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00:00How many times did you meet her boyfriend, Cheng?
00:04I only met him once, so I didn't really bond with him.
00:09You're best of friends, but you only met him once?
00:13Yes.
00:14Why? He didn't invite you? Are you cheating on him?
00:17No, no.
00:19He's my best friend, I love him, but I know he's cheating on me.
00:23You're keeping a distance.
00:24Yes, right, MC?
00:25Oh, my God.
00:26That's how it is.
00:27That's why you don't bring your boyfriend to the comedy bar until now, right?
00:30That's why you don't call him, don't bring him.
00:33That's why you travel to Bicutan, right?
00:35Yes, yes.
00:36Why did you only meet him once?
00:38Because we're far from each other.
00:41We're still close.
00:43But how often do you see each other?
00:45Because we're already graduating, so we have our own events.
00:50Best friends, but you're not limited anymore?
00:53We see each other, yes.
00:55But there's still an update.
00:59I don't have time to catch up personally.
01:02And that's also the problem with me, I have other friends,
01:07that once I start a relationship, he became my world.
01:14My world revolves around him.
01:16Even if my friends don't have time, I'll choose my boyfriend over other people.
01:23That's normal.
01:24That's how it is, when you're in a relationship, you set aside your friends.
01:29You focus on the relationship.
01:31And when you don't have a boyfriend, you're active in the group.
01:34Yes.
01:37If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend,
01:42and you meet them, you don't need to mimic anymore.
01:47Right?
01:48Yes.
01:49He'll be your lifestyle.
01:53He'll be your diversion.
01:55He'll be your sideline.
01:59He'll be your full-time.
02:02Like that.
02:03And you ask him to be like that to you.
02:06True, true.
02:08He's like my best friend, my neighbor.
02:11Your home.
02:12Exactly.
02:13Home floor.
02:14Because, like I said, growing up, I don't feel at home with my family.
02:23Because I also have issues with my family.
02:26So when I met him, it was a big deal when we broke up.
02:29Because it's like I lost my family again.
02:32I mean, I have a family, but I don't feel at home.
02:35But when I met him, because...
02:37Until now, does your family still treat you like that?
02:40Actually, yes.
02:42I just recently became open.
02:44Oh, okay.
02:45Growing up, that's how I feel.
02:48Are you fixing your relationship now?
02:50With my mom, yes.
02:51That's good.
02:52Yes, it's hard when you're not okay with your family.
02:54Yes.
02:55That's a very difficult problem.
02:57Yes.
02:58That's the problem that's very difficult for you to solve and find a way.
03:02If you think about it, it's even harder to get gold in the Olympics.
03:06Yes.
03:07Right?
03:08If you have a problem with your family,
03:10that's the problem that's very difficult to solve.
03:13But...
03:14But sometimes, in other families,
03:17that's not applicable.
03:20It's like...
03:22If they were...
03:24It slows down your progress in life because of them.
03:30It's like you have to let it go.
03:34Because it also depends on the situation.
03:36Because not all kids grow up in a supportive, open family.
03:43Yes, but...
03:44Sorry, but I don't believe that you can let go of your family.
03:48Yes, that's true.
03:51When you fully let go of your family,
03:53there's a point where you need to time out.
03:57Yes.
03:58I'm joking with you, right?
03:59But time out.
04:00I can't let you go.
04:02I want to be myself first.
04:03But the...
04:04No, I'm letting go of your family.
04:06There will come a point
04:08that you will have to go back home.
04:10There will come a point that you will have to talk to them again.
04:13That's right.
04:14And there will come a point
04:17where you'll cry and say,
04:19It's a waste that I didn't talk to her.
04:22Yes.
04:24In my part,
04:26even with my mom,
04:27because I'm starting to build a relationship with my mom again,
04:31even with my mom,
04:35I've done my part.
04:38And I think it's time for me to choose myself.
04:42And it's time for me not to be affected by them
04:47and to force myself.
04:49Because I have a bad relationship with my two siblings.
04:57Well, that's you.
04:59That's you.
05:00You do you.
05:01Right?
05:02But it's just sad.
05:04It's very sad.
05:05But as I always tell my friends,
05:08I'm not forcing myself.
05:10I'm not forcing myself.
05:12Yes.
05:13I'm not forcing myself.
05:15That's right.
05:16I'm letting go.
05:17Yes.
05:18For now, you can breathe.
05:20For now, you can breathe.
05:22Yes, exactly.
05:23Breathe.
05:24I mean, I'm living my life
05:26with or without those people who don't believe me.
05:31Do you feel like they don't believe you?
05:33Is that your problem?
05:35Or is it a toxic relationship?
05:37Yes.
05:38You just don't get along?
05:39Actually, that's why I chose to be a sailor.
05:42Because I feel like they will be proud of me.
05:47When they grow up,
05:49I will be able to give them something.
05:51I will be able to help them.
05:52Because we came from poverty.
05:53We came from poverty.
05:55My mom is a single mom.
05:57The three of us went to school together.
06:00Growing up,
06:04what we know is that
06:08we only found out recently that they're really half.
06:11Because I never asked.
06:14So, do you feel betrayed?
06:16Yes.
06:17Or I feel like
06:19I was treated differently growing up.
06:21Because we're not siblings.
06:24It's like that.
06:26But when we found out that they're really half,
06:30and I'm related to them,
06:32I expected that
06:34the treatment might change.
06:36And that's it.
06:37I also worked hard.
06:40I tried my best.
06:42But up until now,
06:45I'm still a failure for them.
06:47And it's heartbreaking.
06:50Yeah.
06:51I'm sorry that you feel that way.
06:54I'm sorry that you had to go through that time in your life
06:59where you feel that your family is not alone
07:03and they don't believe in you.
07:05It's hard.
07:07I feel sorry for you.
07:08But I hope that
07:13you get to have that opportunity
07:15to heal your inner child.
07:19Progress.
07:20I'm still in the progress.
07:21Yeah.
07:22Slow.
07:23It's baby step.
07:24Yes.
07:25In time.
07:26Because those things
07:28can affect you.
07:30It has an effect on
07:32how you treat yourself.
07:35It has an effect on how you treat other people.
07:39It has an effect on your relationship with yourself.
07:43And on your relationship with other people.
07:48So,
07:50I hope that you get to heal that part of yourself,
07:53that part of your soul,
07:55your heart,
07:56and that part of your mind.
07:58Because it's here.
07:59What happened to you,
08:00you felt it in the past.
08:01It's here.
08:02You remember it in your mind.
08:04You feel it.
08:05It hurts you.
08:06It's in your soul.
08:07You feel it.
08:09It's hard.
08:10It's hard.
08:12I also felt it before.
08:13It hurts.
08:15So,
08:16I hope that
08:17God will send you many angels
08:22to help heal your heart.

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