• 2 months ago
霸凌事件在我国层出不穷,日前就有一名29岁印裔女网红依莎因网络霸凌而轻生,之后女被告被罚100令吉。另外,2017年也发生了一起国防大学(UPNM)海军学员祖法汉遭霸凌致死的案件。虽然之后6名涉案的大学生难逃死刑,但这是否就能减少霸凌事件的发生呢?就让我们一起听听民众的意见吧。

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00:00I won't let them bully me. I won't let them bully me.
00:04My case is not that bad.
00:06But for the latest case,
00:10Zulfahan's case is too bad.
00:14His body was injured.
00:17Whenever I see a case like this,
00:20I always think about my son.
00:22Will he be in the same situation as me?
00:27How can I prevent this from happening to my son?
00:57Let's talk to Zulfahan about bullying.
01:00What is the tolerance level for bullying?
01:04How should we deal with it?
01:13Personally, I don't like bullying.
01:17I don't know how to deal with it.
01:19When I was studying in a government institution,
01:26I was in a situation where he was in the same batch as me.
01:31But because he was older than me,
01:34he felt like he could own me.
01:37One day, there was a senior's funeral.
01:43My junior said,
01:46if you want to go, you can go.
01:49If you don't want to go, it's okay.
01:51So, I went to sleep.
01:53My junior felt like,
01:57because I didn't go,
01:59he couldn't accept it.
02:02So, he bullied me and my friend.
02:06There were four of us.
02:08He told us to bump into each other.
02:10After this incident,
02:12did you tell your teacher?
02:14No, I didn't.
02:16Because I was with my friend,
02:19there were people I could talk to.
02:22So, we just bullied each other.
02:25In my case,
02:27I would report it to the closest person
02:31or the authorities.
02:34So, I wouldn't hold it against myself
02:38because it involves me.
02:41So, for me,
02:43it's better to take action as soon as possible
02:47so that he doesn't humiliate himself.
02:49If I was bullied,
02:51I would discuss it with my friends
02:54and my parents
02:56about what I should do.
02:58Most of the time,
03:00I would stay away from those people.
03:03I don't think I can fight back.
03:05I don't have a conclusion.
03:08There's nothing I can do.
03:10So, I don't think I can fight back.
03:12Have you experienced it before?
03:14Physically, no, but verbally, yes.
03:18What kind of bullying do you experience?
03:21I think, normally, it's just
03:23making fun of looks
03:25and mainly that.
03:28And don't listen to them?
03:30Usually, I ignore them.
03:32I don't bully.
03:34Usually, I try to just move away from them.
03:37Just ignore them.
03:39The best is to ignore them
03:41because they get the pleasure
03:43from trying to irritate you.
03:46Do you choose to fight back?
03:48Sometimes.
03:49Sometimes, we fight back.
03:51We see the situation.
03:52One case, when I was in university,
03:54this guy tried to bully us.
03:56I said,
03:57Hey, you spend too much time there.
03:59Get out of the place.
04:01My friend, he always fights.
04:03He's a boxer.
04:04We just go there, push the guy.
04:06The guy keeps quiet already.
04:08Have you experienced it before?
04:10Not that severe.
04:12What kind?
04:14Just slight bit of racism.
04:19So, how do you handle this kind of situation?
04:21Just ignore it?
04:22Yeah, just ignore it.
04:24Because I know I have
04:26good friends around me.
04:28So, I just tend to ignore people
04:30that are trying to make me feel worse.
04:33I think if what that person is saying
04:35is harming your daily life,
04:37like you can't go on with your daily life,
04:39I would say, go against it.
04:41But if what they are saying,
04:42some random person you don't even know,
04:44they say something to you,
04:45I think don't give too much thought about it.
04:47We often use the internet.
04:48How do you defend yourself
04:50or how do you deal with
04:51these nasty comments?
04:54I think I can just ignore them.
04:57Ignore them?
04:58Yeah.
05:00I can report that message.
05:02Report that message?
05:04Can you write it back?
05:06I don't think so.
05:07Because the more you write,
05:08the more people will fight with you,
05:10and more things will happen.
05:11I definitely won't bully them.
05:13I will never bully them.
05:15Because I understand this principle.
05:17It's just that they are weak and not fierce enough.
05:19It's simple.
05:20Do you have any advice for everyone
05:21in the face of bullying?
05:24I hope they don't be so weak.
05:26You have to stand up.
05:27If there's anything,
05:29remember to tell your parents.
05:31Don't be bullied.
05:33Just stay at home.
05:35Even if you are bullied,
05:36don't worry.
05:37Take a deep breath.
05:38Go back and tell your parents.
05:39Your parents will take care of it.
05:42Right?
05:43Why do you have to stand up?
05:44Because you are alone.
05:46There are so many people.
05:47How can you win?
05:50You can only be beaten.
05:58I think it depends on the extent.
06:01I think if you really hit someone
06:05and die,
06:06you have to do it.
06:10I think it can be a warning.
06:13I think Zulfarhan's case
06:15should be punished.
06:21Because he was bullied by many people.
06:26I think it should be punished.
06:29As for Aisha,
06:31for me,
06:32it's 100.
06:33The fine is more expensive
06:36than the fine for 100.
06:42I think they should be punished
06:46according to their actions.
06:51There's another gadget.
06:52Everyone has it, right?
06:54Even kids have it.
06:56I think it should be punished
07:01for cyber bullying
07:07that people don't see.
07:09It depends on the bully.
07:15If the bully is related to death
07:18or losing a family member,
07:21I think they should be punished.
07:25I don't think it's that serious.
07:28But it still hurts people.
07:31Because the bully is not mature,
07:36it will lead to this result.
07:37So maybe in the future,
07:38we don't have to punish him.
07:40We can give him some time
07:42and a chance to change.
07:45I don't think it should be punished.
07:47But it can be a more serious punishment.
07:51It's like going to jail for a few years
07:54or doing something.
07:56I don't think they should be killed.
08:01Do you think there's a special reason
08:03why people don't like Mali?
08:07I think they should be punished.
08:09But it's hard.
08:10Because there are a lot of different bullies.
08:15And some of them don't know
08:18how to count minor or major.
08:20So it's hard.
08:21But I feel like they definitely deserve
08:23some sort of way to realize
08:25that what they did is wrong.
08:27So I think some sort of punishment is good.
08:33But I don't think death penalty is deserved.
08:36If the bully is really extreme
08:38and the physical bully is too much,
08:41then I think a death penalty can be discussed.
08:45But I don't think it should be given
08:49to every bully.
08:52I think if the bullying gets so severe
08:54that someone has to take their life,
08:56I think it should be a death penalty
08:59or a life sentence.
09:01But a 100 degree fight is just too little.
09:04I don't think 100 or 1,000 RMB is enough.
09:07I think they should be put in jail for at least a month.
09:13Of course, they have to remember this lesson.
09:17Otherwise, they won't remember this lesson.
09:19If they think money can solve their problems,
09:21then it's not a problem.
09:22Well, the Zulfarhan one definitely.
09:25After all the pain they inflicted on someone,
09:27they should also...
09:29Even though I feel like hanging,
09:31they wouldn't really feel the exact pain,
09:34but they get the same ending.
09:38If it's just minor,
09:40definitely more than 100 RMB.
09:43I believe they should get fined
09:46even more than 100 RMB
09:48compared to what the girl received.
09:51Maybe...
09:54Maybe a few months of jail sentence
09:57would be nice also, I guess.
10:01No.
10:02They deserve to be corrected.
10:05I agree that instead of straight away a death penalty,
10:09it should be to teach people to stop doing this.
10:12I think in Malaysia, bullying is actually quite common,
10:15especially in schools.
10:16I think children are very...
10:20I don't know why,
10:21but they tend to bully quite often.
10:23And even when in true adulthood,
10:26it doesn't seem like the problem is being solved.
10:30So I do think that a law should be implemented.
10:32I think more and more people
10:37are more active on social media.
10:40So we need to see
10:44if our laws need to be strengthened.
10:49Especially when it comes to social media.
10:57Asalina, Minister of Justice,
10:59has pointed out that
11:00the government will be proposing a new law in October.
11:03Both social media providers and internet providers
11:05are responsible for preventing and stopping
11:07cyberbullying.
11:09Of course, it's not entirely possible
11:11to completely solve the problem of bullying.
11:13But at the very least,
11:14it's one thing to reduce bullying.
11:19For more UN videos visit www.un.org

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