90.Day.Fiance.The.Other.Way.S06E09
Transcript
00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03What the hell is this?
00:04Fermented shark.
00:10I'm so nervous.
00:11Why are you nervous about meeting my parents?
00:14They'll be like, whoa, my son waited this long to be in a relationship and she sucks.
00:20I'm just going to try and work out the electric so we can get warm.
00:23Everything's hitting me at once. It's like, whoa, this is happening.
00:27It's usual for lesbians to go all in, all really quickly, but this is lesbian times infinity.
00:35Yay, let's go on.
00:40You like it?
00:41I don't like this one.
00:43This morning I met up with one of Sarper's exes.
00:46You have certain tactics that make women fall for you very easily.
00:50How do I really know that I am this one special woman in his life that he's going to change all of his ways for?
00:57Why I change my whole life for you if I'm playing with you?
01:01It makes me so hopeful, but that also is so scary.
01:07I mean, you're bringing my grandsons to meet him, why?
01:10Well, we're married.
01:11No, no, no, no.
01:15You married a total stranger.
01:18Sean could be the sweetest person in the world, but he could also be the biggest psycho.
01:24Does your sons know this?
01:26No.
01:49Boys, are you packed?
01:51Yeah.
01:53Let's make sure you have everything and let's start bringing it down to the car.
01:58Okay, what you're doing has nothing to do with our trip, please, sir.
02:05Mom, we gotta go.
02:09Today I'm going to Ireland with the boys.
02:12Assuming all goes well, this will be my last trip to Ireland because the next time I go, I will be moving there.
02:18But before that can happen, I need to let the boys know that Sean and I are married.
02:25They have to love him and they have to be okay with the move.
02:30So there's a lot riding on this trip.
02:34So I'm driving or are you?
02:36No, I'm going to be driving.
02:38You don't drive that great.
02:41You don't drive that great.
02:42Oh, really? Seriously?
02:44If you drive, it'll take us five hours.
02:50So guys, are you excited to go?
02:53Yeah.
02:54I'm happy that you guys are coming with me and that you are going to be meeting Sean for the first time.
03:01Let grandma know.
03:03Yeah, I'll let everyone back home now.
03:05No, not everybody. I'm the only one that you have to let know.
03:08Give me a break.
03:09Okay.
03:10I give you a break.
03:12Can I have some eyes and ears there?
03:16I feel like there's some pressure on this trip because I feel like my mom is really going to want my opinion on him.
03:23So I feel like I'm going to be able to see through him if he's not for real.
03:28I guess we'll see.
03:36All right, boys, let's go.
03:40Come on, guys. We got to go meet Noel.
03:43My best friend Noel is coming with us to Ireland because she really wants to meet Sean.
03:47Listen, I want the best, but I have a lot of questions.
03:50I did from the beginning and I still do.
03:52Here I come, Sean.
03:54Here comes that friend.
03:58Plus, she's flying home with the boys so that I can stay a little longer.
04:02Hey.
04:03What's going on?
04:04Hi.
04:05You ready for the trip?
04:06Yeah.
04:07Noel and I are super close.
04:10We don't keep anything from each other.
04:12So for her to find out two major things in one trip, her head is probably going to be spinning by the time she leaves.
04:21Did you check in? Because we have to go check in.
04:23I did. I checked in online already.
04:25All right. So I'm leaving my mother with you.
04:28She's yours now.
04:29All righty.
04:30And I'm going to go check in with the boys.
04:31All righty.
04:32All right.
04:33I'll see you in a few.
04:35You excited to meet Sean?
04:37I am excited to meet Sean.
04:39And I know you're going to ask the right questions.
04:41I mean, I feel like he kind of has to expect that with everybody's concerns, you know, and we want to know about him.
04:46I just want you to make sure that Joanna's making the right choice for her future.
04:51You know you're my eyes and ears.
04:54I got you.
04:55You all checked in?
04:57Checked in.
04:58This is it.
04:59That's it. We're ready.
05:01I got to get big hugs and kisses because Grandma's not going to see you.
05:04I love you. I love you. I love you.
05:07I love you so, so much.
05:10Be careful there, okay?
05:15Joanna, be careful.
05:20We got to go. It's time.
05:24Today was very emotional to say goodbye because I already know the future.
05:29They don't.
05:30The boys are about to meet a man that they have no idea who he is.
05:36And they're about to find out that that's their stepfather.
05:39Because that's, in reality, what he is.
05:41Bye.
05:42Bye.
05:43Bye.
05:50I'm feeling so many emotions because they're going to get to meet him finally and it's a relief.
05:57But the boys don't approve of Sean.
05:59I mean, what do I do?
06:01We're already married and I really would like to move there.
06:04So I don't know what that would mean for us.
06:11We are finally on the plane headed to see Sean.
06:15Say hi.
06:16Hi.
06:17Hi.
06:18See you soon.
06:27Bye.
06:43Adonis, you're going to be a good boy tonight while we are gone, right?
06:49Today is my birthday and it also happens to be Sarper's birthday.
06:54And we're born at the same time but two years apart.
06:58My birthday, girl.
07:00It's a special day for us.
07:02I know.
07:03It's our first birthday together.
07:04Same exact birthday.
07:06I know.
07:07We are the chosen one, babe.
07:08It's so crazy.
07:09We are the chosen one.
07:10I know.
07:11Bye.
07:12Sarper, you were born on the 21st.
07:15And Shekinah, you were born on the 20th.
07:17Yeah.
07:18And you have the same birthday hat.
07:21Yeah.
07:22Yeah.
07:23I mean, there's a big, big, big point.
07:26Time difference.
07:27The time difference.
07:28It's not born in the same date.
07:31We're just born in the same moment.
07:33Two years apart, though.
07:34Yeah.
07:35Yeah.
07:36It's pretty amazing.
07:46They're here.
07:49Happy birthday.
07:51Happy birthday.
07:55Tonight we're meeting up with Sarper's family
07:57and I'm really excited to see them.
07:59This is our first time getting together
08:01since I've been back in Turkey.
08:05What is the Turkish?
08:11How many couples in the world have the same birthday, right?
08:16She's the chosen one.
08:22They're asking about our decision to stay in Turkey.
08:25Yeah, you won't leave anymore.
08:28You're going to visit your daughter, obviously.
08:30Well, I have to, yeah.
08:31You're going to visit for a short time and you'll come back.
08:34Yeah, every five weeks for a week.
08:36And then, you know, she has summers off.
08:39So hopefully she'll want to come somewhere here.
08:42We'll have to see.
08:52I was waiting for the right time for this.
08:59We applied for the Kabir visa with Shikanya.
09:03What's that?
09:04What's Kabir?
09:07You apply to America.
09:10If it's approved, you go.
09:14You get married there in 90 days.
09:22A moment came and I just felt that I have to say to my family.
09:28And it is kind of a betrayal to hide from them.
09:45I'm talking about K1.
09:48A lot of things are being said
09:50and even though I can't understand the language,
09:53I can see by their reactions that it's not going over well.
10:14She says that it's mother feelings.
10:18I'm sure, yeah.
10:21You know, it's not Europe.
10:23It's another, you know...
10:25Continent.
10:26Continent, yeah.
10:28I'm not eager to go, but being with you is more important for me.
10:49If you went to the U.S., will Shikanya's family be supporting you?
10:55This is hard to answer.
10:56Would you discuss this with your family?
10:58No.
10:59No?
11:00They don't ask anything to me and they don't care to know.
11:04They think that it was very...
11:08Not logical?
11:09Yeah, like for me to move to Turkey,
11:11for me to go to Turkey,
11:12for me to go to Turkey,
11:13for me to go to Turkey,
11:14for me to go to Turkey,
11:15for me to go to Turkey,
11:16yeah, like for me to move to Turkey so soon after meeting him.
11:27What are your thoughts about Sophie, about me?
11:32Well, Sophie is so influenced by them, you know,
11:35because they're my family and...
11:38She has five aunties.
11:41She hears them talk and...
11:44It's really embarrassing.
11:45So they were always like that?
11:46Or they're just doing it because you're with Sarpa?
11:52I don't know.
11:53I honestly don't know.
11:54I'm sorry.
11:55I didn't want to...
11:56My dear, come on.
12:00No tears.
12:02I don't know why.
12:04But I feel bad.
12:12My relationship with my family
12:14is really different than Sarpa's relationship with his.
12:18My family and I used to be a lot closer,
12:21but last year my sister Shariah came to Turkey to meet Sarpa
12:24and it didn't go well.
12:28Sarpa, it's very hard to take your word
12:30because I know of your past.
12:33You've been kind of like a f*** boy.
12:35Oh my God.
12:38My impression of him was not good
12:40and I feel like it was partially the way that she approached him.
12:44You're speaking too much, Shariah.
12:46All right.
12:47You are so cute, but you are speaking too much.
12:54And ever since then, my mom and my sisters,
12:57they're not speaking to me.
12:59And that's been really difficult.
13:04You have a family right now.
13:05You see?
13:06I just feel bad because you don't deserve it
13:08because you're so wonderful.
13:10No, you don't deserve it.
13:12You're so wonderful.
13:15It's kind of hard to justify asking Sarpa
13:18to leave his loving, supportive family in Turkey
13:21to come and be with me in the U.S.
13:23where I don't have that type of support from family.
13:27Sarpa says he's willing to do this for me,
13:29but now seeing his family's heartbreak
13:32right in front of my eyes
13:34makes me afraid that he may back out
13:37and decide that he doesn't want to do it after all.
13:40And then what happens to us?
13:50There's still time to bail.
13:52No, no, no.
13:53I don't know a lot about Inky's parents.
13:55All I know is they are quite old,
13:57quite conservative,
13:59and I don't think they've ever had a black person in their home.
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14:25Hey, babe.
14:27Are you ready?
14:29No.
14:31Today I'm going to be meeting Inky's parents
14:33for the first time.
14:36I don't know a lot about Inky's parents.
14:38All I know is what he's told me,
14:40which is they are quite old,
14:42quite conservative,
14:44and I don't think they've ever had
14:46a black person in their home before.
14:48So I'm feeling very nervous.
14:50I'm sweating a bit.
14:52I just hope that I don't make an ass of myself.
14:55You can never remake a first impression.
14:59Beautiful, babe.
15:01How are you feeling?
15:03Um, like I don't want to do it.
15:05Ah, it'll be okay, babe.
15:07I mean, you say that about everything.
15:09You're like blind optimism sometimes is infuriating.
15:12We're a team. We're team awesome.
15:14Even if your parents are like,
15:16leave Corona, she sucks, and we don't want black grandbabies.
15:18I'm going to be like, sucks.
15:20That will never happen, babe.
15:22I'm so serious, though.
15:27Do we have to do it?
15:29Okay.
15:31We're heading to my brother's house.
15:33You know, you love Carly.
15:35I do love Carly. Okay.
15:37It's going to be good.
15:39Okay, okay.
15:41My parents are in their 80s,
15:43and I'm the youngest out of their three children.
15:45My brother is married, and he has like two kids,
15:48and my sister has a kid, so it's a big deal
15:51that I'm finally bringing someone to meet them.
15:55I really hope that my family
15:57is just going to take her with arms wide open
15:59and like just accept her for who she is.
16:06I don't think I've ever even met a partner's family before.
16:09This is definitely a first.
16:13Like, why are you feeling so nervous
16:15about meeting, like, my parents, babe?
16:17Because what if they don't like me?
16:19Like, what is there not to like, babe, about you?
16:21I mean, everyone that I've introduced you to,
16:24I can't wait to meet you again.
16:27I don't know.
16:29Don't you worry about it.
16:34You ready, babe?
16:36No.
16:38This is it.
16:42There's still time to bail.
16:44No, no, no. No, no, no.
16:47What if I just, like, fall and break my leg in the snow?
16:50Then we'd have to go to the hospital.
16:52Ah, we'll just have our parents meet us there.
16:54What the ****?
16:56Inky's brother, Karley, is awesome.
16:58He made me feel right at home the first time I met him.
17:01Hello.
17:02Hi, Karley.
17:03Good to see you.
17:06Thank you very much.
17:08Likewise.
17:09Been practicing.
17:11Karley, in the past when we've hung out,
17:13he makes sure, like, I understand
17:15what's happening in the conversation.
17:17So I'm glad he's with me to meet Inky's parents
17:20because he can be, like, a buffer a little bit.
17:24Very nervous now that we're here meeting your parents.
17:27Yeah, I can imagine. It's a big adjustment.
17:29Yeah.
17:32Hey, they're here.
17:34Oh, my gosh.
17:36So this is my mom.
17:37Hi.
17:38Hi.
17:39Hi.
17:40Hi, I'm Karoda.
17:41I will give you a hug.
17:44Oh, for me?
17:45Yeah.
17:46Oh, thank you.
17:47Kamana Keniston.
17:48Yeshevale.
17:49Yes.
17:50Oh, my God.
17:52Hello.
17:53Hi.
17:54Nice to see you.
17:55Hello.
17:56Kamana Keniston.
17:57Kamana Keniston.
17:58Yow.
17:59Yow.
18:00You speak Icelandic?
18:01Yes, I speak Icelandic.
18:02Very good.
18:03Can I just have a touch?
18:05Yes.
18:06Nice to meet you.
18:08Welcome to the family.
18:10Hi.
18:11I'll take one more bite.
18:12Yeah.
18:13With you.
18:14Yeah, OK.
18:15Wow, they are so nice.
18:17Like, his dad, the second he sees me,
18:19he's like, welcome to the family.
18:20Like, I wasn't expecting any of that.
18:22So it really makes sense that, like,
18:24Inky's so positive.
18:25Like, he grew up in a very, like, nourishing home.
18:28They are washing everything.
18:31I think Kamana...
18:33She thinks it's really pretty.
18:35Oh, thank you.
18:37Yes.
18:38She's just wondering how you do it.
18:39Like...
18:40Yeah, how do you do it?
18:41I just, like...
18:42Oh.
18:43It just, like, rolls together.
18:44Oh, yeah.
18:45I was shocked.
18:46His mom just went for a handful of hair.
18:48Typically, I do not let people touch my hair.
18:50And if they ask, the answer is exclusively no.
18:56But I wanted to make such a good impression on his mom.
18:58Honestly, she could have asked if she could chop one off
19:01and take it home, and I would have said yes.
19:06Corona, how long are you going to be staying in Iceland
19:09this time around?
19:11Uh, like, forever?
19:14Oh.
19:16Yes.
19:17Yes.
19:21She's moving here, so, yeah.
19:22Yes.
19:23So this is a pretty big deal.
19:24Yeah.
19:25That's why I was so nervous.
19:29I am shocked that he didn't tell his parents
19:31that I was moving here, which I think is, like, a big deal.
19:34Not that I need, like, an ego stroke,
19:36but, like, I'm not even on his social media.
19:38So it's like, my guy.
19:39Like, are you proud of this relationship?
19:41Don't you want to, like, show your girl off?
19:47She's asking, like, you've never introduced them
19:51to anyone before?
19:53Why now?
19:55Yeah.
19:56Like, yeah.
19:58I mean, I met her.
20:01Like, everything about her, like, I adore.
20:05I have high hopes for what the future holds
20:08with her in my life.
20:12She's very happy.
20:13OK, good.
20:15Yay!
20:46OK, how to say this?
20:49They are absolutely thrilled for more grandchildren.
20:52There, I said it.
20:54Yeah.
20:55Yeah.
20:56Do you want to have kids?
21:00Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:03Children.
21:05OK, Mom, like, you know, just take it easy a little bit.
21:08We've been dating for four months.
21:11Just ease it down a little bit.
21:15There's been a lot of pressure on us.
21:17Yes.
21:18My sister is one.
21:19I have two.
21:20How many more do you want?
21:21Well, she has...
21:25We just wanted to throw it out there.
21:31How are you doing, baby?
21:33Yeah, I'm good.
21:35Yeah.
21:36Oh, f***.
21:38I'm glad that she is saying that she wants children from us
21:41and she would accept our children.
21:43But before any of that happens,
21:45we should be talking about when's the wedding
21:47and not when are the kids.
21:54You want some tea?
21:55Today is the start of our journey
21:57and we're going to live like nomads.
21:59I just hope we don't go mad.
22:03That's f***ing awful.
22:07He just wants what he wants
22:09and he feels like he might not get it, so he spirals.
22:13And you do care.
22:40You want some tea?
22:42No, thanks.
22:43I've made one anyway.
22:45Last night was the first night in the camper van
22:48and it went better than expected.
22:51We are now about to get into bed.
22:54So we've put up the blind, which keeps falling.
22:58The mattress is somewhat decent
23:01and we were both so exhausted from the day's festivities
23:05that we just went to sleep.
23:13Mm-mm.
23:14That's f***ing awful.
23:15Is it?
23:16Yeah. Tastes like fish.
23:22That's, like, bad.
23:25It must be the water.
23:27Wait, you used that water?
23:29You used this water?
23:30Oh, hell no.
23:32Maybe.
23:33I just drank sewage or something.
23:35Maybe tea's not the answer there.
23:38It ran long enough because it's been...
23:42Shall we have a bottle of champagne instead?
23:45Do you have champagne?
23:46Yeah, I did bring a bottle for us to toast.
23:49This morning, I feel like things are back on track
23:52compared to when she arrived to England.
23:55I was hoping to be welcomed with open arms at the airport.
23:59I know.
24:00I was so excited to see you.
24:02Like, I just wanted to kiss and be like,
24:04babe, I've missed you.
24:06I know.
24:08To be fair, I was excited to see you.
24:10I just...
24:11It's shown, isn't it?
24:12It was just...
24:14Cheers.
24:15Stay still, stay still, stay still.
24:17I was just overwhelmed.
24:19I'm not at all comfortable with living in the moment.
24:21It stresses me out.
24:23And now we're in a van, living freely, and so...
24:28Yeah, this is it.
24:30For as long as we can stand it.
24:33We're just rolling with it, literally.
24:36HE CHUCKLES
24:38That's cute.
24:40That is cute.
24:41To our first morning together.
24:44Without killing one another.
24:46It's a start.
24:47THEY LAUGH
24:52To us.
24:55Shall we unhook the electric
24:58and try and get this out of the grass?
25:00Yeah. Yeah?
25:01I'm going to put mine down the sink.
25:03I don't really like it.
25:04And I'm driving.
25:05So, I'll do that.
25:07Today's the start of our journey
25:09and we'll be heading south out of England.
25:12Our mission is to get to France and Switzerland
25:15and then, you know, wherever our wheels take us.
25:18Cute.
25:20We're going to live like nomads.
25:22I just hope we don't go mad.
25:27Just lay your suitcase down flat
25:30so it doesn't roll.
25:33Dempsey's used to living a nomadic lifestyle
25:36but I'm going to have to get used to
25:38no air conditioning, living in a tiny, tiny space.
25:42Not to mention, I'll be working in the van.
25:45So, not only is this, like, the bedroom,
25:47the kitchen, the bathroom,
25:49it's also the office.
25:53Unhook.
25:58Just skid in a bit.
25:59I'm excited to get to the next campsite.
26:04You know, living together in a van in different countries
26:08feels like a really good time to start some healthy habits.
26:13I agree.
26:14I'm just new to communicating in a healthy way.
26:19It's nice that you are just communicating with me now.
26:25Yeah, I think that's hard for me
26:28and something that I'm trying to work on.
26:31Like, I want you to be my partner.
26:35Yeah.
26:36In life and on the road.
26:38I think we'll be good.
26:39Like, this is the whole reason I'm here.
26:42Because I believe in us.
26:44Yeah.
26:53I'm so glad that me and Statler had this chat.
26:55I've never dealt with anxiety before
26:57and I think it's going to be really challenging
26:59navigating her ups and downs.
27:01But she is worth it.
27:05I love you.
27:06I love you.
27:10Here we go.
27:22Miss my Jojo.
27:24You're sauce now.
27:27Sauce? Why am I sauce?
27:29Do you not crush on her?
27:31Bella only knows Jo as my friend.
27:33I didn't want her getting attached
27:35just in case me and Jo didn't walk out.
27:37I see her, I see her, I see her.
27:57Oh, God, I'm exhausted.
28:11Can I sleep on your coat?
28:13Of course.
28:15Yay.
28:16Don't start dribbling on it.
28:18I'm not going to dribble.
28:20I've described myself as being honest,
28:23hardworking, loyal, a good dad.
28:27The drool queen.
28:31I do not have a typical 9 to 5.
28:33My full-time job is taking care of my daughter, Bella Rose.
28:40Nice.
28:41Bella Rose is 8 years of age.
28:44I don't even have words to describe her personality.
28:47She's hyper, funny, loving, adventurous.
28:50She's amazing.
28:52That's it, Bella, good job. Keep going.
28:56This is an early wake-up call for this plane.
29:02Me and Bella's mother separated 7 months after Bella was born.
29:06As Bella grew up, we thought it would be better
29:09for Bella to live with me.
29:12Bella means everything to me.
29:14She's my whole world.
29:16Oh, s***.
29:18These always get emotional talking about this child.
29:20Hang on, give me a minute.
29:24What's his name again?
29:25Joey.
29:26Joey, Joey.
29:27Jessie is the youngest one, Joey's the oldest one.
29:31Joe and the boys and Noelle are arriving today
29:34and me and Bella are going to go collect them at the airport.
29:38Noelle, if she's a hairdresser, you can be like,
29:41Noelle, do my hair. Blow-dry my hair.
29:44My daddy doesn't know how to do it properly.
29:46Yeah.
29:47When you said, yeah, I do know how to do it properly,
29:50I got good at that, I got good at that.
29:54Joe's friend, Noelle, is coming with her.
29:56I've heard that Noelle has a lot of questions for her.
29:59I heard everyone has a lot of questions for me.
30:01I would be an open book.
30:03I've no problem with people asking me questions,
30:05but if Noelle comes in all hot and aggressive,
30:07flying off the handle, I will simply and respectfully
30:10get up and walk away. I don't tolerate bulls***.
30:13Are you excited to meet Jessie?
30:15I'm super excited to meet the boys.
30:18I just have Joe back.
30:20I miss my Joe-Joe.
30:23You're sus now.
30:25Sus? Why am I sus?
30:27Do you have a crush on her?
30:29Do I have a crush on Joe?
30:31You're like, I miss my little Joe.
30:33Oh, maybe that did sound a bit sus, didn't it?
30:35Yeah, that's just a bit weird now.
30:37Daddy.
30:40I said, my little Joe-Joe.
30:42You're so... Ew, that's so cringe.
30:44What is it cringe?
30:46You literally love her like you want to marry her.
30:49Why would you like it if me and Joe got married?
30:52Married. Yeah?
30:54Yes.
30:56Bella only knows Joe as my friend.
30:58I didn't want there getting attached
31:00just in case me and Joe didn't walk out.
31:02But now that we're married and the boys are coming,
31:05we can tell them all together.
31:07So I think Bella will be super excited.
31:10Maybe, possibly after the excitement dies down,
31:12she'll turn around and be like,
31:14hey, what do you mean you got married?
31:16When was this wedding? Why wasn't I there?
31:27I'm literally so nervous.
31:29Yeah, you're nervous and excited.
31:31I'm getting butterflies in my stomach.
31:33Aw, like Christmas.
31:36So yeah, they're going to come out these doors?
31:39Like when, when?
31:41Well...
31:43They'll be out soon.
31:45Oh, where are they?
31:47I see her!
31:49I see her!
31:56Thank God we got them to hang up.
31:58They'll be waiting.
32:00They're going to come out!
32:02Oh my God.
32:04They're going to come outside!
32:06I see her, I see her, I see her, I see her, I see her.
32:12Oh, thank God, mate!
32:26I'm used to just seeing Jo coming out, and it's like,
32:28oh, I'm so excited and all, and then you see her,
32:30and then you're like, oh, wait, there's the kids in the well,
32:32and you're like, oh, ****!
32:34That's, that's...
32:36the anxiety and the reality starts to kick in then,
32:39so, yeah, that's... that's it.
32:43Hi, how are you? Nice to meet you.
32:45How was your flight? Good.
32:47Long, a little tired, but good.
32:49What's up, brother, how are you?
32:51Nice to meet you. How was your flight?
32:53Nice to meet you. I heard a lot about you.
32:55How was your flight? Good, yeah.
32:57It's all exhausted.
33:05Too long, bro? No.
33:08All right. Let's get out of here.
33:10Let's do it. OK, I'll take these.
33:12Let's do it.
33:14I'm just happy to have them all here.
33:16I'm just looking forward to spending time,
33:18getting to know one another, integrating the families.
33:20Yeah, 100%.
33:22We've been waiting for this a long time, so...
33:24Overdue. Yeah, well overdue.
33:26Well overdue.
33:28I've never seen two people come off a plane
33:31so immaculate-looking in me life.
33:33I'm not going right into any information
33:35for the boys below.
33:37Everyone's tired, everyone's dehydrated,
33:39exhausted, a little bit cranky.
33:41It's not the time, yeah. It's not the time now.
33:43But sometime this week,
33:45we'll definitely be discussing
33:47where the relationship is going.
33:49Or has gone. Or has gone.
33:53It's not cold!
33:55It's not cold. Ireland's cold.
33:57It's not cold.
34:03Oh!
34:13Happy family, guys,
34:15with the family mobile.
34:21Well, I'm exhausted.
34:23I'm also exhausted. And so am I.
34:25We're all pooped.
34:27That goes for everybody.
34:29Yeah, I think everybody needs a nice nap at some point.
34:31But happy to be here.
34:33We love naps. Happy to have you guys here.
34:39Can you guys understand me?
34:41Yeah? OK.
34:43Can you, Joey? Yeah. OK.
34:49If Joe was able to move to Ireland,
34:51everyday life would be amazing.
34:54We'd be able to do
34:56normal, everyday stuff
34:58that I think most couples take for granted.
35:01This week is going to have a huge impact
35:03on what mine and Joe's future looks like.
35:05If Joanne's boys don't want her to move here to Ireland,
35:08or they end up not liking me,
35:10I don't know what that looks like
35:12for mine and Joe's future.
35:22It's my birthday. Her birthday, too.
35:24Look at what we get.
35:30It feels, like, surreal.
35:32Like, this isn't real.
35:36This is, like, what's so wrong.
35:54Hey, Matt.
35:56Hey.
35:58Joey?
36:18I didn't like it yesterday.
36:28He just wants what he wants,
36:30and he feels like he might not get it,
36:32so he spirals.
36:34You ripped out my hair extensions.
36:36I didn't rip her hair.
36:38And you ripped my phone out of my hand,
36:40and you wouldn't give it back to me.
36:42Yeah, I took her phone from here,
36:44and, yeah, one of the extensions
36:46from here came out.
36:48I never harm her.
36:50I never hurt her.
36:52That's...
36:54I mean...
36:56I mean, it's my birthday.
36:58Her birthday, too.
37:00Look at what we get.
37:04Okay, I think I have everything.
37:08Please move.
37:10Okay.
37:18In your new life.
37:20In your new life.
37:24Okay?
37:26Whatever makes you feel better.
37:28Here, you go out.
37:30You go.
37:50What?
38:02Well, it started at the restaurant.
38:04He started in on me
38:06at the table, saying,
38:08why don't you just let me buy this vanity?
38:10But I said, I don't want you
38:12to spend your money on a vanity I don't even like.
38:14And he was just
38:16insisting and insisting. It was the most stupid
38:18thing to get into a fight about.
38:20And he was yelling at me in the car
38:22and saying he's changed his whole life for me.
38:24What have I done? What have I done? I haven't done anything
38:26for him. He's changed. He had a good life
38:28before. He had a peaceful life.
38:30He was perfectly happy.
38:32And now look at it. I f***ed his life.
38:34And so we got back
38:36to the house, and...
38:38He just kept
38:40yelling and started yelling more and more.
38:42And then he came over and grabbed my phone,
38:44ripped my hair extension out,
38:46and I said, give me
38:48my phone back. And he says, what?
38:50I don't know where your phone is.
38:52How would I know where your phone is?
38:54And I was like, you just took my phone.
38:56Am I, like...
38:58He was trying to make me feel like I was going crazy.
39:00Finally, he gave it back to me. And he was like, come here, baby.
39:02Come here. It's our birthday.
39:04Let me hug you. I was like, don't touch me.
39:06And
39:08so I started packing.
39:10And he came out, and he was like,
39:12what are you doing? And I was like, I'm packing
39:14because if you leave,
39:16you'll never see me again. And I was like,
39:18that's the point.
39:22So stupid.
39:24F***ing sucks.
39:26F***ing sucks.
39:44Are you okay?
39:46I'm okay, yeah.
39:48I feel like
39:50a little bit
39:52numbed at this point.
39:54I just need to process what happened.
39:56Because it feels like surreal.
39:58Like this isn't real.
40:02He kept saying, you've changed.
40:04You used to listen to me. Now you don't listen to me.
40:06And he was saying, I want the old Shekinah back
40:08who used to listen to me in the beginning.
40:14I don't think I've changed.
40:16I think I just
40:18am using my voice
40:20more because I'm realizing
40:22certain things are not okay.
40:24You know, he doesn't like
40:26to be confronted
40:28or questioned or challenged
40:30at all.
40:34I don't know
40:36what this means for me or
40:38Sarper at this point. I just
40:40need to process what happened
40:42and
40:44I'm alone with my dog.
40:52I just
40:54keep thinking about how
40:56it was earlier tonight.
40:58It was such a good night.
41:00It just went
41:02so wrong.
41:08Next time on
41:1090 Day Fiance The Other Way.
41:12My mom, she's not really like
41:14the gentlest person, you know.
41:16I did promise my family
41:18that we would do a video call with Inky.
41:20If Mookie gets ate up
41:22by a volcano, I'm gonna bring you
41:24back to life so I can kill you.
41:26Did I tell a joke?
41:40If James don't want to have a kid,
41:42it will break my family heart.
41:50Everything outside, I'm chilly.
41:52I still have the money from my car.
41:54It's the first I'm hearing
41:56that she had extra money.
41:58I thought that you didn't
42:00really have any extra money.
42:02The van is not in my name.
42:04And I feel like this is all
42:06a scam. I feel let down.
42:08I feel betrayed.
42:12She's always reminding me how much
42:14she does for our relationship.
42:16It's opening a wound.
42:20If he just thinks we're gonna fall back
42:22into like our happy life
42:24and things are gonna be great.
42:26He's totally wrong.
42:28Right now, I don't know
42:30if I even want to see him again.