Căn phòng BÍ MẬT của các ông bố _ LOF KUN CÙNG CON TRƯỞNG THÀNH CÙNG CON HẠNH PHÚC #13

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#ToNhiA #CungConTruongThanhCungConHanhPhuc #LofKun  NỘI DUNG:  Tập 13 của Cùng Con Trưởng Thành Cùng Con Hạnh Phúc với sự tham gia của gia đình nhạc sĩ Nguyễn Hải Phong và gia đình ca sĩ Lâm Hùng. Lần đầu tiên được nghe con gái lớn nói về những tổn thương thời thơ ấu, ca sĩ Lâm Hùng không khỏi đau lòng và giật mình nhìn lại. Ngược lại, dù không ai nói ra, nhưng nhạc sĩ Nguyễn Hải Phong đã tự nhìn ra được sự hy sinh của vợ dành cho gia đình, và vô cùng trân quý sự lựa chọn của vợ.   GIỚI THIỆU CHƯƠNG TRÌNH: Xuất phát từ thực tế, ngày càng phát sinh nhiều vấn đề xoay quanh việc nuôi dạy trẻ, ảnh hưởng trực tiếp đến tâm lý của trẻ trong quá trình "trưởng thành" về mặt thể chất lẫn tinh thần. Dù nhận thức được việc cần nuôi dạy con cái để tốt hơn, hạnh phúc hơn nhưng phần lớn các bậc phụ huynh đều làm cha mẹ theo bản năng mà chưa biết cách đúng để dạy con tích cực. Những mâu thuẫn nhỏ tích tụ từ việc không lắng nghe và không thấu hiểu, dần không còn tiếng nói chung và hạnh phúc chung trong gia đình.   Từ đó, MCV Group đồng hành cùng Lof Kun cho ra mắt talk show mới "Lof Kun - Cùng con trưởng thành, cùng con hạnh phúc" nhằm tạo ra không gian đối thoại cho các bậc phụ huynh và con trẻ để nói lên những tâm tư chưa bao giờ dám thổ lộ. Với 13 chủ đề có tính phổ quát được khảo sát, nghiên cứu và tham vấn từ chuyên gia tâm lý, được thể hiện qua từng câu chuyện thực tế của các gia đình nhân vật có nhu cầu "cùng con trưởng thành, cùng con hạnh phúc"; chương trình kỳ vọng sẽ tạo ra tinh thần "nói nhau nghe và nghe nhau nói" giữa người lớn và trẻ con.  MC Ngọc Lan và Tiến sĩ Tâm lý Tô Nhi A chính là bộ đôi ăn ý đảm nhiệm vai trò cầu nối cho những tâm tư, những nỗi niềm thầm kín giữa cha mẹ và con trẻ tại chương trình. Với lối dẫn duyên dáng, Ngọc Lan chắc chắn sẽ là “người bạn” đồng hành đắc lực của mẹ và bé. Cùng với đó, Tiến sĩ Tâm lý Tô Nhi A - chuyên gia đầu ngành trong lĩnh vực tâm lý học và thành thạo phương pháp nuôi dạy con thông minh sáng tạo, hứa hẹn sẽ mang đến những giải pháp tích cực, tháo gỡ nút thắt cho các “mâu thuẫn” trong gia đình.   Căn phòng BÍ MẬT của các ông bố | LOF KUN CÙNG CON TRƯỞNG THÀNH CÙNG CON HẠNH PHÚC #13  #mcvmedia #LofKun #CungConTruongThanhCungConHanhPhuc #NgocLan #ToNhiA #ccttcchp11 #mcv  CCTTCCHP_011 © Tất cả video thuộc các chương trình của MCV CORPORATION đã được đăng ký bản quyền với Youtube. Vui lòng không sao chép, re-upload dưới mọi hình thức. ✖ Mọi hành vi sao chép, re-upload có thể dẫn đến việc tài khoản của bạn bị khóa vĩnh viễn.

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00:00 100% milk from high-quality milk cow milk farm

00:03 with high-end and low-price support

00:04 Love a day, love a day, love everyone

00:08 Love Kool, grow up together, be happy together

00:12 When I became a father, I understood my father's feelings

00:15 I didn't understand when I was an orphan

00:17 When my second daughter was born, I was more mature

00:22 She just turned a few months old and went back to her mother

00:25 She has lived abroad for nearly 10 years

00:27 and she is still in that phase

00:29 When I first came back to my mother, I was often scolded

00:32 "Why don't you give me up?"

00:33 I felt a little sad

00:35 My mother always said "Give up for me"

00:38 I felt a little hurt

00:40 I have been loved by my parents for more than 4 years

00:45 I have never lost anything for my children

00:47 It's a little hard to be a brother

00:49 but I'm proud of myself when I do my best

00:54 Now I'm very proud of my baby

00:57 Because family is everything

00:59 In this world, only family is the warmest and happiest home

01:04 Love Kool, grow up together, be happy together

01:10 Welcome to Love Kool

01:17 Grow up together, be happy together

01:19 The show is produced by Love Kool and MCB Group

01:22 and will be broadcast at 8 p.m. every Saturday on MCB Media

01:26 The guest today is my psychologist

01:30 The special thing about today's show is that

01:39 a big family will be here with us

01:43 A big family?

01:44 Yes

01:44 Are we inviting 3 generations?

01:45 No, 2 generations

01:47 Because we have a lot of children

01:49 Oh

01:50 Please welcome Tuong Minh, Tinh Tu and Minh Khoi

01:54 [Music]

02:12 Who's the youngest?

02:12 The youngest?

02:13 Mommy Mi, 1, 2, 3

02:15 Mommy Mi, I love you!

02:18 [Music]

02:28 Who's Tinh Tu?

02:29 Here

02:30 Is it you?

02:31 Oh my god

02:32 It's me

02:33 You're so beautiful

02:33 Yes

02:34 Can you see this team?

02:36 5 fingers on 1 hand

02:38 Oh, you're the first one

02:40 Let me introduce, 5 fingers

02:42 Yeah

02:44 And this is Mommy

02:45 Mommy finger

02:47 Daddy finger

02:50 Brother finger

02:52 Sister finger

02:54 Baby finger

02:56 Yeah

02:58 Today is the first time that we have 5 people here together

03:03 Yes

03:04 A big family has a lot of problems

03:08 Yes

03:08 I hope that you can learn from us

03:12 No, we have less children

03:13 Lan's family has less children than mine

03:15 I'll introduce another family for you to have more children

03:19 Yes

03:19 It's easier to learn from Lan

03:22 Yes

03:23 Let's welcome the families of Lam Ngoc Khanh, Lam Ngoc Phan and Lam Phong

03:30 [Music]

03:48 Our father is Lam Hung

03:52 [Music]

04:02 Welcome to the show

04:06 We're so happy that you're here

04:12 We hope that you can learn from us

04:21 Yes

04:22 Love cool, grow up together, be happy together

04:25 I have only one child and I don't know how to divide the time

04:31 We have 3 children

04:34 I have to ask you 4 how to divide the time equally

04:40 It's hard

04:41 My mom and my dad are the ones who spend more time with their family

04:46 Now they're both working at home

04:49 Yes

04:50 So I spend more time with my children

04:54 You're lucky because you can arrange time for your children

04:59 It's enough

05:01 Yes

05:02 It's not too much

05:02 Yes

05:03 My dad also goes out

05:04 It's enough for him to go out

05:06 He has his own time

05:09 So it's more time for you and your mom, right?

05:12 Yes

05:13 You're so good

05:15 You're so kind

05:16 The family here is very hard

05:18 I'm worried about him

05:20 I'm afraid that the show will be ruined

05:22 It's okay

05:23 It's the last episode

05:24 I'll take him home

05:26 I'll take him home

05:28 [Laughing]

05:29 We have 24 hours a day, 7 days a week

05:32 How much time do you spend to listen to your children and share with them?

05:36 How much time do you spend to listen to your children and share with them?

05:43 It's all about the day

05:47 But it doesn't take much time

05:50 It's serious

05:51 I need to intervene if I need to

05:53 Or I let my children handle it themselves

05:56 How about you?

05:58 You have a son and a daughter

06:00 I've been working on a new level since I had a son

06:04 I'm a superwoman

06:06 I'm responsible for explaining and guiding my friends

06:12 I explain why they're wrong and right

06:14 I have to talk more

06:16 It's getting better

06:18 It's different here

06:20 She's 14 years old

06:22 She's grown up

06:24 So she can take care of you two

06:27 Right?

06:28 I'm the boss

06:29 She's the superwoman

06:31 She's my assistant

06:33 You're the second sister of two siblings

06:37 But your father is not married

06:39 Do you feel bored sometimes?

06:43 Yes, I do

06:46 A lot?

06:47 I want my son to be naughty

06:49 What do you think is the most annoying thing in your role?

06:57 I think it's when we fight

07:02 We fight a lot

07:04 We fight a lot

07:05 I don't know about you, Phong

07:07 But I like to have my own time

07:10 That's being naughty

07:12 Honey

07:13 Honey

07:14 That's being naughty

07:18 I don't know anything

07:20 You have to understand that

07:23 We don't say it out loud

07:25 We worry about our needs

07:29 We drink coffee

07:31 But we have a lot of things in our mind

07:33 We need our own time to arrange things

07:36 So that it's suitable for our work, family, and relationship

07:41 Not often

07:42 But often

07:43 Yes

07:44 If you say so, I know where is the safest place for me

07:49 That was the past

07:53 And now, Lam Hung's children are grown up

07:56 Lam Hung is also grown up

07:58 She's like my daughter

08:00 She's starting to grow up

08:03 So Lam Hung has changed a little

08:07 She's less shopping

08:09 And she saves the money to buy a house opposite

08:15 You can live there

08:17 Each of you has a room

08:18 And this house is mine

08:20 So, is it okay for you or your mom?

08:25 It's okay

08:26 Because I think she's grown up and she needs a space

08:31 I want you to have a room

08:34 Because Lam Hung's daughter is a few months old

08:39 She's been living with her grandma for 10 years

08:41 I want to make up for that

08:45 You have to have something to make up for

08:47 You have to have your own space to grow up

08:49 But in my control

08:52 Sometimes, I just look

08:54 And Lam Hung tells me

08:56 That private space is for you

08:59 Now, we're going to play a game

09:01 It's called Dare to tell the truth

09:03 Do you dare to play?

09:04 Yes

09:05 Do you dare to play?

09:06 Yes

09:07 Do you dare to play?

09:08 Yes

09:09 It's true

09:10 Who is more easily angry at home?

09:14 My mom is more easily angry at home

09:18 Because she takes care of more kids

09:22 And my dad is Vietnamese

09:24 So if there's a fight, she's confused

09:27 And she's angry

09:31 He's your brother, he's your mom

09:33 He's your brother, he's your mom

09:36 What about you?

09:38 I think my dad is more easily angry at home

09:40 Oh

09:42 I think he's not going to say anything

09:48 What's the most angry moment?

09:50 I have to hide all my stuff

09:52 If not, I'll make it for you

09:55 My mom will make it for me

09:57 I have to do it the second time

09:59 If not, I'll do it the third and fourth time

10:01 I can't do it

10:03 Now, the last question

10:05 When your dad is angry, what does he usually do?

10:08 He turns on his phone and then he turns it off

10:11 Or he sits down

10:14 Or he goes to the toilet

10:16 He's not angry

10:17 He's so calm

10:19 I think we should go somewhere else

10:22 To discuss how to make Lam Hung more mature

10:25 We can't cover for you if you sit here

10:28 Doctor, I'm under pressure

10:33 Can you share with me?

10:35 Let's go

10:36 I'll invite you to another place

10:38 So when you come back here, you'll be more mature

10:42 Really?

10:43 Really?

10:44 Yes

10:45 Love Good, grow up together, be happy together

10:48 In this space, I'll be with you two

10:51 And you'll talk about how to make your family more mature

10:57 I'll ask you first

11:00 Have you ever felt that your mom loves you more than she loves you?

11:04 And she always forces you to give up everything for her

11:07 And you feel that's unfair

11:09 Yes, I have

11:10 When I lived with my mom for a long time

11:14 I was often scolded for not giving up on my siblings

11:18 Sometimes my parents bought me presents

11:21 I was a bit sad

11:23 But after that, I talked to my mom more

11:27 And I talked to my dad

11:29 I know that my parents love me

11:31 I don't feel that anymore

11:33 What about you, Tram and Mon?

11:35 I have this case too

11:36 Especially with my younger brother

11:39 Because I'm often curious and ask for things

11:45 For example, if I have a teddy bear

11:47 I'll save it and ask for it

11:50 My mom always gives it to me

11:54 I feel a bit hurt

11:57 Did you tell your mom about that?

11:58 A little bit

12:00 But lately, she told me that

12:02 It's okay to give birth

12:04 I'm at the age of curiosity

12:08 So I understand that

12:11 I'm less angry

12:14 I have to ask you two

12:17 Can you share with us

12:21 As well as the parents who have children

12:24 How can you share with them

12:27 So they won't feel lonely?

12:29 Actually, there's no special way

12:31 I just try to

12:35 Spend all my love

12:38 For my parents

12:41 Now I'm older, I still hug and kiss my mom

12:45 I don't kiss you

12:47 Oh my god, you remember?

12:49 I don't kiss you

12:51 I don't kiss you

12:53 I asked how old you were

12:55 And how old I was

12:56 We were 4 years apart

12:58 I was loved by my parents

13:01 More than you

13:04 I didn't lose anything

13:06 Now I'm still young

13:08 My parents have to spend more time

13:10 To take care of me

13:11 Because I'm still young

13:13 I don't know much

13:14 I use that to explain to my mom

13:18 My wife is a superwoman

13:21 We don't have a job

13:24 We don't have a job

13:26 We don't have a husband to take care of our kids

13:29 We only have 2 wives

13:31 And we have to do everything

13:34 It's a rare thing

13:38 My dad could do it

13:40 He was a better father

13:42 He wasn't that proud

13:46 But now I see

13:49 You should be proud

13:52 Because it has the material to make you proud

13:55 About raising and taking care of

13:58 She did it by herself

14:02 She learned it by herself

14:04 Now she often goes to classes

14:08 To be a parent

14:10 And she loves it

14:13 I feel like my wife is a loser

14:17 She lacks social interaction

14:19 For more than 10 years

14:22 She doesn't have many friends

14:25 She's only with her family

14:27 Her job has affected her

14:29 Her dreams have to be on the other side

14:33 She loves singing

14:36 She loves being a singer

14:37 Her husband is a musician

14:39 Her dream has been fulfilled

14:45 She's also a single mom

14:47 But she feels like

14:52 She's not a loser

14:55 She's a successful mom

14:57 She's a single mom

15:00 With 3 kids

15:01 And 3 kids love her

15:02 He's a regular homemaker

15:05 He has more feelings

15:07 If he can't talk to his dad

15:09 He can talk to his mom

15:10 Or vice versa

15:12 But this family is a mess

15:15 Her dad is always home

15:18 When she was young

15:19 She couldn't stay with her parents

15:21 When Khanh was new

15:25 And she couldn't stay with her parents

15:27 It was the hardest time for my family

15:29 She didn't have a connection with her parents

15:33 She didn't want to be with them

15:35 She wanted to do what she wanted

15:37 It was hard for me

15:39 But I talked to her

15:42 I explained to her

15:45 When I bought her candy

15:47 I bought her candy too

15:49 She ate it happily

15:51 It was so random

15:53 My parents said I was too old

15:55 But I looked like a kid

15:56 They were so happy

15:57 They laughed a lot

15:58 She was a little shy

16:01 But she started to sympathize

16:03 She realized she looked like a kid

16:06 She was shy

16:07 She was old

16:08 She changed her mind every year

16:12 She realized that

16:14 She changed her mind

16:16 She was spoiled by her parents

16:18 She did what she wanted

16:20 But now she has to let me do everything

16:23 She had a hard time

16:24 She was angry

16:25 She started to do housework

16:27 She was against it at first

16:30 But she got used to it

16:32 She combined it

16:33 Now she loves her mom

16:35 She sympathizes with her parents

16:38 Did you ever think

16:40 She was hurt psychologically?

16:43 I think so

16:46 Maybe at first

16:49 She missed her parents

16:52 She was studying hard

16:55 She didn't care what her parents said

16:57 I realized she was hurt

17:01 She had a habit

17:02 She couldn't change it right away

17:04 She had to do it gradually

17:06 When her parents got together

17:08 She realized it

17:11 Now I'm so proud of her

17:17 Khanh, do you remember that time?

17:21 You must have been hurt psychologically

17:23 I was shocked

17:25 I didn't have anyone to talk to

17:27 I didn't know her

17:29 I was in a new environment

17:31 I lived with my parents

17:32 We were in the middle of a mess

17:35 I was a kid

17:37 I was in high school

17:39 I was under a lot of pressure

17:41 I was shocked

17:43 Khanh, do you remember that time?

17:48 Do you usually talk to your parents?

17:53 I think Hung is not a difficult person

17:58 He's a difficult person

18:00 It's hard to talk to him

18:03 I can't share my feelings with him

18:07 I can't share it with my mom

18:09 But I can understand my parents' feelings

18:17 I didn't understand it when I was an orphan

18:21 When my wife came back to Da Lat

18:24 Hung's daughter asked her why she didn't go out to eat

18:33 She said she was in a rush

18:36 She asked her what she was in a rush for

18:38 She wished her parents could live together

18:47 I heard that she was in a rush

18:49 And she came back to Hung

18:53 I was shocked

18:57 [Music]

19:04 I only care about my family

19:10 I'm not the one they choose

19:13 I have my own reasons

19:17 Sometimes, we can't find the right age for them

19:22 [Music]

19:29 Can you tell me about your first child?

19:33 How did you feel when you saw your first child?

19:40 I remember that Phong was so happy

19:48 We were so happy

19:51 He was so cute

19:54 We had a memory when we gave birth to him

19:59 We had a lot of problems

20:02 We were so happy when we had our first child

20:05 We were in a relationship for 8 years

20:11 We gave birth to our first child

20:14 We've been together for more than 20 years

20:19 It was a long journey

20:23 We were still young when we first met

20:28 But we were mature enough when we had our first child

20:32 People think that the second child is more complicated than the first

20:37 But actually, the third child is better

20:42 When we had our first child, everything was new

20:49 I had never been a mother

20:53 I tried to teach swimming to a person who was dying

20:59 When my wife had an accident, I tried to help her

21:08 But I didn't realize that she needed a prenatal care

21:17 I was not mature enough

21:20 I was still in the middle of pregnancy

21:22 I was so desperate

21:33 It was a stressful time

21:37 When my second child was born, I was more mature

21:46 I was better

21:49 I was more mature

21:53 I realized that I was better

21:59 I was more mature

22:02 I was more mature

22:04 My family was so happy when they knew that I was pregnant

22:12 My mom was so surprised

22:15 I cried and I was scared

22:17 I was more mature when I had a child

22:20 I saw that Hung was more mature

22:23 He was more mature than before

22:25 He was selfless

22:27 He thought about the future

22:30 He built a house

22:32 I met my wife when I was 17

22:36 I got married when I was 21

22:39 I was so young when I got married

22:48 That's why you were so scared of having a child

22:51 My wife's love for me was so big

22:57 I was so touched

22:59 My first child was a time bomb

23:05 My family was so supportive

23:08 I was so thankful to my wife

23:15 My children were so happy

23:18 My youngest son was born when I got off the plane

23:22 My two oldest children were not there

23:26 I was abroad and I was far away from them

23:30 My mom was worried about me

23:32 I was so touched

23:34 My second child was a time bomb

23:39 My third child was pregnant

23:44 I was 5 years old

23:49 I was not angry at my wife anymore

23:55 I could see that she was so strong

23:59 She was taking care of her child and pregnant

24:02 I could feel that she loved me more than before

24:10 I could feel that she needed my love and sympathy

24:20 When I gave birth to my third child, she changed her mind

24:26 Did you plan to have a second child?

24:36 Yes, I did

24:38 I had my first child 5 years ago

24:42 She was quite big

24:46 I knew that she was abroad

24:48 I asked her if she liked me

24:51 She said she was happy to have a friend at home

24:56 She said she would give me a younger sister

25:01 She was so welcoming

25:03 I prepared myself to talk to her

25:09 We didn't live together much

25:13 We argued sometimes

25:15 We didn't get along

25:18 Did you ever think that you didn't want to be a sister?

25:23 You wanted to be a younger sister

25:25 Yes, I did

25:26 When I was hit by my mom, she yelled at me

25:29 I thought about it

25:31 I wished I could be a younger sister

25:33 You could be a younger sister

25:35 You could give up everything

25:37 I talked to my aunt

25:40 She explained that I had to be sympathetic to my parents

25:45 I told her that I was going to be a younger sister

25:49 I understood and I was not sad anymore

25:52 I tried to be a younger sister

25:55 You didn't blame your family

25:57 Every family has their own situation

26:00 It had to happen

26:02 You didn't blame each other

26:03 You had to face the difficulties to keep the relationship

26:06 Your worry was the experience of being disconnected

26:11 You and your wife and children were disconnected because of the situation

26:17 I'm still lucky

26:20 I saw her performance

26:23 I can't imagine a girl being so cute

26:27 She understood it

26:29 I lived with my grandma for a long time

26:31 I lived with my parents for a day

26:33 I had a younger sister

26:35 I had to be a sister while I couldn't be a daughter

26:37 I couldn't enjoy the right of a young girl in my parents' relationship

26:42 I had to be a younger sister

26:45 I think it's a matter of awareness

26:48 It's a big problem

26:49 When I lived with my grandma, my wife still came back

26:54 She still contacted me

26:58 She only came back when I was alone

27:00 I gave everything to my wife to take care of my child

27:05 I followed her development

27:12 I took care of my family

27:14 I took care of the whole world

27:15 My wife took care of my family

27:16 I believe that your grandma raised you well

27:18 She accepted you as her sister

27:21 Now you're here and you take responsibility

27:23 You help your mom with this and that

27:26 Before I brought her to Ho Chi Minh city

27:29 I told her that I had to thank her

27:33 Because my parents gave birth to me

27:36 But my grandparents took care of me from a young age

27:39 When I was not there, I always encouraged her

27:43 I often asked my children who they loved the most

27:46 For example, they love their family

27:49 I love my parents the most

27:50 No, I have to love my grandparents the most

27:52 Because my grandparents raised me

27:54 We have taught our children to remember to plant trees

28:00 We have to plant trees to make them fresh

28:03 We should love our grandparents first

28:07 Then we should think about our family

28:08 What about you, Tram?

28:10 I'm happy to be a sister

28:11 Because I have many people who love me

28:14 It's a little bit hard to be a brother

28:18 But if I work hard enough

28:22 I will be happy and proud

28:26 Oh my god

28:28 I like being a brother more

28:29 When you are far away from each other

28:33 You will miss each other a lot

28:35 For example, during the pandemic

28:37 We were the happiest when we were together

28:40 My father and I went to pick papaya and bananas

28:43 We went to the green fields, gardens, trees

28:46 And flowers

28:48 We spent almost a year like that

28:50 We were so happy together

28:52 And we developed many love stories

28:54 We found out that it was so great

28:57 When we came back to our hometown

29:00 People who live in Japan came back

29:02 Moon cried

29:05 She missed you

29:06 Because she missed you so much

29:08 She missed you so much

29:10 She wanted to go to school to see you

29:15 They developed that bond

29:18 This is not just an example

29:20 It's our family journey

29:22 It's the same

29:24 We will have 10 years, 20, 30 years

29:27 We should not miss it

29:29 That's the motto of the house

29:31 We try to accompany each other

29:33 The longer the better

29:36 Today's story is very interesting

29:39 Because it shows that

29:41 Each tree, each flower, each house, each scene

29:43 Of course, each house, each scene

29:45 Each tree, each flower, each scene

29:47 But the process of growing up

29:49 Always force us to accept the facts

29:52 First, time does not go back

29:54 This means that in each stage of growing up

29:57 If we ignore it, it will be lost

30:00 And losing does not mean that

30:02 That story is over

30:03 We always have a chance

30:05 It's called today

30:06 Tomorrow, no one knows

30:08 But today is always an opportunity for us

30:10 I haven't done well in the past

30:12 Now I will do better today

30:14 And the expression of a better thing

30:16 In the growth journey with children

30:18 That is the feeling of safety of children

30:21 Children always choose their family

30:23 As a place to return

30:25 To be able to be sad, to be able to cry

30:27 To be able to be kind to their parents

30:29 I'm like, "Oh my God, life out there is terrible"

30:31 "I really need my parents to support me"

30:34 And especially one thing is

30:36 Family values are always prioritized

30:39 For children to protect

30:40 And the rest, each child is a personality

30:42 Each family is a scene

30:44 Each parent is a group of abilities

30:46 We can't catch any parents

30:48 Like another parent

30:50 But if the children are safe and developing

30:52 The family still thinks about each other

30:54 And we always choose each other

30:56 In every situation of life

30:58 That is a sign of the importance of

31:00 Growing up with children and being happy with children

31:02 And now we will return

31:04 To the space below to participate in the second meeting

31:06 100% milk from high-quality milk cows

31:09 High-end and low-price support

31:11 Love a day, love a day

31:14 Love everyone

31:16 Love Cool, grow up with children, be happy with children

31:19 In this part of If I Were You

31:21 Parents will be the children

31:23 And the children will become parents

31:25 So that we can listen to each other's feelings

31:28 So today

31:30 Do Hung and Ngoc have anything to say to the children?

31:33 Mom and Dad are very grateful for the children

31:36 Love the children very much

31:37 Parents and children can't avoid

31:40 When we make each other sad

31:42 I want the children to say

31:44 I really like this child

31:46 Because I have parents who are very psychological

31:49 Don't force me

31:51 I don't force you to reach high points

31:54 I am very happy

31:55 And I am really proud

31:58 When I show you that I have a parent

32:01 I have parents who care about me

32:03 Psychologically really happy

32:05 And parents always care about taking care of their children

32:09 I thank my parents very much

32:11 If one day

32:13 You can't live with your family

32:16 Can't live near your parents and children

32:18 Then your love for your parents and children

32:21 Is it wasted?

32:23 Or do you live for yourself?

32:27 No

32:28 Why?

32:29 Because family is everything

32:31 Because in this world

32:33 Only family is the warmest and happiest home

32:36 For example, I have a friend on the street

32:38 I'm happy to play

32:39 But in the end, it's all just passing

32:42 But those who are always behind

32:44 Support, encourage and especially help me

32:47 A kind of teaching like when I was far away

32:50 Only family

32:52 I am very happy about this

32:54 Now we are a family together

32:57 Always together

32:58 But a while later

33:00 Maybe because of some situation

33:03 You have to live away from your family

33:05 Then you have to understand one thing

33:07 We always love each other

33:09 No matter what the situation is

33:11 You understand?

33:12 Yes

33:13 Promise to your father?

33:14 I promise

33:15 Promise in your heart or in the show?

33:18 Actually I am very happy

33:20 In general, I am very full of hope

33:23 I really appreciate my parents

33:25 Because my parents are perfect

33:27 Thank you

33:29 [The most important thing is to love your parents]

33:33 Now you are a father and a son

33:44 And the children are parents?

33:46 Yes

33:47 Right?

33:48 Yes

33:49 Do you like it?

33:50 Do you like to change like this?

33:51 Now, do you have any habits or mistakes?

33:56 What do you want me to fix?

33:58 What do you want me to fix?

34:01 Now is the opportunity to say the truth

34:05 You can't go out

34:07 Can't go out?

34:08 Can't go out?

34:09 Can't go out

34:10 Just a little

34:12 Just a little

34:13 What else?

34:15 Drink less beer

34:17 Drink less beer

34:18 Drink less beer?

34:19 Yes

34:20 Why?

34:21 I want you to stay at home and play with us more

34:25 So I drink beer at home?

34:27 Yes

34:28 It's okay

34:29 Just a little

34:30 Just a little

34:32 Just a little

34:33 Now it's your turn

34:35 Mom

34:36 Mom

34:37 We promised to stay at home

34:42 I will tell you when I am angry

34:46 But you have to tell me to calm down

34:49 When I am angry, you have to calm me down

34:51 That's right

34:52 You can say anything

34:54 Can you do it?

34:56 I can do it but I haven't done it yet

34:58 You can do it but you haven't done it yet?

35:01 If you were me, what would you change?

35:03 I want to

35:05 I hope you love your health more

35:12 Because you know how to eat, right?

35:14 You will eat better to be healthy and strong

35:19 You will grow up, right?

35:21 You will eat less bad food

35:26 Right?

35:27 I eat a lot of vegetables

35:29 Okay, okay

35:30 She eats a lot of vegetables

35:31 I don't ask you to do anything

35:34 I just want you to be like this

35:37 Love each other and be happy

35:41 Do you need to play less games?

35:43 Of course

35:44 If you like playing games, you will love it

35:47 About playing games, I use a computer

35:50 Both of my children are taught by my parents

35:54 I am a bit strong

35:58 I turn off the TV and computer all day

36:04 I say that every day

36:06 No, you don't

36:07 Almost

36:08 No

36:09 I haven't turned off the TV yet

36:10 It's not time yet

36:11 Turn it off

36:12 How long have you played with your iPad?

36:15 What are you looking at?

36:17 We played for a long time

36:20 But every time I turn off the computer, you say

36:23 Play for 5 more minutes

36:25 But you play for 10 minutes

36:27 No

36:28 I think you have the right idea

36:34 So that your children won't have eye pain and get addicted to games

36:37 I'm worried about that

36:38 But I think your way of showing is not good

36:42 I haven't encouraged you yet

36:45 But you keep saying no

36:47 But if you can manage your children's life

36:56 I suggest you to manage your own life

37:02 And change your family's life

37:04 I think your idea is great

37:07 I want to suggest you

37:10 From now on, I promise you that I won't bother you anymore

37:15 Because I believe you can manage your life

37:19 Are you satisfied?

37:22 Yes

37:23 I'm satisfied

37:25 Do you have any gift for your parents?

37:28 Yes

37:29 Did you surprise them?

37:31 At the end of the show, I will give them a gift

37:35 It's a song called "Mai Dat Mau Xanh"

37:39 Really?

37:40 Yes

37:41 My parents can sing it

37:43 2, 3

37:45 After school, I pick up trash on the street or give it to others

37:48 It's not unusual but easy to sit and listen to the song

37:51 At the supermarket, the place is crowded, people bring plastic bags

37:54 I think it's a bit hot, how can I use my hands?

37:57 I'm a writer

37:59 I have to turn a few times

38:00 To understand more

38:02 And plastic bags and plastic bags

38:03 I draw and write

38:05 And stick on the wall

38:06 I'm a painter

38:08 I draw and write

38:09 I'm a painter

38:10 My father is the best

38:11 Like the earth and the sky

38:13 He can do everything in the house without effort

38:16 Fast and efficient

38:18 He is the best brother

38:20 He likes to sing

38:21 The best house has 102

38:23 We accompany each other step by step

38:24 We listen to stories in bed at night

38:26 We save water and electricity, protect the environment

38:29 I'm the best in Japan

38:30 I'm cool in the tree

38:32 What is more beautiful than the earth?

38:33 I'm the best

38:35 Great

38:38 Thank you

38:39 Great

38:40 The best family

38:43 Family, please come here

38:45 Come here

38:50 Yeah

38:51 Yeah

38:53 Thank you

38:55 Thank you

38:57 Thank you

38:59 Thank you

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39:11 Thank you

39:13 Thank you

39:15 Thank you

39:17 Thank you

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