90 Day Fiancé_ Mary Tells Brandan She’s DONE With Him After He Does THIS
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00:00 I'm kind of like scatterbrained right now.
00:03 I was sitting next to a girl and Mary was overthinking,
00:06 so I got switched to an empty seat.
00:08 Now this is flat out ridiculous.
00:12 Brandon gets into a fight with Mary
00:15 on his way to the Philippines
00:16 because he was sitting next to a girl on the plane,
00:19 as if it was something he chose to do.
00:23 The airline and their seating arrangements
00:25 don't revolve around her insecurities.
00:28 Come on, Mary, what a petty fight to pick.
00:31 That's scary.
00:33 We're just so used to overthinking
00:36 and fighting over the phone
00:38 that it's just become normal for us.
00:40 But I can only tolerate it up to a certain point.
00:45 Understandably, Brandon is now second guessing
00:48 leaving his life in America to be with her.
00:51 If this relationship isn't the epitome
00:54 of dangerously in love,
00:58 I don't know what is.
00:59 ♪ Because I'm dangerously in love with you ♪
01:03 ♪ I'll never leave ♪
01:05 Woo, this is 90 Day Replay Travel Size,
01:08 where I pack in all you need to know
01:09 while keeping it light.
01:11 Hey 90 Day fans fam, it's Malicia.
01:14 At the top of this week's episode,
01:16 Brandon prepares to move to the Philippines
01:18 to be with Mary.
01:19 And he reveals he's going there
01:22 with only $250 in his pocket.
01:26 Here's why.
01:28 Mary and I decided to build a house
01:30 for ourselves in the Philippines.
01:32 There was a typhoon that destroyed her home
01:34 and over the past year,
01:36 all my paychecks that were coming in
01:38 were going straight to building the house
01:40 and to Mary.
01:41 It was close to like $50,000, $60,000.
01:45 I just barely scratched by.
01:48 So I got $250 in my bank account.
01:53 So good luck to me.
01:57 Yeah, I'm not big on luck,
01:59 but you're gonna need it.
02:01 He's moving to a country to be with a girl
02:03 whose emotions go all over the place,
02:06 over the tiniest things,
02:08 with barely a dime to his name.
02:10 Brandon would probably rather die first
02:14 than not go over there.
02:17 His godparents, who he's been living with,
02:19 are worried of course,
02:20 but he's an adult,
02:22 at least when it comes to age.
02:23 So what can they do?
02:25 All I have to say is thank goodness
02:28 he decided to do all of this
02:29 after he signed up for 90 Day Fiance.
02:32 I'm sure it gives his loved ones
02:35 a ton of peace knowing that the production crew
02:37 will be with him if all hell breaks loose
02:40 over there in the Philippines.
02:42 Really nervous.
02:43 Are you?
02:44 Yeah.
02:45 The day has come for Brandon to leave
02:47 and as he approaches the airport,
02:49 reality starts to hit him.
02:51 He also wonders if his mom will show up
02:54 to say goodbye.
02:55 And she does.
02:57 Hey mom.
02:58 I don't want you to go.
03:08 If I was his mom,
03:09 I would be furious too.
03:11 This is my son I birthed into this world,
03:14 yet Mary is walking around like she owns him.
03:17 And she hasn't even met him in person yet.
03:20 There's always that fear
03:21 that I'm never gonna see you again,
03:22 you're my son.
03:24 A lot of the closeness that Brandon and I lost
03:26 was my fault.
03:28 When I started using drugs,
03:30 he lost all faith in what I said
03:33 and how I lived.
03:35 And I can't blame him.
03:36 But once I got clean and sober,
03:39 where we could have bridged that gap between us,
03:42 Mary stood in the way of that.
03:44 And that's the hardest part about watching him go.
03:47 Part of me is missing.
03:49 Once Brandon says his goodbyes,
03:51 he gets on the plane.
03:52 And here comes Mary,
03:54 asking to see who he's sitting next to.
03:57 He tells her he's sitting next to a girl,
03:59 but it's nothing he can do about it.
04:01 Mary then throws a fit
04:03 and calls Brandon a cheater
04:05 and tells him,
04:06 oh, you always wanna be by the girls.
04:09 Look at these text messages.
04:11 She's really working herself up about it.
04:14 She's automatically thinking,
04:15 oh, he's gonna flirt.
04:17 He's some type of pig.
04:21 To appease Mary,
04:22 Brandon asked to be moved next to an empty seat.
04:26 But she still isn't satisfied.
04:29 She goes on to tell him,
04:30 F you.
04:32 And he's spending the little money he has
04:35 to fly to be with her.
04:36 - I don't think I deserve that.
04:40 - She then tells him
04:42 she doesn't want to live a life with him
04:44 and he doesn't belong with her in the Philippines.
04:47 You see what insecurities can do?
04:50 They will literally have you creating a story
04:52 in your head that isn't real.
04:55 Nothing about their situation is cute.
04:57 It's actually really bothersome.
05:00 And they haven't even had sex yet.
05:02 And I know many of you know how powerful that can be.
05:05 Talk about being attached.
05:07 - She's upset, but no one's sitting next to me, so.
05:11 We're just so used to overthinking
05:15 and fighting over the phone
05:17 that it's just become normal for us.
05:21 But I can only tolerate it up to a certain point.
05:24 I don't know what to say, what to do.
05:30 It makes me very worried about whether or not
05:33 I'm making the right choice going to the Philippines
05:35 and committing my whole life there.
05:38 - Wow.
05:43 She told him not to come there while he's on the plane.
05:47 And then she told him she's done.
05:49 These two right here need some sort of intervention ASAP.
05:53 It's not looking good.
05:55 All right, next week we hear from Mary.
05:59 - I'm just so mad at him.
06:00 That's why I told Brandon that he shouldn't come here.
06:04 He said he won't be sitting with girls.
06:06 So I have the reason to get mad.
06:16 - Well, she's gonna be mad for the rest of her life
06:19 because the world isn't going to revolve
06:21 around her inner issues.
06:23 The goal should be to work on freeing yourself
06:26 from those insecurities, which I call thorns,
06:29 not trying to build a life where nothing touches them.
06:32 What type of life is that?
06:35 They are both allowing their insecurities
06:37 to rule this relationship, and they are calling it love.
06:41 All right, 90 Day Fans fam,
06:44 let's send Brandon and Mary some positive energy,
06:48 no matter how bad their storyline gets under your skin.
06:52 They're still young, they're 23.
06:55 So hopefully this is not a lifelong pattern
06:57 they build in their lives.
07:00 Let's hope so.
07:01 All right, make sure you stick with ET
07:03 because we are covering it all.
07:04 I will see you next time.
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