WHEN Sara and Matt previously featured on truly, Sara had been banned from their children’s sports games because of what she does for a living. The mother-of-four is an adult content creator and since the previous episode, things have not improved. Sara said: “The judgement has… Gotten worse because people knew they could do things to our family and it affect our kids.” They have made the decision to move not just to another city, but another state - to Las Vegas. Matt said: “We’re removing ourselves from this situation and we’re going to try to move somewhere where it’s not such a big deal - it’s not the talk of the town.” The former hair salon owner started creating content in 2020 and now makes approximately $50,000 a month. Matt helps Sara create content and manages her schedule - together the couple ‘manage chaos’ of the household together. Their children know Sara is a model and influencer but not the full extent of her work. Sara said: “Our children don’t know exactly what we do for a living, I would say that they have an idea. We have been very secretive in, I guess, sheltering them.”
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00:00We get judged for what I do for a living, so we're moving states
00:03Some examples of what people have said to us are that I'm a bad mom or my husband
00:09Has to deal with so much. What do you think? I love it. It was my idea to start creating adult content
00:21Keeps me nimble
00:23Know what you do for your living. How do you explain it?
00:27Welcome to our home. We're in the process of moving. So excuse the boxes, but come on in
00:33So while I'm packing I found so many things that like I didn't remember I had or thought I'd lost
00:39I
00:49I'm Sarah Blake, and I'm an adult content creator. I'm Matt cheek, and I'm a house husband slash manager
00:56We have four kids
00:58Chandler is 11 Camden is 10 Cory just turned 8 and Carson is 4
01:03we got rid of most of everything like all of our furniture and we like we gave it away and
01:09We're starting over
01:11All right, I think we are almost ready for Vegas
01:15So in our past episode we were banned from our kids football organization. I'm an only fans model
01:21I was banned from my kids football games their cheerleading games because
01:27What I do for a living once everybody knew it was free game to ban us from one thing
01:32They started banning us from everything. It's a huge reason why we're getting out of here and going somewhere
01:39Where hopefully those things don't happen
01:42the judgment has I think it's
01:45Gotten worse because people knew they could do things to our family and it affect our kids. I started creating adult content in
01:532020 so now for four years
01:56Whose idea was it to start creating
01:59It was Matt's idea. He wanted to see me naked all the time
02:02No, just it was my idea to start creating adult content, but it came from your social media fans
02:09We're like people asked for it. Yeah this and then so we kind of started looking into it and she's like
02:14Are you cool with that? And I'm like down with that. I
02:18I
02:20Am getting ready to shoot content, so I'm doing my makeup just touching it up
02:25Are you doing like swimsuit stuff today or bedroom stuff or the stress on the dresses?
02:31Okay. Okay. I have this one
02:36Yeah, yes, okay. I'm gonna go put this on and I will be right back
02:43How do you help Sarah with her content we have like a shared app where we do our schedules and everything
02:49I'll fill it out every day like, you know work out come home
02:53Planning time with me as soon as she gets the messages or wherever people requesting whatever. She'll tell me I'll put that in the calendar
03:00Hey, you have to do this at this time or you have to have this done by that time. What do you think? I
03:07Love it. I love it. Yeah
03:12The texture is nice. Are you ready?
03:15for to get some good angles
03:18Every day is a lesson in photo angles
03:23Okay, let me see
03:25So see this is the hard part for me
03:27I gotta watch this and see these angles and that not up top right there, but below on that one
03:38Do you find yourself in these positions often?
03:40It keeps me keeps me nimble, you know
03:44making adult content makes me feel empowered because it gives me the freedom to be a better mom a better wife and
03:51Making content that is so in tune with your body and things of that nature. It's just powerful monthly
03:58I make about 50 grand. So
04:00Despite the judgment we face
04:01I still continue to do this work because this is what puts food on the table
04:06And I think it's absolutely insane to think that somebody would quit their job because other people are uncomfortable with it
04:13Normally, I'm cooking something for the kids
04:15But since we're moving and we've got so much going on
04:18There's not a lot of time for that today dishes and everything are packed up. So we're having some pizza today cam Chandler
04:24Come here. Get your stuff
04:26Camden Carsey we walk. Come here, buddy
04:33Be careful
04:35So our roles in the household are managing chaos together
04:45We share the household chores, I probably do the majority but
04:52She's better at it than I am
04:56At being a house person
04:59Okay, who wants a brownie I just happen to be the one that has the time so I'm kind of taking on that role
05:08So who's the better cook mom or dad
05:19Yeah, I'd say it's probably split 50-50
05:25What does it taste like
05:29I
05:32Agree but
05:37Our children don't
05:39Know exactly what we do for a living. I would say that they have an idea
05:44We've been very secretive in that I guess
05:49Sheltering them because we do do this for a living. We know what's out there on social media
05:53We know how it can impact them in a negative way because of how society
06:00Portrays us. So what does your mom do for work?
06:03She's a model what she does for work is she is a tick-tock Instagram Facebook
06:10Twitter or X whatever you want to call it
06:14Influencer, I don't really worry that this has negatively impacted my children because they've taken parts of my job
06:21Not the adult stuff, but my daughter helps put together outfits for tick-tocks for me and she'll take pictures of me
06:28All right, guys. What are we doing on Friday?
06:35Well three days for the drive
06:41We're gonna have a cool car
06:44Dad got a TV mom got books
06:47There
06:49Is a huge stigma surrounding what I do for a living and it's directly
06:55Targeted at the woman
06:56there are so many men creators that don't have to deal with the things that I have to deal with as a mother as a
07:01Woman as a wife and me for one. Yeah, we're both
07:06Involved in it. Nobody treats me differently, but they treat her differently
07:09I feel like I've been judged by this community for what I do for a living
07:13Some examples of what people have said to us are that I'm seeking attention
07:18That I'm a bad mom or my husband has to deal with so much because I do this for a living
07:24Well, what did you expect? Of course your kids are gonna get picked on for you doing that
07:28How about you teach your kid as a society all of us not to pick on anybody for anything?
07:34Let's not bully people. We're doing this to spend time with our kids and to be better parents less stressed financially
07:41We can provide for them better
07:42We're removing ourselves from this situation and we're gonna try to move somewhere where it's not such a big deal
07:49It's not the talk of the town. You know, I mean, I hope the move to Las Vegas brings us happiness. Peace opportunity a
07:56Way to have all of our dreams come true and and the kids to be more happy. Well said I
08:03I
08:05Am so pumped up about this move. I am excited. I cannot wait. I'll be excited when we hit the road
08:11I don't see any changes to my career. We just got to invest in great doctors great surgeons
08:18Then you won't be in the granny category. Oh, yeah. Well, I could be a hot granny hot young granny cougar, you know
08:27Okay
08:32You