Erotic Whisper Interview
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00:00All right, 105, Wonder Brown, Detroit, Stove Back,
00:02Fit Pop and R&B, it's your boy Showtime Dazar here.
00:04I got a special guest in studio with me.
00:07She goes by the Erotic Whisperer.
00:10I've been knowing her for a long time,
00:11but now she's out here.
00:13Got something special for y'all going Valentine's Day.
00:16Yes, hey y'all.
00:17Welcome, Erotic Whisperer.
00:18Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.
00:20All right, so explain exactly what erotic poetry is.
00:24So erotic poetry is the art form of eroticism,
00:30so with words.
00:32So you talk about all types of kinks, fantasies, lusts,
00:39from stories to experiences to stuff that you've seen,
00:44just all of that in one, in just a different type of way.
00:49You know, we do listen to R&B,
00:52we listen to rap,
00:54and they pretty much talk about the same thing,
00:55you know what I'm saying,
00:56but just in different melodies.
00:57And so with erotic poetry,
01:00it's just pretty much acapella,
01:02but you're using metaphors just like rappers do.
01:05Like, you're using metaphors just like R&B singers do,
01:08but this one is just usually no beat.
01:10It's just you and how you express yourself.
01:13So it's more like it's music almost.
01:17It is.
01:17Okay, it is music.
01:18Because you need this part before you can even get to making a song.
01:22Right.
01:23You know what I'm saying?
01:23The lyrics.
01:24But a song can just be the beat itself too,
01:26and just, you know, how you feel within that.
01:28So this is just the words with pretty much no beat,
01:31but the beat from the heart, really.
01:33Now, I ain't gonna lie to you.
01:36When I heard of what erotic poetry was,
01:38I thought it was just like sex, like porn stuff,
01:41but, you know, on the stage.
01:43Is that, like, completely incorrect?
01:47Not completely, but yes.
01:51Because we all use eroticism in some form or fashion in our life regularly.
01:57This is just highlighting those things that are pretty much taboo
02:01and bringing it out in a different way to disassociate from what you thought you knew
02:07to what it really is in reality, although it's a fantasy.
02:11So what got you into doing erotic poetry?
02:13Like, how did you stumble upon that, or did it find you?
02:16How did that work?
02:17I kind of found it, but it did find me at the same time.
02:21So I've been reading since I've been three years old.
02:24So from there, I had access to a wide range of things.
02:29When you learn how to read at a very early age,
02:31you surpass the books that people of your age bracket is reading,
02:35you start dipping into other things.
02:36So when I got to, like, middle school, I was reading, like, those erotic books.
02:43In middle school?
02:44Yeah, I was.
02:45Now, hold on.
02:46Now, I knew you since middle school.
02:47I didn't know you was reading freaky books.
02:50I was.
02:51Wow.
02:51And I found an interest in it.
02:52I just was a child, so I didn't really know how to, like, ask somebody.
02:58Like, oh, yeah, I knew people in my age group wasn't on that type of time.
03:01You know what I'm saying?
03:02And they might have been having sex.
03:03They might have been interested.
03:04They might have been going through puberty.
03:05You know, that kind of leads up to all of these things.
03:08But I was reading it.
03:10So experiences I knew before I've even approached them.
03:13You know what I mean?
03:14So, and then I read Cold as Whenever, and that's my sister, Soja.
03:18She's been, like, an inspiration to me since then.
03:21Because I'm, like, the way she depicted this story in this book.
03:24And then as I got older, I read it again.
03:27And when you start to have orgasms with reading a book, it's very much inspirational.
03:33Just like you would if you go into a strip club and it's nothing but the erotic music.
03:38It's going to make you, you know what I'm saying, excited.
03:41You know what I mean?
03:42From women and men.
03:43So it's just a whole bunch of horny people in the vicinity of each other.
03:46And whatever happens, happens.
03:48It's the same thing with reading.
03:49But it's just between you and the characters that's in that book.
03:52So that's the little one.
03:53So it's the imagery that kind of gets you.
03:55Okay, so let me ask you this.
03:59Is what you do considered, like, here's the proper term, sex work.
04:04I don't really like that term because it sounds too cute.
04:06Like, ain't nothing, ain't doing nothing cute.
04:08You know what I mean?
04:08It's just sex.
04:09We about to do some nasty stuff in here.
04:11Is that considered sex work or no?
04:13It's a whole completely different.
04:14It's a whole different thing.
04:15Wow.
04:16And a lot of people try to put it together.
04:18And it's not.
04:18And it's not.
04:19Is it close?
04:21Not even at all.
04:22I mean, considering the fact that's something that people talk about in society, I guess it would be in that category.
04:27But that's not necessarily what it is.
04:29I mean, I'm not doing no sex work.
04:30I don't be up there doing shit sexual other than showing a cleavage, showing my arms.
04:38I'm not fully naked.
04:39I'm just reading.
04:40I'm just reading these words or saying these words, reciting these words.
04:44But it was a thought first.
04:45I put it on paper.
04:46I made and made sense together in a way that I grab your attention.
04:49But it's deeper than just that.
04:51For me, it is.
04:52When I am performing these poems, I get your attention through the sexual movements and vibrations of my words.
05:02But the meaning behind what I'm saying is so much deeper than just I want to have sex with you or I want to fuck you.
05:07You know what I'm saying?
05:08It's not even on that type of energy.
05:10It's not me begging for sex.
05:12It's not me being desperate for sex.
05:15It's just showing a different form of sex that's not really respected or even knowing that it's the basis of where everything else is.
05:23So that's pretty much what I'm saying.
05:25So when you're writing your poems, what does your inspiration come from?
05:29Does it come from like a bedroom experience or just can it come from like being outside?
05:33You know what I'm saying?
05:33Seeing this, seeing that.
05:34And be like, dang, that made me feel a ways.
05:35What does your inspiration come from when writing a poem?
05:37It literally is all of that in one.
05:38But the first set of poems that I wrote when I first started, which was about two, three years ago, it was based on my experiences.
05:46I had moved from the city to Atlanta and I was single, a single mom and a single woman.
05:53So it was a lot of experiences that I had there that were much different than the experiences that I had at home.
06:00So writing those and performing those, the inspiration came from my experience more so with those poems.
06:09But then I kind of changed it to how I feel when other people tell me their stories.
06:14Like, so now, you know, I started a book club, an erotic book club where we talk about erotic, where we read erotic books of all types of kinks and sex literature and things of that nature.
06:26And we kind of had these discussions, like how this really affected us if somebody else had this type of story, but that was related to me or somebody that I truly love or whatever the case may be is versus just my experiences.
06:39So do you ladies express like trauma experiences in that or is it just all about like kinks and fetishes?
06:46So it will eventually get to that.
06:48I just started February 1st and we're reading The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene.
06:53And I chose that book because it kind of gives you the platform in which not to make these bad decisions based on knowing what type of seducer you are or manipulator you are.
07:06And these things kind of coincide together when being in a relationship with somebody or getting over an old relationship before you, you know, involve yourself with somebody else.
07:15So I wanted all of us to kind of know where we stand as far as being different individuals, because I'm not talking to a whole bunch of sirens, which are like the hair strong in your face beauty type of people.
07:28You know what I mean?
07:29Don't have to do too much and people fall for you and fall to their knees.
07:31So I don't want to approach everybody like that if they're not the same as I am.
07:36I want to be able to have everybody come in and cohesively talk about the different experiences and how we can actually coincide from the red flags and seeing if this person is even worthy of even doing this.
07:48So creating a generational wealth, trying to get rid of the generational curses behind sex.
07:55So you mentioned earlier that you were a mom of how many?
07:59Three.
07:59Three.
08:00And it's boys, correct?
08:01Two boys and a daughter.
08:02Two boys and a daughter.
08:03Okay.
08:03Two boys and a daughter.
08:05How do you, I mean, they're all young, right?
08:08So clearly you don't have to explain it to them right now, but there's going to be a time where you have to explain what you do to your kids.
08:15Have you thought about that conversation?
08:16I have, because I've had people come to me like, why are you doing this?
08:19Yeah, that's what I was, yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:20And it's the same when, you know, I've never been a stripper or an exotic dancer, but I've had conversations with people who are, who have children.
08:28And that always was a conversation that we would discuss, like, how do you deal with that?
08:33With people coming and knowing you and saying this and that.
08:37But for me, it's like, I teach my kids to indulge in whatever makes them happy and love what you do.
08:44I love writing.
08:45I love expressing myself.
08:47I love sex in every form of fashion, because without sex, I wouldn't have been able to have my children.
08:52I wouldn't be born.
08:53So I look at things from a creative standpoint and every direction of that.
08:57But when I cross that bridge, the approach would be the same.
09:01Do what you love, but this is the extent of why I do what I do.
09:05So even within my art now, I have to figure out a way that is going to be meaningful versus just sexy and trying to sell the sex.
09:13Right.
09:14I want to sell the sex in a proper way that's educating so that way we don't be hypersexuals.
09:18And then we have all of these issues within our community.
09:21So that approach, I haven't gotten there yet, but I definitely have thought about it.
09:25All right.
09:25Last thing before I let you go.
09:27You do have a show coming up February 14th, right?
09:30Yes.
09:31Valentine's Day.
09:31Yes.
09:32Okay.
09:32What can people expect from your show when you're on that stage?
09:34I've seen you post a couple clips.
09:36You be into it.
09:37Yeah.
09:37So what can people expect from the show?
09:40Where can they get tickets and where is the show going to be at?
09:42The show is going to be in Flushing, Michigan.
09:44It's at a chop house.
09:46The flyer is on my page at Erotic Whisperer on Instagram.
09:51But what to expect, to be honest with you, for you to let go, it's a safe space.
09:58It's going to be other erotic poets, not just myself.
10:01But I get the energy from the other poets as well, too.
10:05Do men come to these?
10:06Absolutely.
10:06They do?
10:07Okay.
10:07Absolutely.
10:08A lot of couples come to these, too.
10:10But, yes, everybody come.
10:11But it do be a lot of men there.
10:14But this will be the first time I'm on a stage with these individuals.
10:18And we all haven't even had a conversation with each other.
10:21So this will be our first time, you know, really getting in.
10:23And I really wanted to be a part of this set.
10:25So what you can expect is what I'll always deliver.
10:28Top tier experience.
10:30Amazing.
10:30Top tier experience.
10:31Shout your Instagram, your socials out one more time for me.
10:34Tell them where they can get tickets.
10:35Yes, they can get tickets at somewhere in Detroit or somewhere in DET.com.
10:40Again, the flyer is on my page on Instagram at Erotic Whisper.
10:43You can also subscribe to my YouTube channel where I will be posting all of my performances.
10:48And that's at Erotic Whisper as well, too.
10:50I appreciate you for coming in, stopping by and talking with us.
10:53It's your boy Showtime.
10:54This is the Erotic Whisper.
10:55It's 105.
10:55I want to bounce.
10:56I want to bounce.
10:56I want to bounce.