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Ngọc là con gái út trong gia đình 7 anh em, mẹ Ngọc đơn thân nuôi 7 anh chị em, Ngọc thương mẹ rất nhiều. Dù có nhiều bạn nam theo đuổi nhưng mẹ không đồng ý, mẹ chọn anh hàng xóm làm con rể vì tự đánh giá tốt. Ngọc nghe mẹ lấy chồng dù không yêu. 5 năm đầu còn vui vẻ với chồng, hi vọng cuộc hôn nhân tốt đẹp với mong muốn "mưa dầm thấm lâu". 5 năm sau Ngọc cảm thấy vẫn không thể yêu chồng mình vì nhiều lý do. Sự lạnh nhạt gia đình đẩy chồng Ngọc ngoại tình khi đi họp lớp. Và Ngọc cảm thấy đây là lý do tốt ể mình bước ra khỏi cuộc hôn nhân hơn 10 năm, được mẹ sắp đặt này.
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Chuyện Chưa Kể là nơi mà các khách mời chia sẻ những câu chuyện tình, những chuyện chưa được kể, những lời khó nói và mong muốn được tư vấn, giải tỏa tâm lí. Bạn có thể chia sẻ về cuộc sống hôn nhân (trước và sau khi kết hôn), câu chuyện hành trình tìm con của các bà mẹ bỉm sữa, các nạn nhân bị miệt thì, bạo lực gia đình, học đường, bị bạo lực mạng xã hội. Hoặc những câu chuyện để lại cho bạn một ấn tượng và rút ra được bài học cho mình. Đến với chương trình khi mình chia sẻ câu chuyện mình có thể chọn lộ diện mặt hoặc không đều được. Với sự dẫn dắt của tiến sĩ tâm lý Tô Nhi A, hy vọng "Chuyện Chưa Kể" có thể mang những câu chuyện 'Đặc biệt' tiếp cận gần đến quí vị khán giả.
Ngọc là con gái út trong gia đình 7 anh em, mẹ Ngọc đơn thân nuôi 7 anh chị em, Ngọc thương mẹ rất nhiều. Dù có nhiều bạn nam theo đuổi nhưng mẹ không đồng ý, mẹ chọn anh hàng xóm làm con rể vì tự đánh giá tốt. Ngọc nghe mẹ lấy chồng dù không yêu. 5 năm đầu còn vui vẻ với chồng, hi vọng cuộc hôn nhân tốt đẹp với mong muốn "mưa dầm thấm lâu". 5 năm sau Ngọc cảm thấy vẫn không thể yêu chồng mình vì nhiều lý do. Sự lạnh nhạt gia đình đẩy chồng Ngọc ngoại tình khi đi họp lớp. Và Ngọc cảm thấy đây là lý do tốt ể mình bước ra khỏi cuộc hôn nhân hơn 10 năm, được mẹ sắp đặt này.
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04:21 You have a good eye for work and work etiquette.
04:25 You can judge people by their style, style and so on.
04:29 I have a question. Are you handsome?
04:33 Just easy to look at.
04:35 It's good. You have all the requirements.
04:37 Are you afraid of him?
04:41 I don't love anyone. If I love someone, I will definitely be a bit against.
04:46 Basically, I don't have any feelings for him and I don't know what that feeling is.
04:51 You don't know?
04:52 I want to ask about your family.
04:55 You have 7 siblings. According to what you said,
05:00 you love your mom because she's too tired and suffering.
05:05 Is your mom suffering because she has to raise 7 children?
05:09 Or is your mom suffering because she has to take all the responsibility
05:14 to raise these children under the pressure of public opinion?
05:18 Or is it your husband's or someone else's?
05:21 My mom is under pressure from her husband and father.
05:24 My marriage is also a marriage of 3-4 wives.
05:27 And there's another marriage of a sister and a sister-in-law.
05:30 They love each other but they argue with my mom.
05:32 There are only 3 women in the family.
05:35 But in front of 2 women, it's already hard.
05:37 So I'm alone. My mom is very determined.
05:42 I want to put her in a stable and happy place.
05:46 And the public opinion of the neighborhood at that time
05:49 can make you feel that you shouldn't let people judge this family.
05:53 Women are always in different situations in the family.
05:55 Yes, that's right.
05:56 So you always want to marry a man who is safe.
05:59 Yes, that's right.
06:00 I also had a few contact with him.
06:03 I also felt that there was a feeling.
06:06 It's not love. Until now, I've realized that love is different from liking.
06:10 I agreed to marry him.
06:12 A few months later, I got pregnant.
06:16 When I got pregnant, my husband and I decided to take care of the family.
06:23 It's not love.
06:24 But when you got pregnant,
06:27 how did you feel during the marriage?
06:30 At first, I only had a year of contact.
06:34 I felt that I was fine.
06:37 I was fine and I was better than everyone else.
06:39 My husband was kind.
06:41 He was a little bit arrogant and not romantic.
06:45 We were in the process of exploring and getting along.
06:50 So we were exploring slowly.
06:51 At first, I felt normal.
06:54 After the marriage, my mother gave me a car to sell.
06:56 I sold it and earned money by myself.
06:58 I didn't have to take my husband's money.
07:01 Where is your hometown?
07:02 I was born in Saigon.
07:03 But my parents' hometown is in Binh Dinh, the central region.
07:06 So you got married and lived in Ho Chi Minh City.
07:09 I was born in Saigon.
07:11 Where was your home?
07:14 In Tan Phu.
07:15 You sold it in the market?
07:17 Yes, I sold it in the market.
07:18 I walked for about 30 minutes to get to the market.
07:22 The problem is that
07:23 you got married at 20 years old.
07:26 You got married in a state of not knowing whether you were in love or not.
07:29 You only knew that you were pregnant and you got married.
07:31 Yes.
07:32 You thought that getting married was for the family.
07:36 But I saw that
07:38 the passion and the love I heard in the poems,
07:43 in the movies, in the music,
07:44 the passion of a couple,
07:47 it seemed to be not there.
07:48 Yes, it was missing.
07:50 But I knew that I was lucky.
07:52 My husband was kind.
07:54 So I just got married.
07:55 Yes, that's right.
07:57 But you got married in a state of being in a hurry
08:00 because you were exposed to the society.
08:02 You didn't get married and stay at home without knowing anything.
08:06 When I gave birth,
08:08 I hugged my child.
08:09 During that time, I didn't go out of the society.
08:12 I stayed in the middle of the house.
08:14 I looked at my child, at my house,
08:16 and I thought about my husband and my mother.
08:18 I felt lonely in my own house.
08:22 I felt lonely in my own house.
08:27 During that time, I was alone at home.
08:29 I saw that my husband was kind.
08:32 But what did he do that I couldn't see?
08:35 I couldn't share with him.
08:37 He was dry.
08:38 I've known him for 3-4 years.
08:41 If I said something,
08:43 he wouldn't understand.
08:44 He didn't sympathize.
08:45 He didn't sympathize.
08:46 Yes, for example,
08:47 I talked to my mother-in-law, she understood.
08:50 We were easy to talk to each other.
08:51 But he took me.
08:53 He thought that when he put me in a position,
08:56 he would take me home.
08:58 That was it.
09:00 Even on the holidays,
09:02 I wanted to go out.
09:04 I was passionate about love.
09:06 I told him, "Let's go on a trip. Let's go out."
09:09 He said, "Go?"
09:10 "Go out and play in the dust. It's crowded."
09:13 "Why are you making a fuss?"
09:15 "You're already like that, but you're still so nice."
09:17 Actually, when I got married,
09:19 I didn't like him. He was very stingy.
09:21 But he bought flowers for you.
09:23 Once, he bought flowers for me.
09:24 After that, we got married.
09:26 Actually, when I told him why he loved me,
09:30 he bought me flowers and other things.
09:34 When we got married,
09:36 he never bought me anything.
09:38 There were many reasons.
09:40 But the reason he said,
09:42 "When you see a fish being caught,
09:45 will you give it to him?"
09:47 No.
09:47 I didn't accept this theory.
09:50 "Why don't you go fishing and raise a dragonfly?"
09:53 "Try to raise that fish."
09:55 "Will you keep fishing it?"
09:57 Don't say that.
09:59 The problem is
10:00 whether you value that fish.
10:02 Yes.
10:03 It's not that I asked for it.
10:05 I wanted to share this.
10:10 I wanted to live in a feeling of love and care.
10:13 Yes.
10:14 But his response made me feel depressed.
10:17 I felt like I wasn't welcomed.
10:19 I saw many relationships.
10:22 For example, you broke up.
10:24 You were happy and sad.
10:26 You knew how to love.
10:28 You had this space.
10:31 Why didn't you tell your husband?
10:33 Maybe you were married.
10:36 But when I told him,
10:39 he was angry.
10:40 He would go wherever he wanted.
10:42 He never took me with him.
10:44 He didn't take you with him or you didn't ask him?
10:47 I asked him.
10:49 "Do you think the dentist is near here?"
10:52 "Do you want to go to the dentist?"
10:55 "Don't be crazy."
10:56 He took me as his wife.
10:59 He didn't care about love.
11:05 I realized that I didn't love him.
11:10 Many people asked me why I lied.
11:13 I had two children.
11:14 I loved him. Why didn't I love him?
11:16 There are many reasons.
11:20 It's the same for many women.
11:22 They don't love their husbands.
11:25 But they can live forever.
11:27 It's not just having two children.
11:30 Have you ever thought about this?
11:32 I'm imagining a period
11:34 when you realize you're lonely.
11:38 When you have a baby,
11:40 are you angry?
11:41 Are you angry like
11:43 "I love someone but I'm stopped by my mom."
11:47 "I'm forced to marry a man I don't love."
11:51 "I've never experienced love."
11:55 "How can a woman love someone?"
11:57 "I have to marry him."
11:59 Yes, I was confused.
12:03 I thought I didn't know how to love.
12:07 People say love is beautiful.
12:08 It's okay to be bad.
12:10 I didn't have it.
12:12 I was in this situation.
12:14 I decided to accept my death.
12:16 I accepted my marriage.
12:18 Because my family
12:21 saw my husband was a good man.
12:24 He didn't drink, gamble, or do anything.
12:27 My husband and I were busy.
12:29 We had a son.
12:31 We had a son.
12:33 He was so handsome.
12:35 My mom was proud of our youngest son.
12:40 Who did you accept your marriage?
12:43 My mom.
12:45 If I wanted to divorce,
12:48 people would say "Are you crazy?"
12:49 My husband would say "Are you crazy?"
12:51 "Why did you want to divorce?"
12:53 "Are you crazy to live with her?"
12:55 - And so on. - To be fair,
12:58 we often think we did it for our son or mom.
13:02 I believe you shared with a close person
13:07 that you didn't want to divorce.
13:09 Like you said,
13:11 it was for your son.
13:12 You felt sorry for your youngest son.
13:15 You lived for your son.
13:17 You could have a second child.
13:19 You were proud of your mom.
13:22 You felt you were compensated for your mom's pain.
13:26 It's possible.
13:27 But, to be fair,
13:29 you were afraid.
13:32 You were afraid because
13:35 you were afraid of everything.
13:38 You were afraid of everything.
13:39 You were afraid of people.
13:42 You know it's true to be lonely.
13:45 You know it's true to be desperate for love.
13:48 But these fears,
13:50 you can see them right away.
13:52 They are the external evaluation for a marriage.
13:56 You are still in a high social limit.
14:01 "Oh my god, that family is fine."
14:04 - It's not like... - I agree.
14:06 If it was my personality, I would be desperate.
14:09 I would live for myself.
14:11 But, I had to take care of my son, my mom,
14:14 - my family. - I agree.
14:17 Because, if you were alone,
14:20 you would be afraid.
14:22 You would leave.
14:25 "It's okay. I won't leave anyone to suffer."
14:30 "But what if I leave my mom and son?"
14:33 "I can't leave."
14:34 - "Oh my god." - "Oh my god."
14:36 "How long will I have to live with this?"
14:39 You were so desperate.
14:42 So you stayed for many reasons.
14:44 But you still wanted to take responsibility.
14:48 It's like a way to make your loved ones feel better.
14:51 I stayed until the 10th year.
14:53 - 10 years. - 10 years.
14:56 I was happy in the first 5 years.
14:59 But when I found out that I had to live from the 6th to the 10th year,
15:04 I was desperate.
15:06 I would argue with my husband.
15:10 I wouldn't be as easy as I was in the beginning.
15:15 I wouldn't even let him do anything I didn't like.
15:20 How did he react to your change?
15:22 I thought that in the next 5 years,
15:27 I wouldn't give him any pain.
15:30 He would be able to stand it.
15:32 I would be able to stand it, but he would be able to stand it.
15:35 When I changed in the next 5 years,
15:38 when I didn't have any love,
15:41 he would definitely stand it.
15:43 That's when I had my second child.
15:47 When I was in the hospital,
15:49 my husband went to a class reunion.
15:50 He was an ex-boyfriend.
15:53 [The reason why she was an ex-boyfriend]
15:56 I was an ex-boyfriend in a class reunion.
15:58 I was looking for my old school.
16:02 Why did he have to make such a big deal out of it?
16:08 We couldn't even have a class reunion.
16:13 I want to ask you this.
16:15 Does the coldness in marriage affect the relationship?
16:20 Yes, it does.
16:21 I realized that 2-3% of the time, I would react slowly.
16:25 I wouldn't argue with my husband.
16:28 But when it was a week, I would be like, "I'll do it for him."
16:30 It's the same every time.
16:32 I would be cold.
16:35 That's why I think he had to go through that.
16:42 In the morning, I would say, "I won't argue with him."
16:45 Or I would be sad and not tell him.
16:47 Or I would say, "You don't understand me, so I'll tell someone else."
16:49 "I don't need your sympathy anymore."
16:51 "I'll tell my sisters and aunts."
16:53 But now, I'm bored of my husband.
16:55 I don't want to be emotional.
16:57 I don't want to be emotional.
16:58 Exactly.
16:59 But the psychological need is a need that is almost instinctual, especially for men.
17:04 Now, in the coldness of marriage,
17:06 he realized that.
17:08 This is one of the direct risks that leads to the story that he feels like,
17:14 "I have to solve my problem."
17:15 He would be lacking.
17:17 He would be lacking and he would look for it.
17:19 Right.
17:19 The class meeting could be a situation of explosive jealousy that he couldn't stand anymore.
17:23 How did you find out about his affair?
17:25 Normally, he would hold his phone and we would lie down.
17:28 He would press the button in front of me.
17:29 But later, when it was 10 or 11 pm,
17:34 I would go to the living room and turn on the TV.
17:37 I would press the button and I would go to the toilet.
17:41 I would look at the newspaper and I would see the TV was on.
17:44 I would lie down and press the button.
17:45 I would watch it.
17:47 I would see the message, "This weekend, I'll take you home."
17:52 I would look at it and I would see the message, "This weekend, I'll take you home."
17:54 Sometimes, I would see him after a few days.
17:56 He would have a house with a tent, fruits, like in the Western region.
18:01 I would think he was giving me a gift.
18:04 I would take it home and ask him directly,
18:06 "What is this?"
18:07 He would deny it and say, "No, no."
18:09 I would keep thinking about it.
18:13 I would not love him and I would not notice it.
18:14 Does it mean that you don't care about it?
18:18 Not at all.
18:19 You don't care about it?
18:20 Yes, I know.
18:21 I have believed him for 10 years.
18:24 He is not a playboy.
18:26 When I came home, I would ask him,
18:29 "Do you want to eat mangoes or lemons?"
18:31 He would say, "I'll take them home."
18:33 I would think, "Why does he keep going to the market?"
18:36 One day, I saw someone taking him home.
18:39 I started to suspect him.
18:42 I saw that the girl was in a coma.
18:44 She was in a coma for 7-8 months.
18:47 She was not even born yet.
18:48 She asked me to follow her.
18:53 I said, "No, just follow her."
18:54 That day, I met them at the market.
18:59 The old lady was too hot.
19:01 She was a gangster.
19:03 What do you mean by "gangster"?
19:04 She was a gangster.
19:07 She was a gangster for a long time?
19:09 She was my lover.
19:10 She was a gangster for 5-6 years.
19:14 She was a teenager.
19:17 She was a gangster for 5-6 years.
19:19 My husband hugged her.
19:22 She didn't hit her.
19:24 She was just a normal person.
19:26 She was a gangster.
19:28 She was a gangster for 5-6 years.
19:33 I don't support people who are a gangster.
19:36 But if you need help, remember this.
19:38 She was a normal person.
19:39 She opened the door and said, "Let me go."
19:42 "I didn't hit her. Why did you hug me?"
19:45 What did you get?
19:50 I got a headache.
19:52 What about your grandmother?
19:52 She was strong.
19:55 She didn't hit her.
19:57 She had a weapon.
19:58 She had a tool to support her.
20:00 She was a gangster.
20:03 My husband hugged her.
20:06 I opened the door and said, "Let me go."
20:10 I took a pair of slippers.
20:13 Did she go?
20:14 She went.
20:16 My husband saw it.
20:18 He apologized and brought her home.
20:22 My husband came there once or twice.
20:28 But she was cold.
20:31 You've answered the question about the affair.
20:35 Let me ask you the opposite.
20:36 The affair is easy to guess.
20:38 I haven't asked you yet.
20:40 In the first 10 years of marriage,
20:42 have you ever been afraid of your ex-wife?
20:45 Yes.
20:45 I've been in a car accident once.
20:47 See?
20:48 People often forget.
20:49 People think women are like a stone.
20:52 Women are more sensitive than men.
20:55 But we have to force ourselves
20:58 because of many values.
21:00 We have to sacrifice.
21:01 But we also need to be loved.
21:02 It's a lack of that.
21:03 I haven't asked you yet.
21:04 I'm just afraid that the person who has to leave their marriage
21:09 will be the one who believes in you first.
21:11 But it's true, right?
21:12 Yes, I've been in a car accident.
21:14 In the 10th year of marriage,
21:16 I was a girl who was easy to buy.
21:19 I was on the internet.
21:21 I even had a website.
21:24 I had a website.
21:25 You had a website.
21:26 A man texted me.
21:30 I was curious.
21:32 I had never been in love.
21:34 I was curious.
21:35 I answered.
21:37 When he texted me, I was afraid that he would meet me.
21:39 I didn't dare.
21:41 And those texts were about
21:43 the questions that you had never asked your husband.
21:45 Yes, exactly.
21:46 I thought I was in love.
21:51 You were lucky that you didn't dare to meet him.
21:53 I didn't dare.
21:54 It's easy to meet him.
21:55 So we can see that
21:58 not only the men who are afraid of being in love
22:01 but also forget that they are not like a stone.
22:05 Finally, he was in love.
22:07 How did you feel after the fight?
22:09 I felt like a drop of water was overflowing.
22:12 This was a reason
22:13 in front of everyone
22:16 so that I could divorce and live my life.
22:19 I was sad for myself.
22:20 I said that I wanted to live for myself 5 years ago.
22:23 But I forced myself.
22:25 I sacrificed
22:26 to make this marriage last for 10 years.
22:31 But he did that.
22:34 I said that he didn't deserve me.
22:36 Did you hate him when I tried to force myself
22:41 to keep a good image for him?
22:43 But your husband didn't do that.
22:46 You didn't love him but you hated him.
22:48 I thought that he didn't deserve me.
22:51 Do you expect an explanation from him
22:53 about why he had a relationship with that woman?
22:56 I don't need it and he doesn't need to explain.
22:58 I want him to live for me for a while.
23:02 I want to ask you something.
23:06 Are you happy?
23:07 Yes, I am.
23:08 Because I didn't have a reason.
23:11 Yes, it's all his fault.
23:13 You're so mean.
23:16 Mom can't blame me.
23:17 If you love him, he will forgive you.
23:20 Many women forgive their husbands.
23:22 But you have to wait for a reason for 10 years.
23:25 Yes.
23:25 Now it's time.
23:27 I want to ask you.
23:29 Did your mom support you to divorce?
23:31 No.
23:31 She was waiting for my husband to beg her to give her the money.
23:36 She would tell me to go back to that marriage.
23:39 But luckily, my husband didn't beg her.
23:41 He didn't do that.
23:41 He didn't.
23:42 My mom blamed him.
23:44 "He came here and he came to visit you."
23:48 "He was waiting for you."
23:50 He just needed to show up.
23:51 Yes, exactly.
23:53 But luckily, he didn't.
23:55 I will show him my point of view.
23:57 I won't accept this marriage anymore.
24:00 I can't forgive him for not accepting my love.
24:03 Did your mom know that you were not happy with your husband?
24:09 She didn't know.
24:10 Why?
24:12 She didn't know.
24:13 We live separately.
24:16 When he didn't give me money,
24:20 I would ask my mom for money.
24:22 I would ask my mom to lend me money.
24:25 She would give me money to raise my son.
24:29 I didn't think that she was that kind of person.
24:33 If I could watch this show,
24:38 or if you could watch it,
24:40 then I would understand.
24:41 You still think you are happy.
24:43 Yes, if I could watch it,
24:45 or listen to it,
24:46 I wouldn't understand it.
24:49 I think it's okay to break up.
24:51 It's hard to blame her.
24:53 Because it's related to one more thing.
24:55 If you set up your marriage next to my marriage,
24:58 you would see that my marriage is 8 points.
25:02 Yes.
25:02 Compared to your marriage, it's 2.5 or 3 points.
25:05 It's even lower.
25:06 Really?
25:08 It's better.
25:09 That's the reason why I think you are happier.
25:13 But I still believe that you know how a mother feels.
25:18 If you didn't know anything,
25:20 you would be more determined not to divorce me.
25:24 But your reaction is that it's up to you.
25:28 Yes.
25:28 Because you have decided to divorce.
25:30 And you realize that you made a mistake.
25:33 Why did you realize that?
25:35 First, you are the one who is going to divorce.
25:36 Second, you have to see something in your daughter in 10 years.
25:40 If you don't see the difficulties,
25:43 first, it's about the economy.
25:44 You don't give her 1 or 2 points.
25:46 The reason why I do it, everyone has their own story.
25:48 I still hope that when we tell a story,
25:51 we can see it more in some aspects.
25:54 Sometimes we will leave some aspects
25:57 that are vague about some of our relatives.
25:59 So that we can love each other.
26:02 It's about personality.
26:03 You don't understand.
26:04 You don't say.
26:05 Sometimes you know my difficulties.
26:08 But you don't know how to say.
26:09 The only thing you can show is
26:11 divorce.
26:13 If you follow your personality,
26:16 you won't be divorced.
26:17 I don't know if you understand.
26:19 But I believe that you know.
26:20 But you don't know what to do.
26:22 You don't know how to expose.
26:23 Because you are a woman.
26:26 I don't know if you know what I'm saying.
26:28 I know.
26:29 There are things that parents and children
26:32 love each other so much,
26:33 but they don't know how to express.
26:35 So we misunderstand each other.
26:37 I thought that until now, you didn't understand.
26:39 But if you say you understand,
26:40 God, I'm so sorry.
26:44 For example, I'm miserable.
26:46 But maybe you...
26:48 Maybe you feel hurt 10 times.
26:51 But you don't know what to do.
27:00 If I knew, I would feel more hurt.
27:02 I don't know.
27:03 You are happier.
27:05 Because there is another person who understands you.
27:08 For example, if I say it in the show,
27:10 it's still good.
27:11 But if I hug her, I feel so bad.
27:13 Poor her.
27:14 If I hug her but I can't say it,
27:16 it will stay in my heart.
27:19 If I can't say it, I will hug her all the time.
27:21 That's why we're sitting here.
27:22 Luckily, I can join this show.
27:25 I will be positive.
27:31 I hope my child won't be in my way.
27:36 If I treat my child badly,
27:37 my child will treat me badly.
27:41 Because I had a marriage with 2 children.
27:45 Although I said I didn't love my husband,
27:47 I still have a chance to get rid of it.
27:50 But it's still 10 years of youth.
27:52 It can be a pain.
27:54 And it's not positive.
27:55 It may lead to the story that I'm not a positive mother to my 2 children.
27:59 That's why I want you to understand your mother.
28:02 When you're their mother,
28:04 you learn from her.
28:06 Luckily, you revealed this.
28:09 After you came back to your mother's house,
28:12 how long did you officially announce that you had to stop this job?
28:16 Maybe more than a year.
28:18 One day, he asked me out.
28:20 He said he was okay with the divorce.
28:22 I agreed to it.
28:24 We went to court without any settlement.
28:29 I got the property by myself.
28:31 I was happy.
28:35 I still let him visit my children.
28:39 How did you feel when you officially divorced?
28:43 I was normal. It was a procedure.
28:49 Did you feel regretful or angry
28:53 for 10 years of your life with a person you didn't care about?
28:59 Yes. When I was single, I had more time to take care of myself.
29:04 I regretted wasting my 10 years.
29:10 I said I wouldn't choose this job if I could.
29:15 I was proud of my 2 children.
29:19 You didn't hurt anyone.
29:21 I was calm, not angry.
29:23 I had a wife, a husband, a house and children.
29:27 What is it called?
29:28 A basic marriage but happiness.
29:31 It's not just a picture.
29:33 When you tell everyone this story,
29:36 what do you want them to notice from your experience?
29:42 It depends on their perspective.
29:45 What matters is that they are different from me.
29:49 They don't have to be like me.
29:51 They can love 5 people and 3 people.
29:53 They can experience it.
29:54 They can experience it.
29:58 Divorce or divorce,
30:00 it's okay. I've lived for myself.
30:05 Thank you, Ngoc.
30:06 That's the story of the couple.
30:08 But today, I want to share another message.
30:15 A marriage is about happiness.
30:19 There are many conditions to ensure it.
30:21 We have to pay attention to the family's financial function.
30:24 Especially, love is very important.
30:26 It creates a glue to make happiness.
30:30 Love can appear at many times but it must be there.
30:35 A good thing is that you love each other and get married.
30:38 It's a guarantee to not be insecure.
30:41 But in some cases, you may have to get married.
30:45 Then you can have a special relationship.
30:50 But you have to have a relationship.
30:53 Don't forget that if you want to love each other,
30:55 you have to have activities for each other.
30:58 We hope that
30:59 the things we care about in the family
31:03 are not only the responsibilities
31:06 in a negative way.
31:07 They are also the materials to make up for the love.
31:12 Now, the time is up.
31:14 Good night, everyone.
31:16 See you next week.
31:18 Goodbye.
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