ウチ、“断捨離”しました！2024年8月27日 「空間にも 心にも余裕を！ がんばりすぎる妻 自由への断捨離」
ウチ、“断捨離”しました！2024年8月27日 「空間にも 心にも余裕を！ がんばりすぎる妻 自由への断捨離」
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00:01Now, let's choose a new life.
00:06Leave the useless things in the house,
00:09throw away the unnecessary things,
00:12and leave the attachment to things.
00:16Choose a new life and way of life with your own decisions.
00:21That is Danshari.
00:25Hideko Yamashita, the founder of Danshari, is the one who makes the decision.
00:33She is a master of Danshari and life who has guided countless people.
00:40The shape of marriage, the shape of marriage.
00:43This is the Danshari of persuasion.
00:46To value things means to use things.
00:51Let's choose a new life and way of life.
00:56The door of life will open now.
01:02Oh, it's good!
01:04I like this.
01:06I like this.
01:07It's wonderful.
01:11Yamashita, who saw the house, muttered.
01:16The program market is in the best condition.
01:22Mr. Sakiko lives with her husband and four children.
01:27Every room is stylish and clean.
01:31But she has a problem that no one can tell her.
01:38When I got married, I couldn't do much housework,
01:41so I had to do it properly.
01:46She has to do housework perfectly for her family.
01:52She carries everything by herself and is almost at the limit.
01:59What are you good at? What are you not good at?
02:01What do you like? What do you hate?
02:03Do you have any?
02:05You want to blame yourself based on that.
02:08You want to do too much.
02:11She has a lot of things in her mind,
02:14and she has a lot of things in the space that people can't touch.
02:20Let's make everything clean.
02:24I don't want people to complain.
02:26That's the standard.
02:27That's right.
02:28I want to do this. I want to do that.
02:30That's what I want to put in this time.
02:37Yamashita Hideko's
02:39I did housework.
02:42A wife who works too hard.
02:44Housework for freedom.
02:48Kamakura City, Kanagawa Prefecture
02:53Kamakura City, Kanagawa Prefecture
02:57It's full of history and nature.
03:01In this city where time flows slowly,
03:05her morning is not busy.
03:08Taku-chan!
03:10Are you changing?
03:12Wake me up when you're done changing.
03:17Ms. Sakiko is 39 years old.
03:23She lives with her husband and four children.
03:30She makes breakfast for all of them every morning.
03:36It's fashionable.
03:37Fashionable?
03:38It's not fashionable.
03:39It's not fashionable.
03:42She adds Kamakura vegetables to the egg sandwich
03:46The color is nice.
03:50She also makes bento.
03:54I made something for dinner last night.
03:59I'm just putting it in the sauce.
04:03She doesn't leave leftovers for dinner.
04:06She prepares them separately.
04:09Her hands are busy.
04:12She also sprinkles sesame seeds.
04:15She looks professional.
04:19The children have woken up.
04:24Taku-kun, a third-year elementary school student,
04:27and Atsu-chan, a fifth-year elementary school student.
04:33And Yu-kun, a junior high school student.
04:37I'm going to sleep.
04:38Good night.
04:40Good night.
04:41I'm going to sleep.
04:42She sends three children to school.
04:46This time, she has to do the laundry.
04:48She has to do the laundry for six children.
04:50She has to do the laundry three times a day.
04:54While she's doing the laundry...
04:57Oh, it's Iyo-chan, the youngest child.
05:00Good morning.
05:03Eat your breakfast, Iyo-chan.
05:06After sending Iyo-chan to the nursery,
05:09she finally gets to eat.
05:12Mama is having breakfast.
05:16I'm tired.
05:17I'm so tired.
05:20But she still has to finish her breakfast.
05:23She has to work from home.
05:28She goes to a web shop
05:30that sells European vintage tableware.
05:33She has been running this web shop
05:35for seven years.
05:43Sakiko-san, who is busy every day,
05:46has a problem with this house.
05:54If you look at the front door,
05:56you can feel the openness.
05:58It's magnificent.
06:00This house is a 4LDK.
06:03On the second floor...
06:09This is the dining room where the children eat.
06:12I make sure the place is well-organized.
06:15I try not to leave anything out.
06:19The windows are big.
06:21It's a wonderful dining room.
06:25It's like a cafe or a hotel.
06:27It's well-organized and stylish.
06:31I feel like I'm in a forest.
06:34I can see both sides.
06:37This is my favorite part.
06:40The greenery spreads outside the sun.
06:44Isn't that Mt. Fuji?
06:48I fell in love with this view.
06:51This is a 35-year-old house.
06:54This is a 35-year-old house.
06:56It's been completely renovated.
06:59It was moved from Tokyo a year ago.
07:05This is the library.
07:07The children study here
07:09and play with toys.
07:15Sakiko-san also watches
07:17the children study here.
07:19There are a lot of toys and books,
07:21but it doesn't look like
07:23there are any problems with this room.
07:28The second floor is mainly for the family.
07:32It's a wonderful room.
07:34I'm envious of it.
07:38What about the first floor?
07:42This is the bedroom.
07:46This is the bedroom.
07:50The three children are sleeping on the floor.
07:55This is the bedroom for Iyo-chan,
07:58a 3-year-old girl and her husband.
08:00It's very clean.
08:04The three children are sleeping
08:06in this children's room.
08:10Sakiko-san said
08:12she didn't want the children
08:14to be trapped in the children's room.
08:16She wanted the children
08:18to sleep in the children's room.
08:21The first floor looks like
08:23a family-friendly floor.
08:26Actually, there was a problem
08:28with this room.
08:31This is the guest room.
08:33In my house,
08:35this is the guest room.
08:37This is the guest room.
08:40It's a laundry room.
08:44It's a laundry room.
08:49Originally,
08:51the Japanese-style laundry room
08:53was for the guests.
08:56From the wall to the floor,
08:58laundry clothes are left.
09:01This is the laundry room.
09:05I, my husband,
09:08my youngest son,
09:10my eldest son,
09:12my eldest daughter,
09:14and my daughter-in-law.
09:16My family takes
09:18what they like,
09:20such as socks and bikini.
09:22These are the daily clothes
09:24of the whole family.
09:27Oh, my.
09:29It's not even folded,
09:31so it's wrinkled.
09:34I don't know
09:36where to put this.
09:38That's my concern.
09:42But the other rooms are clean.
09:45Why is this room
09:47the only messy room?
09:52I can fold it,
09:54but I don't know
09:56where to put it.
09:58Ms. Sakiko,
10:00I heard that you
10:02weren't good at housework.
10:06I didn't know how to do housework.
10:08I was raised by my family.
10:10I had three children,
10:12and they were born one after another.
10:15I wasn't used to
10:17doing housework
10:19or raising children.
10:23Ms. Sakiko got married
10:25to her husband,
10:27Mr. Toshi.
10:30It was a one-year
10:32speed wedding.
10:35At the same age as her husband,
10:37she gave her son,
10:39Mr. Yu,
10:41and began her life
10:43as a mother.
10:45Two years later,
10:47the children were born,
10:49and Mr. Toshi's parents
10:51began to live together
10:53in order to be helped.
10:56However,
10:57she couldn't even clean up
10:59the mess she made
11:01due to her unfamiliar housework
11:03and raising children.
11:06When I saw that,
11:08my parents and my mother
11:10said to me,
11:12why can't you do it?
11:14Why don't you clean up
11:16as soon as possible?
11:18So I had to clean up
11:20without being told.
11:22I had to clean up
11:24as soon as possible.
11:27She is doing her best
11:29to clean up now,
11:32but she is not good
11:34at housework.
11:39Ms. Sakiko
11:41has something
11:43she looks at every day.
11:46What she has in the fridge
11:48is her own schedule.
11:51Every day,
11:53she has a schedule
11:55for housework,
11:57but it's almost 30 minutes.
12:01She starts housework
12:03at 6.30 a.m.,
12:05and also prepares
12:07the children's belongings.
12:10At noon,
12:12she goes to the nursery
12:14to pick up her son
12:16while doing
12:18housework.
12:21After that,
12:23she takes care
12:25of the children's
12:27preparations,
12:29cleaning,
12:31and even homework.
12:33At the end of the day,
12:35she cleans the room
12:37at midnight.
12:39She says she decided
12:41to do housework
12:43by herself,
12:45but she is not
12:47sure if she can do it.
12:57Ms. Yamashita.
12:59Please give her
13:01some advice.
13:06Hello.
13:08Nice to meet you.
13:10Nice to meet you, too.
13:13What a nice house.
13:15It's spacious.
13:18We renovated the house.
13:20Oh, I see.
13:22I like the way it looks.
13:24I like the color scheme.
13:27First,
13:28let's take a look from the second floor.
13:32This is the dining room.
13:34It's nice.
13:39It's nice.
13:42It's nice, isn't it?
13:44Yes, it is.
13:46I like it.
13:50It's really nice.
13:53Ms. Yamashita says
13:55there's nothing to say here.
13:58How about the kitchen?
14:01The children go to the kitchen
14:03and eat lunch.
14:08This is the dining table.
14:10On the other side,
14:12there's a rice cooker.
14:15Ms. Yamashita is interested
14:17in the rice cooker's sticker.
14:21It's necessary to sell it at a restaurant,
14:23but we don't need it.
14:25I didn't know that.
14:27It's totally different, isn't it?
14:29It's totally different.
14:31Here you are.
14:33It's not in the view.
14:35That's right.
14:37If it's not in the view,
14:39there are a lot of things
14:41that are not in the view.
14:43There are a lot.
14:45It's important to put them in the view.
14:47And if you remove them...
14:49Stop.
14:51That's right.
14:53The children eat lunch.
14:56The room is clean,
14:58but there are a lot of things
15:00in the shelves.
15:04This shelf
15:07I wonder if Ms. Sakiko
15:09tends to hide things
15:11in places she can't see.
15:13On this side,
15:15there's a TV.
15:17The children are here.
15:22The children are in the library.
15:26Hello, everyone.
15:28I'm Ms. Yamashita.
15:30I'm an old lady who works at a car repair shop.
15:32I'm an old lady who works at a car repair shop.
15:34I'm an old lady who works at a car repair shop.
15:36Mr. Toshi, who is her husband,
15:38seems to have a good relationship with his children.
15:40seems to have a good relationship with his children.
15:42It's been a long time
15:44since I've had
15:46this much space.
15:50On the other hand,
15:52Ms. Yamashita felt a problem.
15:54Ms. Yamashita felt a problem.
15:56It was
15:58the 30-minute schedule.
16:00It was the 30-minute schedule.
16:02I packed too many things
16:04in a short period of time.
16:06in a short period of time.
16:10I packed too many things
16:12in a short period of time.
16:14I packed too many things
16:16in a short period of time.
16:18But I'm still
16:20an old lady.
16:22When I pack my things,
16:24I need
16:26more space
16:28in between.
16:30This is a plan that doesn't have any gaps.
16:33I see.
16:34This is tough.
16:35And one more thing.
16:38You have to do everything by yourself.
16:40I know.
16:41Right?
16:42I'm at home.
16:43I'm a housewife.
16:44And I'm a mother.
16:46I have to do everything by myself.
16:48I know.
16:49No, no.
16:50I have to leave it to you.
16:51The power to leave it to you is the power of a mother.
16:53In a way, that's education for children.
16:56It's like, if you don't let me do this, it's no good.
16:59It's not no good.
17:00It's a process.
17:01It's like, I'm scared.
17:03That's what I was thinking.
17:07You have to do everything by yourself.
17:10That belief is tormenting Ms. Sakiko.
17:17She understood that in the guest room.
17:22I'm going to do the laundry.
17:24Okay.
17:25Oh my.
17:26I'm going to do the laundry.
17:28I'm going to do the laundry.
17:29It's a hassle to fold this, isn't it?
17:31I know.
17:32This doesn't go anywhere.
17:34Right.
17:35I don't use it often.
17:37I use it for laundry.
17:40I move it all the time when guests come.
17:44But even if you take off your shoes here,
17:47and make the children feel comfortable,
17:49you shouldn't do the laundry, right?
17:51I don't like it.
17:52You don't like it, do you?
17:53I didn't want to be a bad example to myself.
17:58That's why I applied for this project.
18:02Ms. Sakiko,
18:03her feelings are overflowing.
18:08When I got married in my early 20s,
18:10I couldn't do much housework.
18:12My friends told me,
18:14but I was told to do it.
18:16So I had to do it properly.
18:18I had a lot of that.
18:21Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses.
18:24For example,
18:25are you good at baseball?
18:29No, I'm not.
18:30If you're not good at baseball,
18:32do you attack?
18:33No, I don't.
18:34You don't, do you?
18:35That's all.
18:38That's all.
18:39You attack, don't you?
18:40You attack, don't you?
18:41You attack, don't you?
18:42The same goes for housework.
18:43Are you good at it?
18:44No, I'm not.
18:45Do you like it?
18:46Do you hate it?
18:47Do you?
18:49That's just a fact.
18:52You blame yourself based on that.
18:55You've done too much.
18:57I happen to have a lot of kids.
19:00I have to do the laundry every day.
19:04And this is a camper.
19:07Oh, this is what happens.
19:09That's all.
19:10It's just a fact.
19:11That's right.
19:12It's just a fact.
19:13But for this fact,
19:15you don't like this state, do you?
19:19Then how can you make this state better?
19:24That's all you have to do.
19:26That's all.
19:27Yes.
19:28So this is not a bad sign for you.
19:32Yes.
19:33Do you understand?
19:34I can't get away from doing the laundry like that.
19:38That's why I applied.
19:41She has to do the housework for her four children.
19:45She has to stop blaming herself for everything.
19:51Ms. Yamashita soothes Ms. Sakiko's heart.
19:58I'm going to make two baskets for the four of us.
20:03Put it in here.
20:05I'll put it here.
20:08I'll put it here.
20:09And the children will fold it.
20:11Then I'll take it home.
20:14I don't know where to put it.
20:18Then the children will pull it out from there.
20:22And when they're in trouble, it's their responsibility.
20:25Oh, wrinkle.
20:27Right?
20:28Yes.
20:29That's right.
20:30I have to make it tight.
20:33It's physically impossible.
20:36I'll let go of what I'm doing.
20:38I'll let go of it.
20:41She doesn't have to do it alone.
20:43She has to leave it to her family.
20:47That's why she started creating an environment where everyone can clean up easily.
20:54I'm going to do something here.
20:56Can you do it?
20:57Yes.
20:58Right?
20:59I'm not good at it.
21:02I hate it.
21:06And you're a beginner.
21:08You have to practice.
21:09I understand.
21:11It's natural that you can't do it well.
21:15The first basket is a storage shelf next to the washbasin.
21:21In the back of the door, she organizes the daily necessities and cleaning tools that she has prepared.
21:28She aims to create a shelf that is easy for the family to use.
21:35Let's get started.
21:40It's not fun to just pile it up.
21:43That's right.
21:44I'm going to make this a fun space.
21:49First of all, she takes everything to the Japanese-style room.
21:56Here we go.
21:59There's a lot of stuff.
22:01There's a lot of stuff.
22:03Right?
22:08What is this milk carton?
22:13When the milk carton comes out, I pick it up with chopsticks, put the milk carton in a plastic bag, and take it out.
22:21Because it's a necessity.
22:26She takes out all the stuff she had piled up.
22:32There's a lot of stuff.
22:36It's very difficult for us to recognize the three-dimensional space.
22:43Even if I pile it up, I can only see the surface of the flat surface, so I usually say,
22:49I don't have that much.
22:51Did you think so?
22:52I always say that.
22:53But I broke that three-dimensional space.
22:57This means that it has been disassembled.
23:00In fact, it means that you can tell the difference between disassembling and disassembling.
23:06After disassembling and grasping the contents of the shelf,
23:12she separates what is needed and what is not needed.
23:18By further disassembling and throwing away unnecessary boxes and bags,
23:23it becomes easier to grasp the stock.
23:30Do you eat this?
23:33Not now.
23:38There's a lot of steam.
23:41It's not this kind of toilet anymore, but it's a waste.
23:45I'm going to use it in someone's house.
23:48It doesn't matter whose house it is.
23:51It doesn't matter who it is.
23:53It's just me and us.
23:55I don't need it.
23:57I want to do this. I want to do that.
24:00That's the only thing I'm going to replace this time.
24:05Most of what Ms. Sakiko was piling up was for people, such as her family.
24:14It's okay to decide on your own.
24:18Ms. Yamashita's advice pushes Ms. Sakiko's back.
24:24When I think about it, there are a lot of things I don't like.
24:28I don't need it.
24:30There were a lot of things I didn't like.
24:33I don't like this kind of stuff.
24:37I understand.
24:39I didn't know it was like this.
24:41It's too weak.
24:43I can use it, but I don't want to use it.
24:46That's right.
24:48It's important not to want to use it.
24:50It's yours.
24:51That's how you get it back.
24:54When she took out what she didn't need,
24:58this was all she had.
25:02First, take out what you don't want to put back in the storage space.
25:06I'll send it to where it should go.
25:10Everyone, let's take a walk.
25:13Then Ms. Sakiko...
25:16Help me.
25:21When she called out, her son, Takkun,
25:25and her daughter, Acchan, came to help.
25:30Up until now, Ms. Sakiko had been doing everything by herself.
25:36Here, she leaves it up to the children.
25:41Thanks to them...
25:44Don't put it at the very top.
25:47Put it at the bottom.
25:49It won't be seen.
25:52Ms. Sakiko carefully thinks about the arrangement of the items.
25:58This is the front stage for the stock.
26:02It's a beautiful stock.
26:04I don't want to put anything extra in it.
26:09She thinks about the beauty and the ease of taking it out,
26:13and changes it over and over again until she's satisfied.
26:20The shelf was full of things,
26:25but it was reborn as a loose shelf.
26:30With this, it's easy to see what's where.
26:36It's easy for the whole family to use.
26:40Wow, this is amazing.
26:42Amazing?
26:45It's so simple.
26:47That's right. This is all I needed.
26:50Ms. Sakiko seems satisfied.
26:53At this time, she made a decision.
26:58Thank you very much.
27:05It's not a schedule, but it's all in one place in the house.
27:10I was wondering what would happen if I disassembled everything in one place.
27:19And I thought that I might have to clean up the laundry.
27:26That's right. She's going to clean up the whole house.
27:34I'm looking forward to seeing how much she can create
27:39in the house and in her daily life.
27:43I want her to do her best.
27:56I'm looking forward to seeing how much she can create in the house and in her daily life.
28:06Ms. Sakiko decided to disassemble the whole house.
28:11This is the closet in the bedroom.
28:16Mr. Toshi, who started a company a year ago and mainly works from home,
28:22is going to remake the clothes together.
28:27I don't like this.
28:29I don't need this.
28:33I don't need this anymore.
28:37Mr. Toshi, you're doing your best.
28:43On the other hand...
28:45I thought there was a crack around the neck.
28:48That's right.
28:53I thought there was a crack around the neck.
29:00I thought there was a crack around the neck.
29:04Mr. Toshi managed to fix the crack.
29:07But Ms. Sakiko, who saw the crack,
29:12It's okay. I'll wash it.
29:15Do you want me to wash it?
29:17That's okay.
29:18I don't want to lose it again.
29:20That's okay.
29:21Do you want me to clean it?
29:22That's okay.
29:25Oh, my.
29:27Ms. Sakiko is trying to clean the hoodie for her husband.
29:35I've heard that she's been doing this for a long time.
29:39I love him so much.
29:41I think it's always fun to be with him.
29:43That's why I was aware that he might hate me if I did this.
29:46I was aware that I had to be such a good wife.
29:53I thought I shouldn't slack off.
29:57She thought she had to do the housework perfectly.
30:00She thought she had to do the housework perfectly.
30:02She thought she had to do the housework perfectly.
30:06But what is her husband's true intention?
30:11I think he's doing a good job.
30:15I think his ideal is a little high.
30:21He said,
30:23He said,
30:25He said,
30:27He said,
30:29He said,
30:31He said,
30:33He said,
30:35He said,
30:37When I talked to Yamashita-sensei, he said it was impossible.
30:42I thought it was a great idea.
30:44I thought it would be much easier if I could do it.
30:51He told his wife how he felt.
30:56I've done so many things perfectly.
30:59He said it was impossible.
31:01He said it was impossible like Yamashita-san.
31:04He said it with his mouth, but he really gave up.
31:09I realized a few days later.
31:12I can say I don't want to do it, right?
31:15I can say I don't want to do it, right?
31:17That's right.
31:18That's right.
31:19I can say I can't do it.
31:20I can say I can't do it.
31:22With his words, Yamashita-sensei was able to relax a little.
31:28He didn't even show off his striped hoodie.
31:32The couple's closet, which was packed tightly, also had this much room.
31:41Another day.
31:45Sakiko-san, who works 30 minutes a day according to the schedule posted in the refrigerator.
31:52Taking advantage of her free time,
31:57she started to work on her bookshelf.
32:02It's almost all me.
32:04There are only two shelves left.
32:06The children and my husband.
32:09On this day, Sakiko-san began to change little by little.
32:15I think I was trying to choose a way of life that was good for someone unconsciously.
32:21At first, it was my mother.
32:24Looking at the book, she remembered the memory of the elementary school entrance exam.
32:31She was told that her mother was enthusiastic about her education and that she was working on the exam while on the move.
32:40However, even after taking the exam at multiple schools, Sakiko-san failed.
32:50Before the last exam, my mother was crying.
32:57She was crying at my grandmother.
33:00She said, I did so much.
33:02When I saw that, I thought it was terrible.
33:06I thought my mother was crying.
33:08I thought it was no good.
33:10She did her best not to make her mother sad.
33:14In the end, she passed the famous school.
33:19Seeing her mother happy at that time,
33:22Sakiko-san said that she prioritized answering someone's expectations rather than her own feelings.
33:32She went to the school that her mother had chosen, including high school and university.
33:39And after marriage, these books that she had read were also to meet her mother's expectations.
33:50The books on education were many.
33:55I thought I had to raise children like that.
33:58I thought I had to raise children like that.
34:02If my grandchild is like that, I will be happy.
34:07Sakiko-san was conscious of her mother's eyes and let her three children take the elementary school exam.
34:17At that time, she said that she could only think of that option, but now it seems to have changed a little.
34:26If I'm doing it because I like it, I think it's okay.
34:31I think it's okay as long as I'm convinced of what I'm doing now.
34:38Whether or not to take the exam depends on the children's feelings.
34:44Even if my grandchild grows up in the future,
34:48she decided to stop taking the exam to meet people's expectations.
34:57And...
34:59I'm very concerned about time management.
35:04It's a skill to achieve goals.
35:06I feel like I'm doing a lot of things.
35:10The self-proclaimed self-study that made her stand tall also stopped.
35:16In addition, it seems that Sakiko-san was in charge of the children's books,
35:22but she gave the open space to the children and decided to leave it to them.
35:31Then...
35:34It's a long cardboard.
35:36Why?
35:38It's probably in the office.
35:40It's probably in the office.
35:43A long cardboard?
35:46What is it for?
35:49It's probably in the office.
35:54For some reason, she put an empty box on the bookshelf.
35:59Why did you put it here?
36:01Because it was open.
36:04Because it was open?
36:05Yes.
36:07Well...
36:08The eldest daughter, A-chan, started to work on something.
36:13I put a lot of sweets on it.
36:17Wow, that's amazing.
36:18It's cute.
36:19It's cute.
36:21It might be cute.
36:23It's a decoration.
36:25I see.
36:28It has to be like this.
36:31I see.
36:32She wanted to put her favorite things on the empty box.
36:38I always have something unexpected for him.
36:41It's not meaningless, but I couldn't understand it.
36:44It's hard to understand that.
36:46It's hard to understand that.
36:49It was difficult for my mother to understand me.
36:52It's done.
36:53Let's put it on the desk.
36:54Okay.
36:57Sakiko disposed of the books she collected to live up to her expectations.
37:05She also took in her son's ideas.
37:08The bookshelf was full of playfulness.
37:14Sakiko's work seemed to be going well.
37:19However...
37:21Hey, don't be in a hurry.
37:23Takkun, what's wrong?
37:26His parents are nervous.
37:34One evening,
37:38his family's daily life changed.
37:43Ta-chan, Ta-chan, bring the tools.
37:46It's time for Takkun, a 3rd grader, to practice kendo.
37:53But he didn't start getting ready.
37:58It looks like he won't make it in time.
38:02Then, his father, who was in a hurry to send him to the training center,
38:09I'm doing my job so that I can make it in time.
38:11Hey, don't be in a hurry.
38:14Takkun, I wonder what's wrong with him.
38:19Sakiko, who doesn't say anything to her son,
38:23is trying to find out what's going on in his heart.
38:2930 minutes later.
38:33Are you ready?
38:34Can you do it?
38:36In fact, Takkun was not feeling well.
38:39He couldn't say he didn't want to go to practice.
38:44Let's do it again by ourselves.
38:48Takkun has to say how he feels.
38:53He slowly faces his son until he can tell his father how he feels.
39:00Do you want to do kendo or not?
39:03I want to do it.
39:04You want to do it, don't you?
39:06You never tell a lie.
39:08Don't you have anything to say to your father?
39:11Ask him how you feel.
39:13Ask him if he wants a trophy in his life.
39:18I want to do it.
39:19Do you want to do it?
39:20Ask your father.
39:22On this day, Takkun slept at home while checking his physical condition.
39:28What's important is not the person's expectations, but their own feelings.
39:34It seems that the words of Mr. Sakiko, who cares about people's eyes and pushes himself,
39:40have been expressed in his words.
39:48The last difficult part of the bicycle ride.
39:51There were a lot of things piled up.
39:57Well, it's coming out.
40:00The room is beautiful, but there are so many things invisible.
40:09I don't need any of these.
40:13He leaves only what he thinks he needs now,
40:18and leaves what he has been carrying.
40:22I thought I couldn't manage this amount of clothes.
40:26It's going to be out of my schedule.
40:30Along with things, the weight of his heart also became lighter.
40:35There was a big change in his schedule.
40:53One month after the bicycle ride,
40:56he visited Mr. Sakiko to say that it was over.
41:03Hello.
41:04Hello.
41:05Nice to meet you.
41:06Nice to meet you, too.
41:08The guest room, which used to be a laundry room,
41:14is now empty.
41:18It's amazing.
41:20It's amazing.
41:22It used to be so full, but now it's gone.
41:26Every time he saw a messy laundry room,
41:31he blamed himself for not being able to do it.
41:36Now he has more room in his children's room.
41:43According to Mr. Yamashita's advice,
41:46the cleaning of the laundry room is now up to the children.
41:52Wow, there's a lot of dust.
41:55Even the 3-year-old youngest, Io, is doing her best to help.
42:02It's amazing.
42:04The guest room, which Mr. Sakiko couldn't carry by himself,
42:09is now like a hotel.
42:11It's amazing.
42:13Now I can welcome guests whenever I want.
42:20Just the fact that there are no things
42:24doesn't mean that I have to take care of them.
42:28I realized that I have more free time.
42:36Mr. Sakiko, you seem to be very serious.
42:41You were trying to live up to people's expectations.
42:45I think you didn't realize that.
42:51You created an environment where you could blame yourself.
42:57I think it's called self-sufficiency.
42:59I created a schedule,
43:04but I didn't do it right.
43:08I was always frustrating myself.
43:11I put that on top of my schedule.
43:14I was chasing myself.
43:17You should blame yourself for the expectations from others.
43:23But if you react too much to the expectations from others,
43:29But it's also important to have the confidence to work hard.
43:37Originally, I loved my mom, my husband, and my friends.
43:42But now that I've changed, I don't blame them anymore.
43:50The space, the time, and the heart are one.
43:57In order to regain the freedom of the mind,
44:01I need to regain the freedom of the space, not the mind.
44:06Then the freedom of the time will be reborn,
44:09and the freedom of the mind will be reborn naturally.
44:12When I was in a state where I didn't have much freedom,
44:17I was able to regain the freedom of the space.
44:22I think he was a great man.
44:27He must have had a wonderful family.
44:31I think Sakiko is a wonderful person.
44:38On this day, Sakiko faced the 30-minute schedule.
44:46In order to be a good wife, she thought she had to do everything herself.
44:54She was too focused on the schedule.
45:01That change seems to reflect the mind of Sakiko,
45:06who was born with a lot of freedom.
45:13If you can't do it, you don't have to do it.
45:17Finally, she realized that it was okay to do it by herself.
45:23Maybe she was too particular about what she should do.
45:33If the other person was like this, I would be praised.
45:38I think she had a lot of thoughts that weren't straightforward.
45:45Someone's expectations that she was always worried about.
45:51When she recognized herself,
45:54someone from Sakiko's heart disappeared.
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