Married at First Sight's Becca and Austin Have Heart-to-Heart

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00:00 In past relationships, I think it's been my go-to to rush in pretty quickly by way of

00:05 like really deep, hard conversations because I've found--

00:08 Right off the bat?

00:09 Yeah.

00:10 Oh, interesting.

00:11 Like, they're topics that are important to me, but when I've dated people in the past,

00:14 like I do bring them up right away.

00:17 And I--

00:18 Both to each their own, you know?

00:19 Yeah.

00:20 And I know that there might be differences there because I was raised Jewish, but I'm

00:25 personally agnostic.

00:26 But like, I also know that those differences have caused me such anxiety before in past

00:32 relationships, and with you, I don't feel that.

00:35 Oh.

00:36 I'm just like plain old Christian.

00:40 But my parents didn't exactly line up on faith, so seeing how they maneuvered those topics,

00:45 like I think that is beneficial, especially considering we might have differences in those

00:51 areas now.

00:54 We know we do.

00:55 But like, there's so much else there where in past relationships there hasn't, and I've

01:00 only like looked for those commonalities, latched onto those commonalities, and used

01:04 those as a foundation, and that has failed me.

01:06 I feel like by us building a foundation on all of the other aspects of our relationship

01:10 and all of our other strengths and everything else, we will be able to get through a lot.

01:17 I agree 100%.

01:19 I think we are learning how one another communicates, and I think the best way to do that is starting

01:23 out with the small issues, and then moving to the big ones.

01:27 Yeah.

01:28 And I personally am not extremely worried about how this, like issues that we haven't

01:32 talked about might impact our relationship.

01:34 Like I feel like we are strong, and I feel like we're so understanding of each other,

01:40 and this time will only make that better.

01:43 Yeah, totally.