"I won’t sacrifice my body for a baby unless I’m given a push present and mummy makeover"
A childfree woman says she won’t "sacrifice" her body for a baby unless she is paid a £250k annual allowance, given a push present and a mummy makeover.
Jenny Darling, 23, revealed her "non-negotiables" for pregnancy to make it "worth" the toll on her physical and mental health.
The content creator has never wanted children but would consider it if the right guy could meet her terms.
Jenny said she'd need to be married before falling pregnant, have a prenuptial agreement in place and have a babymoon abroad before the birth.
Following the birth, she wants a £250k annual allowance to pay for therapy, a personal trainer and anything she'd need for herself and the baby.
Jenny also wants a doula and a housekeeper for the first six months post-partum, who would be replaced a weekly cleaner after that.
She also demands a luxury push present – such as a car or apartment – and a mummy makeover, including a tummy tuck and boob job.
Jenny, from Bishopsgate, London, said: “Motherhood is priceless.
“You can’t put a number on what is worth sacrificing.
“Creating a human life takes a lot of sacrifice.
“I’d never put my body through that for free.
“I’m not built to suffer.”
Jenny has always wanted to be “childless”.
She said: “I’ve wanted to be childless since I started periods.
“I asked doctors to take my uterus out.
“Kids are expensive. I wouldn’t want to bring a child into this world to suffer.
“I would have kids on the terms it’s a good motherhood experience for me.
“I don’t want kids. If it was to happen these are my non-negotiables.”
Jenny would need to have a prenup in place before falling pregnant.
She said: “I would need to be married before I would even have a child – mainly because of my religion and protection for the baby.
“I want a prenup to cover anything that would impact my life - infidelity and things like that.”
Jenny would want to go on a babymoon to have one last proper holiday before the arrival of a little one.
She said: “You have to give up everything you enjoy and that makes you you.”
Jenny said she’d need an allowance per year to cover the costs of activities for herself and her baby.
She said: “I’d need a £250k annual allowance.
“For therapy sessions, a PT, all of things you’d need to live.
“It’s investing in our life and future.”
Jenny would want a doula and a housekeeper following the birth.
She said: “I don’t know how women do cooking, cleaning and working as a mum. I commend that but it’s not going to be me.
“I’d want a housekeeper for six months. Replaced by a weekly cleaner.
“Clean space is a clean mind.
“I would have a doula – just so I can sleep.
“I’d want them every night until after six months.”
Jenny wouldn’t want to work full-time to support her child for the first few years of motherhood.
She said: “I would want to be working because I want to not because I have to.”
Jenny said she’d need a ‘mummy makeover’ to get back to herself again.
Jenny Darling, 23, revealed her "non-negotiables" for pregnancy to make it "worth" the toll on her physical and mental health.
The content creator has never wanted children but would consider it if the right guy could meet her terms.
Jenny said she'd need to be married before falling pregnant, have a prenuptial agreement in place and have a babymoon abroad before the birth.
Following the birth, she wants a £250k annual allowance to pay for therapy, a personal trainer and anything she'd need for herself and the baby.
Jenny also wants a doula and a housekeeper for the first six months post-partum, who would be replaced a weekly cleaner after that.
She also demands a luxury push present – such as a car or apartment – and a mummy makeover, including a tummy tuck and boob job.
Jenny, from Bishopsgate, London, said: “Motherhood is priceless.
“You can’t put a number on what is worth sacrificing.
“Creating a human life takes a lot of sacrifice.
“I’d never put my body through that for free.
“I’m not built to suffer.”
Jenny has always wanted to be “childless”.
She said: “I’ve wanted to be childless since I started periods.
“I asked doctors to take my uterus out.
“Kids are expensive. I wouldn’t want to bring a child into this world to suffer.
“I would have kids on the terms it’s a good motherhood experience for me.
“I don’t want kids. If it was to happen these are my non-negotiables.”
Jenny would need to have a prenup in place before falling pregnant.
She said: “I would need to be married before I would even have a child – mainly because of my religion and protection for the baby.
“I want a prenup to cover anything that would impact my life - infidelity and things like that.”
Jenny would want to go on a babymoon to have one last proper holiday before the arrival of a little one.
She said: “You have to give up everything you enjoy and that makes you you.”
Jenny said she’d need an allowance per year to cover the costs of activities for herself and her baby.
She said: “I’d need a £250k annual allowance.
“For therapy sessions, a PT, all of things you’d need to live.
“It’s investing in our life and future.”
Jenny would want a doula and a housekeeper following the birth.
She said: “I don’t know how women do cooking, cleaning and working as a mum. I commend that but it’s not going to be me.
“I’d want a housekeeper for six months. Replaced by a weekly cleaner.
“Clean space is a clean mind.
“I would have a doula – just so I can sleep.
“I’d want them every night until after six months.”
Jenny wouldn’t want to work full-time to support her child for the first few years of motherhood.
She said: “I would want to be working because I want to not because I have to.”
Jenny said she’d need a ‘mummy makeover’ to get back to herself again.
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00:00 These are 5 signs he's not a high value man. I have dated enough frogs to tell you now, you do not want to be wasting any of your time with a man that falls in more than 2 of these things on this list.
00:13 So, let's get into it.
00:15 Number 1, he isn't bothered about grooming.
00:17 If he doesn't care for himself or his appearance, it might be a sign he doesn't value himself or the impressions he makes.
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00:30 Number 2, he likes to go 50/50 with everything.
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01:20 Number three makes you feel confused and crazy.
01:24 He isn't consistent in his actions.
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01:36 This is also the type of person to gaslight the hell out of you and make you feel, yeah, crazy.
01:41 Number four has no emotional intelligence.
01:44 Emotional intelligence is key.
01:46 If he can't recognize or understand emotions in himself and others, this can lead to misunderstandings and lack of empathy.
01:54 And finally, number five, no morals or ethics.
01:58 I think this one speaks for itself.
02:00 If he doesn't stand by any principles, then what does he stand for?
02:04 A lack of depth, interest or cultural appreciations can be signs you're missing out on a richer experience together.
02:12 A high value man knows his values and sticks to them.
02:14 Remember, everyone deserves a partner who respects and values them.
02:18 Know your worth and don't settle.
02:20 This is going to ruffle a few feathers, but this is my preference.
02:23 The girl with the list has imprinted in my brain why I will never put myself or my body through all of that for free.
02:31 So here we go.
02:32 We're not before pregnancy, so we need to be married.
02:35 We're not doing baby mamas here.
02:37 And I would have my own clauses in there that would cover cheating, stuff like that.
02:41 The next one is 250,000 allowance annually per baby.
02:47 Surrogates, they make like from 150,000 a year just to give birth.
02:52 Okay, so please don't come at me.
02:55 This will basically cover my weekly therapy sessions I'm going to need before and post giving birth.
03:02 A personal trainer to get me all fit and healthy, get my confidence back.
03:08 Obviously like grocery shopping and just things that I would need to get for the kids like here and there.
03:13 If I just have an annual or monthly allowance equivalent to that, I'm able to live comfortably, not just for myself, but for my child as well.
03:23 So I feel like as a woman, I would just be sacrificing a lot.
03:26 So this list, I don't think is asking for too much.
03:29 I will not be working.
03:31 I would just not have the capacity.
03:32 Definitely have a housekeeper who could do laundry, cooking, cleaning, all of that for six months.
03:38 I'm not here to suffer.
03:39 Then it would be replaced by a weekly cleaner thereon just to get me back into the hang of things like cooking, doing laundry, things like that.
03:49 Because I do actually enjoy that, but who's going to be having the energy to be doing all of that when you've just given birth?
03:54 Anyway, next one.
03:56 I would also have a mummy makeover because my body is going to be destroyed internally and externally.
04:04 I think this is a given.
04:06 Also a night nurse, a doula.
04:08 I love my sleep.
04:10 So a night nurse would definitely be mandatory so that I can get my beauty sleep, to be able to have the energy in the morning, to be able to take over.
04:20 It will put me in a way better mind frame.
04:22 So next, push present.
04:24 So either an apartment in my name, a car, or a business, something that is going to secure me and our child or children's future should anything happen.
04:37 I'm always looking to add more onto this list because I'm very adamant I want to be child free.
04:42 But for the right man, I wouldn't mind putting myself through all of that for the above.
04:47 Monday, we start off tame.
04:49 Tuesday, we keep it classy.
04:52 Wednesday, we let loose a little.
04:54 Thursday, we start to get restless.
04:56 Friday, it's time to get nasty.
04:59 Saturday, we let it all hang out.