DearChixie: MarryOrNah

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#DearChixieMarryOrNah  Dear Chixie,  Maayong adlaw. Please call me Ria. I'm 28 years old and currently engaged with my boyfriend of 2 years. Call him Greg. However, we are currently experiencing difficult challenges sa among relasyon. When he proposed for marriage he asked me to try a "live-in" set-up, total kay we are getting married naman sad padulong. Though against akong mama sa idea, he promised to my mother nga dili mi mag baby before marriage. Somehow nitrust akong mama sa promise ni Greg, nga di ko mamabdos before marriage and also nakathink akong mama na it is somehow practical kay dili nako mobayad sa boarding house since naa nakoy katunga. Tua sa Leyte nagpuyo akong parents Chixie and naa ko sa Cebu for work since nigraduate ko sa college. When everything was settled, nadayon gyud among pag stay in one roof before our wedding. Dinhi na nagsugod ang tanan. Living in one house, na-shock ko sa kinaiya sa akong husband-to-be. Mag-away mi tungod sa iyang pagkadamak. Feeling nako naanad ni siya nga naay katabang sa ilaha nga mosunod sa iyang kalat. Ako na siyang naremind about this na importante to clean up and put things in order pero 3 months nalang wala gihapon siyay improvement. Naay one time nga niburst out nako and because of that grabe among away. Wala ko nag-expect nga iyaha nakong kwentahan nga mas nidoble iyang gasto ever since nag live-in mi. Nalain ko kay syempre siya baya ang nihagad og live-in before marriage unya diay mangwenta ra siya. Ingon sab siya nako nga nagger daw ko. Nagger ba? Nga igo raman ko na ni ask niya to keep things in order. Honestly, gikapoy ko sa among set-up na sa gamay nga butang awayan na namo ug dili nami magtingog. Kung wala mi nag live-in, dili ko makakita sa ingon ani niya nga attitude. Angay ba nga ipadayon ang among kasal? Ria

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04:41 this afternoon entitled #DearChixiToMarryOrNot.

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04:51 Dear Chixi, good afternoon.

05:10 Please call me Ria.

05:12 I'm 28 years old and I'm currently engaged

05:17 with my boyfriend of two years.

05:20 However, we are currently experiencing

05:24 difficult challenges (speaking in foreign language)

05:28 When he proposed for marriage,

05:30 he asked me to try a live-in set up.

05:35 (speaking in foreign language)

05:38 So why not do it?

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05:45 I promised my mother (speaking in foreign language)

05:50 Somehow, (speaking in foreign language)

05:55 And also, (speaking in foreign language)

06:08 By the way, (speaking in foreign language)

06:13 Going back (speaking in foreign language)

06:29 When everything was settled (speaking in foreign language)

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06:36 Stay in one room before our wedding day.

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06:45 Chixi living in one house (speaking in foreign language)

06:55 And he's my husband to be.

06:57 (speaking in foreign language)

07:01 Actually, (speaking in foreign language)

07:15 And put things in order.

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07:22 Now, I one time, (speaking in foreign language)

07:30 Ever since now, (speaking in foreign language)

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07:48 Honestly, (speaking in foreign language)

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08:16 Also, (speaking in foreign language)

08:30 Before my good, he's very thoughtful.

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08:42 And I even thought, (speaking in foreign language)

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09:29 And of course, (speaking in foreign language)

09:34 'Cause I felt somehow unwelcome (speaking in foreign language)

09:40 That I also want to celebrate my wedding (speaking in foreign language)

09:50 This problem is just nothing, but to me, it's everything.

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10:29 Please give me your sincere advice.

10:33 Thank you so much, Ria.

10:36 So now, ladies and gentlemen, and to all of our viewers,

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10:53 (speaking in foreign language)

10:57 So, but actually, ladies and gentlemen,

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11:08 It takes a lot of understanding.

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11:19 Let's face that, it is really evident in our lives.

11:40 Every day, it takes a lot of adjustment,

11:41 most especially, (speaking in foreign language)

11:43 Now, later on, not a special guest,

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11:50 Excited to know, say, I'm perspective,

11:58 especially, (speaking in foreign language)

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12:07 But anyways, later on,

12:15 and I'm sure you're familiar with this person,

12:17 'cause he's all over Sunstar social media pages,

12:20 especially on TikTok, but of course,

12:22 later on, I'm not gonna introduce.

12:24 Moving forward, (speaking in foreign language)

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12:35 Here it goes, (speaking in foreign language)

12:47 Let's do this.

12:48 Are we ready?

12:50 Oh, there it goes.

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13:16 But in fairness to them,

13:23 their guests were really present during the ceremony,

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13:32 I'm talking about Maine Mendoza, TV host Maine Mendoza,

13:35 and actor, politician, Arjo Atayde.

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13:57 During those times, I think she's still on Dubsmash,

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14:17 And then after that, they met July 28 of 2018

14:21 to set their project together.

14:24 From then on, they became, you know,

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14:38 Of course, now, best wishes to them.

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14:57 Maine came from a very huge fandom, no?

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15:04 But of course, I wouldn't halt her being a celebrity,

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15:49 She is now married with Arjo Atayde.

15:55 Moving forward, (speaking in foreign language)

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16:23 Let's laugh about it, but of course,

16:49 these are happy news, and for sure,

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16:55 Of course, (speaking in foreign language)

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17:15 Best, best wishes, Nila, and of course,

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17:22 and hopefully their marriage will succeed.

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17:30 But a wedding day is just a wedding day.

17:32 Marriage is partnership for the entire lifetime

17:36 and eternity.

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17:41 What if my 80, (speaking in foreign language)

17:47 Reading aside, but of course, (speaking in foreign language)

17:50 Ladies and gentlemen, and I'm happy for Maine and Maha

17:53 for their grand wedding, and apart from that,

17:58 happy ending.

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18:01 Partners that will be with us.

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18:11 Celebrate other people's success in love

18:21 so that it will radiate to you.

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18:25 Anyways, (speaking in foreign language)

18:30 Okay, let's do this, and right now, time of 4.39,

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18:38 from the newsroom of Sunstar, from TikTok of Sunstar,

18:43 now, ladies and gentlemen, (speaking in foreign language)

18:49 Kenneth Torres.

18:50 Hi, Kenneth.

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19:01 Kasuper?

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19:16 But anyway, so, Kenneth, I'm sure (speaking in foreign language)

19:23 Yes.

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19:30 What is your, initially, (speaking in foreign language)

19:35 But what is your initial reaction to Rhea's story?

19:40 Do you think (speaking in foreign language)

19:45 the things that she discovered (speaking in foreign language)

19:58 As a partner, again, marriage is partnership.

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20:27 And of course, we are live, guys.

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20:32 Anyway, thank you, Frank, looking forward.

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20:38 Yes.

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20:55 Are you open with the idea of living in together

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21:07, as a living in, or (speaking in foreign language)

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21:16 As for the live in set up, DG6C,

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21:49 And engagement, I'm about to get married.

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22:06 But if you can tweak into a positive outlook

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22:21 the getting to know stage.

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22:26 It's more of communication.

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22:38 If you're about to get married,

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22:55 Of course, I have this thinking,

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23:15 They really stuck with the traditions.

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23:21 But of course, we have to really respect them also.

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23:28 The thing is, I discovered (speaking in foreign language)

23:43 You know, put things in order.

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23:48 What is very (speaking in foreign language)

23:53 to you is not (speaking in foreign language) to me.

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24:15 So what do you think about that?

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24:27 What do you think about that?

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24:40 Vice versa, but I think (speaking in foreign language)

24:49 is compromising.

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25:04 We have to put things in order.

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25:10 But if (speaking in foreign language)

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25:33 I already told him to put things in order,

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26:12 But yeah, I agree with you.

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26:42 Now, moving forward, (speaking in foreign language)

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26:54 But of course, do you think that (speaking in foreign language)

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27:08 Again, team effort, (speaking in foreign language)

27:28 I think essence of a leap in,

27:32 more of getting to know each other,

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27:38 And you will meet halfway.

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27:45 Actually, (speaking in foreign language)

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27:54 What has changed?

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27:59 I think it's more of (speaking in foreign language)

28:10 Chocolate, chocolate.

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28:24 How about your part three?

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28:52 Actually, DJ, we've started getting to know each other

28:56 at the age of 12.

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28:59 At the age of 12, and then (speaking in foreign language)

29:04 So more of like, (speaking in foreign language)

29:09 But before, (speaking in foreign language)

29:17 So you've already--

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29:22 But it's more of like understanding each other.

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29:34 Venturing into another chapter (speaking in foreign language)

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29:50 But of course, if I'm going to say it,

30:02 what I understood with Kenneth,

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30:08 And you learn to accept it, (speaking in foreign language)

30:16 For sure, (speaking in foreign language)

30:21 Yes, (speaking in foreign language)

30:30 But up until now, (speaking in foreign language)

30:37 Oh yes, it's more of like communication.

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30:44 (speaking in foreign language)

30:46 Where's the finances?

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30:51 But not to the extent that you will expect too much,

31:00 and then of course, the other party will not compromise.

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31:07 Now, (speaking in foreign language)

31:13 Because she's originally from Leyte,

31:16 but the parents and the family of the guy,

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31:22 What do you think about this?

31:28 Do you think that the parents' involvement

31:31 or the family's involvement in terms of the finances,

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31:41 First and foremost, (speaking in foreign language)

31:46 I'm preparation, I'm planning, I'm decision-making,

31:50 should be (speaking in foreign language)

31:57 I'm parents, (speaking in foreign language)

32:02 But, (speaking in foreign language)

32:07 Regardless if (speaking in foreign language)

32:12 And then, (speaking in foreign language)

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33:03 And also, (speaking in foreign language)

33:25 The problem, because maybe some are very traditional.

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33:33 Because of the traditions that we have as Filipinos.

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33:39 (speaking in foreign language)

33:49 Independent, (speaking in foreign language)

33:54 (speaking in foreign language)

34:18 I'm a wedding host, (speaking in foreign language)

34:23 I do events, and a lot of the events that I am,

34:28 you know, (speaking in foreign language)

34:32 Mostly, family members, and of course, others,

34:35 there are also instances, (speaking in foreign language)

34:40 A lot of effort to make the wedding successful.

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34:51 Which is good, which is, this is the advice to everybody.

35:05 If you wish to really have a successful union or wedding,

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35:11 Because wedding is just a day,

35:13 and marriage is the entire lifetime.

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35:19 And there's nothing wrong with listing them.

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35:26 Oh, I will agree, because again,

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35:39 And some even are friends.

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35:45 I realize, (speaking in foreign language)

35:50 Not to be judgmental, but of course, I have to understand,

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36:08 But of course, your friends are there during the journey.

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37:12 Like Kenneth mentioned earlier,

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37:36 Especially to us, in a modern day, in a modern time,

37:39 we can never force people to invite (speaking in foreign language)

37:44 I understand, your wedding location,

37:49 (speaking in foreign language)

37:51 But of course, (speaking in foreign language)

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38:08 So that is actually part of the costing.

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38:35 Oh, what can you say about that?

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38:44 Of course.

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39:03 Okay.

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39:26 Sharing is ours.

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39:31 To me, if you are aiming for equality,

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39:59 Of course.

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40:34 Because the person that you are getting married into

40:42 also has her dreams.

40:45 But of course, (speaking in foreign language)

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40:54 So do you think, (speaking in foreign language)

41:20 Do you think, (speaking in foreign language)

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41:29 No, (speaking in foreign language)

41:34 But I would say, DJ,

41:37 settle everything first and then think.

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41:45 Before you finalize,

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41:51 So I have to check to everyone who's watching right now.

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42:29 Edith Lozano said, "Marriage is a lifetime commitment.

42:43 "Since as early as now, (speaking in foreign language)

42:46 "don't push through with a plan to get married."

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42:54 Which is very wrong.

43:05 While you still have time,

43:07 back out now as early as now,

43:09 make a decision not to pursue,

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43:19 Take our advice and you'll say thank you later.

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43:38 Welcome to married life.

43:39 Although, (speaking in foreign language)

43:40 but married life is like that.

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43:46 Marriage is big.

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44:18 It's about time to get out.

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44:35 Your thoughts.

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44:42 I would say, (speaking in foreign language)

44:45 Take that opportunity.

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44:49 Deeply, (speaking in foreign language)

44:50 your partner.

44:52 Make the necessary adjustments.

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44:56 Adjust, compromise.

44:58 (speaking in foreign language)

45:00 Keep up.

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45:02 Because, (speaking in foreign language)

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45:04 you're in a relationship.

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45:07 necessary adjustments,

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45:11 take that, (speaking in foreign language)

45:13 married life.

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45:16 Correct.

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45:21 Compromise.

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45:55 Commitment and understanding.

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46:04 But, few are committed.

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46:11 When you say commitment,

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46:14 When you say committed,

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46:19 Correct.

46:24 For better,

46:25 or for worse.

46:26 Or for worse.

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46:51 Settle everything first.

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47:04 What is the mark to you may not be the mark to me.

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47:18 Yes, it takes two to tango.

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47:32 And last,

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48:02 First, relive and think.

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49:08 Let's admit it, there are times that

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49:23 But of course, that's not it.

49:26 It's partnership.

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49:34 Your advice is do not quit.

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49:51 Relive, think, and settle everything first.

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51:33 Father, thank you.

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51:42 Every Monday to Friday with Mildred Galarpez

51:53 at Sunstar Cebu.

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52:01 Of course, we fight, but do not expect

52:03 that your partners are perfect because nobody is.

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52:10 And you are very--

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52:26 Unless you're trying to better the relationship

52:36 and you're challenging the partner to be better.

52:39 (speaking in foreign language)

52:44 Or whatever.

52:45 But you have to communicate.

52:46 (speaking in foreign language)

52:50 Consider all the factors before you complain

52:57 or rant or whatever.

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53:05 Valid, it is valid.

53:07 But what I'm trying to say is that it's very easy

53:08 for us to say (speaking in foreign language)

53:11 and all that.

53:11 But in reality, (speaking in foreign language)

53:15 it takes a lot of understanding and acceptance.

53:18 (speaking in foreign language)

53:33 And that person, you are hoping to be a better person.

53:36 And you're hoping to be with that person

53:38 once you succeed in your life because love.

53:40 (speaking in foreign language)

53:44 Let's face it.

53:50 (speaking in foreign language)

53:54 Seven minutes before we cut it off.

53:56 (speaking in foreign language)

54:02 And of course, with the families,

54:03 (speaking in foreign language)

54:05 about your wedding preparations,

54:06 that's normal in the Philippines.

54:09 But of course, (speaking in foreign language)

54:10 fix your issues first.

54:12 You tell him.

54:13 (speaking in foreign language)

54:17 You have to talk it out first.

54:21 (speaking in foreign language)

54:25 Where are you heading?

54:27 (speaking in foreign language)

54:31 (speaking in foreign language)

54:35 I heard that from a friend

54:46 that it takes a lot of space also in the relationship.

54:49 (speaking in foreign language)

54:54 And most of the time,

54:55 (speaking in foreign language)

54:59 So, (speaking in foreign language)

55:03 after is decision making.

55:04 (speaking in foreign language)

55:05 Yes.

55:06 And you have to settle things out.

55:07 (speaking in foreign language)

55:11 (speaking in foreign language)

55:15 Trust me, you know,

55:25 being in a (speaking in foreign language)

55:27 relationship and (speaking in foreign language)

55:32 And (speaking in foreign language)

55:38 at the end of the day,

55:39 do not be afraid to say sorry.

55:41 (speaking in foreign language)

55:43 If we are both,

55:44 (speaking in foreign language)

55:47 If our pride,

55:48 (speaking in foreign language)

55:52 And (speaking in foreign language)

56:00 we can attest that to our parents.

56:02 They will never last long if they did not compromise

56:05 and if they did not accept,

56:07 (speaking in foreign language)

56:11 (speaking in foreign language)

56:14 The only red flag for me, Kenneth,

56:28 is (speaking in foreign language)

56:30 physical abuse.

56:31 (speaking in foreign language)

56:35 You can accept that.

56:37 But if there's physical abuse already in the relationship

56:40 or also (speaking in foreign language)

56:45 Even finances.

56:50 (speaking in foreign language)

56:51 Even the (speaking in foreign language)

56:56 But of course,

57:07 do not look for the perfect (speaking in foreign language)

57:10 because there is no one.

57:12 And even (speaking in foreign language)

57:17 Of course, DJ.

57:23 (speaking in foreign language)

57:28 Let's be also mindful with our characters

57:31 as we mind other people's characters.

57:34 Because our characters and their characters

57:38 (speaking in foreign language)

57:42 So, Kenneth, thank you so much.

57:49 Kenneth, do you have shows here in Sunstar?

57:51 (speaking in foreign language)

57:55 - Yes, guys.

57:56 Don't forget to follow this.

57:58 (speaking in foreign language)

58:02 (speaking in foreign language)

58:06 - Well, thank you to Sunstar again.

58:16 Every Tuesday, dear Chixi.

58:18 (speaking in foreign language)

58:22 (speaking in foreign language)

58:25 Follow our Instagram, DJ Chixi Cebu.

58:27 Follow our message, DM.

58:29 (speaking in foreign language)

58:33 And also, shout out to the IFM 93.9 Cebu.

58:36 (speaking in foreign language)

58:40 Thank you, Kenneth.

58:41 (speaking in foreign language)

58:44 Thank you so much, Miss Mildred.

58:46 Charly also.

58:47 (speaking in foreign language)

58:48 But of course, she's been helping us out.

58:49 Thea, Eric, everyone.

58:52 Supportive, hallelujah.

58:53 (speaking in foreign language)

58:54 Of course, thank you, thank you so, so much.

58:56 And to all our avid viewers of Sunstar,

58:58 (speaking in foreign language)

59:02 (speaking in foreign language)

59:05 Every Tuesday, (speaking in foreign language)

59:09 Dear Chixi, bye!

59:10 (gentle music)

59:15 (upbeat music)

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