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00:12:25Hahaha
00:12:26C-Line
00:12:34C-Line
00:12:35C-Line
00:12:36Come on, C-Line
00:12:37C-Line
00:12:38Come on, C-Line
00:12:39Come on
00:12:40Ready
00:12:41Three, two
00:12:42Ah!
00:12:43OK
00:12:44That's it
00:12:45It's not tacit
00:12:47My god
00:12:48C-Line is really funny
00:12:50Actually she also has a new desen
00:12:53At that time, what I saw was that he still couldn't be compared to me.
00:13:00I felt a little awkward.
00:13:12It's intentional.
00:13:14I can't say it's useless.
00:13:16If it's intentional, there's a little benefit in it.
00:13:18But the benefit doesn't necessarily translate into a useful thing.
00:13:23If it's useful, I'll still keep it.
00:13:28He's so rigorous.
00:13:29Yeah, he's really clear about it.
00:13:32Brother-in-law, sister, you go up.
00:13:34Come on.
00:13:36Don't be nervous, brother-in-law.
00:13:38Ready, three, two, one.
00:13:42You're so sweet.
00:13:44Really.
00:13:48You're so sweet.
00:13:52As long as they're like this, the whole circle of relationships is changing.
00:13:57Is this the end?
00:13:59Yes.
00:14:03It's the end.
00:14:07We're so great.
00:14:08From the beginning to now, this is the first time I've had such a good experience.
00:14:12Why does it feel like Gao Kai is drunk?
00:14:15Drunk.
00:14:16I'm not drunk, am I?
00:14:18I'm a little drunk right now.
00:14:20It's mainly because we're already at the end.
00:14:21The victory makes us a little high.
00:14:23This is my best support.
00:14:25Always listen to my sister.
00:14:28I think we can hold on a little longer.
00:14:31I think we can go to that bridge.
00:14:33The end seems to be there.
00:14:36I'm going to tell my sister, if you want to give up, I'll give up.
00:14:39I give up at any time.
00:14:40My sister is really like this.
00:14:41I declare that the end is here.
00:14:43It's the end.
00:14:45We're here again.
00:14:46We're at the end again.
00:14:48Retreat to perform in the art room.
00:14:52Go up.
00:14:53OK.
00:14:54Go.
00:14:55Follow your steps.
00:14:57You'll never be tired.
00:14:59We're about to get to the 4688 platform.
00:15:04This is the highest peak in our lives.
00:15:11Harder.
00:15:13Come on.
00:15:15Harder.
00:15:17It's the last step.
00:15:19Come on.
00:15:22Come on.
00:15:234688, we're coming.
00:15:254688, we're coming.
00:15:34Wow, it's so high.
00:15:364688, we're coming.
00:15:37I'm really tired.
00:15:39Really.
00:15:404688, see you again.
00:15:46Wow, it's so beautiful.
00:15:48Wow, it's so beautiful.
00:15:49It's really beautiful.
00:15:51Actually, it's not that difficult.
00:15:53It's not that difficult.
00:15:54It's the first time
00:15:55I've been to a place like this.
00:15:57It's not as difficult as I thought it would be.
00:16:00What I noticed is that
00:16:02the peak behind me
00:16:04is actually at the peak
00:16:06in a few minutes.
00:16:07Actually, a lot has happened.
00:16:09The top is still a little bit of a slope.
00:16:12The air and the top are all very small.
00:16:14There's a slope.
00:16:16But you can see that there's a lot of pressure.
00:16:19The peak is still at the top.
00:16:21There's a lot of wind.
00:16:23It's a little bit of a slope.
00:16:25It's a little bit of a slope.
00:16:31Let's go.
00:16:32Let's go down, Xinhu.
00:16:34It's easier to go down the mountain.
00:16:40Xinhu, Sichuan
00:16:44Sit down.
00:16:45What kind of dish is this?
00:16:47A big plate of chicken.
00:16:48Tomato scrambled eggs.
00:16:49Potato shreds.
00:16:51It's good.
00:16:52It's good.
00:16:53It's special.
00:16:56Let me touch it.
00:16:57Come on.
00:17:00I'm happy.
00:17:05I really need to drink slowly.
00:17:06I can't drink much.
00:17:07Drink slowly.
00:17:08Then I'll put it on my face again.
00:17:09And then I'll cover my mouth again.
00:17:12Let's have another drink.
00:17:14Have another drink.
00:17:17The three of us have this relationship.
00:17:19One is you guys are arguing.
00:17:21We want to change each other.
00:17:24Liu, they're plain and simple, right?
00:17:28I think this is three different stages.
00:17:31In the beginning, I was very concerned.
00:17:33Both sides want to do it.
00:17:35I want to prove that you are more important in the other person's heart.
00:17:39His attitude yesterday.
00:17:43If it were me,
00:17:45It's hard to accept.
00:17:46I feel bad.
00:17:49Here's the thing.
00:17:50That's what I think.
00:17:55In fact, I think this is related to everyone's way of expression.
00:17:59He may not be the kind of person who is good at responding to you in words.
00:18:05Think about it.
00:18:06If it's true,
00:18:08Like you said,
00:18:09He's like that.
00:18:10He didn't respond to me or anything.
00:18:11How could we have been together for so long?
00:18:13Yeah, I'm confused, too.
00:18:14He asked yesterday.
00:18:16You two.
00:18:17Just based on our understanding of you for two days.
00:18:19Why are you still together?
00:18:21Because of his response.
00:18:24Or his expression.
00:18:26He's not in the moment.
00:18:27It's in words.
00:18:28Everyone can see it right away.
00:18:30It's good to say this.
00:18:32You're pretty good, too.
00:18:33You're pretty good at this.
00:18:36No, it's not about eating or not.
00:18:39Because I wasn't used to it at first.
00:18:40I was like you at first.
00:18:41I said, what are you doing?
00:18:42How can you do this?
00:18:44You don't understand me at all.
00:18:46But then you actually put it as an independent individual.
00:18:49You can feel it.
00:18:53I'm childish.
00:18:54You're not.
00:18:55No.
00:18:58This is because of confidence.
00:18:59Confidence.
00:19:02He's confident.
00:19:03He's confident.
00:19:04He's done it to you.
00:19:05What do you think is the most touching thing?
00:19:10I wasn't with Nanjing before.
00:19:11I have a bunch of band friends.
00:19:13I really like to watch them play the piano.
00:19:17And then there was a time when I often went to the bathroom.
00:19:20That's when I got the phone.
00:19:22That's the video of them playing the piano.
00:19:24He might have been listening outside.
00:19:26And then there was a year.
00:19:28He suddenly sent me a WeChat message that day.
00:19:34He took the piano down.
00:19:35He said, the birthday present is ready.
00:19:37I'll take it down when you get back.
00:19:40I was moved at once.
00:19:44I think what's important is the intention.
00:19:46And that piano was for our income at the time.
00:19:51Maybe he'll have to use his salary for half a month.
00:19:54Good math.
00:19:56I was in Beijing that day.
00:19:59I cried.
00:20:00I even sent him a video.
00:20:09Really?
00:20:12He cried.
00:20:17Did he take it himself?
00:20:19He took it while crying.
00:20:23Oh.
00:20:28And then he moved himself.
00:20:30Really.
00:20:43He's thinking about how he's going to be like this.
00:20:46He sent me a message.
00:20:53He said.
00:20:57He said, don't think others are handsome.
00:20:59In fact, you are super handsome.
00:21:05I think I haven't heard him say that to me for a long time.
00:21:16That's amazing.
00:21:19That's amazing.
00:21:23It was when he was in school.
00:21:24When I was in school, I had a keyboard in my hand.
00:21:26And I didn't want to buy it.
00:21:30He bought it for me on my birthday.
00:21:32Oh.
00:21:34Thank you so much.
00:21:36You still keep the most memorable present.
00:21:42The most memorable present.
00:21:45That thing was when we were 300 days old.
00:21:47He made me a book like a manual.
00:21:50There are photos.
00:21:52There are words.
00:21:55In our 300th day.
00:21:58That's great.
00:22:01That thing was when we were 300 days old.
00:22:09He said a word.
00:22:11And then I returned that word to him at the wedding.
00:22:15That's great.
00:22:16This is really a memory.
00:22:18Memory.
00:22:19Do you think there is a difference between bed and bed?
00:22:24Then I want to say
00:22:26Where you are is where we are.
00:22:35And then there was another time.
00:22:36And then there was another time.
00:22:38And then there was another time.
00:22:39There was a time when I had a surgery on my butt.
00:22:44It's a sensitive, hard to say place.
00:22:46And then
00:22:48He needs to wash it every day.
00:22:51But I can't wash it myself.
00:22:55It's also before the wedding.
00:22:56He washed it for me.
00:22:58Oh, my God.
00:22:59That's great.
00:23:01Oh, my God.
00:23:04That's what he does.
00:23:05You said he washed this butt for me.
00:23:07What can he ask for in return?
00:23:12It was very touching.
00:23:13And it was at that moment.
00:23:14And it was at that moment.
00:23:16It's a very strong idea I want to get.
00:23:19It's what he's been through.
00:23:20Or what he's been through.
00:23:21It's supposed to be those beautiful things.
00:23:23I didn't think he'd do it.
00:23:26I don't think anyone can do that for me.
00:23:28That's right.
00:23:29That's the nature of man.
00:23:31This is the truth.
00:23:34So what I'm trying to say is
00:23:35It's been two days of sleep.
00:23:37This is the state of the two brothers.
00:23:39Maybe more of my problem.
00:23:41I didn't let him
00:23:42I didn't let him
00:23:44When you're in a good mood,
00:23:45It's a good way to show it.
00:23:48He's talking for the other half of him.
00:23:51I think he's a good guy.
00:23:53Maybe.
00:23:55I think you're all post-90s.
00:23:57At this age,
00:23:58Children may
00:24:00I care more about how I feel.
00:24:05Have you thought about it?
00:24:06The needs of the other party.
00:24:08That's right.
00:24:10Put things on the chair.
00:24:13This thing.
00:24:15Me and Mr. Ji.
00:24:16I think
00:24:18This kind of thing happens.
00:24:19It's incredible.
00:24:24Because you know he's next to him.
00:24:26It's where he's going to sit.
00:24:28that
00:24:30After he came up
00:24:32It's you who let him go.
00:24:33Move this to the back.
00:24:36Including us.
00:24:37Let's talk about
00:24:39Playing games.
00:24:42Maybe you think I didn't go.
00:24:45Disturb his rest
00:24:46I went out to play.
00:24:48But what does he want?
00:24:50What he wants is you to sleep with him.
00:24:51I think so.
00:24:54But I also
00:24:56I used to play games, too.
00:24:57I know this thing is very addictive.
00:25:02I think you can teach him.
00:25:04Play together
00:25:05You teach him first.
00:25:06This is more difficult.
00:25:08I'm looking at you now.
00:25:09It's easy to solve.
00:25:12You just do more.
00:25:15Do more for him.
00:25:16Talk to him more.
00:25:19Isn't that good?
00:25:21So you can try again.
00:25:24I think there's a chance later.
00:25:26Or let you do it.
00:25:27You just do it.
00:25:29Or think more about it.
00:25:33That's right.
00:25:34In fact, our fundamental problem is the same.
00:25:37Our fundamental problem is the same.
00:25:39Is it possible to put what he values?
00:25:42Do you value it yourself?
00:25:45Who's like you?
00:25:48What you value
00:25:49People may just want
00:25:50I want my own space.
00:25:51You just want to force it on people.
00:25:53You changed your mind now.
00:25:55Mine is
00:25:56I might be
00:25:57Something that matters
00:25:58Or I took the initiative.
00:26:00Put it in a high position
00:26:02Put it in a high position
00:26:04You actually care more
00:26:05Look at each other's ideas.
00:26:07Yes, I care more about each other.
00:26:09But you didn't do that.
00:26:10I did a good job.
00:26:12I did a good job.
00:26:14You don't go up and down.
00:26:15I don't think this is a big deal.
00:26:16The fundamental problem is actually the same.
00:26:19Right?
00:26:20They're all pretty confident.
00:26:22Don't be ungrateful to me.
00:26:24Don't be ungrateful to me.
00:26:25It's too hard.
00:26:26It's too hard, comrades.
00:26:28Men help each other.
00:26:33I don't know what the boys are talking about.
00:26:35The boys should be making fun of us.
00:26:38They're making fun of me.
00:26:41You haven't had a fight with your uncle all day today.
00:26:43It feels pretty good.
00:26:45Uncle
00:26:46Me?
00:26:47No, uncle.
00:26:48Of course you feel good.
00:26:50You're so sweet.
00:26:51I'm really sweet.
00:26:52Teacher Xu was completely healed
00:26:53by the two of them yesterday.
00:26:56It's just a comparison.
00:26:57I think I've had a lot of fun.
00:26:59Laugh to death
00:27:00Laugh to death
00:27:01I think it's possible
00:27:02Do you need a little space
00:27:03between partners?
00:27:05Space
00:27:06Yes, it's important.
00:27:07But the space is too big.
00:27:08You're like our family.
00:27:09It's a big space.
00:27:12So it also causes you
00:27:14I think the two of you are a little distant.
00:27:17Yes.
00:27:19I think I've changed a lot in the past 15 years.
00:27:22You know, when I was in my 20s.
00:27:25My idea
00:27:26Because I grew up in a very traditional family.
00:27:29A lot of people ask me why I got married early.
00:27:31I can't answer this question.
00:27:33Because when I was in my 20s.
00:27:35People around me are getting married.
00:27:37Yes, the family concept is also
00:27:39They later
00:27:40When I grow up and become a person like today
00:27:41When they asked me this answer
00:27:43I'm embarrassed to answer
00:27:45Because I can't answer
00:27:46People don't get married, right?
00:27:48Because now everyone knows
00:27:49In fact, people have a lot of choices.
00:27:54The two of them can chat together.
00:27:55You can't say you don't chat.
00:27:56It's not cold.
00:27:57We don't quarrel anyway.
00:27:59Like when you first came out
00:28:01You'll see your communication
00:28:02New changes
00:28:04I basically don't see this possibility.
00:28:07So when my brother-in-law said that
00:28:08Do you feel a little relieved?
00:28:11Do you feel relaxed?
00:28:13I'll take this seriously.
00:28:16And then I'll think
00:28:17Maybe it's good to be single.
00:28:21Because I think about it carefully
00:28:22I'm in a marriage
00:28:24We're like two singles
00:28:26Singles
00:28:29Roommates
00:28:31In this case
00:28:32That's the journey.
00:28:33There's a lot more
00:28:34You two can do it together.
00:28:36But I'm not the same thing.
00:28:39It's not like his happiness
00:28:40Obviously from him and his brother-in-law
00:28:41Reborn love
00:28:43Do you understand?
00:28:44He feels like they're back together.
00:28:45Hold yourself
00:28:46He's that kind of happiness
00:28:48I didn't hold it.
00:28:49I'm very polite.
00:28:50Hold me
00:28:51But you think I'm right.
00:28:53Is your happiness
00:28:54Is there a discovery
00:28:55Related to him
00:28:56Re-established this kind of happiness
00:28:58Still have feelings
00:29:01But I'm actually quite sober.
00:29:02I'm actually quite happy today.
00:29:04But I know this happiness is short-lived.
00:29:06It can't solve the problems we face in reality.
00:29:09But our biggest problem is
00:29:11I'm in love with Old Ji.
00:29:12It's painful
00:29:14What do you mean?
00:29:15So you know your first day
00:29:16When you said that
00:29:17I really feel sorry for your relationship.
00:29:21The intimate part between us
00:29:22The intimate part
00:29:23And the intimate part
00:29:24There's no doubt about it.
00:29:26But the love between us
00:29:28Less and less
00:29:29I think the love between us
00:29:30It's already down to zero.
00:29:38And then you know that day
00:29:39Take a picture and cry
00:29:41I think I've changed too much.
00:29:44I didn't think of one day
00:29:46I feel like I don't need a partner.
00:29:50I think this
00:29:52And I think this process
00:29:53For myself
00:29:56This kind of growth for myself
00:29:58I think it's very painful.
00:30:00I've been through a lot.
00:30:03It's a painful moment.
00:30:04To become such a person
00:30:06Right?
00:30:07Sometimes I ask myself
00:30:08Why would you live like this?
00:30:13Today
00:30:14I don't think I can lose anyone.
00:30:15It's actually pretty bad.
00:30:16I think
00:30:17You can do everything yourself.
00:30:19Work
00:30:22I've been out since I was very young.
00:30:24Self-reliance
00:30:26Raising a family
00:30:31Life seems to be
00:30:32It's a big part of the job.
00:30:34You don't have to
00:30:35I think if there's anything fun
00:30:37Friends can be with you.
00:30:41Just say
00:30:44Is it my own fault?
00:30:45I think
00:30:46Is it a little bit alive?
00:30:48A little too much
00:30:49Don't rely on others
00:30:50It's kind of deliberate.
00:30:51Because before
00:30:52You can't rely on it.
00:31:01Like before
00:31:02Our little house decoration
00:31:04The floor in the house
00:31:05It's really good to measure.
00:31:06It's not a waste of money.
00:31:08I asked my brother-in-law to measure the floor.
00:31:10My brother-in-law can buy
00:31:11More than half a room's floor
00:31:14And then the floor can't go back.
00:31:16Always
00:31:17Take up a space in the house
00:31:18Because you don't want to lose it.
00:31:21That floor
00:31:22You don't know when the floor in the house is broken.
00:31:23Can be installed
00:31:25This is a detail in life.
00:31:26But actually
00:31:29It's a big difference between the two of us.
00:31:32My brother-in-law is a little bit
00:31:33It's not like a fire.
00:31:36My brother-in-law has a procrastination disorder.
00:31:37Then I got on a cell phone.
00:31:39There's a little problem
00:31:40He can't do it
00:31:41When you change your mind
00:31:43The photo fell out, right?
00:31:45The photos from the first few years are all in this.
00:31:47I said, do you have time at home?
00:31:48Can you put all my photos in the computer?
00:31:51I want the photos to be very important to me.
00:31:53There are more than 20,000 photos in it.
00:31:55He said, okay, he promised me.
00:31:58And then after a while
00:32:00After that cell phone restarted
00:32:01All the photos were lost.
00:32:03It's gone.
00:32:05My God, how could it be?
00:32:07I asked him, he didn't do it.
00:32:08He didn't do it.
00:32:12It's a small thing, but it's a big thing.
00:32:15It's accumulating day by day.
00:32:17I'm telling you, it's because of myself.
00:32:19All the strong women in my life
00:32:23I can afford it.
00:32:24I mean it.
00:32:26Right?
00:32:27You see, that's what the outside world says.
00:32:28Because you're strong.
00:32:29You have to do everything.
00:32:30I don't have any work to do.
00:32:31It's all at home.
00:32:33Women who bear the burden
00:32:34It's not supposed to be evaluated like this.
00:32:36Because he's doing it for the family.
00:32:38Yeah.
00:32:40Our family is like a tent.
00:32:42I'm the one in the middle.
00:32:46You say a family
00:32:48He has to have four poles.
00:32:49Everyone has one foot.
00:32:51One of them collapsed.
00:32:52There are three more.
00:32:54I'm just worried that one day
00:32:55What if I have an accident?
00:32:57I don't know what's going to happen to our family.
00:33:00You know what?
00:33:01I have two good friends.
00:33:02I told them
00:33:03What if I have something to do one day?
00:33:05You have to help me take care of my parents and children.
00:33:08I don't trust Liu that much.
00:33:10I just didn't think about it.
00:33:11Husband is you
00:33:12His heart must be
00:33:14It's not very responsible.
00:33:16I don't think he necessarily has the ability.
00:33:19Yeah.
00:33:20I think you're in my heart.
00:33:21Actually, I'm embarrassed to say this.
00:33:26He loves you.
00:33:27And whether you can actually
00:33:28Provide a good life for you
00:33:30It's absolutely two different things.
00:33:31Do you know, sister?
00:33:33You're still young.
00:33:34I'm telling you the truth.
00:33:36It's me.
00:33:38It's been so many years.
00:33:39That's it.
00:33:41It's not easy.
00:33:43I don't know why you brought me in all of a sudden.
00:33:46It's really not easy.
00:33:48If I were you, I might not be able to do it.
00:33:51I really can't do it.
00:33:53I think I've only learned one thing in the past 15 years.
00:33:56How do you describe your feelings?
00:33:58I don't want to complain.
00:34:00We don't want to be
00:34:01The resentful father-in-law in life.
00:34:03Who wants to be?
00:34:05Oh, my God.
00:34:07It's just that you can't go on.
00:34:09It's really sad.
00:34:10It's really sad.
00:34:11Really.
00:34:13He's putting a lot of pressure on himself.
00:34:15I feel sorry for him.
00:34:19so
00:34:21Everyone's knowledge and experience
00:34:24It's all from your journey.
00:34:29You can't exchange your life with anyone.
00:34:31You can't exchange your knowledge with anyone.
00:34:34You can only do the best in your own limited range.
00:34:36That's it.
00:34:37Yeah, I think that's right.
00:34:38Just do your best.
00:34:39Yeah, I can only do my best.
00:34:40What do you think?
00:34:41Can we not cry one night?
00:34:43No, we're going to lose our happiness.
00:34:46Right?
00:34:47Don't lose your happiness.
00:34:49Just keep persuading yourself.
00:34:50Look at him again.
00:34:52I can't complain.
00:34:53I can't cry.
00:34:54I'm going to lose my happiness.
00:34:57It's so hard.
00:35:09I'm the one you're calling.
00:35:12You know what I want.
00:35:18Whatever you want.
00:35:25I
00:35:28die every time.
00:35:35I
00:35:37say
00:35:56Thank you for your chocolate.
00:36:06You
00:36:07want me to
00:36:11know
00:36:14you don't
00:36:20you
00:36:25ginger
00:36:27I feel like they're both
00:36:30It's dangerous.
00:36:37I
00:36:39They're both just love.
00:36:50Of course he doesn't want him to help him wipe his ass.
00:36:54It's really
00:36:55You can find a few people who are willing to help you wipe your ass.
00:36:59That's a real butt wipe.
00:37:07I'm so touched.
00:37:09Every time the teacher finishes speaking, I feel touched.
00:37:12Maybe it's because we're the same age or something.
00:37:15I feel so sad.
00:37:17I can understand him.
00:37:19He said
00:37:20I've been through a lot of painful times.
00:37:22That's how I became who I am now.
00:37:27Another sentence is
00:37:28I don't want to complain when I want to complain.
00:37:33Yeah, that's true.
00:37:34Women are really
00:37:35Puffy
00:37:36Women are hard.
00:37:37Actually, we should all be able to empathize with you.
00:37:40Yeah.
00:37:41The father-in-law he's talking about
00:37:43Actually, I understand that, too.
00:37:45Yeah.
00:37:46That's what my mom is like.
00:37:47She's been with my dad for 20 years.
00:37:49There's a lot of unhappiness in the marriage.
00:37:51She didn't tell anyone around her.
00:37:53But she needs to have an exit.
00:37:55She's looking for me.
00:37:56But why can't my mom tell anyone?
00:37:58I understood her when I grew up.
00:37:59She's afraid that people will think
00:38:01She's a lot of negative energy.
00:38:03One is that she's afraid that people won't understand.
00:38:05Well, if you're like this, why don't you understand?
00:38:08A lot of people, when you talk about it,
00:38:10They'll say, well, what are you doing?
00:38:11Yeah.
00:38:12Sometimes you just want to talk about it.
00:38:13Yeah, there's no way to stand on your position.
00:38:18Yeah.
00:38:19I don't know if you've seen the movie, Barbie.
00:38:22And then there's a scene in it
00:38:24It's about the heart of a woman.
00:38:26Women have to be able to make money.
00:38:28But it can't be too hard.
00:38:30You have to be able to support a piece of sky.
00:38:32But you can't make your man feel like you don't need him.
00:38:35You have to be beautiful.
00:38:36You can't admit that you want to lose weight.
00:38:38It's for beauty.
00:38:39You want to lose weight.
00:38:40It's for your health.
00:38:41Anyway, women have to do a lot of things.
00:38:43Society has a lot of needs and requirements for us.
00:38:46But you have to pretend like you're still very gentle.
00:38:49You can't be too fierce.
00:38:50You can't be too good.
00:38:54I suddenly have an idea.
00:38:56Is this something that women force on themselves?
00:38:58No, I think there must be a society for this kind of thing.
00:39:01When I was young, I grew up in the United States.
00:39:03My grandmother would tell me.
00:39:05Women can't have a career, a family, and a love.
00:39:08You have to choose one.
00:39:09So she said,
00:39:10I don't know when I became a person who doesn't need a partner.
00:39:14How did my life go?
00:39:16I was going to get married at the age of 20.
00:39:17I was at that time.
00:39:18My mother told me to get married at the age of 28 and have children at the age of 30.
00:39:22Women have to be like this.
00:39:24Then I asked my mother first.
00:39:25I said, how do you feel now?
00:39:27Everyone is different.
00:39:29You decide for yourself.
00:39:33I'm not saying this is right.
00:39:34But what we're taught here is that as long as you pursue a career,
00:39:38You'll get love at the same time.
00:39:40You'll get a family.
00:39:41Yeah, it's a different education concept.
00:39:43Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:39:44But Mr. Wang,
00:39:45That's what it says.
00:39:47As long as you pursue a career,
00:39:50There must be someone who loves you.
00:39:52But no one has ever told you that
00:39:54As long as a man pursues a career,
00:39:56You can find the one you love.
00:39:58I totally agree.
00:40:01I don't think that's right.
00:40:03But it makes men misunderstand.
00:40:05The most important thing is your own career.
00:40:07Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:40:08And then when he found out,
00:40:10Actually, what he got was not necessarily true.
00:40:12He also found out that even after I pursued a career,
00:40:15It doesn't mean that my marriage will be happy.
00:40:17Just like Mr. Hu said just now.
00:40:18It doesn't mean that the person I like will like me.
00:40:20Yeah, yeah.
00:40:21But you see,
00:40:23It's a different message.
00:40:25Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:40:52Do I look like I'm complaining?
00:40:54I mean, he's not at all.
00:40:55He thinks I'm reasonable.
00:40:56If a girl makes a mistake,
00:40:58She'll blame herself first.
00:41:00Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:41:02In fact, the word complaining,
00:41:03You see, I've only heard of a complainant.
00:41:05I've rarely heard of a complainant.
00:41:07Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:41:08If a man can't stand everything,
00:41:10We think this man
00:41:11Either he has principles,
00:41:12Or at most he's got a bad temper.
00:41:14But I don't think this man has a small heart.
00:41:16No, but this is a good one.
00:41:18And some people will criticize this man.
00:41:20They'll say, why are you like a woman?
00:41:22Yeah.
00:41:23Why are you like a complainant?
00:41:24Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:41:25But it seems like as long as a girl complains,
00:41:27The word complainant is specifically for this kind of thing.
00:41:29Yeah.
00:41:30It's just that he doesn't have one.
00:41:31A word designed for a man who complains.
00:41:35Yeah.
00:41:36A lot of things, even if they exist,
00:41:38As long as there's no word,
00:41:39You don't see him.
00:41:41So the language we designed
00:41:44It's like designing who can be criticized.
00:41:47Who can be asked.
00:41:50Didn't he just say
00:41:51There's a lot of hidden pain in there?
00:41:53He told him to make the floor
00:41:54It's not done yet.
00:41:55He's at home every day.
00:41:56And the floor is in the house.
00:41:58Our house is also being renovated now.
00:42:00And then I am
00:42:01I really don't want to be involved in the renovation.
00:42:04And then I told Hu
00:42:05You can decide what you want to do.
00:42:07It's like boxing, right?
00:42:08And then he is
00:42:09I can decide.
00:42:10But if I decide
00:42:12Something you don't like
00:42:14Don't come to me.
00:42:15This is great.
00:42:16This is great.
00:42:17I said, OK.
00:42:18I said, but if you can't eat this thing,
00:42:19You come to me.
00:42:20If you want the other party to do this thing
00:42:22You might have to take a certain risk.
00:42:26That's what he's doing.
00:42:27Maybe you're not sure you're satisfied.
00:42:29But it's not easy for him to do it.
00:42:31Because you can solve
00:42:32A lot of your troubles.
00:42:34Because you forget everything
00:42:35I'm too tired.
00:42:36Too tired.
00:42:37I think sometimes it's using these things
00:42:39To express my deep disappointment
00:42:40In this marriage.
00:42:42Disappointment.
00:42:43Because he's at this moment today.
00:42:47The two things he thought of
00:42:49Yes.
00:42:50I'm a woman.
00:42:51It's really a stick in the middle.
00:42:53It's so hard.
00:42:55I totally agree.
00:42:56I totally agree.
00:42:57He's crying.
00:42:58The cup is coming from the middle.
00:43:00His tears are spraying.
00:43:04Yeah, he said
00:43:05You help me measure a floor.
00:43:07I'll count you as a pillar.
00:43:10You help me memorize a photo.
00:43:12I'll count you again.
00:43:13He gave you such a simple contact.
00:43:14But you don't have this thing.
00:43:16The stick is gone.
00:43:17The old woman is in the middle.
00:43:19I'm tired, too.
00:43:20Throw it away.
00:43:21Throw that stick away.
00:43:22What does he need this stick for?
00:43:25Melody is completely empathized.
00:43:30But I want to add an angle here.
00:43:32I think there's already
00:43:33A prerequisite.
00:43:34It's like this girl
00:43:36Should be responsible
00:43:37Manage these things well.
00:43:38It's just some responsibility
00:43:40Or tasks
00:43:41Distribute it out to the boy
00:43:42To help.
00:43:43But why do you have to
00:43:44Women to dominate
00:43:45Men should take the initiative.
00:43:46Melody, do you remember?
00:43:47You used to tell me
00:43:48A story about a bull's tail.
00:43:49Yeah.
00:43:50I actually heard that story.
00:43:51There's a lot of reflection.
00:43:53This is the story of the bull's tail.
00:43:55Once I ordered a bull's tail.
00:43:57I'm going to make a bull's tail soup.
00:43:59Because the bull's tail
00:44:00This part is special.
00:44:01It's not that easy to buy.
00:44:03I'll tell the other half.
00:44:06Because I'm taking the kids out today.
00:44:07Wait a minute.
00:44:08The bull's tail in the back of your car.
00:44:10You have to remember to put it in the freezer for me.
00:44:11Or it'll break.
00:44:13Like this.
00:44:14Then I thought, like this.
00:44:15I heard it all at once.
00:44:17Then I found out the next day.
00:44:18I'm going to make this bull's tail soup.
00:44:20I opened the fridge.
00:44:21How to turn it over?
00:44:23Where's the bull's tail?
00:44:24Then I asked the other half at that time.
00:44:26I said, where's the bull's tail?
00:44:27What bull's tail?
00:44:28I told you last night.
00:44:30Do you want to put the bull's tail in the fridge?
00:44:32I didn't hear it.
00:44:33Then I went to the car.
00:44:35I turned it over.
00:44:36The whole car was sour.
00:44:39But you know what?
00:44:40I'm not angry yet.
00:44:41My first reaction is to reflect on myself.
00:44:45Am I not clear enough?
00:44:47I said I came home last night.
00:44:49I should make sure first.
00:44:51You see, this is...
00:44:52I'm not saying it's right or wrong.
00:44:54But sometimes,
00:44:56Natural reaction.
00:44:57Women.
00:44:58We'll blame ourselves first.
00:45:00I don't think I'm doing enough.
00:45:01The inspiration for your story.
00:45:03I thought at the time.
00:45:04I realized I was at home.
00:45:05I'll help with the housework, too.
00:45:07But look at me.
00:45:08I think I'm helping with the housework.
00:45:10Yes.
00:45:11You asked me to wash the dishes.
00:45:12I've already washed the dishes.
00:45:13But maybe there's a pot next to it.
00:45:14Put it there.
00:45:15I disappeared.
00:45:16You used the pot, too.
00:45:19Yes, but you know what?
00:45:20Sometimes my wife will be angry.
00:45:21She'll be angry here.
00:45:23I didn't realize it until later.
00:45:24What's the point?
00:45:25I've always felt like this.
00:45:27It's not my business.
00:45:28So Liu, you know what?
00:45:29Why does he measure the floor?
00:45:30Measure some size differences.
00:45:32I think Liu was at the starting point.
00:45:34He thinks I'm just going to buy the floor.
00:45:36He didn't stand with Seoul.
00:45:37Think in one position.
00:45:39He's trying to save money for his family.
00:45:43Actually, whether it's the floor
00:45:45or the picture,
00:45:46I think this kind of thing
00:45:47is big or small in life.
00:45:50In our relationship,
00:45:51if I can provide other values,
00:45:54for example, when you're sad,
00:45:56I'll make you feel like you're loved.
00:45:58These little twists and turns
00:45:59don't take that long.
00:46:01I even think it's cute.
00:46:02This person is stupid.
00:46:03Yes.
00:46:04But when I see this as a hidden value,
00:46:06it means I can't see other values.
00:46:08So this thing is lonely.
00:46:09It's here.
00:46:10It's a block.
00:46:11I can't get through it.
00:46:12He was so tired that he said,
00:46:13I didn't think one day
00:46:14I wouldn't need a partner.
00:46:16Because he thinks he can do it himself.
00:46:18Yeah.
00:46:19He said he had all four pillars.
00:46:20What else does he need you for?
00:46:22It hurts to hear that.
00:46:24Do you know?
00:46:25Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:46:27So I think Seoul
00:46:28was very tough today.
00:46:29He said I didn't need
00:46:30intimacy.
00:46:32He just said I needed it.
00:46:34Because if he really doesn't need it,
00:46:35then just let it go.
00:46:36He just doesn't need
00:46:37the way of keeping intimacy.
00:46:39Yes.
00:46:40What is the meaning of a new family
00:46:42of intimacy?
00:46:43First of all, let go of men and women.
00:46:45I don't think I should say
00:46:47I'm a man, so what?
00:46:48I'm a woman, so what?
00:46:49Because these are all in the past.
00:46:51Yes.
00:46:52In the current social division,
00:46:54I think everyone's ability
00:46:56has changed.
00:46:58We need to redefine
00:47:00the distribution work in this family.
00:47:02And every family
00:47:04should be connected.
00:47:06Because the combination of different abilities
00:47:09will form a different, diversified
00:47:11family.
00:47:12Partner.
00:47:13This kind of partner.
00:47:14I agree.
00:47:15Yes, and I think what Seoul said,
00:47:17his core actually said
00:47:18what he was most afraid of was
00:47:20Liu, you didn't catch up
00:47:21with my ability to learn.
00:47:22Yes.
00:47:23Yes, I'm changing.
00:47:24Can we change together?
00:47:26Yes.
00:47:27Liu is at a disadvantage
00:47:28because his self-esteem is too bad.
00:47:29Yes.
00:47:30So if he can learn a little
00:47:32from Zhang Shuo,
00:47:33it's useful.
00:47:35I think Sui really loves Zhang Shuo.
00:47:37Yes.
00:47:38Yes, Sui gave Zhang Shuo
00:47:39those gifts.
00:47:40I think she's so considerate.
00:47:42That's great.
00:47:43And Zhang Shuo was in pain
00:47:45and she took care of him.
00:47:47It's really good.
00:47:49Zhang Shuo has to reflect on himself.
00:47:51He recorded a video of him crying.
00:47:52And then he moved himself
00:47:53and cried again in that video.
00:47:55Yes.
00:47:56That's really funny.
00:47:58But what I like about that part is
00:48:00because the girls were also saying
00:48:02if the boys would complain about us.
00:48:04I think at least at that moment,
00:48:05Zhang Shuo made the choice
00:48:06to say the good things he did to me
00:48:08behind my back.
00:48:09Yes.
00:48:10I think I like that.
00:48:11This is the only flash point
00:48:12I saw in Zhang Shuo in the third episode.
00:48:14Yes.
00:48:17But do you have a feeling
00:48:20when you are chatting with your friends
00:48:23and your friend says
00:48:25I don't think your husband can do it.
00:48:27I can't stand your husband.
00:48:29Your first reaction
00:48:30is that you will speak for your husband.
00:48:31Actually, why?
00:48:32It's for yourself.
00:48:35I totally agree.
00:48:36Yes, because if I accept your point of view,
00:48:39I admit him.
00:48:40Yes.
00:48:41I have to say this person is good.
00:48:43I can tell you
00:48:44why I didn't break up with him.
00:48:46Yes.
00:48:47So I think it's a kind of self-protection.
00:48:50But I think this is at least positive.
00:48:52It's also positive.
00:48:53You have affirmed this to Zhang Shuo.
00:48:54It's positive.
00:48:56Zhang Shuo's personality
00:48:57may be more self-assertive.
00:48:59Just like when they were climbing the glacier,
00:49:01Shui Shui has a fake cat.
00:49:02Look, he's here again.
00:49:03If our problem is not solved,
00:49:05he will say something about love.
00:49:07Why don't you compare your love with me?
00:49:08Just pretend to be fine.
00:49:12Yes.
00:49:13What surprised me most
00:49:14is that after he saw that,
00:49:15he cried and said
00:49:16how could it become like this?
00:49:18Right?
00:49:19Don't you know
00:49:20why it becomes like this?
00:49:21Yes.
00:49:22Are you trying to find the problem yourself?
00:49:24I think the two of them
00:49:25may have a little difference
00:49:27in the definition of each other's love.
00:49:28It's not the same.
00:49:29It's not the same.
00:49:30It's a big difference.
00:49:31I think.
00:49:32But Shui Shui should still love him.
00:49:34Shui Shui is really...
00:49:35At least what he did
00:49:36can make him feel
00:49:37that he really wants Zhang Shuo to be happy.
00:49:39He really wants to be nice to him.
00:49:40It can be seen
00:49:41that he is sincere.
00:49:42But Zhang Shuo,
00:49:43I think he still has
00:49:44a lot of good things
00:49:45behind him.
00:49:46I think it's all a little bit like
00:49:47have you seen me being nice to you?
00:49:49He is pursuing this thing.
00:49:50Yes.
00:49:52OK.
00:49:53Let's move on
00:49:54to the next part.
00:49:55Bye-bye.
00:49:59The next day
00:50:09It's so beautiful.
00:50:12Today is the best day.
00:50:16So professional.
00:50:17He is so good at shooting.
00:50:24How can he shoot so well?
00:50:26He is a model.
00:50:28He looks like a model.
00:50:36Honey.
00:50:38What did you call me?
00:50:39Honey.
00:50:40Didn't you call me Shui Shui?
00:50:42Honey.
00:50:44What?
00:50:45Let me take a couple of pictures for you.
00:50:48I learned it.
00:50:49No, thanks.
00:50:50Don't be so polite.
00:50:52Let's talk.
00:50:54Let's talk.
00:50:55It's OK.
00:50:56I just want to talk to you more.
00:50:57What do you want to say?
00:50:59That you messed up again?
00:51:01When you had a fever yesterday,
00:51:02I should have been with you.
00:51:07What's wrong with you?
00:51:08My hands are cold.
00:51:09I have a cold.
00:51:11Do you have a fever?
00:51:12I don't know.
00:51:14Why don't you check your temperature?
00:51:16OK.
00:51:18He has a fever.
00:51:21Ming.
00:51:2337.8 degrees.
00:51:2437.8 degrees.
00:51:25He has a fever.
00:51:26He has a fever.
00:51:28Do you have medicine?
00:51:30Ming will take care of you.
00:51:32I'm going to the bathroom.
00:51:33Then I'll go back to rest.
00:51:36What?
00:51:39I'm shocked.
00:51:40Oh my god.
00:51:50This is a little too much.
00:51:52He has a fever.
00:51:53Why don't you stay with him?
00:51:54What's going on?
00:51:59Is there anything wrong with him?
00:52:02He's sleeping by himself.
00:52:05I admire this dancer.
00:52:11I know you're cold.
00:52:13When you were in the hospital,
00:52:14I was by your bed when you were sleeping.
00:52:17When you had a fever,
00:52:18I took you to the hospital for an injection.
00:52:20I'm so angry.
00:52:21I'm so angry.
00:52:23Why are you not here
00:52:24when I'm sick,
00:52:25when I go to the hospital,
00:52:26and when I have a fever?
00:52:29I didn't do it right.
00:52:30I'm going to improve it slowly.
00:52:33This bastard.
00:52:34You went to the teacher yesterday
00:52:35and told him I was scolding you.
00:52:37Have you ever told him
00:52:38you wouldn't do this to yourself?
00:52:40Have you ever told him
00:52:41when you were sick,
00:52:42I was taking care of you,
00:52:43and when you were sick, you weren't there?
00:52:44I feel like the whole world is playing the piano to the cow.
00:52:46Let's talk about it today, Uncle Zhang.
00:52:49I found that I treated you
00:52:50as a companion,
00:52:52a partner who climbed the mountain together.
00:52:54I feel very calm.
00:52:56I feel much better.
00:52:58You can't have expectations.
00:53:00I don't have to worry about
00:53:01a lot of trivial things.
00:53:04I don't have to worry about
00:53:05you putting on sunscreen because of me.
00:53:06I don't have to worry about
00:53:07whether you're wearing a T-shirt.
00:53:08I don't have to worry about
00:53:09whether you're wearing a face mask.
00:53:10I don't have to worry about any of this.
00:53:12What does he mean?
00:53:14What do you mean?
00:53:16He doesn't understand.
00:53:17Pretend you don't understand.
00:53:18You're a good friend.
00:53:20You're perfect for being with
00:53:21when you're happy.
00:53:23You're not good at
00:53:24living.
00:53:25Right.
00:53:26Life.
00:53:27Let's make this trip
00:53:29a perfect
00:53:32playmate, okay?
00:53:33Playmate?
00:53:35You mean
00:53:36you think
00:53:37we're not good at
00:53:38living together?
00:53:40It turned out to be
00:53:42like that.
00:53:43Don't you think we talk
00:53:44and get along well right now?
00:53:45Is that what you've been wanting?
00:53:47I know I did a lot of bad things in the past.
00:53:56Can you give me some time?
00:53:59I'm too tired to be your dad.
00:54:04I want to relax.
00:54:09What about our relationship?
00:54:12We're just good partners now.
00:54:14Why doesn't he feel guilty?
00:54:17Everyone likes you. You're a good friend.
00:54:24Why don't you go shopping?
00:54:47He's a good friend.
00:54:50I will love you forever.
00:54:53I love you.
00:54:55I love you too.
00:54:57I love you too.
00:54:59I love you.
00:55:01I love you too.
00:55:03I love you too.
00:55:05I love you too.
00:55:07I love you.
00:55:09I love you.
00:55:11I love you too.
00:55:13I'm rational, right?
00:55:14Of course.
00:55:15And then he said, I don't think he did a good job.
00:55:18He'll change it.
00:55:19He said he didn't want to use his identity as a friend.
00:55:21Then I said, don't say so much.
00:55:22Just use your identity as a friend to finish this journey first.
00:55:25We'll talk about it later.
00:55:27It's pretty good, isn't it?
00:55:28I think you two just don't fight.
00:55:29That's it.
00:55:31Do you understand?
00:55:31I don't understand.
00:55:32You're back.
00:55:34Ruiqin.
00:55:35How are you?
00:55:36I'm much better today.
00:55:37Much better.
00:55:38We're leaving now.
00:55:40To the second stop, Kashgar.
00:55:41That's great.
00:55:42We're finally leaving.
00:55:44Goodbye, Kashgar and snowy mountains.
00:56:11We're parking again.
00:56:13We're here. This is Kashgar.
00:56:30I'm Gu Li.
00:56:32Welcome to my home.
00:56:34There are more than 20,000 people living in Kashgar.
00:56:39It can be said to be a living Kashgar.
00:56:43It's so beautiful.
00:56:54It's so beautiful.
00:56:55This is so beautiful.
00:56:58Open the door.
00:56:59Open the door.
00:57:14So beautiful.
00:57:15Look at the view.
00:57:16It's so beautiful.
00:57:17Look at the view.
00:57:27Let's dance together.
00:57:33Look at Liu.
00:57:35Everyone, cheers.
00:57:36Thank you.
00:57:37Cheers.
00:57:43Liu put on his glasses.
00:57:45Someone's here.
00:57:47Who?
00:57:47Who's here?
00:58:08Long time no see.
00:58:10It's so funny.
00:58:11It's you.
00:58:12Hello.
00:58:13Hello.
00:58:14What a surprise.
00:58:14You're all here.
00:58:16Yes.
00:58:16We've been waiting for a long time.
00:58:19Please have a seat.
00:58:21Come on.
00:58:22I didn't expect you two
00:58:23to be here.
00:58:24You really don't know we're here?
00:58:26We really don't know.
00:58:27We don't know.
00:58:28We don't even have a cell phone.
00:58:29Jing's cell phone.
00:58:30Why don't you play with it first?
00:58:32Let's introduce ourselves.
00:58:34The one who signed the contract.
00:58:35Do you know him?
00:58:37Who wouldn't know him?
00:58:39When you two rushed down,
00:58:42we felt like we were going to be interviewed.
00:58:44Super interview.
00:58:46We were indeed interviewed.
00:58:47I was shaking all over.
00:58:49No.
00:58:50A sudden sharpness.
00:58:52Before I came to this show,
00:58:54I asked who the guests were.
00:58:55They said Fu Shouer.
00:58:56I was thinking
00:58:58that Shouer and Liu
00:59:00are so close.
00:59:01Did he come to this show to play?
00:59:02Shouer.
00:59:04I was a little surprised
00:59:05when I saw you two
00:59:07on the list of old meetings.
00:59:08I believe most of our friends
00:59:09are very stupid.
00:59:11Every time they post something
00:59:13on their Moments,
00:59:13I feel like
00:59:14they are so loving.
00:59:21They are like a couple.
00:59:22A perfect match.
00:59:23Yes.
00:59:23There are so many beautiful things.
00:59:26Yes.
00:59:26There are many things
00:59:29that can't be explained behind the beauty.
00:59:33Actually, I think the problems you mentioned
00:59:35are in every family.
00:59:37It doesn't mean that they are not happy.
00:59:40Because I think happiness
00:59:41is a complicated thing.
00:59:43Right?
00:59:45I think Ji is very stubborn.
00:59:48Very partial.
00:59:50He never listens to my opinion.
00:59:53We have a lot of friction.
00:59:55There are a lot of different things.
00:59:57So we are getting more and more unhappy.
01:00:00Where does this come from?
01:00:02Sometimes they also say
01:00:02you just let him do it himself.
01:00:04Wear it yourself.
01:00:05Go to work by yourself.
01:00:06Can't you design and plan these things?
01:00:08First, I'm more professional than him.
01:00:11I know him so well.
01:00:13What do I know about him?
01:00:14His persistence.
01:00:15If he didn't do a good job,
01:00:16if he didn't do a good job this time,
01:00:18there may not be a next time.
01:00:19The client may not come to him.
01:00:21If he didn't come to him next time,
01:00:23and he saw someone else on Moments
01:00:25and didn't invite him,
01:00:26I know how he feels.
01:00:28I don't want him to feel that way.
01:00:30So...
01:00:31I mean, it's not that easy.
01:00:32I really want to hear a father talking about his daughter.
01:00:36He loves her so much.
01:00:38How to make a choice?
01:00:41But you know what?
01:00:42What he wants is to make his own decision.
01:00:46Actually, I think
01:00:47Jing is not a big deal.
01:00:49This is the life he should live.
01:00:51You don't need to protect him in advance.
01:00:53Right?
01:00:54You are good for him,
01:00:55but he can't feel the excitement of failure.
01:00:57Failure is also exciting.
01:00:59Failure is exciting.
01:01:00He won't change.
01:01:01Don't worry.
01:01:01I think he will.
01:01:02He won't.
01:01:02He will.
01:01:03I'm listening to you, Jing.
01:01:05But I don't want to change.
01:01:07I want to stick to it.
01:01:09I don't like to lose the chance
01:01:11when I can get it.
01:01:13I can understand.
01:01:14Yes.
01:01:15Actually, I can understand.
01:01:19When I was with
01:01:21Ji these days,
01:01:22I found that
01:01:23he is really
01:01:26very demanding of himself.
01:01:29And I'm extreme with him.
01:01:30I don't have any requirements for myself.
01:01:32You look very proud.
01:01:33You two are suitable to be friends.
01:01:35I can't do it.
01:01:37Yes.
01:01:37He is a little scary.
01:01:39He told me yesterday
01:01:40about his fitness.
01:01:42He said that
01:01:43many people want to go to the gym with him.
01:01:45He said, you are so good at training.
01:01:46I also want to train with you.
01:01:47But today he said
01:01:49he was not comfortable here.
01:01:50I can't come today.
01:01:51No way.
01:01:53You don't have so many reasons.
01:01:54You have to come with me first.
01:01:55In this way, I will think
01:01:57it's a little scary.
01:01:58Others may just want to train casually.
01:02:00You just...
01:02:01You just let him go.
01:02:03Yes.
01:02:03You may make the other person lose
01:02:05his interest in training.
01:02:08It's actually very valuable.
01:02:10He is a very serious person.
01:02:12Who said that?
01:02:12I just need Ji Ye.
01:02:13I need him, too.
01:02:14You see.
01:02:16Because we really need
01:02:16such a selfless person.
01:02:18Yes.
01:02:18Yes.
01:02:19It's true that this is Ji Ye's strength.
01:02:21But he...
01:02:22I didn't know
01:02:23you said this is my strength.
01:02:26I'm so nervous here.
01:02:27Why?
01:02:28Why do you suddenly criticize Ji Ye?
01:02:30What are you doing?
01:02:31I once interviewed a person
01:02:34who is also a soldier in your industry.
01:02:36He said something.
01:02:37At that time, I thought
01:02:38I shouldn't get in touch with him.
01:02:42He said the moment I walked out of the door,
01:02:43I was on the stage.
01:02:46So tired.
01:02:48That's what he said.
01:02:49People are just adjectives.
01:02:51Not adjectives.
01:02:52He really is...
01:02:54Are you a little moved?
01:02:55Yes, I can feel it.
01:02:57But if I were to say,
01:02:58I said he was on the stage.
01:03:00I think he was on the field.
01:03:04He was on the field.
01:03:06You're more tired than him.
01:03:07Yes.
01:03:08But I have to insist.
01:03:09Yes.
01:03:14The scene we recorded today is wrong.
01:03:17I just found out when I came in.
01:03:18This is a mouth.
01:03:19Did you notice?
01:03:19There is a tree in the middle.
01:03:26What's wrong?
01:03:27Sleepy.
01:03:28Sleepy.
01:03:32I think all of us are trapped in this.
01:03:34So I was thinking
01:03:35we all put a burden on ourselves.
01:03:40It's what you know.
01:03:42And then you can't get out of it.
01:03:52You two are post-90s.
01:03:53We are post-90s.
01:03:54What year?
01:03:551993.
01:03:56Yes.
01:03:57Oh my god.
01:03:58It's so much younger than me.
01:03:59It's okay.
01:04:00We're the same age.
01:04:02Are you two married?
01:04:05Our situation is a bit special.
01:04:06Yes, it's a bit complicated.
01:04:07Do you have a license?
01:04:08No.
01:04:09Jing, the questions are all about the plot.
01:04:13But we did it.
01:04:14Did the wedding?
01:04:15Yes.
01:04:16In the end, I decided to marry him
01:04:18for a large part of the reason
01:04:19because of his parents.
01:04:22How to explain this?
01:04:24They treat me very well.
01:04:26They even treat me better than Zhang Shuo.
01:04:29His parents are all very cute people.
01:04:32I still think it's not right.
01:04:33I think in a relationship,
01:04:35you must consider the other person first
01:04:37instead of your parents.
01:04:39No, I think he can't find
01:04:40the reason why he married her.
01:04:41So he said his parents.
01:04:42When he emphasized that my parents treated him well,
01:04:44he didn't mention me.
01:04:46I'm already 30 years old.
01:04:48My marriage
01:04:48still depends on my parents' good treatment of him.
01:04:51This is actually a blow to me.
01:04:53Reflect on yourself.
01:04:54Yes.
01:04:55Why don't you think about it?
01:04:56Be conscious.
01:04:57Do you really think
01:04:59you didn't get any emotional value from me
01:05:02or anything else?
01:05:03I'm restraining myself.
01:05:05I was disappointed at that time.
01:05:07Do you not love him that much?
01:05:12I can't say I don't love him that much.
01:05:13I just don't want to marry him that much.
01:05:20I think
01:05:22she's not mature enough
01:05:24to be the head of the family.
01:05:26That's right.
01:05:27She's responsible for her husband.
01:05:29Look at Zhang Su's face.
01:05:30I think she just wants to sigh.
01:05:32Do you have any indicators
01:05:36of a man's maturity as a husband?
01:05:37At least don't run away when you're sick.
01:05:40Well,
01:05:41when two people are together,
01:05:43they always say they're accommodating each other,
01:05:44compromising each other,
01:05:46or taking care of each other.
01:05:47For example,
01:05:48if he doesn't take care of you or accommodate you,
01:05:50what's the advantage?
01:05:52You said the other day
01:05:53that he likes to spend time with his friends.
01:05:58He's nicer to his friends than to me.
01:06:01He's nicer to his friends than to him.
01:06:04Maybe that's what she meant.
01:06:05Maybe that's what she meant.
01:06:06I'm always warm to my friends
01:06:11and considerate to them.
01:06:13Maybe sometimes I'm...
01:06:15Maybe now she thinks most of the time I'm...
01:06:17What do you mean by I think?
01:06:22Just say what you think.
01:06:23Don't say I think what you think, okay?
01:06:26What you mean doesn't mean what I mean.
01:06:30Like.
01:06:32To him.
01:06:36Let me give you a simple example.
01:06:38I had a fever yesterday.
01:06:40And then,
01:06:41at the moment of the fever,
01:06:42Zhang Su didn't come to my room to see me.
01:06:44After I got better,
01:06:46he came to me with a kebab and asked me,
01:06:48how are you doing?
01:06:50What the hell is this?
01:06:52It's really sad.
01:06:54Xiao Ma.
01:06:58Coming.
01:07:02What's up?
01:07:03I just got out of the oven.
01:07:03Have a taste.
01:07:04Everyone says it's delicious.
01:07:06Who's at home?
01:07:07Everyone.
01:07:10Zhang Su, what are you doing?
01:07:11Do you know he has a fever?
01:07:13He's sleeping.
01:07:15My objective situation is that
01:07:16at that time, I was also...
01:07:18High-frequency response.
01:07:19Yeah, I wasn't feeling well.
01:07:20I was probably thinking that
01:07:23you should...
01:07:24Then I'll just burn it.
01:07:25It's a two-in-one.
01:07:28I just want to wait for you to get better.
01:07:29And then I'll ask you
01:07:30how you feel.
01:07:32When did you hear
01:07:33the girl who had a fever had to eat mutton kebabs?
01:07:37This mutton kebab is like this.
01:07:38It's because of the place we live in.
01:07:40He only went to buy mutton once in two or three days.
01:07:41So that mutton kebab
01:07:42may be more precious.
01:07:44He's really good at talking in circles.
01:07:47It's a two-in-one.
01:07:49Brother, that's because
01:07:50I had a fever at that time.
01:07:51After the fever was gone, I was alone in the room.
01:07:53I haven't come out yet.
01:07:54When he was playing with everyone
01:07:55and eating mutton kebabs,
01:07:55I remembered what he gave me.
01:08:00He's more suitable for everyone to play together.
01:08:02I'm happy together.
01:08:02I think so now.
01:08:05So I said
01:08:06I want to be his friend.
01:08:07Maybe this mutton kebab has a few people.
01:08:08Why is there one less?
01:08:09My wife.
01:08:11I really didn't stay with him
01:08:13when he had a fever.
01:08:14It's because of some of the reactions from Gaoyuan.
01:08:16Just take the medicine and sleep for a while.
01:08:18I don't want to bother you.
01:08:19You sleep next to his bed.
01:08:21Yes.
01:08:22In fact, at the first time,
01:08:23I went to care about him.
01:08:25What did you care about?
01:08:27My concern
01:08:28may be to ask him what's wrong.
01:08:30Then help him
01:08:33to ask for help from others.
01:08:36I went to find him some medicine to reduce the fever.
01:08:39I didn't think about this problem very clearly.
01:08:41Because I never understood why.
01:08:43He still doesn't understand.
01:08:45He already cares about you.
01:08:46Why are you still not satisfied or angry?
01:08:49He should have seen
01:08:50what Ai Wei did last season.
01:08:51Yes.
01:08:55Zhang Shuo was in front of him when he was sick.
01:08:57We were having lunch.
01:08:58He had a fever at that time.
01:08:59Zhang Shuo cared about him.
01:09:00He asked if there was any medicine for Shui Shui.
01:09:02He did.
01:09:03I saw this little action.
01:09:06The mutton kebab we ate at that time
01:09:07was really delicious.
01:09:08It was so delicious.
01:09:17I'm so angry.
01:09:17You made me feel hungry.
01:09:20I can't get it back.
01:09:24It's the same kind of thing.
01:09:26It's just this time.
01:09:27And before I came to the show,
01:09:29I also fell into the water for 5 days.
01:09:31She's a little impatient.
01:09:33And during the time I fell into the water,
01:09:35he didn't accompany me.
01:09:37He sent me there.
01:09:38Then he went out to eat with his friends.
01:09:41He thought why you were like this again.
01:09:42He was angry again.
01:09:43Yes.
01:09:46When I was about to fall into the water,
01:09:48I called him again.
01:09:48He came to pick me up that day.
01:09:50Right, Zhang Shuo?
01:09:51This is...
01:09:52Once.
01:09:53Yes.
01:09:53One day it was like this.
01:09:54And before that,
01:09:55even if he stayed there with me for a day,
01:09:57I was sitting here alone.
01:09:59And he was far away from me.
01:10:00Then I sat on the other side alone
01:10:02with headphones and playing with my phone.
01:10:05There was another time when I had a fever.
01:10:07It was 39 degrees or 38 degrees.
01:10:09Then it went down a little bit.
01:10:11Then he said,
01:10:12if you go down a little bit,
01:10:13I can go out to drink at ease.
01:10:14Then he went out again.
01:10:16Yes.
01:10:18I don't know if he's a big-hearted person or not.
01:10:20And then,
01:10:21because both of my hands were bruised,
01:10:25I got the milk tea straw stuck in it.
01:10:26I called him to come and pick it up.
01:10:27He was impatient.
01:10:28Then I asked him why it was like this.
01:10:29I said, I asked you to help me pick up a straw.
01:10:31Why are you so impatient?
01:10:32He said,
01:10:33I did something wrong.
01:10:34Don't blame me for my wrong attitude.
01:10:36The whole world is condemning you.
01:10:38You see, he's impatient.
01:10:39He's going to be angry.
01:10:40He's impatient, yes.
01:10:41But when he was sick,
01:10:42even if he was in the water,
01:10:43he was next to me,
01:10:44he was sleeping there,
01:10:46I was with him all the time.
01:10:47I was looking at the bottom of the water.
01:10:55He's just...
01:10:56He's just showing his love.
01:11:16I asked him to help me pick it up.
01:11:17He said,
01:11:17I did something wrong.
01:11:18Don't blame me for my wrong attitude.
01:11:20I say,
01:11:20Well,
01:11:21Can I have a kiss?
01:11:26Yeah.
01:11:27Can I have a kiss?
01:11:29Can I have a kiss?
01:11:32Can I have a kiss?
01:11:34Can I have a kiss?
01:11:43I think he is still not mature enough.
01:11:46In fact, we talked to Zhang Shui today.
01:11:53He talked to us this morning.
01:11:55In fact, he cares about Shui Shui.
01:12:00He doesn't want to disturb her rest.
01:12:02But I told him,
01:12:03You just think she needs this.
01:12:06You don't know what she really wants.
01:12:10Come on, he's just lazy.
01:12:11He doesn't want to, I think.
01:12:14I asked you a few questions.
01:12:17Do you need me to go with you?
01:12:19Oh, my God, I'm so angry.
01:12:21You take all the needy away.
01:12:22A few words and you're in trouble.
01:12:23Yeah.
01:12:26Not sincere, really.
01:12:28Over the past ten years,
01:12:31If there was a problem with these chicken feathers and garlic skins,
01:12:34We would have broken up a long time ago.
01:12:36Really.
01:12:36When you're sick,
01:12:37When people are at their weakest,
01:12:39You need someone to take care of you.
01:12:40But you're already used to each other's existence.
01:12:48In fact, you can accept this person.
01:12:49If you can't accept it, you've broken up a long time ago.
01:12:50I can't accept it, so I always fight.
01:12:52I just remember,
01:12:53I just said a few words.
01:12:54Fighting is to maintain the order of the world.
01:12:59You see, the emotional expert has not solved the emotional problem.
01:13:02This is not something that can be solved by arguing.
01:13:04Do you think I'm right?
01:13:05Yes.
01:13:06I told him the same thing today.
01:13:07I said, we've been arguing for so long.
01:13:08Why don't we break up?
01:13:09Yeah, that's why I woke up.
01:13:11So he went to tell Zhang Shuo,
01:13:12I just want to be friends with you.
01:13:15I said, Zhang Shuo, you're a little tired today.
01:13:17He's tired because he's hungry.
01:13:21In fact, I found that your mouth is also quite poisonous.
01:13:24I'm a poisonous girl.
01:13:25A needle in the blood.
01:13:27Yes, he told me,
01:13:28If you were me, I wouldn't have made it.
01:13:31If you were me, I wouldn't have made it.
01:13:34I feel like you two,
01:13:35He didn't listen to you.
01:13:36Why did I show up?
01:13:38My reason.
01:13:39You two must not have sat down.
01:13:41I don't think he's listening.
01:13:42Talking to him about playing the piano.
01:13:43I have a lot of things right now.
01:13:45I don't really want to share it with him.
01:13:48Or listen to his opinion.
01:13:54Give him a gift or something.
01:13:56For example, call him to play or something.
01:13:58These.
01:14:01I don't seem to get a positive feedback.
01:14:07When did it start?
01:14:10When we were in college.
01:14:11Once I gave him a gift.
01:14:12And then he didn't like it.
01:14:14He asked me to take it back.
01:14:16And then he cried.
01:14:16Maybe he was angry.
01:14:18Or he thought it was ugly.
01:14:20I really want to know what it is.
01:14:21It's a sweater chain.
01:14:23I've been picking it for a long time.
01:14:24But maybe my taste is really wrong.
01:14:27But I think his behavior
01:14:28Actually, it hurts me a lot.
01:14:30Yes, he asked me to take it back.
01:14:31I thought you might have taken it back.
01:14:33You threw it away secretly.
01:14:34Don't let me know.
01:14:36Did he feel wronged?
01:14:37Did you know what he wanted?
01:14:41You're talking about this now.
01:14:42You didn't have it at the time.
01:14:43At that time, I just wanted to
01:14:44I went to pick a gift for him.
01:14:46Did you want to try to understand
01:14:49What does he want?
01:14:50He didn't even give me a gift later.
01:14:52I'll make up for it later.
01:14:54I made up for it.
01:14:55I'm sorry.
01:14:58I gave it to him later.
01:14:59But what I gave him later was basically
01:15:01I asked him about this thing.
01:15:03I asked him about this thing.
01:15:05Do you want it?
01:15:07I'll make sure I don't buy it again.
01:15:10And then sometimes I say no.
01:15:11It's really gone.
01:15:12Ask me if you want flowers.
01:15:13I said no.
01:15:14It's gone.
01:15:15I haven't received a bouquet in ten years.
01:15:16How could you ask like that?
01:15:21I've never had it.
01:15:22It's been ten years.
01:15:24I've never had it.
01:15:25As a result, his girlfriend's birthday.
01:15:28He went to give flowers to others.
01:15:29Why didn't you give it to me?
01:15:32Wake up.
01:15:33Thank you.
01:15:34Uncle Zhang is really
01:15:35In a sense,
01:15:36It's amazing.
01:15:40This emotional process is
01:15:41It's just the beginning.
01:15:42I actually took the initiative
01:15:43I want to do this thing.
01:15:46I didn't get a good response.
01:15:49It's his own fault.
01:15:50He's still blaming someone.
01:15:51Including sometimes
01:15:53Some of the things I've done for him.
01:15:54I didn't get the kind of thing I expected.
01:15:57Praise or praise
01:15:59He rarely affirms me.
01:16:03Or praise me.
01:16:04What he wants is to hold on.
01:16:05He likes others to run away from him.
01:16:06Are you afraid of him when you're with him?
01:16:08I'm close to him now.
01:16:10I'm particularly afraid that I'll say something wrong.
01:16:12And then there's something wrong with what I say.
01:16:14And then we're in conflict.
01:16:16So you're afraid you're going to have a kind of
01:16:19Some of his avoidance.
01:16:21Yes, avoidance.
01:16:22As long as I don't do it,
01:16:23Then we won't have a problem.
01:16:26I know this is the wrong state.
01:16:28But I don't know how to solve it.
01:16:40He thinks he's forcing him to do this.
01:16:45That's what I wanted to ask you just now.
01:16:47I think there's something wrong with the two of them.
01:16:49You just stood on your reason.
01:16:51Maybe it's a communication barrier.
01:16:53But you chose to escape.
01:16:55But you know, in a relationship,
01:16:57You sit in front of me and we start.
01:17:01There's no problem with arguing.
01:17:02The man says, you calm down.
01:17:04Three days later,
01:17:05This woman is usually blown up.
01:17:06That is to say,
01:17:07He wants you to stand in front of him and calm down.
01:17:13Fear can't solve the problem.
01:17:15I can't hide for long.
01:17:18Because most of the time,
01:17:20When you face a problem, it's emotional.
01:17:22Actually, when it's emotional,
01:17:23I'm confused.
01:17:24Two people are confused.
01:17:25I can't calm down and think about it.
01:17:29I'm particularly afraid of that kind of
01:17:32It's a tense, intense scene.
01:17:35He might be because of a little thing.
01:17:37He'll just explode.
01:17:41He's on fire.
01:17:42Say anything.
01:17:43For example, marriage is such a small thing.
01:17:45Crazy concept.
01:17:46He won't let me finish.
01:17:48He's a victim again.
01:17:50I didn't say I wouldn't let you finish.
01:17:52You said it was a small thing.
01:17:53I've been on fire with you for two days.
01:17:55The biggest fire is the mess.
01:18:01The state he was trying to express just now
01:18:03I don't know how to communicate with him.
01:18:10It's two people.
01:18:11It's a wall of communication.
01:18:19I think she's a
01:18:23I like him very much.
01:18:25He's so strong.
01:18:26Go straight to people.
01:18:28But I've always felt
01:18:30There's a saying in psychology.
01:18:31There's a call for help behind every behavior.
01:18:34What's his so-called call for help?
01:18:36I really want you to love me.
01:18:39Can you love me a little bit more?
01:18:41Actually, he cares.
01:18:42He's just using that special way.
01:18:46To hide his pride.
01:18:49That's a good one.
01:18:53I don't know.
01:18:56Why?
01:18:57Because he doesn't want to beg for love.
01:18:59He's using a way to tell you
01:19:01You love me.
01:19:03Sleep will put this thing
01:19:05I think you're getting colder and colder.
01:19:07I don't care about him that much.
01:19:08So I think you two have a problem.
01:19:10You can discuss this issue.
01:19:13Instead of being stupid about something.
01:19:16Are you older than him?
01:19:18Yeah, I think you're more mature.
01:19:20You should think of this method.
01:19:26They've known each other since high school.
01:19:29Actually, the way they've been getting along
01:19:31It's still the way you were in high school.
01:19:33You've improved. He hasn't.
01:19:34That's right.
01:19:35You've been improving.
01:19:36He's growing up.
01:19:37As a woman, she's growing up.
01:19:39You're still a kid.
01:19:40You're still in high school.
01:19:42You're dating him.
01:19:46How do you sum up every couple?
01:19:47It's all the same.
01:19:51You're not growing up.
01:19:53You're still a boy.
01:19:54You're a woman.
01:19:56I think Ji is still a kid in his heart.
01:19:59He won't change.
01:20:00Don't worry.
01:20:01I think he will.
01:20:02He won't.
01:20:03He won't.
01:20:04Brother Jun, you just summed up Ji.
01:20:06Did I remember correctly?
01:20:07Is that how you summed it up?
01:20:08Yeah.
01:20:09You're back to life.
01:20:10I'm back to life.
01:20:11I found out.
01:20:12That's how it is.
01:20:13Take this to sum up.
01:20:14Everyone seems to have a commonality.
01:20:17The problem with the three of us is that there is no love.
01:20:20They keep arguing.
01:20:21They won't change.
01:20:22That's the problem with the three of us.
01:20:24Let's sum it up perfectly.
01:20:26They won't change.
01:20:27Ji.
01:20:38I'm angry.
01:20:39Everyone is angry this time.
01:20:41The boy in front of the screen.
01:20:42Zhang Shuo is really
01:20:43the opposite example of dating.
01:20:44Don't learn from him.
01:20:47Yes.
01:20:49Will there be boys who fall in love with him after watching Zhang Shuo?
01:20:54No.
01:20:55Will Zhang Shuo grow up at home when he was a kid?
01:20:59For example, he was coaxed by his family.
01:21:00He was spoiled.
01:21:01He was spoiled.
01:21:02Then he likes to be praised by others.
01:21:04It feels like a child.
01:21:07And he can't stand it when others say he's not good.
01:21:10Yeah.
01:21:11His face fell down like this.
01:21:12I feel like I'm going to jump up there.
01:21:14And his reaction is also very childish.
01:21:15And he doesn't seem to realize that he's wrong at all.
01:21:17He helped himself.
01:21:18He just asked less.
01:21:20Do you need me to compensate you?
01:21:21He's obviously wrong.
01:21:23He thinks his own mistakes are not real.
01:21:25And every time he talks about him,
01:21:27he turns this thing back into a trivial problem.
01:21:29He will change the concept.
01:21:31I'm talking to you about the problem.
01:21:32You changed it for me.
01:21:33He quarreled with me.
01:21:34He has a bad temper.
01:21:36I dare not talk to him.
01:21:38He's always like this.
01:21:39He's always like this.
01:21:40I think he's more like at that moment.
01:21:42I found a point of interest to myself.
01:21:44So I'm going to emphasize it here.
01:21:45He keeps taking it out and repeating it.
01:21:47Yes.
01:21:48And this morning.
01:21:50That's the most interesting.
01:21:52It's Zhang Shuo.
01:21:54First, he saw Lao Ji.
01:21:55He took a picture.
01:21:56Then he took a picture of his wife.
01:21:57And then he said,
01:21:58he felt that scene was good.
01:21:59And then?
01:22:00He went to find him to sleep.
01:22:02He wants to present.
01:22:04Or he wants to learn
01:22:05what a good man looks like, right?
01:22:07Yes.
01:22:08But he forgot yesterday.
01:22:09His wife had a fever.
01:22:11He didn't accompany her.
01:22:12Is there anything to solve the problem?
01:22:13Yes.
01:22:14In the end, you see, he went into the interview room.
01:22:16He said he didn't know at all.
01:22:17Why did he treat me like this?
01:22:19So I think the biggest reason is
01:22:21that he's still selfish.
01:22:23Selfish.
01:22:25I think
01:22:26because Zhang Shuo is not young.
01:22:29He's in his thirties.
01:22:30He doesn't have much hair.
01:22:32When he talks.
01:22:34When he talks.
01:22:36When everyone around him
01:22:38talks to him,
01:22:39they're all polite.
01:22:41It's actually hurting him.
01:22:42No one speaks out.
01:22:43You see how many words they just used
01:22:44to describe this matter.
01:22:45It's called
01:22:46this person is more
01:22:51This person is actually like a child.
01:22:54No.
01:22:55He's selfish.
01:22:58Calm down.
01:22:59It's these two words.
01:23:00You're selfish.
01:23:02He's not young.
01:23:03Mr. Huang, let's not be like this.
01:23:04He has a high blood pressure.
01:23:06Calm down.
01:23:10No one is willing to
01:23:11tell him about this.
01:23:12So he always has
01:23:13a pink bubble.
01:23:15The guest in front of him said
01:23:17you're actually like a child.
01:23:19It's said that this person
01:23:20doesn't know how to compare heart to heart.
01:23:21Then he immediately pat his thigh.
01:23:22Yes.
01:23:23I'll say less.
01:23:24Yes, it's an excuse for him.
01:23:25Yes.
01:23:26No one is willing to tell you
01:23:27you're actually fake.
01:23:29Then what did he say?
01:23:30I was confused when I had a conflict.
01:23:31There is no such thing.
01:23:32Not taking care of Sui,
01:23:33this is not a conflict.
01:23:34This is a choice.
01:23:35Yes.
01:23:36People are hanging out at the hospital.
01:23:38You go and drink with your friends.
01:23:39This is a choice.
01:23:40Every one of us
01:23:41has a certain selfishness.
01:23:42Of course.
01:23:43But you don't recognize
01:23:44this is selfishness.
01:23:45You can't
01:23:46control your selfishness.
01:23:48We always want more.
01:23:49Get more.
01:23:51Enjoy more.
01:23:52This is very normal.
01:23:53But every time
01:23:54when we do this,
01:23:55we know that
01:23:56this idea is more selfish.
01:23:57I want to catch the degree
01:23:59and the degree a little bit.
01:24:00Yes.
01:24:01Zhang Shuo doesn't have
01:24:02the ability to love people yet.
01:24:03I think
01:24:04let's wake up.
01:24:05I think we are beautiful
01:24:06and young.
01:24:08We have our own economic conditions.
01:24:09Zhang Shuo,
01:24:10think about it.
01:24:11Why?
01:24:12How can you get
01:24:13such a girl
01:24:14who is good to you
01:24:15but you don't cherish her?
01:24:16I believe very much now.
01:24:17I believe her parents
01:24:18are good to Sui.
01:24:19I believe her parents
01:24:20are good to Zhang Shuo.
01:24:22Yes.
01:24:23Zhang Shuo,
01:24:24why does he
01:24:25bring a lamb skewer?
01:24:26Why does he
01:24:27sometimes come to coax?
01:24:28Yes.
01:24:29This proves that
01:24:30this trick
01:24:31may be useful
01:24:32in the past.
01:24:33It must be useful.
01:24:35Then he becomes
01:24:36used to using this.
01:24:37Sui may need
01:24:38to be taken care of
01:24:39when she is sick
01:24:40and so on.
01:24:41OK.
01:24:42I think
01:24:43maybe Zhang Shuo
01:24:44can't keep up with everything.
01:24:45Yes.
01:24:46When he is sick,
01:24:47he can say
01:24:48I will go back to rest first.
01:24:50I will come to see you.
01:24:51If it's true love,
01:24:52he should do it.
01:24:53He doesn't love.
01:24:54Zhang Shuo has
01:24:55a very obvious
01:24:56psychological defense mechanism.
01:24:58It's called
01:24:59self-defense.
01:25:00He always has
01:25:01his own
01:25:02self-awareness system.
01:25:03That is,
01:25:04I am a good person.
01:25:05Then in this system,
01:25:06the most important
01:25:07foundation
01:25:08is that
01:25:09everything is because
01:25:10Sui is too emotional.
01:25:12He always wants
01:25:13to be a good person outside.
01:25:14He wants people to like him.
01:25:15Yes.
01:25:16He wants people to praise him.
01:25:17He is like this
01:25:18to the people
01:25:19around him.
01:25:20Yes.
01:25:21When Sui was
01:25:22in the hospital,
01:25:23he said
01:25:24I did everything.
01:25:25Why do you care about my attitude?
01:25:26Don't worry about my attitude.
01:25:27Can't Sui
01:25:28ask her boyfriend
01:25:29to be nice to her
01:25:30when she is sick?
01:25:31Because actually
01:25:32I think for Sui,
01:25:33what she wants
01:25:35is actually behind.
01:25:36What is your heart
01:25:37for me?
01:25:38But it seems that
01:25:39Sui
01:25:40is always
01:25:41calling me
01:25:42no matter how
01:25:43I want you to be nice to me.
01:25:44In fact,
01:25:45it's all because
01:25:46you have an emotional problem.
01:25:47You are bothering me.
01:25:48You are struggling with some details.
01:25:50For example,
01:25:51what I said just now,
01:25:52I did everything.
01:25:53Why do you still
01:25:54ask for my attitude?
01:25:55I think this sentence
01:25:56can only be said
01:25:57after you have cured
01:25:58my cancer.
01:25:59You said
01:26:00I have cured your cancer.
01:26:01You don't care
01:26:02if I have a bad face
01:26:03when I cut my hair.
01:26:04You can say
01:26:05whatever you want.
01:26:06But it's not like this.
01:26:07Most of these behaviors
01:26:08provided by Zhang Shuo
01:26:10Attitude is
01:26:11the most valuable part
01:26:12of his behavior.
01:26:13But today
01:26:14you just did
01:26:15such a small thing.
01:26:16What I want
01:26:17is actually only attitude.
01:26:18Do you think
01:26:19I won't cut my hair?
01:26:21Zhang Shuo
01:26:22was criticized
01:26:23somewhere.
01:26:24Then he immediately said
01:26:25what?
01:26:26Gift
01:26:27About the gift
01:26:28those points
01:26:29He didn't send flowers for ten years.
01:26:30But he gave them to his friend.
01:26:31Yes
01:26:32Wow, he gave them to him.
01:26:33Yes
01:26:34My feeling is
01:26:35First, I gave a gift
01:26:36and you didn't give me a positive feedback.
01:26:37This thing
01:26:38has no value for me.
01:26:39Second,
01:26:40at this moment
01:26:41I have to take out this letter
01:26:42to prove that
01:26:43there is a reason
01:26:44why I didn't give a gift.
01:26:45My most angry statement
01:26:46is like this.
01:26:47Because
01:26:48you did something wrong at that time
01:26:49so it became
01:26:50a turning point for me.
01:26:51Yes
01:26:52So I won't send flowers anymore.
01:26:53Then he helped you
01:26:54wipe your ass.
01:26:55Why can't it
01:26:56become a turning point
01:26:57in your life?
01:26:58Why does your life
01:26:59only have a downward turning point
01:27:00but no upward turning point?
01:27:01Yes
01:27:02But Zhang Shuo
01:27:03gave Shui Shui
01:27:04a sweater.
01:27:05Let's not talk about
01:27:06this sweater for now.
01:27:07For example,
01:27:08if I gave a boy
01:27:09an inconspicuous gift
01:27:10and he said
01:27:11it was too ugly
01:27:12so I took it away
01:27:13I may feel
01:27:14quite hurt.
01:27:15I received all the gifts
01:27:16whether I like it or not
01:27:17whether this thing is good or not
01:27:18I would say
01:27:19I like this thing so much
01:27:20Thank you
01:27:21Because it's a gift
01:27:22Yes
01:27:23So this point
01:27:24Shui Shui may be
01:27:25too capricious at that time.
01:27:26Yes
01:27:27Hu gave me
01:27:28a color that I don't like
01:27:29and he said
01:27:30it was too ugly
01:27:31so I took it away
01:27:32He gave me a color bag
01:27:33that I don't like
01:27:34and clothes that I don't like
01:27:35and a necklace
01:27:36that I don't like
01:27:37for me
01:27:38But I would
01:27:39I really like it
01:27:40It's his kindness
01:27:41I like his kindness
01:27:42Yes
01:27:43I would say I like it so much
01:27:44I like it so much
01:27:45I need it
01:27:46But he would say
01:27:47after a year
01:27:48why don't you
01:27:49carry it?
01:27:52Then he would know
01:27:53he doesn't like this color
01:27:54he doesn't like this pattern
01:27:57So you see
01:27:58the zither that Shui Shui gave to Zhang Shuo
01:27:59is what Zhang Shuo really wanted
01:28:01Then he put the zither
01:28:02in his heart
01:28:03Yes
01:28:04I think this thing
01:28:05asked Zhang Shuo
01:28:06do you want flowers?
01:28:07Yes
01:28:08Do you want me to buy it for you?
01:28:09This is completely wrong
01:28:10I think Zhang Shuo
01:28:11he clearly knows
01:28:12what kind of behavior is good
01:28:13and can make people happy
01:28:14Shui Shui did this to him
01:28:15he felt very happy
01:28:16but he
01:28:17Yes
01:28:18Yes
01:28:19You can use the same set
01:28:20to Shui Shui
01:28:21Really
01:28:22I think girls
01:28:23as long as they receive gifts
01:28:24are happy
01:28:25It's good to feel the heart
01:28:26Yes
01:28:27I actually don't understand
01:28:28why would a man
01:28:29ask his wife
01:28:30do you want flowers?
01:28:31But sick and not taking care of
01:28:33and not giving gifts
01:28:35which one do you think is more serious?
01:28:38Sick and not taking care
01:28:39Yes
01:28:40I think so too
01:28:41Sick and not taking care
01:28:42is already a
01:28:43Because I think
01:28:44when two people are together
01:28:45the most important thing is companionship
01:28:46Yes
01:28:47And when he needs it the most
01:28:48when he needs companionship the most
01:28:49how can you miss this moment?
01:28:52Yes
01:28:53For predicting this relationship
01:28:54I think the most dangerous thing
01:28:56is that
01:28:57because once
01:28:59you don't like the gift I gave you
01:29:00I won't take the initiative to give it to you anymore
01:29:02Because it's a red hook
01:29:03From now on
01:29:04I won't receive
01:29:06any help
01:29:07to change my information
01:29:09So it makes this information incomprehensible
01:29:10It becomes incomprehensible
01:29:13I'll give Zhang Shuo a trick
01:29:15Zhang Shuo
01:29:16directly give his salary card
01:29:17to his wife
01:29:19and let him
01:29:20have no money in his own pocket
01:29:23Then at this time
01:29:24what do you want? I'll give it to you
01:29:26After watching this part
01:29:27I have the biggest feeling
01:29:29that Shui Shui really likes
01:29:31and loves Zhang Shuo
01:29:32Yes
01:29:33But why does she love him?
01:29:34We can't find it out now
01:29:35We can't
01:29:36Because I think
01:29:37no matter in Zhang Shuo's heart
01:29:38even in Shui Shui's own cognition
01:29:40maybe this person can be saved
01:29:41Because Shui Shui just loves him
01:29:43I think he just loves him
01:29:46He is still in love
01:29:48Wake up
01:29:49Shui Shui is willing to believe what he sees
01:29:52but not willing to believe what he feels
01:29:56I think when a girl
01:29:58is young
01:30:00the seed of love
01:30:02is really planted in your heart
01:30:04After you recognize this person
01:30:06you can't admit to yourself
01:30:07that you are wrong
01:30:10I think he has been stable for so many years
01:30:12He has no courage
01:30:14to leave this
01:30:15slightly comfortable circle
01:30:17But as long as you jump out
01:30:18you will find that you will regret
01:30:19not leaving earlier
01:30:21The vast sky
01:30:23Shui Shui
01:30:24Shui Shui
01:30:29So Shui Shui
01:30:30lost to the silent cost of his love
01:30:34This sentence is so advanced
01:30:35This is very advanced
01:30:36I have to remember this
01:30:38So you will find
01:30:39the more he does
01:30:40the harder it is to leave Zhang Shuo
01:30:42Yes
01:30:43My idea is
01:30:44if two people are together
01:30:45and treat each other well
01:30:47this is a very positive thing
01:30:49Yes
01:30:50Give him all my best things
01:30:52I want to do this
01:30:53I also hope that the other person
01:30:54can give me the same
01:30:55I will observe this period of time
01:30:57if you treat me like this
01:30:58If you don't
01:30:59I will leave
01:31:00It's not worth it
01:31:02Let's take a look at the other couple
01:31:03Yes
01:31:04What are they talking about
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