Durr E Shehwar Last Episode
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00:26Sometimes I feel guilty.
00:31Why do you feel guilty?
00:38You were happy in your house.
00:41Why did you come here?
00:45I feel sorry for you that you left him.
00:48He left me and went away.
00:50I don't care about him now.
00:52My son is also with me.
00:54When daughters get married, they are sent to their in-laws.
00:58And you and your wife didn't explain anything.
01:01Daughters should give all the advice.
01:04Mothers-in-law should also understand something.
01:06What do you mean?
01:08You also considered my daughter as a servant.
01:11You made her do household chores.
01:13Why? Didn't you make your daughter-in-law do household chores?
01:16You made her sit on your hand.
01:18I didn't ask her to come to our house with a proposal.
01:21She always tells me not to bring a bride from a small house.
01:25Our house looks so small.
01:28Why didn't you bring a bride from a small house?
01:30My daughter is not a burden on me.
01:33And she is not helpless like me.
01:36She has no one to support her.
01:39And she has to stay in her in-laws' house.
01:42She will go if we respect her.
01:45Otherwise, it's okay.
01:47She can stay in her in-laws' house.
01:49What about Mahnoor's proposal?
01:51We learned a lot from your proposal.
01:53This time, we didn't just see the boy.
01:55This time, we saw the whole family.
01:58We were completely satisfied.
02:00I will be very happy if you go there.
02:03Mom, do you remember?
02:05Durrish Shahwar was also upset with this house once.
02:08And you told me not to go there to pacify him.
02:13If you go there once, you will have to go again and again to pacify him.
02:16Why are you comparing your sister with your wife?
02:19It's not about comparison, mom.
02:21It's about principles.
02:23I thought Kaisar's promises were right.
02:26After all, his parents live with him.
02:29It is his wife's duty to take care of him.
02:31My daughter is not a servant who starts serving her in-laws as soon as she leaves.
02:35Still, she is Kaisar's wife.
02:37And it is her duty to do the household chores.
02:40After all, I have left all my household chores to my wife.
02:45Why are you giving examples of your wife again and again?
02:48Because Durrish Shahwar left a big house and came to a small house.
02:50She had servants and everything there.
02:54If a girl from a big family can come to a small house and take care of everything,
02:58then can't a girl from a small house go to a big house and take care of everything?
03:01It's been two years since you got married.
03:03And I have heard that you get a house in two or three months in the army.
03:06If there is no problem.
03:08Mansoor also got a house after a month or two.
03:11Initially, she didn't want to go to Shehwar, so she didn't go.
03:15Then later the child was born and the responsibilities increased.
03:17Now if Mansoor's posting is somewhere else, then he will take Shehwar along.
03:20I wanted to talk to all of you about something important.
03:23Yes, tell me.
03:25I have got a posting in Karachi.
03:27And...
03:29And I have also got a house.
03:34I want Mateen and Shehwar to live with me now.
03:38As you wish.
03:42The house will be empty.
03:44Then it will be completely empty.
03:49Without Shehwar and Mateen.
03:55Dad, I think I have passed this test with distinction.
04:00I didn't let you down.
04:03And you were right.
04:05Time changes.
04:07And time changes.
04:14No.
04:18Why didn't you tell me all this earlier?
04:21What could I have told you, dear?
04:25When you regained consciousness, all this was over.
04:30The wounds were not healed, but...
04:34They had started to heal.
04:38What could I have told you?
04:40Still...
04:44You should have told me.
04:49What could I have told you, dear?
04:53Your dad...
04:55He is a very good father.
04:59He loves you a lot, dear.
05:04And you...
05:06You gave your life for him.
05:09How could I have poisoned you against him?
05:17And for me, your behavior...
05:26He had become very good till then.
05:30Whatever he was.
05:34In my eyes...
05:35In my eyes...
05:37Dad's respect is gone forever.
05:39What are you saying?
05:43That's why I didn't tell you anything.
05:45Because I didn't want to hear this.
05:47He did very wrong with you, mom.
05:51He let a lot of bad things happen.
05:56He has been so unfair to you.
06:00Yes, dear.
06:03What could he have done?
06:06He was helpless.
06:09He was a man of this society.
06:13How could he have changed this society?
06:16You need a lot of courage to change this society, dear.
06:23And your father didn't have that courage.
06:27Because your father was a...
06:31A common man.
06:32A common man.
06:33But I always kept him on a very high pedestal.
06:37He was always ideal for me.
06:40Ideal man.
06:42Ideal husband.
06:46Ideal father.
06:48But dear, what is ideal?
06:53Nothing is ideal.
06:56An illusion, an illusion.
06:59The dignity of our mind.
07:02Ideal is nothing.
07:05The reality is what we see with our eyes.
07:11We humans do a lot of injustice to ourselves.
07:17That we make ideals in our minds.
07:27You've been through hell, huh?
07:29Yes.
07:33I've been through hell.
07:41But when I was going through that hell,
07:47I didn't look back.
07:52Maybe that's why I didn't see that hell in my eyes.
08:03Anyway, whatever happened to me,
08:08it made me very strong.
08:12It taught me to compromise.
08:15It taught me to be patient.
08:17Whatever I am today,
08:21is because of that experience.
08:26If I wasn't like this,
08:28then I would have been a human being,
08:31touching the sky.
08:38Nana was such a great man.
08:42Yes, dear.
08:47He was a great man.
08:53And he was a greater father than him.
08:56My best friend.
08:59But I never realized
09:06how he was like a husband.
09:12How he was with my mother in the beginning.
09:18Because I never saw that face.
09:21That's why I never realized
09:25how he was with my mother.
09:29Did he ever
09:32hurt my mother?
09:35I'm totally speechless.
09:40I don't understand anything, mom.
09:42What should I say to you?
09:44Don't say anything, dear.
09:47Don't say anything.
09:50I just want you to live your life with Haider.
09:58Spend your life with Shahbaz and Mansoor in your mind.
10:04But don't just spend it.
10:07Live it.
10:09Live it to the fullest.
10:12Like an ordinary girl.
10:17Like a good girl.
10:28I love you, mom.
10:58Assalamwalekum.
11:00Walekumassalam. Come, dear.
11:03How are you?
11:05I'm fine. Thank you, dad.
11:12What's the matter, dear? What are you looking at?
11:18I was recognizing something.
11:20And I recognized it.
11:28Your aunt left early in the morning, dear.
11:33Without meeting me.
11:35That's what I told your dad that he should have stopped her.
11:39Why should I have stopped her?
11:41Shandana doesn't want to go with her.
11:45I don't want to force my daughter.
11:50Dad, I'm going back tomorrow.
11:53What?
11:55When?
11:56Where?
11:57Tomorrow.
11:58Lahore.
12:00Did Haider call you?
12:02No.
12:04Then?
12:06This is my home, mom and dad.
12:07I can't leave it.
12:09Whatever Haider did to you, even after that?
12:13Yes, dad. Even after that.
12:16I can't leave him.
12:19Nor can I leave my home.
12:23I'm mom's daughter.
12:26I can't leave him.
12:52I will not teach this lesson to my daughter.
12:56Never.
13:04But how did this thought come to me all of a sudden?
13:13I woke up.
13:16I woke up all of a sudden.
13:27I woke up all of a sudden.
13:40Is the packing done?
13:41Not yet, mom. We've just started.
13:44Sophie's things are scattered all over the house.
13:47I'm picking them up from here and there.
13:49I think she'll leave her things everywhere after she leaves.
13:52It's okay. I'll deliver the things when I get them.
13:56What is this, mom?
13:58This...
14:06This...
14:09is for you.
14:12I've brought it for you.
14:16But what is this?
14:19This has your grandpa's letters.
14:23I felt that...
14:25I should give this letter to you now.
14:28For a long time,
14:30he has been with me in my painful moments.
14:35Maybe this...
14:38this will give you courage and strength.
14:51Mom...
14:55I don't understand one thing.
14:57What is it, dear?
14:59After enduring so much,
15:01after going through so much,
15:03did you fall in love with dad?
15:09Was it easy to live with him after so much hurt and humiliation?
15:15What do you think?
15:19Do you think I've fallen in love with him or...
15:22I couldn't fall in love with him?
15:24I think you do love dad.
15:27But I don't understand that after enduring so much,
15:32how can someone fall in love with such a person again?
15:37I want to know that...
15:40is this possible?
15:42Is this possible? If it is possible, then how is it possible?
15:45All that hurt...
15:47all that pain...
15:48all that pain...
15:50For a very long time, dear, I...
15:54I kept pretending to love your dad.
15:58I kept pretending.
16:00A woman is a good pretender.
16:05But I used to think that how can I...
16:09how can I remove the pain that I have inside me?
16:14For a long time,
16:15for a long time,
16:17I thought that my relationship with your dad was just a formality
16:22that I had to live up to.
16:27But then slowly,
16:31everything started changing.
16:36A husband and wife relationship is a very strange relationship, dear.
16:40A very strange relationship.
16:42In this relationship, there are not just two people, dear.
16:47There are also children.
16:50And the person
16:52who loves your children immensely,
16:58you can never hate that person.
17:02When your husband
17:05falls in love with your child,
17:07it feels as if
17:09he is in love with you.
17:13As a husband,
17:16all the wounds he has inflicted on you,
17:20as a father,
17:22slowly, slowly,
17:24he heals them.
17:26You are talking nonsense, mummy.
17:29Yes, you are finding this strange.
17:33But slowly, slowly,
17:34you will also start understanding.
17:38Right now, you are feeling very bad about Haider,
17:40because he
17:42doesn't pay attention to you.
17:45But dear, when he
17:47after some time,
17:49after 4-6 months,
17:52he will start paying a lot of attention to you,
17:56he will start loving you again.
17:59A husband and wife relationship is a very strange relationship.
18:02God has tied this relationship
18:05with a very strange thread.
18:09Maybe you are right.
18:12Maybe at that time,
18:16this is what happened.
18:19But mummy, right now,
18:22I don't think it is possible for me to bow down in front of Haider.
18:26I don't think it is possible for me to bow down in front of Haider.
18:29I don't think it is possible for me to bow down in front of Haider.
18:33Right now,
18:35lowering one's ego
18:37is like dying for me.
18:40This is why, dear,
18:44there are distances in these relationships.
18:48Because two people don't want to bow down.
18:57A man can never bow down.
19:00And if a man doesn't bow down, dear,
19:05then a woman should bow down.
19:09Because
19:11by bowing down,
19:13not only the house,
19:15but also the lives are saved.
19:18And
19:20the unhappiness for ever and ever
19:25goes very far.
19:26All the doors get closed, dear.
19:33That means,
19:35right now,
19:38I will have to pretend to love Haider.
19:44No, dear.
19:47You will have to pretend for a while.
19:51And I am sure you are a great pretender.
19:54And I am sure you are a great pretender.
19:59And dear,
20:04it is in bowing down that there is peace.
20:10And this is what all of us are looking for.
20:16Yes.
20:23Yes.
20:39Mansoor.
20:43I didn't understand this sudden change in Shandana.
20:47She was not ready to patch up with Haider for so many days.
20:50And now she has decided to leave all of a sudden.
20:53If she had to go, she would have gone with Fazila.
20:56But why alone?
20:59It is a good decision.
21:01She has shown a lot of wisdom.
21:05I don't know if she has shown wisdom or foolishness.
21:11But let me tell you this much, Haider is not going to change.
21:16How do you know?
21:18I know.
21:20She has changed.
21:22She has changed.
21:24Have you ever seen such a stubborn and changed person in your life?
21:30Yes, I have seen.
21:32What have I seen?
21:34Change.
21:38What do you mean?
21:39Who are you talking about?
21:42I am talking about Shandana's father.
21:51You said something to Shandana.
21:54For example, what?
21:56You told her something.
21:58Is there anything to tell?
22:01I found her behavior strange today.
22:04What happened to her behavior?
22:07Her behavior is fine.
22:10But she has changed.
22:12She has changed.
22:14She has changed.
22:16She has changed.
22:17Her behavior is fine.
22:25Mansoor.
22:28She loves you a lot.
22:31She is still your daughter.
22:34Your father's only daughter.
22:39Did you tell her anything?
22:42That's what I am asking you.
22:45About what?
22:46You know what I am asking about.
22:51I didn't tell her anything.
22:58I didn't tell her anything about you.
23:02But I told her everything about myself.
23:08I told her that it is not right to make a woman's house and live in it.
23:16Because a man doesn't know how to do this.
23:20I told her everything because
23:23I don't want your daughter
23:27to go through the same pain
23:31as Sami Uddin's daughter.
23:36She can't bear Sami Uddin.
23:42You are Mansoor.
23:43You are Mansoor.
23:45You can't bear it.
23:53I had a legacy to give her.
23:57I had a legacy to give her.
24:02I didn't have any secret.
24:03Don't tell me.
24:07You know how much I love you.
24:14You are the most beautiful father of my life.
24:21My life is incomplete without you.
24:28I know you have gone through a very difficult journey with me.
24:36But you have not made companionship difficult for me.
24:39But you have not made companionship difficult for me.
24:45As a man,
24:51I value this value.
24:59I have apologized to you many times.
25:04I am sorry.
25:09What I couldn't tell you was that
25:14I always regretted my behavior with you.
25:20I regret it.
25:23What happened?
25:28These 3-4 years that were the most beautiful years of your life,
25:33were the most beautiful years of my life.
25:36If they had been wasted by you,
25:39I would have never left.
25:43If time didn't come back for one person,
25:46it wouldn't have happened for the other.
25:53Come on.
25:56Forget the tears.
26:01Forgive me.
26:07Mansoor,
26:12I have known all this for a long time.
26:17I have forgotten all those pains,
26:19sorrows,
26:20moments.
26:23I have forgotten.
26:26I have not even made chains of those painful moments.
26:30I have not even made chains of those painful moments.
26:33If I had made chains of them and worn them,
26:38I wouldn't have been with you today.
26:42And neither would I have been with your Mansoor.
26:47A good wife,
26:48a good mother,
26:51a beautiful woman.
26:56I have forgiven you so many times.
27:01Between you and me,
27:05forgiveness was never there.
27:08Still, I feel ashamed when I see you sitting alone,
27:14reading your father's letters.
27:21In that box,
27:25I know what is in that box.
27:28You have read all my father's letters?
27:33It has been a long time, my child.
27:38To increase the burden of the heart,
27:40those letters are also a big help.
27:48You are right, father.
27:53I cannot be a good father for my daughter.
27:58I am Mansoor.
28:04I have given all this
28:08to Shandana.
28:13So that she can keep it safely.
28:18So that whenever life gets stuck in her feet,
28:23she doesn't feel the pain.
28:28And even if there is pain,
28:32she has the courage to bear it.
28:58Come on, get up.
29:00It is very late.
29:02Come and sleep.
29:05Your friends will come early in the morning
29:07and make noise
29:09to take you on a walk.
29:12And you know how impatient they are even today.
29:18In two people,
29:19everyone has a share.
29:27You were very patient.
29:31What did I do by keeping myself?
29:57Shandana
30:00Mansoor
30:27Shandana
30:57Shandana
31:12Grandfather was so right.
31:15He had so much faith in father.
31:17Just like you have faith in Haider.
31:20Thank you, mummy.
31:22Grandfather's letter will make my marriage and life easier.
31:25Just like he did for you.
31:28Everything will be fine, mummy.
31:31Haider, his attitude, my problems.
31:56How are you, dear?
31:58How is Haider?
31:59He is fine, mummy.
32:01Mummy
32:05I have read grandfather's letters.
32:08Really?
32:09You have read all of them?
32:11Not just once, I have read them many times.
32:14Haider has also read them.
32:16He was very moved.
32:18He will call you for a day or two, mummy.
32:21Yes, yes, why not, dear?
32:23Mummy
32:25Grandfather was so right.
32:27He had so much faith in father.
32:30Just like you have faith in Haider.
32:32Yes, dear.
32:34He was very positive.
32:36He was very confident.
32:39Thank you, mummy.
32:42Grandfather's letter will make my marriage and life easier.
32:46Just like he did for you.
32:49Everything will be fine, mummy.
32:52Haider, his attitude, my problems.
32:55Yes, dear.
32:57Everything will be fine.
32:59Just wait and watch.
33:01Haider will start handling his responsibilities.
33:04Just like your father.
33:06He is a good boy, dear.
33:08He is very decent.
33:11Mummy, I am leaving.
33:13Haider is calling.
33:15I love you.
33:21Haider
33:23Haider
33:25Haider
33:27Haider
33:29Haider
33:31Haider
33:33Haider
33:35Haider
33:51Haider
33:53Haider
33:55Haider
33:57Haider
33:59Haider
34:02If he had not encouraged me,
34:07my house would have been broken long back.
34:14I left that business only after holding his finger.
34:16He always used to say
34:19that time will change.
34:22Needs will change.
34:27If he had not convinced me,
34:30if he had not encouraged me,
34:32I would have been broken long back.
34:36But this is the only sorrow
34:38that he kept eating all his life.
34:41That he didn't give you anything.
34:43He kept eating all his life
34:45that why did he make the wrong decision about you.
34:49You should not have got married to Mansoor.
34:58Dad used to say all this?
35:01Yes, dear.
35:03He was very ashamed of you.
35:06He was very arrogant.
35:08He used to say that my daughter
35:09can get a better son than Mansoor
35:12and a very respectable in-laws.
35:23He was so far sighted.
35:28He never said anything like this to me.
35:40Some lies are necessary to make Sehra
35:44from the desert of life to Nakhlistan.
35:49Dad had shown me a mirage
35:52and while running after this mirage,
35:55I reached Nakhlistan.
36:03Now my daughter will reach there.
36:06Now my daughter will reach there.
36:10After marriage,
36:12the burden that the wife carries
36:15in her husband's hands
36:17is very light.
36:21On the other hand,
36:23the burden of the in-laws
36:25is very heavy.
36:29And it remains heavy for many years.
36:32Then slowly,
36:34with patience, sacrifice and endurance,
36:37the burden of the wife becomes heavy.
36:39It starts to bend.
36:41First, it comes close to the burden of the in-laws.
36:45Then it becomes heavy.
36:48Then it always remains heavy.
36:51It is not attached to the environment.
36:54It remains attached to the ground.
36:58But the balance changes.
37:02And this work
37:04is done only by the patience of the woman.
37:08It takes time.
37:10It is not a sacrifice.
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