"Doctors said I had 80% chance of dying after symptoms revealed ectopic pregnancy"

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A woman has told how doctors warned there was an 80 per cent chance she would die after surprising symptoms revealed she had an ectopic pregnancy.

Just a few weeks after finding out she was pregnant, Natalie Stapley Cutting, 26, knew "something was definitely wrong."

At seven weeks pregnant, she noticed a persistent tingling in her right thigh, coupled with some numbness and a stabbing pain in her right side.

Though her 12-week scan was on the horizon, Natalie saw her GP early to discuss her concerns.

She claims she was given a clean bill of health - but unsatisfied, spent £90 on a private scan, which found an ectopic pregnancy.

She had life-saving surgery to remove the fertilised egg, the right fallopian tube and part of her uterus lining.

And now the military make-up artist is speaking out to urge women to trust their own bodies and always get a second opinion if they are in doubt.

Natalie, from Newark, Nottinghamshire, said: “I almost lost my life due to a misdiagnosis from my doctor.

“Private healthcare saved my life."

Natalie and her husband, Tom Cutting, 27, who works as a mechanical technician, found out they were pregnant on December 6 2023.

She was initially assured by her GP that her pregnancy was normal, but nevertheless remained convinced that something was untoward.

She said: “The GP was convinced I was fine, but it just didn’t seem right to me.

“The doctors didn’t listen to me properly.

“If I had listened to my GP I don’t know where I’d be today.”

She had a private scan on 16 December.

She said: “They found my uterus was empty.

“As a private clinic, they couldn’t offer a diagnosis but recommended we go to King’s Mill Hospital immediately.”

Natalie underwent her first exploratory surgery on December 18, which detected the fertilised egg in her right fallopian tube - growing into her uterus lining.

An ectopic pregnancy occurs when a fertilised egg implants itself outside of the womb, usually in one of the fallopian tubes - which connect the ovaries to the womb.

If the fertilised egg is found here it is unfortunately not possible to save the pregnancy and the growing tissue poses a danger to life if left untreated.

Natalie had surgery on December 19.

She had to sign a waiver concerning the risk of death.

Natalie, who specialises as an army make-up artist preparing ‘casualties’ for training purposes, recovered from the surgery and now wishes to share her story to help others.

If Natalie had waited until the 12-week scan as her GP advised, then she would have likely died from internal bleeding, she says.

Natalie has set up a podcast called Ectopic Pregnancy and Me on TikTok.

She said: “I have set this up to create awareness to in turn help save lives and to create a community to support those suffering from an ectopic pregnancy and the mental health effects afterwards.”

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00:00A very warm welcome back to Ectopic Pregnancy and Me.
00:03I'm your host Natalie and I suffered an ectopic pregnancy
00:06in December of last year.
00:08Today is August 1st which is Ectopic Pregnancy Awareness Day.
00:13So August 1st was our predicted due date.
00:16It's our first one since everything happened.
00:20So it's a very, very emotional, very, very hard day.
00:241 in 80 women are affected with an ectopic pregnancy
00:29which if you think, if you put 80 women into a room
00:32and one of those women are going to have an ectopic pregnancy,
00:35when you think of it like that it's so scarily high,
00:38so, so scarily high.
00:40An ectopic pregnancy is when a fertilized egg
00:43implants itself outside of your womb.
00:46So your womb is the only place that your baby
00:49can develop and grow into a baby.
00:51The egg implants itself outside of your womb
00:53which is usually and is most common in the fallopian tube.
00:58Also has been recorded that it has implanted in the abdomen.
01:03The fallopian tubes are connected to your ovaries and your womb.
01:08If the egg gets stuck into the fallopian tube
01:11which is your most common ectopic pregnancy,
01:14then what will happen is they will keep growing and growing and growing
01:18and you will rupture if not diagnosed early enough.
01:21How have my periods been since my ectopic pregnancy?
01:25Thank you so much for sending this in,
01:27a lot of people have sent this in.
01:28So my periods used to be very light, about 2 to 3 days max.
01:33I never really suffered from them really,
01:36but ever since surgery because a part of my uterus was taken away as well.
01:42So my uterus is a bit smaller.
01:44They are so painful, they are so, so painful.
01:47I've, you know, I've, I think they last as well about 7 days,
01:52it's about a week now, they last a lot longer,
01:55they're a lot heavier and they're a lot more painful
01:57and they are so much more draining.
01:59How long did it take for you to know something was wrong?
02:02So, only a couple of weeks.
02:05So I took my pregnancy test on the 6th of December
02:08and I went for a private scan on the 12th of December, I think it was,
02:13because I knew something wasn't wrong,
02:15because all my signs were getting worse and worse and worse as the weeks went on.
02:19So yeah, very, very, very quickly.
02:22How far gone were you?
02:24So I was, when we found out, I think it was 6 weeks pregnant,
02:30but when I went in for surgery, I was 9 weeks pregnant,
02:35which is when my fallopian tube got removed, I was 9 weeks.
02:40So again, the 6 to 16 weeks situation.
02:44Can you still get pregnant?
02:46I can, that was the first thing that we asked when I had surgery was,
02:53can I still conceive a child?
02:55The answer is yes, which is fantastic.
02:58If we do ever decide to try again for a child,
03:02that as soon as I know I'm pregnant, as soon as I've got a positive test,
03:06I need to go to the early pregnancy unit at the hospital
03:09and get scanned immediately just in case it happens again.
03:13And the reason for that is because I had surgery,
03:18that they would like to catch it as early as possible if it does happen again.
03:23So that they can give me the methotrexate injection
03:25so I don't lose another fallopian tube,
03:27because if I lose my left one, then I can't get pregnant again.

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