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GIỚI THIỆU CHƯƠNG TRÌNH:
Xuất phát từ thực tế, ngày càng phát sinh nhiều vấn đề xoay quanh việc nuôi dạy trẻ, ảnh hưởng trực tiếp đến tâm lý của trẻ trong quá trình "trưởng thành" về mặt thể chất lẫn tinh thần. Dù nhận thức được việc cần nuôi dạy con cái để tốt hơn, hạnh phúc hơn nhưng phần lớn các bậc phụ huynh đều làm cha mẹ theo bản năng mà chưa biết cách đúng để dạy con tích cực. Những mâu thuẫn nhỏ tích tụ từ việc không lắng nghe và không thấu hiểu, dần không còn tiếng nói chung và hạnh phúc chung trong gia đình.
Từ đó, MCV Group đồng hành cùng Lof Kun cho ra mắt talk show mới "Lof Kun - Cùng con trưởng thành, cùng con hạnh phúc" nhằm tạo ra không gian đối thoại cho các bậc phụ huynh và con trẻ để nói lên những tâm tư chưa bao giờ dám thổ lộ. Với 13 chủ đề có tính phổ quát được khảo sát, nghiên cứu và tham vấn từ chuyên gia tâm lý, được thể hiện qua từng câu chuyện thực tế của các gia đình nhân vật có nhu cầu "cùng con trưởng thành, cùng con hạnh phúc"; chương trình kỳ vọng sẽ tạo ra tinh thần "nói nhau nghe và nghe nhau nói" giữa người lớn và trẻ con.
MC Ngọc Lan và Tiến sĩ Tâm lý Tô Nhi A chính là bộ đôi ăn ý đảm nhiệm vai trò cầu nối cho những tâm tư, những nỗi niềm thầm kín giữa cha mẹ và con trẻ tại chương trình. Với lối dẫn duyên dáng, Ngọc Lan chắc chắn sẽ là “người bạn” đồng hành đắc lực của mẹ và bé. Cùng với đó, Tiến sĩ Tâm lý Tô Nhi A - chuyên gia đầu ngành trong lĩnh vực tâm lý học và thành thạo phương pháp nuôi dạy con thông minh sáng tạo, hứa hẹn sẽ mang đến những giải pháp tích cực, tháo gỡ nút thắt cho các “mâu thuẫn” trong gia đình.
MẸ ĐƠN THÂN - những chiến binh kiên cường | LOF KUN CÙNG CON TRƯỞNG THÀNH CÙNG CON HẠNH PHÚC #12
► Playlist FULL:
• LOF KUN CÙNG CON ...
KHUNG GIỜ PHÁT SÓNG: 20H00 thứ 7 hàng tuần trên kênh youtube MCVMedia
Những người tham gia chương trình này, họ đã có sự hi sinh rất lớn lao khi tham gia với một thái độ trung thực và thẳng thắn, cầu thị.
Nhờ có họ, chúng ta có thể thấy mình trong đó, để cảm thông, để thấy bản thân mình đâu đó còn những sai lầm, để thấy mình cần thay đổi.
Vì vậy, mong khán giả khi xem chương trình đừng phán xét người chơi, mà hãy cảm ơn họ.
Không có cha mẹ nào là hoàn hảo, không có cha mẹ nào không mắc sai lầm, quan trọng là chúng ta dám nhìn nhận sai lầm, dám thay đổi, để chính mình trưởng thành hơn. VÀ chính cái sự dám đó sẽ giúp cho con cái chúng ta được lớn lên trong hạnh phúc.
Đó cũng chính là ý nghĩa và mong muốn của chương trình.
LOFKUN- CÙNG CON TRƯỞNG THÀNH, CÙNG CON HẠNH PHÚC
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GIỚI THIỆU CHƯƠNG TRÌNH:
Xuất phát từ thực tế, ngày càng phát sinh nhiều vấn đề xoay quanh việc nuôi dạy trẻ, ảnh hưởng trực tiếp đến tâm lý của trẻ trong quá trình "trưởng thành" về mặt thể chất lẫn tinh thần. Dù nhận thức được việc cần nuôi dạy con cái để tốt hơn, hạnh phúc hơn nhưng phần lớn các bậc phụ huynh đều làm cha mẹ theo bản năng mà chưa biết cách đúng để dạy con tích cực. Những mâu thuẫn nhỏ tích tụ từ việc không lắng nghe và không thấu hiểu, dần không còn tiếng nói chung và hạnh phúc chung trong gia đình.
Từ đó, MCV Group đồng hành cùng Lof Kun cho ra mắt talk show mới "Lof Kun - Cùng con trưởng thành, cùng con hạnh phúc" nhằm tạo ra không gian đối thoại cho các bậc phụ huynh và con trẻ để nói lên những tâm tư chưa bao giờ dám thổ lộ. Với 13 chủ đề có tính phổ quát được khảo sát, nghiên cứu và tham vấn từ chuyên gia tâm lý, được thể hiện qua từng câu chuyện thực tế của các gia đình nhân vật có nhu cầu "cùng con trưởng thành, cùng con hạnh phúc"; chương trình kỳ vọng sẽ tạo ra tinh thần "nói nhau nghe và nghe nhau nói" giữa người lớn và trẻ con.
MC Ngọc Lan và Tiến sĩ Tâm lý Tô Nhi A chính là bộ đôi ăn ý đảm nhiệm vai trò cầu nối cho những tâm tư, những nỗi niềm thầm kín giữa cha mẹ và con trẻ tại chương trình. Với lối dẫn duyên dáng, Ngọc Lan chắc chắn sẽ là “người bạn” đồng hành đắc lực của mẹ và bé. Cùng với đó, Tiến sĩ Tâm lý Tô Nhi A - chuyên gia đầu ngành trong lĩnh vực tâm lý học và thành thạo phương pháp nuôi dạy con thông minh sáng tạo, hứa hẹn sẽ mang đến những giải pháp tích cực, tháo gỡ nút thắt cho các “mâu thuẫn” trong gia đình.
MẸ ĐƠN THÂN - những chiến binh kiên cường | LOF KUN CÙNG CON TRƯỞNG THÀNH CÙNG CON HẠNH PHÚC #12
► Playlist FULL:
• LOF KUN CÙNG CON ...
KHUNG GIỜ PHÁT SÓNG: 20H00 thứ 7 hàng tuần trên kênh youtube MCVMedia
Những người tham gia chương trình này, họ đã có sự hi sinh rất lớn lao khi tham gia với một thái độ trung thực và thẳng thắn, cầu thị.
Nhờ có họ, chúng ta có thể thấy mình trong đó, để cảm thông, để thấy bản thân mình đâu đó còn những sai lầm, để thấy mình cần thay đổi.
Vì vậy, mong khán giả khi xem chương trình đừng phán xét người chơi, mà hãy cảm ơn họ.
Không có cha mẹ nào là hoàn hảo, không có cha mẹ nào không mắc sai lầm, quan trọng là chúng ta dám nhìn nhận sai lầm, dám thay đổi, để chính mình trưởng thành hơn. VÀ chính cái sự dám đó sẽ giúp cho con cái chúng ta được lớn lên trong hạnh phúc.
Đó cũng chính là ý nghĩa và mong muốn của chương trình.
LOFKUN- CÙNG CON TRƯỞNG THÀNH, CÙNG CON HẠNH PHÚC
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00:00 Love Cool 100% milk from high quality milk cow milk, high support and resistance.
00:05 Love a day, love a day, love everyone.
00:09 Love Cool, grow up with children, be happy with children.
00:12 Single mother, a word that is familiar to all of us.
00:17 No matter what the situation is, being a single mother is more difficult than being a mother.
00:24 This journey is not easy at all for the life of a woman.
00:29 Stay with the grown-up, be happy with children, episode 12.
00:33 Please listen to the sharing of the two single mothers
00:37 to feel how hard they tried to bring a good life to their children.
00:43 Welcome to Love Cool, grow up with children, be happy with children.
00:55 The show is produced by Love Cool and MCV Group and will be broadcast at 8pm every Saturday on MCV Media.
01:02 And everyone, Ngoc Lan is very excited right now.
01:06 Ngoc Lan will introduce the person who accompanies me, which is psychologist Tonia.
01:10 Hello sister.
01:19 Hello.
01:20 Oh my god, why are you so flamboyant?
01:23 Today I want to show the image of a mother who is very adorable, very cute, but inside she is very strong.
01:32 Like a machine.
01:33 Right.
01:34 See, very strong, soft, strong, strong.
01:37 Why are you so focused on the image of a strong woman today?
01:42 Because our topic today is about single but strong mothers.
01:48 Or we often call them supermothers.
01:51 So today I will invite to the show, which mothers?
01:56 Single mothers.
01:59 Our story today will be about single mothers.
02:03 But their journey of raising children is a very strong journey, not falling at any moment.
02:09 Actually, when people become parents, no matter what the situation is,
02:14 they will have a certain strength to help their children have the best life.
02:21 However, the important thing is that I care about this.
02:24 That is sometimes the strength of a single mother, or vice versa, a single father.
02:29 The problem is how the children perceive that.
02:34 Because in any way, we try to show one thing, but the acceptance of the children is another thing.
02:40 If these two things are combined, the journey is a happy journey.
02:46 Actually, today I just sit and listen.
02:49 Because I will listen to find a direction.
02:54 Because I know that in the past 6 years, I have not been a good mother.
02:58 The content of this show is that you are a bad editor.
03:00 Yes, sister.
03:01 You are bad, right?
03:02 Yes, I am bad.
03:03 Now, without wasting the time of the audience,
03:06 I would like to invite the audience to welcome the first family.
03:10 Please welcome Phuong Thao and Quang Hien.
03:13 Hello, mom and daughter.
03:17 Now, let's welcome the second family.
03:30 Please welcome Kieu Trinh, Ky Phong and Thanh Thu.
03:35 Wow.
03:36 Now, are you three ready to play a little game with mom?
04:01 Yes.
04:03 Are you ready?
04:05 Yes, I am ready.
04:07 It's a very simple game.
04:09 It seems that Kieu Trinh's mother will be better here.
04:12 Because there are two people who are in harmony with each other.
04:15 She will have a question for us.
04:18 What are the 5 points that you find very lovable in your mother?
04:24 You raise your hand first, Thu.
04:26 Now, what are your favorite points?
04:28 Mom's smile is really fresh.
04:30 Mom's smile is one.
04:32 I think mom's conversation with new people is also...
04:38 Also...
04:40 Kind of...
04:42 Happy.
04:43 Happy and smile.
04:45 Second is happy conversation.
04:47 And what is the third one, Thu?
04:49 I think mom wears a dress like me.
04:53 Wearing a couple's clothes is also lovable.
04:56 Wearing a couple's clothes is lovable, right?
04:58 What else is lovable?
05:00 I think mom's makeup is also...
05:03 Lovable.
05:05 Makeup is also lovable.
05:06 And the last one?
05:07 I think mom's hair is also lovable.
05:12 Mom's appearance is lovable.
05:14 Today, she will understand that she has a lovable point.
05:18 So, Kie Phong, except for the 5 points I just listed,
05:22 in my perspective, what are the 5 points that you find wow?
05:26 It's okay.
05:27 I think my mother is personality.
05:29 A strong woman.
05:31 And what else?
05:32 That's all.
05:34 But sometimes, mom is too strong and strong,
05:37 sometimes, I'm a little bit of a troublemaker, right?
05:39 Yes, you are.
05:40 I'll talk about the troublemaker later.
05:42 I don't know why he suddenly smiled.
05:45 I asked him why he smiled,
05:48 and he said, "Do I look like that?"
05:50 Yes, you do.
05:51 So, what are the 5 lovely points of your mom that you find wow?
05:56 What do you think, Hien?
05:57 Beautiful makeup.
05:59 Beautiful makeup, if you add one more, it's one.
06:02 Cooking is fun.
06:05 What do you mean by cooking is fun?
06:11 Wait, wait.
06:12 Cooking must be delicious.
06:14 Why is cooking fun?
06:16 Like, cooking, just watch the phone and cook.
06:21 Just watch the phone.
06:23 So, your mom always cooks in a happy and comfortable mood, right?
06:27 Not tired, right?
06:28 Watch the phone means watch the entertainment shows,
06:31 and cook while watching the entertainment shows,
06:32 or watch how people cook and cook like that?
06:34 Watch the entertainment shows.
06:37 So, cooking is fun.
06:39 Sometimes, I don't know how to cook this dish,
06:42 so I watch it.
06:44 That's right, that's reasonable.
06:45 I understand, now I understand.
06:47 What is the third feature?
06:49 But is it delicious when cooked?
06:51 Yes.
06:52 So, give me the third feature.
06:53 It's delicious, so it's the fourth feature.
06:56 Five times, only three.
06:59 Cute.
07:00 Cute.
07:01 And then?
07:03 Finally, finally.
07:05 Finally, mom is usually happy with me.
07:08 Ah, mom is usually happy with you.
07:10 Five lovely points are there, right?
07:12 So, these two mothers have very similar points,
07:14 always happy.
07:16 So, in contrast,
07:18 what are the lovely points of your children that you realize?
07:22 Now, mom, please tell me first.
07:23 Fun.
07:24 Fun.
07:25 Second, he knows how to help me.
07:28 Oh.
07:29 Third, he listens to me.
07:32 Yes.
07:33 Fourth, he is...
07:34 He is handsome, so he praises me.
07:36 Really.
07:37 The number is right.
07:39 Fourth, he is handsome.
07:40 That's right, handsome.
07:41 Finally, he is good.
07:44 Good.
07:45 Yes.
07:46 Oh my God.
07:47 I was like, "Oh, it's done."
07:50 I lost five points.
07:51 Is that what you said?
07:52 Yes.
07:53 That's right.
07:54 You realized that point yourself?
07:56 And what about mom?
07:57 You have listed out such points.
07:59 Have you ever told mom about those things?
08:02 Not yet.
08:03 Not yet?
08:04 Is that the first time you hear that you praise yourself?
08:06 No.
08:07 What about Trinh?
08:08 I was a little surprised to hear you today.
08:10 I was surprised when Phong said that mom is strong.
08:13 Yes.
08:14 I didn't think Phong would say that.
08:15 I thought Phong would say something else.
08:17 So, what are some of the good points of your children that you always see?
08:23 If I say the good points of my children, the first thing is that she is a princess.
08:28 She has many good points.
08:30 Because she has been very affectionate since she was a child.
08:33 And secondly, she always cares about others.
08:36 Yes.
08:37 And she is very sympathetic.
08:39 She has many good points.
08:41 She is very funny and talkative.
08:43 She is a very good friend of the neighbors.
08:46 She is very diplomatic.
08:48 She can communicate with everyone, both young and old.
08:50 She is very good.
08:52 She has many good points.
08:54 You are the center of education in the whole neighborhood.
08:56 That's right.
08:57 That's right.
08:58 That's cute.
08:59 And this uncle, he is very naughty.
09:02 He is very cute.
09:03 I don't know what to say.
09:05 When he was a child, he was often teased by mom.
09:08 But in the past two years, he has grown up, he has changed his personality, he has become more obedient.
09:14 He helps me understand more.
09:17 I think so.
09:18 He is not as deep as you.
09:21 Oh.
09:22 He is good.
09:24 When I ask him to do something, he listens to me and explains it to me.
09:27 He is not like...
09:29 Some people are the same age as him, but he is older.
09:34 He is more conscious.
09:35 This guy is very carefree.
09:37 That's what you see, right?
09:39 I hope you will see other things later.
09:42 That's right.
09:43 Now, if you want to see other things about your children, please move to another place.
09:49 So you haven't been kicked out yet?
09:50 That's right.
09:51 But here, we say that we have understood enough.
09:54 Now, let Lan explain to you that there are some other points that you haven't seen yet.
10:01 That's strange.
10:02 Sometimes, she doesn't have time to go, she wants to kick me out whenever she wants.
10:06 She is very talkative.
10:07 We won't invite you here again.
10:09 Let's go, Thao.
10:11 I don't want you to kick me out.
10:16 You don't want me to kick you out?
10:17 I won't kick you out.
10:19 I will go to a place where I can be closer to you.
10:22 You will see it when you come back.
10:24 I will go to Lan's place.
10:25 I agree.
10:27 Hey, I will go down there because my daughter is worried.
10:31 No, I will go.
10:33 Love a day, love a day, love everyone.
10:37 Love Good, grow up together, be happy together.
10:40 Now, we only have our children.
10:43 We will talk a lot about what we want and what we have in our stomach.
10:50 We don't have a chance to talk about it.
10:52 Let's talk to each other.
10:54 Yes.
10:55 About Phong's family, Lan knows it already.
10:57 Because Lan and your mother are colleagues.
11:00 So Lan knows clearly about your mother's situation and your birth.
11:05 So now, Lan, you should ask about Quang Hien.
11:09 Who are you living with now?
11:11 I live with my mother.
11:13 Can you tell us about your situation to Lan and the audience?
11:17 I have only one child.
11:21 With my mother.
11:23 My father passed away.
11:25 How long has he passed away?
11:27 5 years.
11:29 Since he passed away, you and your mother have been living together.
11:33 Do you feel tired of your mother?
11:35 Yes.
11:36 Do your grandparents help you?
11:38 No.
11:40 I don't go to my grandmother's house.
11:43 Do you hang out with your friends?
11:45 Yes.
11:47 But I can only hang out in the evening.
11:51 I finish school at 7 or 8.
11:55 My friends go to bed at 8.
11:59 Your friends go to bed at 8?
12:01 I'm alone.
12:03 Who do you hang out with?
12:05 I hang out with my mother.
12:07 I go to work in the morning.
12:09 I come home with my child in the afternoon.
12:11 I come home at noon.
12:13 I bring food home.
12:15 I just cook rice.
12:17 I eat rice.
12:19 I eat rice.
12:21 I sleep at 1 or 1.30 am.
12:25 You cook rice and bring food home?
12:27 Yes.
12:29 What about in the afternoon?
12:31 I have to eat light when I come home.
12:35 I go to school.
12:37 You only go to school and eat rice at home.
12:41 You eat by yourself.
12:43 You don't hang out with anyone in the afternoon.
12:47 Why do you lack of connection with your friends?
12:51 In your description,
12:53 you only wait for your mother to come home.
12:59 What do you worry about?
13:03 You only live at home.
13:07 You don't have any other connections.
13:09 My parents just moved to the US.
13:11 They have not been here for a year.
13:13 I have not been able to get used to the environment around me.
13:19 I go to school all day.
13:21 I used to hang out with my friends at my old house.
13:27 Have you ever told your mother that you were lonely?
13:31 Did you tell her that?
13:33 Yes.
13:35 I did that many times.
13:37 She also asked me to give birth to a baby.
13:45 All my friends have babies.
13:49 I have no one.
13:51 You know that she still wants you to have a baby, right?
13:55 Why?
13:57 I come home at 5 p.m.
14:02 I'm bored waiting for my mom.
14:04 I have nothing to do.
14:06 I'm bored at home.
14:08 Do you want me to have a baby?
14:12 Do you know that it's hard to take care of a baby?
14:16 Can you take care of it?
14:18 How do you understand Hien's wish to have a baby?
14:23 What do you think is the reason for you to tell me that?
14:26 Hien is a girl who lives with love.
14:30 She likes the feeling of family.
14:36 She has a lot of friends.
14:40 She likes it.
14:42 She wants to have a baby when she gets home.
14:48 I've asked her many times.
14:50 She can't take care of her baby alone.
14:54 How can she take care of a baby?
14:56 I have to sleep alone.
14:58 I can't sleep with my mom.
15:00 I have to practice sleeping alone.
15:02 I can't sleep with my mom.
15:04 I have to practice sleeping alone.
15:06 I'm still a baby.
15:10 He thinks it's a solution to solve his loneliness.
15:16 He thinks it's a solution to solve his loneliness.
15:18 He thinks it's a solution to solve his loneliness.
15:20 He can't imagine that having a baby is a sacrifice.
15:24 He thinks it's a solution to solve his loneliness.
15:28 That's why he conflicts with him.
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15:38 What about Phong?
15:40 I live with my mom and my brother.
15:44 What do you do to help your mom?
15:50 I want to clean the house but my mom doesn't allow me.
15:56 Why?
15:58 Because you don't clean the house?
16:00 Or because you love your mom so much?
16:02 I want my mom to let me do it.
16:06 So I can clean the house.
16:10 I like it since I was a kid.
16:12 You like to do it since you were a kid but your mom doesn't allow you.
16:16 You want your mom to let you do it?
16:18 I've never heard of it.
16:20 What about you, Phong?
16:22 How do you and your parents divide your work?
16:25 Can you help your mom?
16:27 I work more in the countryside than here.
16:32 It's better here. I just dry clothes.
16:36 What do you do in the countryside?
16:38 I clean the house, sweep the house, and do the laundry.
16:43 I do a lot of things. I help my mom.
16:46 I live in a loco-sou.
16:49 How do you do it?
16:52 I'm comfortable. I'm happy.
16:54 I'm used to it. I do it all the time.
16:56 You're a grown-up now.
17:00 You understand that you should help your mom.
17:03 Good job.
17:05 How about you, Quang Hien?
17:07 I also sweep the house and do the laundry.
17:09 I know you also do the laundry.
17:11 I also fry eggs.
17:13 You also clean the house, do the laundry, and do the laundry.
17:16 I also wash the dishes.
17:18 Do you do it by yourself or your mom helps you?
17:22 I do it by myself.
17:24 You're just like your mom.
17:28 You don't have a father figure in your family.
17:31 Do you think the role of a father in a family is important?
17:39 Yes, it is.
17:41 It's about the responsibility of a father.
17:45 It's important.
17:47 You're too young to feel it.
17:51 I want my dad to be easy on me.
17:57 I want a full house.
18:05 How about you, Hien?
18:07 Do you think a man should be in charge of taking care of you and your mom?
18:15 I think it's necessary to meet 5 criteria.
18:18 5 criteria?
18:19 Tell me.
18:21 First, love your family.
18:23 Second, don't drink.
18:27 Third,
18:29 take care of your mom and me.
18:37 Take care of your mom and me.
18:39 Fourth,
18:40 be beautiful.
18:41 Beautiful?
18:42 Like me?
18:44 Can I be more beautiful?
18:46 Yes.
18:47 Fifth,
18:49 take me out.
18:53 Take you out?
18:55 You accept that I have 5 criteria, right?
18:59 I have a question for you.
19:01 It's obvious that you're having a hard time accompanying your children.
19:04 In the loneliness,
19:06 in the loneliness of being alone,
19:08 if you're not alone,
19:11 if you have someone else,
19:14 who is your role model,
19:17 to support your family,
19:19 to accompany you to raise your children,
19:22 what difficulties do you think you'll have to overcome?
19:27 I think if I meet a man who is a good man,
19:32 who takes care of my family,
19:34 it will be great.
19:35 Because I think a lot.
19:37 At least I can be a loving woman.
19:40 I'm honest.
19:41 I haven't cried yet.
19:43 I don't know how long it's been.
19:44 I haven't shed a single tear.
19:46 If I have that man,
19:47 at least I can be a good woman.
19:50 I can cry.
19:51 Especially my son, Ky Phong.
19:54 When he's growing up, he needs a father.
19:57 He needs to be guided by his man.
20:02 I can't teach him that.
20:05 And whenever I have a problem,
20:08 I feel like I have someone to protect me.
20:11 You'll feel more secure.
20:14 That's right.
20:15 I don't know what it will help,
20:17 but I feel like there will be a lot of things
20:19 that I can be confident in to solve with my children.
20:22 What about you, Hien?
20:23 If you have a man who is a good man,
20:27 what will make it easier for you?
20:32 If I have that man,
20:36 first of all, Hien is a boy.
20:41 He will listen to his father more than me.
20:45 So I can teach him more easily.
20:49 In terms of strength and manliness,
20:51 I can teach him more than you.
20:54 Secondly, when I have someone to share with,
20:58 I feel less pressure in life.
21:01 You feel like you're not alone in life.
21:04 You're not alone.
21:05 That's right.
21:06 At least the one who drives and carries you is less.
21:09 That's right.
21:10 What do you think about Thu's wish?
21:12 When you still want your father to be with you,
21:16 your mother and your brother.
21:18 I've known this for a long time.
21:20 But with my situation and my children,
21:22 I'm sure it will never happen.
21:24 That means you have to be prepared
21:27 to talk to your child.
21:29 To make your child satisfied and accept
21:32 that your father is not coming back
21:34 is something that you welcome happily.
21:36 It's no longer in your heart.
21:38 Is there anything about your mother that you don't like?
21:41 The things that she does that you don't like.
21:43 You don't want her to do those things anymore.
21:45 In the past, I did.
21:47 But not anymore.
21:49 Because my mother used to work too much.
21:52 She worked for months.
21:53 She left me at home, in the countryside, alone.
21:56 She went to school and cooked by herself.
21:59 She cooked by herself.
22:01 I was alone at home.
22:03 I was alone for months.
22:05 I felt sad.
22:06 What about you, Thu?
22:07 What do you want your mother to change?
22:09 I want my mother to do less work
22:12 so that she won't be stressed.
22:15 What about you, Quang Hien?
22:21 Do you want your mother to change anything?
22:23 My family changed.
22:26 They changed their personality.
22:28 Personality?
22:29 Why?
22:30 They often play with me.
22:34 Or play with their children.
22:36 Do you know that
22:37 only you raise your children?
22:40 So your mother has to work
22:44 and take care of your children.
22:46 It takes a lot of time.
22:49 For example,
22:50 if you have another man in your family,
22:52 he will take care of the economy.
22:54 And you will take care of playing with your children.
22:58 Taking care of your children.
22:59 But now,
23:00 your situation is the same.
23:02 You are alone.
23:04 So it's hard for you to leave your job
23:07 to stay home and play with your children.
23:10 So I hope you can understand and sympathize with me.
23:14 Phong has already understood me.
23:17 Because he is old.
23:18 He is 13 years old.
23:19 He has seen my hard work.
23:22 And you two are still young.
23:25 Thu is still too young.
23:27 You are at the age of getting ready to grow up.
23:30 I think in 1 or 2 years,
23:32 you will understand me.
23:34 Okay?
23:35 I have no choice.
23:38 The only way is that you have to work
23:42 to stabilize your life.
23:47 Okay?
23:48 What are the things that you want to talk to your children
23:52 or what are the things that you are still worried about?
23:58 I am a person who lives with love.
24:02 I can analyze for my children.
24:05 I am like my mother.
24:07 I have a lot of love.
24:10 I will not believe anything that anyone says.
24:12 For example,
24:13 my mother was once deceived by a lie.
24:15 In addition to love and social,
24:17 she was also blind when she bought a house.
24:20 She just needed to say that she believed.
24:22 She didn't need to verify.
24:24 I am most worried about my children.
24:27 I am more at ease with my son.
24:32 What about now?
24:33 What makes you feel that you want to change?
24:40 First, I am still too naive.
24:43 I haven't done what I want.
24:51 I haven't done what I want.
24:57 I just want to have a free spirit.
25:00 I have to arrange my study time.
25:06 Second, I am hot-tempered.
25:09 I am better now.
25:10 When I was 4-7 years old,
25:15 for example, my mother took a hammer,
25:17 I had to go looking for weapons.
25:19 I had to fight back.
25:21 I was hot-tempered.
25:23 I am better now.
25:25 But I am still hot-tempered.
25:27 I often argue with my mother.
25:28 I want to change.
25:30 Every child has a reason.
25:32 There are many reasons to accept and change.
25:36 But the reason you give to your child
25:40 is the problem you want to solve.
25:43 It needs to be better.
25:44 It needs to be known.
25:46 Do you dare to tell your children
25:50 all your worries?
25:53 You may have told your children before.
25:55 But in a special situation,
25:57 the words you tell your children
25:59 are still kept in a special way.
26:01 Do you think this is a chance
26:03 to tell your children?
26:05 Yes.
26:06 We will come back to you.
26:09 I believe you are waiting for us
26:12 to have something to tell your children.
26:14 Right after this,
26:16 let's listen to the song "If I Were You"
26:19 to listen to the love
26:21 that you two have for each other.
26:23 Do you want to go first?
26:26 Yes.
26:28 Please.
26:30 I love you so much.
26:32 I want you to hang out with me often.
26:37 It will make me happy.
26:39 I know.
26:43 I...
26:45 I'm not as lucky as others.
26:48 I'm also a failure.
26:50 So...
26:52 I'm trying my best
26:54 to make up for you
26:55 so that you won't lose to your friends.
26:58 I hope you understand me.
27:00 My time
27:02 is only 2-4 hours a day.
27:05 I have to spend time to go to work
27:09 and earn money.
27:10 I hope you will be more confident
27:13 and live a strong life.
27:15 You are my only man.
27:18 You have to be stronger
27:20 to protect me.
27:24 Okay?
27:26 I hope that after today,
27:30 you two can gradually settle down
27:32 and live a new life.
27:33 You will need time
27:36 to connect with
27:38 other experiences
27:40 to deal with your time.
27:43 I hope you won't feel lonely anymore.
27:46 You will have a connection
27:49 with me every day.
27:51 You don't need much.
27:52 It will be a strong bond
27:54 to make you feel
27:56 at ease and strong like I want.
28:00 I hope you will be more confident
28:03 and live a strong life.
28:06 You will have a connection
28:10 with me every day.
28:13 You will have a connection
28:17 with me every day.
28:20 I hope you will be more confident
28:23 and live a strong life.
28:26 You will have a connection
28:28 with me every day.
28:30 I hope you will be more confident
28:32 and live a strong life.
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