Full video: Loved ones hurt by your decisions? || Acharya Prashant, Sir J.J. College, Mumbai (2022)
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00:00What happens if you get 10 out of 10 where you deserve 0?
00:03What happens?
00:04You deserve 0 but you get 10
00:06because the teacher is trying to be soft and accommodative, loving.
00:10What happens if the teachers start doing that?
00:12Please tell me.
00:13I'm glad I never had such teachers.
00:15Mine were extra strict.
00:17They gave me 5 even where I deserved 8.
00:19So I had to do something extra to get even 6 or 7.
00:22I'm indebted to my teachers.
00:24What happens when you start getting 10 when you deserve 0?
00:27Please tell me.
00:28Our hard work stops eventually.
00:30You know that's what we do to all our loved ones in our relationships.
00:35We stop showing the mirror to them.
00:38We start saying because these are people near to me,
00:42therefore I must shield them from hurt.
00:45The more you shield someone from the right results of his or her actions,
00:51the more you have actually harmed that person.