Aired (May 7, 2024): Ni-reveal ni Christine na dahil sa paulit-ulit na cheating incidents ni Nico ay tuluyang natuldukan ang kanilang relasyon. #GMANetwork
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00:00What was the reason? You said it so beautifully, but what was it that was broken?
00:08You go first.
00:10She was the one who broke it.
00:11I remember the eruption in her.
00:14The way you were trying to stop the energy.
00:17Okay.
00:19You were the one who broke it.
00:21You go first, Bella.
00:22She broke everything.
00:25What? How did she break it?
00:26She broke my life, that's why I told her to stop.
00:30Was there a clue when you said you went crazy?
00:35Because at that time, I realized that I gave too much love to this person.
00:44I didn't live for myself anymore.
00:47So I know, I admit that when we are apart, I will suffer more.
00:53So I gave too much.
00:56Let's say, chances, I gave a lot of chances also.
01:01And then, suddenly...
01:03Chances of what?
01:05Like, sometimes we have misunderstandings.
01:10We have those things, especially in work.
01:13So that's what triggered for both of us.
01:17That's why we broke up.
01:18Because it's so hard for me to balance my work and being in a relationship.
01:27I had a hard time at that time.
01:29And I couldn't give her time.
01:31And then, she's always out of town, out of the country.
01:34No, it's not about giving her chances.
01:37You're the one who doesn't have time.
01:38No.
01:39I want to understand.
01:40I gave her too much.
01:42I gave her a lot of chances.
01:44Where? Just the context.
01:47Because you're the one who doesn't have time because you have work.
01:55I gave him a lot of chances to become a better person everyday.
01:59What does it do?
02:01Was he cheating?
02:03I...
02:08It came to the point that he's like that.
02:10He's like that, yeah.
02:13He cheated a lot of times.
02:14Then you forgave him.
02:15Then you forgave him again.
02:16Then you forgave him again.
02:17Yeah.
02:18Yeah.
02:20Sorry.
02:24I just...
02:27I don't know.
02:28Because I genuinely love him.
02:31And he knows that.
02:33And he knows that...
02:37He was my first boyfriend also.
02:39I gave everything to him.
02:40And...
02:42I was like...
02:44I gave him a lot of chances because I just want him to feel also that there's one person that can truly love him.
02:51You know what I mean?
02:53That he doesn't have to look for someone else.
02:56Because he was the one who told me that he had failed relationships before.
03:01And I don't want him to experience that again anymore.
03:05I just want to give him hope that he can truly love someone.
03:11Like genuinely.
03:13He doesn't have to look for someone else.
03:17That's the most painful.
03:19Yeah.
03:20That's why you're slowly letting go.
03:23Yes.
03:24Sorry I have to say this.
03:27It's okay.
03:29Yeah.
03:31She said it's okay.
03:32She said it's just for later.
03:35Oh...
03:38Christine?
03:39If you just need a tissue...
03:46Why are you looking for a tissue?
03:47Get one and pass, the teacher said.
03:51Nico?
03:52Get one and pass.
03:53It's tiring.
03:54In life in general, it's tiring to give chances.
04:02It's like you're just wasting the chance.
04:07There are people who need that chance more.
04:10You're just going to give it to them.
04:14We shouldn't take chances from other people.
04:17But sometimes you can say,
04:19He's just saving the chance.
04:22The chance I give is already an abuse.
04:25That's why there are people who are already good.
04:28I'm just giving myself a chance instead of them.
04:31That's a good term.
04:32You're just saving the chance.
04:35Yes, because it's an abuse.
04:37It's an abuse.
04:38And then...
04:40You wasted the chance.
04:42Sometimes, instead of appreciating goodness,
04:46it's an abuse.
04:49Saved.
04:50Yes.
04:51That's why your kindness is saved.
04:53Goodness should be replaced by goodness.
04:56But instead of replacing goodness with goodness,
04:59it's an abuse.
05:00Because you wasted it.
05:02You didn't appreciate it.
05:04You didn't take care of it.
05:06That's how it is.
05:08What can you say about that, Nico?
05:10You suddenly became quiet.
05:12Yes.
05:14It's hard.
05:15Actually, I'm a bit speechless here.
05:17But...
05:18What can I add to what he said?
05:22It's hard to...
05:23What does it feel like when you're not given another chance?
05:27For example, you're used to being given a chance, right?
05:30Yes.
05:31And then you're like,
05:32Oh, it's the last chance.
05:34When you didn't expect it.
05:35You thought there's more.
05:37I don't want to make excuses.
05:39I'm not going to stand here and make excuses.
05:41But relationships aren't black and white.
05:44There's lots of grays and different colors.
05:47So, a lot of things happen in a relationship.
05:50Our relationship isn't perfect.
05:52There are times when we separated.
05:55Then we got back together.
05:56Then we got back together again.
05:57And so on.
05:58Again and again.
05:59So, it's not perfect.
06:02I'm not perfect.
06:05I have a lot of mistakes in my life.
06:07And I'm sure anybody that's watching this,
06:09they also have mistakes.
06:11So...
06:13That's all.
06:15Unfortunately, I failed in this relationship.
06:21Yeah.
06:24That's all I have to say.
06:27That's why you chose to be alone instead of being with someone.
06:32But you can feel that it's not good anymore.
06:37Is this traumatic for you?
06:38Is that traumatic for you?
06:40First, then...
06:41First.
06:42How many times did you get hurt?
06:45Not really.
06:46So, maybe I needed to feel this pain for me to grow also.
06:51And for me,
06:52to see that in every relationship,
06:56it's not always happy.
06:59Or you will always feel happy.
07:01So, for me, I would say that this relationship isn't traumatic.
07:05But I learned a lot from it.
07:17I'm not perfect.
07:18I'm not perfect.
07:19I'm not perfect.
07:20I'm not perfect.
07:21I'm not perfect.
07:22I'm not perfect.
07:23I'm not perfect.
07:24I'm not perfect.
07:25I'm not perfect.
07:26I'm not perfect.
07:27I'm not perfect.
07:28I'm not perfect.
07:29I'm not perfect.
07:30I'm not perfect.
07:31I'm not perfect.
07:32I'm not perfect.
07:33I'm not perfect.
07:34I'm not perfect.
07:35I'm not perfect.
07:36I'm not perfect.
07:37I'm not perfect.
07:38I'm not perfect.
07:39I'm not perfect.
07:40I'm not perfect.
07:41I'm not perfect.
07:42I'm not perfect.
07:43I'm not perfect.
07:44I'm not perfect.