JOSEPH and Vania Williams met at work and fell in love. But because Joseph was born with no jaw, the happy couple have had to deal with trolls mocking their relationship and even seemingly well-intended followers asking impertinent questions. The couple, who have a big social media following, respond to some of the reactions their Love Don't Judge episode received.
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00:00 Hello, I am Joseph Williams, here with my wife,
00:03 Vania Williams.
00:05 Today we will be going over comments
00:07 from a video that was done.
00:08 I was born with the condition of autofacial.
00:12 That is when the person is born without a jaw or a chin.
00:15 She's in love with his money.
00:17 It's odd how people are concerned about their sex.
00:23 I'm so happy.
00:27 The main thing I wanted for him in the world
00:29 was to have someone next to him that understands him
00:31 and gets him and...
00:34 I'm going to be honest,
00:36 I would find it too hard to find him attractive.
00:39 I don't think I could sleep with him.
00:42 When I saw his younger brother, it all made sense.
00:45 And then she put a smiley face at the end.
00:48 So you think my wife is cheating on me with my brother?
00:51 You think I'm a (beep)
00:52 You think I'm a (beep) like you?
00:55 If I was a man, I would steer very, very far from you.
00:58 Coming to say with all the advancement
01:01 in surgical procedures,
01:02 surely there's a surgeon out there
01:04 who could put a jaw implant in.
01:07 - I get this comment a lot.
01:08 And I always respond this way.
01:11 Who am I getting it for?
01:12 Why am I getting it?
01:14 The answer does not include me.
01:16 My wife is okay with how I look,
01:18 but I am open to other surgeries
01:20 if anyone wants to go deeper into that.
01:23 - I'm all for surgeries,
01:24 but Joe made it this far without getting his jaw.
01:27 So, ain't even a need for him going through that,
01:30 risking his life.
01:31 You know what I'm saying?
01:32 She's in love with his money.
01:34 Money.
01:36 - How is she in love with the money?
01:39 When we met at the same job, doing the same thing.
01:42 People don't listen.
01:44 She said we met at work.
01:46 - I've been rich.
01:47 I've been rich since I was 18.
01:49 I've always had money.
01:50 When I first met Joe at work,
01:53 I seen him walk into the building
01:55 and it was early in the morning.
01:57 And when I saw Joseph,
02:00 I was thinking to myself,
02:02 am I really seeing this?
02:03 Because like I said, it was early.
02:04 And I'm like, am I really seeing what I'm seeing?
02:07 - Moving along.
02:10 It says, "I have to applaud Vea
02:12 "for telling the truth about her initial feelings.
02:15 "Not many people are mature enough to admit what she did."
02:19 - When we were friends,
02:20 people always questioned our friendship.
02:22 And if we were more than friends,
02:24 then I will always tell them,
02:25 "No, no, no, we're just friends."
02:27 Because like I was embarrassed.
02:28 I was ashamed.
02:30 But eventually, you know,
02:32 getting to know Joseph time after time,
02:35 I looked over that and
02:36 I didn't see his face anymore.
02:40 I just saw his spirit, his personality.
02:43 - Well, my wife always told the truth.
02:47 That's part of why I love her so much.
02:50 I know when the world lied to me,
02:52 I know at least one person in this world
02:54 will tell me the truth.
02:55 And that's my wife, Benia.
02:57 - Please, how does he feed?
02:59 They're asking, how do you eat?
03:01 - Joe is very independent.
03:05 He doesn't need my help with anything.
03:06 The only thing I would do for Joe
03:07 is like help blend his food up for him.
03:10 And sometimes when he's tired, you know,
03:14 I'll give him, you know, his feeding tube.
03:17 But everything else, he's independent with it.
03:19 - He be eating good too.
03:22 He probably eat more than a lot of people.
03:24 - It's odd how people are concerned about their sex.
03:29 His jaw is missing, not his (beep)
03:32 There is much more to a marriage than sex.
03:36 - I like this comment.
03:37 We both don't like it when people think alike
03:40 that they associate having no jaw with me being deaf.
03:43 If I saw a person with a missing leg,
03:46 am I to assume he can't write?
03:48 - What if you marry somebody and they're attractive to you
03:51 and they have a good D or good P or whatever it may be.
03:55 And something happens to their P, what would you do?
03:59 Are you gonna still be in love with them
04:00 or are you gonna just get a divorce?
04:02 Like, how is that really true love?
04:05 She must be cut from a whole different piece of material.
04:10 - She said it many times before.
04:12 You can be the best looking man on earth,
04:14 but if your soul is ugly and there's no connection,
04:17 what does looks matter for?
04:19 When physical appearance fades away, what's left?
04:23 - True love means accepting and following your heart
04:28 regardless of other people's opinions.
04:30 Be blessed ever.
04:32 I agree.
04:33 - I agree with that.
04:34 True love is not someone's physical appearance.
04:37 Like I said before, physical looks fade away.
04:40 So that's the end of the comments that I have seen.
04:43 The negative comments do not change who I am,
04:46 nor does it change my wife's point of view.
04:49 We do not let demeaning comments into our lives.
04:52 We just want people to know we are good.
04:54 Thank you for your comments and support.
04:57 Have a good day.
04:58 - Bye. - Signing off.
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