’90 Day Fiancé’ _ Big Ed & Liz Talk Potentially HAVING KIDS(1)
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00:00 Let's jump right into talking about being on Last Resort.
00:02 What was that experience like for you guys?
00:04 - It's definitely the last resort.
00:06 (laughing)
00:07 Let's put it that way.
00:08 - Let's put it this way, it was my last, or no,
00:11 it was her last resort.
00:12 My attempt to be funny and try to heal.
00:15 No, in all seriousness,
00:18 TLC really went a different direction with this program.
00:21 This was really about, not drama,
00:24 but about fixing the drama,
00:25 and about counseling, and a variety of counseling.
00:29 - Liz and I were fortunate enough to participate
00:32 in this program called, well they hypnotize you,
00:35 it's called Transgression--
00:37 - Past Life.
00:37 - Past Life Regression, where they take you back
00:40 to who you were in a previous life,
00:42 and Liz got a lot out of it, and I did too.
00:45 - I definitely would say we learned a lot individually,
00:48 and then we learned a lot as a couple,
00:51 and we learned a lot to fix on ourselves,
00:53 'cause if we're not happy with ourselves,
00:56 there's no way we can bring it into our relationship.
00:58 - So we grew a lot from this,
01:00 and I'm very happy and blessed that TLC United Way
01:03 Fiance did all this for us,
01:04 'cause it's normally more like the drama,
01:06 not that there's not drama,
01:08 but now it's like we have them rooting for us.
01:12 - And there's definitely drama,
01:14 and also too, we got to drink a little bit,
01:18 well a lot, I'm kidding, but we got great therapy.
01:22 There was still the drama that you're gonna always find,
01:25 but in a small way,
01:27 Liz and I hope that,
01:28 because everything you see is real,
01:31 it's not scripted,
01:32 and a lot of what Liz and I show on the show,
01:37 people deal with every day,
01:38 you just don't see it.
01:40 They post their pretty pictures,
01:41 their happy pictures on social media,
01:43 but when you get down to the nitty gritty,
01:47 people don't communicate well, which we learned,
01:49 and they have challenges,
01:50 so in a big way,
01:54 we hope that Liz and I,
01:56 through being on TV with TLC,
01:58 can show people a different path,
02:01 and a way to,
02:03 that A, that everybody fights,
02:05 and B, that you can always ask for forgiveness.
02:07 - Well then Ed and I did everything backwards,
02:09 and really fast,
02:10 so what definitely we learned through this,
02:13 the last resort,
02:15 was becoming friends first,
02:18 and learning how to trust and communicate,
02:21 'cause we didn't have that in the beginning.
02:23 What were we doing?
02:25 - We were going out to dinner all the time,
02:28 and just, we were on the honeymoon.
02:30 - We got to restart, yeah.
02:31 We got to restart everything.
02:32 - We wouldn't, when we would argue,
02:34 we would sweep it under the rug,
02:37 and go to dinner,
02:38 and not deal with the issue,
02:41 and when we got to the last resort,
02:43 we really realized,
02:45 kind of day one,
02:46 that we don't communicate.
02:48 I don't listen.
02:49 Liz is really the communicator,
02:50 but I really don't listen,
02:52 so it was more about me,
02:54 really trusting Liz,
02:56 and listening.
02:57 - We're gonna let you guys go,
02:58 but last question.
02:59 I know we're seeing the last resort play out right now,
03:02 but do you have future plans?
03:03 Are we thinking house, family,
03:05 anything down the line already?
03:07 - We have future plans,
03:08 but we're gonna leave it at that.
03:09 - We want six kids.
03:11 I think we talked about,
03:13 you know, right away.
03:14 - Basically, if we want a kid,
03:16 our son or daughter is frozen in the LA bank right now.
03:19 - Yes.
03:20 - So, we'll see.
03:20 - We'll give a shout out to you boy,
03:21 I love you.
03:22 (laughing)
03:23 - No, I froze my sperm in a bank,
03:25 and we did that when we first started the date,
03:27 because I got it a vasectomy,
03:29 but Liz was like,
03:30 "Well, what if I want kids one day?"
03:32 So, we drove up there,
03:33 and she would flash me,
03:35 so I could basically finish.
03:38 And so, my boys are in LA.
03:40 Just a big shout out to my sperm boys.
03:42 - My girls.
03:42 What if it's my girls?
03:43 - My boys and girls in LA,
03:44 I love you.
03:46 - Could that be something that we're gonna see play out?
03:49 - We're on a timeline for that,
03:50 so we'll see.
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