Meri Pehchan - Topic: Azeem Maa - 11 March 2024 - ARY Qtv

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Meri Pehchan | Topic: Azeem Maa

Host: Syeda Zainab

Guest: Prof. Naheed Abrar, Aasma Hassan Qadri

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A female talk show having discussion over the persisting customs and norms of the society. Female scholars and experts from different fields of life will talk about the origins where those customs, rites and ritual come from or how they evolve with time, how they affect and influence our society, their pros and cons, and what does Islam has to say about them. We'll see what criteria Islam provides to decide over adapting or rejecting to the emerging global changes, say social, technological etc. of today.

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02:32 For today's topic, we have chosen the topic of great mothers for discussion, we have a very beautiful personality, your favorite person, who has a sweet tone, a lover, is present here with us. She herself is a mother, so she will speak very sweetly about her mother.
02:55 Dr. Professor Naheed Abrar is present here, let's welcome her. Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu.
03:02 Walaikum Assalam Zainab.
03:04 Are you well?
03:05 Yes, Zainab.
03:06 And with her, the next guest, the person who is a bright personality, Asma Hassan, Inshallah, she will also speak very well about her mother. Let's welcome her.
03:17 Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu.
03:19 Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu.
03:20 Asma, are you well?
03:21 Alhamdulillah.
03:22 You are also welcomed in my identity, you are also welcomed, Asma.
03:26 When we study the personality of the saints, we come to know that the mothers of the saints, how they have raised their children, their personality, their trust, their sacrifices, what will you say about those women?
03:45 Thank you, Zainab. Today you are talking about great mothers. So, the flowers of faith, the sight of love, the flowers of love and loyalty,
03:58 What is it?
03:59 The names of those great mothers who have raised their children in such a way that they are called the books of time, the leaders of the saints and the leaders of the saints.
04:13 And they have raised their children in such a way that for the sake of the high status of Islam, they have sacrificed everything and made their religion and their parents proud.
04:26 See, the status of a mother, Zainab, is not only for the sake of importance, but for the sake of giving birth to a child.
04:35 See, Zainab, after giving birth to a child, its mission, its work, its duty begins.
04:42 A mother is a school, a training ground for a child, a mother's form is a symbol of love, compassion, sympathy and loyalty for her child.
04:53 And the great mothers who have raised their children in such a way that they have benefited from this training and have benefited from this training and have made their religion proud.
05:06 I will talk about the mother of the books of time, Sharukh-ud-Din Alam, Bibi Rasti Sahiba, and will present the exposition of the faith that you were a Hafizah, Hafiz-e-Quran.
05:20 She used to finish a Quran every day and used to feed her child with milk after ablution.
05:28 And when she used to put the child to sleep, she used to sing lullabies of the Quran.
05:36 And because of the zeal of righteousness and piety, she was called Rab-e-Asr.
05:41 When you were in your mother's womb, Bahauddin Zakaria saw the moon of Eid and saluted you and stood up and expressed his surprise.
05:52 Bahauddin Zakaria said that this is not your honor, it is of your son who is in your womb and will be the light and the source of my family.
06:02 When Sharukh-ud-Din Alam was seven years old, he started performing the five daily prayers, Nawafil, Ishraq, Shaa, and all other prayers.
06:11 When he was a child, he went to the mosque and started making separate lines of the heavens and hell.
06:19 As soon as Bahauddin Zakaria saw this, he spread his shoes and hugged him from his chest and said, "Son, it is a sin to reveal the secrets of Allah."
06:29 When he was four years old, Bahauddin Zakaria's head was put on his head and his mother scolded him.
06:38 He said, "Don't say anything to him, he deserves it."
06:42 And he put the head of Zakaria on his head.
06:45 Similarly, I would like to present the religious doctrine of Khiraj to Abdullah bin Zubair's mother, Hazrat Asma bint Abi Bakr.
06:53 She was a brave woman, a devoted woman, and her faith was her speciality.
07:01 And in every era of her kingdom, she was the mountain of determination and determination.
07:06 When she was 100 years old, her son went to her and asked her how she was doing.
07:14 She said, "I am sick."
07:16 Her son replied, "Yes, a person feels better after death."
07:23 She said, "Son, you are praying for my death.
07:26 My only wish is that you participate in Jihad, that you are a martyr so that I can be patient.
07:32 And if I succeed, then my eyes will be able to see.
07:36 When Abdullah bin Zaid fought against Hajjaj bin Yusuf, he mentioned the disloyalty of his friends to his mother.
07:45 Look at the mother's courage and bravery, Zainab.
07:48 What a mother she was and what a moral upbringing she had.
07:50 That mentioning the disloyalty of her friends and bowing her head in front of the enemy or moving away from the path is not the conduct of the decent.
08:00 So, Abdullah bin Zubair shot an arrow in his chest, Zainab.
08:04 And then time told that Hajjaj bin Yusuf hanged him on the cross.
08:08 When he was hanged on the cross, what a mother's love and passion was there that she went there and congratulated her son.
08:17 And said that the time has not yet come to get off this horse.
08:22 Look, these were those great mothers who raised their children in such a way that history and the world are proud of.
08:31 Subhanallah.
08:32 Sister, when we analyze the lives of the perfect saints and see their lives, the role of mothers is very important in their lives.
08:42 Today we will discuss a few of them, God willing.
08:45 I want to talk about everyone, but obviously there are some restrictions in terms of time.
08:52 If we talk about the saints, the great saints, the great saint, Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani, may Allah have mercy on him, then his status is the highest.
09:05 How did your mother raise him?
09:08 We will know from Asma.
09:10 Asma, what will you say?
09:12 Your mother, Syeda Ummul Khair, what did she raise him to become Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani?
09:19 In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful. Allahumma salli 'ala Sayyidina wa maulana Muhammadin wa 'ala alihi wa sahbihi wa barik wa salim wa salim wa ala.
09:27 Today we are going to discuss the ways for our women, i.e. our role models, according to whom we have to spend our lives.
09:35 We have to raise our children, we have to raise our daughters.
09:39 These are the ways, these are the holy books, which women should study, so that we can also raise our daughters in the same way and then the same generations can be born for us.
09:52 There is a very famous saying in Arabic that if a mother is a school, if you prepare her, then you prepare a whole noble nation.
10:01 That is, the mother fertilizes the soil, that is, she fertilizes it, when the season comes, she saves the plant from the sun and cold.
10:11 So the mother is just like that, she hides all her children from all the problems and troubles in her wings and prepares them for upbringing.
10:20 And then especially today, what we are talking about, and this is the case of Allah's parents, so especially this is very important that we do not only have to train them in the world, but also in the religion.
10:33 What is their connection with Allah, what should be their proximity? What is the personality of Allah, what are our beliefs?
10:42 What are the commandments of God? What right does it have to make us the soldiers of his way?
10:50 So all these things are very important. So we are talking about this today.
10:54 Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani's mother, Umul Khair, is also called, so it comes from her that she raises her children in such a beautiful way.
11:04 That is, we have heard from childhood to this day that she told her son that you have to speak the truth.
11:11 And no matter how difficult the path is, no matter how difficult the circumstances are, you have to speak the truth.
11:16 See their simplicity, see their dignity, see their belief that she is not telling her son that you have to take care of yourself, first of all, your care is important.
11:25 If you do not have money from the world, how will you survive?
11:29 No, she only told one thing that you have to take care of the truth.
11:34 And when they go on the road, the robbers attack them and loot the whole caravan.
11:39 The rest of the people are being asked if you have money, so they hide it.
11:43 But then the robbers do not believe that they are telling the truth.
11:47 So she went to her chief and then her chief asked her, tell me if you have any money or means.
11:54 So he says, yes, my mother has kept so many dirhams in my clothes.
12:00 So then he expresses his surprise that we do not believe in the commandments of Allah.
12:08 And this child told his mother that you have to always speak the truth.
12:14 So how did he believe in this?
12:17 So these are the parents whose past lives we look at, so these are the children of both the saints of Allah.
12:29 So Najeeb ut Tarfain is the Sayyid of Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani, his father is doing a riyazat at one place.
12:37 An apple falls there, it comes flowing, the thirsty is hungry, so they pick it up and eat it.
12:45 Then it is remembered that I do not know whose apple it will be that I ate without permission.
12:50 So you see the extent of the honesty of truth, when there will be people like this, then these pure souls will definitely be born from their bodies.
12:58 So when they go, they travel, that whose is this, when their owner, Sayyid Abu Abdullah,
13:05 It is known about Sayyid Abu Abdullah that he is the owner of this garden, so he is forgiven.
13:12 Then he says that he feels through his eyes that he is not an ordinary person who came to me for an apple.
13:20 So he says to him that you have to take care of my garden for 10 years, then he also decides the status of the treatment.
13:26 Then he says that you have to worship for two more years, then I will think about forgiving you.
13:31 Then after that he says that you have to marry my daughter, that blind from eyes, disabled from hands, lame from feet.
13:40 That is, after stating all these defects, when he gets married, he becomes satisfied.
13:45 Then when he goes to see his wife, he sees that she is very beautiful and beautiful, there is no defect in her.
13:51 That means that the wife is a pure wife, she has never seen anything against the commandments of Allah and the Holy Prophet,
13:59 Nor did he take any step for it, nor did he raise his hand for it.
14:03 So when our parents are of this piety, then our children will certainly be how they flourish in the environment and how they are blessed.
14:12 The most basic thing is that children, that is, first of all we talk about the training of our children,
14:19 Before that, we need our own training.
14:21 That our mothers who passed, how did they train their children?
14:25 If we study their character, then we feel that we can feel how we can train our children and how to do it.
14:35 May Allah give us the ability to read the character of all these mothers who are taking advice from us, especially the Ummahatul Momineen.
14:44 We should read their personalities.
14:46 We do not read because of which we are very much in the same category of ignorance and we are not able to be a seeker in that direction.
14:52 Allahu Akbar, that is, when mothers have to train their children in such a way,
14:58 So the way we saw that all the saints, if we look at the life of all of them,
15:04 When we study, then when we look at their background, then there is a believer behind them, a believer, a grateful mother.
15:13 It is certain that whoever has religious education, such religious training, and especially before birth, if we read those incidents,
15:20 Then they pray with happiness and humility in worship, they ask for Allah's help.
15:26 So the children who are present in their mother's womb, then it is obvious that they are such children who will be known by the world.
15:36 We have to go to a break, God willing, we will return from the break and we will continue the conversation.
15:41 When a child suffers, the mother's breath comes out.
15:45 When a child suffers, the mother's breath comes out.
15:49 But when the mother suffers, then the Zamzam comes out.
15:52 But when the mother suffers, then the Zamzam comes out.
15:56 You are watching the program My Identity and in today's topic, today's topic is Sukhn,
16:02 That is, the mention of great mothers is being made,
16:05 They are trying to present the benefits of faith and the benefits of goodness.
16:10 We will continue the conversation, guests and personalities are present with us.
16:14 Just now, when we were talking before going to the break,
16:18 Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani, beloved Subhani, you were mentioned and your mother Majida was mentioned.
16:24 I would like Dr. Sahiba to be present with us.
16:27 Dr. Sahiba, please say that Hazrat Nizamuddin Auliya, may Allah have mercy on him, beloved Subhani,
16:33 What is the matter with you, may Allah have mercy on him, about your mother Majida,
16:38 Tell us about her, about her patience and piety.
16:42 What was the expectation of your mother Majida?
16:46 Look Zainab, the mother of Sultanul Mashayikh Nizamuddin Auliya,
16:52 Hazrat Bibi Zulaikha, due to her patience and piety and piety, she was called Rab-e-Ahsani.
17:00 Due to her patience, piety and piety, she was called Rab-e-Ahsani.
17:06 She was the owner of the vision, the miracles and the saint of Allah.
17:10 When she wanted to do a task, she would see the result in her dreams.
17:15 SubhanAllah.
17:16 When the time of death of your husband, the Khwaja Syed Ahmed came near,
17:21 she saw in her dream that someone is asking you to either accept your husband or your son.
17:30 And after a while, the Khwaja Syed Ahmed passed away.
17:34 Khwaja Nizamuddin Auliya says that when my mother would have any need,
17:41 she would spread a swing and send 500 times the Durud Baqa Nazrana to the Prophet (pbuh)
17:50 so that Allah would fulfill her need.
17:53 Once her daughter ran away, she was very sad and she immediately did ablution,
17:57 laid the swing and prayed to Allah while crying, so her daughter came home by evening.
18:05 Then you see that after the death of her husband, she lived in poverty and poverty.
18:12 When she had nothing to eat at home, she would say to her son,
18:17 "Son, today we are guests of Allah."
18:20 And then after that, you see that she would sell her income and fulfill her household needs,
18:26 and would take care of her child's education expenses.
18:29 When the time of your death came near, she had completely stopped eating and drinking.
18:36 Her lips would always be filled with the remembrance of Allah and a flood of tears would flow from her eyes.
18:43 When Nizamuddin Auliya said that I came to his service, I greeted him and I did ablution,
18:51 he said, "Son, is it the month of Chandrat today? Is tomorrow Eid?"
18:57 She said, "Yes, my mother, tomorrow is Eid and today is Chandrat."
19:01 He said, "Son, who will you do ablution for next?"
19:04 So I started crying in tears that the time of my mother's death was near.
19:12 I said, "Mother, who are you leaving me to?"
19:18 He said, "I will answer you tomorrow. Today you stay at Sheikh Najeeb's house."
19:23 He stayed at Sheikh Najeeb's house and in the morning, Khadima went and told him,
19:28 "Your mother has called you."
19:31 As soon as he came to his mother, his mother held his hand and lifted him up to the sky.
19:41 She said, "O my Lord, I entrust my son to You."
19:47 He recited the Kalima Shahadat and flew away from Rukh Afzal Ansari.
19:52 When his Ustaz Sheikh Alauddin gave him the order to do ablution,
19:58 he came to his mother and said, "Son, do not worry, I will definitely arrange for this."
20:07 He cut half of the thread himself and Khadima cut the other half.
20:11 She went to the neighbour and gave him the order to prepare the ablution.
20:15 When the ablution was ready, she gave it to her son and arranged for the Shireen to be presented to the Ustaz.
20:22 As soon as Khwaja Nizamuddin Auliya came to his Ustaz Sheikh Alauddin and placed the ablution on his head,
20:33 he placed his head at the feet of the Ustaz.
20:37 Everyone there said that this man will become a great saint when he grows up.
20:45 Then, he saw that the well was filled with water.
20:56 Khwaja Nizamuddin Auliya asked him why he was filling the well with water.
21:01 The woman replied that she was a poor woman and she had not eaten anything for three days.
21:06 The well water increases one's hunger.
21:09 Khwaja Nizamuddin Auliya then started to pray to God and took responsibility of Khwaja Nizamuddin Auliya's household needs.
21:18 He then started to give respect, honour, and respect to his children.
21:38 This is the result of the upbringing of mothers.
21:51 We will now talk about the incident of Baba Fareed Masood Ganja-e-Shakar.
22:11 What were the qualities of Baba Fareed Masood Ganja-e-Shakar that made him a great saint?
22:21 Baba Fareed Masood Ganja-e-Shakar says,
22:26 "Get up, Farida, go to sleep, the time is long, you sleep, your Lord is awake, your father is with you."
22:34 These are the saints whose parents were always trying to raise their children in a way that they would obey God.
22:45 Today, we can see how a mother raises her children.
22:59 Baba Fareed Masood Ganja-e-Shakar says,
23:04 "Give your son in a way that he is your son, but he is your servant."
23:10 "Give him milk, but he is your servant."
23:14 "Give him food, but he is your servant."
23:21 This means that the mother's goal will be the same as the child's.
23:27 If a mother strives, has the fear of God, and loves God, then she will definitely love her children.
23:37 A mother knows how to raise her child.
23:42 This is the same incident that you pointed out, how she called him Ganja-e-Shakar, because she liked him a lot.
23:51 A mother is aware of what her child likes.
23:54 She raised her child with the trust of her child's liking.
23:58 She understood that she likes him.
24:00 Whenever he used to offer prayers, she used to say, "Allah will give you sugar as a reward."
24:06 "You will get sugar, so you should offer prayers."
24:09 Baba Farid says, "Whenever I used to offer prayers, I used to get sugar."
24:17 Once, the mother was very simple, she was tired of doing housework.
24:21 One day, she forgot to keep the sugar.
24:24 As a result of that mistake, the mother is worried that if she passes away, her son will know.
24:32 "O Allah, keep me close to this."
24:34 Baba Farid says, "That night, Allah put sugar under his bed."
24:41 Allah Himself arranged for this.
24:44 Then he says to his mother, "The sweetness of today's sugar is different from the other days."
24:54 "I used to arrange for it, but today the sugar maker has arranged for it."
25:01 When the sugar is from the heaven, then how will it be?
25:07 When the sugar is like this, how will gratitude be?
25:10 This is how mothers used to teach their children.
25:14 They used to forcefully send them to school to learn the words of Allah.
25:18 To learn His commandments.
25:20 This is the lesson for today's mothers.
25:22 Today's mothers want their children to become doctors, lawyers, or other professions.
25:29 They are training their children to be with them in the world.
25:36 In every call to prayer, we hear that the caller says, "Come to success."
25:42 Success is towards Allah's remembrance and His words.
25:45 These are the mothers who used to push us towards success.
25:49 They used to encourage us towards success.
25:52 But today we are free from all these things.
25:55 Because of which there is a disturbance in our affairs.
25:58 So, remember Allah's name.
26:00 Allah is the one who will give blessings.
26:02 You see, Asma is tolerating the distance of her children.
26:06 She is sending them to school to study.
26:08 She is crying for her children.
26:10 Her heart is yearning to meet her children.
26:13 But she is telling her teacher that when she becomes a saint of Allah,
26:16 when her heart is settled in her heart,
26:18 when she becomes overwhelmed with the love of Allah,
26:22 then send her back home.
26:24 Before that, don't send her back home.
26:26 This is love. The love of Allah.
26:28 And to remove the love of children a little bit,
26:31 to put the love of Allah, all this passion is in the hearts of these mothers.
26:35 We have to go to the break. We will be back after this short break.
26:38 Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu
26:40 You are watching the program, My Identity.
26:42 Once again, we welcome you.
26:44 We are talking about great mothers.
26:46 Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani, may Allah have mercy on him,
26:49 his mother, respected mother, his mother, Majda, was mentioned.
26:52 She is sent to the madrasa to acquire knowledge.
26:56 They are travelling far.
26:58 Similarly, Baba Fariduddin Ganj-e-Shakar, may Allah have mercy on him,
27:01 his mother, Majda, was mentioned.
27:03 And I said a small thing in this.
27:05 Somewhere, this incident is also mentioned.
27:07 Baba Farid Ganj-e-Shakar, may Allah have mercy on him, is passing by.
27:10 He is going to the caravan.
27:12 He asked, what is in this? There are sacks in the caravan.
27:14 He is riding on camels.
27:16 So, someone mischievously said that there is salt in it.
27:18 What did you say?
27:19 Okay, there is salt, then there is salt.
27:21 Later, when he goes back to the caravan,
27:23 and sees and takes it out,
27:25 then he said, no, there is salt, so there is salt.
27:28 And there was sugar in it.
27:30 When the caravan gets down and the sacks are opened,
27:33 then when he said, there is salt, so there is salt,
27:36 then there was actually salt in those sacks.
27:38 So, you see, the miracles of saints,
27:40 what is the matter of saints,
27:42 mention them with love,
27:44 salute their mothers.
27:46 Sister, you are present with us, let's mention.
27:48 Sultan-ul-Arifeen.
27:50 Bayazid Bastami, may Allah have mercy on him.
27:52 Your father, respected one,
27:54 with his prayers, with his upbringing,
27:56 made you a perfect saint,
27:58 his upbringing.
28:00 What is that, sister, a special act, a special incident,
28:02 I would like you to narrate that.
28:04 Our sister is listening.
28:06 She stops the calamities on herself.
28:09 Mother, where do I go?
28:11 I am struck by the wings of Gabriel.
28:13 What is the matter?
28:15 See, Junaid Baghdadi says that
28:17 Bayazid Bastami was given that status
28:19 which Hazrat Gabriel (AS)
28:21 has on the angels.
28:23 Bayazid Bastami,
28:25 from his childhood,
28:27 he was inclined towards Allah,
28:29 and he said to his mother,
28:31 and he went in the way of Allah,
28:33 that I cannot fulfill the rights of two loves in a mother.
28:35 Either you ask me from Allah,
28:37 or forgive me for my rights,
28:39 so that I can spend my whole life
28:41 in your service.
28:43 So, mother, you have forgiven him
28:45 for his rights,
28:47 and he went in the wilderness
28:49 in search of the knowledge of Allah.
28:51 This was the state of his
28:53 remembrance of Allah,
28:55 that when he would mention Allah,
28:57 he would first wash his tongue.
28:59 He would sit with the pillars of the mosque,
29:01 and would not spread his feet,
29:03 that Allah is present everywhere,
29:05 and he would not become uncivilized anywhere.
29:07 For thirty years,
29:09 he spent a long time in the way of Allah,
29:11 in the worship of Allah.
29:13 So, thirty years later, a servant came to you,
29:15 and he asked, what is your name?
29:17 You are not joking, are you?
29:19 He said, no, I am not joking.
29:21 Actually, in my heart and soul,
29:23 the remembrance of Allah
29:25 is so strong and strong,
29:27 that I forget everything,
29:29 every name,
29:31 and then see,
29:33 the Prophet (pbuh)
29:35 gave the command,
29:37 go to your mother.
29:39 After a long time,
29:41 when he came to his mother,
29:43 his mother was praying to Allah,
29:45 that O my Lord,
29:47 give my son
29:49 his nearness,
29:51 who has sacrificed
29:53 my love for your love,
29:55 and has spent his whole life
29:57 in your remembrance.
29:59 When the door knocked,
30:01 the mother asked, who is it?
30:03 He said, Bayazid Bastami.
30:05 After a long time, they hugged each other,
30:07 and cried so much,
30:09 that even the angels in the sky started crying.
30:11 They saw that she touched her son
30:13 and loved him so much.
30:15 Bayazid Bastami thought,
30:17 that this is the demand of life.
30:19 When he went to the doctor,
30:21 he found out that
30:23 his life was wasted
30:25 in your remembrance.
30:27 It was a cold night.
30:29 Bayazid Bastami's mother
30:31 asked for water from him.
30:33 He went to get water.
30:35 There was no water in the pot,
30:37 so he brought water from the tap.
30:39 His mother got shocked.
30:41 She stood there with a glass of water
30:43 all night.
30:45 When she woke up in the morning,
30:47 she said, son, you didn't go.
30:49 He said,
30:51 mother, I didn't go
30:53 because you didn't call me.
30:55 I didn't wake you up
30:57 so that you don't sleep badly.
30:59 His mother cried
31:01 and prayed to Allah,
31:03 O my Lord,
31:05 give my son,
31:07 a high position in the religion
31:09 and the world.
31:11 Bayazid Bastami said,
31:13 I spent my life in the jungles
31:15 and the deserts,
31:17 but the Lord gave me
31:19 all the blessings of the religion
31:21 and the world
31:23 in the service of my mother
31:25 and gave me a high status.
31:27 The Prophet (pbuh) said,
31:29 the one who prays five times a day,
31:31 prostrates to Allah,
31:33 performs Hajj,
31:35 performs Zakat,
31:37 but his prayers,
31:39 fasting, Hajj, Zakat, Sadqa,
31:41 will not be accepted
31:43 until he does not disobey
31:45 his mother and parents.
31:47 Today is the day of the greatness of mothers.
31:49 May Allah give us
31:51 and the new generation
31:53 the opportunity to serve
31:55 their parents.
31:57 May we not be in front of them
31:59 and may they pray for us.
32:01 Allah is Great.
32:03 I don't want to end this program
32:05 but it is a beautiful
32:07 discourse.
32:09 Let's talk about
32:11 Hazrat Uwais-e-Qarani (r.a)
32:13 and the spiritual
32:15 relationship and
32:17 love.
32:19 Hazrat Uwais-e-Qarani (r.a)
32:21 and the love
32:23 between his mother
32:25 and him.
32:27 The love and
32:29 the blessings
32:31 that he received.
32:33 Let's talk about it.
32:35 In the name of Allah, the most Gracious, the most Merciful.
32:37 The discussion about
32:39 Hazrat Uwais-e-Qarani (r.a)
32:41 is also called Imam-ul-Ashiqeen.
32:43 He had a great love
32:45 for the Prophet (pbuh).
32:47 Similarly,
32:49 the Prophet (pbuh)
32:51 told Hazrat Umme Farooq
32:53 about his
32:55 situation.
32:57 He emphasized that
32:59 the best of all followers
33:01 is a man named
33:03 Uwais. He has a weak mother.
33:05 He has a sign of a rainbow on his hand.
33:07 When you meet him,
33:09 pray for my Ummah.
33:11 The love for the Prophet (pbuh)
33:13 is because of his mother.
33:15 His mother
33:17 loved the Prophet (pbuh)
33:19 a lot.
33:21 Because of this,
33:23 she gave him love.
33:25 - You loved your mother.
33:27 - Because of this love,
33:29 Hazrat Uwais-e-Qarani (r.a)
33:31 was called
33:33 Mustajab-ul-Dawah.
33:35 - SubhanAllah.
33:37 - You want to add something.
33:39 - As long as
33:41 Uwais-e-Qarani lived,
33:43 he spent his whole life
33:45 serving his mother.
33:47 Despite the
33:49 intense longing
33:51 for the Prophet (pbuh),
33:53 he could not visit
33:55 his mother.
33:57 He spent his whole life
33:59 serving his mother.
34:01 The Prophet (pbuh)
34:03 saw his obedience and said,
34:05 "Uwais, you think
34:07 visiting is a form of
34:09 obedience. But no,
34:11 there is no form of
34:13 obedience."
34:15 This respect and esteem
34:17 is only for serving your mother.
34:19 Baba Farid Shakarganj
34:21 said to his mother,
34:23 "I have never missed
34:25 Tahajjud prayer."
34:27 His mother said, "How could
34:29 you miss Tahajjud prayer?
34:31 I have never fed you
34:33 milk without ablution."
34:35 When mothers are like this,
34:37 sons are like Baba Farid
34:39 Shakarganj or Uwais-e-Qarani.
34:41 Hazrat Musa (a.s)
34:43 decided to go in the evening.
34:45 He stopped on the way.
34:47 He said, "O Musa,
34:49 behind this mountain,
34:51 a man is worshipping us.
34:53 He is prostrating to us.
34:55 He is reciting our name.
34:57 Go and take a ride from him."
34:59 When Hazrat Musa (a.s)
35:01 went behind the mountain,
35:03 a man was reciting his name.
35:05 As soon as he lifted his head,
35:07 Hazrat Musa (a.s) said,
35:09 "I want a ride to go there."
35:11 The man pointed towards the sky
35:13 and said, "O you
35:15 pieces of clay, come and sit on the ground."
35:17 Hazrat Musa (a.s)
35:19 took the man on his back
35:21 and went to his destination.
35:23 Hazrat Musa (a.s)
35:25 reached his destination.
35:27 He was taken to Darbar-e-Ilahi.
35:29 He was asked, "Tell me,
35:31 why did this man get this
35:33 status, this honour?"
35:35 Hazrat Musa (a.s) said,
35:37 "My Lord, only You know Your wisdom."
35:39 He was taken to Darbar-e-Ilahi.
35:41 While dying, this man
35:43 fulfilled a small wish of his mother.
35:45 If this man had said,
35:47 "If You turn the earth to the sky,
35:49 I would have turned the earth to the sky."
35:51 Allah is the Greatest.
35:53 Allah is the Greatest.
35:55 May Allah enable us all to serve
35:57 our parents and to obey them.
35:59 Because under the feet of a mother,
36:01 there is a door of heaven
36:03 and a door of heaven for a father.
36:05 Subhanallah, Subhanallah.
36:07 Now, look,
36:09 Hazrat Uwais-e-Qarani (a.s)
36:11 was given this status.
36:13 And you,
36:15 may Allah bless you,
36:17 became a complete saint.
36:19 You served your mother so much.
36:21 And there are many incidents
36:23 which are recorded in history.
36:25 When we study the life of
36:27 the saints,
36:29 we find many such incidents.
36:31 And I don't feel like ending this program.
36:33 But it is time to say goodbye.
36:35 Thank you very much for coming.
36:37 Asma, you come.
36:39 Thank you very much for coming.
36:41 And I would like to say that
36:43 we are talking about such a great
36:45 and a great example of
36:47 upbringing.
36:49 And I feel a little sad
36:51 and a little sad that
36:53 we have lost our mothers.
36:55 We have not been able to
36:57 bring up our children
36:59 because of whom
37:01 they have been given
37:03 such a great status.
37:05 We are not able to
37:07 obey our parents.
37:09 We are not able to bring up our children.
37:11 We are not able to bring up our children.
37:13 It is time to say goodbye.
37:15 There is no time limit.
37:17 I, Syeda Zainab,
37:19 will take your leave.
37:21 May Allah protect you.

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