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00:00Talk to them. You have three questions that they will answer.
00:08What emotion do you hope you won't feel yet?
00:11What emotion do you hope you won't feel yet?
00:15What emotion do you hope you won't feel yet?
00:17Trevor, search number one.
00:19For me, the emotion that I don't want to feel yet is anger.
00:23Especially towards myself.
00:26For example, there are things that I can't do, my goals.
00:31I become hard towards myself.
00:35Got it. Thank you, Trevor.
00:37Anton, search number two.
00:39For me, it's the sadness that you don't know where it comes from.
00:44The sadness that you don't know where it comes from is like,
00:48why am I sad?
00:50Why did I suddenly come from a happy thing?
00:54It's like, you're suddenly down.
00:56It's like, you suddenly don't know, where did I feel this?
01:01I'm happy all day.
01:03So you don't want to feel the sadness that you don't know where it comes from.
01:07Zemin.
01:09It's also anger.
01:11Because when you're angry, instead of being productive,
01:14you're self-sabotaging yourself.
01:16Self-sabotage?
01:18Wow, I just know self-service.
01:20He has self-sabotage.
01:22He has self-sabotage.
01:24I just know, selfless.
01:26You're self-sabotaging yourself.
01:28You're self-destructing yourself.
01:30It's like, Trevor,
01:32he can be so hard on himself
01:34when he's angry, when he's frustrated.
01:36Anton, what did you say?
01:38It's sadness.
01:40Sadness that you don't know where it comes from.
01:42You know,
01:44when you're on the side,
01:46you're being taught,
01:48because it's scary.
01:50You know,
01:52there are many reasons
01:54why you're like that.
01:56You need to learn that
01:58and address why.
02:00It's mental health.
02:02They'll get it right.
02:04Cheng, who will you give the green flag to?
02:06And why?
02:08Number 3.
02:10Oh, Zemin.
02:12He's so cocky.
02:14People are so handsome.
02:16Okay, why number 3?
02:18Because,
02:20they're the same as number 1,
02:22but their thoughts are more scary
02:24because it's possible
02:26that other people might be affected.
02:28It's like that.
02:30Mother Bibiana,
02:32do you agree with Zemin's answer?
02:34Yes.
02:36How about you?
02:38What's the emotion that you don't want to feel?
02:40It's
02:42self-pity.
02:44Because
02:46that's where it all starts.
02:48When I pity myself,
02:50I can't do anything right.
02:52That's where
02:54I feel irritated.
02:56That's why
02:58I always avoid it.
03:00Sometimes,
03:02sadness and anger are normal to us.
03:04It's just
03:06self-pity
03:08that I want to get rid of.
03:10Question number 2, Cheng.
03:12What's the saddest thing
03:14that you've experienced in your life
03:16and how will you get over it?
03:20Let's start with Zemin.
03:22Search number 3.
03:24Maybe
03:26the saddest thing that happened to me
03:28was when I was 16,
03:30I moved out of home
03:32just to feel a sense of safe space.
03:34I got over it
03:36just these few years
03:38when I was able to reflect.
03:40Why did it become the saddest thing?
03:42When you moved out of your home,
03:44why was it so sad?
03:46During that time,
03:48I felt pity for a 16-year-old
03:50who needs to find
03:52a safe space to live in.
03:54Why didn't you feel safe
03:56in your own home?
03:58Because I'm from a broken family.
04:00There's no structure
04:02in the house,
04:04no guidance.
04:06I feel safer
04:08when I'm on my own.
04:12Hmm.
04:14Okay.
04:16Trevor,
04:18search number 1.
04:20The saddest thing
04:22that happened to me
04:24was maturing at an early age.
04:26What?
04:28When I was 14,
04:30I wanted to help
04:32my parents
04:34by getting scholarships,
04:36basketball,
04:38so that I can help them
04:40when they're in need.
04:42Why was it the saddest thing?
04:44Because,
04:46growing up,
04:48I experienced a lot
04:50that I shouldn't have
04:52when I was a kid.
04:54Like what?
04:56A lot.
04:58Like,
05:00my parents are separated.
05:02I'm from a broken family,
05:04so I have problems with my family.
05:06I'm the one who's facing it
05:08when I was a kid.
05:10So, it's sad
05:12because you need to mature
05:14so that you can help your family.
05:16Your childhood
05:18wasn't enjoyed.
05:20It's sad, right?
05:22Actually, I feel sad
05:24when I hear stories like that.
05:26A lot of kids miss their childhood.
05:28They don't enjoy their old age
05:30because they need to fulfill
05:32their parents' obligations
05:34for themselves and their families.
05:37It's sad.
05:39Because they can't go back to their childhood.
05:41A normal kid
05:43should focus on
05:45his school assignments,
05:49his games,
05:51how to win with his teammates.
05:53It shouldn't be too heavy.
05:55But imagine if a kid
05:57thinks about how to get food
05:59on the table.
06:01That's kind of sad.
06:03And the sadness of a kid
06:05who has a donation
06:07at school
06:09but he can't pay it.
06:11You'll be embarrassed
06:13because you can't reach it.
06:15It's hard.
06:17Let's ask Anton.
06:19For me,
06:21the saddest thing
06:23is loving someone
06:25who doesn't even know
06:27how to love you back.
06:29Because
06:31I had an experience
06:33where I liked
06:35a person
06:37who is still healing.
06:39He doesn't know
06:41how to give love
06:43to others
06:45or to himself.
06:47He prioritizes
06:49love for himself.
06:51Why is that so sad for you?
06:53Are you looking for love now?
06:55Are you looking for reciprocation?
06:57Yes.
06:59At that time,
07:01he told me that
07:03I was special.
07:05We're very close to each other.
07:07The attachment is there.
07:09Then he realized
07:11that she's not ready yet.
07:13You were hoping.
07:15Yes, I was hoping.
07:17You were hoping.
07:19You know, what hurts
07:21I've read
07:23what gives pain and suffering
07:25is not love.
07:27It's your attachment.
07:29The attachment
07:31is what hurts you.
07:33It's not love.
07:35It's the attachment
07:37that gives you
07:39the expectation
07:41that you'll get something.
07:43You'll feel something.
07:45Love is unconditional.
07:47Love is
07:49to love someone,
07:51to take care of them,
07:53to do something good to them.
07:55But because you're attached
07:57you're expecting
07:59that you'll receive what you're giving.
08:01If you love him,
08:03I hope he'll love me too.
08:05I hope my time with him
08:07will be his time with me.
08:09And because you can't get that,
08:11that gives you pain and suffering.
08:13It's the attachment that gives you pain and suffering.
08:15It's not love.
08:17Cheng, who will you give the green flag to?
08:19Number one,
08:21the one who needs to mature
08:23to help his family.
08:25That's right, Trevor.
08:27For Anton, number two,
08:29the one who loves
08:31a person who doesn't know
08:33how to return his love
08:35because he's not fully healed.
08:39For Zemy,
08:41the saddest thing
08:43in his life is that
08:45he needs to leave his home
08:47to find a safe space.
08:51Number one.
08:53I can't relate
08:55to that.
08:57You need to mature
08:59at a young age.
09:01You should think
09:03that you're just playing with your friends.
09:05But the priority is different
09:07when you have
09:09responsibilities.
09:11Yes, responsibilities.
09:15Congratulations, Trevor.
09:17You have a green flag.
09:19Mommy Viviana, approve?
09:21Approve!
09:25Trevor, do you want to answer
09:27or do you have a different answer, mother?
09:29Mommy Viviana,
09:31what will you answer?
09:33Please repeat the question, Cheng.
09:35What is the saddest thing
09:37that happened
09:39in your life
09:41and how did you overcome it?
09:43Mommy, take a deep breath
09:45and then answer.
09:471, 2, 3.
09:49Mommy, do you want us to speed up
09:51this ride?
09:53Your mother
09:55looks like she's tired.
09:57When you help each other,
09:59think fast.
10:03It looks like she's enjoying
10:05sitting like that.
10:07Mommy will answer.
10:09Stephen will answer.
10:11Are they your kids?
10:13Yes, they're our kids.
10:15While you're enjoying,
10:17she's enjoying.
10:19Yes, we can see that she's enjoying.
10:21Do you want us to take her home?
10:23She's really enjoying here.
10:27These kids are laughing at their mother.
10:31Mommy, what is your answer?
10:33To overcome
10:35everything,
10:37let's just think
10:39and pray to the Lord.
10:41He's always with us.
10:43We can overcome everything.
10:45That's true.
10:47While you're making solutions,
10:49join in the prayer
10:51for blessings.
10:53Congratulations, Trevor.
10:55You also have a green flag. What's your last question, Cheng?
10:57Number 3.
10:59If we become a couple,
11:01will it still affect me
11:03being close to my ex's mother?
11:05Let's start with Anton
11:07who's searching for number 2.
11:09For me, it won't affect
11:11being close to
11:14your ex's mother.
11:16Because
11:18you guys have known each other since the beginning.
11:20I arrived there late.
11:22It's like a friendship
11:24that you've known each other
11:26since you were young.
11:28Then you'll have new friends.
11:30It's like me.
11:32You've been close for a long time.
11:34You've been through a lot.
11:36But as your boyfriend,
11:38Uhm...
11:40Just a boyfriend.
11:42Confidence.
11:44Okay, okay.
11:46For me,
11:48there are limitations.
11:50You have to say goodbye.
11:52You have to know
11:54what you should do.
11:56I should only do this
11:58with my ex's mother.
12:00And
12:02I also have a mother.
12:04So we have two moms.
12:06Sometimes,
12:08you still go home to them, right?
12:10Sometimes, I go home.
12:12How about you?
12:14Do you go to your ex's mother's house?
12:16For me,
12:18it's okay.
12:20And your siblings are there.
12:22One of them has a tattoo.
12:26Okay, what about
12:28Trevor?
12:30For me,
12:32it's not going to be a problem.
12:34First of all,
12:36we all had our individual lives
12:38before meeting each other.
12:40And they have something in common.
12:42They have a good relationship.
12:44And
12:46they love each other.
12:48So why would I stop them?
12:50Thank you.
12:52Zemin, question number 3.
12:54Uhm...
12:56It's not a problem.
12:58And it has no effect.
13:00Because I have to commend my aunt
13:02to be the mother figure of Yicheng.
13:04And I will treat my aunt
13:06like uhm...
13:10I will treat my aunt
13:12like her own mother.
13:14Oh...
13:16It's like Bibiana is listening.
13:20It's like Bibiana is really appreciating
13:22the answers for today's video.
13:24As Bibiana said...
13:30Where is your dad?
13:32He's in Tacloban.
13:34He's far away. He won't know.
13:36He's on his way home.
13:38He's mad.
13:40His wife is on her way home.
13:42Check!
13:44You were about to give your last green flag.
13:46To number 3.
13:48To Zemin!
13:50What did you like in his answer?
13:52Because uhm...
13:54The first thing he said is
13:56that he values the love
13:58of my ex to each other.
14:00So if it's like that,
14:02I know that he understands.
14:06Thank you very much.
14:08Congratulations, Zemin.
14:10You will date Yicheng.
14:12And because of that,
14:14here are the searchees that you didn't get to choose.
14:16Searchee number 1, introduce yourself.
14:18Hi, Cheng.
14:20Nice to meet you.
14:22Good luck to your future endeavors.
14:24And always be careful.
14:26Thank you.
14:28Did you say something?
14:30Did you just nod?
14:32Nothing.
14:34He incensed Cheng.
14:38And of course, Cheng,
14:40here's Anton, the one you didn't get to choose.
14:44Hi, nice to meet you.
14:46Uhm,
14:48all I can say is
14:50good luck on your date with Zemin.
14:52He's a very nice person.
14:54When we first met,
14:56I immediately fell for him.
14:58He's a very jolly person.
15:00Good luck.
15:02Your son is handsome.
15:04Your school bus has arrived.
15:06Come to papa.
15:08Come here.
15:10Come here.
15:12He's so handsome.
15:14His nickname is Pancit.
15:16Kiss papa.
15:18What's his first name?
15:20Pancit.
15:22Pancit Anton.
15:26Okay, Cheng.
15:28Let's listen to
15:30your ex's mom,
15:32Mommy Viviana.
15:36Uhm,
15:38it's like Chinco.
15:40Your mom is lazy.
15:42She doesn't want to stand up.
15:44She enjoys standing up.
15:46The kids are laughing
15:48from the top.
15:50Yes, Mommy Viviana.
15:52For Cheng,
15:54good luck on your date.
15:56I hope you're happy
15:58and take care of yourself.
16:00Love you.
16:02Love you, mom.
16:04Cute.
16:06Cheng,
16:08what do you want to say to Mommy Viviana?
16:10Thank you, mom,
16:12for always understanding
16:14and loving me.
16:16I promise that
16:18whatever happens,
16:20my love for you will stay.
16:22For Russell,
16:24it won't go away.
16:26Love you, mom.
16:28I love you.
16:30Take care.
16:32Mommy Viviana,
16:34what do you want to say to Junie?
16:36You should have something to say.
16:38Okay, sir. Thank you.
16:40She's messaging him.
16:44Mommy, do you want to say something
16:46to Zemin?
16:48To Zemin,
16:50good luck on your date
16:52and take care of Jason.
16:54Yes, mom.
16:56Thank you.
16:58Zemin,
17:00put Cheng aside.
17:04I love you.