It's Showtime: Dalagang maagang naulila, nakahanap ng bagong pamilya! (EXpecially For You)

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Aired (June 27, 2024): Dahil sa mga naranasan ni Cheng no’ng siya’y bata pa, hindi maiwasan itanong ni Vice sa dalaga kung naisip ba niyang masyadong maaga at mabilis ang mga pangyayari no’ng siya'y nagkipag-live in na. #GMANetwork

Madlang Kapuso, join the FUNanghalian with #ItsShowtime family. Watch the latest episode of 'It's Showtime' hosted by Vice Ganda, Anne Curtis, Vhong Navarro, Karylle, Jhong Hilario, Amy Perez, Kim Chui, Jugs & Teddy, MC & Lassy, Ogie Alcasid, Darren, Jackie, Cianne, Ryan Bang, and Ion Perez.

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00:00Back then, you were a minor, right? I was thinking about that earlier.
00:04What were you thinking back then?
00:06You were a minor, and you were going to be with the guy, your first boyfriend.
00:11What were you thinking?
00:14What was your concept of the relationship back then?
00:17What were your expectations of the relationship?
00:19What were your fears as a young girl,
00:22entering that situation?
00:25Actually, when we got divorced,
00:31his mom talked to me before everything was settled.
00:35She told me that it's okay for us to have a relationship
00:39as long as I love him.
00:41As a woman, I should prioritize myself.
00:48It shouldn't be all about love.
00:50That's why I stayed there.
00:52I was happy with them.
00:55I was happy to be with them,
00:58to have someone to take care of me,
01:01someone to cook for me,
01:03and someone to teach me how to do housework.
01:06I learned a lot.
01:08But back then, weren't you aware
01:11or weren't you aware at all
01:15that it's too early for you to be together?
01:19No, I wasn't aware.
01:21I didn't understand why.
01:24It's like the two of us just wanted to be together.
01:28Even if we're not doing anything,
01:30even if we're just lying down, watching TV,
01:32as long as we're together,
01:34that's what's important to us.
01:36So back then, you just thought that you love each other.
01:38Yes.
01:39For example, Cheng, you're getting older, right?
01:41You already have your own child.
01:43He's already 15 years old.
01:45If he tells you,
01:47Mommy, I want to live with him,
01:49will you allow him?
01:51He'll be with his boyfriend.
01:53To be honest, of course not.
01:55Not really.
01:57Actually, I thought about it,
01:59but I was already old when I thought about it.
02:01But there's a reason why.
02:03I feel like there's a reason
02:05why we're so eager
02:07to be together at that age.
02:09I know there's a reason.
02:11So you won't allow him?
02:13No.
02:15Why did you, Mommy, do the same thing?
02:17Why can't I do the same thing?
02:21I can't explain it
02:23because I'm not in that situation.
02:25But I will try my best
02:27that if I can't allow it,
02:29I can find a way
02:31to ease his mind
02:33so that he won't think about it.
02:35That's it.
02:37I feel like at that point,
02:39he's looking for a family.
02:41That's not enough.
02:43You're not with him at home.
02:45You don't have a mother.
02:47And your boyfriend's mother
02:49gave birth to you.
02:51She's also your mother.
02:53You saw her.
02:55Your siblings are not with you.
02:57He has siblings
02:59who are okay with you
03:01and treat you like a family.
03:03So I feel like
03:05the sense of family
03:08he built there.
03:10Even though
03:12he's not entertaining you.
03:14This is just based on
03:16my opinion
03:18on your story.
03:20He's not thinking
03:22if I'm still a kid.
03:24This is my home.
03:26This is my home.
03:28This is like my family
03:30and I want to be with them.
03:32It's not solely
03:34or the main reason is
03:36boyfriend, girlfriend, boyfriend.
03:38No. He wants to stay there
03:40not just because of his boyfriend.
03:42He wants to stay there because of his mother,
03:44his siblings, his family,
03:46the love I feel,
03:48the care they give to me.
03:50Aside from that, there are a lot of bonuses.
03:52He started the relationship
03:54as a boyfriend-girlfriend.
03:56There are a lot of bonuses.
03:58You have a mother, a sibling,
04:00a partner in life.
04:02And based on his explanation,
04:04he's happy there.
04:06Yes, he's really happy.
04:08He knows the feeling of
04:10being able to hear you being scolded.
04:12That's what he's looking for.
04:14Family.
04:16Of course,
04:18the viewers might say,
04:20you're romanticizing the kid
04:22who's already living in.
04:24No, we do not encourage that.
04:26We don't encourage and tell the kids
04:28that it's okay.
04:30Live in, join your boyfriends,
04:32join your parents.
04:34We don't give that message to the viewers.
04:36But when we hear the story,
04:38we try to understand
04:40where the people are coming from.
04:42We're trying to listen with them.
04:44We will try to listen to them
04:46with empathy,
04:48and compassion.
04:50For example, you're in a situation
04:52where you don't have a family.
04:54You don't feel like you have a family.
04:56There's a family
04:58that supports you and makes you feel this.
05:00Don't you think
05:02or consider
05:04the idea that
05:06they are the reason
05:08why you have a family?
05:10Because all of us,
05:12aside from our true family,
05:14we can find a family in other people,
05:16in other houses,
05:18in other places.
05:20In the most distant place.
05:22Even if we're not blood relatives,
05:24we're not neighbors.
05:26Because sometimes,
05:28we don't feel
05:30that we're close to each other.
05:32But people who are far away,
05:34no matter the distance,
05:36they connect with us.
05:38And it gives us that strong sense of family.
05:40I feel that's what happened to you.
05:42Yes.
05:44Maybe you got the words
05:46that I wanted to say.
05:48That's why you said earlier
05:50that you want to be open to other people.
05:52Yes.
05:54Because he's not with you
05:56yet.
05:58So it gets.
06:00Okay.

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