Aired (May 10, 2024): Handa na si Ataska na muling buksan ang kanyang puso matapos ang masakit na experience niya sa puppy love relationship niya sa kanyang ex na si Sandro.
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00:00 Alright, my first question is, what does maturity mean to you?
00:06 Oh, what does maturity mean to you? What does it mean to you?
00:12 Oh no. Well, for me, I think the word maturity, you can define it many ways.
00:20 But if we take it in a perspective of relationship, I think maturity is understanding yourself first.
00:29 Knowing yourself first, what are your values, what are your responsibilities as a man,
00:35 what are your priorities, what are your studies, what are your future goals.
00:41 It's also understanding then, no, sorry, it's cultivating yourself first.
00:47 Cultivating? You're just making it up.
00:50 Oh no. Cultivating.
00:53 Because I think, before you enter a relationship, you should be ready.
00:59 Yes, thank you.
01:01 You should cultivate yourself, you should learn a lot when you're single.
01:07 So that when you're in a relationship, you add value to it.
01:11 You're so beautiful.
01:13 Ladies and gentlemen, take your last look to our candidate from Spain.
01:16 Sorry, one last. It's also about how you deal with problems, how you fix them.
01:24 Thank you.
01:26 Thank you.
01:27 Thank you.
01:28 It's the word cultivating.
01:30 Spell, spell.
01:32 Hello, you even asked me about spelling? Hello.
01:36 I won in what?
01:38 What spelling?
01:39 In volleyball.
01:41 Varsity.
01:43 You know I don't like it.
01:45 Zack, what does maturity mean to you?
01:51 For me, maturity is built by experience.
01:57 I feel like you'll mature if you can, you can accept everything, you can defend all your decisions.
02:04 You know, it's not like you won't matter.
02:08 It's like they'll just be your second opinions.
02:11 You can decide for yourself.
02:13 It's like you're the one who's choosing your own path.
02:17 That's it.
02:19 That's beautiful.
02:21 I feel like they'll mature.
02:25 Chris.
02:26 For me, maturity is realizing that loving someone is a sacrifice.
02:35 It's not all about love, it's not all about happiness.
02:39 You're supposed to choose to love that person every single day, even on the days when they feel unlovable.
02:46 They're all different.
02:49 All of them are valid and beautiful.
02:51 When you mature, you don't believe that everything is just love, everything is just happiness.
02:56 Matured.
02:57 Beautiful.
02:58 They have a lot of different answers about maturity.
03:02 You're tall.
03:03 You're smart.
03:05 What hit you and made you grow?
03:09 All of their answers are good.
03:13 But I'm gonna go with number one.
03:16 Oh, Aaron.
03:20 Because?
03:22 Cultivating.
03:26 It's the cultivating.
03:27 It's very important.
03:29 It's the cultivating.
03:32 Sandro, if you were to choose, who would you choose?
03:36 One, two, or three?
03:37 Based on the questions.
03:39 No, based on your dad.
03:41 Say it, he'll answer.
03:43 You're not going to guess.
03:45 They'll answer.
03:47 They'll answer.
03:48 For me, it's Chris.
03:51 Because for me, maturity is a sacrifice.
03:56 Because you also need to know your needs and wants of your partners.
04:02 Sandro chose a different answer.
04:07 But you, Aaron, will be giving the first green flag.
04:11 Congratulations, Aaron. You have one.
04:13 We have another question for Atasca.
04:15 Yes.
04:16 My next question is, how do you unlove a person?
04:21 It's hard.
04:25 It's a person.
04:26 It's a person.
04:28 Do we have a problem with animals, Atasca?
04:31 He's crazy about us.
04:32 He's crazy.
04:33 You talk to him.
04:34 Do you want us to be maturity?
04:37 Do you want us to cultivate you?
04:39 Do you want us to be maturity?
04:43 We have a cult.
04:46 Cultivate.
04:47 Cultivate.
04:49 Do you want us to cultivate you?
04:52 Cultivate.
04:54 Cultivate.
04:56 This is Kimchoo.
04:58 Why?
04:59 I thought you were a fat person.
05:01 We have a fat person like this.
05:03 We have a fat person like this.
05:06 We have a fat person like this.
05:08 We have a free floater.
05:10 We have a free cell phone.
05:12 This is Kimchoo.
05:14 Anyway, the question is good.
05:17 How do you unlove someone?
05:20 It's hard.
05:22 How do you unlove someone?
05:24 Let's change the sequence.
05:27 Let's start with Chris.
05:28 Number 3.
05:29 For me,
05:32 I believe that you can never really unlove someone.
05:35 You just get used to not having them around.
05:39 That's what I believe.
05:43 That's a beautiful truth.
05:46 Do you believe that?
05:48 He said,
05:49 it's not true that you lose your love for someone.
05:54 You just get used to not having them around.
05:57 That's beautiful.
06:01 That's deep.
06:03 Zach, what do you believe?
06:06 How do you unlove someone?
06:08 Is it even possible?
06:09 I'm under pressure.
06:10 For me, that should be my intro.
06:14 I just started.
06:16 But anyways,
06:17 I'll do it.
06:18 You can never truly unlove someone.
06:21 But there will come a time
06:23 that you need to accept
06:25 they are part of your life.
06:27 But they became a big part of your growth
06:29 but they are not your wife anymore
06:31 at the end of your life.
06:33 So you can't unlove them?
06:35 Yeah.
06:36 You can never truly unlove them.
06:38 Because you know,
06:39 you can't lose your love for them.
06:42 It's just a coincidence that there are boundaries
06:45 because you need to accept
06:47 that they are not the person in front of you anymore.
06:50 They are not your partner anymore.
06:52 There are times that sometimes...
06:55 That's why there's a saying,
06:57 "If it's us, it's us."
06:59 Because no matter how deep you are in love,
07:03 you can't lose that feeling.
07:06 You just don't notice it as time goes by.
07:09 So, there.
07:10 Wow.
07:16 Aron.
07:17 Well, it's something that's really hard and painful.
07:20 Through my experience,
07:22 something as simple as our dates in UP
07:25 where we eat Kwek-Kwek.
07:27 I still do that.
07:30 But you know, the other girls I've seen,
07:33 it doesn't feel the same anymore
07:35 because she's not around, you know?
07:37 So it's really hard.
07:39 The way I dealt with it was
07:41 I am so blessed that I have a mother
07:43 that I love so much.
07:45 I really love my mom.
07:47 She's watching.
07:48 And...
07:49 That's when I let her know everything.
07:52 I spoke to her.
07:53 I did the things that I love doing the most
07:56 so that I get distracted.
07:58 And then eventually, I came to accept the fact that
08:01 well, she's not around anymore.
08:03 She's no longer around.
08:04 We're not together anymore.
08:05 But she's become a big part of my life
08:08 because she spoke to me a lot about it.
08:11 Through the help of a parent.
08:14 She's a good person.
08:15 Yes.
08:16 Beautiful.
08:18 You're amazing.
08:20 Who will give the next green flag?
08:23 Second green flag.
08:27 Secret.
08:28 No, um...
08:33 There's a standout answer from me.
08:35 It's from Zach.
08:37 Because I agree with him that
08:41 that person will always be there
08:43 and it's part of growing up.
08:45 And the experience with that person
08:48 is not something that will be lost.
08:50 You'll get used to losing that person.
08:53 But the love that you had for that person
08:55 will always be a part of you
08:56 and a part of who you are.
08:58 And yeah.
09:00 Okay.
09:03 Congratulations, Zach.
09:05 You received the green flag.
09:07 Is Sanjo your favorite?
09:10 For me, Chris' answer really touched me.
09:14 Because you truly never unlove someone.
09:18 Even if you're mad at that person,
09:20 at the end of the day,
09:21 you still want to be friends with her.
09:24 Chris is chosen twice, right?
09:27 Yes.
09:28 Chris is his favorite.
09:29 Don't worry, Chris and Sanjo will date.
09:32 I'll take care of it.
09:33 And I know where you'll date, Sanjo.
09:35 We haven't met yet.
09:37 You'll date in Balacan.
09:40 Okay. Congrats to you, Zach.
09:42 You also received the green flag.
09:43 Last question, Atasca.
09:45 Okay. My last question is,
09:47 what's the worst breakup line for you?
09:50 Zach.
09:52 Worst breakup line?
09:59 I'm sorry.
10:02 You're not enough for me to grow.
10:08 Maybe.
10:09 It's like,
10:11 we're both trying,
10:16 but we're both not growing anymore.
10:19 Sorry, you're not enough for me to grow.
10:24 Aaron.
10:25 I think,
10:29 something that really hurts,
10:33 when you break up,
10:35 but in the text.
10:37 In the text.
10:38 What line is that?
10:41 Because, through my experience,
10:44 it was through text.
10:45 And it was like,
10:47 you know, I'm sorry, but,
10:50 it's like,
10:52 this isn't what I was looking for.
10:55 And,
10:58 you know, I get it, because,
11:02 over time,
11:03 we become older, we become mature,
11:06 and maybe the girl is looking for someone else.
11:10 So, I think that's painful.
11:12 Oh, it's just in the text, and then?
11:14 This isn't what I was looking for.
11:17 Chris.
11:18 Maybe for me,
11:22 sorry, but I like her more.
11:26 Something like that.
11:27 Because,
11:33 it hurts.
11:35 Because, you became an option,
11:37 and you weren't the one chosen.
11:39 It hurts.
11:42 That's a good answer.
11:43 What about you?
11:44 What's the most painful breakup line?
11:47 For me, you're the worst girlfriend.
11:51 No, no, no.
11:53 Maybe,
11:54 sorry,
11:55 sorry, but,
11:56 I still love her.
11:57 Oh, so you're just a rebound.
12:00 For me,
12:02 K-bye.
12:05 Just like that?
12:06 Capital K, right?
12:07 That's so trashy.
12:08 It's like you don't have a story,
12:10 just like that, K-bye.
12:12 Right?
12:15 Even if you're a big breakup,
12:16 we still want to feel,
12:18 you just need to chase after it a little bit,
12:20 so you can feel that you have value.
12:22 Or, if there's an explanation,
12:24 even if it hurts you both,
12:26 you're both,
12:28 you're both going to break up,
12:29 but it's still painful for you.
12:30 It means you have value.
12:32 But, K-bye,
12:34 it's so trashy.
12:35 It's painful because you said so much.
12:37 You said everything.
12:38 It's like those 10 years,
12:40 Good luck in your career,
12:42 you answered to her.
12:43 Anyway, their answer is so beautiful,
12:45 "Atas ka!"
12:46 Who will you give the last green flag?
12:48 Honestly, I think, Chris.
12:51 Chris?
12:53 Because?
12:54 Because he's thinking of something else,
12:57 right?
12:58 That's the worst thing, I think,
13:02 that's the way I could say,
13:03 that's why he's able to break up with you,
13:05 because he has someone else.
13:06 Okay.
13:08 Because all of them have a green flag,
13:10 Sandro will give you his opinion
13:14 on who you should date.
13:17 And it's up to you
13:18 if you'll accept it or you'll be rejected by someone else.
13:21 Sandro,
13:22 who should Ataska date for you?
13:27 Since all of them have a green flag.
13:30 One, two, or three?
13:32 For me,
13:34 the one Ataska really likes is,
13:37 she likes music,
13:40 so I think,
13:41 who likes music more?
13:43 But,
13:44 She wants to date M.O.D.,
13:45 because she likes music.
13:46 She likes music.
13:47 But,
13:50 for all of them,
13:51 I've been able to base all of them,
13:53 I feel like,
13:54 number one,
13:57 Aaron.
14:00 She's pushing Aaron,
14:01 even though she chose Chris twice.
14:03 Now, Aaron is her last choice.
14:05 Ataska,
14:06 who will you choose?
14:08 Based on Sandro,
14:10 Aaron,
14:11 but you,
14:12 who do you want to date?
14:13 Aaron,
14:14 Zach,
14:15 or Chris?
14:16 I need help.
14:28 Go, Ataska.
14:29 Great.
14:30 One, two, or three?
14:31 Julie is already saying it.
14:33 You have to say it.
14:34 Aaron.
14:35 Aaron!
14:36 Congratulations!
14:37 Aaron,
14:38 and he's the one who's pushing M.O.D.
14:40 That's why, Ataska,
14:41 here are the search results
14:43 that you didn't get.
14:44 Search number two,
14:46 Zach,
14:47 introduce yourself.
14:48 Hi, Ataska.
14:53 I hope you have fun with Aaron,
14:57 and always stay safe.
14:59 Nice meeting you.
15:00 Thank you, Zach.
15:03 And here's the one you didn't get,
15:05 Chris.
15:06 Hello.
15:15 How are you?
15:16 Always be careful.
15:18 I hope you're always happy.
15:22 I wish the best for you
15:24 and your happiness.
15:26 Here.
15:27 Nice work.
15:29 Thank you.
15:30 Actually, our searches are making us proud today.
15:33 Their opinions are good.
15:36 But Sanjo will give a special message
15:40 to his ex, Ataska.
15:42 Hi, Ataska.
15:48 I just want you to be happy.
15:51 I want us to be successful, both.
15:55 And at the end of the day,
15:57 I just want to be friends with you.
15:59 I also got the closure that I like,
16:01 and you like.
16:02 So, I just want you to be happy.
16:05 Ataska.
16:08 Hi, Sandro.
16:11 I want to say thank you
16:15 for being my first love.
16:18 And I forgive you
16:21 for being my biggest heartbreak.
16:24 And...
16:25 Yeah, I just want to say thank you for everything.
16:30 And despite everything that we've been through,
16:34 even if we're not friends anymore,
16:38 I just want you to be happy.
16:41 And also...
16:43 Yeah, thank you.
16:46 'Cause you always have a special place in my heart.
16:48 Thank you, Ataska.
16:49 Sanjo, I just want to message you
16:52 for Aaron.
16:53 Hello, bro.
16:57 I hope...
17:00 If you're going on a date,
17:03 I hope you take care of him.
17:05 And I hope you'll be happy.
17:07 At the end of the day,
17:09 you're the most important people to me.
17:11 So, take care of yourself.
17:13 Aaron, you'll be going to Ataska's back.
17:17 Ataska.
17:18 Ataska, meet Aaron.
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