’90 Day Fiancé'_ Big Ed Tells Liz About Strip Club, Molly & Kelly SPLIT
’90 Day Fiancé'_ Big Ed Tells Liz About Strip Club, Molly & Kelly SPLIT
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00:00 In 90 day the last resort,
00:01 things started off with a swallow
00:03 and Kalani having a therapy session
00:05 with her sister Colleen E who isn't
00:07 on good terms with a swallow and
00:09 Kalani explained why I think that
00:11 my sister is a very kind person
00:13 and gives everyone options and
00:15 opportunities to like show her who
00:17 they are with us where it's been.
00:20 So many of him cheating on me
00:23 throughout our relationship.
00:24 I'd get so depressed and be so upset
00:26 and I'd be crying and it was her
00:29 that would have to help me get back to
00:32 normal. Nobody else knew the truth
00:34 and it was like. Numerous times.
00:37 Colleen, you got emotional talking
00:40 about how hard it has been to see
00:42 her sister hurt so many times in
00:44 her relationship due to Osweiler
00:45 cheating every time that I heard
00:47 that Osweiler had cheated on my sister.
00:49 Just watching how much it
00:51 hurt her was horrible for me.
00:54 Being in a relationship is hard,
00:56 but having that person that is
00:58 supposed to love you and like be
01:00 there for you and not hurt you.
01:03 Having that person be the one to hurt you and.
01:07 Take advantage of your love
01:08 is like the worst heartbreak.
01:10 And for her to experience that
01:12 over and over and over again.
01:13 I wouldn't wish it on anybody,
01:18 but especially my sister.
01:19 Kalani also explained why she kept
01:21 the cheating a secret for so long.
01:23 So by the time I had figured things out,
01:25 I was pregnant and I was already
01:27 bringing him to America,
01:29 so I just felt like I needed to
01:31 suck it up and just hide it.
01:33 I wanted him to get along with my
01:36 dad and with my family members,
01:38 so I just kept it hidden
01:40 basically to protect him.
01:42 I feel really sick to talk about what I did.
01:49 I just like feel like a.
01:51 As.
01:51 I feel like I don't deserve to be here
01:57 hurting my wife. She revealed just
01:59 how many times he has been unfaithful
02:01 and broke down in tears. So
02:04 collectively he's cheated like.
02:07 1012 times.
02:08 And hearing myself say that.
02:18 I'm just disgusted with myself.
02:25 Later, a Swallow admitted that
02:27 everything they were accusing him
02:29 of is true and attributed his
02:32 behavior to how he grew up. I just.
02:35 Hope they forgive what I did. And.
02:41 Everything they say is true.
02:45 Just a lot of issue that I have.
02:49 Because growing up,
02:50 my parents didn't told me I just don't have.
02:55 All of this experience and that is
02:58 something that we've talked about culturally.
03:02 Almost all of the men in Samoa
03:05 think it's OK to cheat.
03:07 The therapist shared she thinks
03:09 a Swallow could have deeper issues.
03:11 I suspect that a swallow has a sexual
03:14 addiction or sexual compulsion because
03:16 there's a pattern and there's a pattern
03:19 that has lots of shame and secrecy,
03:21 and he's increased his activity over
03:23 the duration of their relationship.
03:25 But he is taking responsibility and
03:27 that progress I believe is a small
03:29 step in the right direction by him
03:31 being able to see how selfish he was.
03:34 As for Michael and Angela,
03:35 they seem to be in a better place
03:37 since their therapy session and
03:39 Angela put on a show for her man
03:41 showing off some swimsuits.
03:43 How about this one?
03:44 Hmm. No, no, wow.
03:49 Is see all your body?
03:51 I mean, no, no, I can't let
03:53 you wear so big issue is too tempting.
03:56 You know you're my wife.
03:57 You should be murdered.
03:59 Yeah, I know I'm a meemaw,
04:01 but that I'm a sexy meemaw.
04:03 Let's not forget that they later
04:05 celebrated their anniversary and
04:07 even though they are long distance,
04:09 they didn't let that bring them down.
04:11 Happy anniversary of three years.
04:14 Oh, sexy Nigerians back.
04:21 Oh. Oh, look at them hips.
04:25 Oh my God.
04:27 You just. I'm in public.
04:31 You just made my cooler tingle.
04:33 Ed and Liz are working on building trust,
04:39 so he told her about the other guys
04:41 desire to go to a strip club.
04:43 Something we need to work on
04:45 is communication and trust, so.
04:49 Something happened the other night.
04:52 When we were playing volleyball.
04:55 Uhm, all the guys they want
04:58 to go to a strip club.
05:00 They said you're not allowed to tell anybody,
05:02 but but they're telling you not to tell me correct.
05:07 I'm not going to get in trouble with you,
05:10 so I'm not going bottom line.
05:13 I'm 57 years old.
05:14 I don't need to be.
05:15 Looking at I like your boobs a lot.
05:19 So I'm pissed right now.
05:21 I'm trying not to like.
05:23 Let my emotions get the best of me,
05:24 especially since we just had a good moment,
05:26 but I'm not not mad at you.
05:28 His honesty seemed to really impress Liz.
05:31 I feel like it's becoming all shady.
05:33 So now like if I don't tell the girls
05:35 and then I had to blame like now
05:36 it's like a whole situation.
05:40 I'm going to tell the guys I'm
05:41 going to say look, I'm sorry guys.
05:42 I'm here for a recommitment not
05:44 to lie to my my bride, my future bride.
05:46 I'm not.
05:48 Are we really working on our right now?
05:53 You're in my trust.
05:58 OK, good.
06:00 Molly and Kelly seem to be done with their relationship,
06:03 and they spoke with a therapist about how it feels
06:05 for them to call it quits.
06:07 There may have been some moments that weren't great,
06:09 but I felt like I gave him a lot of me.
06:11 [MUSIC PLAYING]
06:15 Look, I've done cried so many times.
06:22 I've done shared how I felt. I've done express how I felt.
06:29 At this point, I'm numb.
06:31 I just, you know, want you to know
06:37 that I'm sorry for whatever it was that you needed from me
06:40 that I didn't give you.
06:41 She apologized and wanted them to leave
06:43 each other on good terms.
06:45 I just wanted to come and tell you I'm sorry.
06:47 Sorry?
06:54 I mean, I don't want you to be angry,
06:56 and I don't want you to hate me, and I don't want us to--
07:00 I don't hate you.
07:01 I'm not going to--
07:04 no, I just-- it is what it is.
07:06 Learn.
07:08 [SNIFFLES]
07:10 You OK?
07:11 I will be.
07:16 Kelly left the resort, and the pair
07:18 reflected on their relationship coming to an end.
07:22 Whoever I end up with, she's just
07:23 going to take me for who I am, just being me.
07:26 My biggest fear is learning how to let go.
07:34 [SOBBING]
07:38 I really, truly thought that he was my person.
07:43 Losing love, I think it's the hardest thing in the world.
07:51 It's very hard.
07:52 I'm hurt, disappointed, but I got to move on.
08:00 Can't make a relationship what it's not.
08:04 [MUSIC PLAYING]
08:07 [MUSIC PLAYING]
08:10 [MUSIC PLAYING]
08:14 (upbeat music)