Remy Ma and celebrated battle rapper Hitman Holla come together to discuss the vital topic of children's education.
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00:00 I feel like Kanye got like 13 kids now.
00:01 That's it?
00:02 I mean, he just had like 13 or 12.
00:04 I feel like it's so much more.
00:06 When you start having all these kids, because he was sleeping with all those Wild 'N Out
00:08 girls for so long and none of them were getting pregnant.
00:10 I know you said you didn't.
00:11 I don't think he slept with no Wild 'N Out girl.
00:14 The twins had his face tattooed on them.
00:16 Maybe because they liked him as a mogul.
00:18 But you, I mean, I like him.
00:20 My first joke on Wild 'N Out was asking, well you remember my first joke.
00:23 I remember.
00:24 I'm saying, I don't think, I ain't got no proof he slept with any of them.
00:27 I just know he got four baby mamas and 12 kids.
00:30 So they all from four.
00:31 See what I'm saying?
00:32 So relax.
00:33 That's still a lot.
00:34 But it's only, a lot of people think it's 12 baby mamas.
00:39 Four baby mothers is crazy.
00:41 The population got three baby mamas, four baby mamas.
00:43 So somebody with 100 and them, that's who me?
00:45 Yeah.
00:46 I said 80%, I'm within that 20 there.
00:48 You know what's so crazy?
00:49 Not if you take the LGBT community and the equation and divide it into what the whole
00:54 world is, because we don't have a lot of, we don't have those issues.
00:57 Divorce and all, I mean it's new to us.
00:59 We didn't have those rights.
01:00 Baby mamas.
01:01 Yeah.
01:02 No, I know a lot of people in the LGBT that have baby mamas.
01:05 Really?
01:06 I was like, yeah.
01:07 Well when Nick was with Mariah, that was his ex-wife.
01:08 Then he made all the baby mamas.
01:09 Right?
01:10 But, but-
01:11 They have three sets of twins too, so that's six.
01:14 Isn't it three sets?
01:17 But they say he was tired as hell on Christmas, zigzagging across the world trying to get
01:20 to all these kids.
01:21 Santa.
01:22 Real life Santa.
01:23 I don't even like kids like that.
01:25 I love my kid.
01:27 It takes a lot for me to like a kid.
01:29 You got to be cute.
01:31 You got to be smart.
01:33 You got to have something about you.
01:35 The average kid, they be dirty.
01:37 They be want to touch stuff.
01:38 I like seeing cute kids on Instagram, but do not bring them to my house.
01:41 Don't bring them here.
01:42 You would love my daughter.
01:43 She's trained though.
01:44 I would love your daughter because I love you, but I do not love people's kids.
01:49 Listen to me, I promise you.
01:50 My daughter, like people, they don't even call for me.
01:52 They come to visit me to see her.
01:55 She's not like a regular kid.
01:56 She's super, she's very smart.
01:58 She's articulate.
01:59 And I feel like that's because that's how I raised her.
02:02 I didn't want her to be just like, what's that?
02:04 Can I have some?
02:06 I don't like what being a kid entails.
02:08 I love kids, I love little dogs.
02:09 Being a kid entails.
02:10 So, you don't let people bring their kids over to your house for like holidays?
02:13 No.
02:14 What?
02:15 No, don't come to my house with they kids.
02:16 So, if I come over I can't...
02:17 My house, if you want to...
02:18 If your kid is doing something, they be like, you want to go to Remy's house?
02:19 You want to go to Titi Remy's house?
02:21 My son is 16.
02:22 My house is a punishment.
02:23 My son is 16.
02:24 Oh, he can come, I'm working him.
02:25 Here, I pay by the room.
02:26 You clean, like I don't have nothing to...
02:27 But I'm talking about little kids.
02:31 Like my cousins and them, they threaten their kids with coming to my house because they
02:35 know I don't play that.
02:37 We're not doing that.
02:38 Don't ask me nothing, don't touch nothing.
02:39 You ain't an auntie.
02:40 Don't do it.
02:41 It's not even that I'm a mean auntie because they call me, I get all the best presents
02:45 but play with them at home.
02:46 I wouldn't have gave you nothing.
02:47 Don't come over here.
02:48 I wouldn't have gave you nothing.
02:49 What do you mean?
02:50 You mean.
02:51 I'm not mean.
02:52 Mom, I don't want to go to my mean auntie house.
02:53 Yeah, they don't want to come over because they know they can't do whatever they want.
02:56 You can't run through here.
02:57 Like, it's no running through the house.
02:59 I'm not like, one toy.
03:00 Like, my daughter has a lot of toys.
03:01 They know the rules.
03:02 One toy at a time.
03:03 When you're done with that one, you put it back.
03:05 Oh, you all know how to act?
03:07 You go in that room, you go in that room.
03:09 Like, I separate the whole thing.
03:10 Like, I don't play with them.
03:11 I don't play with kids.
03:12 So, nobody else in your family can spank your kids?
03:14 Are you dumb?
03:15 Like, what?
03:16 No.
03:17 Absolutely not.
03:18 But it takes a village to raise a child.
03:20 No, the f*** you don't.
03:21 I don't even know what a village is.
03:24 I never lived in a village.
03:26 I live in towns, neighborhoods.
03:27 I never lived in no mother f***ing village.
03:29 Don't hit my kid.
03:30 I barely hit my kid.
03:31 So, what you say is you get on other people's kids?
03:34 Oh, I f*** somebody else's kid.
03:35 I'm sorry.
03:36 I ain't say don't hit my kid though.
03:39 That's the difference.
03:40 I tell people all the time.
03:41 People are like, oh, you say this and this and this.
03:43 But when I say something, just because you let me talk to you crazy, handle you crazy,
03:47 that don't mean I'm going to let you do it to me.
03:49 This is like, no.
03:50 It doesn't work like that.
03:51 You're who you are.
03:52 You tolerate what you tolerate.
03:53 I am who I am.
03:54 I tolerate what I tolerate.
03:55 And I don't tolerate that.
03:56 So, don't try to do to me what I do to you.
03:57 It's not going to work.
03:58 I knew the other question I forgot to ask, Carter.
04:00 I want to ask you, being a mom, did you ever suffer postpartum depression?
04:04 Because you know what?
04:05 I'm talking to more women who are being more open about their journey with postpartum.
04:10 That I didn't even understand that postpartum could last days, weeks, months, and even years.
04:15 I just didn't know.
04:16 I think, I don't think it was diagnosed, but I do recognize that there was something going
04:22 on.
04:23 Like, I breastfed my daughter.
04:24 My daughter is four.
04:25 She just turned four like two weeks ago.
04:26 I breastfed my daughter since she was almost three years old.
04:30 Is that long?
04:31 I mean...
04:32 What?
04:33 Anything for...
04:34 I don't know.
04:35 What kind of relationship...
04:36 I don't breastfeed.
04:37 You've been in a relationship for three years?
04:38 I was in foster care.
04:39 What's the longest relationship you've been in recently?
04:41 Right.
04:42 24 hours.
04:43 Exactly.
04:44 So, imagine...
04:45 What's the average age when they're supposed to stop though?
04:47 Well, they say...
04:48 There's really no average age, but they say the doctor recommends like at least going
04:53 a year.
04:54 Oh, yeah.
04:55 And that's what I was saying.
04:56 I was like, I'm going to do a year.
04:57 And I ended up going when she was almost three.
05:00 And a lot of it had to do with COVID, we was inside, whatever the case may be.
05:04 But that shit takes a lot on you.
05:07 Like, it's a lot.
05:09 It's just...
05:10 It was an experience that I loved that I had with her, but getting her off of it and stopping,
05:17 it was just...
05:18 And then your boobs.
05:19 Like, it's just a lot.
05:20 Wait, how long do y'all produce milk?
05:22 Me, my shit was still going.
05:24 If I would've still gone, I believe it would've still been coming out.
05:26 Some people, it's harder for them, but my shit was just like a whole milk dairy aisle.
05:31 It's cool.
05:32 I'm laughing.
05:33 Not 2%.
05:34 But wait, so postpartum, is it...
05:39 When they say postpartum depression, how do you know that?
05:43 I don't know.
05:44 Your hormones be fucked up.
05:45 Like, your hormones be all over the place.
05:46 So you be having different emotions and things that you go through.
05:51 And I think with us, meaning like people of color, it's so many things that we assign
05:57 to other races.
05:58 So black people don't go through that.
05:59 They don't have bipolar.
06:00 They don't have mental health issues.
06:02 They don't do postpartum.
06:03 All of these different things that we've been going through for years, and because we were
06:07 not diagnosed, and because we were in denial that these things happened to us and in our
06:12 community, that's why a lot of us was dealing with child abuse.
06:14 That's why a lot of us was dealing with shit that we thought was normal.
06:19 I thought it was normal that if I said something, my mother said it to get my ass whooped.
06:23 That's not normal.
06:24 That's not normal.
06:26 And we became accustomed to it.
06:28 But I think as a people, we're starting to go to the doctor more.
06:33 Think of all the people, like have you ever heard of anybody growing up, like their parents
06:37 were bipolar, their parents were suffering from mental health?
06:39 See, my mom, you know, my book, I just said, "She's crazy."
06:44 Yeah, that's how it was just, they crazy.
06:46 Just like knew that it was going from day to night instantly.
06:51 Had we had these diagnoses and there was medications, like people might have had different childhoods.
06:57 Yeah, that's a fact.
06:58 You know what's so crazy?
06:59 They be out here talking about women versus men in hip hop, when you got the Gunners and
07:05 Six Nines getting out while all their homies locked up and you and Kim went to prison.
07:09 They locked us up.
07:10 Y'all the real Gs.
07:12 Nah, that was whack.
07:13 I ain't like that.
07:15 I was talking to God many nights, like, "Really?
07:18 Eight?
07:19 Eight?"
07:20 I promise you, like, I just, what I don't like about the judicial system, like, it's
07:25 just mad random.
07:26 Like, they really could just be like, "We're not here," but like, "Yeah, they're facing
07:29 five to 25."
07:30 That is a big range for somebody to just play around in.
07:34 I mean, have options.
07:35 You gotta have options.
07:36 Like, five to 25?
07:37 Like, what?
07:38 So, you could just be like, "Uh, 18."
07:41 No, you could, no, no.
07:43 "Seven."
07:44 Like, no, that's a big difference.
07:45 No, let me tell you how you can make sure that that's not a problem.
07:48 You go and say, "Being a part of the YSL gang."
07:52 I mean, it clearly worked for some people anyway.