Bad Zuban Biwi Ka Elaj - Very Important Bayan by Molana Tariq Jameel Latest Bayan14 June 2023
Bad Zuban Biwi Ka Elaj - Very Important Bayan by Molana Tariq Jameel Latest Bayan14 June 2023
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00:00My wife is very ill-mannered. I have thought of divorcing her many times, but I have three children.
00:08When I see my children, I drink my patience. Otherwise, I want to divorce her right now and throw her out of the house.
00:17Wealth is also there, beauty is also there, face is also there, respect is also there, comfort is also there.
00:24What is not there?
00:26A woman came to meet me. The one who introduced me to her said that her husband is a bad man.
00:37There are a few bad men in Pakistan.
00:40That woman came to me and started crying before speaking.
00:45Otherwise, a woman or a man comes first and shouts, then cries.
00:49She cried first and then said,
00:52Maulana sahib, people consider me to be very fortunate that I am the wife of a very rich man.
00:57But I curse his wealth that his behavior with me is not good.
01:01So what should I do with a diamond set? What should I do with a gold and silver set?
01:05What should I do with this car worth millions of rupees?
01:08When my husband's behavior with me is not human and his morals are not good.
01:13I will burn all this wealth. I want love, I want morals. He has none of that.
01:19A few days later, I heard another incident. A young man, very handsome.
01:23He was also the same, but very rich.
01:27He came to me and started crying, Maulana sahib.
01:30Now what should I do? My life is ruined.
01:33I have such a luxurious house. I have such a good income.
01:38But what should I do? I started telling him the same words.
01:42My wife's tongue is 20 feet long.
01:44I said, where did you keep it?
01:49I said, why don't you cut that much? Maybe it will be less.
01:53He said, my wife is very ill-mannered.
01:56I have thought of divorcing her many times.
01:59But I have three children.
02:01When I see my children, I drink my patience.
02:06Otherwise, I want to divorce her right now and throw her out of the house.
02:09Wealth is also there. Beauty is also there.
02:12Face is also there. Respect is also there.
02:15Peace is also there. What is not there?
02:18Morality is not there.
02:20Beauty is not there.
02:22Love is not there.
02:24If you want to see happiness in your house.
02:27If you want to make every relationship prosperous.
02:31Then learn to love my Prophet.
02:36Your children, your children, your siblings, your parents.
02:40Mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law, mother-in-law.
02:42Father-in-law, daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law.
02:43Father-in-law, brother, brother, sister, sister.
02:46Learn to tolerate for the sake of Allah.
02:48I swear by my Lord.
02:50The peace and tranquility of the whole world is in tolerance.
02:53It is in patience. It is in patience. It is in patience.
02:57Language. Language.
02:59A young man came to me.
03:01He said, I have a fight with my wife. Give me some amulet.
03:04I said, amulets do not affect wives.
03:07He said, what should I do?
03:09I said, I will tell you a practice. Sunnah practice.
03:12He said, I fed my wife with one or two bites.
03:18He said, what will happen with this?
03:20I said, you will see.
03:22I will ask you what will happen.
03:24I said, this is Sunnah practice.
03:26Love will increase with this.
03:28After 8-10 days, his phone rang to ask about me.
03:33I remembered what I said.
03:35I said, did you follow what I said?
03:37He said, no.
03:38I said, why?
03:39He said, shame.
03:41Don't you feel shame when you fight?
03:43Does anyone ever fight with a weak person?
03:45The poor woman is weak.
03:47The women here are powerful.
03:49I have heard that they are very brave.
03:51And their husbands are all goats.
03:53This is the opposite.
03:55Women are brave, husbands are goats.
03:57So, please give respect to your husbands.
04:00And give respect to your wives.
04:02Live with love.
04:04I said, fool.
04:06Does anyone ever fight with a weak person?
04:08Don't you feel shame in this?
04:11Sunnah.
04:13I said, do it and tell me.
04:15After 2 hours, his phone rang.
04:17I said, Maulana, it was lunch.
04:19I gave my wife a bite.
04:21Her mouth was open.
04:24She said, you didn't do it yourself.
04:26Someone told you.
04:28Who told you?
04:29You tell me.
04:30You don't have this capacity.
04:31Who taught you this lesson?
04:33He said, Maulana Jameel taught me this lesson.
04:36He said, my wife picked up her bag.
04:39And said, Maulana Jameel.
04:41May Allah keep his children safe.
04:43Who made you human.
04:45My brothers and sisters.
04:47Learn to be patient.
04:49We had a sister.
04:51She died.
04:53So, she came to my sister.
04:55She was small in stature.
04:57She was a big girl.
04:59She came and said to my sister.
05:01My sister knows you well.
05:03My wife, my 9 daughters fight.
05:05Give me some advice.
05:08Now, my sister knew.
05:10The whole fight.
05:12It starts with Maasi Sharif.
05:14There are some innocent people.
05:16Small in stature.
05:17So, my sister made a talisman.
05:19And.
05:21She rolled it.
05:23She said, Maasi Sharif.
05:25Now that you have fought.
05:27You eat this talisman.
05:29And sit.
05:31And don't leave.
05:33If you leave, you will die.
05:35She fixed it.
05:37What did she do?
05:39She made Maasi Sharif quiet.
05:41Now, our village environment.
05:43There is a lot of belief in talismans.
05:45The right talismans have an effect.
05:47But most of the time.
05:49They are sitting around.
05:51So, on the 8th day she came.
05:53My wife, you gave a very good talisman.
05:55The whole fight ended.
05:57Why? Because Maasi Sharif became quiet.
05:59So.
06:01I am giving this talisman.
06:03I am giving this talisman.
06:05Take all this.
06:07Take this man too.
06:09And when there is a fight.
06:11Keep it here and sit quietly.
06:13Your fights will end.
06:15If you keep talking.
06:17Then the fight will not end.
06:19Learn the life of my prophet.
06:21Learn to forgive.
06:23Learn to love.
06:25Don't let the two speak to each other.
06:27Avoid such immorality.
06:29And the last thing is.
06:31If you have a passport.
06:33Then this is your country.
06:35Respect its law.
06:37Respect its law.
06:39With the government here.
06:41I have come to know that there are many people.
06:43They are taking jobs by pretending to be ill.
06:45This is haram.
06:47This is deceit.
06:49This is fraud.
06:51The government is so sympathetic to you.
06:53Sit at home and give you a job.
06:55Put jobs for your children.
06:57You have to cheat them.
06:59By God.
07:01You are doing fraud with yourself.
07:03You are deceiving yourself.
07:05You are not deceiving them.
07:07You are deceiving yourself.
07:09A Sardarji got on the train.
07:11He was laughing.
07:13People asked.
07:15Sardarji, you are laughing a lot.
07:17He said.
07:19I did a lot of fraud with the railway people.
07:21He said.
07:23Sardarji, what did you do?
07:25He said.
07:27Sardarji.
07:29He said.
07:31Sardarji.
07:33You are deceiving yourself.
07:35All the fraudsters.
07:37They are deceiving themselves.
07:39For the sake of Allah.
07:41Do not steal tax.
07:43Do not do fraud.
07:45Do not deceive the girls here.
07:47Do not get married.
07:49When the British ruled India.
07:51In Delhi.
07:53There was a pickpocket.
07:55His disciple brought two rupees in the evening.
07:57He slapped him.
07:59Two rupees in the whole day.
08:01He said.
08:03I stole a lot of money today.
08:05I stole a white man's pocket.
08:07When I walked four steps.
08:09Listen to the faith of the thieves of that time.
08:11When I walked four steps.
08:13I thought.
08:15If on the Day of Judgment, Jesus Christ.
08:17Complained to my Prophet.
08:19That your Ummati stole my Ummati's pocket.
08:21My Prophet will be ashamed.
08:23Then I said.
08:25My Prophet is ashamed because of me.
08:27I returned it to him.
08:29Give me two rupees.
08:33He gave him ten rupees as a reward.
08:35This ten rupees is your reward.
08:37If you are from this country.
08:39If you have a passport.
08:41You are from here.
08:43Help your relatives.
08:45But my brothers and sisters.
08:47Make it your country.
08:49Spend on the poor here.
08:51It is given to every Muslim.
08:53But instead of sending charity.
08:55How many poor people are here.
08:57How many needy people are here.
08:59How many people do not have a home.
09:01How many people are from the council.
09:03They are eating bread.
09:05It is not enough.
09:07Find such people and spend on them.
09:09Help them.
09:11Help someone financially.
09:13My Prophet said.
09:15It is necessary for every Muslim.
09:17To give charity.
09:19To give charity.
09:21The companions said.
09:23There is no money.
09:25He said.
09:27Go to the market and work.
09:29Collect the price of labor.
09:31And give charity.
09:33Charity is so important.
09:35It avoids calamities.
09:37It avoids troubles.
09:39The people who live here.
09:41Respect the law here.
09:43Respect the law here.
09:45Do not do two things for Allah.
09:47My Prophet said.
09:49My Ummah can do every sin.
09:51It will never cheat.
09:53It will never lie.
09:55For the sake of Allah.
09:57Do not cheat.
09:59You are fighting somewhere.
10:01Give love and forgiveness.
10:03Give time to your children.
10:05Give them good education.
10:07They should reach the top.
10:09It is not necessary.
10:11To work like you.
10:13Build a school here.
10:15Build your own school.
10:17Build your own college.
10:19Give your children good education.
10:21So that they can work in big companies.
10:23And reach big jobs.
10:25And become a source of respect for you.
10:27Become a source of pride for you.
10:29There was a fight.
10:31He built a house on one canal.
10:33I built a house on two canals.
10:35I went to one place.
10:37I went to Mirpur.
10:39Big houses.
10:41Before entering the city.
10:43They were empty.
10:45I asked what is this?
10:47He said these are houses of Englishmen.
10:49They are always fighting.
10:51He built a house on one canal.
10:53I will build a house on two canals.
10:55He built a house on two canals.
10:57I will build a house on four canals.
10:59Build a house when you need it.
11:01You are not going anywhere.
11:03Your children are not behind you.
11:05Will they go back?
11:07Do not get angry.
11:09There are many Pathan here.
11:11Your rabbit is missing.
11:13People felt sorry for you.
11:15Your rabbit is missing.
11:17He said it is okay.
11:19We have made it a habit of drinking alcohol.
11:21It will come to us when the addiction is over.
11:23This is your generation.
11:25Eat the alcohol of England.
11:27Will you go to Pakistan?
11:29Will you go to India?
11:31You have to stay here.
11:33Make it your country.
11:35Be sincere.
11:37Respect its laws.
11:39Give it to the people.
11:41Their hearts are near.
11:43They will love you.
11:49My prophet said
11:51There was a prostitute.
11:53She saw you.
11:55She wanted to make fun of you.
11:57What kind of prophet is he?
11:59He eats alone.
12:01He does not ask anyone.
12:03Non-Muslim, non-believer, prostitute.
12:05So many bad things happened.
12:07She came and sat down.
12:09He said eat.
12:11She was making fun of you.
12:13I will not eat like this.
12:15Take out what is in your mouth and feed me.
12:17He thought he would scold me.
12:19He said pick it up.
12:21Throw it away.
12:23I will say how is your prophet?
12:25So many bad things happened.
12:27He said no.
12:29Take out what is in your mouth and put it in my mouth.
12:31My prophet said take this.
12:33He took a bite out of his mouth.
12:35He put it in his mouth.
12:37This is an example of Punjabi.
12:41When the saliva of the mouth of my prophet
12:43went into the mouth of the prostitute,
12:45she recited the Kalima.
12:47She became the most decent woman in Madinah.
12:49My prophet was such a moral person.
12:51Here there is no servant system.
12:53I keep crying in Pakistan.
12:55The utensils of the servants are separate.
12:57And the utensils of the owners are separate.
12:59The plates of the servants are separate.
13:01And the plates of the owners are separate.
13:03And the plates of the owners are separate.
13:05My prophet was a non-believer of Taif.
13:07He used to sit with them every day
13:09and eat food at night.
13:11He used to eat their food.
13:13This is the morality that
13:15put them in the Kalima.
13:17You will see a pair of eyes.
13:19And listen to my Lord.
13:21You break the repentance
13:23once or a thousand times.
13:25I will make such a pair that
13:27the pair will not be seen.
13:29I will make a pairless pair.
13:31Even the Quran writers will not know
13:33that this repentance is broken.
13:35And it is connected.
13:37Allah will accept such repentance.
13:39Repent whenever you want.
13:41Repent whenever you want.
13:43Do you intend to repent?
13:45If we do it with a true heart,
13:47then by Allah,
13:49we will sit here and
13:51we will become like a mother.
13:53And if it breaks,
13:55it breaks there.
13:57Then say, O Allah, my repentance.
13:59My Lord never gets tired.
14:01Whenever you bow,
14:03He will forgive.
14:05Whenever you bow,
14:07He will forgive.
14:09May Allah enable us.
14:11So say with me, O Allah, my repentance.
14:13Then say, O Allah, my repentance.
14:15Then say, O Allah, my repentance.
14:17Now if it is from the heart,
14:19then everything is forgiven.
14:21Congratulations to all of you.