Zephanie shares how it is to be an adulting Gen Z | Updated with Nelson Canlas
Sa panayam ni Nelson Canlas kay Zephanie, ibinahagi ng Kapuso singer kung paano siya nag-mature sa mga nagiging desisyon niya sa buhay bilang isang adult. Panoorin ang video.
Panoorin ang buong episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMiFnsuTOHg
Panoorin ang buong episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMiFnsuTOHg
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00:00 I want to hear the point of view of the Gen Z when it comes to that.
00:06 Is it okay to reward yourself?
00:10 Or is it okay to save money?
00:15 It's okay to reward yourself.
00:20 Especially if you know that you worked hard for it.
00:25 You work for something that you want.
00:29 It's not always like that.
00:31 Because you feel like you have something, you need to buy everything you want.
00:37 I buy what I want when I know I need it.
00:41 But when I want it, I think about it.
00:44 And when it comes to saving up,
00:47 I'm happy that my parents taught me to save.
00:57 I've been saving since I was a kid.
01:01 I save for what I want.
01:03 I buy things for myself when I save.
01:08 Now that I'm older, I have the idea that I need to save for my future.
01:15 I learned how to manage my finances.
01:20 I think I'll learn how to manage my finances.
01:24 I'm happy that there are people who guide me and help me.
01:30 It's not an easy journey.
01:32 Some people want to live alone.
01:34 But it's not just about being alone.
01:37 It's about how you take care of yourself and be responsible for your decisions in life.
01:44 It's true that at some point, whether you like it or not, you need to go through adulting.
01:50 So you're learning it now.
01:53 It's slow and it's very challenging.
01:57 Before, you just think about what you're going to eat or what you're going to do for work.
02:03 But now, you have to think about expenses, paperwork, and taxes.
02:12 I'm already there and I'm telling my mom, "Mom, I need to learn this."
02:17 So, please explain to me how this happens.
02:20 Yes, you're already there.
02:23 Yes, I'm already there.
02:24 But my mom is still there.
02:26 She's not giving me everything yet because she might have seen the adjustments.
02:31 But I feel that she's not willing to teach me those things.
02:37 Because she knows that someday, you need to learn everything about it.
02:42 Yes, and you're able to do it because not all Gen Z have the same goals.
02:48 I mean, there are a lot of Gen Z that I know that will delay their goals.
02:54 Maybe that's where my personality comes in.
02:58 I want to experience those things.
03:01 You're going to be independent.
03:04 I also want to try to be independent.
03:07 And I know that we can do it even if it's hard.
03:11 Give me some tips.
03:13 I'm sure there are a lot of Gen Z that are listening right now.
03:18 Teach me how.
03:20 I'm sure you're not fully doing adulting yet.
03:25 But I'm sure you're doing it little by little.
03:29 For me personally, being independent for me is not being alone and not being on your own.
03:37 That you're the only one.
03:39 For me, the key to a good outcome of being independent is to still consider the opinion of people important to you.
03:51 Like your family and the people you grew up with.
03:55 Because you are who you are because of them.
03:58 So I feel like the key to a wise decision making is to ask the people you value the most.
04:09 If you're making the right decision.
04:10 Asking for help is not a weakness.
04:15 For me, the outcome of your decisions in life will be better if there's still guidance.
04:26 Even your friends that you think are mature in thinking, you can listen to them.
04:31 Because you know what you said, adulting or independence is not actually being alone.
04:42 Executing it, you have to do it alone.
04:48 But you got a lot of inputs from people who lived or experienced those things.
04:57 You know, that's really wise of you.
05:00 You're happy because now when you say, "I want to be independent."
05:05 They want to listen to nothing.
05:07 For some people, it works.
05:09 It works.
05:10 But for me, I value my family and the people in my life.
05:19 So what they're saying is important.
05:22 Even now, when I make a decision, I feel like I'm having a hard time on my own.
05:27 Is it right?
05:28 Because I'm very cautious.
05:31 I don't want to make mistakes as much as I can.
05:33 Because the consequences are hard to deal with.
05:36 So if you're also going to decide on your own, make sure that you can also defend and be responsible
05:44 for the aftermath or the results of your decisions.
05:48 Because that's really part of being an adult.
05:52 Whatever happens, answer for yourself.
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