90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Episode 9
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00:00:00say the prices of changing my status to permanent president is just increasing so bad
00:00:07not if we get married for a couple of weeks i don't know how i feel about that i definitely
00:00:16don't feel like maddie should be asking me to push up the wedding if he's not 100 sure that
00:00:20this is what he really wants but if i don't know that you're 100 sure then i'm not gonna be able
00:00:26to marry i'd be ready to talk to you more about it you know do you think i can't just follow your
00:00:33money mark youtube it makes me nervous because i don't know what there's inside i thought we had
00:00:52that resolved i thought we were on a better path but we're right back before we started again
00:00:57the biggest thing for me is finding out if you like server i'm not walking down the aisle without
00:01:05my daughter's approval how would that play out if me and him didn't necessarily get along
00:01:10i wouldn't marry him that is an at-home hiv test kit really i just want to be cautious because we
00:01:21have a open relationship in a perfect world we'd just be monogamous but at the end of the day i
00:01:28didn't sign up to be in a relationship with a woman if i want to change my body do you continue
00:01:35feeling attractive or that you can
00:01:38what did break say about the dollar i don't know how he's really going to pay for the dollar because
00:01:47he's not financially stable if you don't get a job or to go back to that it's like a knife in the
00:01:54horn straight up do you tell people you're in a serious relationship yes or no
00:01:58honey honey i want to go back home i want to go back to my shoulders this is ridiculous
00:02:10you can't start a little housewife that's what's going on
00:02:14as in theь
00:02:18cool
00:02:25oh
00:02:26oh
00:02:28oh
00:02:28oh
00:02:32oh
00:02:38oh
00:02:38part of me is kind of relieved that sophie has agreed to meet sarper this has been a long time
00:02:50coming and it's finally here but you know i'm a little nervous because it could go totally wrong
00:02:55sarper does not have more than one chance for a first impression so it's really important for
00:03:02him to get this right the first time what are you doing i'm working on my routine
00:03:07are you doing it out of nervous energy yeah well sit i'm working on a new joke
00:03:13i'm so glad sophie agreed to meet with me but i still i feel a little nervous you know i don't
00:03:22know what to do so i have to occupy my mind with something so working on my stand-up routine
00:03:29it occupies and i forget other things that's kind of redirecting your thoughts
00:03:35the next performer coming from turkey this is sarper
00:03:39we as men we are dead liars but women they are grandmasters
00:03:48you get it
00:03:51of course
00:03:54i love stakes i mean i danced for seven years
00:03:59it was a hobby and i liked that attention and i thought i mean she kind of doesn't let me
00:04:08to dance anymore that's for sure but i can do something and i always had a dream of stand-up
00:04:15there is nothing scarier than the silence of a woman it is just like the silence of the lamps you know
00:04:22and it will like
00:04:23i am learning the stand-up thing with she kind of the audience i mean they're most reactionless
00:04:32emotionless
00:04:33what's wrong connie nothing did i do anything wrong
00:04:37nothing
00:04:40and i'm making something that make her to laugh
00:04:45she's doing that
00:04:46the first thing you have called is not reached at the moment
00:04:50but it's great you know
00:04:54because when i go on the stage if nobody laughs
00:04:57it won't be difficult for me because i'm already get used to it you know
00:05:00okay babe come sit down enough of all that
00:05:05come here
00:05:06boy you don't give any reaction when i do something
00:05:08i feel like i am trying to process it
00:05:12i think he's funny but i think he's funny like in the wild
00:05:17i don't think he's so much funny when it's scripted
00:05:21so it makes me nervous more than anything
00:05:24because i want people to laugh at him
00:05:26but i don't want them to laugh at him in a bad way
00:05:30like i want them to genuinely think he's funny
00:05:32i don't know i love it
00:05:35you love it
00:05:36yeah
00:05:37i laugh at myself
00:05:38i can see that
00:05:40it's everything i need you know right now
00:05:43i am still so nervous
00:05:45i'm nervous too
00:05:46this is really the day
00:05:47this is the day that most important to a person in your life
00:05:51i know
00:05:51meeting
00:05:52it's gonna go good babe
00:05:55i hope so baby
00:05:57let's see what happens
00:05:59come on
00:06:01i will take blanket for her because it can be cold
00:06:05good idea
00:06:06i'm a father figure
00:06:08father thinks everything
00:06:10yeah that is the thing a dad would think of
00:06:12i think it's so cute that cyborg booked a whale watching trip for us and i think it's gonna be fun it's a good activity you know because just like going to like a restaurant and sitting down and having a conversation it's into the world and i think it's going to be fun
00:06:32and i think it's gonna be fun it's a good activity you know because just like going to like a restaurant and sitting down and having a conversation it's into that's too intense you know you need something else going on around you to make it less scary less
00:06:48i thought the same way pressure you know it's gonna take pressure off of this meeting to have something fun
00:06:53i have never seen a whale in person so you've never seen a whale in your life
00:06:59no i mean it's not a cat or dog that you can see on the street or wherever you go
00:07:04yeah
00:07:04it's a whale
00:07:04i love when you smile
00:07:09i it makes me more relieved
00:07:11i'm trying to smile to make you relaxed
00:07:14normally if i am so anxious about something i always escape
00:07:18watching my team's match i turn off the tv
00:07:23because i hate them to concede a goal and me to watch it
00:07:28right now with sophie i just want to go away i don't want to have these feelings but
00:07:32in turkey we say done or none and it's up to me right now but i feel so nervous and anxious i hate that
00:07:40there she is
00:07:44oh my god
00:07:45hey sophie
00:07:48how are you
00:07:51good
00:07:51so cute
00:07:53you look so gorgeous
00:07:55thank you
00:07:56hi
00:07:56this is sarper
00:07:57sarper's so cute
00:07:58i see you too
00:07:59dc
00:08:01she's so pretty
00:08:02i know right
00:08:03she's gorgeous
00:08:04and look how tall she is
00:08:07yes
00:08:08oh my god
00:08:10that is so cute
00:08:11should we get on the boat
00:08:12i think they're waiting for us
00:08:14so let's go
00:08:15seeing sarper for the first time
00:08:17i feel like i had already seen him before
00:08:19because of all the pictures
00:08:20and like i already knew how he looked
00:08:22talked
00:08:23but i also feel like i want to get to know him more as a person as well
00:08:27i like to see him treat my mom with respect
00:08:30as in the way he talks to her
00:08:32like i know communication gets a little lost or like the way that he words things
00:08:36but it's kind of common sense on some of the things you say and you don't
00:08:40look at this
00:08:54look at this
00:08:54there's one at this
00:08:55oh my god a little sea
00:08:56it's so cute
00:08:59oh my god the wind
00:09:01there's so much wind
00:09:05oh my god
00:09:06it's so windy
00:09:07didn't go inside until we're like still
00:09:10i wish we were sitting up there on the front
00:09:12it's very intense
00:09:13follow sarper
00:09:15oh sarper
00:09:16okay let's follow him
00:09:18oh my god
00:09:19oh my god
00:09:20go go go
00:09:22no no no
00:09:23i'm already getting sprayed
00:09:26this is wild
00:09:28as soon as we get on the boat
00:09:29we think it's a good idea
00:09:31to go on the outside part of the deck
00:09:33and look for whales
00:09:36which it was too soon to even look for whales
00:09:38but we didn't know
00:09:38and we go out
00:09:40and get splashed with a huge wave
00:09:43i just got so
00:09:44like what do we do
00:09:46and then we're cold after that
00:09:50i definitely feel too thick
00:09:57you do
00:09:58do you feel like you're in a car
00:10:00i don't know
00:10:00really
00:10:01i don't want to move
00:10:03i don't want to
00:10:04i feel like i'll get thicker by now
00:10:06yeah me too
00:10:06all right though
00:10:09same time
00:10:10we're gonna do a quick pivot
00:10:11oh my god
00:10:13that was the last thing that
00:10:19i can expect
00:10:20you know
00:10:21sarper
00:10:25do you feel sick
00:10:26okay
00:10:27um
00:10:29it's the first impression
00:10:30seeing sophie for the first time
00:10:32i mean right now
00:10:34everyone is sick
00:10:35you got everything
00:10:55yeah
00:10:56let's go britt
00:10:57yeah
00:10:58we'll go for avion ride again
00:10:59let's go
00:11:02yeah we had kind of a rocky weekend with family in north carolina
00:11:21she's already asleep
00:11:22so the plan is for us to continue on down to florida where i used to live and catch up with some old friends and you know maybe get our heads back on straight
00:11:32this is a cool area here
00:11:45yeah
00:11:46it's some kind of knees
00:11:49you know
00:11:49no it's not like
00:11:51can or knees
00:11:51no it's more
00:11:52knees
00:11:53the color
00:11:53the
00:11:54pink
00:11:54this is florida
00:11:57this is why i told you i'm not a
00:11:58i'm not a huge florida person
00:12:00some people love it
00:12:01but i come down here
00:12:02because jordan is here
00:12:03and some other friends
00:12:05and
00:12:05you can meet diana
00:12:06diana
00:12:07she's uh
00:12:08the ex
00:12:09uh
00:12:09wife to philip your friend
00:12:11yeah exactly
00:12:12very strange
00:12:13well
00:12:14it's just because we all hung out
00:12:16and yeah i was going out with
00:12:17with jade
00:12:18and diana's the one who introduced me to jade
00:12:21i think you'll like diana
00:12:22because she's just a cool person
00:12:24she's a lot like you
00:12:25i'm unique
00:12:27i'm not happy
00:12:28i never went out with diana
00:12:30so you relax about diana
00:12:32just because she introduced me to jade
00:12:34doesn't make diana a bad person
00:12:36diana said
00:12:39i got a girlfriend that she worked with
00:12:41at a clothing store
00:12:42so
00:12:43jade worked there
00:12:44and she just
00:12:45we went out one night
00:12:46double date
00:12:47you know
00:12:47dinner
00:12:47and then two more years
00:12:50and then
00:12:50um
00:12:51then i met you
00:12:52and since you
00:12:53was just
00:12:54so much
00:12:55only you
00:12:57okay
00:12:58i'm serious
00:12:59go on
00:13:00we don't have to create a new drama
00:13:02it's just
00:13:03i just thought you guys
00:13:04might have fun together
00:13:06that's all
00:13:07okay
00:13:08we're good
00:13:09oh no
00:13:11he seems nice
00:13:12hi
00:13:14hi
00:13:15how you doing
00:13:16how you doing
00:13:17this is me
00:13:18hi
00:13:18it's so nice to meet you
00:13:19diana
00:13:19nice to meet you
00:13:20the princess maria
00:13:23oh you're so beautiful
00:13:25this shop is cool
00:13:30it's nice in here
00:13:31how you been
00:13:34i'm great
00:13:34i'm doing good
00:13:35busy busy busy
00:13:37i work all the time
00:13:38yeah we uh
00:13:39we had kind of a crazy weekend
00:13:42in north carolina
00:13:43with a little family drama
00:13:45so i told her i'd bring her down
00:13:46to your cool shop
00:13:47and you know
00:13:48buy her
00:13:49see what she likes
00:13:50tell her
00:13:50did you get the bmw yet
00:13:52i don't know
00:13:53don't tell her about that
00:13:55what do you want to tell her about the bmw
00:13:58she's making this up
00:13:59everybody gets a bmw
00:14:01no no no
00:14:02what do you mean me
00:14:03i get a bmw
00:14:04i bought jordan a bmw
00:14:06and then when i was dating jade
00:14:09i helped her get a bmw
00:14:11and that was actually a thing
00:14:12between jordan and pete
00:14:14maybe later
00:14:16i'm pretty tired
00:14:18you're gonna have the maserati
00:14:20and the aston martin
00:14:21oh you're gonna throw it
00:14:22even more expensive
00:14:23thank you
00:14:23thank you
00:14:24crazy girl
00:14:25i think i'll just buy her
00:14:27a fancy dress
00:14:28no bmw
00:14:28why not
00:14:30thank you for mentioning that
00:14:31diana
00:14:32i introduced my best friend jade to mark
00:14:35and they completely hit it off
00:14:37during the time they were dating
00:14:39he had went out and bought his daughter
00:14:41a bmw
00:14:42and he went and got jade one as well
00:14:45which i thought was a little bit
00:14:47much
00:14:48i don't know
00:14:49i think everything with them was very quick
00:14:53maybe you should go get ice cream
00:14:59i gotta talk to my girl about the bmw's
00:15:01come here come here come here
00:15:04come on
00:15:06yeah you guys
00:15:07yeah we're shocked
00:15:08i'm gonna try to keep maria happy here
00:15:11there's like a little gelato ice cream shelf
00:15:13for your birth
00:15:14come on
00:15:15come on
00:15:16we'll go see the fountain
00:15:17we'll go see the fountain
00:15:18so i can't believe you're here
00:15:21i'm so glad we finally met
00:15:22but i'm shocked that you're here
00:15:24why
00:15:25because i thought like
00:15:27you were gonna stay in france
00:15:29and you never came to visit
00:15:31and i kept asking my girl
00:15:32why did she come to visit
00:15:33yes the problem for the fees is not sample
00:15:36yeah but i'm glad we're getting a time to talk because
00:15:40you have to understand like when when he told me about you i had my reservations about a lot of things but i think i was more concerned about where he was mentally if he was ready to even be in a relationship because when he showed me your photo and he was talking about you the way he said it was oh my god i met this beautiful woman in france and she reminds me of jade
00:16:34to tell me that he had met somebody
00:16:36that reminds him exactly like Jade.
00:16:41He sent me a photo and he explained
00:16:43that she had a son as well.
00:16:44And I was a little bit concerned after that
00:16:46because I just felt like he was trying to substitute her.
00:16:50He wanted someone like Jade,
00:16:51I think because he was still in love with my friend.
00:16:52Honestly, I don't think he got over it.
00:16:56I'm sure if they had stayed a little longer together,
00:16:58he would have definitely asked her to marry him.
00:17:01Why exactly the problem for a breakup with your friend?
00:17:08From what I know, Mark moved her in.
00:17:11They were living together.
00:17:12And then you have your house.
00:17:14No, no.
00:17:16She was living with him here in Florida somewhere.
00:17:19He told me never living with you, with Jade.
00:17:22He said he never lived with her?
00:17:24He said no.
00:17:25She has a house.
00:17:28He's still living here, but you never live together.
00:17:31Yeah, that's like a big thing to keep from you.
00:17:34So, yeah.
00:17:35I'm very confused now.
00:17:36They were dating for like a month or two
00:17:39and then he, it was fast, very fast.
00:17:41He moved her in and her son.
00:17:43D'apprendre, en fait, que Mark, ils ont vécu ensemble.
00:17:49Ça met en colère parce que je l'ai demandé plusieurs fois.
00:17:52S'ils ont habité ensemble, il m'a dit pas du tout.
00:17:56Je ne sais pas pourquoi il me l'a caché.
00:17:58Je ne sais pas la raison.
00:17:59C'est une nouvelle marque.
00:18:01Je n'ai jamais vu cette marque.
00:18:03Il me dit que Jade a breaké avec Jade
00:18:06parce que Jade est en train de changer de New Hampshire.
00:18:11Il dit, oui.
00:18:12Oui, elle n'a pas envie de changer de New Hampshire.
00:18:14Mais c'est pas la seule raison.
00:18:15Il y avait quelques choses.
00:18:17Une des choses, Jade m'a appelé quand elle était vivant dans la maison avec lui.
00:18:21Et il était en train de travailler.
00:18:23Il était en train de voler.
00:18:23Et il a quitté son iPad.
00:18:25Et son téléphone s'est connecté à l'iPad.
00:18:27Et il était en train de parler avec les autres filles.
00:18:29Et il avait des photos avec les autres filles.
00:18:31Donc il était en train de travailler sur elle,
00:18:33essentiellement, quand ils étaient vivant ensemble.
00:18:36Ce qu'elle m'a raconté, Diana,
00:18:38est le marque que je connais, c'est deux marques différents.
00:18:42Je me suis sûrement trompée, peut-être...
00:18:47Je ne sais pas.
00:18:50Je suis très désolée, fille.
00:18:52Tu vas le marier, tu sais?
00:18:53Tu veux être sûr, tu veux savoir tout.
00:18:56Parce que je ne pense pas que Marc est très honnête.
00:18:59Je n'ai pas voulu dire tout ce que je pensais déjà.
00:19:03Je n'ai pas idée qu'il n'a pas mentionné
00:19:05de vivre ensemble, parce que c'est un grand deal.
00:19:10Je ne pense pas que c'est très fair.
00:19:11Après avoir été ensemble pour cinq ans,
00:19:13Marc doit être très transparente avec elle à ce moment-là.
00:19:16Mais je pense qu'il est en train d'adaptée de elle en ce moment-là.
00:19:20C'est un peu drôle.
00:19:22C'est un peu drôle.
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00:20:17I'm really excited.
00:20:27I'm excited.
00:20:28I'm excited.
00:20:30My headspace right now is just kind of in a weird place
00:20:34because I've been waiting on Maddie to prove to me
00:20:38that he's 100% ready to get married,
00:20:40but honestly, I'm the one likely that's been questioning things.
00:20:44Not only do I want to figure out what Maddie wants,
00:20:46I am analyzing him to figure out what I want.
00:20:50Stevie.
00:20:51Hey.
00:20:53Is this the guy?
00:20:55Yes, this is the guy.
00:20:56Yes, this is the guy.
00:20:57I'm like giving our own picture.
00:21:00It's nice to meet you.
00:21:01Megan, Adam.
00:21:02Nice to meet you.
00:21:03Nice to meet you, too.
00:21:04That's awesome.
00:21:05They've heard a lot about you.
00:21:06They're already there.
00:21:06Yeah, nice to meet you.
00:21:07Yes, we heard so much about you.
00:21:10Maddie and I are going on a double date with my friends,
00:21:12Megan and Adam,
00:21:13and I'm really excited because Megan and Adam have heard a lot about him
00:21:17and they actually helped me pay for my plane ticket to go to Turkey
00:21:22to meet Maddie in person.
00:21:26Welcome, guys.
00:21:27How are you?
00:21:27How are you doing?
00:21:29Very good.
00:21:30Y'all picked a perfect night to blow a glass.
00:21:32It's going to be fun.
00:21:33I'm excited.
00:21:33If you look behind you, this is broken chips of glass.
00:21:38What color accent do you want on the lip of your bowl?
00:21:43I think we should do a color that we might be using in our wedding.
00:21:47Oh, my goodness.
00:21:48What do y'all want to marry?
00:21:49We don't know.
00:21:50We don't know that.
00:21:51At least you know who you want to marry.
00:21:52That's a great part of it.
00:21:53Maybe.
00:21:54I'm just kidding.
00:21:55I'm kidding.
00:21:56I'm kidding.
00:21:56My own set.
00:21:57Mike, what color?
00:21:58Blue?
00:21:59Yeah, blue.
00:22:00A blue?
00:22:00Yeah.
00:22:01Blue.
00:22:02Great.
00:22:02Glows.
00:22:04See if they fit.
00:22:06I want you to meet the furnace.
00:22:08The furnace is the big dragon.
00:22:10It's full of 100 pounds of molten glass.
00:22:13Kind of get...
00:22:14Oh, it feels good.
00:22:15Can you see that molten layer of gold?
00:22:18I don't want to.
00:22:19I don't want to.
00:22:21I thought that it was a bit funny and then Maddie was a little bit scared because I'm the
00:22:26polar opposite of that.
00:22:27I've always kind of lived life on the edge.
00:22:30Glass blowing is not very scary to me.
00:22:33All right.
00:22:33Come over and blow into this.
00:22:36Yep.
00:22:36Blow it.
00:22:36Quick.
00:22:37All right.
00:22:38We cleaned it last year.
00:22:39Blow hard.
00:22:42Beautiful.
00:22:43All right.
00:22:43We just blew the piece from the other side to kind of make it puff up a little bit.
00:22:48Maddie is such a germaphobe.
00:22:50He is constantly worried about where things have been, especially if it's in public.
00:22:55So we cleaned it last year.
00:22:56When they gave Maddie the thing to blow on, I think he was slightly paranoid that there
00:23:02was a lot of germs on there.
00:23:05So are y'all wanting to eat yours at, like, the wedding?
00:23:08I don't know.
00:23:09You haven't told me all the details.
00:23:11Like, do you even know?
00:23:12I don't know all the details yet.
00:23:15I'm your best friend.
00:23:16You're supposed to tell me everything.
00:23:18You ready?
00:23:23Yeah.
00:23:24Let's get some of this blue.
00:23:27Mom, are you telling me wedding plans?
00:23:30Yes.
00:23:31Like, because I don't know the wedding plans yet.
00:23:33Stay beat.
00:23:35You don't know anything?
00:23:38Okay.
00:23:39You got it.
00:23:40All right.
00:23:40Time to keep it level.
00:23:41Come on this way.
00:23:42Okay.
00:23:43I got to go focus.
00:23:46I do worry that there might be something going on between them because she's just kind
00:23:50of had a weird vibe tonight.
00:23:52Of course, I think it has to be with Maddie.
00:23:57I don't like it.
00:23:59It makes me a little nervous that Stevie's been a little cagey about the wedding date.
00:24:04Thank you so much.
00:24:06Every time she has a wallop, I feel like it's always fear and self-preservation.
00:24:11Stevie, you want to go to the gift shop?
00:24:15Yeah.
00:24:24What the heck is going on with Maddie?
00:24:28You know, I've always said, like, I'm not ever going to get married unless it's sick for
00:24:31everything.
00:24:32Like, if there's any form of doubt, then I'm not going to do it.
00:24:35And before Maddie got here, there was zero doubt in my mind.
00:24:38But then after he got here, he said things, and I was just kind of like, I don't know.
00:24:45So how have you been since you've been over here?
00:24:49It's been really hard.
00:24:51I was really homesick.
00:24:54I thought I could be stronger.
00:24:57But now I'm feeling like I'm really weak when it comes to family.
00:25:04I can offer one piece of advice.
00:25:05There's don't hold it in because you've got to communicate those things.
00:25:10But my problem is that, like, I say something and it totally fires back.
00:25:14But I'm sure it's more of a, you know, she's nervous.
00:25:18She's, you know, this is her forever as well.
00:25:21She knows what you've given up just to be here.
00:25:29But making them feel not just safe, but just that you're in it.
00:25:35As a husband, that's what we do.
00:25:38Maybe I have it backwards because I keep thinking Maddie needs to make up his mind.
00:25:42And I keep saying, I need to know how you feel, but maybe it is me.
00:25:44Maybe I'm uncertain.
00:25:46I deserve 100%.
00:26:03And if I don't have 100%, then I'm not going to give 100% to someone that doesn't want to be with me.
00:26:09So that's just kind of room out.
00:26:10Well, I get it.
00:26:11I support you 1,000%.
00:26:12I think you've got to do what's best for you.
00:26:15Yeah.
00:26:15And you've got to be sure, because he does not want to deal with me or Adam if he hurts you.
00:26:23I have been waiting for him to prove to me that he's 100% on board with getting married.
00:26:28But I'm realizing that for the first time in our whole entire relationship,
00:26:33I'm starting to question whether this is something that I want to do or not.
00:26:39And the closer we get to the 90 days, the scarier it is, because I don't know where I'm at right now.
00:26:45I need a hug.
00:27:03What are you doing this morning?
00:27:06It's just a ****.
00:27:08Oh, baby.
00:27:11Thinking about, thinking about, thinking about you.
00:27:15Thinking about, thinking about, thinking about you.
00:27:19I'm going to go get my crystal cake.
00:27:21I can't believe he's coming out.
00:27:22Yeah, you can come with me.
00:27:27Last night was a disaster at the winery.
00:27:29We find out that Ani isn't telling really anybody about us.
00:27:34And that, I mean, he's just a friend.
00:27:37Pretty much, we're absent in her life.
00:27:41I'll need me to get some breakfast, okay?
00:27:43No.
00:27:45Ani got very upset.
00:27:48They got into a pretty heated argument.
00:27:50Ani slept on the couch.
00:27:53Seems like everyone took a step back.
00:27:56Let's get out of here.
00:27:59In the night, we don't talk anymore.
00:28:05I'm sleeping on the couch because we need the space.
00:28:15She's explosion too much.
00:28:17She's explosion very fast.
00:28:18I don't want to see her more angry.
00:28:21I don't need this in my life.
00:28:31I need to make sure that Matt feels in the right space again.
00:28:35Talk to everything.
00:28:37See what's in his head because he didn't say anything last night.
00:28:40I don't know what he's thinking.
00:28:41I don't know how he feels about everything.
00:28:43It's like it feels like a fight between me and her that he doesn't want to get involved in.
00:28:48And that really complicates things.
00:28:50And last time I checked, we're in this together.
00:28:52It should be our problem, not just mine.
00:28:55Let's sit down here.
00:28:57Two chairs, perfectly for us.
00:28:58We're here discussing K-1 visa, discussing divorce, a life together, all these things.
00:29:04And I just feel like he's not into this as much as me.
00:29:07And I can't carry this relationship on my own.
00:29:11Can I have tacos de camarón?
00:29:14Can I get a platos?
00:29:16Last night, it was very emotional for me.
00:29:34You didn't say anything.
00:29:37To me, based on the way you react, you don't have the feelings for her that I have for her.
00:29:41I care about her, but this is getting a little ridiculous.
00:29:51I am asking you, do you still want to move forward with this?
00:29:54I know I do, but it's because of how I feel about her.
00:29:56But I want to make sure that you do, because we're doing this as a together.
00:29:59I don't think anything was answered yesterday.
00:30:04Finding out that really no one knows about us in her life,
00:30:07it makes me step back and wonder, you know, like, who are we to hurt?
00:30:11All I see is lies.
00:30:13It makes me really think about this relationship,
00:30:16and kind of I fell on the fence on whether this is possible.
00:30:20You know, like,
00:30:23it's drawn out honesty.
00:30:26It wasn't upfront honesty.
00:30:29Yeah.
00:30:30She cried.
00:30:32And when she cried, that made me...
00:30:33Tears when you get caught aren't tears of pain.
00:30:36So...
00:30:39That's deep.
00:30:39I didn't see tears of pain, except for from you.
00:30:45Okay.
00:30:48I'm going to be as blunt as I can.
00:30:53Be blunt.
00:30:53I've been wanting you to be blunt.
00:30:54Please.
00:30:56I know getting involved with her is so much harder
00:30:58when I see my wife hurting.
00:30:59I didn't know that, like,
00:31:03let's just do more further away from her.
00:31:07It has to, you know.
00:31:08I mean, I care about you greatly.
00:31:11So,
00:31:12in a way that has to not happen
00:31:15in order for us to kind of build
00:31:16what we're looking for here.
00:31:20We all have a lot to lose.
00:31:22We both have children.
00:31:23And there's a lot of stakes on the line, you know.
00:31:27And in the same note,
00:31:29absolutely I worry about my wife's heart being broken.
00:31:32She's, you know, such a pure soul
00:31:34that I'm here to protect that.
00:31:36I would feel like it was my responsibility
00:31:38to keep her from that.
00:31:40Do you love her?
00:31:42You know, it's not that we don't care for her.
00:31:45Are you not in love with her?
00:31:47If I'm comparing love as what I feel for you,
00:31:50like, today, it definitely can't be that amount of love.
00:31:54I've known you and got to know you for so long now.
00:31:57You said you loved her,
00:31:59and now you're saying that you don't.
00:32:01Isn't this the whole point of the whole thing?
00:32:09Oh, man, yeah.
00:32:11I mean, I do have some good news.
00:32:13I have an interview.
00:32:14Well, I hope you don't screw these up.
00:32:17Never before have I felt that
00:32:18she doesn't believe in me and trust in me.
00:32:19It's just putting a lot of pressure on me.
00:32:22Just don't want to be in an unstable relationship.
00:32:25If you don't get that joke, I'm done.
00:32:37I can't do it.
00:32:38I'm sorry.
00:32:38I'm going to do this more often.
00:32:41My balance is terrible, too.
00:32:43Where'd you go?
00:32:44Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:32:49Feet straight.
00:32:57Marchant.
00:32:58Okay.
00:33:00Oh, my God.
00:33:01I'm scared, because I've gained weight in just a few weeks.
00:33:07Greg is like, the thicker your booty, the better.
00:33:11But I feel like this is too thick.
00:33:13I have to start working out before it's too late,
00:33:15or else I'm not going to fit in my wedding dress,
00:33:18because I want something tight.
00:33:20I want something that's body revealing.
00:33:23And if I keep on gaining weight, I may end up wearing a tent.
00:33:33Oh, man, yeah.
00:33:35I love those pants.
00:33:37They look great.
00:33:39They love me not the pants.
00:33:41Specifically these pants.
00:33:43We can't wait to show you how we do it in Uganda.
00:33:49Okay.
00:33:52In Uganda, all my friends are very well in shape.
00:33:56Where she looks to, Kampala, it's in between two mountains.
00:33:59So when people do walk to work, they're going, like, up and down.
00:34:02It's brutal, man, people.
00:34:04It's not brutal.
00:34:05We like it.
00:34:06That's why we're in shape.
00:34:07That's why we are in shape.
00:34:11I'm the penis.
00:34:13Let me stretch my legs a little bit.
00:34:19That was brutal.
00:34:21That was good, baby.
00:34:22That was good.
00:34:27We could come here.
00:34:27Listen, I'm down two or three times, four times a week,
00:34:31whatever you feel comfortable with, you know.
00:34:33We could even get a gym membership.
00:34:35How much do gym memberships cost here?
00:34:37It really depends on what type of gym we go to.
00:34:39It could be anywhere from, like, $10 to $250 a month.
00:34:44$250 would be much.
00:34:45Oh, 100%.
00:34:46We're not going to that gym.
00:34:47Sorry.
00:34:51So, how are you feeling this morning after yesterday?
00:34:57Still want to go back?
00:34:58I still want to go back if you don't get a real job.
00:35:04I don't know.
00:35:04It just hurts, maybe.
00:35:06It really hurts.
00:35:06They would say that, you know.
00:35:08Yes, because I want you to be serious.
00:35:10Like, if I say that, you'll be serious.
00:35:11I mean, I do have some good news.
00:35:15I got some emails, and I have an interview.
00:35:19Where?
00:35:19Working for the state facilities assistant.
00:35:23It's very serious.
00:35:25Well, that's cool.
00:35:26I hope you don't screw this up.
00:35:34Why would you say that?
00:35:38Since I told Greg that I'm thinking about going back to Uganda, he's now moneying up.
00:35:44That's what I wanted.
00:35:44I had to get serious with Gregory so that he can change for the betterment of our future.
00:35:52Two weeks.
00:35:53If you don't get that job, I'm done.
00:35:56Two weeks?
00:35:57Is that realistic?
00:36:00No.
00:36:01Two weeks, that's insane.
00:36:02But two weeks, no.
00:36:03Maybe at the two-week mark, I'd be getting some results back.
00:36:07Maybe.
00:36:08We're dealing with New York State, so it could even be a model.
00:36:12It could even take up to a month.
00:36:13What can I wait for that month?
00:36:18That's crazy.
00:36:19I don't even know what to say to that.
00:36:23I'm a little flabbergasted here.
00:36:28I just don't want to be in an unstable relationship.
00:36:30I don't know what the future holds.
00:36:34Yeah.
00:36:35I was a little blindsided by this with the deadline today.
00:36:39Never before have I felt that she doesn't believe in me and trust in me.
00:36:41I'm trying to understand where she's coming from, but it's just putting a lot of pressure
00:36:46on me.
00:36:48Yeah, man.
00:36:48I'm going to go there tomorrow.
00:36:50F***ing ace it.
00:36:51I'm going to kill it.
00:36:52All right?
00:36:53I'm going to get this job, and then we're just going to build a happy life.
00:36:56I hope so.
00:36:57Just be prepared tomorrow.
00:36:59Yeah.
00:36:59You'll be prepared when I get that job.
00:37:02All right?
00:37:03Going out to dinner.
00:37:03We're going to make some growth.
00:37:04I really want to have, like, boobs.
00:37:11Have you told Sean that you think you want breast implants?
00:37:14No.
00:37:15He seems to be like he's avoiding.
00:37:18I feel worried that he will be missing, like dating men.
00:37:23I really don't know how much more he will handle.
00:37:26Like, how confident are you in that this marriage is going to last?
00:37:40You're looking like you could be on Clueless today.
00:37:44Do you know the movie Clueless?
00:37:46No.
00:37:46We can watch it, but you have to finish the way we were first.
00:37:52Barbra Streisand movie.
00:37:53Academy Award nominated.
00:37:55Ah.
00:38:06So you're meeting Jackie at the flower market?
00:38:10Yeah.
00:38:10She helped me to choose, like, the flowers for the wedding.
00:38:14Okay.
00:38:14And I want the color to match with her dress because she would be, like, the maid of honor.
00:38:21Well, that should be easy.
00:38:22It should be red because she's always after my blood.
00:38:25Duh.
00:38:27I met Jackie in Cartagena with Aaliyah at a lunch.
00:38:34I heard an American voice.
00:38:36I said, oh, you want to come over here and hang out?
00:38:38We all got along.
00:38:40Jackie's a good time.
00:38:41I didn't ask anybody, but I think ultimately I was caught off guard when she was grilling me the day after my engagement.
00:38:49Have you thought about, like, prenups or things like that?
00:38:52What will happen?
00:38:54Because, you know, like, you're a little older.
00:38:56Do you have enough life insurance policies, Sean?
00:38:58It's not been the first thing on my mind to worry about my eminent demise the day after I got engaged, if you don't mind.
00:39:06So, I think I'll let you guys have girl fun, and you can talk about me behind my back.
00:39:15It's fine.
00:39:17Here we are.
00:39:21Hey.
00:39:22Hi.
00:39:24Hey.
00:39:25Hi.
00:39:26How are you?
00:39:27Thank you for bringing her.
00:39:28You are welcome.
00:39:31We'll see you tonight at the Man of the Caves home, as we call it.
00:39:35Yeah.
00:39:36Bye.
00:39:37We'll see you later.
00:39:37All right.
00:39:38Bye.
00:39:39Oh, nice.
00:39:40It's so big.
00:39:41It smells so good in here.
00:39:45I've known Sean and Aaliyah for about three years.
00:39:48Aaliyah definitely seems happy to be getting married to Sean, and that's great.
00:39:52But I definitely feel that underneath, there could still be some questions and some uncertainty and a level of stress, I'm sure.
00:40:00Let's take them this way, and maybe we can put together, like, a bouquet or something.
00:40:03Yeah.
00:40:04So, how are things going with Sean, the house?
00:40:07Like, how are you liking it?
00:40:08The house is big.
00:40:09Really big.
00:40:11That's great.
00:40:11We have, like, space, so that's good.
00:40:14But the house, it's, like, old.
00:40:17And it looks like a castle.
00:40:20It looks like a castle.
00:40:21Oh, no.
00:40:23It's not that kind of castle.
00:40:23It's like, I like things, like, more and more.
00:40:26I love this one.
00:40:27Yeah, this is really pretty.
00:40:28Okay, let's get the last set of colors.
00:40:29I want to get the blue one.
00:40:30Okay, perfect.
00:40:31And we'll make a bouquet.
00:40:34I don't know how good at this time I'm going to be.
00:40:36Oh, my God.
00:40:38Okay, so how is the sex life?
00:40:41Actually, it's working.
00:40:43When you say it's working, what does that mean?
00:40:46It's like...
00:40:47You're having sex?
00:40:48Yeah, we're having sex.
00:40:48That's great.
00:40:49That's wonderful.
00:40:49But it's, like, in our time.
00:40:52How long were you here before you had sex the first time?
00:40:57I think four, four or five days.
00:41:00Oh, well, that's better than Brazil.
00:41:02Yeah.
00:41:03So that's a start.
00:41:05Yes.
00:41:07Since I have been in the U.S., like, my sex relationship with Sean, it's, like, a totally new reality.
00:41:12Because of my transition, I feel different.
00:41:16So our sex life's not the same that was in the beginning.
00:41:20So now I feel like we are learning everything again and how we really see each other.
00:41:26What would make you happy when you get up in the morning and you look in the mirror?
00:41:40Well, I think I, for now, I really want to have, like, boobs.
00:41:45Okay.
00:41:46Like, big boobs?
00:41:48Regular boobs?
00:41:48I think regular.
00:41:50I don't like too big.
00:41:52So have you told Sean that you think you want breast implants?
00:41:55No.
00:41:58We need to talk about, but it's, like, any time that I try to read something about general
00:42:04transition, he seems to be, like, he's avoiding.
00:42:10I feel worried and afraid that in the future he will be missing, like, dating men, but it's
00:42:17something that you cannot give to him anymore.
00:42:19I know that he is supporting me, but I really don't know how much more he will handle.
00:42:28Like, money aside, what if he did not want you to do it?
00:42:32I don't think he would be, like, a person that you say to me, oh, you cannot do that.
00:42:36No.
00:42:37Maybe he will not feel comfortable, or maybe he will feel, like, scary that I'm going too
00:42:43hard.
00:42:43When you're in full glam and full of Leah mode, is he, like, less attracted to you when
00:42:49you're like that, or, like, less sexually attracted to you?
00:42:57I don't know.
00:43:00So it sounds like you guys still have a lot to talk about, a lot to discuss, and you guys
00:43:04are getting married soon, like, very soon.
00:43:07Like, how confident are you in that this marriage is going to last?
00:43:11I'm not sure, and I cannot tell you how I will feel, or how it will be.
00:43:20I think you just need to live and deal with all that.
00:43:24I'm happy.
00:43:26It's great that she's composed, or seems composed, but I can definitely feel that underneath all
00:43:32of that, there's still a level of stress because of the unknown.
00:43:35She really doesn't know what will happen with her relationship with Sean, and if it all ended
00:43:39tomorrow, like, she would be alone and in a different country.
00:43:43It's a lot, and it's a lot, like, mentally and emotionally, and I just want, like, what's
00:43:48the best for you?
00:43:55I don't fit in here, but I have a lot riding on this day, too.
00:44:01I'm fixing to propose to Stevie, and I just wanted to ask to have the permission.
00:44:12I heard that he was getting really homesick and was talking about going home already.
00:44:16He's not fully committed to this relationship, and I won't call the safe down the aisle.
00:44:20Matty, are you much ready?
00:44:38Yeah.
00:44:48You look cute.
00:44:49Thanks.
00:44:50That'll be here in a minute.
00:44:56Are you ready?
00:44:58Yeah.
00:45:00Have you ever been to a monster truck, Trevor?
00:45:01I don't even know what it is.
00:45:04It's going to be loud.
00:45:13Is that him?
00:45:14Yeah, it's his truck.
00:45:15Hey, Dad.
00:45:33Hey.
00:45:34Hey.
00:45:34It's a little strange way to call your dad, you know, but I'm trying to go through my past.
00:45:41I don't remember that.
00:45:44I don't know if he's running, I'm trying to explain it to him.
00:45:51Yeah.
00:45:53Today, Stevie's dad is taking me to the monster truck show.
00:45:56I do not have any idea about monster trucks because we don't have them back in Iran.
00:46:02I have a lot riding on this day because I plan to re-propose to Stevie to show that I'm 100% committed.
00:46:15But it's really important for me to ask for his blessings also.
00:46:20And that is almost the same thing we're doing in Iran.
00:46:22So I would really love to do that here today.
00:46:25I really think I'm in the most American place that I could be.
00:46:51Like, hot dogs, American flags, the noises, crowds, everything.
00:46:57Is your ears okay?
00:46:58What's up?
00:46:59Are you ears?
00:46:59Yeah, that's the elephant.
00:47:01I don't fit in here.
00:47:03Like, I think they're living in another world.
00:47:07And I'm just, like, I'm impulsing among them.
00:47:16I love eating, I'm a rice.
00:47:18You don't say a lot of rice in this summer, I'm sure.
00:47:20Yeah.
00:47:21I'm really.
00:47:22Did you hang out?
00:47:23Stay here.
00:47:23Yeah.
00:47:24I don't say enough.
00:47:24I don't say enough.
00:47:28If we can give everyone a please stand, we'd like to pay a tribute with the greatest song we'll ever bring.
00:47:37For the greatest country in the world.
00:47:39They started playing this song, and everyone seems to be in love with it.
00:47:51I guess it's just like the popular American song.
00:47:56The only time that I think we can hear the U.S. anthem in Iran is when the U.S. national team are in Iran and they're playing, and you're in person there.
00:48:26If you're there, you can hear it.
00:48:27But other than that, I believe that they're going to censor it, and you're not going to be able to hear it.
00:48:34The trucks start coming out, and there's this...
00:48:46This is the loudest sound I've ever heard.
00:49:10I have never seen people like this, like, into cars and, like, super excited just about the cars.
00:49:23Let me just be honest.
00:49:26I was waiting to see something more exciting or, like, something that jumps maybe higher or, like, more adrenaline.
00:49:34But that is kind of something that I would go watch if I was, like, in my 60s or something.
00:49:41Let's get your drink and your trash and throw it away.
00:50:03All right.
00:50:07Have a good time.
00:50:18All right.
00:50:19Fresh air.
00:50:21What do you think?
00:50:22It was really great.
00:50:25Like, I really appreciate your time and also you, like, taking your time and bringing me here.
00:50:32Honestly, I do not have any friends or family members here.
00:50:36So it just makes me, like, feel better.
00:50:40So it really means a lot to me.
00:50:41There's something really important that I wanted to share with you, and that is I'm fixing to propose to Stevie really soon.
00:50:59I did it once in Turkey, and honestly, I think she didn't like it, and that's because we don't do it like this either on.
00:51:06So I just wanted to have your blessing and also to have the permission to do that.
00:51:22I've got her, like, a ring from Iran.
00:51:28Oh, wow.
00:51:29Very pretty.
00:51:31How long are you talking about if we all get married?
00:51:34I mean, like, at what time?
00:51:35I'm praying.
00:51:36Really soon.
00:51:42How many days have y'all actually spent together?
00:51:45I mean, just you and her.
00:51:48We spent, like, a week in Turkey a year ago, and now we have spent maybe, like, two weeks, give or take, in the U.S.
00:51:59That's not a lot of time to get to do somebody.
00:52:01It's important for people to really get to know each other good before we made that decision.
00:52:10Also, I heard that he was getting really homesick and was talking about going home already.
00:52:16You can't get married and just decide a couple weeks later I'm going home.
00:52:19But he's not fully committed to this relationship.
00:52:22I don't see myself now.
00:52:23I want more stuff down the aisle.
00:52:25He's not completely all in.
00:52:27I'm mad because you tell Diana I've had a new girlfriend in Paris.
00:52:40She's the same.
00:52:41I'm very confused because you don't tell me true.
00:52:46I don't know if this wedding for Mark is true love or it's just a game.
00:52:52I asked you to marry me.
00:52:53I never asked you to marry me.
00:52:55He was cheating on her essentially when they were living together.
00:53:12So Jade was upset because she's like, I moved in, I moved my son in.
00:53:16You know, he acted like he wanted a family with me.
00:53:18He made my son's room.
00:53:20Like, he's surprised with, you know, fixing himself.
00:53:22Same thing?
00:53:22Yeah, same thing.
00:53:24So this is what I'm saying.
00:53:26Like, I felt when he met you a little bit concerned because he was moving quick the same way.
00:53:38I'm so sorry, girl.
00:53:40I do think that she is the one that got away from him because he was very heartbroken.
00:53:45And I don't know if you know this, but when you guys were talking in the very beginning,
00:53:49he was still trying to be with her.
00:53:51So he was a little bit messed up.
00:53:55And so this is the conversations I would have with him back then is, what are you doing?
00:53:59You know, make a decision.
00:54:00You can't, that's not cool.
00:54:01I'm very, very confused and mad because for five years, I think I'm unique for the new relationship
00:54:13with Mark.
00:54:15And now I didn't say, I'm just, come on, and this is not good because it's five years.
00:54:24It's not two months.
00:54:26It's not five weeks, my five years to my life.
00:54:29I would suggest talking to my friend.
00:54:33Maybe there's more that I don't know.
00:54:35And I know that Jade would be open to talking if you want her number.
00:54:38I think that it would be in your best interest.
00:54:41You're going to marry him.
00:54:41You know what I mean?
00:54:42You want to be sure.
00:54:42You want to know everything.
00:54:44I'll give you her number.
00:54:45Because I don't think that Mark's being very honest with a lot of friends.
00:54:48Yeah, because now it's my new family.
00:54:51Yes, of course.
00:54:52And you just have food your whole life.
00:54:54Yeah, I lose all my life, my friends, my kids.
00:54:58I come in here just for Mark.
00:55:01I don't come in here for a big surprise.
00:55:04Now I know Mark's starting to Mark.
00:55:10And I think it's important for me.
00:55:13I meet Jade.
00:55:14Let's go try some stuff on.
00:55:16Mark's going to pay somehow.
00:55:18Yeah, I think I go, maybe I go to Mercedes too.
00:55:21Ah, yeah, that's right.
00:55:22I need to make sure the wedding is not gay.
00:55:27Ooh, you look amazing, girl.
00:55:31Yeah, your body looks good too.
00:55:32Yeah.
00:55:34Because you, for me, I've always seen the marriage for a while.
00:55:40Ooh, yeah.
00:55:43It's not a divorce again five months later because it don't tell me true.
00:55:50Thank you, Riana.
00:55:52You looked beautiful and everything.
00:55:54Yeah, I think it's important for me to talk with Jade because I'm married.
00:56:00Yeah.
00:56:01Hi, Riana.
00:56:03How'd you find some stuff?
00:56:05Yes, I know.
00:56:06You're helping her spend all my money.
00:56:08Yeah, you know, she's a mother.
00:56:10She looks good and everything and can't help it.
00:56:12I see you, Riana.
00:56:13Thank you so much, Riana.
00:56:15Yeah, I know.
00:56:15Beautiful.
00:56:16Help.
00:56:17Bye, Maria.
00:56:19Maria, come on.
00:56:20Maria.
00:56:21Do you like the shop?
00:56:44Yeah.
00:56:45Like that?
00:56:46That's cool, huh?
00:56:47I talk with Riana.
00:56:50I'm very surprised.
00:56:52Surprised?
00:56:53She's trying to tell you to move in the floor.
00:56:56No.
00:56:58Is that funny?
00:57:00Why not?
00:57:01Because I'm mad.
00:57:02Why?
00:57:03What are you mad about?
00:57:04Because you lie to me.
00:57:06I don't know what Diana told you, but I know I didn't lie to you about anything, so you
00:57:11tell me what she told you.
00:57:12You never tell me you live together with Jade.
00:57:17I told you she lived in the house when I was in Florida.
00:57:20No, I can't remember.
00:57:21Well, it's because we didn't really talk about her anyway before.
00:57:24And Diana, if you call me, you substitute to Jade.
00:57:29Substitute?
00:57:30Yeah.
00:57:31It's not funny.
00:57:32It's only funny because it's not true.
00:57:35It's the only reason I laugh.
00:57:36No, I don't know.
00:57:36It's not true.
00:57:37I'm very confused, you know?
00:57:38You're not a substitute.
00:57:40She said that, but I never said that.
00:57:42That's her word.
00:57:43Because you tell Diana, I've had a new girlfriend in Paris.
00:57:48She's the same.
00:57:50I don't think I ever said to Diana, she's the same as Jade.
00:57:54It was a long time ago, and we're not together now.
00:57:58I'm with you.
00:57:59I asked you to marry me.
00:58:00I never asked Jade to marry me.
00:58:03Because you know she never accepts.
00:58:06Okay.
00:58:08I don't know now my feelings.
00:58:17Well, I don't know what else to do.
00:58:18We can talk more about it if you want, but it is what it is.
00:58:21I don't know why Diana said all that, but I'm done talking about it right now.
00:58:24Let's get rid of it.
00:58:30Another big thing for me, too, is you getting along with my family.
00:58:34And I hope that we can maybe prove ourselves to my family.
00:58:38I will do my best.
00:58:39You will see.
00:58:39I hope he's not just telling me what he thinks I want to hear.
00:58:43I still don't fully know you.
00:58:45Hope that you guys use that full 90 days.
00:58:48Right now, everything is on me.
00:58:51Every day, new burden is on my shoulders.
00:58:54What do your kids think when you talk to them about your relationship with Aaliyah
00:59:00and you guys are about to run off to get married?
00:59:02Oh, they don't know I'm getting married.
00:59:05Wait, they don't know you're getting married?
00:59:07I think that Sean is probably still processing everything
00:59:10because he does seem a little unsure.
00:59:13If I had my dream scenario,
00:59:15it would be that we could just live together
00:59:17and not have to do the K-1 at all.
00:59:20Well, then why are you doing it?
00:59:21Let me believe in
00:59:28Let me believe in
00:59:32Guess what you're dreaming of?
00:59:35Hmm?
00:59:36Yes.
00:59:38Okay, goodbye.
00:59:40Say love.
00:59:41Hey.
00:59:42Oh, you create a bouquet, no?
00:59:44Create a bouquet.
00:59:51Hi.
00:59:55Can you help me?
00:59:56Me?
00:59:58I need some more stuff, say, to get the cachaça
01:00:02and some cups
01:00:05and the place that we use
01:00:07I think we'll do it here.
01:00:10You need a cutting board.
01:00:12That's why I brought this thing.
01:00:13I think we figured it out.
01:00:15Hello.
01:00:17Hey.
01:00:18Look who's here.
01:00:19Hi.
01:00:20Look at Maxwell.
01:00:21Oh, you look great.
01:00:23You look out of yours also.
01:00:25How are you?
01:00:26I'm so sure, hi.
01:00:27Good.
01:00:28You haven't grown any?
01:00:29No, I wish I would.
01:00:31Oh, thank you.
01:00:32Now come in and check it out
01:00:33and I'll put the crazy beast in the house
01:00:36so that he doesn't jump all over your nice outfit.
01:00:39Welcome to the castle.
01:00:43First, we need to stop here.
01:00:45Okay.
01:00:46See you.
01:00:48Amazing dress, Robert.
01:00:50Barbara, Barbara, Barbara says that.
01:00:57I wonder how many other things
01:00:59you're going to mispronounce.
01:01:00It's the living room
01:01:02with all the antiques, including me.
01:01:06I'm feeling bad because I'm like,
01:01:08wait a minute, at this point I'm an antique.
01:01:12It's actually beautiful.
01:01:14You had me thinking that there was going to be like,
01:01:16I don't know, things stacked up in corners.
01:01:18Do you really like the monkey laughs?
01:01:20Okay, maybe the monkey lamps are not the coolest,
01:01:26but I mean, it's still a vibe.
01:01:28They go with everything.
01:01:31I personally love the house.
01:01:33I think the house is adorable,
01:01:35but there are definitely some things I would want to go,
01:01:37so I understand why she would want them to go.
01:01:40I'm going to get the eyes on me, guys, out there.
01:01:43I do think it's really important for her to have her own space,
01:01:46but I think that there is, you know,
01:01:49this persona on the outside of Aaliyah,
01:01:51but there's still some fear on the inside,
01:01:53so she's afraid to just start moving things out of the way
01:01:56and making it happen.
01:01:57She doesn't want to do too much or ask for too much.
01:02:01I'd be in there trying on them damn dresses so fast.
01:02:03All right, cheers.
01:02:06Let's see how this goes.
01:02:08Glad that you made it out.
01:02:10I'm glad to be here.
01:02:15Any details you guys want to give me about the wedding?
01:02:17Well, I mean, if I had my dream scenario of things,
01:02:23it would be that we could just live together
01:02:25and not have to do the K-1 at all,
01:02:28that we could put the wedding off
01:02:30because I think our relationship keeps changing.
01:02:38Well, then why are you doing it?
01:02:41Because we tried the other ways to do it,
01:02:43her being a student here,
01:02:44her coming on a regular visa,
01:02:47and so the only choices were K-1 or nothing,
01:02:52or maybe me moving to another country,
01:02:54which we've considered too.
01:02:57You know, even when you're talking about,
01:03:00oh, you've been together for four years,
01:03:04it's like, but I've only been with Aaliyah
01:03:06for a few months.
01:03:07Well, she's a true woman,
01:03:09always changing then, you know.
01:03:14What do your kids think?
01:03:16Like, what do they say when you talk to them
01:03:18about your relationship with Aaliyah
01:03:19and you guys are about to run off to get married?
01:03:22Well, they don't know I'm getting married.
01:03:25Wait, they don't know you're getting married?
01:03:27No.
01:03:29Do you think their opinion would be against it?
01:03:32I don't think their opinion about Aaliyah
01:03:39would be negative.
01:03:42I mean, for me, it's about, like,
01:03:45things going awry and having a, quote-unquote,
01:03:47failure or failed relationship.
01:03:50And when you go to that step where you're like,
01:03:53oh, is my person forever?
01:03:55And you say that in front of God, country,
01:03:58friends, family, you know,
01:04:00the government and every other which way it's,
01:04:02if it goes awry, you know,
01:04:05then you have to tell everybody,
01:04:07well, funny thing happened.
01:04:10The idea of the conversation
01:04:12makes me feel uncomfortable
01:04:13because for me, it seems to be like,
01:04:17we are getting married,
01:04:18but Sean is thinking about, like, a divorce.
01:04:22I wonder if Sean's feeling ashamed of me.
01:04:26You know, there's realistic issues
01:04:31and things that we need to work on,
01:04:33and sometimes those things
01:04:35don't just resolve themselves in 90 days.
01:04:39The world doesn't normally work that way, right?
01:04:42I think that Sean getting married to Aaliyah
01:04:45almost out of necessity and maybe not desire,
01:04:48it definitely makes me a little sad for her.
01:04:50I think that Sean is probably still processing everything
01:04:53because this can also be a source of fear.
01:04:57Like, you don't know what's coming next.
01:04:58You don't know the person that you're marrying,
01:05:01who they're going to be.
01:05:02But I just hope it's not a recipe for disaster.
01:05:04What's the start for just a row?
01:05:32You did?
01:05:33And it went, like, where?
01:05:35In the back?
01:05:37It's pretty!
01:05:39This is terrible!
01:05:40Thank you!
01:05:49Poor baby!
01:05:52It's good.
01:05:52I hope we can look at this in the future
01:06:21and laugh about it.
01:06:23I hope she laughs about it.
01:06:24I mean, she will always think that moment
01:06:26that she sees me.
01:06:28I have a veil face right now for her.
01:06:32Splashing.
01:06:33This could actually be a good topic
01:06:35for you to add to your Santa routine.
01:06:37No.
01:06:38It's comical.
01:06:41All right, folks, welcome back.
01:06:42We hope you guys have as much fun as we have.
01:06:44Oh, my God!
01:06:45We have a complete fantastic funeral, I know.
01:06:49Let's go.
01:06:49We hope to see you guys again soon.
01:06:51Enjoy the rest of your stay.
01:06:53Thank you!
01:06:55Oh, my God!
01:06:56Oh, my God, you guys!
01:06:59Wow.
01:07:00Man!
01:07:00Son!
01:07:02Oh, my gosh, we made it.
01:07:04Oh.
01:07:04Do you have any more good ideas
01:07:06of things we can do today?
01:07:07We will jump in a parachute.
01:07:09I can't even walk straight.
01:07:11I feel like I'm walking like I'm drunk.
01:07:12Sophie, I just want to apologize to you
01:07:17because of this day.
01:07:18Oh, it's okay.
01:07:19It wasn't your fault.
01:07:20Going on a boat ride sounded nice,
01:07:22but I don't think we,
01:07:23any of us expected it to be so cold and terrible.
01:07:27You know, I mean, I had a lot of pressure
01:07:32because the first impression is too important.
01:07:34I know that.
01:07:37And with your mom, we are planning a future.
01:07:41It's so difficult to say these kind of things
01:07:47because two years ago when I met with your mother,
01:07:51I was totally a different man.
01:07:53For example, when I met with Shiraya...
01:07:56My aunt.
01:07:58At that time, I really didn't care what her sister says.
01:08:02You didn't care what she would say?
01:08:04Meaning what?
01:08:04No, no, I didn't care because of my mindset, you know?
01:08:08Yeah.
01:08:09Yeah.
01:08:09I only get to have so many interactions with you,
01:08:12with me being in a boarding school.
01:08:14So another big thing for me too is,
01:08:16like, you getting along with my family.
01:08:19I know that you have had that rough patch
01:08:21with, like, how you were talking about with Shiraya.
01:08:24And I hope that we can get, like, a fresh start on that
01:08:26and that you can maybe prove yourself to my family.
01:08:30I want more of, like, a better impression for all of them.
01:08:33Okay, I will do my best.
01:08:35You will see.
01:08:35Hearing him take responsibility for how the situation with him and Shiraya did go downhill
01:08:43really opened my eyes as to how he has changed
01:08:46and how he could change even more in the future.
01:08:49And I hope he's not just telling me what he thinks I want to hear.
01:08:52I hope that it's sincere and genuine.
01:08:53I guess we'll just find out.
01:08:58I know you guys want my, you know, approval for all of this.
01:09:01And I obviously, like, I just feel like I do need more time.
01:09:04Yeah.
01:09:04Because I still don't fully know you.
01:09:06So, prayer, like...
01:09:07I understand.
01:09:08It will take time.
01:09:10It starts, rough start.
01:09:12Yeah.
01:09:13It will take time.
01:09:13Yeah.
01:09:15I hope that you guys use that for 90 days.
01:09:19I have a big mission right now.
01:09:21I have to fix the relationship of mine with Shikaina's family.
01:09:26If they have a good impression about me, then Sophie will have one.
01:09:30I mean, everything is connected to each other.
01:09:35Okay.
01:09:35Yeah, it was nice to meet you.
01:09:36Nice to meet you.
01:09:37Bye-bye.
01:09:38Bye, honey.
01:09:40Everyone has to approve me to continue our relationship with Shikaina.
01:09:45That sucks.
01:09:46That's a big challenge.
01:09:48And right now, everything is on me.
01:09:50Always, every day, new burden is on my shoulders.
01:09:55No more veils.
01:09:56No more veils.
01:10:02Baby, if you don't have relax,
01:10:04you're thinking we can stay together?
01:10:07No.
01:10:08I don't think she's realizing how hard this is on us,
01:10:12specifically me.
01:10:14If you want to have a good life together,
01:10:16you need to calm down.
01:10:18I don't want to be nobody's secret,
01:10:20especially if I've built my whole life on the line for you.
01:10:23I don't want to have a good life on the line for you.
01:10:40Hey.
01:10:41Hey.
01:10:42I brought you some food.
01:10:45You come with eight?
01:10:47Yeah, I got some food for you.
01:10:48It's right there.
01:10:49I need you to talk about last night.
01:11:13I was mad.
01:11:13i hope you don't think that just by going breakfast that we're trying to team up on you
01:11:22i don't like fight it was not our intention to come hard at you last night
01:11:28all the time it's explosion when it's a relax when it talk slow if i didn't care
01:11:37then i would have been relaxed no matter what you said yesterday
01:11:40if you don't have relax you thinking we can stay together no for you for you for me and the kids
01:11:52if you want to have good life together you need to calm down i mean we i was hurt do you understand
01:12:01that i understand you i don't want to be nobody's secret especially if i put my whole life on the
01:12:09line for you
01:12:10when she says that i'm exploding i'm just reacting to the shocking information she's revealing
01:12:19i would be fooled to ignore all the information she dropped at us yesterday but here i am still
01:12:27here i don't think she's realizing how hard this is on us specifically me
01:12:34i need you to acknowledge me in your life i need you to act like you have us in your life
01:12:44i start to go i present you with my family you are my girlfriend you are my wife whatever you want
01:12:50but you need to give me time how much time are you asking though like
01:12:57the time is coming upon us yeah but honey like we're right around the corner from meeting your family
01:13:04this is this is hard for me but give me time think about it because i know that that's going to
01:13:13cause a lot of tensions here real soon
01:13:15nobody wants to lie in this situation it's just making everyone uncomfortable
01:13:22i understand
01:13:25i'm still not getting a plan of action on how i'm supposed to go about this
01:13:32guadalajara is just around the corner i'm not here to prove myself she's here to prove herself
01:13:39me and my wife we've opened up our entire lives to ani
01:13:43so i need to see ani step up for the relationship
01:13:47i need to see her sacrifice the things that people sacrifice in any other normal relationship
01:13:53please baby we need we need change them all
01:13:59you can fix the problem
01:14:02no more
01:14:10no more please
01:14:12every day i spend away from my children i want to make sure that this is worth it that
01:14:24you are here for the right reasons
01:14:25there's a reason why we have not asked the hard questions because we've been so afraid to
01:14:34push her away she asking for time and we want to be able to give her that and respect that
01:14:41but i can't wait forever that's a lot to ask from somebody
01:14:46y'all feel better
01:14:55you know what will make me feel better
01:14:57like a quickie
01:15:01just kidding
01:15:03i'm not kidding
01:15:05i can work on my explosions but i need you to just show through your actions that you're in a committed relationship with us
01:15:15can we do that
01:15:17then people have to know about us you know like
01:15:19there has to be a place for us in your life
01:15:21i hope that them trust me now
01:15:26that's all we want love love just be honest and lovable
01:15:30all we want is you
01:15:32it was just like a random thought that came to my mind i know he has concerns but deep down
01:15:51i know my intentions
01:15:53she tell me mark you like me i go back too fast i can stay
01:16:04how many days have y'all actually spent together i mean just yeah maybe like two weeks
01:16:34give or take in the u.s it's not a lot of time to get to do something
01:16:39it was just like a random thought that came to my mind the first day that i was here and i was in
01:17:01New Orleans and i was like thinking right now i already miss my family what should i do and
01:17:06you know there's always a chance of like not being able to come back here when i get to run
01:17:12just don't know when you're going to make that full commitment that you are going to be here
01:17:20and you are going to be with her
01:17:22is that how you're going to be missing
01:17:25yeah it's so long
01:17:27sometimes it gets hard i mean it's not just back out because time starts getting a little bit
01:17:33yeah i totally assure you that there is no like going back
01:17:37i know he has some concerns still and it totally makes sense to me we haven't spent much time together
01:17:46in person but deep down i know my intentions i'm not going back to iran and i'm not having second thoughts
01:17:53i love her and she loves me so i can like promise you that i will take a good care of her forever
01:18:04well it's uh it's like you got you know it's like your heart's not facing your head's getting there
01:18:15i'm going to make sure you know that love is real i mean that she's in good hands
01:18:19i'm sick i'm not going to be here forever and i'm going to leave her and you know tell that she's okay
01:18:30and manny asked my mary and stevie if i would you know give her my permission
01:18:36that was that was pretty thought of them that made me feel pretty good about it
01:18:40and i'm not saying that man seems to be going to stay in but uh
01:18:45it's going to take a little more time to get to know him
01:18:46i don't do but i can't help you you know transition here
01:18:50all i can ask you just be good to her
01:18:53i will i promise you
01:18:55i'll keep my eyes on you
01:18:58thanks man
01:19:00i'm not really cute
01:19:02i'm not really cute
01:19:05dianna
01:19:07When Diana told me things that marked me,
01:19:29he was so-called forgotten,
01:19:31but for me, it was a matter of sincerity.
01:19:34I really want to know the truth,
01:19:41even if it hurts my heart.
01:20:04Where are you dressed up for? Where are you going?
01:20:11I'm going with Jade.
01:20:13You really gonna go see Jade?
01:20:19I thought you were joking.
01:20:21You're serious about this?
01:20:22No, I'm very serious.
01:20:25I need to talk with Jade, to women, to women, you know,
01:20:28for fake sex.
01:20:29You know, I'm from, and maybe she's your sex friend.
01:20:31I don't know.
01:20:33I'm telling you the truth.
01:20:38But if you think she'll verify that,
01:20:40then go, go spend the day with Jade.
01:20:43After we're talking with Diana,
01:20:46I have the impression of having two brands with me.
01:20:50The brand of the United States and the brand of Paris.
01:20:53So, these are very different people.
01:20:55See you, baby.
01:20:57See you.
01:20:58That's crazy.
01:21:00That's crazy.
01:21:03Now, everything is in doubt.
01:21:05I don't know if it's true,
01:21:07my story with Mark.
01:21:09I need to see Jade,
01:21:12to understand a lot of things,
01:21:15to put the point on the i
01:21:17and to understand what's true and what's true.
01:21:25Today is a big day for me.
01:21:29I don't marry one man.
01:21:30You lie me.
01:21:31It's not possible.
01:21:32You lie me now.
01:21:33You lie me for, for la vie.
01:21:36She, she tell me, Mark, you lie me.
01:21:40I go back to Paris.
01:21:42I can stay.
01:21:48Hi, welcome.
01:21:49Hi.
01:21:50How many today?
01:21:51Two.
01:21:52Two, let me this way.
01:21:54Welcome.
01:22:00I've been, sorry,
01:22:01One.
01:22:02We need to take care of myself.
01:22:03We need to take care of myself.
01:22:04Because I gave my whole life,
01:22:06I'll be here.
01:22:08No.
01:22:09I invested in this story and learned that he lied to me.
01:22:16I can't look at him as I looked at him.
01:22:20He's coming here now.
01:22:22I want you to stress now.
01:22:32Oh, I think that's right.
01:22:35Oh my God.
01:22:39Still to come on 90 Day Fiance.
01:22:43We're coming since city.
01:22:46Are you ready to come at some sense?
01:22:52Oh my God.
01:22:55Forget about it.
01:22:56Forget about it.
01:22:58Oh, I have a question.
01:23:00Are we allowed to invite a fourth every now and then?
01:23:05She didn't lose her. We're going to get married.
01:23:09Oh.
01:23:10Oh.
01:23:11Oh.
01:23:12Oh.
01:23:13Oh.
01:23:14Oh.
01:23:15Oh.
01:23:16Oh.
01:23:17Oh.
01:23:18Oh.
01:23:19Oh.
01:23:20Oh.
01:23:21It makes you look cold.
01:23:26Your worries. Hold on.
01:23:29I think you should fall more.
01:23:32Why would she say something like that?
01:23:35Testing her patients.
01:23:37Are you testing my patients?
01:23:41So this is just to protect myself with in case, you know, the changes get too much.
01:23:47Do you think I don't want to stay all for your money?
01:23:51I don't think it's easy for me to forget the life of my job.
01:23:58And now I'm just staying at home.
01:24:01If you want to look for a job in the U.S., speak to me with your family.
01:24:04If you don't want to look for a job and you want to go on the cruise, then don't be with us.
01:24:10Opinion plan made.
01:24:11Why haven't you told me that?
01:24:13I didn't think it was a big deal.
01:24:15If I thought it was bad, I would have told you.
01:24:17So then you don't know me enough.
01:24:19I'm not talking about this.
01:24:21I don't want to go on the cruise, but I don't want to go on the cruise.
01:24:27Oh, my God.
01:24:30I'm done married.
01:24:32Wait, Nina, come on.
01:24:33Sarper's missing.
01:24:37I said, oh, tomorrow you're going to be my husband.
01:24:40And he was like.
01:24:42Yeah, so we're going to go try to find him.
01:24:45Oh, my God.
01:24:46Sarper.
01:24:47Where is he?
01:24:48I've been texting Ray.
01:24:53Like her ex-boyfriend?
01:24:54Yeah.
01:24:57We've been sending her money through the course of the relationship.
01:25:00Sarper.
01:25:02But I always wondered, why do we have to send money through this man?
01:25:06We saw Annie.
01:25:10You know who is Brenda?
01:25:12Her name is Brenda.
01:25:15She's a pretty different person.
01:25:18Hi, Brenda.
01:25:19She's a pretty different person.
01:25:20She's a pretty different person.
01:25:21She's a pretty different person.
01:25:22She's a pretty different person.
01:25:23She's a pretty different person.
01:25:24She's a pretty different person.
01:25:25She's a pretty different person.
01:25:26She's a pretty different person.
01:25:27She's a pretty different person.
01:25:28She's a pretty different person.
01:25:29She's a pretty different person.
01:25:30She's a pretty different person.
01:25:31She's a pretty different person.
01:25:32She's a pretty different person.
01:25:33She's a pretty different person.
01:25:34She's a pretty different person.
01:25:35She's a pretty different person.
01:25:36She's a pretty different person.
01:25:37She's a pretty different person.
01:25:38She's a pretty different person.
01:25:39She's a pretty different person.