Kisah adik Umar yang menjaga atuknya yang sakit, mencuri perhatian netizen baru baru ini. Tapi apa yang lebih mencuri tumpuan adalah kisah Salinah yang dibesarkan oleh ibu bapa angkatnya selama lebih 20 tahun. Jom kita check out kisah penuh mereka!
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00:00It's not easy for you to take care of someone who's sick.
00:03It's actually very difficult.
00:05For me, either you get punished or you get rewarded for taking care of someone who's sick.
00:17Hello everyone, welcome back to another episode of Motif Trending.
00:21Joining me today in the studio, we have Salina, Umar and Pakcik Ahmad.
00:27Welcome to GMW!
00:30You're viral on TikTok because you shared with the audience that you're an adopted child.
00:50And about your bonding with your family and everything.
00:53Maybe tell the audience a bit about your background.
00:56What is your background a little bit?
00:58Actually, I'm an adopted child raised by a Muslim family.
01:03My parents are Chinese.
01:08And they separated when I was 4 years old.
01:11So, since I was little until I grew up, I was raised by my foster parents.
01:16And my foster parents are my grandparents.
01:20So, they raised me until I became an adult.
01:23Since 4 years old?
01:24Yes, that's right.
01:25Since 4 years old.
01:26Since I was a baby actually.
01:28Since I was 4 years old, my father registered me as an adopted child.
01:31Okay, okay.
01:40Okay, interesting.
01:41And then, because you shared that you knew you were an adopted child when you were 3 years old.
01:46Yes, that's right.
01:47At that time.
01:48So, how did you know? Did you ask them or...
01:51No.
01:52While you were cleaning the house, you suddenly found a letter.
01:54Eh, what's this? Why is it written adopted here?
01:57Oh, no.
01:58Actually, at that time, we were still in school.
02:00When we were little, the teacher asked us to bring our birth certificate.
02:02That's right.
02:03Okay, and then suddenly I brought my birth certificate.
02:05So, my friend also had a birth certificate.
02:07But the birth certificate was curved.
02:09The birth certificate was like the one that people usually use.
02:12Suddenly, my birth certificate was curved.
02:14Oh.
02:15And it was written as an adopted child.
02:16At that time, I was good at reading.
02:18But I didn't understand what it meant.
02:21So, I asked my teacher.
02:23And my teacher, Mr. Masazli Mazin, was a math teacher.
02:27He was a math teacher.
02:28And then I asked him,
02:29Mr. Masazli, why do I have a birth certificate like this?
02:31Mr. Masazli, I told him that he was a math teacher.
02:33So, he was really not good at reading.
02:34He only knew the numbers.
02:36He said, you have to go back and ask your father.
02:39I think he didn't know how to answer.
02:41Yes, that's right.
02:41He was also afraid to say something wrong.
02:42He was afraid to explain.
02:43Yes, that's right.
02:44So, when I went back, I asked my father.
02:46I asked my father why my birth certificate was curved.
02:50So, my father said that I was an adopted child.
02:52So, the first question I asked was,
02:55I said, why is my father's name Abdullah
02:58and my father's name is Ahmad?
03:00So, my father's answer at that time was Paklah.
03:05So, the name Paklah stands for Abdullah Ahmad Badawi.
03:08So, Abdullah Ahmad Badawi.
03:10So, that's how my father's name was.
03:13That's funny.
03:25The story you told me
03:31I will remember
03:34So, Pakcik, can I call you Atok?
03:38Sure.
03:38So, Atok, how did you feel at that time
03:43when you took Salinah as your adopted child?
03:45I had taken care of her for a long time.
03:49So, she had her love.
03:52So, I agreed with my wife
03:55to take her as my adopted child.
03:58Was that a difficult decision for you
04:02because taking your child as your adopted child
04:04is not an easy thing
04:06because there must be responsibilities, right?
04:08Yes.
04:09But I have been taking care of my adopted child for a long time.
04:13But most of the time, it didn't work out.
04:15She took it back.
04:17After that, we couldn't throw things away.
04:20It didn't work out.
04:21So, we asked God to make it happen.
04:25By God's will, it happened.
04:30So, I grew up with my wife.
04:35Salinah, do you know your real family before?
04:39Yes.
04:40Your biological family.
04:41Do you still talk to them?
04:44I still keep in touch with them.
04:46Even if it's Chinese New Year, I will still come back
04:50because I still have my grandchild.
04:52We still keep in touch.
04:53I never lost contact with them.
04:54My father never broke up my love with my biological family.
04:57We still keep in touch.
05:00But you don't feel like you're far away
05:04because you have a new family.
05:07You don't have a wife.
05:08No, I don't have a wife.
05:10How did you learn to take care of your grandchild?
05:19Actually, we've seen videos of you taking care of your grandchild.
05:25We want to ask you how you learned to take care of your grandchild.
05:30I took my grandchild's water.
05:32You took your grandchild's water.
05:33What else did you do besides taking your grandchild's water?
05:36I cooked and took my grandchild's food.
05:39Then, I gave it to my grandchild.
05:41So, you accompanied your grandchild to eat.
05:43When my grandchild finished eating, I put the plate in the sink.
05:49Then?
05:50Then, I washed my grandchild's plate.
05:54Did you wash it?
05:56Both of us washed it.
05:58You washed it together?
05:59Yes.
05:59Okay.
06:00Do you know what your grandchild's name is?
06:02Or do you just call him grandchild?
06:04Ahmad bin Muhammad Tahir.
06:06Oh, he knows.
06:08Do you love your grandchild?
06:10I love him.
06:10How much do you love him?
06:12One hundred.
06:13Just one hundred?
06:14One hundred million.
06:16One million?
06:17One million.
06:18Do you love your grandchild one million?
06:20One hundred one million fifty.
06:23He added another fifty.
06:26Okay, we accept it.
06:29Can you tell us about your foster family?
06:32Grandfather and also your late mother?
06:35Yes.
06:35Your late mother, Aruah.
06:37I was raised by my parents.
06:40I call my parents angels without wings.
06:43My father was a special person.
06:47He was a water-mixer.
06:50My mother ran a small stall.
06:53My mother was a cook.
06:55So, I witnessed how difficult it was for my parents to raise me.
07:01My mother was a businessman.
07:02My father was a water-mixer.
07:04I witnessed how my late mother
07:07used her savings to buy my school supplies.
07:10My mother used her savings to buy my school supplies.
07:15So, you can't look for someone like that on this earth.
07:19Only this person can do it.
07:21So, for twenty years,
07:23my late mother took care of me for twenty years.
07:25No one knew that I was an adopted child.
07:27Everyone knew that I was just a pregnant woman.
07:30So, she hid her goodness for twenty years.
07:33My mother and father.
07:34That's very beautiful.
07:35It's very beautiful what you and your late wife did.
07:41It's really nice because
07:42for me, what's interesting about Salina's story
07:46is that it's really inspiring.
07:50It's really inspiring that we want and everything, right?
07:53Maybe you can share between the moments
07:56that are the most touching
07:58that you remember during the time she took care of Salina.
08:02The most touching moment
08:06was on 16th February, 2016.
08:11At that time, my father and I were having breakfast.
08:14Suddenly, my mother was intubated in a hospital in Melaka.
08:18So, the doctor suddenly called.
08:20Actually, that night, my mother should have gone to the ward.
08:24She should have gone to the usual ward.
08:25Because my mother just went to the admitted ward
08:27because she had a stomach ache.
08:29So, when I got home, it was around midnight.
08:31I went home and told my father.
08:32I said, tomorrow, my mother can go to the usual ward.
08:35So, my father said, okay.
08:37Tomorrow, we'll go by car.
08:39We wanted to see my mother
08:40because my mother was intubated for seven days.
08:43Suddenly, at 8am,
08:45the hospital called me and said
08:46that my mother was 100% fully dependent on the machine.
08:50So, the doctor wanted to remove the intubation
08:54and the doctor said that it was possible for her to recover.
08:57But we all knew about it.
09:00Before my mother was intubated,
09:02my mother told me,
09:05if you want to be a human,
09:07let others do what they want to you.
09:09Don't do it to others.
09:11Don't take revenge on others.
09:12Whatever bad things they do to you,
09:14just let it go.
09:15Why? Because they won't hurt you.
09:17Just be calm.
09:18And then, the last word she said to me was,
09:21in this world and in the hereafter,
09:23even if she's gone, I'll still be her son.
09:27She'll still be my mother.
09:30And she'll allow everything that she gives to me.
09:33That's my mother.
09:35Actually, she knew that she wanted to leave.
09:38Did you have any suspicions at that time?
09:40Or were you still full of hope that she would recover?
09:44Yes, I was full of hope.
09:47I said that I wanted to get rid of my bad suspicions.
09:50But actually, she already knew.
09:53She already knew.
09:54But she died in my arms.
09:5730 minutes after I took her away.
10:00And she looked at me.
10:02My father was next to me.
10:04What was it?
10:05Sorry if this is too sensitive,
10:07but what were your thoughts or feelings at that time?
10:1316th February?
10:1416th February, 2017.
10:16I felt very sad.
10:19Because I had to take responsibility for everything.
10:24Back then, my wife and I were separated.
10:27I had to take responsibility for everything.
10:29I had to take care of her until she got married.
10:32I got her married.
10:33I thought that I wouldn't be able to get her married.
10:37But God's power came to me.
10:39So, my wife couldn't see me.
10:42But I was able to see my grandchildren.
10:45I thought that I wouldn't be able to see my grandchildren.
10:49But she passed away first.
10:51I thought that I would be the one who passed away first.
10:55So, that's what I felt.
10:57I was so lucky.
10:58God gave me a long life.
11:00I was able to see my grandchildren.
11:02And I got her married.
11:04Now, I'm just sick of taking care of her.
11:07God is rich.
11:15Salina, your parents took care of you when you were young.
11:24Your parents took care of you when you were young.
11:26Salina, now you have the responsibility to take care of your dad.
11:33What made you want to share your story on social media?
11:38Actually, it's very difficult to live as an adopted child.
11:43No matter where you go, people will ask you,
11:48do you still take care of your dad?
11:49Where is your dad?
11:51What does your dad do?
11:53Where did you leave your dad?
11:55It's the same question.
11:57No matter where you go, people will ask you,
11:59do you still take care of your dad?
12:00Are you going to throw your dad away?
12:03So, it's simple.
12:05I want people to know that
12:08people are my life.
12:10No matter where I go, I will always be with my dad.
12:13For some people, they may think that I'm an adopted child.
12:16When can I throw my dad away?
12:18He's grown up and has a family.
12:20But people don't understand that I was raised by an angel.
12:23And I can't possibly leave my life.
12:26So, why do you keep sharing?
12:28Because people will keep asking you,
12:30where is your dad?
12:31Do you take care of your dad?
12:32Who is your dad with?
12:34So, that's the reality of living as an adopted child.
12:37I understand.
12:38So, because of those questions, you decided...
12:40Why don't I make a video to explain?
12:43So, you know where my dad is.
12:45He's with me and I'm still taking care of my dad.
12:48And you know my dad's condition.
12:50Do you remember any videos that went viral?
12:54The first video was when I ate with my dad.
13:11That morning, we were supposed to go to the hospital for a check-up.
13:15I was preparing my dad.
13:17That's the video where I gave him the milk.
13:20How did you react when you saw the comments in the video?
13:25I cried.
13:26Because most people keep wishing you the best.
13:30They pray for you a lot.
13:33It's sad when you read the comments.
13:36It's wonderful.
13:37Okay.
13:38Umar.
13:39Hi, Umar.
13:40Are you ready to talk?
13:42You're ready, right?
13:44Umar, did you look at your phone?
13:46No, I didn't.
13:47Yes, you did.
13:48Which phone did you look at?
13:49My grandpa's phone.
13:50Your grandpa's phone?
13:51Oh, not your mom's phone?
13:53Your mom didn't give it to you?
13:54My mom didn't give it to me.
13:56My dad's phone too.
13:58Umar, did you look at the phone
14:00that a lot of people are using?
14:04A lot of people know you.
14:08You're famous on TikTok.
14:10No.
14:11You don't know?
14:13You didn't show it to him?
14:15He doesn't know.
14:16He doesn't know?
14:17Okay, I understand.
14:19What's your favourite subject at school?
14:23What do you like to study?
14:25Mathematics.
14:26Mathematics?
14:28What's 1 plus 1?
14:292.
14:302 plus 2?
14:314.
14:324 plus 4?
14:3410.
14:3510?
14:374 plus 4?
14:39How many?
14:418.
14:428 plus 8?
14:47I don't know how to do it.
14:48You don't know how to do it?
14:50Okay, cute.
15:05How is Umar's daily life?
15:12He wakes up in the morning.
15:14Then, he goes to school.
15:16When he comes home, he...
15:18I'm his stepfather.
15:19He calls me father.
15:21Then, he goes to school.
15:23Then, he takes my handphone.
15:27He takes care of me.
15:30Sometimes, we watch him on CCTV.
15:34Most importantly, he plays on my bed.
15:36Okay.
15:37So, Umar spends a lot of time with you.
15:40Selena, I want to ask.
15:41Does Umar take care of you automatically?
15:48When did you realise that Umar started taking care of you?
15:52It started 2 years ago.
15:55When my father was diagnosed with a stroke.
15:57Okay.
15:58At that time, he helped me a lot.
16:00I told him that I wanted to go to work.
16:03I asked him to take care of me.
16:05He called me.
16:06Since then, he started taking care of me.
16:11Okay.
16:12How are you now?
16:15Are you okay?
16:16I'm okay.
16:17How is your health?
16:18Actually, my health...
16:21It's better now.
16:22It started on the 8th of August.
16:24When I was diagnosed with a stroke.
16:27The first two months were very critical.
16:30My father was hospitalized twice.
16:34At that time, it was difficult for me to talk to him.
16:41He kept asking me why I was in the hospital.
16:44He kept asking me why I didn't come home.
16:46He kept asking me why I was in the hospital.
16:49He wanted to know the details.
16:51I understand.
16:52He kept asking me why I couldn't come home.
16:54He had a lot of questions.
16:57I understand.
16:58That's good.
16:59At least, he wanted to know.
17:02He wanted to learn.
17:04Umar.
17:05I have a question for you.
17:07You're very active, right?
17:10Okay.
17:11As Ibu said, you're celebrating Chinese New Year.
17:18You're also celebrating Eid.
17:20Are you happy that you got to celebrate Eid twice?
17:25Are you happy?
17:26What do you like the most about Chinese New Year?
17:29I got money to buy toys.
17:31You got toys?
17:33You got toys at Chinese New Year?
17:35I bought toys.
17:37What do you usually do at Chinese New Year?
17:41I always scold you.
17:43I'm scared.
17:45Why do you always scold me?
17:47Because you like to steal lemons.
17:49Steal lemons?
17:51Where did you get it?
17:52From my grandmother's room.
17:54I have a few more questions.
17:55What are your hopes for the videos that Umar and Atuk have shared on social media?
18:05What are your hopes for the videos that you've shared?
18:10I hope that more people will do good deeds...
18:15...and take care of Ibu and Ayah.
18:18It's not easy to take care of the sick.
18:22It's very difficult.
18:24For me, it's a sin or a reward to take care of the sick.
18:30But for me, as long as you take care of your mother and father...
18:34...nothing is impossible in your life.
18:36You don't have to think about your struggles.
18:40You just follow the flow.
18:42I can't live without my father.
18:44So, I have to take care of my father.
18:46I grew up with my father.
18:48Even when I go to school, I'll still call him father.
18:54He means everything to me and my mother.
18:57As a child, you feel that there are things that are more important...
19:03...than your mother and father.
19:05Think about it.
19:07You'll get everything when you take care of your mother and father.
19:12Do you have anything to say to your grandchildren...
19:17...who have been taking care of you?
19:20I hope that they can take care of me...
19:23...as long as I'm alive.
19:25I hope that they can take care of me...
19:30...as long as I'm alive.
19:33That's my hope.
19:35If I'm not around, they can take care of me.
19:41That's my hope.
19:45Did you hear that, Umar?
19:47Are you thinking about his car?
19:52You're so naughty.
19:54This is the last one.
19:56I want to thank you, Salina.
19:58Thank you, Umar.
19:59Thank you, Atok.
20:01For joining us on Gempak Most Wanted...
20:03...and sharing your family background.
20:07I think it's beautiful and interesting.
20:11If you want to watch the full video...
20:13...you can watch it on gempak.com...
20:15...and Gempak Most Wanted.
20:17Umar is going home. Say bye to everyone.
20:19Bye.