this.
00:28James, you there?
00:30Yeah, I'm here.
00:31Hey, James.
00:32I know you talked to our producer, Kevin, off the air, and we appreciate you agreeing to come on the air with us.
00:38You know what this is about.
00:39We wanted to talk to you about your date with Aaron.
00:43It sounded like things were kind of perfect, but since that date, she has not heard from you,
00:49and we thought we'd just kind of call you on her behalf and find out what's going on.
00:54So is there a reason you're not getting back to her?
00:56Are you not interested, or did something happen?
01:00Um, yeah, it was just kind of like a story she told me, I guess you could say.
01:05Okay.
01:06What story?
01:08Oh, geez.
01:08So we were just talking about like our dating life and stuff like that.
01:12And so we got into our last relationship, and it turned out her last relationship, she was engaged.
01:19She had a fiancé and planned a wedding, and everything was all set.
01:25And then two days before they were supposed to get married, she just broke up with her fiancé and bailed on the whole thing, like, out of nowhere.
01:32Oh, wow.
01:33Two days before the wedding?
01:36Yeah.
01:36Yeah, it was just crazy.
01:37At first, I thought she was kidding.
01:38Like, she's like, yeah, I was supposed to get married.
01:40And then two days before, I thought I was like, and then she's like, no, I'm serious.
01:44I'm like, oh, okay.
01:45Did something happen right before she was supposed to get married?
01:49I mean, we didn't go through all the details of what was going on or whatever, but no, like, it seemed like she just kind of changed her mind at the last second.
01:57Huh.
01:58It's like something you see in a movie.
01:59Yeah.
02:00I don't hear about this happening that often.
02:02No.
02:02Like, to me, it was just insane that, like, if, you know, you don't want to marry someone or whatever, like, that's fine.
02:08But two days before, if you have, like, friends and family coming from out of town and, like, just to decide, like, eh, I don't think this was cool, so I'll just get a, you know, bail.
02:17Like, it was just, I don't know.
02:19To me, that's crazy, like, how, I don't know, I don't see how somebody could do that.
02:23Yeah, that's kind of a big deal.
02:25Well, maybe we should bring Erin back on.
02:28Yeah.
02:28I mean, I could see why you'd be kind of taken back by that.
02:32Let's bring her on right now because we have her on hold, James.
02:36Erin, you there?
02:37Yeah, I'm here.
02:39And, you know, I got to be really honest.
02:41Like, this is really kind of insulting to me, quite frankly.
02:45I opened up to you on our first date about my past and some troubles I had, and, you know, you sat there and listened to me, nodded along, offered some insight, and then I find out on air that that's the reason you did not call me back, honestly.
03:03What the hell is that all about?
03:04Okay, first of all, the only reason, like, this is being revealed on air is because you wanted me to come on air, is my understanding of this whole thing.
03:14And, like, and now I'm being honest.
03:16You wanted to cancel your wedding two days before, and I don't want to go on another date.
03:20Like, I don't see what I'm doing as offensive or anything like that.
03:24Yes, you're literally judging me.
03:26So I think you need to take a really hard look at yourself and my situation because you don't know if you could be in my situation someday.
03:35And the fact that, again, if you had an issue with things I told you on our first date, you didn't convey any of that to me.
03:43So, you know what, it doesn't matter that I left my fiancé 48 hours before the wedding.
03:47You look like a jerk simply just because you cannot effectively communicate.
03:51And, honestly, if you even think you're going to get far in finding a healthy relationship, a wife, or whatever, you know, whatever you want, you're not going to get far if you can't even speak to people.
04:03So, yeah, okay, maybe I waited to say this when you dragged me onto the radio, but how about, like, if you don't want to marry somebody, how about instead of waiting two days before, you have the courage to say something?
04:13I don't know, I don't know, a month before, I don't know, when he proposes and you're like, ah, no, I don't think this is something I want to do.
04:19No, don't jump all over me because I didn't share my feelings with you until we were put on the radio when you can't share your feelings with somebody until two days before our wedding.
04:28And, like, whatever, the date was fine, but, like, right now you're just acting insane.
04:32Oh, you know what, you don't get to call me insane.
04:35The only reason you're on the line, again, is because you couldn't be a decent person and get back to me about how you truly felt.
04:42You know what, if you want to judge me about, you know, my engagement, my fiancé and calling off my wedding, that's fine.
04:48I'm used to it.
04:49I'm just letting you know, and the rest of Tampa Bay know that you're a jerk.
04:53Okay.
04:53I don't know, your ex-fiancé kind of sounds lucky to me at this point, like, you're probably lucky you broke it off.
04:59All right, okay, guys.
05:01This is getting a little ugly.
05:02So, I'm just going to jump in right here and say, Aaron, I have the assumption that you have no kind of want to go back on another date now.
05:10So, well, no, especially if he's going to just be a jerk, which he's been being a jerk this entire conversation.
05:16Okay.
05:17Well, James, I know we kind of got you off guard this morning.
05:20I do appreciate you coming on with us.
05:22No problem.
05:24Jeez.
05:25Okay.
05:25And, Aaron, you got your answer, and now you know why he hasn't been getting back to you, and I wish you luck, okay?
05:32All right, thanks.
05:33And, honestly, he's going to need some luck, so you better circle back with him on that.
05:37Okay.
05:37Got it.
05:38All right, take care, guys.
05:40Bye.
05:41Wow.
05:42Yeah.
05:43Yeah, but, dude, I mean, come on, man.
05:45I mean, if you heard that on a first date, that would be a lot, but maybe she had good
05:51reason to call it off 48 hours before.
05:55Yeah.
05:55We did not hear the full story of why she called it off.
05:58And we don't know the reason, you know, and maybe we all should be commending her for walking
06:03away from something instead of getting herself stuck in something that would have been harder
06:06to get out.
06:07So, maybe it was the right move.
06:09We don't know the story.
06:10All right, where are you at on this?
06:11800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
06:15Drive-in on.
06:16Bulls creators.
06:17Keep walking.
06:17Walk around.
06:18Take care in the room.
06:19Take care in the room.
06:19Use the date of the name.
06:21Get to the date of the name.
06:21Take care in the room.
06:36Take care.
06:37ziehen beautiful instructions.
06:38Give it right time.
06:38Ah, welcome.
06:39Take care in the room.
06:39Come on.
06:41It's my name.
06:42Look out.
06:42Get to tysią.
06:43Stay low toア.