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HỘI CHỊ LÀM MẸ là một chương trình talkshow với sự dẫn dắt duyên dáng của hot mom Thanh Trần cùng các mẹ bỉm sữa vô cùng trẻ trung năng động, đang độ tuổi phơi phới làm “chị” bỗng nhiên phải làm “mẹ”.
Chương trình xoay quanh tất tần tật những vấn đề của các “chị mẹ bỉm sữa” từ lúc còn phơi phới đến lúc có con và đến giai đoạn hiện tại. Ngoài ra là những màn vạch tội của các con vô cùng đáng yêu và lầy lội của các “chị mẹ” khi tham gia chương trình.
Mẹ bỉm Vũ Thị Thu Hồng hay còn gọi là Khloe hiện đang là nhiếp ảnh gia và social marketing Khloe đang sinh sống làm việc tại Singapore Cô có 1 thiên thần đáng yêu là Bé Ari Tan Ing Han 5 tuổi rưỡi. Từng là chị đại trong trường nhưng khi yêu lại bị lừa dối khi phủ phàng biết được yêu 6 năm nhưng hết 5 năm người chung ch8n gối với mình lại ngoại tình, trong 6 năm chăm con vô cùng vất vả vì phải chịu quá nhiều sự thờ ơ vô cảm từ chồng và hiện tại đang là một singlemom chính hiệu
Hội Chị Làm Mẹ phát sóng lúc 22H00 Thứ Sáu hằng tuần trên kênh youtube MCVMedia.
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HỘI CHỊ LÀM MẸ là một chương trình talkshow với sự dẫn dắt duyên dáng của hot mom Thanh Trần cùng các mẹ bỉm sữa vô cùng trẻ trung năng động, đang độ tuổi phơi phới làm “chị” bỗng nhiên phải làm “mẹ”.
Chương trình xoay quanh tất tần tật những vấn đề của các “chị mẹ bỉm sữa” từ lúc còn phơi phới đến lúc có con và đến giai đoạn hiện tại. Ngoài ra là những màn vạch tội của các con vô cùng đáng yêu và lầy lội của các “chị mẹ” khi tham gia chương trình.
Mẹ bỉm Vũ Thị Thu Hồng hay còn gọi là Khloe hiện đang là nhiếp ảnh gia và social marketing Khloe đang sinh sống làm việc tại Singapore Cô có 1 thiên thần đáng yêu là Bé Ari Tan Ing Han 5 tuổi rưỡi. Từng là chị đại trong trường nhưng khi yêu lại bị lừa dối khi phủ phàng biết được yêu 6 năm nhưng hết 5 năm người chung ch8n gối với mình lại ngoại tình, trong 6 năm chăm con vô cùng vất vả vì phải chịu quá nhiều sự thờ ơ vô cảm từ chồng và hiện tại đang là một singlemom chính hiệu
Hội Chị Làm Mẹ phát sóng lúc 22H00 Thứ Sáu hằng tuần trên kênh youtube MCVMedia.
Cùng MCV Media xem các sản phẩm xịn, deal siêu mịn:
◼ Website: https://mshop247.com/
◼ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mshop.mcv?lan...
Cùng MCV Media chăm sóc sức khỏe cho những người thân yêu:
◼ Website: doctornetwork.us
◼ Tải Doctor Network trên IOS: http://invite.doctornetwork.us
◼ Tải Doctor Network trên Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/de..
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00:00 [Music]
00:05 I think you were chased by many people, but you didn't want to do it, right?
00:09 Maybe I was too picky, so I chose the wrong one.
00:13 When I was pregnant, I was really sad.
00:17 Should I continue to have that relationship?
00:21 I should have a baby with my parents, and I should have a baby and two people register for marriage.
00:26 It's a healing journey, right?
00:29 But I was sad, too.
00:31 I registered for marriage, but my parents and my sister weren't there.
00:36 My fiancé was my baby's father's friend, my husband's friend.
00:41 After I gave birth, my parents didn't come.
00:44 My parents were with him.
00:45 I've known my husband for 6 years, but I found out that my husband was a 5-year-old.
00:51 [Music]
00:54 [Applause]
00:56 Welcome to the show "Sisters Who Make Moms".
00:59 The show is broadcast at 22.00 every Thursday on MCV Media YouTube channel and is broadcast on Netlub.
01:05 And today, my friend and sister Phuong Minh are here to welcome us.
01:10 Hello, everyone. I'm so happy to see you again.
01:13 I'm happy, too.
01:14 You look so cute when you're crying.
01:16 I'm so happy.
01:17 In the past, our show only welcomed Vietnamese mothers.
01:20 Today, we have a foreign mother.
01:23 Her name is also very easy to pronounce.
01:25 Khloe.
01:26 Khloe.
01:27 Khloe.
01:28 Are you curious about her personality?
01:30 I'm very curious.
01:31 She came from Singapore.
01:33 She flew here today.
01:35 She joined our show and then she flew back.
01:38 Oh my God.
01:39 Like riding a motorbike.
01:40 Please welcome our guest today.
01:44 Hello.
01:45 Hello.
01:46 Hello, Phuong Minh.
01:48 Hello, Thanh Tran.
01:50 My name is Vu Thi Thu Hong.
01:52 People call me Khloe or Khloe.
01:55 I'm doing social marketing for my friend's company, Limousine.
02:00 I also do photo editing.
02:04 Oh my God.
02:05 You're so good.
02:07 [Music]
02:27 If you have a child, I don't know how good you will be.
02:31 Tell me.
02:33 I don't think I'll be good.
02:35 You're good now.
02:37 I think I like my current appearance better.
02:40 I was very young at that time.
02:42 I was not as happy and playful as I am now.
02:46 I was very naughty when I was in school.
02:48 When my sister went to that school,
02:50 my old school,
02:51 the chemistry teacher remembered my face.
02:53 He said, "Is that Hong's sister?"
02:56 Oh my God.
02:57 It's like that.
02:58 From sister to sister.
02:59 That's right. From sister to sister.
03:01 When I was in the second and third grade,
03:05 I was bullied a lot.
03:06 I didn't have any siblings.
03:08 I had to be a brother.
03:10 I didn't let anyone bully me.
03:12 I was angry.
03:14 I hit and bullied.
03:16 Then I became a big sister.
03:18 You're scared.
03:19 I didn't expect that.
03:21 How do you deal with a child?
03:23 Let's go to the first hashtag.
03:24 [Music]
03:26 Dr. Network brings social and health information to every family.
03:30 The first hashtag is "Ask for your number".
03:34 Who? Who asked for it?
03:35 This is "Ask for your phone number".
03:37 When I started to study in Singapore,
03:39 I went to study business administration.
03:41 I met this guy by chance.
03:43 We had a course related to law.
03:47 He was in the class for a few times.
03:50 At first, I thought I would get my number.
03:52 Then we talked about studying.
03:55 He was a little bit shy.
03:57 He just went out to eat and play.
04:00 He gave me his number.
04:02 I was a little bit touched.
04:05 I felt a little bit uncomfortable.
04:07 Then I accepted his number.
04:10 So you went to find a girl.
04:12 No, I didn't.
04:13 I didn't ask for my number to get to know him.
04:15 I just wanted to study.
04:17 I think you were chased by many people.
04:20 You didn't accept it, right?
04:22 I was too picky.
04:24 I made a wrong choice.
04:26 I dated for a year.
04:28 I went back to Vietnam.
04:30 I didn't know I had a baby.
04:33 My mom and my sister said
04:35 "Why are you so fat?"
04:37 I had pimples on my face.
04:39 I thought it was just a day.
04:41 Nothing happened.
04:43 I went to ask for my number.
04:45 I found out I had a baby.
04:47 How did you find out?
04:48 I thought about what my mom and sister said.
04:51 I bought a ticket and tried.
04:53 I cried a lot that night.
04:56 Why did you cry?
04:57 I was 21 or 22 years old.
05:00 I was too young to know what to do.
05:02 I was pregnant.
05:03 I told him.
05:05 I told him I could do anything.
05:08 I didn't have a clear responsibility.
05:12 I didn't tell him I wanted to take care of my baby.
05:17 I just told him I could do anything.
05:20 I texted my sister.
05:22 I told her I was pregnant.
05:24 She said I could have a baby.
05:28 Your sister?
05:29 Yes.
05:30 I only told her.
05:32 The next day, he took me to the hospital.
05:34 I found out I was 4 weeks pregnant.
05:37 I was 4 weeks pregnant.
05:39 I was preparing for the final exam.
05:41 I was still studying.
05:43 I was still taking the exam.
05:45 He didn't tell me anything
05:47 to make sure I could take care of my baby.
05:50 I didn't know what would happen.
05:52 When the exam was over,
05:54 I went back to Vietnam.
05:56 He didn't visit me often.
05:58 It made me feel insecure.
06:00 I didn't tell my mom when I got back.
06:03 I only told my sister.
06:05 I wasn't sure about this.
06:07 I didn't know how to tell my mom.
06:09 I thought a lot about what to do.
06:12 I didn't want to give up my baby.
06:15 I decided to have a baby.
06:17 You made the decision.
06:19 Yes.
06:20 I was 3 months pregnant.
06:22 I told my mom.
06:24 She was very positive.
06:26 She said it was okay not to have a husband.
06:28 As long as I felt happy.
06:30 I'm curious about the next hashtag.
06:34 Let's see how it goes.
06:36 #MOMSUCKSUCKS
06:38 Pregnant women are usually like that.
06:40 This word sucks.
06:42 There's no such thing.
06:44 It's for me.
06:48 No.
06:50 It's for you.
06:52 Look at my bag.
06:54 Share with us.
06:56 I was pregnant.
06:58 I was very ugly.
07:00 I was fat.
07:02 I had a lot of pimples.
07:04 I had a lot of teeth.
07:06 You were so unlucky.
07:08 I was pregnant.
07:10 I was pregnant.
07:12 I couldn't eat.
07:14 I didn't know I had a lot of teeth.
07:16 I couldn't eat.
07:18 I just bit a little.
07:20 I didn't feel pain.
07:22 I just bit a little.
07:24 It was all over my brain.
07:26 I couldn't eat.
07:28 I couldn't chew.
07:30 My mom had to cook for me.
07:32 The meat was small.
07:34 I just put it in my mouth and swallowed it.
07:36 I had a lot of pimples.
07:38 I cried.
07:40 It was not normal.
07:42 It was a small pimple.
07:44 I was pregnant.
07:46 You had a lot of hormones.
07:48 Did you want to eat a lot of food?
07:50 Did you want to eat a lot of food?
07:52 Yes.
07:54 I wanted to eat Bak Kut Teh.
07:56 It's a Vietnamese dish.
07:58 It's a pork rib cooked with soup, pepper, etc.
08:00 I wanted to eat it so much.
08:02 Vietnam doesn't have it.
08:04 I was so hungry.
08:06 It's delicious there.
08:08 It's not delicious here.
08:10 I don't know if I was pregnant.
08:12 Did it affect your emotions?
08:14 Yes.
08:16 I was so sad when I was pregnant.
08:18 I was so sad when I was pregnant.
08:20 If I had decided to be a single mom,
08:22 I wouldn't have thought much.
08:24 But he texted me sometimes.
08:26 But he texted me sometimes.
08:28 He visited me sometimes.
08:30 He visited me sometimes.
08:32 But I was a girl.
08:34 I could feel everything.
08:36 He spent a lot of time on me.
08:38 He spent a lot of time on me.
08:40 When I texted him,
08:42 I bothered him.
08:44 When I texted someone,
08:46 he didn't answer.
08:48 I called him later.
08:50 I called him later.
08:52 He answered later.
08:54 But no one answered.
08:56 I could feel a lot.
08:58 I didn't want to think much.
09:00 I went to school.
09:02 I went to school in Vietnam.
09:04 I went to school in Vietnam.
09:06 I was happy when I was pretty.
09:08 I was more busy, I forgot about my troubles, I didn't think much about it.
09:13 Everyone talked about it a lot, "she should have a father, a full parent will be better"
09:18 I thought a lot and I said, "should I continue with that relationship to have a father and a mom?"
09:27 Then I returned to Vietnam, I had a conversation with my sister, "or register to get married there and have a child."
09:35 I said, "ok" and I thought it was fine.
09:38 We went to China, to Beijing, we had a trip together.
09:45 I decided to go to China and register to get married.
09:49 It was a trip to cure your illness, right?
09:51 But it was sad, I registered to get married, but my parents and sister weren't there.
09:58 My fiancé was my daughter's father's friend, my husband's friend, my husband's parents weren't there.
10:06 So there were only two people who came to register to get married.
10:11 It's not a big deal, but you imagined a wedding of your own, right?
10:15 But your husband is a Singaporean nationality.
10:18 My husband is a Singaporean nationality.
10:20 Is he a born Vietnamese or a Vietnamese?
10:22 He's a born Vietnamese.
10:23 He's a born Vietnamese, so my child will have a birth certificate.
10:26 So now I have to stick my foot in that place.
10:30 But I'm glad that after that trip, you two got to know each other better and decided to register to get married.
10:36 At that time, did you feel like you should do this?
10:39 I also thought that I should do this, I should give people another chance.
10:43 Usually, when I think I'm giving people a chance, I get all the false hopes.
10:49 I hope that I can give people a chance, but I hope that I can give people a chance.
10:54 I'm so sad, let's do a new hashtag.
10:56 Oh, right.
10:57 I'm so sad.
10:58 Next hashtag, "Break the baby's nipple when you take care of it."
11:01 This is a nightmare.
11:03 I remember when I first gave birth to my baby at the hospital,
11:06 the nurse taught me how to take care of the baby, how to carry the baby, or how to bathe the baby.
11:12 I had a lesson like that.
11:13 When I touched the baby, the baby was tiny.
11:15 It was so soft, I was afraid that I would hurt the baby.
11:19 I was in the hospital for 2 days, and when I got home, the nightmare started.
11:24 Did you give birth in Singapore?
11:26 I gave birth there.
11:27 Oh, really?
11:28 Oh, is there a difference between giving birth there and here?
11:31 Tell us.
11:32 When I started to transfer, I still went to the market with my mom in the morning.
11:37 I didn't know that I was going to transfer.
11:39 I just went, and my leg was broken.
11:42 It was like I was being dragged, but it didn't get worse.
11:46 I walked a few steps, and it got worse.
11:48 Then my mom asked me if I could go.
11:50 I said I could still go, so I went to the market.
11:54 Then I walked home.
11:55 I walked a lot because I had to give birth.
11:57 I kept getting hurt when I got home.
11:59 At 4 p.m., I called the doctor and said, "Oh my God, it hurts so much. What should I do?"
12:03 The doctor said, "Where are you? Why don't you go to the hospital? What are you doing at home?"
12:07 I just got a car, and I went to the hospital.
12:10 I didn't know what it was like in Vietnam, but I had a room there.
12:15 The doctor checked my heart, gave me medicine, and I just waited.
12:23 I waited for the heart to be checked, and then I had a diagnose.
12:26 I remember I stayed there for a long time.
12:28 I had a stomachache from 4 a.m. to 4 p.m. when I went to the hospital.
12:31 I was there until 12.56 p.m.
12:34 I just gave birth at night.
12:36 I saw my baby was so stubborn.
12:40 I couldn't stand it.
12:42 I asked the doctor if he could give me medicine.
12:44 He said no.
12:45 I just had a heart attack.
12:47 I gave birth to a normal baby.
12:49 At first, I thought I was going to have a baby.
12:51 My mom said, "Now, it's your mother's duty to try."
12:55 "If it doesn't work, we'll have a baby later."
12:57 I wanted to feel like a mother.
13:00 I decided to give birth to a normal baby.
13:05 It was so painful.
13:07 Did you have a baby with your husband?
13:10 Yes.
13:11 Did you let him see you giving birth?
13:14 Yes, I did.
13:15 I was the only one in the room.
13:17 My husband was in the room.
13:19 He watched me giving birth.
13:21 He cut the baby's umbilical cord.
13:23 I have a question.
13:24 In Singapore, everything is expensive.
13:27 Was it expensive to give birth?
13:29 Yes.
13:30 I lost about 8,000,000 VND when I gave birth.
13:35 It was about 150 million VND.
13:38 150 million VND.
13:39 You gave birth at night.
13:42 No, I didn't count the money I spent on the night.
13:45 You spent 8,000,000 VND on the night?
13:47 Yes, I spent 8,000,000 VND on the night.
13:50 But when I gave birth to the first baby,
13:53 the government gave me 8,000,000 VND.
13:55 It was like I gave birth to a free baby.
13:59 But the problem is that the money was for the baby's account.
14:02 It wasn't for my account.
14:04 The first baby was 8,000,000 VND.
14:05 The second baby was 11,000,000 VND.
14:07 Did you give birth to 3 babies?
14:09 Yes.
14:10 If I gave birth to 3 babies,
14:12 I would have to pay a lot of money.
14:14 Yes.
14:15 The government will give the money to the workers,
14:18 the baby's siblings,
14:19 the birth parents.
14:20 Then they will deposit it in the baby's account.
14:23 The baby's age is 18.
14:25 Yes, the money will be for the baby.
14:27 The baby can pay for the medical expenses.
14:29 The money can be used to pay for the baby's medical expenses.
14:33 And for the baby's education.
14:35 I think this is very good.
14:37 It helps the baby save money.
14:39 And there is another good thing.
14:41 When there is a deposit,
14:43 for example, I deposit 1,000 USD,
14:45 the government will give me 1,000 USD.
14:47 If I deposit 2,000 USD,
14:48 the government will give me 2,000 USD.
14:50 When it reaches 3,000 USD,
14:52 the government will not give me any more.
14:54 It's quite a lot.
14:56 Yes, it is.
14:57 So I think when I gave birth,
14:59 I would have to pay the money first.
15:01 But the government will give me that money.
15:03 I think it's very good.
15:05 I'm very happy.
15:06 I'm very happy to hold my baby.
15:08 When did you have a nightmare?
15:10 When I was taking care of my baby,
15:13 my mom was there.
15:15 But my mom was affected by the weather.
15:17 She waited all day.
15:18 She waited for my mom to be there for a month.
15:20 She had a fever.
15:22 She didn't dare to contact her mom.
15:24 Yes, she didn't dare to contact her mom.
15:26 My baby didn't sleep for a few days.
15:28 What?
15:29 She didn't sleep for a few days?
15:30 No, she didn't sleep at night.
15:31 Oh, I see.
15:32 She didn't sleep in bed.
15:34 I had to stand up.
15:36 I sat down and cried.
15:37 How did she know that?
15:38 She cried a lot.
15:39 I didn't know.
15:40 I didn't know.
15:41 It was only a few days.
15:42 It was like that for a few days.
15:44 I just stood up and cried.
15:47 I was more upset
15:49 because my dad was sleeping.
15:51 He didn't help me at all.
15:53 I see.
15:54 Most of the time,
15:55 when you were a baby,
15:56 all men were like that.
15:58 My baby cried.
15:59 My mom knocked on the door.
16:01 I asked her if she could help.
16:04 She said no.
16:05 I said, "Go to sleep. I can hold the baby."
16:07 That was one thing.
16:08 She didn't want to breastfeed.
16:11 She didn't want to breastfeed?
16:12 No, she didn't want to breastfeed.
16:14 I didn't have enough milk.
16:15 I only had 10ml of milk for 30 minutes.
16:18 That's not enough.
16:19 I didn't have enough milk.
16:20 I couldn't suck the baby's skin.
16:21 You didn't have enough milk.
16:22 But she still trusted me.
16:24 I still asked her to breastfeed.
16:26 I had to feed her with a bottle.
16:28 She didn't want to drink the bottle.
16:30 I gave her the bottle and she cried.
16:32 I had to use a spoon.
16:34 I used a needle to feed her.
16:35 I was afraid she would be hungry.
16:37 I had to do that.
16:38 I bought a lot of different milk bottles
16:40 for her to try.
16:41 I wanted to see which one she liked.
16:43 She didn't want to drink.
16:44 For months,
16:45 I had to bring a spoon
16:47 to Vietnam or somewhere else.
16:49 I had to mix the milk and feed her.
16:51 It took me 4 months.
16:53 I bought another bottle.
16:55 I gave her the bottle.
16:57 She drank it.
16:58 Everyone clapped.
17:00 I was so happy.
17:02 I was so happy.
17:04 Did you have a baby at that time?
17:06 Yes.
17:07 I was a little bit emotional.
17:09 I couldn't help her.
17:11 My parents didn't come to see me
17:13 after I gave birth.
17:15 Did you let them live there?
17:17 Or did you just let them live there?
17:19 No.
17:20 Because he didn't talk to us.
17:22 He didn't talk to us.
17:24 He didn't introduce us.
17:26 He didn't say anything.
17:28 He didn't say anything.
17:30 He didn't talk to us.
17:32 So we didn't respect him.
17:34 So we didn't respect him.
17:36 We didn't care about him.
17:38 He was the only grandson of my grandfather.
17:40 He came to visit me
17:42 a month later.
17:44 He came to visit me a month later.
17:46 I was wondering how long
17:48 your parents didn't come to see you.
17:50 Because he was your grandson.
17:52 I gave birth to my baby a month later.
17:54 My parents came to see me
17:56 because they didn't know me.
17:58 They didn't know how I was.
18:00 After they knew me,
18:02 everything was better.
18:04 I still keep in touch with my mom-in-law.
18:06 I still keep in touch with my mom-in-law.
18:08 We still go on a trip together.
18:10 You're not the same anymore?
18:12 You're not the same anymore?
18:14 I'm the same.
18:16 Let's move to the next hashtag.
18:18 Let's move to the next hashtag.
18:20 #1 Japan
18:22 #1 Japan
18:24 #1 Japan
18:26 #1 Japan
18:28 6 years of love, 5 years of not love.
18:30 So you've been together for 11 years
18:32 and you're the same?
18:34 So you've been together for 11 years and you're the same?
18:36 No, not 11 years.
18:38 I've known him for 6 years.
18:40 But I found out
18:42 that my husband was not in love for 5 years.
18:44 It's like watching a movie
18:48 with a cute girl.
18:50 Your husband was not in love for 5 years.
18:52 You didn't find out?
18:54 No, I thought
18:56 when I came back to Vietnam,
18:58 I was not in love.
19:00 But when I had a baby,
19:02 he had a new relationship.
19:04 Oh my god.
19:06 You explained all his heartlessness
19:08 and why you texted him
19:10 that he was busy.
19:12 When I had a baby,
19:14 I decided to get married.
19:16 We lived together for 3 years.
19:18 When I had a baby,
19:20 he started to go out
19:22 every day and night.
19:24 He didn't drink,
19:26 didn't smoke, didn't go out.
19:28 He went out
19:30 at 2, 3, 4 am
19:32 and came back at 8 am.
19:34 He went out longer than that.
19:36 I asked him
19:38 why he was so busy
19:40 and why he went out so much.
19:42 He said he had work at his office.
19:44 I didn't say much
19:46 because he explained it.
19:48 I just asked him.
19:50 During the pandemic,
19:52 he couldn't go to his family.
19:54 He had to go for 2 months.
19:56 He went out so much.
19:58 He went out until noon the next day.
20:00 Sometimes I was so mad that I called the police.
20:02 I couldn't go to my relatives' house.
20:04 I had to go to my family's house.
20:06 I thought I was suspicious.
20:08 But I was like
20:10 "If they don't respect me,
20:12 I won't keep him."
20:14 So I decided to take care of him.
20:16 I talked to him.
20:18 Sometimes I didn't sleep
20:20 until 8 am.
20:22 I sat on the sofa and waited for him to come home.
20:24 When he came home,
20:26 he looked at me.
20:28 I said "Sit down. We need to talk."
20:30 I asked him
20:32 "Why do you keep going out?
20:34 Why do you keep going out at night?"
20:36 He said "He's sick."
20:38 He's sick because of the pandemic.
20:40 He's so nice to you.
20:42 I said "If you want to keep this relationship,
20:44 you should reconsider."
20:46 "You can't go out all the time."
20:48 He was silent.
20:50 He was silent and you still tolerated him?
20:52 Yes, I tolerated him.
20:54 I tolerated him all the time.
20:56 For 5 years?
20:58 That's why I said "It's not me."
21:00 I was a different person.
21:02 I tolerated him and I accepted it.
21:04 It's not me anymore.
21:06 You tolerated him for 5 years.
21:08 When you couldn't stand it anymore,
21:10 what did you do?
21:12 I kept tolerating him for 2 years.
21:14 I gave birth to him.
21:16 After 2 years,
21:18 I couldn't stand it anymore.
21:20 I talked to my parents.
21:22 I told them
21:24 I thought I wouldn't continue this relationship.
21:26 My mother-in-law told me
21:28 I should solve my own problems.
21:30 My mother-in-law knew that.
21:32 I was so emotional.
21:34 I didn't care about my marriage.
21:36 I decided to do it
21:38 because I wanted to.
21:40 I didn't try to protect my child.
21:42 The worst thing was
21:44 I had to go back home
21:46 the next day.
21:48 I was so angry
21:50 when I went back home.
21:52 I knew I did wrong.
21:54 I looked at each other
21:56 and explained to her.
21:58 She didn't have anything to explain.
22:00 She was so calm.
22:02 She was so used to it.
22:04 She didn't lie to her.
22:06 She was so used to it.
22:08 When my family came to visit me,
22:10 my sister or my aunt,
22:12 they were so polite.
22:14 They waved at me
22:16 and they were so affectionate.
22:18 I was like "What?"
22:20 You were so polite.
22:22 I was always like that.
22:24 I was always like
22:26 "She cares about me."
22:28 "She cares about me."
22:30 I told her
22:32 if we couldn't be together anymore,
22:34 we should get a divorce.
22:36 We should get a divorce when she's still young.
22:38 I didn't want her to be sad
22:40 when she grew up.
22:42 I was a grown-up.
22:44 My parents got a divorce.
22:46 I understood how it felt.
22:48 I just kept my silence.
22:50 I didn't have any responsibility
22:52 or any solution.
22:54 I just kept my silence.
22:56 She was 2 years old.
22:58 I proposed to her
23:00 but he didn't want to get a divorce.
23:02 I told him a lot of things
23:04 but he didn't want to.
23:06 I kept on telling him
23:08 what to do.
23:10 I was like a housemate
23:12 but we were like a family.
23:14 We were like a family.
23:16 We were like a housemate.
23:18 Did he interact with you?
23:20 Did he love you?
23:22 I told him
23:24 if he's not a good husband,
23:26 he should be a good father.
23:28 He said no.
23:30 He didn't care about me
23:32 more than he cared about me.
23:34 I remember
23:36 when he came home from work
23:38 he was talking to his dad.
23:40 He kept talking to his dad
23:42 and I was like
23:44 "Can you put your phone down?"
23:46 "Can you hug me first?"
23:48 He was like "What?"
23:50 "Can't you see I'm busy?"
23:52 I was like "What?"
23:54 "Can you put your phone down?"
23:56 "Can you hug me first?"
23:58 "Can you put your phone down?"
24:00 He kept talking to his dad.
24:02 I told him
24:04 I decided to get a divorce
24:06 but he didn't want to get a divorce.
24:08 Why did you wait for him to get a divorce?
24:10 You could have just proposed to him.
24:12 It's not easy to get a divorce.
24:14 We had to live together for 3 years
24:16 to get a divorce.
24:18 If you two are in a marriage
24:20 and your husband is an ex-boyfriend
24:22 is there any law for that?
24:24 We have to have evidence.
24:26 But we have to have evidence
24:28 in the bed and everything.
24:30 It's more effective.
24:32 One day, he was sitting
24:34 and talking to me.
24:36 He mentioned about a divorce.
24:38 We were like "Ok."
24:40 I said "Ok."
24:42 We got a divorce.
24:44 He was wrong.
24:46 I trusted him.
24:48 It was during the pandemic.
24:50 I didn't meet a lawyer.
24:52 I only met him on Zoom.
24:54 I didn't think much.
24:56 He said I didn't need to meet anyone.
24:58 I just needed to sign the paper.
25:00 He lied to me.
25:02 When I received the divorce letter
25:04 from the court
25:06 he said it was because I was not good.
25:08 Oh my God.
25:10 I texted him
25:12 asking why I was not good.
25:14 He said it was just a reason.
25:16 It was nothing.
25:18 Why did you blame your wife?
25:20 I didn't want to
25:22 blame him.
25:24 It was our business.
25:26 I didn't want to drag him
25:28 into this or that.
25:30 We decided to
25:32 have a baby together.
25:34 But for the past 5 years
25:36 I thought it was just an affair.
25:38 Maybe after 2 years
25:40 I would have a baby
25:42 and break up.
25:44 But no.
25:46 I had a baby.
25:48 He posted a picture of my baby
25:50 saying goodbye to my baby
25:52 and saying goodbye to my baby.
25:54 I knew we had been together
25:56 for 5 years.
25:58 You were the boss.
26:00 You didn't even have a heartbreak.
26:02 He posted a picture of my baby.
26:04 I knew we had been together
26:06 for 5 years
26:08 and break up.
26:10 You were the boss.
26:12 You were the boss.
26:14 He understood.
26:16 He understood.
26:18 You had to have hope.
26:20 Sometimes I didn't like
26:22 to understand.
26:24 I wanted my baby to live
26:26 at the right age.
26:28 When I got divorced
26:30 and moved out,
26:32 he asked me
26:34 why I didn't live with him anymore
26:36 and why I didn't live with him anymore.
26:38 Sometimes he would visit me
26:40 and my dad.
26:42 I said it was okay.
26:44 We had many families.
26:46 So your ex-husband
26:48 let him live with you.
26:50 Yes.
26:52 We decided to take care of him.
26:54 He was very close to me.
26:56 I took care of him since he was a baby.
26:58 He would go out with his dad.
27:00 He would say
27:02 "Mom, I love you so much."
27:04 "I love you so much."
27:06 "I love you so much."
27:08 He was 6 years old.
27:10 He was very sweet to me.
27:12 Did he speak Vietnamese or English?
27:14 He couldn't speak Vietnamese.
27:16 He could only speak English.
27:18 He often praised me.
27:20 "You are so beautiful."
27:22 "You are so beautiful."
27:24 "You are so beautiful."
27:26 "You are so beautiful."
27:28 I didn't understand.
27:30 I often said this.
27:32 When you were 5 years old,
27:34 when you found out
27:36 that he had taken that girl,
27:38 what did you do?
27:40 I decided to divorce him.
27:42 I signed the divorce papers.
27:44 The court accepted it.
27:46 I signed the divorce papers.
27:48 I divorced him.
27:50 I married that girl.
27:52 How did you feel?
27:54 I was very angry.
27:56 I even argued with those two people.
27:58 I even went to the police.
28:00 I didn't want to take that girl.
28:02 I didn't want to give her to someone else.
28:04 I had already signed the divorce papers.
28:06 I didn't think that he would take her home so soon.
28:08 I didn't think that he would take her home so soon.
28:10 I didn't think that he would take her home so soon.
28:12 I told him that we had lived together.
28:14 I told him that we had lived together.
28:16 I told him that we had lived together.
28:18 I told him that we had lived together.
28:20 I argued with that girl.
28:22 I argued with that girl.
28:24 I argued with that girl.
28:26 I told him that it was not his problem.
28:28 I told him that I didn't talk to him.
28:30 I told him that I didn't talk to him.
28:32 I told him that I didn't talk to him.
28:34 He signed the divorce papers.
28:36 He signed the divorce papers.
28:38 I told him that I was married.
28:40 I told him that I was married.
28:42 I was shocked.
28:44 My ex-husband said that he didn't want to talk to me.
28:46 He said that he was afraid that I would be hurt.
28:48 He said that he was afraid that I would be hurt.
28:50 He said that he was afraid that I would be hurt.
28:52 He said that he was afraid that I would be hurt.
28:54 He said that he was afraid that I would be hurt.
28:56 He was so kind.
28:58 I called my mom and my husband.
29:00 I called my mom and my husband.
29:02 We should let go of the bad things.
29:04 We should let go of the bad things.
29:06 We should let go of the bad things.
29:08 We should let go of the bad things.
29:10 We should let go of the bad things.
29:12 We should let go of the bad things.
29:14 My son is very good at doing bad things.
29:16 My son is very good at doing bad things.
29:18 I dropped my phone in the trash can.
29:20 I dropped my phone in the trash can.
29:22 I didn't have time to fix it.
29:24 I didn't have time to fix it.
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