Aired (August 30, 2024): Kahit nakaranas ng tatlong beses na failed relationship ang single mom na si Mommy Sharmaine, ngunit sa kanyang pagtungtong sa ‘EXpecially For You,’ ay handang-handa na siyang humanap ng bagong kaibigan!
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00:00:00Thank you so much, Rhea Jen!
00:00:05There you go!
00:00:07I'm not her ex, I'm her ex.
00:00:09I thought it was you!
00:00:10Who's your pit-pit today?
00:00:13And whose shorts are you wearing?
00:00:15I'm not her ex, I'm wearing Salawal's shorts.
00:00:17Basketball shorts are her ex's, they're not together.
00:00:21So, hello, welcome to Especially For You, Charmaine.
00:00:24And of course, the chair.
00:00:26Yes, the chair.
00:00:27She said it's okay.
00:00:29Hello, Memevice.
00:00:30Hello, how are you?
00:00:32I'm okay, it's just a bit cold.
00:00:34A bit cold?
00:00:35It's cold.
00:00:36You don't have any clothes, you're just like this.
00:00:38You're really cold.
00:00:40Yes.
00:00:41And our aircon is really loud.
00:00:43But it's okay.
00:00:44It's okay.
00:00:45Because someone is making...
00:00:48What?
00:00:49Someone is making us put food, that's why the studio is cold.
00:00:53She's making a ref.
00:00:54She's making a ref.
00:00:55There are a lot of people here in ABS who don't use the aircon,
00:00:58so the neighbors are asking,
00:01:00can you make the food colder?
00:01:02The neighbors are asking.
00:01:04That's an experience because you're rich.
00:01:06Yes.
00:01:07In our area, they're really asking.
00:01:09Really?
00:01:10Because of course, not everyone has a ref,
00:01:12and not everyone has a good ref.
00:01:14There are some refs who don't cool down,
00:01:15they don't have a freezer.
00:01:16Yes.
00:01:17And some are just small.
00:01:18Alim Pakita, his mom said,
00:01:20can you make it colder?
00:01:21Then he'll put...
00:01:22One of our neighbors put ice, 30 pieces.
00:01:27That's a lot.
00:01:28He used electricity for business.
00:01:30That's a lot, right?
00:01:31He used ice water.
00:01:32He just put 10 pieces of ice.
00:01:33That's a lot.
00:01:34For business.
00:01:3530 pieces.
00:01:36Can you put less?
00:01:37What?
00:01:38No, you can't.
00:01:39You can change it.
00:01:40But sometimes, we really taste it.
00:01:42Little by little.
00:01:43So it's not obvious.
00:01:44Correct.
00:01:45So, there.
00:01:46You'll cool down a bit later when you're gone.
00:01:49It'll be hot when we have a discussion.
00:01:51Will it be hot?
00:01:52Correct.
00:01:53Your body will be hot.
00:01:54The cold will be gone.
00:01:55Especially when you feel that we're booking
00:01:57that what you're saying is not true.
00:02:00Oh my.
00:02:01It doesn't make sense, right?
00:02:02It starts with being nervous,
00:02:04then it gets cold.
00:02:05Yes.
00:02:06Later, they'll want to talk.
00:02:07Because they're already booking.
00:02:09We didn't rehearse.
00:02:11Where are you from?
00:02:12Kampanggap.
00:02:13Ah, Kapampangan.
00:02:14Kapampangan.
00:02:15I love Kapampangan.
00:02:16Yes.
00:02:17Yes.
00:02:18Really.
00:02:20I love Kapampangan.
00:02:21Kapampangan people.
00:02:24Are you from Kapampangan?
00:02:25No.
00:02:26You're from Bambang, right?
00:02:27You're not from...
00:02:28That's not me.
00:02:30She's from Cebu.
00:02:31Kim is from Cebu.
00:02:32I thought you're my impersonator today.
00:02:35Kim Chumacot.
00:02:36Maybe he's the one who made you a notary.
00:02:39Didn't he say that in the hearing?
00:02:40In the car.
00:02:41You don't know if you're crazy or not.
00:02:43Maybe you're the one who made me a notary.
00:02:44That's the truth.
00:02:45Oh my God.
00:02:46I was going down to the counter of the car.
00:02:49What are you doing here?
00:02:50You're on a speedboat.
00:02:53Talk to your friend.
00:02:54What modes of transportation are you using?
00:02:57I'm from Quezon City.
00:02:58It's me, Ma.
00:02:59It's me.
00:03:00I knew it.
00:03:01It's really you.
00:03:02It's me.
00:03:03I was just passing by.
00:03:05As Kim Chumacot's best friend,
00:03:07how can you prove that it's Kim Chumacot?
00:03:10Ma'am, the tattoo.
00:03:11Ma'am, the tattoo.
00:03:12The two of us have a tattoo.
00:03:14Let me see.
00:03:15We have a tattoo of Wang Od's nephew.
00:03:18We have a tattoo of Wang Od's nephew.
00:03:21You have a tattoo of Wang Od but your nephew has a tattoo of you.
00:03:24You're so ugly.
00:03:25Because you're busy.
00:03:27I'm just going to put it here.
00:03:28That's Wang Od.
00:03:29No.
00:03:30That's a trope.
00:03:32You're just going to associate.
00:03:33You're just going to say that there's a tattoo of Wang Od.
00:03:35Even if you're really Wang Od.
00:03:36Because Wang Od is from the mountains.
00:03:39You're from Eti.
00:03:41That's just our house.
00:03:43Ton, do you know Wang Od?
00:03:44Yes, you have a tattoo of him.
00:03:47That's just our house.
00:03:49No.
00:03:51Wang Od.
00:03:55Later, I'm going to get tired.
00:03:57You're so ugly.
00:03:59Wait.
00:04:01Wang Od went to Quezon City.
00:04:04We got a tattoo of the three of them.
00:04:06How did they know?
00:04:07They told me, come here.
00:04:09Wang Od is going to get a tattoo.
00:04:11I'm going to get a tattoo of Wang Od.
00:04:12That's so special.
00:04:13Wang Od went down the mountain for your friend.
00:04:16This is it.
00:04:17In Etiang, you even got a tattoo of him.
00:04:19We also got a tattoo of his nephew.
00:04:21How did you know it was his nephew?
00:04:22He told us.
00:04:24I can say that too.
00:04:25Hey, that's my nephew.
00:04:27That's his nephew.
00:04:29So, he's your brother.
00:04:30My father told me.
00:04:34What?
00:04:35He said he's your brother because his father told him.
00:04:37Anyway, we're happy that you're here.
00:04:41Were you the one who went to Quezon City?
00:04:44Or did our staff force you to come here as the last episode?
00:04:47Just kidding.
00:04:49Quezon City.
00:04:51Why do you want to share your story?
00:04:54Because I'm a single parent.
00:04:58I know that a lot of people can relate to my experience.
00:05:03Did you post your story on Facebook?
00:05:05No, I didn't.
00:05:07If you want a lot of people to relate to your story, I hope you post it on Facebook.
00:05:11No, I didn't.
00:05:13Maybe he can explain it.
00:05:15Yes, he can share his experiences.
00:05:17I just want to share my experience.
00:05:19Correct.
00:05:20You know, we all have stories in our lives that are worth sharing.
00:05:23Yes.
00:05:25Right?
00:05:26And there are a lot of people who will hear it and say,
00:05:29Oh, that's also my story.
00:05:30Yes, we're the same.
00:05:32I'm not the only one.
00:05:34Yes.
00:05:35How long have you been a single parent?
00:05:37What?
00:05:39I mean, how long have you been a single parent?
00:05:41I've been a single parent for four years.
00:05:45Four years.
00:05:47Your Honor, our resource person is not sure.
00:05:50Four years.
00:05:52Four years.
00:05:54She did not remember the date.
00:05:56But, that's it.
00:05:58Does she accept the answer?
00:06:00Madam Chair, no.
00:06:02She cannot like my answer.
00:06:06She cannot believe it.
00:06:08She cannot believe it if she's not sure.
00:06:11Yes.
00:06:13Sorry for your Honor.
00:06:15Please explain.
00:06:17Is it four years or not?
00:06:19Four years.
00:06:21You've been a single parent for four years.
00:06:23How many children do you have?
00:06:25Two.
00:06:27They're both girls.
00:06:29Okay.
00:06:31Is their father the only one?
00:06:33No.
00:06:35Who's the father?
00:06:37Because it's okay to have a son.
00:06:39That's her ex-husband.
00:06:41She accepted him.
00:06:43It's okay.
00:06:45She cannot like my answer.
00:06:47But, at least I'm answering.
00:06:49Your Honor, please contemplate.
00:06:55Your Honor, please contemplate.
00:06:57She's hungry.
00:06:59She wants to eat.
00:07:01Okay.
00:07:02You have two children.
00:07:04You have two failed relationships.
00:07:08Yes.
00:07:10How is that?
00:07:12How does it feel to face a 31-year-old lady
00:07:16who had two unsuccessful relationships
00:07:19and left two children?
00:07:21At first, it was very difficult
00:07:24because my children are girls.
00:07:27So,
00:07:28the times that I was left,
00:07:32we were separated at first.
00:07:34Then, the second time,
00:07:36I felt like I wanted to give up.
00:07:39Because I always failed.
00:07:41Then, I saw my friends.
00:07:44They're happily married.
00:07:47I feel like I'm getting old.
00:07:50I feel like I'm being left.
00:07:52Then, I can't give my children the complete family.
00:07:55So, what hurts me the most is that
00:07:58we're a broken family.
00:08:00My mother separated us
00:08:03when I was just four years old.
00:08:06The one thing that happened in your life
00:08:09that you didn't want to happen again.
00:08:12It happened twice.
00:08:14That's why it really hurts.
00:08:16True.
00:08:18Were you married to your father?
00:08:20Oh, my God. I was supposed to ask the same question.
00:08:22Oh, my God.
00:08:23You have the same brain.
00:08:25I was thinking the same thing.
00:08:27I hope we have the same looks.
00:08:30I hope we have the same bags and bags.
00:08:33I'll give you this. This is my face.
00:08:35I'll give you 48 pieces.
00:08:37Actually, I'm okay without that.
00:08:39Oh, my God.
00:08:41I'll give you my face.
00:08:43The answer is a bit painful.
00:08:45Is there a content there?
00:08:47Yes. It's like I got an ice pick in my eye.
00:08:50It hurts.
00:08:51But he's smiling.
00:08:53When we cry, it doesn't hurt.
00:08:55You know, when you're joking.
00:08:57When it's Bella.
00:08:59But this, you know, it feels like it's open.
00:09:01It's like I got an open eye.
00:09:03We can't do anything.
00:09:05It's really beautiful.
00:09:07It's really beautiful.
00:09:09I'll stay here on the piano.
00:09:11You're beautiful and you're fair.
00:09:13Don't go through the bulletin board
00:09:15when it's early in the morning.
00:09:17Don't go through the bulletin board.
00:09:18Charmaine is dressed up again.
00:09:20You know, she'll be naked here.
00:09:22We'll be in Hong Kong again tomorrow.
00:09:24So, what do you think will happen
00:09:26if you go out?
00:09:28Please welcome our special couple for the day.
00:09:30Why? Why?
00:09:32Tomorrow, we'll have a typhoon again.
00:09:34We'll have lunch in Hong Kong.
00:09:37Karil will have a papaya ice cream again.
00:09:42Karil.
00:09:44Let's go home. I'm excited.
00:09:46Guys, let's go.
00:09:48I'll treat you guys.
00:09:50Dirty ice cream.
00:09:56That's delicious.
00:09:58That's your happiest video.
00:10:00I'll show you the picture.
00:10:02And I'm the last one in line.
00:10:05Don't remind him of Hong Kong.
00:10:07Why?
00:10:09He'll remember the dinner.
00:10:11Ryan said the Korean restaurant is the best.
00:10:13Yes, the Korean restaurant is the best.
00:10:15It's so expensive.
00:10:16I'm not going to lie.
00:10:18I'm not going to lie.
00:10:20It's even better to go to Tondo.
00:10:22We might leave there.
00:10:24Anyway.
00:10:26You know,
00:10:28the hardest thing he mentioned
00:10:31is that he feels like he'll be left alone.
00:10:33Yes.
00:10:35Of course, we don't encourage him to feel that way.
00:10:39We don't romanticize him.
00:10:41But, we feel that.
00:10:44Yes.
00:10:46Sometimes,
00:10:48you're stressed because you feel like you'll be left alone.
00:10:51Even in school,
00:10:53you feel like you'll be left alone by your classmates.
00:10:55Yes.
00:10:57Even when you reunite with your family,
00:10:59you feel like you're the only one without a wife.
00:11:01True.
00:11:03For me,
00:11:05I had a baby when I was 45.
00:11:07Yes.
00:11:09You had a baby when you were 45?
00:11:11No, I was 45 years old.
00:11:13I had a baby when I was 45 years old.
00:11:14I was 45 years old.
00:11:16Now, I'm 11 years old.
00:11:18You're still okay.
00:11:20I don't want them to compute my age.
00:11:22I didn't say anything.
00:11:24But, I had a baby when I was 45,
00:11:26and my son is 11 years old.
00:11:28I don't want to convince you to compute his age.
00:11:3056?
00:11:34That's sad.
00:11:37How are you coping?
00:11:39My kids,
00:11:41they're the only ones
00:11:42who make me feel strong.
00:11:44When I look at them,
00:11:46I can't show them
00:11:48that I'm weak.
00:11:50It's sad.
00:11:52But, the other kids,
00:11:54you're all civil.
00:11:56The two exes are already dating.
00:11:58Oh, they're the ones.
00:12:00Oh, Sean is still alive.
00:12:02Oh, Sean is still alive.
00:12:04Oh, the two exes are already dating.
00:12:06Oh, the two exes are already dating.
00:12:08Really?
00:12:10Yes.
00:12:12No, I don't think so.
00:12:14No?
00:12:16Yes, because his ex is still alive.
00:12:18And he's happy.
00:12:20He accepted it.
00:12:22He supported it.
00:12:24That's good, Sean.
00:12:26Huh?
00:12:28Why?
00:12:30Share it.
00:12:32If you're strong.
00:12:34I don't know.
00:12:36You're the one who's all talk.
00:12:38Look, there are a lot of people here,
00:12:39but you're the one who's all talk.
00:12:41Then let's share it.
00:12:43What's that?
00:12:45It's important that Sean is happy now.
00:12:48He's happy now.
00:12:50Anyway,
00:12:52what am I going to say?
00:12:54No, he's coping up
00:12:56because he's with his two kids.
00:12:58No, and
00:13:00he said he's going to give up.
00:13:02Because life is like
00:13:04boxing.
00:13:06You're like a boxer.
00:13:07You have a number of losses,
00:13:09a number of wins,
00:13:11and knockouts.
00:13:13Yes.
00:13:15Sometimes it hurts.
00:13:17It's like you have more losses
00:13:19than wins.
00:13:21Because he's leaving behind
00:13:23pain.
00:13:25He's leaving behind scars
00:13:27that you remember.
00:13:29But in reality,
00:13:31in real life,
00:13:33we have more wins than losses.
00:13:35Of course.
00:13:37We acknowledge that.
00:13:39Yes, it's true.
00:13:41So,
00:13:43as much as we can,
00:13:45let's not consider the option
00:13:47of giving up.
00:13:49Because we're winners
00:13:51if we just acknowledge
00:13:53that from the smallest of victories,
00:13:56God has given us a lot.
00:13:59If you just wake up,
00:14:01that's a big win.
00:14:03Right?
00:14:05If your relationship didn't succeed,
00:14:07you have two big wins.
00:14:09Yes.
00:14:11And the third and biggest win,
00:14:13your two big wins are with you.
00:14:15Yes.
00:14:17I saw your face,
00:14:19you were smiling,
00:14:21your mouth was flashing.
00:14:23When you get to realize those wins,
00:14:25it's like,
00:14:27why would I give up?
00:14:29I have losses, but I have wins.
00:14:31Carlos Yulo,
00:14:33he only had two gold medals.
00:14:34He only had two gold medals.
00:14:36But that's a big win, right?
00:14:38He erased the losses,
00:14:40the ones he didn't succeed,
00:14:42the ones he lost,
00:14:44the ones he became fourth.
00:14:46He erased them all.
00:14:48Because he didn't give up.
00:14:50That's why he woke up.
00:14:52Let's be thankful
00:14:54and let's pray
00:14:56because we're all still winners.
00:14:58Yes.
00:15:00We're still winners in life.
00:15:02And we'll continue to be winners
00:15:04in life.
00:15:06It's a good thing he didn't fall in love.
00:15:09Yes.
00:15:11It's a good thing your heart is still open.
00:15:13Yes.
00:15:15Actually, I tried again.
00:15:17I tried again after...
00:15:19After the second date?
00:15:21Yes.
00:15:23So, I took a break.
00:15:25Because I have friends
00:15:27who are annoying.
00:15:29Yes.
00:15:31They push you and want you to be happy.
00:15:32Yes.
00:15:34But you just don't like it.
00:15:36You just get to know each other.
00:15:38But how long have you been single?
00:15:41So, actually,
00:15:43for us,
00:15:45it's very complicated.
00:15:47How long have you been single?
00:15:49Please answer straight to the point.
00:15:52A resource person has been,
00:15:54you know, going around...
00:15:56Madam Chair, she's not a sporadic person.
00:15:58Wait, Madam Chair.
00:16:00So, maybe...
00:16:02Madam Chair...
00:16:04No, no.
00:16:06Actually,
00:16:08it's only been 4 months.
00:16:10How long did you count?
00:16:12She counted it.
00:16:14She counted it.
00:16:16I hope you counted it for weeks
00:16:18but you counted 4 months.
00:16:20What's your grade in arithmetic?
00:16:22But you're all...
00:16:24I'm just making sure.
00:16:26I'm just making sure.
00:16:27But this ex-boyfriend we're talking about,
00:16:30is he not one of your two fathers?
00:16:32No, he's not.
00:16:34This is different.
00:16:36But before we proceed to the last question,
00:16:38you're not the type of person
00:16:41who depends on
00:16:44a man to be happy
00:16:46and to be complete.
00:16:48It's kind of like that.
00:16:50Because,
00:16:52I feel like that's what's lacking.
00:16:54Because,
00:16:55just like what I said,
00:16:57relationships are always filled.
00:16:59Sometimes, I wonder
00:17:01if there's something wrong with me.
00:17:04Why are my friends happy?
00:17:07Their families are happy.
00:17:09They have kids.
00:17:11Then, why am I like that?
00:17:14So, that's why
00:17:16I sometimes ask God.
00:17:19Sometimes.
00:17:21Did you ask yourself?
00:17:23Why?
00:17:25Who's going to answer?
00:17:27God or yourself?
00:17:29Of course, God.
00:17:31You need to realize why you're like this.
00:17:33You also need to realize
00:17:35why your life is like this.
00:17:37What's the problem?
00:17:39What's lacking?
00:17:41Did you ask yourself?
00:17:43I also question myself.
00:17:45You answered.
00:17:47No, I didn't.
00:17:49Why didn't you answer?
00:17:51No, I didn't.
00:17:53But actually,
00:17:55I question my worth.
00:17:58I feel like,
00:18:00especially now that I have a child,
00:18:02I feel like,
00:18:04when I say that I have a child,
00:18:06they will hesitate.
00:18:08If your child asked you,
00:18:10Mommy,
00:18:12what went wrong?
00:18:14Why didn't your relationship with my father succeed?
00:18:17What would you answer?
00:18:21It's hard.
00:18:22It's hard because
00:18:24especially when my children are young,
00:18:267 and then 12 years old.
00:18:28Actually, one of my children is here.
00:18:30She's here and she's supporting me.
00:18:32Maybe what I can say is,
00:18:35now, I can't really explain.
00:18:38Maybe when they grow up,
00:18:40they will understand.
00:18:42But you,
00:18:44it's different when you can't explain
00:18:46because it's hard to explain.
00:18:48But when it comes to yourself,
00:18:50you know what happened.
00:18:52We should also review,
00:18:54what happened to me?
00:18:56What happened to us?
00:18:58For example, in class, you fell.
00:19:00Think about it.
00:19:02Your mom will ask you,
00:19:04Son, why did you fall?
00:19:06What happened?
00:19:08Did you not study?
00:19:10Did you rebel?
00:19:12Are you not interested?
00:19:14Because before, your grades were high.
00:19:16Why did you fall?
00:19:18You're being assessed, right?
00:19:20Did you even try to assess yourself?
00:19:22Yes, I assessed myself.
00:19:24But in my part,
00:19:26especially because my children are girls,
00:19:31maybe,
00:19:33the problem is,
00:19:35I love them too much.
00:19:38Maybe that's it.
00:19:41To the point where they drifted away from you?
00:19:44No.
00:19:46I just take everything that happens.
00:19:49You take everything?
00:19:50What does that mean?
00:19:52Even if I know that I'm being hurt,
00:19:56that I'm being fooled,
00:19:58I still go for it.
00:20:00That's the problem.
00:20:02That's the main problem.
00:20:04But I don't want to drift away
00:20:06because I don't want us to be a broken family.
00:20:08So as much as possible,
00:20:10I will hold on to it.
00:20:12How do you choose the people
00:20:14you let into your life?
00:20:16Of course, I know who I will accept in my children.
00:20:18That's number one.
00:20:20Did your ex-husband accept you?
00:20:22My second child,
00:20:24my youngest,
00:20:26he accepted me at first.
00:20:30But you said that you're being hurt,
00:20:32you're just accepting it.
00:20:34So even if you're being hurt,
00:20:36you're just accepting your child?
00:20:38No, because at first,
00:20:40he's just showing off.
00:20:42But later on,
00:20:44he let go of his true colors.
00:20:46Because sometimes,
00:20:48what we don't like,
00:20:50but we don't know,
00:20:52that's also what we always choose.
00:20:54We're attracted to it.
00:20:56That's why you should assess,
00:20:58why did I become like that?
00:21:00Why do I like people
00:21:02who are wild?
00:21:04It's like you're always going to
00:21:06the same situation over and over again.
00:21:08Yes, I'm attracted to people
00:21:10that I won't take seriously,
00:21:12but I still like them.
00:21:14You're always looking for them.
00:21:16Why am I attracted to people
00:21:18who look like they have a lot of women?
00:21:22I think he's settling,
00:21:24because at first,
00:21:26he thinks that his children
00:21:28need to have a father.
00:21:30That's why,
00:21:32no matter who it is,
00:21:34he doesn't care too much.
00:21:36Do you want your children to have a father?
00:21:38Of course,
00:21:40I really want a complete family.
00:21:42Of course,
00:21:43I really want a person
00:21:45who truly loves
00:21:47me and my children.
00:21:49Of course,
00:21:51it's like a total package.
00:21:53Because if you love me,
00:21:55you should also love your children.
00:21:57It should be like that.
00:21:59But the question is,
00:22:01should you look for them a father?
00:22:03No.
00:22:05I'm not looking for them,
00:22:07but when I tried,
00:22:09I was successful.
00:22:11No, because he said
00:22:13he wants his children to have a father.
00:22:15So when you enter into a relationship,
00:22:17the reason is because
00:22:19you're in love with the person.
00:22:21You're in love with the person,
00:22:23but you consider that
00:22:25the person you love
00:22:27should accept your child.
00:22:29Because your love for the person
00:22:31should come first.
00:22:33If you accept his child,
00:22:35it's okay,
00:22:37I don't love you anymore,
00:22:39but you should accept him.
00:22:41I never loved a person
00:22:43who doesn't love me.
00:22:45If I love someone,
00:22:47my family knows that
00:22:49I'm all out.
00:22:51But did it come to a point
00:22:53that your children
00:22:55didn't accept the guy?
00:22:57Actually,
00:22:59my eldest son
00:23:01doesn't talk much,
00:23:03but I can see
00:23:05that when he sees
00:23:07that I'm sad,
00:23:09he cries,
00:23:11I can see that he's sad.
00:23:13What was the question
00:23:15that was the hardest for you to answer?
00:23:17When he heard me crying,
00:23:19I went to the restroom.
00:23:21What did he ask you?
00:23:23Why did you go to the restroom?
00:23:25No, because I have someone to talk to.
00:23:27I don't want my son to hear it.
00:23:29I'll talk to my ex.
00:23:31What was the question
00:23:33that was the hardest for you
00:23:35to answer from your son?
00:23:37Why did I cry?
00:23:39Why am I still talking to that person?
00:23:41He always hurts me.
00:23:43I just cried.
00:23:45I was hurt.
00:23:47At that time,
00:23:49he was only 5 years old.
00:23:51Imagine that.
00:23:53That's how he talks.
00:23:55Okay, wait a minute.
00:23:57Why?
00:23:59I'll just imagine it.
00:24:01Imagine it.
00:24:03Imagine it.
00:24:05He's 5 years old.
00:24:07How old are they now?
00:24:09My eldest son is 12 years old.
00:24:11My youngest son is 7 years old.
00:24:14He just turned 7 this August.
00:24:16But that's true.
00:24:18Children are very perceptive.
00:24:20They can feel what their parents are feeling.
00:24:22Dogs can feel.
00:24:24Especially mothers.
00:24:26I don't like him.
00:24:28He acts like that.
00:24:30It's really hard for women
00:24:32to find someone
00:24:34because you're not the one courting.
00:24:36In our culture,
00:24:38Filipinos,
00:24:39women are the ones courting.
00:24:41It's embarrassing
00:24:43if you're too aggressive.
00:24:45Sometimes, it's all about timing.
00:24:47Timing is everything.
00:24:49When will the right person come for you?
00:24:52But men will react.
00:24:54It's hard for them too.
00:24:56You say it's hard for women
00:24:58because they'll wait for you to court them.
00:25:00But for men,
00:25:02even if you look like you're courting,
00:25:04if you don't like it, you don't like it.
00:25:06It's even harder
00:25:07if you're the one starting
00:25:09and you're the one feeling rejected.
00:25:11Like, you're not right.
00:25:13What can we learn from you?
00:25:17From what you've been through?
00:25:19I think the first thing I learned
00:25:23from all my experiences
00:25:26is to love yourself first.
00:25:29Because I'm the type of person
00:25:31who gives 100% when it comes to love.
00:25:34There's nothing left for me.
00:25:37It's self-worth.
00:25:40It's the most important thing
00:25:42that we love ourselves first
00:25:44before we love other people.
00:25:46Are you the type of single mom
00:25:48that when you meet someone
00:25:50and you think they like you,
00:25:52you feel that you should be honest
00:25:55that you love me
00:25:57and you'll continue courting me.
00:25:59Here, I have two children.
00:26:01Yes, I'm always like that.
00:26:02I always tell them
00:26:04that I have two children.
00:26:06I never deny my children.
00:26:08I always tell them
00:26:10that I have two children.
00:26:12Because that's when you'll know
00:26:14if they're really serious
00:26:16or if they just like me.
00:26:18So, yes.
00:26:20I'm always direct to the point
00:26:22that I tell them that I have two children.
00:26:24So, your ex-boyfriend
00:26:26accepted that you have two children.
00:26:28Is that right?
00:26:30No.
00:26:32He has some hindrances
00:26:34that he really doesn't like.
00:26:36What hindrances did he accept
00:26:38but he doesn't like?
00:26:40Because my son's parents are still there.
00:26:42So, we should just ignore them?
00:26:44That's right.
00:26:46That's right.
00:26:48There's no need to ignore them.
00:26:50Because he said it's a hindrance.
00:26:52He just wants the two guys to be there.
00:26:54So, should we open up the two guys?
00:26:56What's going on?
00:26:58What?
00:27:00The concept is scary.
00:27:02No, it's not.
00:27:04Because he's...
00:27:06Is he jealous?
00:27:08But your ex-boyfriend is a foreigner, right?
00:27:10Yes.
00:27:12What's his race?
00:27:14Mexican.
00:27:16Mexican.
00:27:18So, you met and became a couple.
00:27:20He knows that you have two children.
00:27:22He knows that you have two children
00:27:24since the beginning.
00:27:26Yes, because he saw it on social media.
00:27:28I posted it to my kids.
00:27:30We met on a dating app
00:27:32So, that's it.
00:27:34Then, when he found out,
00:27:36what became the problem?
00:27:38Because you also had an issue,
00:27:40that's why you separated.
00:27:42Your children are involved, right?
00:27:44Yes.
00:27:46What happened?
00:27:48He can't talk to my children's parents.
00:27:50Like, what did he say to him?
00:27:52Because if it's just like that,
00:27:54he should've just found another girl
00:27:56who doesn't have children.
00:27:58She's really single.
00:28:00If it's just like that,
00:28:02you still have a connection
00:28:04with your children's parents because?
00:28:06Because my children,
00:28:08of course, I didn't force them.
00:28:10They also need a connection
00:28:12with their biological dad.
00:28:14But are their parents
00:28:16the ones who provide for your kids?
00:28:18Yes, of course.
00:28:20That's why there's a connection.
00:28:22Maybe because they're jealous.
00:28:24It's like, we're civil
00:28:26for our children.
00:28:28But he can't understand that
00:28:30because he really can't do it.
00:28:32But if you stop the support
00:28:34of your children
00:28:36to their parents,
00:28:38can he provide for them?
00:28:40Actually, he also tells me
00:28:42that it's a big responsibility
00:28:44if it's just the three of them.
00:28:46But can he do it?
00:28:48Will he admit it?
00:28:50Yes, he will admit it.
00:28:52Because he can say,
00:28:54no, no more talk,
00:28:56don't talk to them,
00:28:58I will provide.
00:29:00He can't impose it
00:29:02on them.
00:29:04How long did your relationship last?
00:29:06So, three years and two months.
00:29:08It's quite long,
00:29:10three years and two months.
00:29:12So, it's hard for you
00:29:14because it's like a push and pull
00:29:16because he doesn't want to
00:29:18see your children.
00:29:20Yes.
00:29:22You also need to spend time
00:29:24with your children.
00:29:26Does he have a plan?
00:29:28Yes.
00:29:30Because he doesn't play anymore
00:29:32because he forgot
00:29:34that he has a partner.
00:29:36You know, I asked the writer,
00:29:38did he have a partner?
00:29:40Did his partner back out?
00:29:42You know,
00:29:44you have a good story.
00:29:46You have a good story.
00:29:48That's why you're the highest honor.
00:29:50What's that?
00:29:52That's why there's a person
00:29:54in the backstage.
00:29:56I'm the one who said that.
00:29:58He said in the backstage,
00:30:00there's someone doing that.
00:30:02He said,
00:30:04Meme, can you do it today?
00:30:06He said that in the backstage.
00:30:08Meme, do I still need to do it today?
00:30:10I said, why are you still fixing that?
00:30:12He just removed his shoes.
00:30:14Let's call him.
00:30:16He has a partner.
00:30:18It's his brother, Danica.
00:30:20Danica, come here.
00:30:22She's so excited.
00:30:24Danica is wearing rubber shoes.
00:30:26She was wearing rubber shoes earlier.
00:30:28It's cold in the backstage.
00:30:30Oh my God,
00:30:32Yes.
00:30:34That's why she typed,
00:30:36Right?
00:30:38That's how it is.
00:30:40It's like this,
00:30:42it's like a heart,
00:30:44right?
00:30:46You're too much.
00:30:48Just kidding.
00:30:50Hi, Danica.
00:30:52Hello.
00:30:54Danica's hair is messy.
00:30:56Sorry, Danica.
00:30:58It's a bit messy.
00:30:59Sorry, Danica.
00:31:01She even chose her
00:31:03most beautiful,
00:31:05Lenny Robredo outfit.
00:31:07Have you been there before, backstage?
00:31:09Not really.
00:31:12I don't know if I can stand up,
00:31:14I'll just sit there.
00:31:16That's why it's messy there.
00:31:18Someone did that to you.
00:31:20Sorry, Danica.
00:31:22What made the staff at the back
00:31:24explain why you weren't called?
00:31:26They said,
00:31:27You're too much.
00:31:29Too much.
00:31:31I'm sorry.
00:31:33It's too much.
00:31:35The topic is too broad.
00:31:37We can't let go of it.
00:31:39Where were you at that time?
00:31:41He's hiding.
00:31:43Backstage.
00:31:45He's been there for a long time.
00:31:47He forgot about it.
00:31:49What were the times when
00:31:51Charmaine was gloomy
00:31:53because his ex thought
00:31:55he was the one to blame.
00:31:57At first,
00:31:59he was okay with the kids,
00:32:01but then he realized
00:32:03he wasn't.
00:32:05Where were you?
00:32:07What was your role in the story?
00:32:09If you weren't there,
00:32:11why were you called?
00:32:13Actually, I'm here in the Philippines.
00:32:15We're separated.
00:32:17Us too.
00:32:19Were you in America?
00:32:21Yes.
00:32:23I stayed in California.
00:32:25So,
00:32:27were you aware at least?
00:32:29Yes.
00:32:31He's always open to me.
00:32:33Even if he's not open,
00:32:35my mom would tell me
00:32:37because she's with my mom at home.
00:32:39Of course, she sees my sister
00:32:41when she's sulking.
00:32:43She says,
00:32:45you're too much.
00:32:47She always says that.
00:32:49Again and again,
00:32:51I always advise her,
00:32:53but I tell her
00:32:55that it's up to her
00:32:57to decide what's right.
00:32:59She's been waiting for so long.
00:33:01There's no one to talk to.
00:33:03She has a lot to say.
00:33:05It's a good thing
00:33:07we called you right away.
00:33:09You've been waiting for so long.
00:33:11Your advice
00:33:13is still up to you.
00:33:15I hope
00:33:17I have a point of view.
00:33:19It's different.
00:33:21But it's still up to you
00:33:23to decide.
00:33:25But when you go home,
00:33:27it's up to you.
00:33:30He's been in the bathroom for a long time.
00:33:32Did you meet his ex?
00:33:34In a video call.
00:33:36Online.
00:33:38Are you in LDR, Charmaine?
00:33:40No, I'm in America.
00:33:42I'm in the U.S.
00:33:44Oh my God.
00:33:46She's in the U.S.
00:33:48That's where she met the Mexican.
00:33:50She's looking at their nails.
00:33:52I looked at their nails.
00:33:54They're beautiful.
00:33:55They're so beautiful.
00:33:57She's looking at your nails.
00:33:59You don't even know who you're talking to.
00:34:01It's already late.
00:34:03Your brother doesn't even know who you're talking to.
00:34:06It's not me.
00:34:08Anyway,
00:34:10if you were to ask
00:34:12Danica,
00:34:14because you're the one who met him,
00:34:16what's wrong?
00:34:22For me, there's nothing wrong.
00:34:26Will you be able to return to the stage, Danica?
00:34:28No, in your opinion,
00:34:30is there anything wrong with his exes?
00:34:33Is there anything wrong with Charmaine?
00:34:37Because of the three of them,
00:34:39the two of them still have children.
00:34:42And the other one,
00:34:44why do you think?
00:34:46If you were to ask.
00:34:48Because my sister,
00:34:50like she said,
00:34:51because my sister is the one who's jealous.
00:34:53That's right.
00:34:55She loves him so much
00:34:57that she almost pours herself into him.
00:35:04She almost pours herself into him.
00:35:06Is that true?
00:35:08Does she do that to herself?
00:35:11But
00:35:14when you're in love,
00:35:16you can't control it.
00:35:18You're giving everything you have.
00:35:20When I hear that you should save,
00:35:22I don't know how you do it.
00:35:24How do you control
00:35:26that this is all you're going to give
00:35:28to the person you really love?
00:35:30Because when you love someone,
00:35:32you're not going to save your partner.
00:35:34Your last hope.
00:35:36Let's share.
00:35:38I don't get it.
00:35:40How can you not give everything?
00:35:42Because you're lucky
00:35:44that the person you meet,
00:35:46that you're giving everything to,
00:35:47you're not giving it back to him.
00:35:49Even if you're not reciprocating,
00:35:52when you love someone,
00:35:54are you saving?
00:35:56You shouldn't.
00:35:58But she also has a lot to think about.
00:36:00Her two children.
00:36:02She's not the only one.
00:36:04Is it possible
00:36:06that you can control
00:36:08what you're going to give?
00:36:10No, you shouldn't.
00:36:12You can only control
00:36:14if you're going to stop this
00:36:15or if you're going to continue.
00:36:17But if you're going to save,
00:36:19you shouldn't.
00:36:21You're just going to think
00:36:23that you're going to get tired.
00:36:25No, don't do it.
00:36:27Is this right?
00:36:29It's too much.
00:36:31What I feel is
00:36:33that it's bad
00:36:35if you keep pouring.
00:36:37What's the effect of this
00:36:39on what you're pouring?
00:36:41Because it can also drown.
00:36:43And you're running out.
00:36:46She doesn't want
00:36:48to run out of people.
00:36:50Because when she met you,
00:36:52you're a different person.
00:36:54You're full of life,
00:36:56you're fun to talk to,
00:36:58you're fun to be with.
00:37:00But when you're tired,
00:37:02you keep pouring.
00:37:04You're a different person.
00:37:06And sometimes you think
00:37:08you're just pouring love.
00:37:10But if you pour too much love
00:37:12that you want to give,
00:37:13you're running out of people.
00:37:15You know that?
00:37:17When you love too much,
00:37:19it's like
00:37:21you're making the other person look stupid.
00:37:23Because you keep pouring.
00:37:25You're running out of people.
00:37:27It can also have an effect
00:37:29on other people.
00:37:31You're really balancing.
00:37:33Yes.
00:37:35What are the three things
00:37:37that you're fighting for?
00:37:39That you're fighting for?
00:37:41The reasons.
00:37:43Why?
00:37:45Maybe because
00:37:47our situation was really different
00:37:49in the last group.
00:37:51Because in the first group,
00:37:54we became LDR.
00:37:57That's right, Kincho.
00:37:59LDR.
00:38:01I told you,
00:38:03you made me ride a speedboat.
00:38:05This is where you made her leave.
00:38:07This is where I was.
00:38:09LDR was the first one?
00:38:11Yes.
00:38:13Kincho was the first one.
00:38:15He was with me in the US.
00:38:17LDR was the first one.
00:38:19What was the problem with LDR?
00:38:22It didn't work out
00:38:25because we were far apart.
00:38:27It was hard for us.
00:38:29Why did you move to the US
00:38:31in the first place?
00:38:33My mom penetrated me.
00:38:35My mom is in the US.
00:38:37My father is here in the Philippines.
00:38:39Because they were separated.
00:38:41At that time,
00:38:43they were rushing my papers
00:38:45because I was 21 years old.
00:38:47Where was your baby?
00:38:49Was he with you?
00:38:51He's with me now.
00:38:53In the US?
00:38:55No, I penetrated him.
00:38:57Okay.
00:38:59Based on their story
00:39:01and what her brother said
00:39:03and what you admitted,
00:39:05the problem is
00:39:07that you are full of love.
00:39:09Yes.
00:39:11I feel that
00:39:13there's nothing wrong with that.
00:39:15Because your intention is
00:39:17to love someone.
00:39:19But you should also think
00:39:21if you love someone too much,
00:39:23will you drown him
00:39:25or will he still be able to love you?
00:39:28If you love someone too much,
00:39:31you might suffocate.
00:39:33So you should be sensitive
00:39:35if your love for someone too much
00:39:37is good or bad.
00:39:39Because if you love someone too much,
00:39:41there's nothing wrong with that.
00:39:43Especially if your intention is
00:39:45to love and make someone happy.
00:39:47But sometimes,
00:39:49if we love someone too much
00:39:51and make them happy,
00:39:53we will also remove them
00:39:55from being human sometimes.
00:39:57Yes.
00:39:59Especially if you have two children,
00:40:01you will pour your love first.
00:40:03Yes.
00:40:05Always.
00:40:07If your partner really likes you,
00:40:09he will come to you
00:40:11and ask you to love him.
00:40:13If your love is too much,
00:40:15you should also think
00:40:17when to stop.
00:40:19And choose yourself.
00:40:21Yes.
00:40:23Are you ready for a 4-month single?
00:40:25Because I feel that
00:40:27I deserve to be happy.
00:40:29So, I'm open
00:40:31to meet
00:40:33a new friend.
00:40:35Okay.
00:40:37Do you have a husband or boyfriend?
00:40:39I don't have one.
00:40:41Okay.
00:40:43So, let's go.
00:40:45Let's open the telons.
00:40:47Yes.
00:40:49We're excited to meet him.
00:40:51Charmaine,
00:40:53it's time to meet our Sirchies.
00:40:55Let's meet Sirchie No. 1.
00:40:57Reveal.
00:40:59What's up, madam people?
00:41:01I'm Jay,
00:41:0335 years old.
00:41:05I'm the single uncle of Keapo Manila.
00:41:07Single uncle?
00:41:09So, you have a lot of nephews.
00:41:11Yes.
00:41:13Especially during Christmas.
00:41:15He's fond of kids.
00:41:17How long have you been single, Jay?
00:41:195 years.
00:41:215 years.
00:41:23How old is your last ex-girlfriend?
00:41:25We had an M.U.
00:41:27So, you have a girlfriend already?
00:41:29Yes.
00:41:31How many?
00:41:333.
00:41:35They had an M.U. last time.
00:41:37Yes.
00:41:38Charmaine,
00:41:40are you a solid show-timer?
00:41:42Why?
00:41:44Because I want you to be with your family forever.
00:41:47Wow.
00:41:49That's different.
00:41:51That's a good thing.
00:41:53Partnership.
00:41:55Of course.
00:41:57We're 50-50.
00:41:59Thank you, Jay.
00:42:03Now, let's meet Sirchie No. 2.
00:42:05Reveal.
00:42:09What's up, Madland people?
00:42:11My name is Victor.
00:42:1331 years old.
00:42:15Fitness trainer from Las Penas City, Singapore.
00:42:18Victor.
00:42:20Victor.
00:42:22Gym instructor?
00:42:24Yes.
00:42:26Wow.
00:42:28What's your nationality?
00:42:30I'm from Nigeria, West Africa.
00:42:32Nigeria.
00:42:34Yes.
00:42:36You speak Tagalog already?
00:42:38What?
00:42:40How many years?
00:42:437 years in the Philippines.
00:42:457 years.
00:42:477 years.
00:42:49Yes.
00:42:51Did you have a Filipino girlfriend already?
00:42:54I had before, but not anymore.
00:42:56Not anymore? You're single now?
00:42:58Yes, I'm single.
00:43:00I want to have abs.
00:43:03What exercise do I have to do?
00:43:06I have to watch what you eat because it's very important to watch...
00:43:11Watch what you eat?
00:43:13Watch.
00:43:15To take care of your meal plan and also your food diet plan.
00:43:20And also some workout programs like that for abs workout.
00:43:24Oh.
00:43:26That's how I know people who are on a diet.
00:43:28They're on a diet.
00:43:30What did the gym instructor say?
00:43:32Watch what you eat.
00:43:34So they're not eating, they're watching.
00:43:36Watch what you eat.
00:43:38You're so skinny.
00:43:40Yes, I'm skinny.
00:43:42But I can't lift heavy weights.
00:43:45They're weak.
00:43:47Okay. Victor, do you have a pick-up line for Charmaine?
00:43:50Yes. Charmaine, do you have a map?
00:43:53Why?
00:43:55Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.
00:43:57Wow.
00:43:59Good job.
00:44:01Lost in your eyes.
00:44:03Thank you, Victor.
00:44:04Thank you, Paul.
00:44:06Searching number 3, reveal.
00:44:10What's up, Madlang people?
00:44:13I'm Gil, 33 years old. I'm the training manager of Quezon City.
00:44:17Hello, Gil.
00:44:19Hi, Bella.
00:44:21What's up?
00:44:23Is your name Nicky?
00:44:25Nicky Hill.
00:44:27His name is Chocolate.
00:44:29Chocolate Hill.
00:44:31Is it Hill or Gil?
00:44:32Actually, Gil.
00:44:34Thank you, Bella, for clarifying.
00:44:36For Gilbert?
00:44:38For Gilagit.
00:44:41Oh, my God.
00:44:43I've been asking for Gil.
00:44:46My dad is Gilbert.
00:44:48My dad wanted me to be a junior.
00:44:50But my mom didn't want me to.
00:44:52So I just got Gil.
00:44:55Okay, I'll give it to you.
00:44:57But it's not complete.
00:44:59But it's hard because you always have to correct the names.
00:45:03Because most of the time, you'll be called Hill.
00:45:05Actually, that's what happened my whole school life.
00:45:07That's why after college, I only used Ken.
00:45:10Look at the name of the kids that you're giving.
00:45:13Because I have a second name, Kenet.
00:45:15So I only use Ken.
00:45:17You don't want to be Ken?
00:45:19I can be Ken, too.
00:45:21Do you want to change?
00:45:23Why not just Net?
00:45:25Who are you?
00:45:27My shoes.
00:45:29I'm your net-net.
00:45:31I'm your net-net, too.
00:45:33What do you do in life, Gil?
00:45:35I work.
00:45:37Congrats, Gil.
00:45:39What's your job?
00:45:41I'm a training manager in a company.
00:45:43Christian told me not to say it.
00:45:45Thank you, Christian.
00:45:47Sorry, it's a technology.
00:45:49Why? Is it a TV pipe?
00:45:50Why? Is it a TV pipe?
00:45:56Why? Is it a TV pipe or a JMA?
00:45:58Our company is a technology startup based in New York.
00:46:02So we help restaurants scale their operations.
00:46:05You don't have to say it.
00:46:08It's a joke.
00:46:10It's a joke.
00:46:12Do you have a pick-up line?
00:46:14Do you have a pick-up line for Charmaine?
00:46:16Charmaine, notice me.
00:46:20Charmaine?
00:46:22Do you have a pick-up line?
00:46:24Why?
00:46:26Let her go home. I'll go with you.
00:46:28I've been saying this for a long time.
00:46:30Do you want to go home to your fans?
00:46:33The world is crazy for Danica.
00:46:36I'm sorry, Danica. We're here for you.
00:46:41What did you say, Danica?
00:46:43Gil wants you to go home.
00:46:45You go first.
00:46:47She'll help him choose.
00:46:48She'll help him choose.
00:46:50She'll drop you off at her sister's.
00:46:55So, Charmaine has already talked to our boys.
00:47:01What's your first song?
00:47:04This is your first song gig.
00:47:06First question.
00:47:08In your opinion, are solo parents weak when it comes to finding new love?
00:47:14Weak?
00:47:18Is it a disadvantage to be a solo parent when it comes to finding love?
00:47:24Does it mean that you have a smaller chance?
00:47:28Jay?
00:47:30Being a solo parent has never been a weakness.
00:47:33Actually, I've heard her story.
00:47:36She's been through a lot.
00:47:38She has two children.
00:47:40Children are a gift from God.
00:47:42So, it has never been a weakness.
00:47:45Thank you, Jay.
00:47:47Jay is so positive.
00:47:49He's even smiling.
00:47:51It's like his mother is praying responsibly.
00:47:56Victor?
00:47:58Yes.
00:48:00The question is, yes.
00:48:02Is it a disadvantage for a single parent to date?
00:48:07Okay. First of all, I believe that there is advantage and disadvantage
00:48:12in everything in this world.
00:48:14But I'm not going to talk about the disadvantage because it's irrelevant, right?
00:48:19For example, there are a lot of guys who are willing to do anything to be with a solo parent
00:48:28as long as the kid or the kids are willing to take him as a father figure.
00:48:33Someone like me, I know that I'm a father figure, right?
00:48:36So, I don't mind.
00:48:38Because kids are a gift from God.
00:48:40Like what my friend said.
00:48:42Aw, thank you, Victor.
00:48:44Thank you very much.
00:48:46Very well said.
00:48:48So, what are your products?
00:48:50He didn't answer.
00:48:52It's worth it.
00:48:54It's better for them to talk.
00:48:56You will convince them.
00:48:58And at the end, they have products.
00:49:00No cash out.
00:49:02Gil?
00:49:04Okay, first of all, I agree with what Victor said.
00:49:07But aside from that, for me, it's not a disadvantage.
00:49:10First of all, it's not a big deal to have a kid.
00:49:15Though it's a big factor.
00:49:17But for me, I want to look at the bright side.
00:49:20It's not a disadvantage.
00:49:22Actually, she has more to offer.
00:49:24Because she already has a kid.
00:49:26It's hard to raise a new baby, right?
00:49:28But she raised him.
00:49:30She worked hard for that.
00:49:32I mean, the man who will love them,
00:49:35he will enter and will continue on
00:49:40who is the best kid for him.
00:49:42And for me, that's it.
00:49:44He's more affluent than the other for me.
00:49:47I think that's why he was asked.
00:49:49Because that's the reason why he didn't work the last time.
00:49:53It would've been okay, but he didn't accept it wholeheartedly.
00:49:58Like, okay, he has a kid.
00:50:00But there's a part of his story that he didn't accept wholeheartedly.
00:50:03That's why he feels like that's the reason.
00:50:08And it's a prank.
00:50:10In society, you can encounter something like that.
00:50:13It would've been okay, but he already has a kid.
00:50:15Right?
00:50:17For example, you introduce him to someone.
00:50:21He already has a kid, right?
00:50:24That's why they feel like it's a disadvantage for them.
00:50:29Because there's an extra.
00:50:31Their title, not everyone will appreciate that title.
00:50:37Being a parent, right?
00:50:39There are people who won't appreciate that title.
00:50:42But for the three of them, no, he's not a disadvantage.
00:50:46He's not a disadvantage.
00:50:48Danica, if you were to push someone, who would it be?
00:50:51One, two, or three?
00:50:57Three.
00:50:58Who do you personally like?
00:50:59Three.
00:51:00Number two.
00:51:01Number three.
00:51:03Number three.
00:51:05Even if you get kicked out, you still want number three?
00:51:08Number three.
00:51:10Danica said, will you accept his question or do you have someone else in your heart?
00:51:16Charmaine, who's the green flag?
00:51:20Number three.
00:51:22Kill, too.
00:51:24Why?
00:51:25Because he wanted to say that it's not a disadvantage to have…
00:51:32Actually, all of them said that.
00:51:34Yes, because that's part of the question.
00:51:36The first one who said that was number one.
00:51:38Then number two pushed him, and then number three confirmed it.
00:51:40No, he said that it's not a disadvantage.
00:51:44But I also said that, why didn't I choose?
00:51:47You didn't say it.
00:51:49You didn't say it.
00:51:51He doesn't like Granny Goose.
00:51:53He doesn't like Granny Goose.
00:51:55That's Gil with the green flag.
00:51:57Charmaine, next question, please.
00:51:59Will you call your relationship serious if you don't plan to get married?
00:52:06Will you call your relationship serious if you don't plan to get married?
00:52:12Gil, let's start with number three.
00:52:14Would you consider a relationship serious if you're not talking about marriage?
00:52:19Is Gil speaking in English?
00:52:21I thought…
00:52:22Gil, I'm sorry, Victor is speaking in English.
00:52:25He's with the speedboat.
00:52:29I thought Victor is with the speedboat.
00:52:32You can call him here, he knows something.
00:52:35I don't know if I'm with him.
00:52:37We're with the boat.
00:52:39He's also a jet lagger.
00:52:41Maybe he used a banana boat.
00:52:43Yes, we really flew.
00:52:45Victor is looking at me.
00:52:47Victor is looking at you.
00:52:49Yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:52:51Hey, not for me.
00:52:53It's for Charmaine.
00:52:55But actually, it's okay.
00:52:57Victor is also looking at me.
00:52:59Why?
00:53:01He said, why do Filipinos look like that?
00:53:04Filipinos look like that.
00:53:06Yes, Gil?
00:53:08Actually, it's okay. I can answer in English if you prefer that.
00:53:10Oh!
00:53:12Back to you.
00:53:14That's why I'm not telling you where you work.
00:53:16You're arrogant.
00:53:18Just kidding.
00:53:20Go, Gil.
00:53:22You can answer in which way you like.
00:53:24English, Tagalog, whatever.
00:53:26Yes, Tagalog.
00:53:28First of all, for me, it's not related.
00:53:30Being serious is not related to marriage.
00:53:33Yes.
00:53:35First of all, it's not related to each other.
00:53:37I think they're independent.
00:53:39I'm not saying that it's against me or for wedding.
00:53:42For me, it's not…
00:53:44It's not related to each other.
00:53:46You can be serious when you get married.
00:53:48But you can't be serious when you get married.
00:53:50But my own personal take on that is,
00:53:52for me, I prefer to get married.
00:53:55Because it's not…
00:53:59It's not the same thing that will make your relationship stronger.
00:54:02But the public testament,
00:54:04the celebration with all the people you love,
00:54:06plus the legal implications,
00:54:08that you're the one who has the right,
00:54:10if whatever happens, blah, blah, blah.
00:54:12Yes, but my question is,
00:54:14is it okay to be serious even if you're not getting married?
00:54:16You're saying it's okay.
00:54:18For example, if a woman doesn't want to get married,
00:54:23is it okay?
00:54:25I'm serious, but I'm not getting married.
00:54:27So, for Gil, it's okay.
00:54:29It's possible.
00:54:31For Jay…
00:54:33I believe that everyone…
00:54:35English, too.
00:54:37You're so cute.
00:54:39I believe that all relationships should be directed to marriage.
00:54:43But I believe that what's important is,
00:54:45God is in the center of the relationship,
00:54:48and there's a love and respect in that relationship.
00:54:52And yes, I'm okay even if I'm not getting married.
00:54:57Thank you, Jay.
00:54:59Is it possible for you to have a serious relationship
00:55:02even if you're not getting married?
00:55:04Yes, it's possible.
00:55:06Possible, okay.
00:55:08Please take charge.
00:55:10What was the question again? I forgot.
00:55:12Would you call a relationship serious if you're not married yet?
00:55:17Or if there's no consideration of marriage?
00:55:21For me, yes, because relationship is a process, right?
00:55:25We have to take the process.
00:55:27We have to get to know each other.
00:55:29We have to get to know our families.
00:55:31We have to know what we like and what we don't like.
00:55:34And for us to do that, we have to be serious.
00:55:37So, before we can get to the stage of talking about marriage,
00:55:39you have to be serious to know about each other.
00:55:44He should be serious before getting to that point.
00:55:47Yeah.
00:55:49Thank you so much, Victor.
00:55:51What's happening?
00:55:53Why? What's that?
00:55:55His nose is bleeding.
00:55:57Victor laughed.
00:55:59You're fine. It's okay. It's normal.
00:56:03Me too.
00:56:05I have an offer with Victor.
00:56:06It's a good thing we have a very intelligent friend here.
00:56:09She translates everything to us.
00:56:11Because our English is like our cell phone.
00:56:15Sometimes, it's low bat.
00:56:17Sometimes, no signal.
00:56:19But we got your point. Thank you very much, Victor.
00:56:23Thank you for speaking Tagalog.
00:56:25Charmaine!
00:56:27You have a green flag.
00:56:32This time, I'll give it to number one.
00:56:34I'll give it to Jay.
00:56:36With respect.
00:56:38As long as we have respect for each other and love each other.
00:56:41Even if there's no marriage, it's okay.
00:56:44And marriage is not for everyone.
00:56:47Right?
00:56:49There are people who say,
00:56:51marriage is not for me.
00:56:53But he's very serious with people.
00:56:55And he loves people a lot.
00:56:57So, we have Jay and Gil.
00:56:59Do you have a last question, Charmaine?
00:57:01Despite our experiences in love,
00:57:04whether it's sweet or bitter,
00:57:06why do we still choose to love?
00:57:09Let's start with number two, Victor.
00:57:11What's the question?
00:57:13Despite our experiences in love,
00:57:15whether it's sweet or bitter, why do we still choose to love?
00:57:17Okay.
00:57:19Victor, just say yeah.
00:57:21If you feel alright.
00:57:23The question is,
00:57:25despite everything you guys have went through,
00:57:27like good things and bad things in life,
00:57:30why do you think people still choose to fall in love?
00:57:33Okay, because first of all,
00:57:35love is a beautiful thing, right?
00:57:37Love is sweet.
00:57:39So, we have to fall in love again.
00:57:41Even if our previous one didn't work out properly,
00:57:43we still have to give ourselves to someone.
00:57:45Someone that we can share our feelings with.
00:57:47Someone that we share our own feelings with.
00:57:49Because at the end of the day,
00:57:51it's our partner that we are going to like,
00:57:53to tell everything about us.
00:57:55Not someone beside.
00:57:57Because they were just listing,
00:57:59but they're not going to provide solutions.
00:58:00There's no solution for us.
00:58:04What did he say?
00:58:06Love is sweet.
00:58:08He really said that.
00:58:10That's true.
00:58:12Why do you want to fall in love?
00:58:14Because it's so sweet.
00:58:16And he said that you need a partner in life.
00:58:18Thank you, Victor.
00:58:20For Gil,
00:58:22after all the stops and starts,
00:58:24we'll be coming back to these two hearts.
00:58:26That's a good song.
00:58:27We'll be coming back to love,
00:58:29no matter what we've been through.
00:58:32Actually, while I agree that love is sweet,
00:58:35I think love also comes with some sort of bitterness.
00:58:39Because for me,
00:58:41love is not complete if it's all about happiness.
00:58:43You can't say that you truly love someone
00:58:45if you don't fight,
00:58:47you don't fight.
00:58:49That's when you realize that,
00:58:51you become stronger because of that.
00:58:53And there, he said it's okay.
00:58:54That's why you want to repeat the experience.
00:58:58For me, life is not just about the happy moments,
00:59:01it's not just about the sweet moments,
00:59:03but how we face problems
00:59:07that comes with falling in love.
00:59:09You want to go back to the problems.
00:59:12No, it's really a part of it.
00:59:14Naturally, it's a part of that.
00:59:16So regardless if you've been through a happy or bitter experience,
00:59:19it won't be a factor why you don't want to go back.
00:59:21Unless you've been through a traumatic experience in love.
00:59:24But the sweetness and bitterness,
00:59:26I think it's really a part of love.
00:59:28So it's not going to be a reason for you to stop loving.
00:59:31Unless there's a life-changing traumatic experience that you encountered.
00:59:35Okay, thank you very much.
00:59:37Thank you, Gil.
00:59:39Jay.
00:59:41Because it's nice and fun to love.
00:59:43It's nice to have someone who always reminds you to smile
00:59:47and adds inspiration to your life.
00:59:48That's it.
00:59:50And love is kind and love is patient.
00:59:56He said it's nice to love.
00:59:58Love is kind and patient, says Jay.
01:00:00Yeah, kindness.
01:00:03Sometimes we forget that in a relationship.
01:00:06Kindness.
01:00:08Respect.
01:00:11Thank you very much for your answers.
01:00:14Charmaine, who will you give your green flag to?
01:00:19Number 3.
01:00:21To Gil!
01:00:23To number 3!
01:00:26Charmaine, these are the people you didn't choose,
01:00:30so introduce yourself.
01:00:32Searching number 1.
01:00:38Hi, Charmaine.
01:00:40Always love yourself and always seek God
01:00:44and God will do everything for you.
01:00:46God bless you.
01:00:50Thank you, Jay.
01:00:52Here's another search you didn't choose.
01:00:54Introduce yourself, Victor.
01:01:00Hi, Charmaine.
01:01:02Do you want a handshake?
01:01:04Okay.
01:01:06So, thank you so much for the opportunity you gave me to get to know you
01:01:09and I want to say that you're a beautiful person.
01:01:11You are so gorgeous and I hope you will find love.
01:01:16Thank you so much.
01:01:20Thank you very much, Victor.
01:01:22Charmaine, your sister has something to say to you.
01:01:25But not you, sister.
01:01:27Just kidding.
01:01:29Yes, Danica.
01:01:31What is your message to Charmaine?
01:01:33We love you so much.
01:01:35I want you to be happy.
01:01:37Just support us.
01:01:44Charmaine, do you have something to say to Charmaine?
01:01:47Thank you and I love you so much.
01:01:49I will do everything for you.
01:01:51Thank you for the support.
01:01:55I hope you will always remember that, Charmaine.
01:01:57What Danica and I told you is very simple.
01:02:00We love you and your family so much.
01:02:03So, please don't consider giving up
01:02:06because you are still winning in life.
01:02:10And a lot of people are loving you.
01:02:13Danica, do you have a message to Gil?
01:02:23Hello.
01:02:25Ma, please take care of my sister and especially my nieces.
01:02:32Gil raised his hand and said,
01:02:33Gil, what am I? A caregiver?
01:02:35He said that.
01:02:37So, does he have a mother?
01:02:39So, you will take care of your children.
01:02:41Gil, please sit next to Charmaine.
01:02:48Charmaine, meet Gil.
01:02:50Gil.