CHUYỆN CHƯA KỂ - TÔ NHI A
Chuyện Chưa Kể là nơi mà các khách mời chia sẻ những câu chuyện tình, những chuyện chưa được kể, những lời khó nói và mong muốn được tư vấn, giải tỏa tâm lí. Bạn có thể chia sẻ về cuộc sống hôn nhân (trước và sau khi kết hôn), câu chuyện hành trình tìm con của các bà mẹ bỉm sữa, các nạn nhân bị miệt thì, bạo lực gia đình, học đường, bị bạo lực mạng xã hội. Hoặc những câu chuyện để lại cho bạn một ấn tượng và rút ra được bài học cho mình. Đến với chương trình khi mình chia sẻ câu chuyện mình có thể chọn lộ diện mặt hoặc không đều được. Với sự dẫn dắt của tiến sĩ tâm lý Tô Nhi A, hy vọng "Chuyện Chưa Kể" có thể mang những câu chuyện 'Đặc biệt' tiếp cận gần đến quí vị khán giả.
"Đến với Ai cũng có chuyện lần này, ca sĩ điển trai Dương Tùng Nhân mang tới cho tiến sĩ tâm lý Tô Nhi A cũng như quý vị khán giả một bất ngờ lớn tới từ gia đình anh. Và người bị ảnh hưởng cũng như tổn thương về mặt tinh thần nhiều nhất là chàng ca sĩ và mẹ.
Bị họ hàng nội ngoại hiểu nhầm và dùng những từ ngữ miệt thị “Đứa con trùng huyết”… nhưng cậu bé Tùng Nhân khi đó còn quá nhỏ để hiểu!!!
Và rồi nỗi ám ảnh đó cứ theo Tùng Nhân mãi… Câu hỏi thì vẫn không được trả lời.
Thời gian trôi qua, Mẹ Mất, Bà mất…
Cuối cùng thì Tùng Nhân cũng hiểu, có nhiều góc khuất gia đình không được phép nói!!!"
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Chuyện Chưa Kể là nơi mà các khách mời chia sẻ những câu chuyện tình, những chuyện chưa được kể, những lời khó nói và mong muốn được tư vấn, giải tỏa tâm lí. Bạn có thể chia sẻ về cuộc sống hôn nhân (trước và sau khi kết hôn), câu chuyện hành trình tìm con của các bà mẹ bỉm sữa, các nạn nhân bị miệt thì, bạo lực gia đình, học đường, bị bạo lực mạng xã hội. Hoặc những câu chuyện để lại cho bạn một ấn tượng và rút ra được bài học cho mình. Đến với chương trình khi mình chia sẻ câu chuyện mình có thể chọn lộ diện mặt hoặc không đều được. Với sự dẫn dắt của tiến sĩ tâm lý Tô Nhi A, hy vọng "Chuyện Chưa Kể" có thể mang những câu chuyện 'Đặc biệt' tiếp cận gần đến quí vị khán giả.
"Đến với Ai cũng có chuyện lần này, ca sĩ điển trai Dương Tùng Nhân mang tới cho tiến sĩ tâm lý Tô Nhi A cũng như quý vị khán giả một bất ngờ lớn tới từ gia đình anh. Và người bị ảnh hưởng cũng như tổn thương về mặt tinh thần nhiều nhất là chàng ca sĩ và mẹ.
Bị họ hàng nội ngoại hiểu nhầm và dùng những từ ngữ miệt thị “Đứa con trùng huyết”… nhưng cậu bé Tùng Nhân khi đó còn quá nhỏ để hiểu!!!
Và rồi nỗi ám ảnh đó cứ theo Tùng Nhân mãi… Câu hỏi thì vẫn không được trả lời.
Thời gian trôi qua, Mẹ Mất, Bà mất…
Cuối cùng thì Tùng Nhân cũng hiểu, có nhiều góc khuất gia đình không được phép nói!!!"
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05:10 And then what happened next?
05:12 I went to grade 9.
05:13 Oh my god! How many years later? 7, 8 years later?
05:16 Yes, I went in deeply.
05:19 There was a chess class.
05:21 There was a psychology teacher, a girl or a boy, who came to share with you.
05:26 Then there was a class for the vice and headmaster to share their knowledge with you.
05:32 At that time, I asked the teacher.
05:34 I was so shy.
05:36 I asked him, "I'm a black-tailed fish, I'm so sensitive to that."
05:43 "Sometimes I get so bloodshot that I get black-tailed fish and so on."
05:49 At that time, I was blind.
05:52 At that time, I was 12 or 13 degrees.
05:55 I remember correctly that I was 6 or 7 degrees.
05:59 At that time, I was like a planet-shattering person.
06:04 No one had glasses but me.
06:05 You were so blind?
06:06 Yes, that word was for me.
06:08 I was like that so I was blind.
06:10 Then I asked the teacher.
06:13 The teacher told me that
06:16 "This black-tailed fish was born with his parents and then they took him."
06:21 At that time, I was angry.
06:24 I was angry with myself.
06:27 What were you angry with yourself?
06:29 I said, "Why did I choose a family that was born in such a family?"
06:33 I was so angry.
06:35 I didn't go to school.
06:37 Then my mom asked me how I was.
06:39 I was so quiet and didn't say anything.
06:42 My mom was sitting on the roof at that time.
06:45 She told me how my parents left me and my teacher.
06:50 Then everyone around me talked about that.
06:53 It means that everyone talked about that.
06:56 Yes.
06:57 Then my mom told me,
07:00 "Do you want to know now?"
07:01 "If you want to know, I don't want to live."
07:03 At that time, my mom told me that.
07:05 I thought about why she changed the answer to my life.
07:09 Oh.
07:10 I cried a lot and went out.
07:14 I was out of school for almost a week.
07:16 You were out of school after that?
07:18 Yes.
07:19 Then she called my house and asked why I didn't go to school.
07:23 My real name is Thanh.
07:24 Then my mom told me.
07:26 At that time, I called my father's phone.
07:28 There were many people at home, so I only had one phone to call.
07:32 I was so worried about him.
07:34 When he hit me, I asked him.
07:36 "Have you ever thought about me?"
07:39 "I couldn't talk at that time."
07:42 I was like a kid who was curious and asked.
07:46 My dad said, "Who told you this?"
07:49 My mom told him, "I heard someone else say it."
07:52 He asked many times, but he didn't know how to answer.
07:56 My dad forced me to hit him.
07:59 I couldn't stop.
08:00 When I was 19,
08:03 I and my mom were close friends.
08:07 I didn't tell her what I liked.
08:10 She would buy me that.
08:12 But she knew I liked it.
08:15 I just looked at her and knew what she wanted.
08:17 Then I hit her.
08:19 I was going to school and work.
08:22 I heard from my mom that it had been 3 days.
08:26 She couldn't pee or eat.
08:29 When I got home, I saw her body was swollen.
08:33 I was so scared.
08:34 I was so scared because I had never felt that before.
08:38 But I don't know why that question kept popping up in my head.
08:42 - You kept asking. - But there was no medicine.
08:45 I took my mom to the hospital.
08:48 I stayed there for 2 days.
08:51 I took her to the hospital.
08:52 I was so stupid.
08:55 I told her not to do that.
08:58 I was so scared.
08:59 But that question kept popping up in my head.
09:01 I felt that I asked to get an answer.
09:06 It wasn't to prove myself.
09:09 I just wanted to make it clear.
09:10 If I didn't have that, I would have told everyone.
09:14 You know, the biggest struggle in everyone's life
09:19 is about their origin.
09:20 I don't know if you watched this movie when you were a kid.
09:23 But this movie was made in my generation.
09:25 It was "The Little Dragon".
09:26 The dragon with the dragon's tail.
09:29 Now, I'm confused.
09:31 It was a hundred episodes.
09:32 It was just to solve one problem.
09:35 Who was the mother of the little dragon?
09:37 It was a hundred episodes.
09:38 It was just to find the mother.
09:39 The first part of "The Little Dragon"
09:41 was just to solve the question of where the monkey came from.
09:45 And there were many other works.
09:47 They all asked a very popular question.
09:51 Who am I?
09:52 How did I come to this life?
09:54 It's not hard to understand.
09:56 When you keep that in your mind
09:59 for the whole childhood,
10:01 you will be very sensitive about the answer.
10:04 I also felt guilty.
10:06 I didn't feel guilty.
10:08 But I didn't want to accept that identity.
10:11 Because I knew that it wasn't right according to everyone's standard.
10:15 It was like a rock hitting my soul.
10:18 When you took me to the hospital,
10:21 how was my mom's situation?
10:23 The doctor called me in.
10:25 He asked if I went with anyone.
10:27 I said I went alone.
10:29 I really wanted the doctor to cry.
10:32 Because they were lying to me.
10:33 They said I should calm down.
10:35 The doctor was here to take care of me.
10:36 My mom was so seriously injured.
10:39 She had to run once
10:42 to get 50% of the surgery.
10:45 If there was any problem during the run,
10:47 the family would be responsible.
10:49 I called my dad.
10:51 He said,
10:54 "Sign it. I'm too busy now."
10:56 Then he hung up.
10:57 It was so terrible that I was injured.
10:59 [The pain of being alone]
11:02 You felt you were alone in this life, right?
11:04 Yes.
11:05 I sat at the hospital.
11:08 I looked at the people who were listening.
11:10 I wanted to hug someone
11:12 and tell them I was injured.
11:15 But the more my mom was away from me,
11:20 I was warned.
11:22 My mom was in the room.
11:24 It was about 5 p.m.
11:26 The doctor said,
11:27 "Your mom is a patient of Trau Thi Dinh Hospital."
11:30 "She had a surgery."
11:32 I knew it was an emergency surgery.
11:35 My mom was a 63kg woman.
11:38 She had 42 months left.
11:41 In the first 2 months, I took her to the hospital.
11:45 She told me,
11:47 "You have to jump off the building and die."
11:51 "If you die, you have to leave me."
11:53 "You have to be stabbed and held outside."
11:57 "You have to go from Tien Giang to Ho Chi Minh."
11:59 "You and I are far away."
12:00 "I don't know where we are."
12:02 I knew the result.
12:03 I didn't want her to see it.
12:05 It was a high-signature surgery.
12:08 At that time, I told her,
12:11 "If I had never asked you stupid questions,"
12:15 "like the last time I heard from my aunt,"
12:18 "I would have been stupid."
12:21 "I thought those questions would hurt you."
12:24 "I wish I could get back the words I didn't ask you."
12:28 When I told my grandpa,
12:30 he let my uncle go there.
12:33 I was there for 33 or 34 days.
12:37 My mom passed away.
12:38 [The story of her mom's death]
12:41 When my mom passed away, I thought my life was over.
12:44 Everything happened in a way that I had nothing to help.
12:49 My dad cried on one side and I cried on the other.
12:53 In the middle of 2016, I went to the city.
12:56 I didn't want to see my mom's death.
13:02 My mom bought me breakfast every morning.
13:05 It was cheap.
13:07 The day I took her to the temple,
13:10 I went to my mom's room to sleep.
13:12 I cried all night.
13:13 I was so sad.
13:14 I didn't know when I woke up.
13:16 It was around 8 or 9 a.m.
13:18 I went out and my dad was sitting in front of the house.
13:22 I asked him,
13:24 "Why hasn't my mom come back from the market?"
13:28 [The story of her mom's death]
13:32 I didn't know why I said that.
13:36 When I asked him that question,
13:39 he went out and didn't answer.
13:43 I didn't think it was a dream.
13:46 When I went to the city, I didn't have 2 million VND.
13:49 I told him,
13:51 "I didn't leave you,
13:54 but I want to have a better life.
13:57 Not richer.
13:59 I want to change my life.
14:01 I gave him 50,000 VND.
14:03 I was 1.5 million VND.
14:06 I gave him 50,000 VND.
14:07 He said, "I went to the city market.
14:10 I bought fish and went to the market to fry it."
14:13 I didn't know why he didn't do that.
14:16 The day I packed my luggage and went to the city,
14:21 I went to the market.
14:23 I didn't know if I would buy fish or meat.
14:27 I gave him the fish.
14:29 I took 50,000 VND and left.
14:32 I asked a neighbor's son,
14:35 my grandmother's son,
14:37 to buy fish.
14:39 I asked my father,
14:41 "I have to go to work. I'll be back soon."
14:43 I hung up the phone.
14:45 I went to the city to buy a motorbike.
14:48 The owner asked me,
14:51 "Where did you go? Why did you take it?"
14:53 I was so desperate, but I didn't dare to cry.
14:57 On the way from Tien Giang to Binh Tai,
15:01 I cried so much.
15:02 I had to wear a mask and wear a mask.
15:04 I told him, "I'm so desperate. I can't go anywhere."
15:09 He scolded me, "Are you crazy?"
15:12 I packed my luggage and left.
15:14 I had to pay tens of thousands VND.
15:16 I asked for a job at a coffee shop.
15:19 I worked there for about...
15:23 5 months.
15:24 45 days.
15:25 I just drank water.
15:27 I still had the energy to work.
15:29 I asked for a job at a coffee shop.
15:33 I asked for a job at a coffee shop.
15:36 I saw a friend on Facebook.
15:40 She was in the art field.
15:44 I said hi to her.
15:48 She was much older than me.
15:51 She said she could work at a music center.
15:56 But the cost was...
15:58 She gave me 3 months.
16:01 I was afraid of being tempted.
16:04 I thought about it.
16:07 But I didn't want to be tempted.
16:10 It was an entertainment center.
16:13 I studied there for 6 months.
16:15 I was lucky to be the winner in the company.
16:18 The company had more than 40 people.
16:21 She was my soul mate.
16:26 When I won the company's champion,
16:29 I was so young.
16:31 I knew she was a big deal in the industry.
16:37 But she didn't push me.
16:41 She said...
16:43 "There's a fence. You should avoid it."
16:48 She told me...
16:49 "Don't use your money or your body to help others."
16:55 "So you can stand on the stage and sing."
16:57 I listened to her.
16:59 My life changed.
17:01 I could go to more shows.
17:03 I worked in...
17:05 I was a fruit seller in Binh Tan.
17:09 I slept until 2 am.
17:14 I woke up and poured ice water.
17:17 I earned 175,000 VND in 2 hours.
17:20 I remember it was high from 2017.
17:25 I worked for half a month.
17:27 I could go to more shows.
17:30 I was lucky to sing in a big show.
17:40 It was fate.
17:41 I had a bun.
17:42 61 buns.
17:44 I bought...
17:46 How much?
17:47 30 buns cost 180,000 VND.
17:49 I gave them to the neighbors.
17:51 They were so happy.
17:55 I ate buns with them.
17:59 It was in my blood.
18:02 Because my family was poor.
18:07 We were so poor.
18:08 We couldn't afford to eat for a day or a week.
18:11 But my mom used her savings to buy clothes.
18:16 She saved 1,000, 2,000, 3,000 VND.
18:19 She saved 14,000 VND a month.
18:23 She cooked a big pot of porridge for 30,000 VND.
18:28 She cooked porridge for students.
18:33 When she was sick,
18:35 she ate 7-year-old bananas.
18:38 She didn't tell me to do that.
18:41 But I saw it.
18:42 I loved it.
18:43 Children learn from what they observe.
18:49 I wonder, when you left your family,
18:52 how long did it take you to come back to meet your dad?
18:56 2018.
18:59 How many years?
19:00 2 years.
19:00 2 years of silence.
19:03 He didn't look for you.
19:05 He did, but...
19:07 He couldn't find you.
19:09 Because I was pregnant.
19:11 My family only had me.
19:15 The biggest question was,
19:16 from the day he gave birth to now,
19:19 did you answer him?
19:21 In 2018, I met him in person.
19:24 I was a bit more confident.
19:26 You were confident to talk to him.
19:28 My nickname was Vuong Phuc Lam.
19:31 I asked my friends to investigate.
19:35 I knew he lived in District 9, Ho Chi Minh City.
19:39 I was there.
19:42 My father was a black man.
19:44 He was sitting in front of me,
19:46 holding a hat to make a wall.
19:50 I asked him why he was sitting there.
19:53 He put the hat on me and said,
19:56 "Who are you looking for?"
19:57 I don't know how to describe it.
20:03 You were shaking.
20:07 I remember...
20:10 From the way you spoke...
20:12 I remembered you put the hat down.
20:15 You put it down and walked in.
20:17 You sat there crying.
20:19 I didn't know what to do.
20:23 I just sat there and waved at him.
20:25 Because when I left and came back,
20:27 we were completely different.
20:29 You were thinner.
20:30 When you enter the art world,
20:32 it's beautiful even without makeup.
20:34 Not only makeup.
20:36 I told my father,
20:37 "How have you been?"
20:39 He said, "I'm fine."
20:42 But I cried and said,
20:44 "I still have a lot of connections."
20:46 I called him more and more.
20:48 In the middle of 2019,
20:51 I had a business accident.
20:53 I had to answer the question.
20:56 My grandmother called me.
20:58 "My grandmother is very sick."
21:02 "She's about to die."
21:03 "I'm going home."
21:04 I asked her, "Should I ask my grandmother?"
21:08 "Yes."
21:09 "I love you."
21:10 "Tell me."
21:12 I cried and told her.
21:13 "I want to give you an answer."
21:16 "I asked my mother, but she passed away."
21:18 "My father is a man of the moon."
21:20 "He asked but didn't answer."
21:21 She said, "I don't know."
21:24 "But after everything happened, I know."
21:27 "My grandfather has a younger brother in Long Xuyen."
21:32 "He gave money to marry a girl."
21:34 "He had many children."
21:36 "In 1967, he passed away."
21:41 "My grandmother had another man."
21:46 "To save her life and cheer her up."
21:51 "Then a baby was born in 1969."
21:56 "My grandfather thought that his brother had passed away."
22:00 "So he took the baby home."
22:06 "He grew up day by day."
22:08 "Everything happened unexpectedly."
22:11 "Besides, the baby is my father now."
22:13 "Everyone will recognize that my father is the son of the man who passed away in 1967."
22:20 "But it's not true."
22:22 "I felt like I shouldn't ask my grandmother."
22:25 "I don't know if my grandmother felt comfortable when she said that."
22:28 "I started to wonder about all the adults in my family."
22:32 "It's not a big deal."
22:34 "Because my parents are not in the same blood."
22:36 "If it's not a big deal, then I should be more open to the baby."
22:41 "It makes the baby feel more secure."
22:44 "And I feel more comfortable."
22:47 "If everyone answers this question earlier,"
22:51 "I think my life will be less rich."
22:54 "But my spirit will be better."
22:57 "I think I will be more open to the baby."
22:59 "I think I will be more open to the baby."
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24:21 "To be honest, I think the biggest problem is when people decide to replace other people's lives."
24:30 "I don't blame anyone here because everyone has their own difficulties."
24:34 "But it's a proof for a story we often say."
24:38 "When we are not brave enough to face it, we will have a long-term consequence."
24:43 "I think we only need a brave grandmother."
24:46 "Because in a society, the things that are harmful to a woman are so painful."
24:53 "But the public must return to their lives first."
24:57 "And the important thing is whether your grandmother is happy."
25:01 "Is your grandmother responsible for the children who are born?"
25:04 "Is your grandmother still living well every day?"
25:07 "And your life is only yours, the most obvious person."
25:10 "It's just a pity that you lack a little courage to admit."
25:15 "The story of each person is told here gives us a perspective to make the material."
25:21 "And sometimes in my case, in a similar situation, I will be brave to make a better decision."
25:28 "It's less wrong."
25:30 "At this point, I feel like, well, let's say it's a fate of my life."
25:36 "It has passed because it has passed."
25:39 "To say that there is a struggle about whether to say or not to say the truth."
25:48 "In a program that says or not."
25:51 "It must be there."
25:52 "Actually, with my story, there is a message that I really want to share with parents."
25:57 "Never underestimate the mind of a child."
26:00 "When the child asks, 'Where did you come from?'"
26:03 "How did your parents give birth to you?"
26:05 "Why did your parents give birth to you?"
26:07 "The questions we often ask them are, 'Child, ask for nonsense.' "
26:12 "If you give birth, just give birth."
26:14 "That is a very big question of human life."
26:16 "And the child is proud of the reason it was born."
26:20 "It lives better."
26:21 "I also hope that through the words shared."
26:25 "It is also a message to care for the child and share it more."
26:30 "In general, in the voice of each second, each minute."
26:33 "I want to ask you one more question before we say goodbye."
26:36 "Do you think your father is suffering?"
26:38 "Say something to your father."
26:40 "I want you to understand something."
26:42 "So I think this will reduce the burden of your father."
26:46 "A burden inside your father."
26:48 "What will you say to your father?"
26:50 "I have never been rude or talk to my father."
26:55 "Many times."
26:56 "However, the letter I just sent to my father."
27:01 "I'm sure you've read it."
27:03 "Now I just want to say one thing to my father."
27:06 "The things I said or did in the past."
27:10 "If there is something wrong, please forgive me."
27:14 "Hopefully, in the rest of my life."
27:17 "I will spend that time to love you as my mother used to love me."
27:22 "On the contrary, I will love and take care of my father."
27:25 "Thank you."
27:30 "Fathers in my father's generation."
27:33 "To say something to express your feelings is not easy."
27:38 "So there are some pains inside."
27:41 "And the patience of a man can make them more stubborn."
27:45 "To their children, to their wives."
27:47 "And they also have that pain alone."
27:49 "With a kind of male-dominated."
27:51 "So we are actively open."
27:54 "It's also a way for us to do what young people say."
27:58 "I wish my parents could understand me better."
28:00 "I wish my parents could sympathize with me better."
28:03 "Understand that my parents have their mature background."
28:06 "It's very difficult for them to do that."
28:08 "And if you want that, you should take the initiative."
28:11 "As a family, we don't have to calculate."
28:14 "And with the story of Tung Nhan, I thank you again."
28:17 "There are things we think are simple."
28:19 "But if they are not solved thoroughly."
28:21 "It can create a lifetime of pain."
28:23 "And people can't get over that pain."
28:25 "And then it's related to many other decisions."
28:28 "And other frustrations."
28:30 "And thank you, dear audience, for always being patient with us."
28:33 "In every evening, sit here and listen to."
28:37 "The stories of someone, because everyone has a story."
28:40 "And we also look at the materials of other people's lives."
28:44 "To make experience for yourself, to make a mask for yourself."
28:47 "Because we can only live a life."
28:50 "But life is a monochrome model."
28:52 "And it is in the experience of others that gives us very valuable lessons."
28:56 "And now, the time of this week's program is over."
29:00 "We have to say goodbye."
29:02 "Wish you a good night."
29:04 "Have a lot of energy to continue working for a week."
29:06 "And we will meet next week, everyone."
29:09 "Goodbye."
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